Jaise ki hum sabhi jante hi hai, ki ladkiyo se unki tareef karte raho bus usse wo khush hai chahe jhuth pe jhuth bolte raho. Use baar baar realize karwate raho ki aap uski kitni care karte Ho. Bhale hi aap ne subhah se kuch na khaya ho but use puchte raho khana khaya. Unhe majakiya ladke pasand hote hai, majak se unka time paas karte raho. Lakiyon ko emotional or boring baatein bilkul pasand nahi aati. Jaha aap ne emotional or boring baatein karna shuru ki to ladki bhi hath se nikalna shuru ho jayegi. Aaye kuch or baatein jaante hai jo ladkiyo ko hashi majak ke ilawa bhi pasand hai or achi lagti hai.

Ladkiyo Ko Kya Acha Lagta Hai

Ladkiyon Ko kya Pasand Ata Hai

Unki Tareef 

Ladkiyo ki jum ke tareef kare ye hi unhe sabse jyada acha lagta hai. Unke kapdo ki tareef kare or itni jyada bhi na kare ki unhe lage aap unka majak uda rahe ho. Respect har ladki ke liye sabse important cheez hoti hai. Aap unhe agar respect denge to unhe aapke sath ya friend banne me koi pareshani nahi hogi.

Hygienic (Saaf Sutre)

Ladkiyo Ko saaf sutri cheez pasand hoti hai, chahe unhe khud safai karna pasand na ho par cheez unko saf sutri chahiye. Par agar hum ladkiyo ki pasand unki pasand ki ladko me dekhte hai to har ladki ki apni apni pasand hoti hai. Jaise safai ka matlab yahan ye nahi hai ki ladki ko daddi ya muche (beard or moustache) wale ladke pasand nahi hai. Ho sakta hai ki kuch ko clean shave wale ladke pasand ho or kisi ko halki ya ghani daddi wale.

Well mannered 

Ladkiyo ko ye bilkul bhi pasand nahi hai ki koi unke ageh piche gujarte hue comment pass kare ya unhe goorte rahe. Agar aap aise ladko ki sangat me jo ati jati har ladki ko comment pass karte hai, to aapka har ladki par bad impression padega, chahe aapne comment kiya ho ya na kiya ho.

Ghumna Firna

Ladkiyo ko ghumne ka bahut shok hota hai, or jab koi paise wala boyfriend ho to fir to unki kismat hi khul jati hai. Boyfriend ka paisa udana sari ladkiyo ka kaam nahi hota, par han unhe ghoomna sach much bahut pasand hota hai.

Shopping Karna 

Ghumne Ke ilawa ladkiyo ko shopping karne ka bahut shok hota hai. Tv par new cheeze dekh ke sidha shopping ke liye chal padti hai. Cheeze sasti bhi hogi fir rate kam karwana unhe bahut pasand hai. Agar aap boyfriend hone naate unhe menhgi cheeze bhi dilate ho to unhe wo bhi pasand hota hai.

Masti Majak

Girls ko chipku or emotional type ke ladke bilkul bhi pasand nahi ate. Unko wohi ladke ache lagte hai jo unka time-pass kare or unse masti majak se kare. Lekin agar majak jyada hadd tak ho jaye to unhe bura lagne me derr nahi lagti or mooh fula leti hai. Isiliye har cheez ek hadd tak hi kare, nahi to aapko bahut sehna padh sakta hai.

Special Feel Hona

Jab Ladkiyan roti hai ya naraz hoti to unko koi manaye wo unko acha lagta hai. Wo apne aapko safe feel karti hai, jab aapko unko unki kamar se pakad kar najdik late hai or jab ye kahenge ki “everything is gonna be all right” tab to wo apki deewani ho jayegi. Ladkiyo ko special feel hona behad pasand hai agar aap unke maathe(forhead) par kiss kare wo bhi apne sabhi friends ke samne to unko ye ehsaas hota ki aap unki sach much me kitni care karte hai.

Pampered Feel Hona

Ladkiyo ko pasand hai lad pyaar, aap agar unse gusse me ye tej aawaz me baat karenge to wo aapko bilkul bhi pasand nahi karegi. Agar aap unki har choti se lekar badi baat ka khayal rakhenge to unhe aapko friend se boyfriend bnane me derr nahi lagegi.

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Meri ek Friend h jisse mai bahut pasand krta hu, aur mujhe usse pyar ho gya h. Mai usse hamesh baat krta rehta hu, wo bhi krti rehti h, mere bare m her ek jankari rakhti h, but mujhe nhi ptta ki o mujhse love krti h ki nhi, kaise ptta kru????

  2. me gaav me rhta hu aur meri chimni ..matlab meri gf .. bhi mere gaav me hi rehti he mere ghar ke smne ..to me usse bahute hi pyar krta hun wo bhi bahute pyar krti he mujhse par hamara gaav hame jine nhi deta gaav ke log bahut khadus he unko pyar vyar smjh nhi ata …meri chimni ko me subah shyam dekhata hu to me usse bolne ki koshish karta hu ishare se to koi na koi dekhata he hume aur usski maa ko jake batate he log ….fir uska bhai use marta he mujhe bahut tention ata he .me bahut rota hu rat ko nind nhi ati ..hamare payar ko 4 saal ho gaye he ..uske bhai ne mujhe bhi mara tha ..par me meri chimni se bahut pyar krta hu ji hum ek dusre ke bina nhi ji skte agar hum alag ho gaye to sachmuch mr jayenge me usko chodkar kahi nhi jata kaam nhi krta ghar me betha rehta hu sirf aur sirf use dekhta hu..par ek bahut problem he hamara surname ek hi he kya kare samjh me nhi ata surname ek hone se hamari shadi nhi ho skti … ji me aaj bahute serious ho gaya hu ..meri chimni ko aur mujhe bahut taklif hoti he .. shivshi ji aapko meri kahani batane me bahut time lagega meri love stori sunkar aap ki ankho me aasu aa jayenge ….to pls shivshi ji kuch madad kre apka bada ehsan hoga hampar ..hamari bhasha marathi he ..english to bilkul hi nhi ati isliye simple hindi bhasha me javab dijiye pls pls pls pls

    1. Dekho Balu tumhari jo problem hai uska koi solution nahi hai. Last me hona yahi hai ki ya to aap apne ghar waalon ki sunoge ya fir apne man ki par dear friend aapko ye baat samajhni hogi ki isi ka naam to zindagi hai… Zindagi me hume humari pasand ki cheez mile ye jaruri to nahi. Jab maine tumhari story padhi to mujhe khud meri purani life yaad aa gyi….
      Main samajh sakti hu ki tum bhut pyar karte ho aur uske liye preshan ho par jo mere saath hua uske samne tumhara dukh kuch bhi nhi hai par dekho fir bhi Main aaj theek hu aur tumse baat kar rhi hu. Tum kahi galat nahi ho par tum galti kar rhe ho, tumhe kaam dhandhe me lagna chahiye aur apna dhyan uski taraf se hatana chahiye. Jab tumhe pata hai ki koi cheez possible hi nhi hai to uski kosish mat karo. Mujhe pata hai ye kehna bhut asan hai par karna bhut muskil par yakeen maano isse bhut jyada takleef waali cheez log roj karte hai. Aap bhi kar sakte ho. Bas apne aap ko kam dhandhe me lagao aur busy ho jaao..

  3. Ye btao agr hmari partner kahin bahar ghumne jati h jb vo vapas aaye to use kya gift dena chahiye jis se unko khushi ho bhut

  4. Me ladki se pyar karta hu….
    Maine use prepose bhi kar diya….

    Uske dil me kya he….ye kaise pataa lagaauu ……

    Plz kuch accha sa sajention de…
    My num. 8962496414

    plz help me

  5. Hello .
    Ji mene abhi smart kese bne ye search kiya google pe
    Vha apka blog khul gya niche releted post bhi pde jese ldki kese ptaye ldkiyo ko kya aacha lgta h

    N bhut sari problems ki answer bhi pde
    Ji meri bhi ak problem h
    Pr vo na gf ki nhi kuch aur hi h bhut alg
    Pta nhi kya kru

    Kya ap meri mddt kroge kuch tips deke
    Ap sbki krte ho
    To
    Please

  6. Ik ladki hai .jo mujhe whatsapp pe mili thi. Thoda chat karne k saat kahti hai k .. plz chat mat karo … Aur kuch bolta hun to block kar deti hai … Aur dusre din .. unblock karti hai … n 1st wahi dot (.) Symbol bhejti hai … mai kuch kahun to kahti hai k .. galti se gaya… and love show me intrest nh bolti hai ….. Aur bahiya kah k bulati hai … ab mai use kaise impress karu.?

    1. Miss mujhe girls me koi intrest nhi he bicouse me apni padhai par consented kr raha hu
      Bt friend are calling mi loser
      Me kya karu

      1. Let they say whatever they have to say, unki baaton par dhyan na do. Aapko pata hona chahiye kya sahi hai aur kya galat aur aapko sahi karna hota hai. Aap bilkul sahi raste par ho aur jo log aisi baat kar rhe hai vo abhi mature nhi huye hai (dimag se). So unki baaton ko seriosly mat lo aur apni life ka target achieve karne ke liye mehnat karo. Jab successful person banoge to vhi dost kahenge- “Kya Bhai teri to Life badal gyi yaar.” This is truth of life, live with it. 🙂

  7. hellow shivshi……… my self vikas
    i am 12th standard student…….

    such kahu toh mujhe bachpan se hi mere frnds meri insult aur bezati karte aarahe hai kahi bhi aur kabhi bhi.

    Mera ek dost hai ishan jo ki wo class ka popular ladka hai aur wo meri bahot bezati aur insult karta hai mai usse bahot paresan hu.

    mai usse jitna dur rehne ki kosis karta hu toh wo mere har bar paas aake mujhse baatein karke meri bezati aur insult kar deta hai.

    Aur mai kisi ko kuch bol bhi nhi pata isiliye mere frnds bhi mera faeda uthate hai.

    kabhi kabhi to ishan class ki girls ke saamne bhi meri insult aur bezati kar deta hai jiske chalte class ki ladkiyan mujhe stupid aur looser samajhne lage hai.

    ab batao yar shivshi…………..

    MAIN KYA KRU
    PLEASE

      1. yall meri frnd h vo bhut gussa h mujhe yaha tk ki vo bt b ni krti ab to mujhse qki mera ex bf tha vo doubling tripling kr raha tha or maine unki chat pd li thi jism likha tha ki uski or b gf h or vo mere sath serious b ni tha tall to maine us ldke ko bhut suna di or us ladke ne use mns meri frnd ko bta dia ab vo meri frnd naraz h yall kya kru or vo meri bsti thi ..
        . 🙁

  8. hey meri ek gf haii.. jo bahut beautiful or cute hai… but mjhe aisa feel hota hai mai utna handsome nhi like uske level ka.. but firr v usne mere proposal accept kr lia.. i want to that she really loves me or not.. plzz tell me

  9. Hi shivshi ji may ladki Se bahut pyar karta hu May Uske liye apne Jaan bhi de sakta hu ab aap Jaan Chuki ho gye may Kitna pyar karta hu use u mujhe pyar karte hai ya nahi Ye mujhe nahi maalum h par Maine usko purpose kiya hu usne kaha ke May kisi aur se pyar karte hu par mujhe sak h ke u kisi aur se pyar nahi karte h may kaise Bata laga u ke u mujhe pyar karte h ya nahi

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  10. Hiii shivshi mai ek Ladki ko chahta ho or vo meri tarf dekhati bi nahi hai par EK bar Maine us se puCha tha ki kya tum mere se frndshep karo gi par wo Boli nahi tu ap bataoo ab mai kya karu – PAR MAI USE BAHUT PYAR KARTA HU MAI KYA KARU

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  11. Hello meri ek gf hai hum sath mai 3 year rahe bt ab wo mera se uska intrst khtm hota Ja rha hai mera sakh ki wajh se Humra rose Jaghda Hota hai Or muje yeh lagta hai wo kisi or se relationship. mai Hai Ab humari bat bhi band Ho gyi Bt muje koi or bhi mil gyi hai phir bhi muje uski yaad ati hai plzz Help.mee

  12. Hiii shivshi mai ek larki ko chahta ho or vo meri tarf dekhati bi nahi hai par ek bar Maine us se pusha tha ki kya tum mere se frndshep karo gi par wo Boli nahi tu ap bataoo ab mai kya karu

  13. Hi ,mai ek ldki ko psnd krta hu hum dono ka ghr aane samne gali me hai,hm mrng me cochng jate h to hm dono ek sath gali se nikle hai ,hm ek dusro ko dekhte bhi h ,bt bat age nhi badhti,kya karu? Plz help!

    1. Apni personality achi bana kar confidence ke saath uski taraf dekho, use notice karwao ki aap use dekh rhe hp… 2-3 baar eye contact hua to jaa kar Bindas andaaz me Hi bolo, darna bilkul mat aur na hi nervous hona. Usse koi choti si baat karna smile ke saath and thanks bol kar baat khatam karna, next day fir koi baat karna halki fulki and last me uski halki si tareef kar dena, next day no. mangna jarur degi (agr dene waali hogi to) 🙂

  14. Hiiiiii shivshi iam arun main aapse ek baat ktna chahta hu ek baar meri class mein ladki hai uska naaam hai ritika aap meri sister jaisi ho main aapse kuch jhuth nhi bolunga main 9th std main padta hun ek baar vo ladki sidiyon se gir gayi thi aur uska par main sprain aa gya tha aur maine uski help ki thi kya vo mujhse dosti kregi uska brother mera best friend hai uski ladai hui thi kisi ladke ke saath toh aapko toh pta hoga amritsari means punjabi apne dosto ke liye jaan de dete hain toh kya vo mujhse friendship kregi please reply me fast

  15. Yaar shivi aap ke idias bahut hi best hi .like a export .so thanks for halping everyone .aap ke rply me lago ke emotiton dikhte h .fillings dikhi h .so very good job .yaar kaise karleti ho ya sab .stdy & logo ki halpe so nice .you r realy great . Love you .

    1. Are itna sochte nhi hai, bas uske saamne ja kar bolo… `Hi…` vo bolegi `Hi…` bas fir puch lo, aapka no. milega? vo bolegi kyu? Aap bola, bas yun hi aapse baat karni hai. Vo mana kar degi fir kuch din use aate jaate dekhte rho… nain mataka karte rho aur kuch dino bad fir se ja kar bolo, yaar mujhe aap bahut pasand ho… Bas aise hi baat shuru ho jaati hai.. 🙂

  16. Yar aap jo bhi mujhe nahi but 1 problem h muhhe bhi vo meri gf nahi h dost h uska brithday h me usko kiya gift du usko na clothes chahiye jewellery vagera bol rahi kujh khash jo aj tak kisi ne deni nahi sochi ho bato kiya su plz

  17. hii,
    mera name gatik hai mere saath ek probalm ye hai ki main apni gf se bhot pyar karta hun ham 1-2week me.milte bhi rahte hai and jab bhi milte.hai 1-2 kissing bhi ho jaati hai per problam ye hai ki wo mere saath jyda time spend nahi karti so mam please help

    1. Iska koi jawab nhi, sabki pasand alag alag hoti hai. Personality achi honi chahiye vo behad jaruri hai tab jyada wajan badhta hai impression ka 😉

  18. Ladki 100 % Mein 90 % Girls Matlabi Hote Hai ..Apni Matlab Ke Liye Kisi Ko Vi Use Karte Hai.. Koi Ladki Aaysa Hai Uska Already Boyfriend Hai Jisko Woh Jaan Se Vi Ziyada Pyar Karta Hai. .Par Woh Uski Khushi Ke Liye Dusra Ladka Ko Apni Taraf Late Hai…Srif Khushi Ke Liye. ..Please Khud Ki Khushi Ke Liye Dusro Ki khushi Barbaad Maat Karo. DOSTI Love Friendship Yeh Sab Jutta Relationship Kar Ke Kiya Milta Hai ..Pyar Se Kisi Se Kuch Vi Mang Lo Koi Dega Yeh Jutta Relationship Q Karte Ho. .Cerzy Girls

  19. Meri gf hai . Me uska care b rakta hu laad pyar b bohot daita hu . Usko jis Chz sa manna karta hu manna nai hotti har bath pa mu bnati haiii .jo b us say gar ma lary gusa muj pa utharti hai ma kia karuuu???

    1. Aapne ek aisi tension pal rakhi hai jiska koi matlab nhi hai, if you’re not happy in a relationship then try to fix the point aur agar fir bhi theek nhi hota to end the relationship. Sabse pahle apni khushi ki socho fir kuch aur.

    1. Ho sakta hai vo aapse pyar hi na karta ho, aap uske piche ho isliye vo aapse tab baat kar leta ho jab aap usse baat karti ho. Pahle aap ye pta karo ki vo aapse pyar karta bhi hai ya nhi..

      1. u r right aap sahi bol rhe h said wo aap se pyar nhi krta hoga or aap uske pichhe pade honge isly jab aap usko call krte h tavi bat krta h agr wo aap se pyar krta to jarur call krta agr bls nhi rhta to misscall to jarur krta wo aap k sath time pass kr rha h…