Har kisi ki life me ye waqt jarur ata hi hai jab hum kisi anjan ladki ko dekh kar uski tarf attract hote hai. Ye bhi life ke baki experiences me se ek hai. Jo age ke sath sath hum feel karte hai. Jab ladka kisi attractive girl ko dekhta hai to uske mann me ek hi khayal ata ki kas ye meri girlfriend ban jaye, par bina hath pair hilaye aj ke time pe kuch naseeb nahi hoti. Kahi baar hum baat karne ki himmat to kar lete hai par hamara baat karne ka tarika humari liye pareshani khadi kar deta hai. Kya aap ko lagta hai ki aap bhi isi problem ka solution dhoond rahe hai to ab aap befikar rahiye yahan haum aapke liye kuch aisi tips or ideas lekar aye hai jo aapki is problem ka jarur solution nikalegi.

Girlfried Ki Care Kaise Kare

Coaching Wali Ladki Se Kaise Baat Kare

Dhimi Aawaz Se Use Wish Kare

Agar wo aapki classmate hai, ya to aapko bahut se jariye mil jate hai baat karne ke. Kyunki aapka uske sath regular eye contact ban jata hai, or kahi baar kisi subject me problem ane se hamari thodi bahut hi hello bhi ho hi jati hai. To jab kabhi bhi aap aise mauke dhoondte hai ya aapko milte hai to aapko iska fayda uthana chaiye. Jab aap apni class me use mile to dhimi aawaz me usko good morning ya good day wish kare or regular kare.

Join Her On Facebook

Agar aapko lagta hai, ki directly aap baat karne me ghabra ya sharma rahe hai to behtar hoga ki aap use facebook par join karle. Fb par baat karne se aapko apni baat badane or ladki ke baat karne se aapko andaza ho jayega ki ladki ko kaise treat karna hai. Ladki gusse wali hai shant subav ki ye jaanne ke liye facebook aapki bahut help karega. Facebook par baat karne ka tarika bhi aapko ana chahiye aap shuru me Hi, Hello, How are you likh ke bhej sakte hai. Agar reply ata hai, to aap continue kar sakte hai. Fir usse uski hobbies puche jaise ki, family, favorite TV shows, actors, musicians, and movies. Agar reply nahi ata hai to aap ek ya do msg se jada use msg na kare isse ladkiya irritate ho jati hai or natiza aapko pata hi hoga block ya unfriend.

Be Supportive 

Coaching me aap uski help kar sakte hai, agar use kisi ya koi subject me problem hai. Aap yahan par ye tarika apna sakte hai ki jab aap usko kuch bata rahe hai ya samja rahe hai to use bilkul bhi attitude na dikhaye. Aap use ye feel na kraye ki aap bahut intelligent ho, ya class me aapse jyada koi us cheez ko nahi janta. Isse wo na to aapse ageh kabhi puchne ki koshish karegi or jab koshish hi nahi hogi to fir baat kahan se hogi.

Gusse Ya Chahere Pe Attitude Na Rakhe  

Aap jab bhi usse baat kare to hamesha cool mind ho kar baat kare. Uski baatein sunte waqt apni gardan idhar udhar na hilaye. Gussa ladki ko bikul bhi pasand nahi hota, to jab bhi aap personally (face to face) mile to chehre pe halki si smile rakhe jisse ladkiya comfortable feel karti hai.

Possessive Na Ho

Agar ladki ek ya do din tak class me se absent hai, to aap is baat pe  jada utaaru na ho jana. Jaise ki kyu nahi aye, kahan gaye the matlab puche jarur par aise tarike se na puche jisse use lage ki aap kuch jyada react kar rahe hai. Kyunki wo aapki life partner nahi hai, jo aap uske upar apna hak jatao har kisi ki apni personal (social) life hoti hai. To behtar hai aisi choti moti baton ko aap ignore kare.

Umeed karta hun ki main aapki is topic par ache se help kar paya hun. Agar fir bhi aap apne kuch vichar (views)/suggestion hum tak pahunchana chahate hai to niche comment box ke jariye aap hum tak apni baat puhuncha sakte hai.

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. HI
    Maine hal hi me computer course join kiya hai vaha par yak girl bhi join ki hai jise mai like karata hu but na mai usaka name jatana hu na hi address but I like him very much please help me. Mai thoda bat karate me ghabrata hu.

  2. Hiiii mam mera nam pintu hai mujhe ladkiya bhai kehti hai to mujhe btaiyeki ky kru ladkiya mujhe bhaiya nhi saiya bole plz help me

  3. Hello maam….i hv a problem….mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu….per problem ye hai ki wo mujhse 3 saal badi hai….to ab mai kya karu ???? plzzzzz hlp me

      1. Hii mam
        Mera nam pintu hai
        Meri koi gf nhi hai pr mai bnana chahta hu aur kuch ladliya jinhe mai pasand krta hu wo mujhe bhai keh deti hai so ap mujhe tips do ki ky kru ki ladkiya bhai n bole aur pat jaye

  4. waise to mai whatsapp or FB PR LRKI. SE BAT HOTI H BUT MAI THIK SE BAT NI KRPATA KYA KRU

    MAI THORA KAM BOLTA HOO.
    HESITATION KO KAISE KHATAM KAROO
    LRKI SE BAT KRTE WAQT SAMAJ NI AATA KYA BOLE. Help me Pleazzzzz

  5. aur mein aapki site par naya hu. kyuki kuch din pehle mein ek party mein gya tha. baha mujhe ek ladki bhut pasand aai mein himat karke ushke pass gya ushse bateim ki sab kuch theek thaak chal raha tha. koi 2 ghante bitane ke baad jab mein ushse ushka phone no. manga to ushne dene se inkar kar diya aur yeh sirf ek bar ki bat nhi hai pehle bhi mere sath aur mere dosto ke sath kai bar aisa ho chuka hai ladki se ushke phone no. magne ka trika ho to plz. mujhe bataye mein sach much bhut niras ho chuka ho ab kher 10 trike ko party hai to mujhe tyar rehna hai to aap jaldi kuch kariye ushke baad mein aapko barfi bhi khilaunga ok. reply fast..

    1. Acha bachu rishwat de kar kaam karwa rahe ho…. Barfi tum hi khao mujhe nhi pasand barfi 🙂
      Dekho, first meet me to koi ache character waali ladki apna no. kisi ko nhi deti bcoz faltu log bahut tang karte hai, ladki no. tab hi degi ya to vo ladke ko at least thoda bhut janti ho ya fir vo ladke se impress ho… Impress karne ke liye smart ban kar party me jaao, mature behaviour rakho, uski taraf attention do and full confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, faltu baat bilkul mat karo and baat karte huye smile rakho face par, drink karke ladki se baat karne mat jaao, uski tareef karo achi si…. fir thodi baat karne ke baad pure confidence and promise ke saath uska no. mango, agar nhi deti to facebook ke bare me pucho, use bolo aar no. nhi de sakti to koi to tareeka batao jisse aapse baat ho sake, vo khud sol. de degi aapko 🙂