Hello frndz……. Main Paras, aapse share karne ke liye leke aaya hun ek bhut hi majedaar but serious topic jiska naam hai… “Ladkiyon ko kaise ladke jyada pasand aate hai“. I know doston ab aap jaroor janna chahoge ki ladkiyo ko kaise ladke pasand aate hai. Ab dosto mujhse behatar aapko kon bta sakta hai ladkiyon ki pasand. Qki main khud ladkiyo ke sath rahta hun, unke sath time spend karta hun. I know very well… Main aapko is topic ke kuch tips (read : Love Tips) btaunga jisko padhke aur apnakar apko definitely help milegi.

Ladkiyon ko kaise ladke pasand aate hai

Ladkiyon ko Kaise Ladke Lubhate Hai

Aaram se Baat Karne Waale Ladke

Ek survey se ye pta chala ki 70% ladkiyon ko mostly shaant swabhav ke ladke pasand aate hai, jo aaram se bolte hai, Jinka kaha hua aasani se samajh aata hai. But doston itna shant bhi nahi ki ladki hi bor hone lag jaye. Or dosto baate utni karni chahiye jitne ki jaroorat ho qki kya pta apka shant behaviour kisi ladki ko bhaa jaye. Shant ranhne ke sath sath ho sake to ladko ko apni language bhi saaf rakhni chahiye. Mostly ladko ki aadat hoti hai baat karte karte muh se abuse word nikal jaate hai. Iss baat ka dhayan jaroor rakhna dosto. Ladkiyo ko specially jyada bolne waale or batuni ladke jo har baat pe fekte rehte hai, pasand nhi aate hai.

Respect Karne Waale Ladke

You know dosto, Respect doge to Respect milegi. Or ladkiyon ko Respect dena bahut jaroori hai. Jo ladka ladkiyo ko hi kya har ek insaan ko Respect dega usse to ladkiya automatically hi pasand karegi. Or dosto Respect ka ye matlab nahi ki jab ladki samne ho to Respect deni hai. Kya pta kon ladki aapko kaha se notice kar rahi ho, isliye Respectful behaviour hona bhut jruri hai. Ye cheez Zindagi ke liye bhut ahem hai, isse aapki zindagi khusiyon bhari rhti hai.

Well Dressed And Well Behaviour Waale Ladke

Dosto aaj kal to kapde or joote se hi insaan ki pehchaan hoti hai. Or mostly ladkia bhi ladko se baat karne ke liye kapde etc. to jaroor dekhti hai or usi hisaab se insaan ko judge bhi karti hai. Ab junglee ladke to ladkio ko pasand aane se rahe isliye to dress ka acha hona bhi jaroori hai. But yaad rhe doston sirf dress acchi hone se kuch ni hota. behaviour bhi theek hona bahut jaroori hota hai. Aap kaise rahte ho, kaise chalte ho, kaise khaate ho…. everything theek bhi to hona chahiye na.

Khush Mizaaz Waale Ladke

Khush rahne vaale ladke or khush rakhne vale ladke…. dono hi ladkio ko bahut pasand aate hai. Suppose agar ladki sad ho ya upset ho or samne se aap apne smile face ke sath aa rahe ho to kya pta apka face dekh ladki apni sadness bhul jaye… kyu dosto aisa bhi to ho skta hai na. Or kya pta apka chehra dekh kin kin ke chehre khil jaye. Isliye hamesha haste rahne vale face ladkio ko jayada lubhate hai.

Intelligent Ladke but Selfish Nahi

Specially ladkio ko intelligent ladke khub pasand aate hai, but kuch ladke is chakar me selfish ya aap ye bhi keh sakte ho ghamandi ho jate hai. Iss liye ladkiyan chaah kar bhi unke aas paas nahi bhatkti hai. Isliye dosto ladkio ki pasand banne ke liye intelligent hona theek hai but selfish ya ghamandi hona nhi. Main yahan aapke saath apna real life experience share kar raha hun.

So, dosto maine aapke saath 5 bhut majedaar aur effective tips share kiye hai. Jo ki aap ke bahut kaam aane vaale hai. Agar apko mere ye tips “ladkiyo ko kaise ladke pasand hai” padhne me maja aaya aur agr aapko lga ki haan ye sach me kaam ke tips hai to iss kahani ko Like & Share jaroor kare.

Ek dil ko choo lene wali love story : Na Vo Bewafa Na Hum Bewafa Fir Bhi Mili Umar Bhar Ki Judai

So, doston selfishness ko dur rakh ke ladkio ki pasand bane. Agar aap intelligent honge to kya pta ladkiyan study ka bahana kar ke apke paas anaa chahe. Actually kya hai ki, Kehne ko to kuch bhi ho skta hai. Doston aap apna experience aur in tips ke baare me apna opinion jaroor btaiye. Saath agr aapke paas bhi koi tip ho to Welcome hai Ji.. 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Hello mam ….mam me ek larkii ko bahut like krta hu bo meri he class m h bca 2nd year mam ek saal s ush larkii ko dekhta aa rha hu bo bhe mujhe dekhti h but ush s bat karne k himmat nhi hoti h

  2. Hii my name is Faisal Zaidi…mere sath bhi ek bahut adbhut problem hai….ki mai jis ladki se pyar karta hu vo bhi mujhse karti hai….but vo mere sath sex karne mai satisfied nahi hui aur ab vo mere se zyada baat nahi karti mai kya Karoo shivani….plz tell me….

    1. Jis rishte me aap khush nahi hai aur aapko kyi cheezon se shikayate hai aur aapko pata hai ki vo shikayatein dur nhi hone waali to aise rishte ko pyar nahi kaha jaa sakta.

  3. Shivshi Ji muje FB per ek ldki pesand aaii ha jisse muje milna ha bs hmari fb per hi bat Hui ha vase to hm romantic bat bhi ker late ha but muje usse milna ha muje usse really love hhogya ha per voJaipur rhti he ab me kya keru plz tall me

  4. r Shivshi….
    mera nam anwar khan hai.aur mai ek ladki se bhut pyar krta tha aur wo v mjhe bhut chahti thi.pr uski ab sadi ho chuki hai ..
    par ab wo meri fb frnd hai usse hamri ab bhut chat hoti hai..aur mjhe dar h k khi mjhe phir se pyar na ho jye..help me mai kya kru

    1. Aisa sabke saath hota hai, aapko kuch bhi baat karni hoti hai jaise aaj kya kiya, kha gaye, kya funny hua etc etc… Yhi sab faltu baate hoti hai aur kya.

  5. Hiiii.Me jise pyaar kartaa hu me us ladki ke home ke saamne Jaataa hu.To Aaj Uski Friend kaa Message aaya ki tum uske home ke saamne chakaar lagaane mut jaavo Muje usne kaha he tumhe bataane keliye.To kya Vo Muje pasand nahi karti?Please reply soon I am Waiting

  6. hai shivshi…..
    main hydrabad se houn aur meri bahut badi problem yeh hai ke. Main jis ladki ko dil se chahta houn ab uski marrige hai kisi aur ke sath main kabhi kabhi observe bhi karta tha ke wo mujhe notice kar rahi hai. laiken main apne dil ke bath use nahi kahpaya houn. main chahta houn ke main uski marrige ko roukwa sakon kiya mera aisa karna therk hai pls help me

    1. Dear ab kya fayeda jab karne ka time tha tab to aap kuch kar na sake or ab bekar bekar baatein soch rahe ho.

  7. hey i am akhil sharma meri bhi ek problem hai plz help me problem ka naam hai shivshi jo ki har kisi ki help karti hai pta nhi meri karegi ya nhi pro ye hai ke i love her but but but…….???

    1. Hii.Me Ek ladki ko 2 Monuths Se Pyaar kartaa ho but Vo Mere Friend ke saamne And Uski Babhi ke Saamne Smile Mere Saamne smile nahi karti.To Me kya karu.And vo meri classmate he.

  8. kya yha koi meri help kar sakta hai yaar bus meri ek hi problem hai ke mere face par kafi pimples hai or meri samjh nhi ata ke liye ladki ko kese bolu ke main usse like kartA hu……….
    yaar main apse pucchta hu ke agar koi ladka jiske face pe pimples hai wo apko friendshif ke liye bolta hai tu apka kya ans. hoga………..?
    plz tell me

    1. Use apni Dil ki sabhi baat khul kar bata do, agar use aapme interest hoga to vo is baare me jarur sochegi aur agar aisa nhi hoga to vo Naa keh degi, aisa koi tarika nhi hai jisse ki us ladki se haan karwaya ja sake, jo aapko chahti hi nhi ya aapke baare me is tarah se nhi sochti. So just go and try 🙂

    2. Hello SHIVSHI mam
      Mera class Mai 1 girl hai Mai use like Karta hoo ham dono friends hai likin ham dono Mai thodi bahut baat hi hoti hai Mai use apne dil Ki baat batana chatha hoo par mera face ka rang thoda thik nahi hai aur us girl Mai thoda atitude hai to mam please tell me what I do ?

  9. ek ldki h jo hmse bht pyar krti thi usne mujhe prpose v kiya tha but main usse pyr nai krta tha woh bht royi h mere liye ab mujhe v usse pyr ho gya h itna k us k bina hm rh nai skte or woh av v mujhse pyr krti hai per ek complication agya h usne mujhe bhulane k liye move kiya tha woh us ldke se pyar nai krti h breakup chahti h per woh usko dhamki deta h agr breakup ki toh sucide kr lenge main bht preshan hu kya kru kch smjh nai arha h

    1. Dear jo bolte hai wo kuch nahi karte or karne wale kar dete hai or sabko baad me pata chalta hai ki usne wo kar diya isliye wo ladka suicide nahi karne wala isliye use bole ki darre nhi or jo uska dil chahta hai wohi kare.

  10. Hi am Sagar tiwari meri prob sirf aap hi solve kr sakte ho aap batao mai use kaise impress karu wo sab ki help karti hai pta n meri help kargi ya nahi uska name shivani hai ??

  11. Hiii
    Shivsi my name is saurav, My problem is I love a girl, hum diwali me mile the mere hi office me , vo yaha nayi fresher aayi thi vo pahle kahi or job karthi, hum dono ki khub baate hoti thi but mere office me ek ladka hai jo ki muslman hai or ab vo ladki usse jyada baat karti hai or mujhse nafrat itni ki vo mere ae baat bhi nahi karti
    But I still feels he loves me, mujhe kuch din pahle esa kuch pata chala tha jisse ye proof hota hai she love me
    What I do, whenever I try to talk to her she tell that person muslim boy what I do pleaae help me

    1. Us ladke ne aapke bare me use kuch ulta sidha bol kar badhkaya hai or ab use aap par bharosa nahi hai balki wo ab aap par shak karti hai ki aap uska use karne ke liye usse baat karte ho isliye ab Shak ka koi ilaaj nhi hai, bas ek aur sirf hi cheez ki ja sakti hai ki Baat karke apni shanka dur karo.

  12. Mujje ek larki bhut bhut he jayda pasnd hai lakin na mai uske satt padta hu na WO mere collage me hai.lakin kuch dinn talk ek institute me thee or ab nhi or WO mere hi moholle me rheti. Hai or. Mujje sirf name or ghar patta hai.ab mai kya krou

  13. Hi shivshi mam
    mam me ek ladki se pyar karne lga hu jab mene use pahali bar dekha tb se hi me use like karta hu or me use bahut chahta huu. wo ladki mere ghr ke baju me hi rahti he or hm dono ek dusre ko dekhte bhi he.. roj hamari ek dusre se najar milti he .wo muze dekhti he or me use or kqbhi kabhi to achanak kisi bat ko leker hamari bat bhi ho jati he or wo to mujse bat karne ki kosis bhi karti he.kisi bhi bhane mujse bat kr leti he but me use i love you kese bolu.kese batau ki me tumse pyar karta hu.to please aap hi muje batao..plzzz

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  14. Please bht badi problem me hu life ka sawal h so urgent cl me this no. 9929443249 and suggest me. Please please please

  15. Mene gar walo ne ek ladki dekhi h. Me 1 2 time mil bhi chuka hu… Muje pasand h bhi or nhi bhi. Kuch samaj ni aa rha h… Us ladki ka nature bhi bht accha h and family background bhi achcha h… Uske gr wale and wo sb muje like karte h… Pr mera dil thik se ha ni karta h… So muje kya karna chahiye ha karu ki na??????

    1. Dekho dear agar aapke pass koi better choice hai to fir na kardo or agar aapko lagta hai ki aisi ladki pane ke liye aapko bahut hi jyada mehnat karni padhegi to fir chup chap usi ko han kardo.

  16. Hello freands mere gf hum se bahu khus hai like v karti or bat v but o kahi hai mera koe or hai to may kay karu hum se bur o phone pe bat nahi karti but fase to fase bat kar ti hai phone se bat kar ne ke liye kay kare

  17. my name is harish… yaar me ek ladki se fb p4-5 mahino se baat kar raha hu ab vo mujhe bhot achhi lagti hai mene ushe parpose bhi kiya toh ushne mujhe kaha ki yaar mujhe abhi single rahna hai toh m ab kya kru. plz help me.!!!!!

  18. My name is Harish. Yaar me ik ladki se fb p 4-5 mahino se baat kar raha hu ab vo muhje bhot achhi lagti hai m ushse chahta hu mene ushe parpose bhi kiya lekin ushne kaha ki yaar mujhe single rahna hai toh m kya kru… plzzz help me….

  19. Mam mai ek ladki ko bahut pasand karta hu.but vo mujhse umar me ek saal badi hai yani college me meri senier hai.kya ye sahi hoga ki me use manau

    1. Hahaha… 1 saal hi to badi hai aap aise tension le rahe ho jaise 10 saal badi ho, mast manao… 🙂

  20. Hello mam mere ghar ke pass ek ladki rahti hain main use like karta huin vo bhi mujhe like karti hain ki nahi mujhe nahi malum meri aavaj sunte hi vo meri taraf dekhti hain mujhe dekh ke muskurati hain nagar uske our mere family ke bhich main bat nahi hoti per main use pasand karta huin agar main use propose krunga to vo ha boligi mujhe please reply me

  21. Mam mai ek ladki ko like karta hu lekin vo ladki ghar se apni frnds ke sath hi nikalti h kya mujhe uske frnds ke samne us se baat karni chahiye aur kis topic ko lekar first time baat karu please help me

    1. Are itna sochte nhi hai, bas uske saamne ja kar bolo… `Hi…` vo bolegi `Hi…` bas fir puch lo, aapka no. milega? vo bolegi kyu? Aap bola, bas yun hi aapse baat karni hai. Vo mana kar degi fir kuch din use aate jaate dekhte rho… nain mataka karte rho aur kuch dino bad fir se ja kar bolo, yaar mujhe aap bahut pasand ho… Bas aise hi baat shuru ho jaati hai.. 🙂

  22. hii these is ved mai jis ladki ko chata hu.usee mai pasand nahi hu pr oh muze kafi pasand hey.halaki oh muze love na kare np..bt atleast batte to pahle jaise honi chayi oh bhi nahi hoti..
    usee pane ke liye kya karu..kaise uske dil ke andar chahat jagau…

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  23. Hii mam
    I want to ask u that
    I m in love with a girl
    And i m 23 and she is 18
    Mam, is there any problem that she is 5 year younger than me ?
    Pls reply mam pls

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  24. Hello dear, mai ajj tk 1nhi ,2nhi, km se km 4 ya 5 girlfriend pta suki ho. Par koi lrki jyada din nhi tikti.ab m kya kru.

  25. Hey frnd me ek ladki KO prpose kia ha bhi. Bola PR do din baad Kaha ke meri problem hai ek din hum baat kar rahe the to mene kaha jao kahi log galat na samjhe phir ek hol me se kaha ab hame yaha Se Koi Nahi dekhega propose Kiya PR mana kiya

    1. Shayad dear use aap pasand nahi aye ya aap uske type ke ladke nahi ho. Ya jaisa usne aapke bare me socha tha isiliye usne aapko mna kar diya.

  26. Ek ladki mere sath 12th class m pdti thhi…vo commerce m thhhi m medical m.. Mere ghar k paas rehti h..meri hi bus m jati h..I m 100% sure vo mujhe love krti h… Vo mujhe notice bhi krti h.. Eye contact bhi krti h..km se km 15seconds tak eye contact…per vo mujhe kah nhi pati or m bhi nhi kah pata…koi solution btao dear

    1. Pahli baat to ye dear ki ladkiyan kabhi ladko ko nahi bolti, ladko ko hi khud jana padhta hai or dusri baat ki Agar aap abhi baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala or baad me bahut hi jyada derr ho jayegi or us ladki ko koi or pasand ajayega, or uske baad ladki bhi aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

      1. Hi dear
        mere ghar ke pass ek ladki rahti hain main use like karta huin vo bhi mujhe like karti hain ki nahi mujhe nahi malum meri aavaj sunte hi vo meri taraf dekhti hain mujhe dekh ke muskurati hain nagar uske our mere family ke bhich main bat nahi hoti per main use pasand karta huin agar main use propose krunga to vo ha boligi mujhe please reply me

        1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karti ya interested nahi hai to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  27. m ik ladki ko bahot pyaar krta hu pr m ne ik glti kr di
    usse bahot Jada baat krne lg gaya tha aur usse bor kr diya aur vo irritate ho gai an vo mujhse baat bhi nhi krti m msg krta hu to vo rply bhi nhi krti pleaseeeeee help me ab m kya karu please

    1. Ab thode din wait karo or use na msg bhejo na baat karo, taki use lage ki aap change ho gye ho, or fir uske usse sorry bolo lekin aise bolna jisse use sach me ki u r really sorry.

  28. hello mam
    ek ladki se me behad pyar krta hu mene us ladki ke sath 10 din tk baat ki normaly me usko daily chocalates khilata tha vo meri or dekh kr daily smile krti thi ek baar mene juth muth ka birthday btaya usko or sabse phle usne birthday wish morning me milte he fir baad me mene usko usi din purpose mar diya pr usne samne se dircet mna kr diya but uska behaveis phle jesa he tha fir mene friendship ke baare me baat he nhi ki usse to uske no ka kya mean nikalu shayad usne dar ki wajah se na bol diya hoga ya kyuki ladki ne esa kaam phle kabhi nhi kiya or bahutsharmile type ki bhi h khul ke kabhi baat tk nhi ki usne to kya mean h iska NO MEANS NO YA YES

  29. hello mam
    mere gar ke paas me ek ladki rhti h mene uske sath baate krna start kiya uska mere liye behaver acha tha me jb bhi dikhta smile deti or meri taraf dekhti rhti thi me usko chocoltes bhi khilata tha mtlb sub kuch positive tha to 10 days after mene usko purpose maar diya to usne mna kr diya . uske baad bhi uska behaveir chang nhi hua to iska kya mtlb nikalu usne phle kabhi bf nhi banaya to kya dar ki wajah se usne mna kr diya ya vo krna nhi cahati h to uska dar dur krne ke liye no. du ya kese pta karu ki usne ese he samne mna kr diya

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  30. Mane ek chookari gamti ..ti …e Mara same joi ne smile kare …avi rite chaltu gyu. Pachhi me ek divas …ane m kidhu ke aankhe bandh karo ek chiz dikhata hu…our usne aankhe bandh kari ..mane kiss kar liy …..bas to e naraz chhe …plz help

  31. meri problem ye hai. ki meri gf ko mujh pe trust hi nahi hota. voh hamesha bolti h ki tum mujhe chhod doge kabhi na kabhi,sab ladke aise hi hote hai.
    but mai usse true luv krta hu.

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  32. Hi shivshi
    Mai ek ladki se pyaar karta hun par kuch waqt se misunderstanding ki wajje se humara relation tut gya hai woh mujhse baat bhi nhi karti woh mujhse naraaz hai bhot zyada pichle 1 saal se sry bol raha hun maanti hi nhi plzz give me some ideas plzz. I luv her very much

    1. Dear ladkiyan badi hi jyada snstive hoti hai or jab unhe koi baat hurt kar jati hai to fir wo use kabhi maaf nahi karti

  33. tum ham ko hi bataooo
    ham ek ladki se love kerte hai wo bhi phone se baat kerti hai
    ham to use love kerte hai
    batao kaise pata kere ki wo bhi ham se love kerti hai
    pls bataooo kya kru ye jindgi ka shawal hai wo
    bcom keti lko se ham lko se civil engineering kiye hai ham dono sath me ukg se 12tak ek hi college me pade hai
    jaba. jarur dijiyga

    1. Jab ek ladki saaf saaf mana kar rhi hai aapko fir bhi aap kyu uske peeche pade ho aur usko preshan kar rhe ho saath hi saath apna time kharab kar rhe ho.. Aap kya force karke use apne se pyar karne ke liye majboor karna chahte ho ? Kya aapme koi self respect nhi hai? Vo aapko like nhi karti ye kab samjhoge? Agar ladki ache se baat karti hai ya smile kar deti hai to iska matlab ye nhi ki vo aapse pyar karne lag jayegi. Maan lo ek ladki hai jise aap jante ho but vaise pasand nhi karte aur vo aake aapko bole main tumse pyar karti hu to aap kya karoge. Simple si baat hai use mana karoge. To yhi same cheez vo kar rhi hai. Aap sirf aur sirf apni life barbad kar rhe ho uske chakkar me my friend. Please ye anmol zindgi aise barbad mat karo. Itni mehnat successful banne ke liye karo, apne maa baap ke liye apne bhai behan ke liye mehnat karo, sachi khushi usme hai. Jab aap safal hoge tab khud aapko ladki approach karegi, aapko khi jaana nhi padega. I hope aapko meri baat samajh aayi hogi.

  34. me ek ladki se pyaar karta hu wooh bhi mujhse pyaar karti thee ye releationship kafi dino se chalta rha kal wooh mujhse boli mujhs se door ho jao kabhi baat mt karna wooh aise kyu boli help me ….

  35. He’ll oo mam. I’m Shiva.
    Mery g.f hamara 4sal ka relationship hai or WO aj ki date me mujhse dur jari hai khti hai ab sidhe padhai k bad continue krenge .1’2sal bad .
    Ab mai eshe me kya kru confuse hu..

  36. kabi b na umeed nahi hona chahiye agar aap kisi se pyaar krte ho toh bas ussi se pyaar krtay raho chahaye vo apko vaapas pyaar kre ya na kare …but ek din vo zaroooooooooooooooooooooooooor accept kar legi……kyun har ek ladki ek sachay pyaar ka intizaar krti rehti haa ……..hosakta ha ki usko thoda time lage apko samajne me …usko time do …..bcoz i m myself an example …..

  37. my name is shrawan shah…
    hello frds ..
    …kya mera koi help kr skta hai …drsl mai kbhi kisise pyr nhi kiya or mai eske bare me mujhe kuchh nhi pta but ab aisa lgta hai ki life me 1..phla pyr hona chahie jo koi apna khas ho jise student life me sukh or dukha ko sare jr sku to dosto kya ap log mera help kroge …ab mai 1achhi girl frd bnana chahta hu ……
    …mai jha rhta hu oha 2flobr pe mai rhta hu or 3flbr pe woo ldki rhti hai pr m..aj tk ussse bat nhi kiya pr o mujhe bhot like krta hu ..abd pyr v..pr
    mai kya kru to so plz
    please frd…help me

  38. Hi ma’am I am kishor …
    plz help me ….me aapko apne love story ke bare kuch batane jaa raha hu . lakin mere samj se bhar ke y love hai y kuch or …….abi hal me kuch deno ke bat hai . mere pass ek tele caller ka call aya tha or mene use pane mitee mitee batoo me fasa liya. lagbag 4,5 din bat hote rahe ase muje use bat kre acha lga or use be acha lga .fir din us ne kha mera ek help kr do. tab mene kha bolo me aap ke kya help kru . tab use ka university ka from barna tha . or mene ha kr de…. lakin agle hi din mera accident ho gaya tha . tab mene use ek msg kya i am sorry me aap ke help nhi kr sakta kyoke mera accident ho gaya hai or mera per face-char ho gaya hai . tab use ne kha ke koi bat nhi …fir ek din mene use I love you ka mgs kya . tab use ne kha ke me is jawab bad me dunge . tab mene kha ke me aap jawab ka puri live wiat kr satkha hu …tb usne kha very nice …tab muje kuch samaj nhi …fir usne muje agle hi din I love you too kha diya ….fir us ne kha me aapko deke bina hi love kr liya muje nhi pta kase ho gaya . fir mene be kha ke mene be aap ko nhi dekha ke aap kase ho fir me be se love kr tha hu . …fir us ne ek mgs kya or kha ke aap apna whataap no do . me apne pic send krunge …..us wkt mere pass whataap nhi tha …. tab mene apne frnd ka no diya or kha ke is number send kr do ….or us ne apne pic send kr de…..or jab mene uske phale bar pic deke tab muje kuch samj nhi ke kya me kya kru . wo etne khub surat the jitena mene socha tha us be jyada….khub surat the ….fir mene kha ke me apne pic aap ko whataap kr tha hu …tab mene use apne pic send ke ….or kha dek lo me asa hu …..but job fasla lo soch samaj ke lena kisi ke khane par mtlena …jo be dil se lena apna fasla…tab us ne kha ke me jo fasla liya hai use me change nhi krunge me aap ko love kar the hu…….ab hum roj bat kr the hai god morning se god night tak bat kr the hai …or muje usne milne ko kha hai ….or hume 15 dec ko milne jaa rahe hai ….ab mujse samj nhi aa raha hai ke kya ho raha hai …or age kya hoga……plz help me …frnd…..me use chata hu……

  39. Mem mera naam monu hai me ek ladlki se bahut pyaar karta ho go mere sath vachpan se padti aa rahi hai kuch saal pahle uski friends ko pata chala ki me usse love karta ho to uski friends ne mujhse poochhi ki tu kisses love karta ha to mene thode dar ke karan unhe confuse karne ke liye kisi our ladki ka name bata diya jisse uske pass tak news pahuch gayi to usne mujh kuch in kaha par vo ladki mere dill me tab she lekar aaj tak. Hai. Par me. Usee bata ni pa raha. Hoo vo aaj bhee meri friend hai but love ni karti. me usse kaise aapne dill ki baat kaise kahoo me padne ke liye doosre. Sahar. Chala gaya to vo dikhti no thee to mujhe aachha no lagta tha to me 2mahine me ussi me school me admission le liya. Usse kaise papose karu halp me please jaldi replay dena mem

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  40. Mam m aju .. Meri 1 ldki s dosti Hui bad m vo meri gf bn gyi 6 mhino tk hm sath rhe 1din vo bimar ho gyi or uske ilaj k bavjud hm usko bcha nhi paye ….
    M akela ho gya kuch din bad 1 dusri ldki se dosti Hui mene 1 din usko y sari baat btayi ki mere sath ESA huaa or m alone feel kr RHA hu to usne kha ki aap tainson mt lo m hu na ..aapka sath dugi …uske bad usne btaya ki mere bhi bf tha but hm dono ki alg thinking ki vjh s breakup ho gya m bhi sad hu to mene bhi usko yhi kha ki sad mt ho m bhi aapke sath hu sath duga or hm close friend h vo apni hr problem mujhe btati h or m Sol bhi kr deta hu mujhe dhire dhire usse pyar ho gya h ab hr time bs usi ka khyal Mn m rhta h but m purpose nhi kr pa RHA hu Dr lg RHA h khi vo dosti nhi tod le mam plzz help me purpose kru ya nhi ..ha to kese

    1. Agar aap pahle se hi ye sochne lag jaoge ki wo naraj ho jayegi ya wo aap se baat nahi karegi to fir to aapki baat kabhi nahi ban payegi isliye use paane ke liye aapko use btana to padhega hi

  41. Me ek ladki ko bahut like krta hu ..Wo meri sister ki friend hai ….Lkin meri sister meri koi help ni krti …..To me kya karu ki mujhe pata chl jaaye ki wo bhi mujhe pasand krti hai..Reply please Fast

  42. Hii…,,Me ek ladki ko bahut pasand karta hu …Wo meri sister ki friend hai …Lkin isme Sister kuch bhi help ni krti ..Orr mujhe dar lagta hai ki meri bajah se un dono ki friendship na tut jaye………To me kya karu ki mujhe pata chal jaye ki wo bhi mujhe pasand krti hai

  43. me 2 mahine se ak ladki ke pice hu roj ham ak he bash stop se sat bette hai kabi vo palt kar dekti hai or kabi nani ase me kiya karu help me

  44. Hello mam me kamlesh (KAMAL)….
    Me ek ladki se bachpan se pyaar karta hu.wo bhi meri taraf attract he.mene use 2 baar prapose kiya lekin usne jawab nahi diya.wo meri relative ki ladki he.wo bohot attitude wali ghamandi type ki ladki he.mene ekbar unse pucha ki me apki ha samju to unhone nahi kaha.or na samju to bhi unhone nahi kaha.wo mere sath em boyfriend jesa behave karti he.bohot paas ati he lekin pyaar ke bare me pucho to answer nahi milt.
    Me confused hu mam help me……..

    1. Agar us ladki ke chakkar me rahoge to hamesha confuse hi rahoge, vo aapke haath aane waali nhi isliye faltu me apna time waste mat karo.

  45. Thank ji .Maine help mange the aap ne ans deya but mai ab us ladke se nahe mil sakta q ke mane college chod deya ab mai college nahe ja sakta and wo college bus me college jate hai to rasate ma bhe nahe mil sakta kya karu kuch pata nahe chal raha hai plz plz plz help

  46. Hi i am prabh. mai ek ladke sa 6 sall se love karta hu wo 9-10class mare sath padhte the mane use 2 bar parpos keya par usne ans nahe deya mai us ke sath college laga to pata cala ke us ka b f hai par wo use uze kar raha hai mai aaj bhe use pyar karta hu plz help me

    1. Go to girl and tell her everything… Apni feelings khul kar batao use, uske current bf ki burayi mat karna bas apne no. banao. Ho sakta hai in future use khud pata chal jaaye uske baare me fir vo aapko mil sake.

  47. me dikhne me bhi thik hu meri persnalty bhi thik h me 19 saal ka hogaya pr aaj tak gf nhi bani mene sab khuch try kr liya pr kuch huva nhi esa koi tarika h jisse koi badhiya si gf bn jaaye

  48. Hii I am mitesh kumar mai government employees hun. Mai thora anokha hun
    acha toh problem ya hai pehchan ki ladki ko kase ptaan please shivsh ji
    My contacts no 9882352617

    1. Aap thode dino ke liye ghar me hi raho or apna no. and all sab change kardo or jo uske or aapke mutual friends hai unhe bol do ki aap delhi ja rahe apne mama ke pass rehne or ab wahi padhoge or job bhi wahi karoge. fir thode din baad bas sab thik ho jayega. lekin purane phone number or facebook id ko dubara mat use karna.

  49. Maine use propose to kar diya hai per us din ke baad se vo muzse thik se baat mahi kar rahi hai mai usse bohuout like karta hu pls help me to make her feel love for me

  50. main ek ladki ko like karata hu , usse chatting bhi karata hu par mujhe samaj nahi ata ki uske sath kya bat karu kaise bat karu
    main use roj ek hi bat puchata hu ki kya kar rahe ho , khana khaya kya , kya chalu hain , kaise ho , usse age main usase chatting nahi kar pata kyoki mujhe samaj nahi ata uasase kya bat karu
    pls app mujhe batao main use konse topic par bate karu

    1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

  51. shivshi
    me koshish karchuki hun to bhi wo nehi manta h bht samjhai bhi to bhi usne mere baaton ko thukra diya or bolta h mujhe tere thoda bhi taintion nehi horahah tereko jo sochna h soch ya jo karna h kr pr mereko tang mt kr abhi .

  52. sir
    mai apne collge mai ek ladki se bhut piyar karta hu, vo ladki bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti hai, par religious diffrent hone ke karan vo relationship me ane se darti hai, plz muje batao bat age kaise badhegi, mai kya karu, jo vo mujhse sab kuch bhool kar pyar kare.

  53. JAB B GF S MILEGA TO WO KUCHE TO KHANE KO MANGE GI NA AB WADAPAVE TK TO APUN KHULA DEGA CHAYE B PILA DEGA …………..MGR Y BADY BADY HOTLS M APUN KI HASIYT HI NI APUN KO TO PTA B NI Y PIZA WIZA HOTA KYA H

  54. APUN KOI GF NI H MGR GF BNANE KO MANGTA H …………MGR APUN K GHR WALE APUN KO THORI SI B POKET MONY B NI DETE ……10…10RUPIYE BACHA BAHA KR MO..KA RICHRJ KRATA HU……..AB AAP BTAO BINA PESHE GF KESE BNAU……..

      1. APUN M PESE K ALAWA SAB KUCH H APUN EK BOHOT ACHA ACTR H BOHOT SARE PLAY DRAME KR CHUKA H …….EK DIN APUN DEKHNA APUN INDIA M CHAYE GA

      2. my name is srk frm new delhi ..mai ek ldki se pyr krna chahte h ngr wo bolti h mai bahot darte h mre papa mre sb kuch h or mna krti h hm se pyr mt kro .or hm puchte h tmhra koi bf h to bolti h ni mgr bt krti h hm se is ka koi seluoin btao

        1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya peron baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. I think I’ve made my point.

  55. hii
    me ek ladki hun . me ek ladka se bht pyaar karta hun wo bhi mere pyaar mere 4guna jyada karta h pr koibaat pr chhedti hun to gussa ho jata h pr baad me sahi ho jata h pr abhi 4days hogaya mereko ignore karta h , barabar baat nehi karta h, or thode baat pr bht dhyan bhi rakhtatha mera but 4days se uska negative hogaya h me manati hun to bhi nehi manta h me kya karu pls help me.

    1. Sujata aap usse milne ki kosish karo and mil kar usse jo bhi baat huyi hai use solve karo. Jitni jaldi ho sake aisa kar lo, is tarah ke mamlon me dheel nhi deni chahiye.

  56. hello, me ek ladkI ko like karta hu vo mere best friend ki sister h or me use bacbhan se janta hu me usse friendship karna chahta hu, hum dono normally ek dusre se baate b karte h lekin jab b baate karte h uski family koi na koi member Saat me hota hi humare yanI ki hum dono kabi akele me b baat nhi ki me use like karta hu or usse friendship karna chahta hu per samj nhi pata ki me use propose kru ya nhI Dar lagta h purpose karne ne ki khi vo kisi family member ko is baare me bta na de or muje ye b nhi pta ki uske man me mere liye kya sochti h kyuki hum dono ne kabi b akele me baat nhi ki to ab me kya kru use propose kru ya nhi

    1. Aap uska no. lo ya fb par usse judo aur chatting shuru karo, vha ye sab baate pucho indirectly, apne sab doubts clear kar lo. Bas thodi himmat karne ki baat hai.

  57. Hi mam mera naam yuvraj h or mam mai ek ladke SE bhut pyar karta tha obesity karta hun usse bhut din tak baat b kiya usne b mujhse sache dil so pyar kiya jo bina problem sb kuch thek chal rha tha par achanak usne mujhse kha ke wo mujhse baat nhi karna chahte wo apne pahle wale bf SE baat karna start kar diya mujhe pta nhi usne aisa kyon kiya or jb call karta wo mujhse baat karna chahte h par jb mai bolta hn use chor toh usse chorna b nhi chah rhe h or apna problem b nhi bta rhi…….plz aap mere help kro ke aise m mujhe kya karna chaye usse chor dun ya uska help karun mai bhool b nhi pa rha hn….plz plz plz help me….

  58. Hiii i am salim….and i have become your great fan after read your answers which you gave to all. aap bura mat manna actually mujhe aap se hi pyar ho gya he….i like you 🙂

  59. hii
    mam
    meri problm ye h ki me ek ladki se bhut pyar krta hu me us ladki ke sat 6 sal tak sat me pade meri or uski bhut achi dosti bhi h mere ko usse pyar ho gya isliye mene usko khi bar prpose bhi kiya lekhin wo har bar koi bhi jwab nhi deti fir ek din force krne pr usne kha ki wo muje like krti h pr pyar ke bare me socha nhi h pehle wo bat bhi bhut krti thi mere se msg cheting lekhin ab itna bat bhi nhi krti or kehti h ki muje bhul jao ab me kya kru please help me

    1. Ab aap kya karo, vo usne aapko bata diya hai… ab aap agr faltu me pareshan hona chahhte ho to koi kya kar sakta hai..

  60. Mere ko ek ladki like bi krti h lekin jab mene usko purpose kiya to WO boli ..ki muje feeling nhi aati ‘ to mene uska picha chod diya lekin WO meri tarf dekhti rahti h or mere dobhara purpose krne pr phir usne mana kr diya ….plz Help me me kya kru ab

    1. Are baba aisi ladki ke chakkar me mat pado, vo khud bhi hamesha confuse rehti hai and aapko bhi hamesha confuse rakhegi..

  61. hi mam i am sachin mera questions ye h ki maie ek ladki ko bahut pyar karta hu wo bhi karti h but problem ye h ki meri usse nok jhok hoti h or usse mazak bahut pasnd h or romantic bate psnd h or wo bor bhi ho jati h meri bato se to mam kuch aise tips dijiye ki meri gf se nok jhok na ho or wo bor bhi na ho meri bato se

    1. Sachin nok jhok jin topics par hoti hai kosish karo ki baatcheet me un topics ko avoid karo, ya fir jab aapko pata ho ki ab nok jhok shuru hone waali hai usse pahle ki baat kisi dusre angle ki taraf ghuma do. Simple.

  62. hi…
    mam
    mai ek villege se hu mujhe delhi aaye hue 2 saal ho haye hai aur in 2 saalo mai ak ladki se pyaar kar baitha aur vo ladaki bhi mujhase pyar karti hai
    par vo ladki mare se jyada apane friend ko impotent deti h agar mai usase kahata hu ki chalo apane frendo milvao to apna bf bata ke nhi milavati h

  63. Maray collage may ek ladki hai jissay may bhut love karta hu lakin vo maray taraf dakhti bhi nhi lakin darr lagta hai ki agar latter likha kar dunga to khi vo kisi ko day na day please help ki may kya karu

    1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

        1. Dear use kaho ki kya tumhe mujh par bharosa nahi hai jo tum manti nahi ho or agar nahi hai to fir is relation ka kya matlab hume ise bhi khatam kardena chahiye. 😉

      1. Hello mam Mai ek ladki se bhot pyar Karta ho.or Mai ne usko parpus bhi kiya tha to usne ha bhi boli thi.or ab pata nai usko kya ho Gaya hai wo mere se baat bhi nai karri or Mai baat karra to jawab bhi nahi deri chup chap chali jari ab Mai kya karo mam bolo plz

        1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

          1. Mene ladki ko …kaha ki aapni aanlhe bandh karo. Ek chix dikhata hu. Our usne aankhe bandh kari mane kiss kar liy ..wo naraz hai…plz help

          2. Wo to hogi hi kyunki aap ne kaam hi kuch aisa kiya hai or ab ja kar usse sorry bolo or use btao ki aap use pyaar karte ho or aapko lga ki wo bhi aapse pyaar karti hai

  64. Hii mam mara nam salman ha .ma akh ladke sa boht pyar karta hon magar vo karti ha ki nahi kuch pata nahi.lakin os na akh bar muja sochon gi boli te.kya ho sakta ha is ka reason

  65. hi mam m kisi ladki se pyaar karta hu or o ladki mujh se phle chat karti thi nt me or din me lekin o apne kisi dost ladke ke sath vi chat karti thi or mujhe bolti thi ki o mera B frd hai . pr ab o mujhe bolti hai ki m usse pyaar karti hu or mujh se chat karti hai .m kya karu mam o ladki kya kr rhi h kya o mujhe pyaar nhi karti hai ya mujhe dhoka de rhi hai.

  66. hello

    me ek ladhki se bahut pyar karta hu but usko mujh per trust ni raheta toh usko kisse trust dilaoo or uske sath me pysical relation bana na chahta hu but vo tayar nhi plz mujhe kuch tips suggest kijiye

  67. Ek ladki h fb pe o v mujhse Jada der bat karna pasnd karti h …Maine usee propose v kiyaa par usne mana kar diya. Sayd use yakin v nhi ki mujhe sach me pyar ho gya usse.lekin uski bahut sari harkte h jise lagta h o mujhe pasnd karti h..agar.mai online nhi rha din bhar to 2 msg jaruraaye honge uske”ki kaha ho” …kya fb se pyar ho skta h???…ya kya o mujhe pyar karti h.???..pls help me frnd

    1. Hanji bilkul fb par pyar ho sakta hai par jaruri nhi ki vo bhi aapse pyar karti ho, agar aap uske dil me apne liye thodi special jagah banana chahte ho to I think aapko thoda space rakhna chahiye, means don’t behave like friends, always show her that u like her..

  68. Mam mra naam akash hei main akela rhta hu bht akelapan feel hota ek true life partner chata hu grlfrnd to bht bni bt mujhe koi grlfrnd nhi ek pyaari si ldki chahiye jo mujhse aur main usse bht pyr kru bs……kaise milegi

  69. Mam.
    Mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu…wo bhi mujhe pyar kRti hai aisa mujhe lagta hai…mgr uski friend mujhse jalti hai…maine use pro kiya tha..lekin usne na kaha…aisa lag raha tha ki usne majbori se na kaha…uski frnd ki bajah se…aur woh hMesh sath rahti hai…uski frnd chahti hai ki uske bf ke frnd ke sath use force kar rahi hai…kya karu me plz

  70. me ek ladki se bahut jayada pyar karta hu…
    par wo har bat me gussa ho jati hai mere mujhe ulta puta bat karti hai…. jabki wo mere sath har kuch kar kucki hai par mujhe kaisa kyu lagta hai ki wo mujhse khus nahi hai…..
    wo me use sudjarna chahta hu aur me uske bina rah v nahi sakta …..
    please help me

    1. Us ladki ka pahle mood acha banao, jo bhi use pasand hai vo karke aur fir is baare me baat karo, oepn baat karo daro nhi, daroge to baad me aapko hi preshani hogi.

  71. hii mam
    this is abhishek
    mam me ek ladki 3 saal se pyar krta hu or phle me uske school me he padta tha toh me use follow bhi krta tha or boh mjhe dekhke smile bhi krte the lekn ek bar mere dost ne use kuch galat bol diya tha tb se usne mjhse ab tak baat nahi ki h
    kuch din phle mere dost ne use btaya ki me usse bhut pyR krta hu ek bar mat krle toh usne bola ki krta hoga koi abhishek mjhse pyar leken me nahi krte and i dont care or usne mjhe or mere friend dono ko fb p block kar diya
    ek bar mene uski friend se bhi bola ki usse baat krwa de toh usne usse bhi bola ki abhishek k bare me koi baat nahi krne

    plz give me some solution what to do yaar plz

    1. Abhishek she don’t even want to hear ur name then Y r u Begging in front of her. Yhi to galti karte hai log – Jo oyar nhi karta use itna bhaav dete hai ki us bande ko lagta hai vo pata nhi konsa Kohinoor hai. I will suggest ki – Bhaad me jaane do use, dont think of her. Pyar vyar theek hai but usse upar bhi koi cheez hoti hai and tht’s Self Respect. Don’t loose that Buddy 🙂

  72. Hlo,… Mere ko abhi tak samjh main nahi aaya us din kya huya tha .par dost to main apke help chahata hu …mere frnd mere se kaafhi din se gussa hain or ab mere ko lagta hai wo ab to mere ko bhul gaye hai apne dil se or man se apko pure baat bata ta hu …….mere pyare dost ka naam jasepreet hain mere usse dosty khel khel main huya tha ir fir hm achi dost ban gaye thi fir kuch din baad mere ko usse pyar ho gaya tha maine usko bata v diya tha par usne kaha tm abhi chote ho agar tm bare hote to main tume apne bf bana leta …..maine kaha ke haa main jaanta hu par ab main kya kar sakta hu uske baad hm sabhi dost log khelne chale gaye fir hm log esi tara milte thi or baat karte the ek aisa huya ke mere hoos or gaye usne mere se yeh kaha ….aman ek kam karo ge wo jo ladu bhaiya hain un khina ja kar ………bhaiya apko jassy achi lagte hai or bolna ke apko unka number chaheye ……jo usne kaha usse mere dil main bahut jor se dhard huya par maine bhaiya se ja kar sare baat kaha ..fir reply me yeh aaya ……aree yaar tm aisa kyu bol rhe ho kya tmko jassy ne kaha hai yeh sab kaine ko main ne kaha nhi bs aisehe fir usse kaha nhi mere pass uska phone number hai ir uska photo v …….fir mere ko doubt huya yeh ho kya rha hai …fir maine sara baat jassy ko khe diya or usne kaha thek hai …mere dil me yeh baat bardaas nahi huya or maine dost ko khe diya fir usne saare baat sab ko bata diya fir huya ghagra hu ir fir sab khatm ho gaya naaa he baat or naa he kuch …dostto mere help karo mere ko unse baat karne hai kaise hoga ….:(

    1. Dost aapko us kaam me help karenge jo aapke liye shi hai aur vo ye hai ki aap uske baare me sochna chor do, apni life ka goal banao and use achieve karne ki kosish karo.

  73. mene ek ladki ko propose kiya us ladki ne facing smile se bat ki aur kaha me singal nahi hu aur next day mene ek ladke se usko ek letter bhijvaya aur us ladke ne mere samne hi usko vo letter diya aur us ladki ne vo letter fad diya jab mene vo letter uthake dekha to vo mere letter nahi tha rough paper tha aur vo ladka us ladki jannta tha next day mere pas missed call aya aur vo ladki ka hi tha missed call mene bat ki name puch ke call kat diya ab mujhe ye batao ye sab us girl ki planning hai ya fir vo missed call kisi aur ka ho sakta hai 4,5 par missed call aye the next 4 days tak mujhe ye batao ki vo mera letter usne le liya ya nahi mene us ladke se pucha ladka keh raha ki mene ap hi ka letter diya tha

    1. Us ladki ko ignore karna shuru kar do, bilkul bhi ghaas mat daalo…. fir kuch dino baad direct no. mango. Personality matters a lot and confidence ki kami nhi honi chahiye.

  74. Hello mam mera nam inder kumar h maine fb pe ek ladki se friendship ki thi ham dono m roj bate hoti thi bate itni hothi thi jiska koi time nhi tha kab subh kab rat kuch pta nhi chalta tha phir kuch dino ke bad aise lga jaise wo mujhse dur ja rhi h bate bhi krni kam kr di h lekin kuch bata bhi nhi rhi h ki bat kya h apko kya lgta h ab dubara phle jaise bate hogi ya nhi or uski koi famly problm nhi h pls help

    1. Inder jyada socho mat, ye koi pyar vyaar nhi hai sirf ek attraction hai so Be cool. And uske chakkar me padhne ki bajaye apne life ke goal par focus karo..

  75. Hello ji..plz advice me…mai arriange marriage karna chahta hu but mai thora thin hu normal body se…mai chahata hu ki larki hme pasand karey…

    1. Gym join karo, fats waali cheeze khao jaise aalu, daal, chawal. Regular exercise karo. Body normal position me aa jayegi, thodi mehnat karo.

    1. Saath rhoge to seekh jaoge, roj subah shaam shivshi.com ke comments padh kar unhe samajhne ki kosish karo bas 😉

  76. Hiiiii…..shivshi jiii mere college m meri junior hai wo mere h ghar k pass rheti hai but 1 din mene use apni feelings btayi to usne relationship k liye mana kar diya or kha k wo freedom rhena chhati hai lekin abhi bhi wo meri bhut achhi friend hai ………
    M usse bhut pyar karta hu kya karu jo wo mere kareeb aa jaye

    1. Jo aapke liye aisi feeling nhi rakhti uske liye aisa mat socho bcoz isse sirf nirasha milegi aur kuch nhi. Uske saath apni friendhsip ko dheere dheere aage badhao and use haan kahne ke liye force mat karo bas use show karte rho she is special, ho sakta hai kabhi uske dil me bhi pyar aa jaaye.

  77. Hello Ma a’m,
    Mai ek lady se bahut pyar karta hoon,woh divorcee hai aur 2 bacche ki maa hai..waise meri bhi divorce ho chuki hai aur hum dono same caste se belong karte hai.woh mujhse phone par dhero baat karti hai,aisa ek din nahi hota jis din usse baat na ho..par jab bhi mai usko propose karta hoon woh kahti hai ki main kisi aur ko chahti hoon,,ma a’m,mujhe yeh samajh mein nahi aa raha hai ki agar woh kisi aur ko chahti hai toh mujhse itna baat kyun karti hai..kabhi kabhi toh raat raat bhar bhi baaten karti hai…kya aap mujhe please help karogi mai usse dilojaan se pyar karta hoon aur shaadi karna chahta hoon?kya woh sachh kah rahi hai ya phir woh mujhse pyar nahin karti…please help me ma a’m.

    1. Is baare me hum kaise bata sakte hai dear, vo karti hai ya nhi ye to confirm ke saath nhi keh sakte. sabse pahle hume ye dekhna hoga ki uski soch kya hai, pahle ye batao ki uska divorce kyu hua and aapka kyu hua, dono ki baat batao tab baat samajh me aayegi.

  78. ladki line deti hai tabhi me friendship ke liye bolta hu fir bhi ladki mana kar deti hai aisa kyo hota hai dekh ke hasna aur bar bar dekhna ye sab hota hai lekin jab dosti ki bat ati hai to same answer no help me

    1. Ladki ko samajhna itna aasan nhi hai, ye baat aise hi nhi khi jaati hai 😉
      Try to impress her with ur looks, make ur personality good and thoda daring raho… khule dil se baat karo, daro ya ghabrao mat.

    2. har bar confidence se hi bat kari hai fir bhi same problem face kar raha hu me ek sawal puchna chata hu ki ladki jab ladke ko bar bar dekhti hai to iska matlab kya hai plz help me

  79. jab lakdi ko mana hi karna hota hai to ladki itna dkhti kyo hai ye bat bilkul samaj nahi aa rahi aur smile bhi krti hai lekin jab dosti ke liye bolo to same answer no ye fanda samaj nahi aa raha hai aur ye situation bahot bar hui meri life me plz help me

  80. Hi friend.
    Maine love marriage ki hai 2 months horahe hai mere husband mujhse baat he nahi karte whats app par online rehte hai but late reply karte hai samajh nahi araha kya karu mujhe dought horaha hai ki wo kisi aur se baat kar rahe hai agar puchungi to relation me remark ajaiga what should i do plzzzz help me

    1. Kyunki aapki marriage Love marriage hai isliye aisi baat to nhi honi chahiye… Fir bhi jamana kharab hai kuch keh nhi sakte, aap unse direct aur gusse me ye baat puchogi to probem ho sakti hai but agar pyar se nakhre ke saath shikayat karte huye agar ghuma ke ye baat puchogi to vo iska jawab aapko de denge. Mai btati hu kaise, sabse pahle unke liye unki manpasand dish banao aur jo bhi unhe pasand ho vo sab karo taaki vo khush ho jaaye, fir jab raat ko aap dono Bed room me baate kar rhe honge tab aap unse puchna ki “Khana Kaisa Tha?” fir jo kahegnge ki Bahu acha.. tab muh bana kar pyar se thode shikayat bhare lahje me bolna ki, Main aap se naraj hu… to vo puchenge kyu? Tab bolna aap mujhse bilkul baat nhi karte, WhatsApp par bhi online rahte ho par mere msg ka reply badi der me dete ho, mera dil bhut dukhta hai 🙁 Thode nakhre karna ye kahte huye… Uske baad vo aapko jarur btayenge ki vo reply jaldi kyu nhi karte ya bat kyu nhi karte..

    1. Sumeet aap kisi aur ka basa hua ghar ujaad kar apna ghar bassana chahte ho, that’s not fair. Ab ye mat kehna everything is fair in love and war.

  81. Hi.Shivshi m jisse pyar krta hu woh bhi mjhse pyar krti toh h but woh kehti h mjhse jyda tym tak reltion nhi rakh pygi…..Nd hr jhagde pr bolti h Ki mjhse reltion khatm karna h …But i really love him

    1. U really love him but she doesn’t love U, u must understand this thing and u can’t force anyone to love u back, its all abt feelings. That girl is passing time with u nothing else, beware.

  82. Mai rina …mai aapko apne bf k bare m btata hu mra bf aysa hai ki mujhe kisi or k santh agr dekh le bhle hi vh mra clss met ho useke baad mujhe bhutt marta hai ..mujhe gali deta hai or usse relation todna chahta hu to mujhe bolta hai ki tere ko kisi or ka hone nihi dunga agr kisi or se marrig kregi to tujhe or tere husbnd ko maar dunga …ab aap hi kuchh btao kya kru

    1. Rina aap jaldi se jaldi ye baat apni family me kisi ke saath share karo, I know ye bhut muskil kaam hai but aapko aisa karna hi hoga, agar aap aage apni life me khush rehna chahti ho, aur us ladke ke saath aapka koi future nhi hai so stay away and ghar par baat karo jisse aapki achi bonding ho usse.

  83. hallo दोस्तों मेरा नाम यश्कुंजाम है। मै भी एक लड़की से प्यार करता हु। वो मेरे से प्यार करती है या नहीं कैसे पता लगाया जय। please help me.

  84. Hi shivshi mai jis ko pasand karta hun pahele wo mere se pura pura din chat karti thi.ab mere se chat kartey hue bolti hai bad me baat karti.lekin 1-2h tak online rahti or mera msg bhi seen nahi karti.9:30 se 10:30 online rahti but chat ni karti fir bas 15 min chat kar k so jati.

  85. yr main ek ladki se bahut pyaar karta hu par wo mujhse wah baat he nahi karti main uske karan Apna haath kaat dalta hu phir v wah manti nahi h main uske friend se bolta hu to wah bolti h ke friendship bas ho sakti h main kya karu plz Shivshi ji help me na

  86. hi mam i’m Asad khan mare problem y hi ki me or mare gf hum ek dusry ko bhut pyaar krty hain or shadi bhi krna chahaty hain but mare parents us ko accept nhi kr rhy hi. Us ko pasand nhi krty hain ab me kya karun ?

  87. Yr humari v kuch help kr do….mai ek ladki se bahut love krta hun….ek bar maine usko uski frinend ke thru purpose v kiya tha …but usne koi jawab nai diya plzz…..btao na mai use kaise viswas dilaun ki mai use kitna love krta hu…..plzz help

    1. Ladki ko propose karne ke liye uski friend ki help kyun le rahe ho? Direct us ladki se baat karo na…

  88. Hiii mera nam farukh hai mai ek ladki se bhut pyar karta hun or vo ladki bhi mujhe apni jan se jyada pyar karti hai lekin ek ladka usse pareshan karta hai bolta hai ki tu mujhse frenship karle nahi to mai farukh ko marunga vo ladki gbrai hui hai ki mujhe kucch ho na jaye to ham dono mil ke us ladke ka kya karain

  89. hii Shivshi G ..
    Meri ek dost h.. jo kisi or sr pyar krti he…bt ye baat jante hue v . mai bhaut dino usse pyar krta hu… sachii ..to muje ky krna chaiye … nd ha meri usse kuch dino phale ladaii hui h. so plz muje bato. muje ky kena chaiye ??

  90. Meri ek bahut hi achi frnds bhi hai aur mai use bahut love karta hu aur vo bhi karti hai lkn ajj Se 5 Days se vo mujhse khafa khafa c rahti hai .aur kuch bolti bhi ni hai .maine kae bar pucha to reaply me no yes yhi ata hai.agr meri vajah se koi problm hai to humesa humesa k liye dut ho jau .ap pllss mere response ans dena .karan

  91. M ek ladki ko chata hu but Mujhe nhi lgta ki vo Mujhe pasand krti h ya nhi
    But hm hamesha WhatsApp ya phir fb pr Hi baat krte h
    Ha kabhi kabhi hamari baate thodi romantic ho jati h but M ye kaise pta kru ki vo Mujhe pasand krti h ya nhi

    1. Maaf kijiye mujhe iske baare mein jaankari nahi hai. Par hum iske baare mein research karenge aur aapke liye is website mein ek article likhenge

  92. Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii g
    Mai ik ladki ko bhut love krta hu g or Muje je Nhi PTA lag rha ki vo vi krti hai ja ni

  93. shivshi ge mara be kuch kro plz mari shadi hone wali hain or mujh sy larti hain mujhy bto main Asa kya kro jo mujhy like kry plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

    1. Aap apni hone wali wife ko ek badiya si film dikha do sab kuch theek ho jaayega. Main guarantee se to nahi keh sakti, but kafi had tak wo like karne lagegi

  94. hello shivshi…. h r u? i wanna say something. i love a girl but i dont know whether she has any idea about my desire.
    i have done many proposals but in many other ways … not directly said to her that i love her. … after sometime i got to know that she in affair with some other guy but inspite of these she also proposed me already having a boyfriend. she doesn’t know that i know about her boyfriend. now what should i do?

    1. First ask her whether she likes that guy or you. Secondly, say what she really want to hear from you. Don’t make this relation more complicated. Try to make it simple.

      1. Shivshi mujhe aapse ye puchna hai mai ek ladki ko like karta hu aur usse purpose bhi maar chuka hu par wo kvi kehti hai mujhse bf nhi bnana mai free rehna chahti hu to kvi gussa karti hai agar mai kisi dusri ladki se baat karta hu to mera phone humsya check karti hai ki kisse baat karta hu mai confuse ho gaya hu aap btaye is issare ko kya samjhu mai.

        1. Gupta ji aap us ladki ko direct propose karo and apni dil ki sabhi baat khul kar bata do, fir agar vo nhi manti to faltu me apna time uske piche barbad na karo, bcoz jo aapko pyar nhi karta use aap apne se pyar karne ke liye mana nhi sakte, uske samne gidgida kar.

  95. hay maim
    mere room k pas me ek ladki rahati jo muje pasand h
    wo mere room se ati jati rahati h.
    wo room jane k time pr wo apne makan ki chat pr hoti h
    m use bat karana chahata hu but koi reson nahi milata usase bat karane ka;
    so plz hep me .
    satya

  96. Hello mam , mai ek ladkise 8 saal ho gaya pyaar karts hu Lenin cast problem hai isliye WO mujhe uska ek best frnd manti hai ,,, lekin 8 saal mein WO ek ladke saath relation mein this WO pyaar karti this yeah baat bhi mujhe usne bathi phir uska break up ho gaya phir bi mere she frnd karke hi baat krti hai ,saare problems sub much share karti hai mujse………. Main janana chata hu kya WO mujse pyaar krti hai ya mai e fend banks rahu…plz tell me.

    1. Friend and only friend, apni taraf se use ye ehsaas dilaya karo ki she is special but jor mat dalna us par kisi cheez ka.

      1. h m
        mera naam rakesh hai
        ek ladki thi pata nai pyar tha ke nai par hum 4 saal tak sath the our humare bhich me kya ho raha tha pata nai par hum ek dusre ko sabhi bate batate the our kahi bhi jana hota to sath me jate the par aaj 8 mah ho gaya hai wo mere se baat nai karti apna mo numbar badal kli hai pata nai kya ho gaya hai mai uske ghar bhi gaya tha par o mujhse baat nai karna chahti hai mai sabhi tarah se baat karne ki koshish bhi kar chuka hu mai kya karu

          1. hlo I m vivek ..m sidha point p ata hu toh baat kuch aise h..ladki pat to gyi h pr vo mere se jada baat ni krti I mean mujhe ni lagta vo mere se luv krti h…ap ye btao m use apne pyr m pgl kaise kru .

          2. Hahaha…. Asa me har ladki ki life alag hoti hai aur uske interests different hote hai isliye iska koi formula nhi hai bas aapko analyze karke experiments karne hote hai 🙂

  97. Mam main eak larki pyar karte ho mujhe lagta hain larki bi mujhe chata hain magar main baat karne gabrata ho muje samaj nahi ata k main kese baat karu use …

  98. M kuwari ho m Jise love krti Hu vo shadishuda h ….or Vo b mko love krte h. …kya vo mko cheat kr re h. .ya Pyar krte h

      1. Hiii mam mera name Sher ali hain main eak larki bhut pyar karta ho but vo bi muje bhut pyar karta hain lakin main ose shadi karna chata ho magar main baat karne say gabrata ho plzz help me…

  99. M kuwari hu. ..but mko Jisse pyar h vo shadishuda h…or Vo b merse love krte h. ….muje smj ni aa ra kya m une Bhul jaau ya waqt pe sb chod du…aap btaiye kya vo mko cheat kr re h. ..pls

  100. hiii mera naam Rohit hai me ek ladki se bohot pyar karta hu use mene parpose bhi kiya par use love me intres nahi dosti me me intres hai me kya karu plz halp me

  101. Mai ek ladki se 8 saal she pyaar karta h u hai baat usko bi pata hai lekin WO mujhe apana ek accha frnd manti hai,lekin ek din hamare sath ek accident ho gaya … Us din him dono be kiss kiya uske baad… Uski feelings kya hai mere bare hai janana hai mujhe…plz mujhe help kardo

  102. I am pintu singh and i work at business. From gujarat And so… hello.. maam ji ek ladki ko pahele he se like karte the but me usse pyar karne ka pahele he se like karta hoon sirf ussi ka name “SONA” hai phir vo pahele he se pyar karti thi aur vo meri sona love me abe saved hai but vo milti nahi kabhi chatting karne ke liye per mai kya karu phir mujhe usse itna baar baar pyar ke sath baat karne liye visitior swall kar rahe the but vo keval chat per aati nahi or pata nahi kyu kaise kya karu main and maam ji mere sona ki baato ko padhiye or dhayan dijiye ki my sona love yahan dil tuta to to ek aawaj aaye chir ke dekha to kuch chiz nikal! Socha kya hoga ess khali dil me lahu se dho kar dekha to teri tasveer nikal aaye socha yaad na karte thoda tadpau unko kisi:-(;-(aur ka naam lekar jalaun sona per chot lagegi unko to dard mujhko he hoga ab yea batao kis tarah sataun unko main kya karu plz ap help ke liye kya bata do plz help me need.

        1. Aap kuch na samjho, aap khud jo uske baare me sochte ho use bta do fir vo khud bata degi ki vo aapke baare me kya sochti hai.

  103. Meri ek gf h ya thi nd i love her so much but abhi bhi krta hun
    But usne mujhse kha ki uski enggmnt hogai h vobhi 1 saal pehle but now i think ki 1 saal pehle hogai h to vo mujhse beech m milti bhi thi hum kafi close bhi hui beech m
    So apko kya lgta h ki vo mujhse peecha chudane k ly yeh sb to ni kehri
    Nd one more thing hum dono ki cast bikul alg h means ki uske ghrwale ya mere ghrwale kbhi nhi manege hmari shadi k ly vo mujhse bolti h ki vo mujhse shadi krna chhti h lekin vo kch ni krskti mjboor h
    Tell me gal wat to do depression hora h?

  104. Hello mam m ek ldki ko like krta Hu Jo meri classmate m mene usko ek baar prpose bi kiya pr usne ye bol kar mna kar Diya Ki m ase kaam nhi karti to tab se mene usko ignor krna suru kar Diya lekin wo muje class m har 10 mint baad meri tarf dekhti h or mujse kabi books and notes bhi mangti h or wo khud hi phle bolti h mujse class m koi kaam or baar mere ko notice karti to mam aap btao kya wo muje like karti h ya nhi

  105. Hi Mara naam Jassi H. Or Ma Ek Ladki Se Payar Kr ne Lga Hu.Vo Mera Se age ma 2 saal Bdi h.Or Vo Mre Best Frnd ki bhn h. Kya Ap muzy Ye Bta sk te H Ki ma Us Se Kese Baat kru. plzz help me 🙁

    1. Simply Hi Hello Karo and jab milo use is najar se dekho jaise vo bhut special hai, uski taraf dekhte rho fir jab vo aapki taraf dekhe tab 2-3 second tak uski aankho me dekhte rho fir smile ke saath idhar udhar dekhne lago, jab baat ho uski tareef kar do… Isse achi setting ho jayegi… 🙂

  106. Hi g mera name s ali h m chahta hu ki ap meri problem solf karo m 24 ka hu par mene ek 32 year ki ladki se pyar kar liya jo shadi shuda h unke 2 bache h pahle ham dost the par pata ni kese pyar ho gaya samajh hi ni aayaa kuch aj hamari bt huaye2 year ho gaye h m bhut simple ladka hu or pyar se bchpan se hi bhagta raha hu jab se mene hosh sambhala h m ye ni bolunga ki kisi ladki ne mujhe ilove u ni bok bola h par college m par mene ustime bhi vo feeling ni thi jo ab ban gai h mujhe to ladkiya kuch khash pasand ni thi par bt karte krte pata ni kab hloveu bola gaya pata hi ni chala par jab pyar huaa to pata ni chala ki kab huaa unkishadi ek samjhota thi jise unhe mjburi apnana padha vo unserhuru se pyar ni karti thi gharvale unhe bolte rahte the to es majb tri ke chalte unhone shadi ki meri bt unse dosti ke nate huee kyoki vo mere dost ko

  107. apka solution sunke bahut a6a laga….agar mere solution ka koi jabab ho to jarur batana…. aj se 5month pale mujhe ek ladki se frndship hua uske bad maine usse apne pyar ka ijhar kiya pahli bar to usne mana kar diya ..bolne lagi ki mera koi a6a fend ni h or mai tumhe Sari umar best frnd bana k rakhungi ..lekin mere jid karne k bad o haaa kar di …aj hum dono itna close ban gaye h ki ni o mere bin rah pati or ni mai …dono ek dusre se beintah mohabbat karte h….o ladki mujhse dur rahti h sirf phone pe bat hoti h… him Dino shadi v karne k liye raji h USSR bolke rakha hu do sal intijar karne k liyee or o man v gai…an problems ye h ki uske ghar she koi raji in hone wale h or no mere ghar she koi manne wale h…q ki o begoli h or mai bihari hu …mere ghar me savi purane bato pe biwas karte h …so mujhe kya karna chahiye jisse apne family ko mana sake samjha sake….actually o ladki mere bina ni JI sakti h or no mai….hum Dino ka kast alag h… plz giv me solution… bhagne k liye mat kahna.

    1. Hahahaha…. Bhagne ke liye mat kehna.. padh kar hasi aa gyi.. 😀

      Dekho Sah Ji, ab jo bhi ho aapko aur us ladki ko ek dusre ka hona hi hai so aaj ho ya kal ya parso aapko apne parivar me is baare me baat karni hi padegi, agar aapka koi bada bhai hai to use ye sab baat batao, agar nhi hai to apni mata ji ko sab kuch batao, aur unhe bolo, Maa maine us ladki se pyar karta hu aur uske saath khush rahunga, agar aap log nhi manoge aur meri shadi khi aur kar doge to na main kabhi khush reh paunga aur aage kya hoga pata nhi, isliye mujhe usse shadi karni hai. Agar aapko lagta hai vo nhi manegi to aapko apne Pita ji se ya Dada se baat karni hogi, mujhe pata hai ki vo log aasani se nhi manenge par rasta yhi hai. Aap apni zid pakad lo, jab vo aapko udaas dekhenge to haar maan kar unhe Haan karni hi padegi, fir aapke papa bolenge… “Jo saar je karna cho kar 😛 :P” bas fir ban jayegi baat.. 😉

  108. mam mujhe ek ladki bahut dekhti hai bilkul open hokar smile bi karti he iska kya matlab hai muje to wo pasand bi h lekin ek baar pahle bhi mujhe ek ladki mujhe dekh kar aise hi react karti thi maine use prop kiya phir mai use bahut jyada pyar karne laga had se jyada baad m mujhe pata chal ki wo to mujhse sirf time pass kr ri hai mere jaise to uske pass bahut bf h to maine use chor diya mai karta bi kya kyunki wo kabhi ni sudhar sakti thi maine koshis bi bahut ki .to mujhe us dusri ladki k baare m kya sochna chahiye jo mujhe dekh kr smile karti h pls pls mam reply me…

    1. Agar aapko usme interest hai to aap ja kar simple usse Hi Hello karo and usse uska contact no. mango, agar use aapme koi interest hoga to vo easily no. de degi.

  109. Mere sawal ka jawab dene ke liye thankyou shivshi ji.
    Lekin mai to fas gaya na, wo mujhse picha chuda rahi h, jabki wo kisi aur pyar nahi karti h, wo God se karti hai, God ko manti h par love karne se pahle wo kyun na sonchi, wo mujhse picha chuda rahi hai to mai kayse uske dil me pyar jagau, mai kya karun, please help me…

    1. Kuch fayda nhi hai kuch bhi karne ka, ye koi film nhi hai. Uska mann aapse hat chuka hai and vo ab aapko nhi chahti, so it would be better if you filn some aim for your life and focus on it.

  110. Hi my name is trishal, main bhi baki logo ki tarah is prblm me hu… aisa nhi hai ki ladkiyo se baat krne me dr lgta hai…. main hr baar unse pahle friendship krta hu phir propose krta hu… but jb bhi kisi bhi ladki k liye dil me jagah bnti hai… vo mujhe dumb kr deti hai… tb tk unhe pta chal jata hai ki main use like krne lgaa hu….
    Prblm ye hai ki kya kisi girl ko friend se girlfriend banana galat to nhi hai…
    Plz yaar do something! Ab ek ladki hai jise main khona nhi chahta. … vo mere clg se hai…
    Ab koi tarika do jisme vo ek baar me haan bol de….
    Next month clg ki fresher party hai…
    Tell me kese bolu use…

    1. Trishal kisi ladki se jaan pehchan hona thek hai par agar had se jyada dosti kar loge to fir vo aapko pyar nhi kaegi kyunki vo aapko apne friendzone me daal legi uske baad vo aapke baare me aisa nhi sochegi, so aap jisse abhi pyar karte ho ya likhe karte ho usse thoda dur thoda pas rhi, matlab distance maintain rakhna bhut jaruri hai, uski taraf dekho baar baar agar vo bhi dekhti hai to use baat karne ke liye alag bulao and apne dil ki feelings share karo, jo bhi uske baare me sochte ho, aur I like you bol do…

  111. Hello shivshi,
    Mera ghar to Orisa me h par mai Jharkhnd Simdega me rahta hun.mere ghar ke samne. Unki ghar h, Wo Umar me choti hai mujhse, wo mujhse sarmati thi to maine usse bat karne laga mahina tak uske bad 2agust 2015 men friendship accept kar li, fir bat hoti rahi uske bad maine use ek chhota sa love later diya,
    Fir wo mujhe sms aur call men I Love You boli
    Mai bahut khush huwa really, mai usse bahut par karta hun. Only usse SMS me aur call pe bat karta hun.ghar ke samne rahte huwe bhi. Wo gharwalon se bahut darti hai. Fir mai usse bahut dur aa gya hun 4 sapta ho raha hai. Mai jab gya tab wo mujhe miss bahut ki, 1sapta ek do din bat ki fir 2saptah dono saheli sath the tab maine call kiya to uski saheli uthayi kuch bat huwa fir maine bola use phone de do.fir meri dear boli mujhe bat karne ko man nahi kar raha h. Kuch bat huwa aur boli mami aa gayi by aaj 3 Saptah ho gya bat nahi huwa h aap meri dil ki halat samaj rahi hongi. Wo mujhse bat karne nahi khoj rahi hai. Please kuch bataiye

    1. Sanjay mere khyaal se vo ab is rishte ko khatam karna chahti hai, isliye aapse peecha chudane ki kosish kar rhi hai..

  112. Hello mera naam Sagar h aur main ek ladki se pyar karta hun… wo ladki mere papa k bhai k ladke ki ladki h aur hum shaadi karna chaahte hain aur hum ek dusre ko nahi chor sakte isliye koi soch samajhkar solution batayen……!

    1. No Solution or help for Blood relationship stupid people. Rishte me vo ladki tumhari Beti jaisi lagti hai aur tum usse shadi karna chahte ho, chutiye khi ke… Duniya me aur ladki nhi mili. Kya tumhe pata nhi hai ki Hindi Dharam me khoon ke rishte me to kya 7 pushton tak kisi bhi sage sambandhi se shaadi nhi ki jaati.

  113. हेलो दोस्तोँ मेँ शिवम सिंह बघेल मैँ एक लड़की से प्यार करता हूँ शायद वह मुझसे करती है लेकिन आज तक यह बात नहीँ पता लग पा रही है जब मैन्ने पहली बार उसको प्रपोज किया था उसने मना क्योँ कर दिया था आप लोग सभी दोस्तोँ से मेरा निवेदन है कि अगर इसके बारे मेँ किसी को जानकारी हो कमेंट बॉक्स मेँ जरुर लिखेँ दोस्त मैन्ने तो ज्यादा अब कुछ देखा नहीँ मैँ तुंहारी ज्यादा उंर है लेकिन प्यार जानता हूँ मैन्ने प्यार के बारे मेँ केवल सुना था लेकिन अब पता चला कि प्यार होता क्या है सब अपने दोस्तोँ के लिए मैँ दो लाइन कहना चाहता हूँ

    Love is God love is blind but love is sweet poison

    1. Love is God… wah wah…. love is blind…. wah wah….. but love is sweet poison…. Wah bhai waah kya baat kah di, dil khush kar diya… 🙂

    2. Hi dosto mera name priya hai aur mai ek ladke se bahot pyar karti hu aur usse shadi karna chahti hu lekin ek bahot badi aur ajeeb problem hai isliye aap sb dosto ki help chahiye ki mai kya karu actually me mai jisse pyar karti hu mere rilation me aata aur meri didi ka ladka matlab mere bade chacha ki badi beti ka ladka lekin mai uske bina rah bi nahi sakti isliye aaplog plz meri kare ki mujhe kya karna chahti shivshi Ji plz mujhe shi advise dena thanks

      1. Priya ye sarasar bevkoofi hai, vo aapke blood relation me aata hai and Hindu dharam me is cheez ki permission nhi mil sakti. So stop this nonsense.

        1. lekin wo kya hai na ki last time jab mere se milne aaya tha tab maine use shadi karne ki zidd ki thi aur fir usne mere mang me (Sindoor) Dal diya aur hamne shadi kar liya……….. So plz. meri help karo mai kya karu

          1. Pagal ho gyi ho tum vo ladka bhi… Jo hua us baat ko bhul jaao, aur is baat ko yhi khatam karo, Main yhi advice de sakti hu. Kyunki iske alawa aur kuch bhi shi nhi dikhta mujhe. Tum jaise log hi apne parivar aur maa baap ka naam kharab karti ho. Sharam aani chahiye.

  114. shivshi ji mai ek ladki se bhot pyar karta hu but meri is se pehle bhi ek ladki se friendship thi us shadi ho gayi but ab jo meri gf hai maine us ko pehli mulaqat me hi sab kuchh bata diya tha to us ne mujhse thode din baad friendship karli but mai us se bhot serius hu or mai bar bar us ko kuchh na kuchh us ke achche ke liye samjha rehta hu us ki padai ke bare me puchhta rehta hu us ke future ke bare me puchta rehta hu ke wo kya banna chahati hai or uska bhi pehle ek bf tha but usne mujhe uske bare me jyada kuchh nahi bataya tha ke us ka breakup kyu hua or hamara bar bar jhagda hota rehta hai kyu ki wo kehti aap mujhe chhod do mai aap ke layek nahi hu kya aap bata sakte wo mujhse pyar karti hai ya nahi agar nahi bhi karti to use kehse apna banau kyu ki mai kisi or se friendship nahi karta chata kyu ki mai pyar sirf usse hi karta kisi or ladki se friendship karke use dhoke me nahi rakhna chata. aap bata sakte ho mai uske layek hu ya nahi

    1. Simple solution, aap kuch dino ke liye usse baat karna band kar do, totally band. Agar vo baar baar phone karti hai, msg karti hai to ek msg karke use bolo ki jab tumhe mujhme koi interest hi nhi hai to baat karne ka kya fayda… Uske baad agar ladki ke dil me aapke liye koi feling hogi to bahar aa jayegi aur agar usne kuch na kiya to aap bhi apna shi rasta pakad lena, usse aapko na pyar milne wala hai na wafa. 🙂

  115. mjhe ek ladki se pyar ho gya h ar mai us bahut pyar krta hun par use bta ni pata pr ar o mjhe kv kv dkhti v h par main apni najr hta dta hun us baat krne main v dar lgta h mam mjhe kaise pata chalega ki o v mjhe like krti h please u help me

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  116. mara naam amit hai mari ek gf hai ,mai usse bhut pyar krta hu but bo mujse juth bolti hai jiske karan hmari ek din ldai ho gyi or mane usse 5 din baat nhi ki phir ek din khud usne muje call kiya or sorry bola ab ma yeh janna chahta hu ki bo sachi ma mujse pyar krti ha ya koi or baat haan tell me plz

  117. Ek ladki mere clg m meri junior h m usko roz dekhta hu meri bt b hui usse but baad m usne mujhe block kr dia bd m ek din hamari fresher party hui ush din mene ush ladki ko kai ishare kiye to sham ko usne mujhe unblock kia nd mujhe msg kia kya? Fir mee usko direcly bol dia i like u fir usne mujhe smile send ki iska kya mtlb h jaldi btaoo…..i m waiting

    1. Iska matlab hai ladki chahti hai aap usse aur bat karo aur aap dono dost ban gaye ho…. Ache se dosti karo fir jab acha mauka mile propose kar do.

    1. Most of the time, Aise case me kuch nhi kiya ja sakta. isliye try karne ke baad bhi vo ladki mana karti hai to just leave her.

  118. my friends mera naam vijay kashyap hai aur mai 1saal se ek nisha naam ki ladki se bat karta tha vo bhi ek bar achanak mere no pe miss call kiya tha bs tabhi se ham dono dhire dhere bate karne lage aur ham dono me pyarho gaya hai ham dono kamsekam 1 sal tak bat kiya hai aur ab pta nahi uska no off ja raha hai 3 mahine se bat bhi nahi ho pa rahi hai ye kaisa pyar ho sakta hai pls tell me friends my no 8896801607

  119. hello, mai ek ladki ko bhut chahta hu, our gud newz ye h ki ab hmari saadi bhi kr rhe h bt na jaane kyo uski.kuch baate mujhe bhut hurt krti h kbi kbi, pr mai usse kuch ni khta kbi, kyoki mai use sad ni krna chahta, use takliff me nhi dekhna chahta, kuch log usse flart krte h fir bhi unki baato ka wo reply deti h mujhe samjh nhi aata.h ehsa kyo h, plzzz help.me, mai kya kru??

    1. Ashu aapko usse is baare me baat karni chahiye, agar ye soch kar aapne abhi baat nhi ki to ho sakta hai aapki zindgi stress se bhar jaaye baad me, so pls abhi baat kar lo…. Ye mat socho use bura lagega ya kuch bhi, is tarah ke reason ke karan hi jyada rishte kharab hote hai.

      1. Pyaar karti hai ya nhi… Sharam aati hai ki nhi ye kahne me… baat vaar kuch ki nhi aur sochte ho pyar karti hai ya nhi…

  120. Hi..shivani ji…
    Mai ek ladkise bahot pyar karta hu ..our mai uske piche 2 sall se laga raha hu …maine bahot bar propose kiya our usne ha bhi bola ..magr hamara .afear..ek mahina chala ..maine use tuch bhi nahi kiya ..our o bad me bolti hai ki mai tere layk nahi hu ..filing nahi ate ..ab mai kya karu shivaniji .plz hlp

    1. Vishal ladki chahti hai uska boyfriend usse romantic baate kare, usse pyar kare, use ghumane le kar jaaye kabhi use surprise gift de…. Kabhi use kiss kare…. Kya aapne ye sab kiye ?? Aapka jawab isi se aapko mil jayega… Aur touch nhi kiya, ye bhi ek bada point hai. Touch kyu nhi kiya 😉

  121. Hiii…mera ek gf h lekin main uske samne jane k bad usse bath Karne k lye muh se koi bhi word nahi nikal ti h….so,pls koi ek idea do jise main use apne dill ki bath aur usse khush dekhu hamesa

    1. Aapko bas confidence ki jarurat hai Dear, so be positive and be confident darne ki ya ghabrane ki jrurat nhi hai..

      1. hiii mera naam Rohit hai me ek ladki se bohot pyar karta hu use mene parpose bhi kiya par use love me intres nahi dosti me me intres hai me kya karu plz halp me

  122. Thanks ,shivshi . I am aman . Jaisa aapne bola tha . To maine us se baat ki. Aur us ne bola k ghar me kus problem thi , so upset thi. Aur aisi koi baat nahi hai. So I really thanks again shivshi 🙂

    1. Hahaha…… You’re Welcome Aman 🙂 Enjoy and please share this website and tips with ur friends on facebook also 🙂

  123. Hi. My self amanpreet hai. Kush time pegle meri engagement hui hai. Pehle woh ladki mere se bouhat romantic baten karti thI par . Ab nahi aur pushne par bolti hai,muje aisi batten pasand nahi hai . Shadi ko sirf 2 months reh gai hai . Mai kya karu .plz help me.

    1. Aman usse ek bar milo and usse saaf saaf ye baat bolo ki, agar koi aur baat hai.. jaise ki tum is shaadi se khush nhi ho ya fir tum kisi aur ko chahti ho to pls abhi bata do, main nhi chahta baad me koi bhi problem ho. Use bolo agar koi aisi baat hai to ise batane me tumhara bhi bhala hai aur pls daro mat. Fir bhi agar usne kaha aisi koi baat nhi hai fir usse pucho ki vo ab kam interest kyu le rhi hai…. exact reason pucho..

  124. hi..mai ek larki ko 1 mahine se folo kar raha uu par m usse bula nahi paya… to kya ab m use propos karu ya …nahi….bcos mujhe lgta h ki ab boht late ho gya h…plz hlp

    1. Are bhai propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho.. Kyi baar aisa hota hai ladke jise propose karna chahte hai usse baat karne ke baad and uski feelings and life style dekhne ke baad khud usse dur jaana chahte hai isliye pehle thoda jaan lo use fir kar dena propose…. Baat karni shuru karo jitni jaldi kar sakte ho utni.

  125. apne mujhe pehle hi bataya tha ki me jis ladki ko like karta hu use prapose karne se pehle uske sath baat karna chahiye. but uske sath baat karne ka koi chance nehi mil raha he. kyun ki uski ghar walo bahat stret hai. kya main use ek latter ki jariye i love u kehna thik hoga ??????? pls batao..

  126. Hiiie shivani ji
    Mere bldg mai ek ladki jise mai bahot like karta hu,usase friendship karne ke liye bahot maehant karni padi,fb pr uusae cht ki n friends bane. than whtsup pr bhi cht hori h
    Usae mai ne bola mai aapko like karta hu but uska ans ye tha ki muje ye sab pasnd nahi….h so mai kya kru?? Uske liye plzz batao

  127. Hiii mera ak dost hai uska naam narayn hai or usne kbi ladki nhi patayi o chahta hai but abi tk kuch hua nhi kya krna chahiye use ..handsm hai but sarmila v hai

    1. Hahaha.. Narayan hai Raja..?? 😛
      Dekho ladki patane ke liye bhut saari baaton ka khyal rakhna padta hai jo main ek do din me share karungi site par, tab padh lena jarur.

      1. hi…. maira nam anil h. maira ek frend h vh shop mai kam krta h. jha vha kam krta h use vha ek ldki h jo month mai 3 ya 4 bar us shop mai aati h or maira frend us ko like krta h bhut us se bat krne ki kosis krta h pr kr nai pta ap btao vh us se bat keshe kre…

        1. Aapko friend yaani ki aapko sirf himmat karne ki jarurat hai aur kuch nhi. Himmat karke Hi bolo and baat shuru ho jaati hai..

          1. Mere ghar ke samne ek girl rehti h or wo meri taraf dekhti h or mai bhi uski taraf dekhta hun lekin wo mujhse thodi umar mai chhoti h mene kabhi usse baat bhi nahi ki h wo meri taraf dekhti h jese hi mai dekhta hun chehra neeche kar leti h kese pata karun wo bhi mujhe pasand karti h

  128. Hii…shivshi mujhe ek ladki pasand the….or Maine usse propose kr diya hhh or usne Haan bol di hhh pr Maine phone pr kabhi kisi ladki s bat nh ki m usse kya bat kru or wo drti bahut h me usse bato s kese impress kru…

    1. Uski pasand, na pasand apni pasand napasand ki baate karo fir uski family ki fir apni family ki baate karo… Jab mauka mile tab bhi aur na mile tab bhi uski tareef karte rha karo..

  129. Mere ghar ke pas ek ladki rehtihe.me use pyar karta hu.per hum dono ek dushre se kabhi baat nehi kiya he.me jab bhi uski age jata hu wo hamesha meri taraf dekhti rehti he.kya me use direct prapose karna thik hoga ? Ek ladiko agar prapose kiya jaye kya wo apni ghar walo se bataegi ki usko ek ladka i love u bola????????????? Pls reply me……

  130. Hi shivishi, muje to kisi b qisum ki larkiyon k pachay janey ka shoq hi nahi hai aur na muje larkiyon k barey mey koi tension hoti hai ager koi esay hi g.f ban jaye to thiek hai warna muje kisi ko purpose krna shoq hi nahi hai. please reply me

    1. Reply ??? Kis baat kat ka reply karu? Aapne kuch pucha to hai nhi bas apni ram khani sunayi hai 😀 😛

  131. hii. shivshi, kuch year ago maine ek ladki se pyar kiya, mai use bhut chahta tha o v mujhe chahti thi but humdono achanak hi rista tut gya or uski saadi ho gai.. mujhe a samajh nahin ki achanak o mujhse dur kyon chali gai agar pyar nahi tha to bta diya hota.. me use bhut yaad karta hoon…

    1. Haan use batana to chahiye tha, ye vo galti hai jo aaj kal bhut saari girls boys ke saath karti hai, but this is wrong.

  132. Shivshi GI…….jesa aaap kahe ab se me use tabhi dekhu ga ….jab me kuch ban jaau…….aur …..use lage ki mujhe na apna kar usne kitni badi galti ki hi…….aur aap me kaha tha na ki kuch Bano to Bas me ab kuch ban k dikhau ga………

    1. Good, hum sabko life me pahle kuch banne ki sochna chahiye fir aur dusre kaam ki taraf dhyan dena chahiye.

  133. Mere college m meri ek senior pasand a gyi ab m use gf kese bnao uska ek bf tha but uski deth ho gyi to usne do ladko ka prapose reject kr diya ab btao m kya karo pleae give me solution

  134. Shivshi GI……..me uske baare me kuch ESA nhi bowl sakta par WO …..apni life me jin ladko ke pass bike hi ….car hi…..WO unko baar baar dekhti hi…..par mere pass ye San nhi hi…..par me uski bhut care karta hu……….

  135. Hii sivani
    mujhe ak aisi gf chahiye jo mujhe smjh ske mujhse pyaar krey
    pr kisi ko mai achha hi ni lgta jane kyu
    mai kya kru kuch smjh ni aata

  136. Nhi shivshi ……esa he hi……warna kal usne mujhe u bilkul nhi Kaha hota……me use bhut payar karta hu…..but WO mujhe bilkul bhi like nhi karti …..me kya karu …….i dnot know …….par me use bhut chata hu………?

    1. Agar vo aapko like nhi karti to aapko use aisa jawab dena chahiye jise dekh kar use ehsaas ho ki usne aapko na apnakar kitni badi galti ki… Aap apne aap ko successful banane ke liye din raat ek kar do, itne safal bano ki dekhne waala kahe yaar Surendra ki kya life hai. Apni beshkeemti zindgi ka shi upyog karo, kisi aisi ladki ke chakkar me barbad mat karo jo aapko apne samne dekh kar muh ghuma le. Pls _/\_

  137. Hi shivshi hw r u
    Me ek ladki ko bhut chahta hu mera 2 saal se relation h uske saath ..hum dono ek dusre se bhut pyaar krte h .ek din mene kuch Galt shabd bol diye use ..usne do din baad usne apna naya boyfriend bana liya ..mene uske friend se request bhi ki PR vo nhi mana.or apni gf se bhi bola mujhe maaf kr de PR vo bhi nhi Mani.beech me body rrelationship hone k baad bhi usne mujhe chhod diya kya vo mujhe yaad krti hogi relationship break hue one year ho gya h PR mujhe aisa lagta h jaise kal ki hi baat ho .
    Uth the baith te wahi yaad ati me us se abhi bhi utna hi pyar krta hu ..us din se hum dono nhi mile ..
    Shivshi ji kya vo mujhe pyar kregi …ya kya use meri yaad ati hogi …

    1. Om Prakash kya bevkoofo waali baate karte ho aap log, jis ladki ne aapko itni bejaati ki aur ek choti si baat par aapko chod kar chali gyi uske liye itna kyu soch rhe ho aap. Bhaad me jaane do use. Are yaar aap log please apni life aise kisi faltu ke liye barbaad mat karo, zindgi me kuch banne ke liye kuch karo, kuch nhi hai in baato me.

  138. Shivshi Gi…..mine aap se phale pucha tha ki…….mujhe koi ladki pasnd nhi karti…….uski vajaha ye hi ki ……meri hight chooti hi……..par payar me too kuch bhi nhi dekha jata …..to fer mere saat he ESa kyu bowlo ………? I wait for ur reply

    1. Aisa kisne kha Pyar me kuch nhi dekha jaata, aisa ya to filmo me hota hai ya kisse khaniyon me. Real life me aisa 1% bhi nhi hota aur agar hota bhi hai to problems hi hoti hai.

  139. Hi princess
    Mera ek sawal hai
    Mai ek new jagah shift hua hu waha ek ladki mere ghar ke samne rahti hai wo bhi aur mai issaro me baate karte hai but jab mai usse kuch dene ki koshis karta hu to wo mana karti hai
    Aur kabhi kuch banati hai to hamare ghr bhejti hai
    Mai kya karu
    I love her

  140. Mam me ek ladki ko dekhne gaya but bcs of some prblm rishta jama nhi ..but mujhe wo bahut pasand ayi use clg me mila wo kehti hai me apne gharwalo ki marji se shadi krungi..usne fb pe request bhi decline kar di aur usne apna fb acount delet kar diya but my sense saying she likes me ..ladki apni pasand se shadi karti hai ya gharwalo ki pasand se?

  141. Hlo mam how r u maine yhe kya pu6 liya ap to also f9 hoge.

    yr meri peroblem yhe hai k mai vase to ladkiyo k pe6e bhaagta nahi hu par yhe ladkiya he mujhe phale bhav dete hai or fer mi unke pe6e lag jata hu to vo mujhe ignore karte hai plz ans. Me mi esa kya karu jo ladki mujhe ignore na kare

    1. Use impress karo, agar ldki aapko bhav deti hai to aapko usse baat karni chahiye with confidence. Ldki jab aapko bhaav deti hai to vo aapko check kar rhi hoti hai and uske baad bhi agar aap kuch nhi karte bas use dekhte rahte hai to vo samajh jaati hai ki is bande me dum nhi hai.

  142. shivshi ur really very great n sweet girl
    main to apka fan hogaya
    kash har ladki app ki tarah hoti
    main to apki tarif kis lbjo me karu mujhe samajh nahi ara
    ur reallly gr8

    1. Thank U so much Shubham… 🙂
      Hamesha apni life me apni family and Mammi Papa ko sabse upar rakhna, chahe situation koi bhi ho. Best of Luck 🙂

        1. Har ladki ki pasand alag hoti hai par agar aapke baal ache se kate ho and theek se manage kiya ho to sab shi hai.

  143. hi mam,
    mam koi ladki agar kisi ladke se pyar karti hai to wah kya signal deti hai… wo ladki uss ladke ko dekh kar kaise react karegi.

    1. Vo har waqt use dekhne ki kosish karegi, jab use dekhegi to use dekhti hi rahegi aur najro se najre milayegi, bar baar ladke ki taraf dekhegi.. aur bhi bhut se signal ho sakte hai.

      Aapko konsa signal mil rha hai ? 😛

  144. Hi…shivshi,
    Meri to story hi kuch alag hai, 5 mahine pehle meri engagement hui thi, (arrange marriage) mujhe ldki bohot pasand h, pyar b krta hu usse. Pr mujhe lgta h vo mujhe pyar nhi krti.
    Engagement k baad 2-3 mahine tk hum bohot baaten kiya krte the, but pichle 2 mahino se vo mujhse thik se baat nhi krti, call krta hun to maximum times yahi bolti h that I m tired , sir me dard h, etc..
    Wattsapp pe yahi reply hote han, mujhse thodi der baat krke gud nit bol degi, or uske baad bhi 2-3 hrs tk wattsapp pe online rhegi. Me kisi b tarah ki baat krun, to uska 1 hi excuse hoga….irritate mt kro…plz help me…and sujjest me, me usko kese treate kru….

    1. Veer aap usse is baare me direct baat karo, use pucho ki uska behaviour change hone ka real reason jo bhi hai aapko bataye, aapse chupaye nhi. Use btao ki agar koi bhi problem hai ya vo ye shaadi nhi karna chahti to abhi bata de taki baad me aap dono ki life tabah na ho. Veer I know ye bat karna thoda tough hai but ye aapki life ka swal hai so ise ignore mat karo.

      1. Mai ek shadi me ek ladki sa mila or vo mujaha pasand aag gay or mai bhi usa pasand hu or usna mera phone number leya ,so main dadeya but main usa shirf ek week bat ke or ab ek munth se jada ho gaya call kya usna phone bund kar rbkha h to mea kya kru? Kya us ka phone ka intzar kru ? My number 9458418563 & 9456962681 plece tell me

        1. Ab aapke pass koi or option bhi to nahi hai wait kjarne ke ilawa, lekin aap usse fb par touch rhene ki koshish kar saakte hai.

  145. Hi shivshi… Meri ekk frnd he. Usko me love krta hu. Yeh baat usko bhi pata he. Bt. Wo mujhe seriously nhi leti he.

  146. Hello, shivshi
    Me ek ladki ko pasand karta hun problem ye he ki wo doosre batch me he or me doosre me pahle me usi k batch me tha 3din tak lekin fir me alag ho gaya lekin jab me uske batch me tha tab me use dekhta tha or vo bhi mujhe dekhti thi lekin ab batch alag ho gaya to mujhe samajh nahi aa raha me kya karun please help me shivashi

    1. Usse baat karo, agar jaldi hi aapne usse baat karna shuru nhi kiya to vo aapko bhul jayegi. Bas Hi karo aur kkuch bhi baat karo like study ke regarding ya kuch bhi. Fir Facebook par friend bano ya no. lo but baat continue rakhna fir acha sa move bana kar use propose karna chaho to kar dena.

  147. Ek ladki meri gali mai rehti h i like her, wo bi mukhe dekhti h notice krti h ye to confirm hai, ,mai islie bat start nhi kar rha ki kahi wo ghr pe na bol de ya uski sis na bol de ghr pe, , mai usse direct baat kru ??ya frnd ke through, , aur agr direct kru to kya kru

    1. Friend ke through kabhi baat nhi karni chahiye, aur itna risk to lena hi padta hai… Agar koi risk nhi lena chahte to kuch nhi banne waala.

  148. me Ak ladki ko like karta hu 6 machine se use bat ho rhi he PR vo mere propose ka jawab hi nhi de rhi kya karna chahiye ab

  149. Hi men , ek ladki ke sath mera chalta that ab mujhe dusari mil gai hai ..pahali wali kahati hai mujhe chhodoge jahar kha lungi mai. . mai usase kaise pichha chhudau ,help me

    1. Hahahaha….. aise kaam karoge to aisa hi hoga, kuch time ke liye pahli waali ko ye mat bolo ki tum use chod rhe ho par usse baat karna bilkul kam kar do, jab vo phone kare to uthao mat aur bas message kar do busy hu fir vo jo marji message kare use reply mat karo. Din me kisi aise time use phone karo jis time vo phone nhi utha sakti. Is tarah se duriya badh jayegi aur vo samajh jayegi ki ab is rishte me kuch rakha nhi hai.

  150. Shivshi ji mujhe aap ki ye such bahut pasand aai ye sab comment padkar laga ki aapki soch bahut badi ya aapka dimag bahut tej chalta hai or aapka carecter bhi achha hoga I min salam karta hu me aapki such ko / Vese mujhe bhi vishal soch vale log bahut pasand hai.

  151. hi madam i need ur help.
    I love & like a girl very honestly.
    Meri roj usse whatsapp pe baat bhi hoti h.
    Maine use purpose bhi mar diya h lekin wo mzaak m leti h mere purpose ko, jb m zor de k puchhta hu to khti h tum itne serious kyo ho, lekin m kbhi kbhi sochta hu chhod du use lekin uska msg phir aa jata h aur care dikha deti h (jaise khana khaya ya nhi, kya kr rhe ho etc)

    M confuse hu m kya kru?? Plz help me

    1. Kuch dino ke liye ek dum se usse baat karna band kr do, vo msg karke puchegi ki tum baat kyu nhi kar rhe pahle to kuch jawab hi mat do aur jab vo tadap ke puchne lage to use bolo ki mai tumhe seriously like karta hu but jab tumhare dil me koi feeling hi nhi hai to kya fayda baat karne ka. Fir jo bhi uske dil me hoga vo sach sach bta degi.

      1. Maine usse 3 din tak baat nhi ki aur kal raat usne puchha ki bol kyu ni rhe maine reply ni kiya fir khti kast baar puchh rhi hu maine fir bi reply ni kiya fir usne likha “ok byy m ab apko msg ni krungi kbi promise” ab batao m kya kru?

  152. M kisi se pyar krta hu wo bhi nujhse pyar karti h pr mujhe asa lgta ki wo mujhe dokha de rahi h bewafai kr rahi h ab wo Bewfa h ya nahi eska kese pta karu plz help

  153. hi shivshi apki bato se muje pehli baar koi ladki me intrest aaya he wo aap ho apko ye baat pasand aaye ya na aaye muje nahi pata but mene b kahi padha he ya suna he zindagi ek baar milti he har pal yaha ji bhar jiyo jo he sama kal ho na ho aap kaha se he muje nahi pata hum ek dusre se bohat dur he or ye kya he muje nhi pata but me mera no. De raha hu ho sake to baat kar lena.

  154. Hi, mein Ek ladki se behad pyar krta hu. (one sided )
    hamari Dosti mere office me hi shuru hui thi or jab hum milte the toh ache se baat b karti thi lekin jab usko pata chala k mein usse pyar krta hoon ye baat mere kisi frnd ne usko bata thi jab se usne mujhe kaha ki
    office mein ye jo bakwas ho rahi h na ( Apne bare me ) usse band kar Do , fir meine hi usse kaha ki Yadi mere karan se Aapko koi Dikkat h toh mein Aapse baat nahi karunga bus Itna kaha tha
    uske kuch Dino bad usne office Aana band ( Resign)
    De Diya tha

    lekin mera Dil abhi bhi use pata nahi kyo yaad krta h uzki yaad hi Aati rehti h

    mein kya kru k uski yaad na Aayw

    1. Kaam karo, Busy rho, Apni zindgi ka koi target set karo and uske liye kaam karo din rat sab kuch bhul kar.

  155. All frndsss life mein kuch bn k dikhao…..
    Khud ba khud tumhare sakdo chahne wale bn jayengiiii…
    Tb tumhare chahne walon ke itne bheed hogi ke Aap khud samjh jayenge…
    Humesa bdi soch rakho……

  156. Hello Mam!Mera ek girlfriend hain jo mutse bohut sharmati hei.Sharmake mere pass bhi nehi ati.main kya karu jisse wo mere samne aane ko nehi sharmaye?

    1. Usse pyar bhari baate karo and ruth jaao… Use bolo tum to mere paas bhi nhi aati, Main tumse baat nhi krunga…

  157. meri sadi 7manth pahle se ek ladki se lag chukee hai.or 3manth se mai unse baat karta hu par hamesa ladai hota hai
    or wo naraj ho jati hai
    galti meri ho ya uski
    sorry hme bolna padta hai
    or mai use call na karu to uska ek bhi call nahi aayega.per mai use bahut like karta hu
    koi upaye bataye plzZ…

    1. Sahil Shaadi se pahle usse ye baat ek baar theek se jaan lo ki khi uska koi affair to nhi chal rha. Kyunki aisa behave ladki tabhi kar sakti hai. Usse pyar se baat karo and pucho taaki baad me aapki married life me koi problem na ho 🙂