Girlfriend Se Bahut Pyar Karta Tha Par Vo Chod Ke Chali Gayi. Dost Majak Udate Hai, Kya Karu?

Dil totna duniya ki sabse worst feeling hai par aapko iss baat ko jitna jaldi ho sakta hai uthna jaldi accept kar lena chahiye hai yeh aapke liye acha hai. Bahut log break up alag alag way mein handle karte hai koi rota hai, toh koi akele rehta hai koi apne aapko barbad kar deta hai par aapko apne breakup ko bahut maturely handle karna chahiye hai.

मैं एक लड़की को प्यार करता  हूँ पर वो  मुझे छोड़करचली गयी  हैं, मैं क्या करूँ?

Aap kisi ke sath relationship mein the aapko ussse bahut pyar hoga which is OK but jab woh insaan aapko chod kar chala gaya hai toh aapki life khatam nahi hui hai bas aapki life se ek insaan kam hua hai… uske alawa aapki life mein bahut sare log hai jo aapko pyar karte hai jo unconditionally aapke liye sab kuch kar sakte hai aapke parents aapko dhukhe dekh kar woh kitna hurt hote hoge aapne kabhi socha hai? Hum aapko kuch fantastic tips dete hai jisse aap apne breakup ko ek smart tarike se handle kar sakte hai.

  1. Stay Present

Stay Present

Jo hua bahut bura hua shayad life ka sabse bura time but aapko apne aap ka bahut dhiyan rakhna hoga aur move on karna hoga jitna jaldi aap iss baat se deal kar lege utna acha hai kyunki ab aap jitna marzi roo lein woh wapis nahi ane wali hai ek baar dil khul kar role aur yeh soch lein ki yeh last time hai jab aap roye hai. Aap aaj dekhe kal jo hua bhulna asan toh nahi hai par phir bhi koshish kare yahi ek way hai jisse aap apne aapko safe kar sakte hai aur jab tak aap nahi apne aapko thik karege baki kaise apse deal karege. Present mein rahe logo ke bech rahe ghar walo ke sath rahe akele bikul na baithe jisse aapka dhiyan wapis wahi jaiye apne aas pas logo ko rakhe hase muskuraye zindagi kisi ke liye rukhti nahi hai aur un logo ke liye toh aap apni shandar zindagi toh bilkul na kahrab kare jo aapki life mein ab hai nahi aap apne Ex se zayada acha deserve karte hai hamesha yaad rakhe.

2. Learn Laugh On Yourself

Learn Laugh On Yourself

Jab aapke dost aapka mazak udate hai toh aap bhi unke sath mazak mein shamil ho jaiye aur zor zor se hasse isse aapke dost aapka mazak banna band kar dege aur aapko support karenge isse aap apne doston ke sath rehege aur aapko apne mind distract  karne mein help milegi. Ek dost hi hote hai jo aapke aise time par kaam ate hai jab wahi dost aapka mazak udate hai toh bahut dukh hota hai baat yeh hoti hai ki gf ka jana itna painful nahi hota hai jitna hum usko bana dete hai humko bas kisi ek insaan ki bahut zayada adat ho jati hai tabhi hum aisa lagta hai ki sab khatam ho gaya hai par actual mein aisa kuch nahi hota hai yeh baat dusare feel kar sakte hai aap nahi. Kuch time baad aapko bhi yeh baat samajh ajati hai.

3. Make Yourself Busy

Make Yourself Busy

Aap jitna ho sakta hai utna aapne aapko busy rakhe aur aapne dreams ko pura karne mein lag jaiye apne dreams ke liye mehnat kare aur apni success ko achieve karne mein lag jaiye jisse ane wale kal mein aapko faida ho aur aapke parents aap par proud feel kare isse aapko bhi bahut khushi milegi pura din itna kaam kare ki raat ko aapko neend ajaiye isse aapka dhiyan aapke breakup par nahi jaiyega. Apne breakup ko bahut light way mein lein jisse koi aapka mazak na bana paiye aap hamesha apne aapko positive rakhe aapne yeh toh sunna hoga ki jo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai toh bas issi baat ko man kar chale isse aapko bahut himat milegi aur aap better feel karege.

4. Exercise

Exercise

Aise time par bass sone ka man karta hai par apne sona nahi hai roz morning walk par jana hai aur exercise karni hai aisa karne se aapka mind bahut relax rehta hai. Isse aapko ek new way milta hai apni life ko direction dene ka aur aap jaldi recover ho jate hai. Fresh air se aapki sadness bhi kam ho jati hai aur apne happy cells bhi increase hote hai agar aap ek hi place par baithe rahege aur rote rahege aap kabhi bhi recover nahi kar paiyege iske liye aapko bhar jaa kar apne aapko thora chill karna hoga jab aapka mohole change hoga toh khud apne ander changes feel karenge.

5. Treat Yourself Right

Treat Yourself Right

Ab aapke pass time hai khud ki care karne ka like apni care kare jo cheeze reh gayi hai ab un kaamo ko complete kare aur khush rahe. New haircut, Shopping kare  khud ko ek New look dein. Chocolates se aapka sara stress dur ho jata hai and aap din mein 2 baar Coffee piye jisse aapka mood automatically thik ho jata hai ya Green tea. Bas wahi kare jo aapko pasand hai har din wahi kaam kare jisse aapko sukoon milta hai aap TV dekhe ya Movies ke liye bahar jaiye New friends banaiye.

6. Replacement

Replacement

Aap jitna time apni GF ko dete the usko ab aap kisi aur ache kaam ke liye use kiye aap apni studies ko diye ya koi aur new activity ko dein jo bhi aapko pasand ho like Football, Swimming, Batmen Ten, Hobby Classes, Any kind of course like learn new languages, Do something creative, Learn painting yeh sab bahut relaxing aur enjoyable cheeze hai jisse aap apne liye ek new world ban jaiyega.

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