Ladki Anjaan hai, par kaam asaan nahi hai. Kaise karein aur kya karein. Ladki se baat karna kisi ke liye bhi asaan kam nahi hai especially jab ladki attitude wali ho tab to cheeze aur bhi muskil ho jaati hai. But koi baat nahi wo bhi kab tak attitude dikhayegi. Ab aap Shivshi ke friend ban chuke ho aur kisi ladki ki kya majal ki Shivshi ke friend ki dosti se bach jaaye. Oops… thoda jyada ho gya 😛 Actually Shivshi ke Love Tips hai hi aise ki kisi bhi ladki ka attitude jyada der tak tik nahi payega. To aap janna chahte hai ki – Anjaan Ladki Se Dosti Kaise Kare? Toh chalo aaj main aapko sikha hi deti hu ki kaise aap apni pasand ki kisi bhi ladki se friendship kar sakte hai.

Log usually kisi ladki ko dekh kar kuch na kuch comment to pass karte hi hai, vo comment kuch aise hote hai – “Bandi kitni sahi hai yaar!”, “Gaint”, “Tota”, “Cute Hai”, “Aisi bandi honi chahiye yaar.” Ye hai normal comments jo hum ek ladki ko dekh ke bolte hai, but koi ladki hai jo aapke liye in sab comments se upar hai, but ab use approach kaise karein ye samajh nhi aa raha. Upar se problem ye bhi hai ki, Na toh aap use jante hai aur na hi uska naam pata aapko maloom hai. Bas aapko kuch pata hai toh uske aane jaane ka rasta ya vo jagah jaha aapne use dekha.

Anjan Ladki Se Baat Shuru Kaise Kare aur Friendship Karne Ke Liye Kya kare

Anjaan Ladki Se Dosti Kaise Kare

Ab jab ki baat dil par aa hi chuki hai to ek genuine try to banta hi hai Boss. Vaise bhi ladki se baat aur dosti karne me jo maja hai vo dur-dur se dekhne me aur faltu ke comment karne me kaha. To chalo shuru karte hai aaj ki class jiska focus hoga – Ek Anjan ladki se baat kaise kare aur friends kaise bane.

  1. Pehle Uske Bare Me Kuch Jaan Lein

Kisi anjaan ladki se dosti karne se pahle agar aap uske baare me kuch jaan le toh bahut acha hoga aur jan-ne ka matlab yeh nahi ki usi se jaa kar uska Bio-Data puchne lag jaana balki aap khud apne sources se uske bare me jitna pata kar sakte hai vo pata karna. Ladki kaise hai attitude wali hai, Sweet hai, Kisi se baat karne me interested hai ya nahi. Uske bare me ye sab janna aapka first step hai.

Agar wo kisi se baat nahi bhi karna chahte toh aap ek try zaroor de sakte hai but yeh nahi ki usko paglon ki tarah all time follow karte rahe, isse ladki par aapka negative impression bhi pad sakta hai, which is obviously not good.

2. Use Dekhe Aur Itne Cheez Use Show Kare

Kabhi kabhi khud ki taraf attention dilwana zaroori ho jata hai aur aise case me ladki ko btana bahut zaroori hota hai. Agar aap us ladki ko roz dekhte ho aur especially jahan se wo jaati hai aap wahi usko dekhne ka wait karte ho toh yeh cheez ladki ko notice karwana bahut zaroori hai. Agar aap use dekhte hai toh yeh use show bhi hone de but Yes, dekhne me aur stare karne me (ghoorne me) bahut difference hai, isliye use pyar se dekhna hai ghoorna nahi hai is baat ka khyal rakhna behad jaruri hai.

Ek aur cheez ka dhyan rakhen, jab aap ladki ko dekhne jaate hai toh ya toh apne friends ko sath mat leke jaye, agar wo aapke saath jaate bhi hai toh unhe koi comments pass mat karne de, especially cheap comments. Yeah ek negative impression hai aur ladki isse bahut uncomfortable feel karti hai.

3. Smile Pass Karein

Jab wo roz aapke samne se jaati hai aur uske is cheez ka notice bhi ho gaya hai ki aap use dekhte hai toh ab baari hai aage badhne ki. Use smile pass karein, just a simple and sweet smile, kuch aur nahi.

Ek din wo reply nahi karegi, do din, teen din ab kisi din toh karegi. Aur jab use pata chal gaya ki aap special uske liye hi us jagah par wait karte ho phir toh pakka karegi. Be positive.

4. Baat Shuru Karein

Ab agar wo aapko smile bhi de chuke hai toh ab baari aati hai alsi cheez ki jo hai – Usse baat karna. Haan baat karne se pehle dhyan rakhen ki wo uska known area na ho, known area matlab uska family ya koi relative ya koi aise place jaha wo rahti ho, agar vo baat karne se mana karti hai to us time jyada jabardasti na karein varna wo phir kabhi baat nahi karegi.

Usse baat start karte waqt khud ko pehle introduce karein (smile ke saath), uska naam bhi puche in case wo nahi btate to force na kare. Use btaye ki aap use dekhne roz aate hai aur aap finally use baat karne aaye hai. Agar wo ignore karti hai, toh us waqt wapis aa jaaye aur agle din fir try karein. Kyunki achi ladki ek baar mein muskil hi kisi se baat karegi.

5. Compliment Pass Karein

Ab jab ladki maan hi gayi hai, baat bhi karne lagi hai ya agar baat nahi bhi ki hai toh ek kaam karein, use compliment paas karein. Ladkiyon ko praise bahut achi lagti hai. Use compliment karte rahi aur apni friendship ko badhate rahein.

6. Contact Number Mange

Agar aapko lagta hai ladki actually aapse baat karke khush hai aur aapki baat ka acche se reply bhi kar rahi hai. Agar aapke friendship actually me sahi track par jaa rahi hai toh aap use number bhi mang sakte hai, but haan use number dene ke liye force na karein, agar wo abhi comfortable nahi hai toh wo baat vhi chod ke topic change karein.

Kuch time lagega jarur par ladki agar thodi bhi interested huyi aur agar vo pahle se hi kisi ke saath committed nhi hai to vo jarur positive signal degi aur aapke efforts ka aapko reward jarur milega.

In sab tips se aapki pasand ki ladki aapse jarur pategi aur fir aapko kisi se nhi puchna padega ki – Ladki Kaise Pataye ya ladki Patane Ke tarike kya hai, kyunki koi bhi aapko inse ache tips de paaye ye hone ke chances bhut hi kam hai. Ab kya, bas apni friendship ko ache se nibhaye aur khush rahe. Aur haan, Shivshi ke saath apna experience zaroor share karna, varna maar padegi bhut aur Main Aunty ko sab kuch bta dungi, fir lete rehna pyar ke maje 😛 .

Jokes apart! Agar abhi bhi koi isse related koi bhi problem aati hai toh aap humse comments ke through share kar sakte hai, Aapki Shivshi aapki Love problem ko solve karne ke liye hamesha ready hai. Khush raho aur sabko khush rakhne ki kosih karo, Bye bye 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Hiiiii
    shivshi
    ladki sirf dekh hi rahi aur mai vi 4 sal se mere saath yahi chal raha hi use bhout pyar karta hu wo samjhti nhi hai.
    baat to wo hamse karna hi nhi chahti hi
    wo meri gaw ki hi aap acche se soch ke btao plese

  2. Yr mere colony me ek ladki rehti h or vo mujhe jaaha v dekhti h to Chhoti si smile face PR rkhti h or vo bs dekhti rehti h but mujhe pta nhi ki bandi muje like krti h ya nhi mai kese pta kru yr ki vo mujhse kuchh kehna chahti h agar kuchh kehna chahti h to mujhe bolti kyu nhi h mujhse kuchh or mene uss se life kbv kuchh v thhodi si v baat nhi kri n vo kri na mene kra kuch v baat ye question ka solution aap ldkiyo se better koi nhi jaanta to yr so please hlp me or vo mujhe apne nazar me Sharif manti h

    1. Simple solution hai, jaao aur usse kuch bhi baat karo, aur thodi baat karne ke baad usse uska no. mango, fir dekho vo kaisa react karti hai… uske behaviour se hi tumhe pata chal jayega ki uske man me kya hai fir bhi koi confusion ho to use bolo ki tum use pasand karte ho agar vo bhi karti hogi to acha resonse degi varna 2-4 galiyan de kar rafa dafa karegi 😀

    1. aap apni har baat usse share kare jab bhi usko need ho aapki uske sath dein aur aapni har baat usse share kare hmesha uske touch mein rahe.

  3. Kisi se pyar karta hun wo v pyar karta tha lwkin wo avi kisi aur se pyar karti he sayed….kya karne se wo mujhe phir se pyar karne lagegi…

  4. Hlo shivashi je mere ghar ke pass ek ladke rahte hai vo mujhe dekhte bhi hai mai ose like karta ho par mai oos se baat krne jata ho to mera dil zoor se dhakdne lagta hai mai ye soch kr jata ho ke aaj to os se baat kr he loonga pr baat ho nhi pate hi mai ky karo kaise himmat jootayo kaise baate shuru kro mai os se pr mai ye pakka kah sakta ho ke agar maine os se baat kr le to mere fri ban jayege kyu ke maine ooske aakho mai dekha hai vo bhi mujhe thoda like krte hai pr baat nhi kr pa rha ho mai plz help me

  5. ye pados ka dekhna dikhana pyar ya miss karna nahi hota g, ye bas ek satisfaction hai apke liye aur apke dil – dimag ke liye. ye sab basimmsturity hai, toh in sab ko itna serious mat lo aur apne aap ko in sab me jayda involve na karo.

    1. Do tarfa pyar hote huye bhi farz ke liye ham dono need balidan Kiya
      Kya ab mujhe Mar jaana chahiye 😭😭😭😭😭😭

      1. Hi this is prince
        How can i start a conversation to a girl whom i love but she don’t knows me on mobile but she knows me live