Jyadatar ladko ki soch ye hoti hai, ki ladki ne agar thoda galti se bhi dekh liya to wo ye maan lete hai ki bas ab to ladki fas hi gayi. Par aisa sirf ladke sochte hai, Jaruri nahi hai ki iska matlab yehi ho ya wo aapko pasand karti ho, ya uska aap me koi interest hai. Aaj ke time me koi aisa nahi sochta ki ladkiyo ko kaise ladke pasand ate hai. Bas har ladka chahta hai ki uski zindagi me ek Khoobsurat-Samajdar ladki ka sath ho, jo uski care kare or usme interest rakhe, or har choti badi baat ka dhyaan rakhe. Or wo sabhi baatein share kare jo ek relationship ki bonding ko or jada strong karti hai. Par aisi ladki milna aaj time me aise ho gya hai, jaise ki ek sarkari naukri milna. Ladke ladkiyo ko to aasani se pansand to kar lete hai, par kya Ladke jante hai ki ladkiyo ko kya pasand hai? 

Ladkiyon Ko Kaise Boyfriend Pasand Aate Hai

Agar aap kisi ladki ko pasand karte hai, jisko dekh ke aapka dil kahe ki yehi hai jiski mujhe janmo se talaash thi. Par ye sapne dekhne se pahle hume ye bhi sochna chahiye, Ki kya ladki ko aap jaise ladke pasand hai ya nahi? Agar nahi to fir ladkiyon ko kaise ladke pasand hai. Isiliye aaj hum aapke liye isi topic par kuch maani, parkhi gayi baatein lekar aye hai. Jo aapko clear kar degi ki agar aapko koi ladki dekhti hai to kya wo aapko pasand karti hai ya nahi.Ladkiyo Ko Kaise Ladke Pasand Aate Hai

Sincere/ loyalty

Ladkiyo ko aksar wo ladke pasand ate hai, jo mann ke or dil ke saaf hote hai. Apni Personality me thodi sincerity rakhe isse jarur ladki ka aap me interest badhega. Agar aapke friend circle me ladkiya bhi hai, to Idhar ki baatein udhar bilkul na kare. Isse ladki par aapka negative impact padega.

Full Confidence 

Jab bhi aap kisi ladki se baat kare, to hamesha positive attitude rakhe chehre pe gussa ya ghamand bilkul na ane de. Baat karte time idhar udhar na dekhe eye contact jarur bnaye. Isse ladkiya jarur impress or attract hoti hai.

Talking Sense

Koi bi ladki jyada gussa nahi pasand karti. Jab kabhi bhi aap ladki se baat kare, to dhimi aawaz me baat kare or chehre pe halki smile bnaye rakhe or gusse ko avoid kare. Ladki par comment mat maro, aksar aisa hota hai ki school, college ya coaching me, ladke har aati jati ladki par faltu ke commnts marte hai, or fir ladke kabhi notice nahi karte ki wo ladki na to unse kabhi dhang se baat karti hai or unhe dekh kar ignore kar deti hai. To friendship karna to bahut durr ki baat hai. Isliye aap is cheez ko bilkul na kare, aisa karne se aapki us ladki ke samne image bhi down hogi or koi bhi ladki aap me interest nahi legi.

Over Smart Na Bane

Sirf sundar chehre se aap ladki ko impress nahi kar sakte. Aapke bolne or chalne(chal chalan) ka style bhi bahut jyada matter karta hai. Isliye is baat ko dhyaan me rakhe ki, jyada style ya action dikhane se ladkiya attract nahi hoti. To is cheez ko aap avoid kare. Baat karte waqt badi-badi gaape na mare, ki aap wo jante ho, wo kar sakte ho, ye kar sakte ho etc. Ladkiyo ko ye baat bahut irritating or boring lagti hai.

Good Looking

Jyadatar logo ko aapne badi-badi baatein karte suna hoga, ki bahri sundarta dekhne se acha, insaan ko andar se khoobsurat hona chahiye. Fir hum shuruwat kyun ek khoobsurat ladki ko dekh ke karte hai ya jo ladki attractive hai uski taraf bhage chale jate hai. Usi tarah ladkiyon ko bhi sincere ke sath thoda modern or good looking type ke ladke pasand ate hai.

Caring

Caring hona bahut jaruri hai, ladkiyon ko yehi quality sabse jada attract karti hai. Or yehi sabse badi quality hai jo har ladki ek ladke me dekhna chahti hai. Unko dhyaan se sune or bolne ka mauka de fir chahe ladki aapki sirf friend ho ya girlfriend respect har ladki ko dena jaruri hai. Kya pata kab unhi me se koi ladki aapki girlfriend ya wife ban jaye.

To friends, umeed hai ki main aapki is topic se related sari problem solve kar paya hun. Lekin fir bhi agar aapke mann me koi bhi sawal hai topic ke bare me ya aapki koi or problem hai, Ya kuch kehna chahte hai to jarur apne vichaar/ suggestions niche comment me likh kar hamare sath share kare. Hume aapki help karne me bahut khushi hogi.

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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    1. Hahahaha…. kuch bhi ho sakta hai… Pata lagane ke liye baat karo usse.. pucho ki Aap mujhe dekh ke kyu hasti ho? vaise aap hasti ho to mujhe bhut acha lagta hai..

    1. Tip yhi hai ki aisa bhut se logon ke saath hota hai aur iska ek hi ilaaj hai – Aap ye acchi tarah samajh lo ki Confidence ke bina is mamle me kuch nhi bant auar ek ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karti jisme baat karne ki bhi himmat na ho.

  1. mujhe ek larki bhut pasand h…normal h…..dikhne m
    usne haa kardi bina natak kre
    par vo bat nhi karti.apni dosto ke samne attude dikhate h
    mud mud kar bhi dekhti h….par
    abb rukti nhi h

    kya kru

    1. Ab apni akal daudao aur samajh jaao ki vo bacchi hai, kyu faltu me uske piche apna time barbad karne me lage huye ho.

  2. Mai ek ladki se pyar karta hu, wo mujhe bahut pyar karti h , PR aj mujhe bina bataye frnd k ghar shadi me chali gyi h. Mujhe thoda dukh hua ki wo mujhe is bare me btayi q niii…. Ab mai. Kya. Kru..

    1. Vivek search this on Google – “ladki pyar karti hai ya nahi kaise jane” then open the first result, you’ll get ur answer.

  3. hiiii am sagar mari ek prob hai mai ladki ko bahut love karta hu kya karu jisse wo impress ho jaye wo sabki ki help karti hai pta n is dil ki help karegi ya nahi aap batao kya karu uska name shivani ?

  4. hiiii am sagar mari ek prob hai mai ladki ko bahut love karta hu kya karu jisse wo impress ho jaye wo sabki ki help karti hai pta n is dil ki help karegi ya nahi aap batao uska name shivani hai ??

  5. madam aap mere coments ka kabhie jawab nahi dete ho yaar
    ek ladki hai jo mujhe raat raat bhar baat karti hai last 2 week se par kehti hai hum best frndz hai mujhe use ptaar ho gaya hai agar 5 6 gantte baat na to neend aati
    par usse porpose nahi kar pa raha sochta hun ki bo bura na maan jaie aur friendship bhi khatam ho jai na to bo hint deti hai pehle bhi 1 love msg pr boruth gai thi badi mushkil se manaya

  6. Ma’am mai baaten to khub karta hu lekin jab mai kisi ladki se baat karta hoo to kuch samajh mme nahi aata ki baat kya karu oor kya baat karu mai ladkio ki respect bhii karta lekin baat karte wakt mujhe kuch samajh me nahi aaata.

    1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

  7. MaM ME EK merid women ko dekhta rehta hu kafi Time se or es baat ka pata ose hai. OR VO KAFI SAREEF HAI. MUJHE ACCHI LAGTI HAI. ME AGEE KYA KARU.

    1. Agar aapko pata hai ki wo bahut sharif hai to please dont waste your time or koi or ladki dhundh lo apne liye.

  8. Hi shivshi g
    me nd my gf both love each other… we want to merry… bt her parents aren’t agree …. nd da only reason is tht my salry is low…. tell me what to do.. ??
    nd one more thing we consider ourselves as husband nd wife… bt whn we start talking after 5 or 10 min we can’t Hv any topic to talk….

    1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya person baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. or sath hi dear ye 21th century ab cast ko bich me lane ka t koi matlab hi banta. I think I’ve made my point.
      Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

  9. Ek ladki mujhe pyar krti hai or me use jaan se chata hu lekin us ki mom us ki shadi khi or kr rhi hai vo apni mom ko mere bare me nhi bta pa rhi hai lekin me chata hu ki me us ki mom se baat kru lekin me phle kuch bnna chata hu fir us se shadi krna chata hu me aage kya kru mujhe pta mhi chal rha hai me use kisi pr ke sath jate huve nhi dekh skta hu kya kru me

  10. Hlw,mam mujhe tusion me ake ladki mili bo mujse ek class choti hai per usne mujse chemistry me help magi ab bo roj mere ghar per ati hai ab muje ye nahi pta ke bo mujse pyar karti hai ya nahi ladkin bo mujhe apna fri manti hai aur her bat share karti hai please help me.Thanks

  11. mam mere school me ek ldki thi jise m bht like krta tha , pr hesitation and school ke atmosphere ki wjh se m us se apni feelings share nhi kr pa rha tha . Jb school ka 12 th ka last paper tha tb maine decide kiya ki use face to face apni bat kh dunga , pr us din meri usse bat nhi ho payi. To maine uski friend ko letter diya aur use dene ke liye kaha. pr bad me usne btaya ki usne reject kr diya h , to fir maine confirm krne ke liye uske no. pe call lgaya to usne bhi whi kha. facebook pe use kafi baar request bheja sorry sorry wale msgs bhi kiye ,pr usne accept nhi kiya, yese 3 saal nikal gaye. fir 3 saal baad college me jb the , to facebook pe usne add kiya , aur maine use thank you kha add krne ke liye . fir hmari thodi thodi der ke liye 3 months tk normal bate hoti thi. fir maine us se pucha ki usne reject kyu kiya tha to usne kha ki “i am happy with my family.” mai uski and uske decision ki bht respect krta hu , isliye maine usse koi argument nhi ki , pr mnn nhi manta tha , to use fb pe propose kiya , wo dusre state me thi , degree kr rhi thi to mil nhi skta tha , pr usne kaha ki she dont like all these thing , asl me wo mujhse apni bate khul ke nhi btati aur yese bat krti ki formality kr rhi ho. second tim jb use fb pe apni dil ki bat btayi to usne block kr diya . uske friend ke zariye uski bat pta krta hu to wo bhi gussa krti hai , ap hi meri mdd kijiye , mam.

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

        1. Main to kisi ko nahi keh rhi pyar, bas jo is me pade huye hai unki help karne ki kosish kar rhi hu.

  12. meri first year me ek ldki se baat hui tji jo meri classmate thi, numbers bhi exchange hue the , pr glti se maine kuch yese words bol diye jo use hurt hue, fir usne pure college ke 4 years mujhse bat nhi ki , maine use sorry bhi bola pr , wo baat nhi krti , ab college khtm hue 2 years ho chuke hain , pr wo ab bhi baat nhi kr rhi, mai kya kru ?

    1. DEar ek baar jab ladki kisi ko apne dil se utaar deti hai fir chahe wo ladka kuchbhi karle wo wpais uske dil me wo jgah nahi bna sakta.

  13. hi mra naam amit hai mera year 28 hai mera koi girlfrnd nai hai me jisko v love karta hu vo larki dekhti v nai hai 3 sal see usko chahta hu offer v kiya tha par koi v reply nai diya so plz samadhan bataye,,,

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

    1. Kya pata use aap me interest hi na ho isliye shayad wo aisa kar rahi ho ya uska koi pahle se hi koi boy friend hoga

  14. Mera bhi kuch aisa hi hai mai bhi ek ladki ko bohat pyar krta hu or use apna bnane k liye m kuch bhi krne k liye tyar hu i mean jaisa wo chahti h wo meri traf kbhi kbhi dekhti to h bt i dnt knw wo like krti hai ya nhi wo itni sweet h ki mai bta bhi nhi skta use pehli baar dekha tha bs us tym hi soch liya tha ki bss is ldki k sath hi maine puri zindgi btani h so tell me mai use kis tareeke se purpose kru ki wo humesha k liye meri ho jaye

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

          1. time leke hi propose kyu, agar feelings hai to turant bhi to kah skte hain ,kyuki hmara yah sochna hai ki , time lete lete koi other ldka propose kr dega to …? aur agar girls ko boy ko smjhe ka tym chaiye to wo ye clearly bta bhi to skti hai ki mai tumhe kuch din tk observe krungi fir reply dungi , turant mna krke feelings ko hurt krne me kon si smjhdari hai

  15. Mera bhi kuch aisa hi hai mai bhi ek ladki ko bohat pyar krta hu or use apna bnane k liye m kuch bhi krne k liye tyar hu i mean jaisa wo chahti h wo meri traf kbhi kbhi dekhti to h bt i dnt knw wo like krti hai ya nhi wo itni sweet h ki mai bta bhi nhi skta use pehli baar dekha tha bs us tym hi soch liya tha ki bss is ldki k sath hi maine puri zindgi btani h so tell me mai use kis tareeke se purpose kru ki wo humesha k liye meri ho jaye so tell me my ans

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  16. yr meri ek bachpan ki frnd h m usse 10th m mila tha…tb mne usko dekha mujhe usse love ho gya tha…..mne uska no le liya tha…or mne usse phone par bt ki …or m usse sms bejta tha…..par vo kheti thi ki mujhe distrub na vrna m papa ko khe dugi….or ab meri usse fb pr bt hoti h ….par meri yeh samaj m ni aata m usse apne dil ki bt kaise khu….mujhe dr lgta h vo apne papa ko na bta de………..plz ans me………plz

  17. hlo
    m a teacher n mujhe ak student bhut pasand h .i think o bhi mujhe pasand krti h but kai bar lgta h ki koi uska hir bf na ho .to mai ye kaise jan paunga ki o mujhe like krti h ta nhi ya uska koi bf h

  18. Mai jise pyar karta hu o bhi mere se karti thi lekin kuch time ke bad o kisi aur se karne lagi fir bhi mai usi se pyar karta hu .o jis ladke se pyar karti thi o ladka use chhod diya mai use jab puchh kya aap mere jindgi me wapis a sakte ho to us ne kaha ni kyu ki o meri saja hai jo aap se dhokha kiya to mai aisa kya karu jis se o mere jindgi me wapis a jaye aur ek bat mai us se kahi dur a gaya hu to coll se us se kabhi kabhi bat karta hu plz plz plz

    1. Mere hisab se aapko uske sath dubara relation me nahi jana chahiye kyunki wo shayad is kabil nahi hai or uska koi bharosa nahi ki wo aapko dubara cheat karde. Isliye jitna ho sake usse durr rahe

  19. mujhe ek ladhki bhut pasend h jab main uske samne aata hu to wo deakh kar muskurati h or kabhi nahi dekhti h sier neche karke chali jati h mujhe der h ager maine usse baat ki to vo mana na karde

  20. meri bf mujhe kavi v tym nhi deta m jab phn karti hu kavi kavi rcv karta hai wo mujhe 3 months relationship m sirf 5 bar phn kiya or m hi use phn karti hu kavi tym nhi deta hai or m jab v bulati hu tym nikal ke ata hai meri bat v thoda bahat sunta hai bt tym nhi deta dina m 5 mins v nhi deta phn pe bat karne ke liye m kya samjhu sacha pyar hai tym pass wala pyar hai …..mujhe lagta hai k sach hai pher v ……plzz hlm m

  21. ek ladke Jo mere aaney parr apni baalon ko khol kar banti hai hamesa. ek sum sat kar bat karti hai .kahti hai tum an kaha jaoge. us me umar 28 me hai mera17 small 4 mahina

    1. Abhi biwi bani bhi nhi hai aur itna naraj hai to baad me kya hoga, usse is baare me khul kar baat karo…. Is baat ko ignore mat karna galti se bhi, usse har tarah se baat karke ye final kar lo ki koi aur baat to nhi hai.

  22. shivshi mera bf bhot short temprd h uska gussa aisa h ki jb vo gusse me ata mujhe b disrespect se bat krta..
    plz suggest

    1. Use bolo ya gussa chor de ya main tujhe chor dungi.. 😛

      Are jab uska mood acha ho to usse pyar se baat karo is baare me, use bolo ki mujhe ye cheez bilkul bhi pasand nhi hai aur mujhe tension hoti hai aur bhut bura lagta hai. Agar samajhta hai to theek varna… u know 😉

  23. Dear Shivshi,
    Me ek ladki ko like karta hu(name share nahi karna sahta)..but vo muje like karti he ya nahi vo muje pata nahi he, vo mere class ki hi ladki he..me aapko mere thode kisse sunata hu isse aapko pata chale.jub hum dono college me class attend karne jate he to kai bar aamne samne aate he or vo muje dekhti he, ekbar college ki exam me him dono me 30 sec tak hum dono ek dusre ko dekhte rahe..ab me aapse kahta hu ki kya vo ladki muje like karti hogi..me to use bahut like karata hu..or vo ladki ek rich family ki he or me ek village ka poor ladka hu.kya vo muje pasand karti hogi…or agar pasand karti he to usse bat kese karu.vo to koi ladko se bat hi nahi karti..or mene bhi koi ladki se baat nahi ki to me uske sath kese bat karu..or ek bat me bahut patla ladka hu or vo mujse thodi si moti he or vo height me mujse cum se…please reply my question
    Thank you