Hello friends, Aapki Friend Shivshi ka Aapko pyar bhara dil se Namaskar 🙂 Friends, Aaj kal ke youngsters jab bhi kisi khubsurat anjaan ladki ko dekhte hai to wo kehte hai – “Yeh ladki to bahut hi hot hai” ya `Mast` ya `Sexy` word ka use karte hai. Vo kehte hai ki is Ladki Figure kitna mast hai. Aapne ladko ko ye Kahte aksar suna hoga ki – “Ek baar iska number mil jaaye to Jannat jaha ho jaaye” and you all understand what I am saying. Par doston, Bhut se humare friends aise hai jinke man me kisi ladki se baat karne ki tammana jamane se hai par vo samjh hi nhi paate ki us ladki se vo aakhir baat kya kare. Baat Shuruwaat ki kaise Kare. To aaj hum un pyare aur sharmile friends ki problem solve karne ki thaan chuke hai. Khush ho jayiye dost kyuki Main yani ki aapki pyari friend Shivshi aapko bta rhi hu ki jab aapke pyare se dil me kisi pyari si ladki se baat karne ke arman jaage to aapko kya karna chahiye.

ladki se kaise baat kare

Anjan Ladki Se Baat Karne Ke Tarike

Dekho friend, kisi se bhi baat karni koi bhut bada kaam nhi hai, ye bhut hi simple process hai aur isme ghabrane wali koi baat nhi hai. Kya problem hai ? Ki baat shuru kaise kare ? Dekho, Jab bhi hume kisi anjaan ladki se baat shuru karni hoti hai to hum sabse Hi / Hello ka sahara lete hai. Uski tareef karte hai. Thoda bahut flirt aur Halki fulki batcheet ke baad uska naam puchte hai aur ek normal si introduction share karte hai. Fir handshake karke usse friendship badhate hai. These all things are done normally jab hum kisi anjaan ladki se baat shuru karte hai. Chahe wo offices me ho ya kahi aur like Schools, Tuition Classes, Metro Station, Bus Stops etc ye tareeka har jagah kaam karta hai.

Is tarike se hum usse baat karna shuru karte hai, jo sabse muskil kaam hota hai. Fir uske baare me detail pata karte hai. Jase ki Vo kaha rahti hai, aur aaj kal kya chal raha hai, study kya karti hai aur kha karti hai agr study nhi karti to kya karti hai. Job karti hai to kha karti hai, uska kaam kya hai. Office ya college kaise aana jana hota hai and all that. Agar ladki PG ya Hostel me rehti hai to uske baare me poochte hai, aap kay parents kya karte hai is tarike se baat shuru karte hai aur achi bonding create karte hai.

Jab us ladki se baate hone lagti hai tab fir hum usse jokes share karte hai, hansi Majak karte hai and uska number mangte hai ya usse Fb id per request bhejte hai or kehte hai ki – “Request bheji hai, accept kar lena. Nahi to when I’ll become a celebrity one day then you will remember me so before it happens Accept my friend request and give me your number for the future. Iske saath hi apne baare me batate hai.

Personality acchi rakhte hai. Ache kapde pehante hai Aur acha hair style rekhte hai and uski taareef karte hai. Agar aapke dimag me ye sawal aa rha hai ki uski tareef kaise kare to vo bhi bata dete hai. Tareef karna koi muskil kaam nhi balki tareef to vo vardan hai jo ladki ko jitna de do utna kam, par han shi tarike se. tareef karne ke liye kuch sochne ki jrurat nhi. Keh do ki aapke upar ye dress bahut hi hot lag rahi hai ya aaj to aap chamak rahe ho or uski smile par kisi purane shayar ka koi gazal chipka dete hai. Smile sabki achi hoti hai isliye iski tareef aap kabhi bhi kar sakte hai iske liye aapko maukha dekhne ki jrurat nhi. Bas itna kuch ho gya fir Anjan ladki anjan nhi rehti, Friend ban jaati hai aur kismat achi ho to Girl Friend bhi ban jaati hai. 😉

To doston ye the tarike kisi bhi anjaan ladki se baat shuru karne ke liye. Yakeen maniye ye tips hamesha kaam karte hai. Bas aajmate time aap confidence bana ke rakhna aur ghabrana mat. Agr koi sawal, suggestion ya complaint ho to niche diye huye comment box me likh kar hum tak pahuchaye. Hum yha hai hi aapki help karne ke liye. Pyar ki Sachi Khaniya padhe aur Health Tips bhi padhe kyunki doston Aashiqui ke saath saath healthy aur fit rehna bhi jruri hai.

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Hi.. Actually ham ek ladki se pyar krte h..but wo hamse gussa h kyonki ham uska wat’s app number pe msg kiye or usse khub majak kiye buy wo gussa ho gayi …wo apne dost or bhai ko boli hamko suhane ke liye …or ham tab se usse baat nhi kiye h wat’s app pr…very important …I need your help😢😢😢😢

  2. Hy shivshi…yr morning main wo roz activa se gym jaati hai..pehle niklti thi to smile deke jaati thi to mene use 1 weak follow Kya to shayd wo chidne lgyi or naa ab mujhe teda muh kr leti hai..ab aap hi btao aagye Kya krna chahiye..

  3. Hllo shivshi Ji mai kai Dino se ek ladki k saath fb pe chat kar rha hu wo mujhe bahut pasand bhi hai par mai usse izhaar kaise Karu samajh nhi paa rha hu ab tak koi baat hi thik se nhi kar paya to aage baato ki shuruwaat kaise Karu plzz zara meri is problem ko solve kar dijiye.

  4. Hii shivshi what is ur fb id plz tell me for i active more on fb i will ask there all doubts

    Mera fb pe profile name hai

    Luck Nishant

    Plz add me

  5. hi shivshi ji me 2 month pahile se ek ladki ko pasand kiya
    aaur me tab se us ladki ko roj dekhne lava aaur o v kavi kavi mujh par dekhte the

    par tav v nahi use hi hello kaha

    ab me roj uska ghar ke raste se school jata hu .karib 2 mahina ho chuka he aur o roj mujhe dekte he
    to plz bataye na ki use kaise baat karne ki starting kare .plz plz jaldi bata iye na

    1. jab woh aapko dekhjte hai toh aap usko apne hand se hello bola kare aur smile diya kare

  6. hi shivshi ji me 1 month pahile se ek ladki ko pasand kiya
    aaur me tab se us ladki ko roj dekhne lava aaur o v kavi kavi mujh par dekhte the

    par tav v nahi use hi hello kaha

    ab me roj uska ghar ke raste se school jata hu .karib 2 mahina ho chuka he aur o roj mujhe dekte he
    to plz bataye na ki use kaise baat karne ki starting kare .plz plz jaldi bata iye na

  7. Hello shivshi ji mera name alam…h
    Me kb clg jata hu to mujhe mete bus m kbhi kbhar ek ladki dikhti h jise m delhta tehta hu or eo chori chupe ankho se mujhe dekhti h…notice krti h kbhi kbhar eye contact bhi hota pr smile ni dete…to m sochta hu..usse anjan h shurwst kese kru bast cheet hii hello bhi kise anjan ladke se wo kese react krege or wo hindu khi mna na kr de ..drr lgta h baat krne i think aap smkh skye ho …mai kiua kru..or shyd mete personality bhi achi ni h….

    1. aap usse kisi bhi bahane se baat kar sakte hai jaise ki aap puch sakte hai ki woh kha jaa rahi hai iss type se baat kar sakte hai.

  8. Hello shivshi ji mera name alam…h
    Me kb clg jata hu to mujhe mete bus m kbhi kbhar ek ladki dikhti h jise m delhta tehta hu or eo chori chupe ankho se mujhe dekhti h…notice krti h kbhi kbhar eye contact bhi hota pr smile ni dete…to m sochta hu..usse anjan h shurwst kese kru bast cheet hii hello bhi kise anjan ladke se wo kese react krege or wo hindu khi mna na kr de ..drr lgta h baat krne i think aap smkh skye ho …mai kiua kru..or shyd mete personality bhi achi ni h….

  9. Hey Shivshi
    Me Ek Ladki ko bohot like krta hu
    but aaj tak bol nae paaya
    thanks foh helping
    I wil try this

  10. Hi I am zuber from Maharashtra…
    muze 1 ladki pasand he meree college ki he wo muzko dekti he and me bhi bt usne kabhi smile nahi kia and na mene meree smile achee nahi na
    to muze use bat karnee he aur age badna he so wht i do plz suggest…mee

    1. Sabse pehli baat, Smile kisi ki buri nahi hoti hai so smile always… 🙂
      And usse baat karne ke liye kisi bhi bhane usse bas baat shuru karo, Hi bolo bas baat shuru ho jaati hai. Pure confident raho, ghabrao mat tension lene ki jarurat nahi hai.

  11. Hi shivshi, main or ek ladki bachpan main ek dusre se pyar karte the. Or main aaj bhi karta hun. Per jab maine himmat karke use 20 saal baad baat ki. Per vo sab bhul gai hai. main kaise kahun ki main use aaj bhi pyar karta hun. Ek problem aur ki uski shadi bhi ho gai hai.

    1. Hahahaha…. majak chal rha hai kya, jab uski shaadi ho chuki hai to use ab propose karke uski zindgi ka sukh kharab karna chahte ho ya dimag me koi dikkat hai?

  12. Main ek ladki SE chat krta hu what’s app baat to suru kr diya lakin BAAT aage badhau kaise tareef bhi krta hu flirt wali aur kon so BAAT karu

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  13. ek ladki se me frnd ship karna chata hu me partime job par jata hu wahi pas me uska ghar h me use janta tak nhi na hi wo muje janti h me use kis tarah bat karo

    1. Smile karo aur himmat karo aur use Hi karo, agar use interest hoga to vo bhi Hi karegi aur baat aage chal padegi..

  14. me ek ladki ko like krta hu…and me usse baat krne ki koshish bhi kri…usne bhi hii..kiya tha….but jab mene pucha Aap kaha se ho…..to usne smile k sath kaha ki….aapko usse kya kaam h. ……to ab me kya kru

  15. Hii… Shivshi
    Yr me ladki se baat krna chahta hu me usse roj busstop pr dekhta hu or vo bhi mujhe dekhti h pr mujhe samj nhi aata kya baat kru usse

  16. Hi.. Shivshi
    Yr me ladki se baat krna chahta hu pr mujhe samj nhi aata kya baat kru
    me usse roj busstop me dekhta hu or vo bhi mujhe dekhti h

    1. Ruko thoda wait karo, main is topic par ek acha sa article likh ke site par publish karti hu fir sab pata chal jaayega vo bhi detail me.. 🙂

  17. madam may bahut hi sarmila hu aur muje ladkiyo se baat kaase karte hay muja samajnahi aata ki may unse kiya bat karu aur surowat kase karu kiya aap mare madad karona

  18. Mera name Raj Hai me email ladki more pasand karta Hu me uski taf dekhata ho
    Or bobhi meri tarf dekhati Hai ab mughe kya karana chahie mughe uss se akele me baat Karni chair my nahi please help me e

      1. Hi…. Mere Tution me ek ladki mujhe use baat karne hai lekin kinda topic choose karu samj nahi ata ab tk usse bat nahi hoi pls give me sm idea

        1. Beta itna sochne waale ladko ko ladkiya pasand nahi karti, bas jaao aur usse kuch bhi baat karo, test ke baare me, kuch maths problem ke baare me, uski note book lene ke liye, uski tareef karne ke liye aur baat shuru karo 🙂

  19. Mera naam Raja hai or main ye Janna chahta hu ki main us ladki se sabse pahle kya kahu Jise main like karta hun ki humari friendship ho jaye…….?

    1. Iske liye hamara yeah article aapki puri help kardega,
      ise ache se padhe aur phir btao apki friendship kaha tak pahunche. Aur zayda daro mat, use pyar se baat karo. khud ko introduce karo, uske bare me jane, khud ke bare me btao.

  20. hello
    madem, mera name Rahul hai or me Delhi me rhta hun. mere ghar ke saamne wali chhat pa ek ladki rahti hai jo ki mujhe bahut pasand hai or me usse bat karna chahta hu. pr mujhe dr sa lagta hai. or ye samajh na ata ki starting kis toppic se karu. kahi use bura na lage.

    1. Rahul, aap hmare is link pe visit karein, apko sab cheez ka solution mil jayega. Agar iske bad bhi apko kuch problem aate hai toh shivsi ko yaad karna mat bhulna.

  21. Meri ye problem hai ki mai jis lsdki lo pasand karta hu uski dost meri xgf ki bahan uski bf hai aab ye bast wo bhi janti hai aur wo bhi bast ye bhi hai ki mai jis ladkiko pasand kar hu mujki lagts hai ki wo bhi mujko psand kkarti hai but meri xgf bahan mre bare mebhut bura bhal bolti haimainhi vhahta ki wo aisa bole mai aisa kya kao ki wo patta jye plz reply

  22. Hlw shivshi. Myself kabir singh please help me me daily evening wock pe jata Hu bha mujhe ek ladki meli me use kik Karta Hu me use bat karna chata Hu per uske sat uski mom bhi hoti he to me kese bat Kari agar uski mom nhi Ho to me jarur use bat karne kosis karunga plz help me.pls.

    1. Use dekh ke smile karo, agar vo bhi smile karti hai to next day uske paas jaao and smile ke saath Hi Bolo… thodi idhar udhar ki baat karo and fir uski tareef kar do thodi di, genuine waali. Uske baad 2-3 din aise hi Hi Hello, kaisi ho… karte rho aur fir no. mang lo.. Agar ladki interested hogi to de degi varna sad song sun lena 2-4 😉

    1. Hyy meri gf pahle mujhse pyar karti thi ab wo apne fuffi ke ladke se pyar karti hai ye baat uski fuffi ka ladka janta hai meri gf mujhse bhi kabhi kabhi time spend karti hai bolti hai tum mere pahle pyar ho mai kya karu

    1. Har ladki ki pasand alag hoti hai Dear, same jaise ladko ki ladkiyo ke baare me hoti hai.

  23. Hii shivashi ji main rahul kumar main nitu name ki ladki se bahut pyar karta tha or wo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti thi wo ek din bhi mujhse bina baat kiye nhi rah pati thi hum dono bahut khush the fir pata nhi kya hua aaj wo hamse bat karna nhi chahti h
    Please help me

    1. Bas fir ho gaya kaam, ab aap bhi apne kaam par lag jaao… prem khani itni hi thi… Itni si baat samajh nhi aati aap logon ko… ya samajh ke bhi samajhne ki kosish nhi karte..

  24. Hi.mam main ek ladki ko like krta ho ,or woh bhi mujhe dekhti h .main jab bhi us se baat krne jaata hoon tabh uski frndz usko.mujhe baat nhi krne deti ! Plz mam help me !!!!

  25. Hii shivsi dii
    My self Aman
    Dii mere ghar k pass ek ladki rhti h vo mujhe dekhti par kabi baat kar ne ki koshis nhi krr ti pahle m use neglate kr deta tha par ab mujhe usbse love ho gya h m us sebAt kse karu m to sirf us ka name janta ho bas kay karo us s baat kr ne k lea…

  26. meri 1 best friend hai bhot kribi vo pehle mere friend se love krti thi lekin mera friend use sirf friend manta hai
    muje use ladki ab love ho gya hai lekin use ke se kahu ke me use love krta or sochta hu ke use prapose kruga to vo u to nhi khegi ke me tumhare friend se love krti hu or mna kr diya to…..me kya kru plzz help me me use bhot love krta hu pr kehne ki himat nhi hoti

      1. Mai ek ladki ko bahot like krta hu jo mere ghar k bagal me rahti h , wo jb v ghar se bahar niklti h to mujhe dekhti hi rhti h aur mai v uski aankho me dekhte rhta hu …pr mai use fb pr msg bhejta hu to rply nhi deti h aur uska bf v h …pr wo mujhe usko apni gf banana h bchpn se hi mai usko like krta hu so…plz meri help kijiye ku6 tips dijiye….2yr pahle wo v mujhko like krti thi pr na maine usko btaya aur na hi usne mujhko ki hm dono ek dusre kolike krte hai

        1. Agar hai pyar to kariye.
          Izhaar…
          Uska ho Inkaar To thoda kariye Intezar..
          naa lagaiye takdeer par ilnamm..
          Tabhi milega insaf

  27. hi shivshi
    me ek ladki se bhut pyr
    krta hu lekin bol n pata vo apni ek frnd ke sath me rhti h uski frnd muzse bat krti h lekin vo muzse bat n krti h khali dekhti rhti h or mein use bhut chahta hu mene use kai baar srif esharo mein bat ki h

    1. To ab isharo me baat karna band karo aur sach me baat karo. Use ye mat dikhao ki tum darpok kisam ke insan ho varna vo jo dekhti hai kuch time me dekhna bhi band kar degi, bcoz girls never like darpok boys.

  28. hi shivani mera nam shivam h or m tumhare comments phadte phadte tumhe like karne laga hu i houpe tum bhi mujhe like karogi so ap se mujhe bat karna acha lagta h so tum se me pyar karne laga hu shivani bura mat mannena tum hi kehti ho dil ki bat bol deni chahiye so mene keh diya so kya tum mujhe se friendship karogi asa karta hu tum apne friend ko na nahi kahogi .i like you shivani.

    1. Hahaha…. Mishra Ji galat track par aa rahe ho, gadi ki direction badlo.. Hum kisi ke hai Sanam 🙂

  29. Hi Dear shivani mera nam shivam h.Mujhe kisi k bare m tips nahi chahiye m tumhare comments or love tips phabte 2 tum se pyar karne laga hu tum hi mujhe sabse achi Lagti so m tumhara mob. no. Lena chaunga mana mat karna kyki ap hi sab boys ko.girls k no lene ko kehti ho so mujhe asa h ap mujhe apna no dogi ya FBm add karogi to ap mujhse friendship karogi so plzzzzz manager mat karna.

    1. Shivam main sab boys ko girl se no. lene ke liye jarur kahti hu but dear Agar koi pahle se hi committed hai to uske piche padne se mana bhi karti hu, aur yha same case hai so aap samajh hi gaye honge 🙂

  30. hi,Mera nam shivam h m ek Laski ko bahut pyar karta hu or mujhe nahi pasta ki us me mere liye koi filling h ya nahi lekin usne mujhse ek bar bat ki thi vote bhi clg m book ko lekar . but m usse bat Karen ki him at nahi juta pa raha hu. or WO aj kal clg bhi nahi ati h uska nam divya h . or n hi mere pas uska phone no. n fb m add h. so ap much east a baty plzzz

    1. Easy way yhi hai ki sabse pahle ti apne andar himmat ke kar aao, bina himmat ke is mamle me kuch hasil nahi hota. Fir kisi bhi tarah lead nikalo ki usse kaise baat ki ja sakti hai ya kaise usse contact kiya ja sakta hai, koi friend ya uski koi friend ka pata karo fir usse baat karo, socho to jarur hoga 🙂

  31. hiii mam
    mai ek ladki ko chata hu jo exam. Me mere aage betti hai. Vo mujse exam. Ke din bat to karti hai bat muje ye conform nhi hai ki vo muje chati hai ya nhi.

  32. Hi dear i am rahul me aapse yeh puchna chaata hu ki me ek ladki se itna pyar karta hu ki koi semma na ho balki vo be mujse pyar karti h vo muje phone be karti the balki ab nhi karti h kya kru or milne ki baat karta hu to mana kar deti h plz plz help me….yaar

    1. Bas fir ho gaya kaam, ab aap bhi apne kaam par lag jaao… prem khani itni hi thi… Itni si baat samajh nhi aati aap logon ko… ya samajh ke bhi samajhne ki kosish nhi karte..

  33. Aaj mjhe ek anja an ladki mile mane usse batein ki us ka response bhi positive lag raha tha but anja an ldko se kase baat kru sam aj nhi aaya plz help

    1. Are itna sochte nhi hai, bas uske saamne ja kar bolo… `Hi…` vo bolegi `Hi…` bas fir puch lo, aapka no. milega? vo bolegi kyu? Aap bola, bas yun hi aapse baat karni hai. Vo mana kar degi fir kuch din use aate jaate dekhte rho… nain mataka karte rho aur kuch dino bad fir se ja kar bolo, yaar mujhe aap bahut pasand ho… Bas aise hi baat shuru ho jaati hai.. 🙂

  34. mam ji me ek ladki ko kabhi kabhi kheto pe ghas ka gatter utwata hu mera khet aur uska khet paas paas hai wah muje bulati hai utawane ke liye aur kisi ko nahi aur bhi hote hai kabhi log per me hi jata hu mai usse kaise kahu ki me aapse pyar karta hu .wo anpad hai mobile uske paas hai nahi.dar lagta hai kahi naraj ho gayi to kahi dubara kabhi ghaas ko utwane nahi bulayegi .aur uske gharwale be taktwar hai kabi kabi smile karti hai waise hum baate bhi karte hai magar ghaas se related

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  35. hii. shivshi i m rehan dear shivshi agar hum kisi ladki ko like karte hai aur usse reletionship stsrt karna chahte hai usse hazaar koshisho karne k baad bhi agar wo mana karti ho aur bole mere dil me koi feeling nhi hai aap k liye to kya karna chahiye k jisse uske dil me feeling ajaye…

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  36. i m in a relationship from last 3 years. now i want to take to nexr step i mean more than just kissing hugging and caressing… i guess she wants it to but maine pucha ni usse directly… kaise physical hone ke lie approach karu??

    1. Dear ye baat aapko usse tab puchni chahiye jab aap dono romantic baatein kar rahe ho tabhi aapki gf ka aapko positive response mil sakta hai.

  37. hiiiiiiii Shivshi, This is Hemant here plz do me a fever ap to sabhi ko itne sare tips deti h bt mera question ye h ki kya ap kabhi relation m rahi h ?????????

  38. Meri gf mere bulane k baad bhi mere Ghar NH ayi
    Or jab me agle don usse mila to usne sorry bola aur kaha ki bhaiya the isliye nh ayi fir bhi me usse nh bola or usne mujhe apne ghar bulaya tha me nh gya

  39. hlo,
    me aaj ek party me gya vha pr mene ek ldki dekhi use dekhkr pta nhi kya hua ki uske chehre se nazar nhi ht rhi thi. Mene ek frnd se khlwaya but uska kuch rply nhi aaya or frnd ne mna kr dia .ab me kya kru, pls help.

  40. Hi shivani ji Mai ap se Kuchh bat share karna chahta hu. Ek ladki mujse fb bat karti thee Ek din mujse fb hi bola Mai hello bolo bat ka silsila suru ho gaya Uske bad Vo mera number manga Uske bad Mai number diya turnt bad missed call aya Mai call back kiya Uske Vo mere bare me sb Kuchh puchh liya jb Mai purchase laga bina Kuchh bole phone kat kar diya Uske bad Mai kai bar phone kiya phone ni received kiya kabhee receive karege to bat sahi ni kargi plz shivani ji bataye Mai kya kare!

    1. don’t waste your life for her, uske chakkar me apna time barbad mat karna becoz vo aapko sirf aur sirf tabhi baat kregi jab vo tensed hogi ya use koi problem hogi baaki time vo apne bf se hi baat karegi, uske saath hi rahegi and usi ke saath sex karegi. So bahut saare dusre ladko ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladki ki liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena.

  41. m ek ladki s love karta hu usse m whats app p bat karta tha par usne mujhe block kardiya bo bat hi nai karna chati usse bat kese karu asa kya karu ki bo mujhe unblock karke bat kare

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  42. ek ladki se meri eye contact bahut der tak hoti thi ab me use igore marne lga hu pr me usse frndship krna chahta hu kaise kru mtlb wo janti bhi hai aur nhi bhi

  43. Hii mene aap ko us ladki ke baare me batya tha na, mene us din uska picha kiya tha, to tab se ab jab vo mere ko dikhti he, mere ko ghur kar ke dekhne he, mere ko kuch samaj nahi aa raha he vo esa kyo dekh rahi he mere ko.

  44. Hlo mam ek ladki say sirf hi hlo hee ho rhi hai oska aaga vo kuch bolti hee nhi hai agar kuch msg kro toh rply b kab kra pta nhi kra k nhi oska satha kaisa baat suru kro

  45. Ma ek ladki ko like karta hu ma us sa friendship karna gya to usna bola ki ma koi sa friendship nahi karti hu
    Ab ma kya karu o mari class ma bhi nahi ha ??????

  46. hi Shivshi.. Dekho Shivshi 3 saal se mai 1 ladki se bahut pyar krta hu.. but wo muje apna dost samjti thi but mene usey bahut jaldi purpose kr diya or jis din purpose kiya uss din se hmari dosti bhi toot gyi.. mne usko mnane ki bahut koshish ki or then wo muje ignore krne lag gyi.. wo mere sath pdhti h 1 year se na usne baat ki na mene… but m usko bahut like krta hu.. pls help me ki muje ab kya krna chiye……

  47. Me ek ladki ko pas and karta hu, mene 2 baar uska picha bhi kiya he. vo kai baar apni scuti se jaati he, or jab bhi me uske same sent niklata hu vo mere ko dekhti he, kai baar me apne dost me yaha bhi baat chit karte hue khada rahta hu tab bhi vo hate hue meri taraf dekhti he, me ye kese janu ki vo muje each me pas and karti he ya esi hi dekh rahi he

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  48. Hlo….me ek ldki se love krta hu or o ldki muje roj bus me milti he me use dekhta hu or o muje but koi bat ni hoti..mene uski frnd se uske bare me sub pta lga liye he..mene uski frnd ko apna number bhi diya but usne ni liye.. Ab ap btao me kiya kru ki vha mujse piyar and bat kr ske..tell me plz

  49. Hi ,mai ek ldki ko psnd krta hu hum dono ka ghr aane samne gali me hai,hm mrng me cochng jate h to hm dono ek sath gali se nikle hai ,hm ek dusro ko dekhte bhi h ,bt bat age nhi badhti,kya karu? Plz help!

  50. Hello shivshi madam,
    main ek ladki ko like karta hu. Actually wo mere college mein hai. Maine sirf 4-5 times hi baat ki hai. Hamara eye contact bhi hota hai. Par muze samaz nhi aata ki ab konse topic pe baat karu, because muze Jo bhi topic milta tha jaise ki practical book..etc. Wo sabhi main puch chuka houn. Ab aap hi bataye ki main friendship kaise aage badhau.

    1. To aap thodi himmat karke usse ja kar uske group ke samne bhi baat kar sakte ho ya use side me bula kar bhi musla kya hai dear.

  51. Hiii shivshi….!
    Muze agr kisi ladki se uske bare me kuch puchna hai. Lekin agr usne aise pucha ki tum muzse ye sab q puch rahe ho to mai kya bolu jo effective ho…..!

  52. Hiii shivshi
    Muze agr kisi ladki se uske bare me kuch puchna hai. Lekin agr usne aise pucha ki tum muzse ye sab q puch rahe ho to mai kya bolu jo effective ho…..

  53. Hlo….me ek ldki se bhut piyar krta hu mene us ldki ko shadhi k liye parpose kiya tha but usne koi reply ni kiya…me uske bare me sub kuch janta hu or o fb pe bhi koi bat ni krti..ab ap btao me kiya kru….

    1. Kya aap usko real life me jante ho or kya aapne use aamne samne mil kar propose kiya tha kya.
      Or shayad use tme chahiye ho sochne ka ya uske ghar wale ke karan wo koi jawab nahi de rahi ho.

  54. Mai ek aisi ladki se pyar karta hu jo mujhe roz dekhti gai aur smile deti hai mai 1-2 mahine se use bolne ki koshish karta hu lekin mujhe darr lagta hai aur wo hamesha apni ek saheli ke saath rahti hai..

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  55. hey, shivshi hw r u??….tell me one think mere colony me ek ldki rhti hai nd i like her nd she also don’t know tell how should i impress her nd wo mujhe janti bhi nii now tell me??

  56. Me ek Ladki Ko Pasand Karta hu, vo mere ghar ke paas ke mohalle me rahti he, vo roj shaj ko apni scuti me kahi jati he, me usse kese baat karu, matlab kya me usse raste me rook kar ke baat karu ya, koi or tarike se. koi upay batao

    1. Aap pahle uske bare me pata lgao, jaise ki wo kon hai, kya kartihai, khah rehti hai uska naam fb id pata karo fir usse dosti karo fir uskebad btana.

  57. Main Ek Ladki Ko Pasand Karta hu, Vo Mere Ghar se paas wali mohhale me rahti ho, vo roj sham ko apni Scuty me kahi jati he, me use baat kese karu, matlab kya me usse raste me ruka kar ke baat ki shuruvat karo, ya koi or tarike se, koi upay do mere ko

  58. Hi mam mai apne college ke ek ladki se friendship karna chahta hu par vo meri senier hai yani vo muzase umar me badi hai.please mam help me mai kya karu.

    1. Dear aap bas harr mat mano or lage raho or sath hi us ladki ko bhi aise show karte raho ki aap use pyaar karte ho taki use bhi pata chale aapki feelings ke bare or sath hi wo bhi samjhe ki aap haar manne walo me se nahi ho. Or kabhi bhi umar ko bich me mat lana bas pyaar dekhna , lekin agar aap apni se badi umar ki ladki ko pyaar kar rahe to aapko mature banna hoga taki wo aapko kabhi bacha na samjhe.

  59. Mam mai ek ladki ko chahata hu ,actually mai jha kam karta hu o vha PR kuch din ke liye kam karne aayi this aur phir ek hafte me chali gyi, but uska bf hai but Maine us ladki ka no manga to usene apna no di par phone par baat nhi karti WhatsApp PR bat karti hai PR kahti mai kisi aur se pyar karti hai phir v bate karti hai mujhse , so mam how I purpose her give me suggest.aur kewal raat ko chat karti hai.

    1. don’t waste your life for her, uske chakkar me apna time barbad mat karna becoz vo aapko sirf aur sirf ta baat kregi jab vo tensed hogi ya use koi problem hogi baaki time vo apne bf se hi baat karegi, uske saath hi rahegi and usi ke saath sex karegi. So bahut saare dusre ladko ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladki ki liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena.

  60. hello shivshi dear maine kuch din pehle ek ladki ko purpose kiya freind ban ne k liye to usne mujhe no broblem bol k mera purpose accept kar liya but main use apni girlfreind bnana chahta hu vellentines day se pehle to plz AAP hi btao mai kaise usse bolu uska nature bohat gud hai fir bhi mujhe thoda dar lag raha hai kahi vo mere sath dosti bhi na tod de to aap zara apni advice de mujhe

  61. hi shivsi mujhe ek ladki kafi pasnd aati pr mujhe baat krne me kafi sankoch lagta h kho wo mujhe kuch galt n keh de pr usse simple kabhi kabh hota h kuch btaiye ki me usse kaise apna bnau..??

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  62. mam rpl jarur karna mai ek ladki se pyar krta hun but mai abhi tak bola nhi usko mujhe use jake bat krna h n prapose karna h to kis type se bat ki shuruwat kru
    n.mujhe shram bhi bhut ati h

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

      1. Hlw shivshi. Me apko ye batana chata Hu Ki me roj evening wock pe jata Hu bha mujhe ek ladki mili me usko like Karta Hu me use bat bhi karna chata Hu per uski mom uske sat ati he to me kese bat Karu help me plz.

  63. Hiiiii shivsi main yogesh ek ladki h woh mujhe bahut ghoorti h jab bhee main ouske pass se jasta ho wo bas. Ghoorti rehti h main ouske baat start karna chahta hu kya karu please help me

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  64. hiii shivshi meri ek fb friend this WO meri bahut achi friend thi humne lagbhag 2 year take baat ki him ache friends the ek din Maine use propose kar dia
    ya lekin usne mana kar dia pata ni uske friends ne use mere baare main kya bola usne mujhse baat karna bhi band kar diya lekin main usse bahut pyaar karta hu lekin WO mujhse nafrat karti hain iin lower middle class family ko belong karta hu & WO high class family ko but mai. use bahut pyaar karta hu kya karu main usne mujhse aisa behave kyu kiya.????

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  65. hi meri ek frind thi jisne mere ko dil se frd mana tha ab pta nhi usko kya ho gya vo mujhse bat nhi karna chati vo bol rhi thi ek bat usko bhut heart kar gai jab mane pucha to usne bola ki vo mujhe nhi bata skti mai ab kya kru kya vo mujh se ab bat karegi ya mai usse bat nhi karu mere ko apke suggestions ki jarurt h plz mere ko btaiye

    1. Dear agar aap acche dost the to aapko ye baat janne ki puri koshish karni chahiye ki wo baat kya hai kyunki acche dost aasani se nahi milte.

  66. hi mere university me ek ladki he wo mujhe passand he mene usy facebook pe request bheji he but wo ecsept ni kar rahi or na hi wo mujhe university me dekhti he mujhe apki help chai he me keya karo

  67. Hlo hyy mein ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu prr mein uss sey baat krne mein hamesha hichkichata hu aap mujhe je btao ki mein uss sey apne dil ki baat kessey share Karun…..????

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  68. Hlo hyy mein ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu prr mein uss sey baat krne mein hamesha hichkichata hu aap mujhe je btao ki mein uss sey apne dil ki baat kessey share Karin…..????

  69. Hlo hyy mein ek ladki she bahut pyar krta hu prr mein uss sey baat krne mein hamesha hichkichata hu aap mujhe je btao ki mein uss sey apne dil ki baat kessey share Karin…..????

  70. Mam i am rohit from jammu ma 12th class ma ho mari class ma ak larki ha ma us ko like karta ho ya us ko pata ha laken ma usko like karta ho ma usa baatana sa darta ho plez mam mari problem ko solve karo mam plez

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

      1. hay shivshi me ek ladki ko kafi dino se dekh raha hu vo muje nai janti or nahi me usko toh uski kaise impress karu bat karne ke liye koi bahana bhi toh nai he

    1. Hello mam mera naam happy h.mam ek ladki se bhout pyar krta hu.vophele meri gf thi .mam me USSe bhout pyar krta hu.par vo 2mahine se kisi aur ladke se baat krne lagi h.aur ussne mujhe contact khatam kr liya h.apna no. Bhi band kr rakha h.mam me use bhul nhi pa RHA hu kyuki vo mere Ghar k piche rehti h.uski aawaz aati h to mera sara dhayan uski taraf chala jata h
      Me phad bhi nhi pata vo mujhe roj dhik jati h.mera phir usse Milne ka maan keta h.vo mam mane uski she puchvaya to kehne lagi ki galti meri h kyuki me uspe Sk keta hu.2mahine phele vo mujhe apna mobile bhi nhi dikhti this.mam aap ab plz mujhe bta dijiye meUSe apni life me kaise lao aur agar use bhulao to kaise bhulAo mujhe bhout yaad aati h .school me bhi air Ghar pe bhi .use dakhne ka bhout man krta h.mam plz mujhe btao me kya karu or kaise karu.plz mam

  71. Hello mam mera naam abhi h.me ek ladki se bhout pyar krta hu.vo meri gf bhi thi phele.par vo kisi air ladke se baat krti h.aur usne apna no. Bhi band kr liya h.mam mujhe USki bhout yaad aati h abb mam vo mere Ghar k piche hi rehti h.uski aati rehti h.mam me usse bhout pyar krta hu .mera kisi kam me man nhi lagta h.me school me bhi nhi pad pata me.jb me usko dekhta hu to mujhe SB purani baate yaad aati h .me pareshan ho jata hu uski aawaz sun kr bhi.mera slusse mlina ka maan krta rehta h.mam plz aap mukhe btao me apni life me dobara kaise lao aur agar bhulao to kaise bhula .vo roj mujhe dhik jTi h.mamplz btao me kya karu aur kaise karu.plz mam plz

  72. Hello mam mera naam abhi h.me ek ladki se bhout pyar krta hu.vo meri gf bhi thi phele.par vo kisi air ladke se baat krti h.aur usne apna no. Bhi band kr liya h.mam mujhe USki bhout yaad aati h abb mam vo mere Ghar k piche hi rehti h.uski aati rehti h.mam me usse bhout pyar krta hu .mera kisi kam me man nhi lagta h.me school me bhi nhi pad pata me.jb me usko dekhta hu to mujhe SB purani baate yaad aati h .me pareshan ho jata hu uski aawaz sun kr bhi.mera slusse mlina ka maan krta rehta h.mam plz aap mukhe btao me apni life me dobara kaise lao aur agar bhulao to kaise bhula .vo roj mujhe dhik jTi h.mamplz btao me kya karu aur kaise karu.plz mam

  73. Hi mam .mam mera naam abhi h .aur me ek ladki se bhout pyar krta hu.vo phele meri gf thi par ab vo kisi aur ladke we baat krti h.mam me use bhout pyar krta hu.mujhe usski bhout yaad aati h.me study bhi nhi kr pa RHA hu.mam uska ghar mere Ghar k piche hi h.me roj dekh let’s hu .or pure din uski aawaz bhi aati rehti h.mam phirera pura dhayaan wahi chala jata ham yin SB chigjo she bhout pareshan hu.me usse bhula nhi pa RHA hu.mera use Milne ka maan krta rheta h.aur apna no.bhi change kr liya h ab.mam ab aap plz mujhe btao me usse apni life me kaise lao dobara se aur agar usse bhulao to Kaiser bhulao .mam plz plz mujhe btao me kya karu aur Kaise karu.plz mam plz me bhout pareshan hu.mam use bhout pyar krta hu.

  74. Hi shivani,mere pass ek ladki KA whatsapp no. H m us se baat krna chahta hu PR vo khti h ye no. Tumhe kis se liya to m kya kru pls help me

  75. Hi shvani, mere pass ek ladki KA whatsapp no. H jisse me baat kRNA chahta hu PR vo khti h mera no. Kis se liya m kya karu pls help me

  76. Hello mam,
    M vinay , mai clg me ek ldki ko pasand karta hu bt muze usse bat karne ko darta hu to usse kaise bat start kru aap ye batao plzz…

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  77. Hii
    main ek simple ladka hun.or main chata hun ki mare v ek girl friend ho jisse main kul k baat kr sku.
    yesa ni hai ki mane kisi ladki par try ni kiya hai.ek do se mane baat ki hai, lakin jase hi main unse apni dil ki baat krta hu to oo mujhse bina kuch bole dur chlijati hai. Mujhe ek true girlfriend pane k liye mujhe kya krna chahiye

  78. yar shivshi mai ak ladki ko like krta hu… or hmari baat bi ho chuki hai ,1-2 baar…just like koi ghar k kam hone p mane usse thodi baat ki… pr hm dono hi ak dusre ko dekhte hai… bt mujhe abi b smjh m ni aa raha hai k mai usse friendship age kaise badhau..plz help me

    1. Use kaho – “Yaar mujhe aapki aadat si ho gyi hai… Aapse baate karta hu to sab kuch bhul jata hu, jab aapse baat nhi ho rhi hoti to kuch bhi acha nhi lagta, sab kuch adhura adhura sa lagata hai, mujhe lagta hai… Mujhe aapse pyar ho gaya hai…

        1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

    1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

  79. Hi mam, Mera name Ravi he. Mera Clg ka 2nd year he…. Me jis caoching pr Pdne jata tha waha ek ldki ki aati thi,mene use ek do bar dekha tha… Kyoki wo class me sbse piche bethti thi.

    Kuch Dino bad Usne caoching aana Bnd kr diya…..or ek din mere fb pr ek ldki ki frnd request aai Mene pucha Kon ho Aap to Usne Pahle to bhut ghumaya kuch Dino bad Usne bataya ki wo usi coching class me pdti thi….. pata nai Usne Mera name kese jana. Ab me ri usse sirf frndss ki Tarah bat hoti he. Agr Muje use prapose kese karu smjh nai aa raha Agr Usne mana kr diya to…. Plz help me man.

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  80. give me a sme tipss..shivi..
    mai aik ldki ko bht psnd krta hun bt usn mko kbi dkha nai…kbi hm mile nai..mre pas uska wts app no..h bt smj nai ara usse bat kse kru..??kya bat kru..?? cnfusion h cnfusion h

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  81. Hii mam

    Main ek ladki ko like karta hu per usko nai pata hai,
    Mai uske liye unknown hu,
    Wo mere dost ki gf ki behen hai isliye maine apne dost se uske bare me bataya tha,
    Mai 1st January ko use bolne ki soch raha tha but wo us din mili hi nahi,
    Ab soch raha hu ki 14 February ko bol du but wo thodi gharelu type ki ladki hai isi liye thoda nervous feel kr raha hu ki kahi usko bura na lage aur mai usko kho na du.

    So please help me…….

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  82. Ek ladki mujhe kuch deeno se daily dekhti hai jab mai office se ghar ke liye nikalta hu.jab woh mujhe dekhti hai toh mai bhi usko dekhta hu .kal toh usne mujhe dekh kar smile bhi di thi. Ab mai ye kaise pata karu ki kya hai uske dil me .kya mai usse samne se toku ? Mere tokne ke baad agar woh gussa ho gyi toh. Please help me.

  83. Hlw dear maim/sir

    Mri dost h vo mre s senior h hum 4 month s sath h mujhe pyr h usse use propose bhi kiya lkin vo khti h vo mri senior h y ni ho skta senior junior sath ni rh skte ap btao plz mai kya kru

    1. Jab ek ladki saaf saaf mana kar rhi hai aapko fir bhi aap kyu uske peeche pade ho aur usko preshan kar rhe ho saath hi saath apna time kharab kar rhe ho.. Aap kya force karke use apne se pyar karne ke liye majboor karna chahte ho ? Kya aapme koi self respect nhi hai? Vo aapko like nhi karti ye kab samjhoge? Agar ladki ache se baat karti hai ya smile kar deti hai to iska matlab ye nhi ki vo aapse pyar karne lag jayegi. Maan lo ek ladki hai jise aap jante ho but vaise pasand nhi karte aur vo aake aapko bole main tumse pyar karti hu to aap kya karoge. Simple si baat hai use mana karoge. To yhi same cheez vo kar rhi hai. Aap sirf aur sirf apni life barbad kar rhe ho uske chakkar me my friend. Please ye anmol zindgi aise barbad mat karo. Itni mehnat successful banne ke liye karo, apne maa baap ke liye apne bhai behan ke liye mehnat karo, sachi khushi usme hai. Jab aap safal hoge tab khud aapko ladki approach karegi, aapko khi jaana nhi padega. I hope aapko meri baat samajh aayi hogi.

  84. Hi.

    Me Apni class ki ldki ko like krta hu.but ye nhi pta ki vo bhi krti hai ya nhi.
    Us se imprees krne ke liye uska birthday bhi celebrate kiya.
    Hum dono ankhon ankhon
    me bt to krte hai.
    but meine kabhi bola nhi.

    Ek Din Anual Function ki practice ke time
    us ne mujhse pucha ki tum kisi ko like krte ho.
    Lgatar 2-3 pucha.
    phir meine bol diya ki tumhe.
    phir vo uthi Aur smile krke chli gyi.
    But After one day
    usne mere friend se pucha ki me kisi ko like krta hu.
    to mere friend ne bta diya ki
    vo tujhe like krta hai.
    To usne mujhse bt nhi ki 1week.

    Ab vo tuition aati hai
    jha par mera ghar hai.

    Aur me milne bhi jata hu.
    but kese bolu usko.
    me friends bhi hote hai uske saath

    btao plz

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  85. Hi ,
    Meri class me Ek ladki hai. jis se me bht pasand krta hu.But bola nhi kabhi.Vo Mujh se kabhi puchti hai me kesi lg rhi hu,tum mujhe jyda dekhto ho.
    khi mere chkker me to nhi pd gye.Phir me kuch bol nhi pata.Jb me use dekhta hu to vo smile krti hai.Aur kesi Aur ladki ke saath dekh le to bt nhi krti hai.mujhe lgta hai ki vo mujhe like krti hai.
    To Aap btao me kya kru.

    Mujhe Apni Class ki Do ldkiyan bht pasand hai
    Ek ye jiski story btai.
    Aur Ek dusri

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

    1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

  86. mere galli me 1 ladki Hai mere umar ki voh bohot beautiful Hai aur Mai use bohot pyaar karta hu pr Maine usse kabhi baat bhi nahi ki Hai to Mai use kaise patau mera naam yogesh Hai aur ladki ka naa
    m shivani hi plzzz give me some tips fast…

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

          1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

        1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

  87. Hlooo g meri abhi new gf bni ma jb v usse phn pe baat krta hoon bs Hal chal he puchta hoon uske baad koi he nhi ati ap plz btao kya baat kro ki jyada senti ho jayee reply plz

    1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

  88. Mam mai usse bat kaise start kru ussne to fb p meri friend req. Bhi accept nhi ki or instagram p to req. Bhi cancel krdi mam

  89. Hi mam ..ek ldki h mai usse like krta hu but vo mujhe janti nhi h or vo ajj tk kisi k sath bhi realtion ship m nhi ayi h or atitude bhi boht jada h so plz tell me m kya kru

  90. Shivshi ji ma ek college ka student hu vha pe muje ek girl bhut pasend aaii or ma use roz dekhta hu vo bhi muje ek baar to nazer mila deti ha per usse bat nhi ho pa rhi ha per ma usse baat ker na chata hu vote bhut hi beautiful ha uski eyes blue ha per USSe baat nhi ho paa rhi ha shivshi ji pls aap mari help ker do uske baad aap Jo bolo Gi vo ker skta hu ye aap ki souch bhut hi bdhiya do pyaar ker ne valo ko milana bgvan aap ko khus rkherkhe pls jldhi reply ker na

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  91. Ma ek college ka student hu muje mare college ma ek ldki pasand aaii ha but vo muje bat nhi kerti per muje usse bat kerni ha to kya keru pls jldi reply dena
    Or use impress kase keru ki vote ek bar muje dhek ka smile ker de bs

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

    1. Use dekh ke smile karo, agar vo bhi smile karti hai to next day uske paas jaao and smile ke saath Hi Bolo… thodi idhar udhar ki baat karo and fir uski tareef kar do thodi di, genuine waali. Uske baad 2-3 din aise hi Hi Hello, kaisi ho… karte rho aur fir no. mang lo.. Agar ladki interested hogi to de degi varna sad song sun lena 2-4 😉

  92. I can get ur whatsapp number so i can ask my problem…….mujhe samaj nhi araha ki mai kya karu…pls ap mujhe apna whtsapp no dedijiye

    1. Sorry number to nahi mil sakta aapko lekin aap apni problem jarur mujhse share kar sakte ho usme me aapki help jarur kar sakti hun.

  93. Hello DIDI mera name KAMRAN hai aur me 9th class me padhta hoon mere tuition classes me ek RIDDHI name ki ladki abhi joint hui hai aur mujhe usse friendship karni hai aap kuch tips dona plzz aur ha meri age 15 hai aur uski 14.plzzzz reply DIDI.

    1. Apni personality achi bana kar confidence ke saath uski taraf dekho, use notice karwao ki aap use dekh rhe hp… 2-3 baar eye contact hua to jaa kar Bindas andaaz me Hi bolo, darna bilkul mat aur na hi nervous hona. Usse koi choti si baat karna smile ke saath and thanks bol kar baat khatam karna, next day fir koi baat karna halki fulki and last me uski halki si tareef kar dena, next day no. mangna jarur degi (agr dene waali hogi to) 🙂

  94. hello mam,
    aaj se 1.5 year pahele me sy me padh rha tha…tab main ek tuition class main free time me main assistant tha ..vha Kai sare boys or girl aate the….vha thode din baad meri nazar ek ladki ke samne gai..vo bahut hi cute thi…uske thode din baad hmare vaha classes me tour ka planning huva or main bhi usme gya..vha to 12 main standard vali ladkiya bhi thi…usme Jo vo cute ladki thi vo bhi thi. .sub ladkiya muje sir kheti thi bcs me vha assistant tha esliye.. .after that 1 hour k bad vo ladki mere samne aai or vo muskurayi baadme me bhi mushkyraya but tab main sir tha isliye mene usse koi friendship ki baat nahi ki…but tour time me hi muje pta chla ki vo muje like krti hai.. par main class me sir tha isliye kush mene kiya nahi ..tour complete hone ke baad usne uski friend se kaha ki main vo sir KO like krti hu…vo sab muje pta tha… after that 1 week ke baad me class me gya to vo muskurane lgi….baad me main jab bhi jaata tha to vo muskurati thi or uski friend ke piche chup jaati thi….aesa 5-7 mahine tak chla bad me uski std 12 ki exam thi to voh chli gai but after jab vo class main aati thi to muskurati thi…. ek baar muje aesa lga ki main use friend ship ke baare me pusu yaa nahi to main darr gya ki kass vo MNA kar deti to….isliye mene nahi pusa….after vacation pd gya classes me to 15-17 din k bad muje pta chla ki……me jisko pyaar krta tha uski friend KO koi mera naam dekar preshan Kar rha tha ..ki me classes ke sir Bol rha hu friendship krni hai ESA use vo call krta tha or naam mera aaya…muje to mera friend uski bajume rehta usne kaha ki esi baat chl rhi hai…..or main preshan ho gya or mene mera naam bchaye rakhne ke liye classes se leave le li…..or me vha meri feeling nahi bta paya bcs Jo ladka jis ladki KO phone karta tha vo me Jo love krta tha uski best friend thi…or usne bhi ise vo hi btaya ki vo Sir muje call krte hai aesa.. or vha hi meri impression khrab ho gyi….after main use jyada like karne lga but koi upay nahi tha …bad me usne college main addmision liya tab main dusri CLG me. 3rd year me tha….uski college start huyi to main use durr se mene uske samne dekha ki vo phir se muskurayi…or main khush ho gya ki aaj bhai vo muje like krti hai..jab vo durr se mili tab aadha year chla gya tha….par me use apni feeling btavu to or ek problem khdi ho gyi ki jiss ladki KO mera naam dekar Jo ladka preshan krta tha vo ladki uski best friend thi or uske sath hi padhti thi…agar me uske pass jata to vo ladki jaghda krti .isliye me nahi gya..phir kya kahete hai na ki kossis kene valo ki vaar nahi hot I..to main jise love krta tha uski society ke gate par khda rha or vo clg se Aa rhi thi or me use meri feeling ke baare me btane Vala tha par vo pass aayi to usne mere samne gusse vale muh se muje dekha or vo Chli gai USS din se aaj din take muje hurt huva..jb me use bhulne ki koshish krta hu to vo yaad aati hai aaj 1.5 year complete ho gye phir bhi vo muje yaad aati par main aajtak me vo nahi samj paya ki vo tab muskrutati thi to usne uska muh kyo bigada ..mene mere friend se baat ki tu uske society ke gate par gya esliye muhh bigada ..par uske bad me kabhi u ski society me nahi gya…par vo to muje yaad aati hai……..
    muje aesa lagta hai ki aapko meri story boring lgi but please Mem help me main use ab kis tarah se paa skta hu….uska contact number mere pass he to kya main use call kru … jab aesa visar aata hai to darr jata hu ki kush ho gya to ….
    plz Mem help me
    plz
    thank u mam

    1. Wesse to aap ne bahut derr kardi hai lekin aapko usse sidha ja kar baat karni chahiye kyunki agar aap abhi bhi nahi gaye usse baat karne to fir aapka kuch nahi ho sakta kyunki jab tak aap usse or uski best friend se mil kar sari misunderstanding clear nahi karoge tab tak kuch nahi hone wala. Or jab aapko bhi pata hai or use bhi pata hai ki aap ek dusre ko like karte ho to aapko usse baat kar leni chahiye thi abhi lekin aap to aise darr rahe ho jaise ki sach me wo calls aap ne hi kiye ho uski best friend or jaisa abhi tak aap ne abhi tak kiya hai us hisab se to kabhi na kabhi us ladki ne bhi ye soch liya hoga ki wo calls aap hi ne kiye the. Isliye ab thodi himmat kijiye or ja kar usse baat kijiye.

  95. Hi shivshi hw r u…i would fRstly thnk to u fR creating dis amazing site……i want let u consider one thing that…..now a days itz hard to find a single girl…i ve seen many beautiful attractive girls in my life & had a interaction wid few of them…..bcoz i ve experienced dat the girl whom u talk…ll definetly nt b a single…..one….u tell me one thing……if i get successful in impressing a girl nd she reacts best ll she xcept my proposal inspite of having a relationship wid sm one else???plz answr me……

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

      1. Mera name ajay h mam maine ek ladki ko propose kiya to usne bola bachchi hu mai.
        Dusri bar propose kiya to bole 12 th mai
        To bolti h nafrat krti hu bhaiya aapse aapki aawaj se Aapki sakal se
        Galti se mere samne mt aana help me mam

        1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  96. Maine ajj tak koi Ladki nhi patae mujhe ladki patane me dar lagta hai Mae malls me aur kae jagah ladkiyon ko dekhta hoon par meri unse Baat Karne ki himmat nhi hoti aap mujhe kisi bhi anjaan ladki patane ka tareeka bta dijiye

  97. Hello shivashi me kalyan me rahta hu maharastr me
    Yha pr ek ladki h jisko me like karta hu aur shayad wo bhi muje like aisa lagta h me sochta hu ki usko isharo me bat karu but himmat nhi ho pati h mujhe ab ye samaj me nhi aata h ki karu to kya karu jisase me usko apna bana saku plz ans dena muje jald se jald i am waiting

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  98. Hi shivshi ur so beautiful my query is given below and I want its resolution at earliest if u could help
    My query: I wanted to make friendship with 1 unknown girl to whom I see on daily base while going for job even v all catch same train but thing is that mostly she is with her friends group nd I couldn’t talk to her even i decided to talk to her but I don’t know meri himat nhi hoti aage bar k b me initiate nhi kr pata pls tell me how I initiate

      1. Hello ! Shivshi Friend How r u my name is Sharief Baadshah but mera sabi friends mujhe only Baadshah k naam se pukarta hai Aap be humare new friend ho aap b mujhe Baadsha k naam se pukar sakhta hu main 12th class main huin subject medical hai main apne life main bahut khush huin mera jitne b friends hain sab friends ki gf hain but mari koi gf nahi hai abb main b sooch raha main b ek gf bannayeu but gf kese bannata hain pata he nahi hai plz.aap humare new friend Shivshi g aap he huma koi tereka dekhyeo kese gf bannayeu plz.reply me just & zaroore plz. Shivshi g

  99. Meri girlfriend mujhse abh bat nahi karti he pahle karti thi Ab kabhi kabhi chat karti he par thikse jawab bhi nahi deti he or jab me kuch puchta hu to WO mujhe bolti he ki tujhe koi hak nahi he so ma’am what i do

    1. Ya to aap ne koi galati ki hai ya wo aapko cheat kar rahi hai inme se koi do reason hai jo ki aapko pata lgane hai

    1. To uske liye sabse pahle apko khud par bharosa rakhna sikhna hoga or achi personality ke sath sath smart bhi banna hoga tabhi aapki ye problem solve ho payegi

  100. Hi mam . I love a unknown girl , me uske baare me kuch nhii janta & uske sath baat krne ki himmat bi nhi juta pa rha hu becoz I m shy ……I want know ki me kaise usse baat karu . so plz hlp me

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  101. Maam Mai eak ladki se love ❤ Karta Hu par achanac Mai jaldi kar deya jiske Karan wo Puri naraj Ho hai ab to man hi nahi rahi Kay Kari .. Ab to wo bolti hai Ki Mai aap KO aapna friend v nahi manti

  102. Ek larki hme dekhti h lakin bolti nhi h bus dekhti h coaching me samaj me nhi Ata Ki chahati kya h teacher ke Jane ke bad dekhti h lakin propose kyu nhi Kr. rhi hme

    1. Acha to ladki propose kare aapko? Hahaha….. Alibag se aaye ho ? Agar aapko usme interest hai to aap jaao aur propose karo, ladki propose nhi karti.. 😀

  103. Me ek ladki se pyar karta hu jab v usko pyar ka baat karta hain to bolte hai ki mujhe pyar me dard mila h isliye ladko sa wishwas utt gya hain to me kya karo ki usko mera se pyar ho jaya

  104. hello mem mein sonu ho…
    mughe ek lerki se piya ho gaya hai per mein unse pat kerna chahta ho per mein kisi pat kero
    wo lerki hamse guniyar hai or mein pat kise karu.

  105. hi
    kaisi ho aap ???

    mujhe na kisiko gf banani hai
    first of all, kisi ladki k sath close kaise hote hai like fb pe koi ajnabi ladki k sath close kaise hote ….mai fb kisi ladki k sath bat krta hu to hi / hello kaisi ho ? kya krti ho ise aage mai bat nhi kr pta hu ,,,,,mujhe samajh nhi aata hai ki ab kya bat kru so plz koi achha bala tarika bataiye plz…..

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  106. Hii Shivashi, mai aapko hi impress karna chahta hu. kya karna hoga..would u like to be my girlfriend. I except possitive answer from love guru..

  107. Mai ek ladki ko pasand karta hu or wo b muje like karti hai hamare bich sab bate ho gayi hai wo muje love bi karti hai ab uski sadi or 1 ladka bi hai usne muje apna no bi de diya hai sadi k baad 1 2 bar baat bi hui h lekin ab vo muje ignore kar rahi hai… Aisa kyu kuch samaj nahi aa raha hai plz help

  108. Hii shivshi. Mera naam raju he. mai yehe site mai new hu aur mai pheli br use kr rha. Abh mai apne story mai ata hu. Mere clg mai ladki thi . Mai huse bht lke krta tha. Finally maine (uska nam asha he) huse purpose kiye. Bt woha ans nh deri. Yes or no ans nh deri. Sifa etna bolri hum friends rhte. …….. Abh muze samaj nh ara huse kaise apne heart mai fulfil karo. I really lov her……. Plz shivshi help me

  109. M apni juniour ko apni gf bnana chata hu WO Mary s col p bat bi krti h but m us ko purpose ksy kru kuch smj ni aa RHA plz help me my contact number is 9251514355 OK

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan badhao, agar aap usse bina baat chit ke propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  110. mai ek ladki ko like hu jo ki wo mere tution me padti hai.

    aur mai boring hu bahot………

    toh mujhe playful aur charming banne ke tips dijiye………….

    1. Aap apne aas paas dekho, jo ladka aapko sabse playful aur carming lagta hai uske features dekho and seekhne ki kosish karo apne tarike se, apne environment se seekho, best hai.

    1. Sorry dear lekin mene abhi koi aisa page nahi bnaya, lekin ab me soch rahi hun to isliye jab me bnaugi to aap sab to jarur btaungi.

  111. Hello shivshi i m rahul mai bahut tension me rahta hu kyu ki mere andar confidence nahi hai mai smart good looking hu aur muje bahut ladkiya line deti hai par kabi mai baat nahi kar pata kyu ki jab bhi kadam aage badata hu bas darne lagta hu aur mere dil ki dadkan tej hone lagti hai aur isi wajh se aaj tak mai baat nahi kar pata bahut ladki line deti h par kya karu mai kaise confidance laau

  112. Hi
    kuch dino pehle unknown num per larki se baat hui. Pehli call pe hamari gapshap ho gai phir isi taran kuch din baat hoti rahe phir usne muje se fb pe pic mangi phir mane use apni pic send ki. Mujhe us se pyar hone laga lakin phir ahista ahista usne baat karna kam kardi or ab wo mujh se baat ni karti. Plz muje koi tips de me use apni gf bana chata hn

  113. Hi shivshiji, muje ek ladki bhut achi lagti mera use 3yr se acha eye contact ho vo bhi muje responce deti pr me use bat nh kar pata hu vese muje uske bare me puri ditail malum pr me confuse hu ki me use starting me nam lekar bolu ya use ye bol ‘ kya apka nam ye h’ so please help me thank u

  114. Hi mam, i am deepak. me jis ladki chata hu vo bhut khusurt h me us ladki ok lagbhag 5 sal se janta hu jese me dekta vese vo bhi muje dekti or me jab dekta hu to mera dimg ka balb sat ho jata h pr me use bat karna chata hu pr me use bat kese karu muje uske bare sab pata h jab use bat phene muje puch thik rahe ki nh ” kya apka nam ye” ya fir use nam pukar bat karu so mam i m very confuse. please help me.

  115. Hi.. Shivshi
    Aapne Jo btaya vo m padh chuka hu…
    BT apply nhi kr pa rha hu… Bhot try krta hu BT ladki k samne jate hi.. Bs himmat hi jwab de deti h .. Baat krna chahta hu.. Aisa nhi h k m kisi se baat nhi kr sAkta… BT problem ye h k kya bolu.. Sochta hu direct bate kru kaise like krta hu ya no. Chahiye.. Kuchh idea hi nhi mil pa rha h.. Aap apni post k naam btati h.. Bt solution smjh nhi pa rha hu.. K kaise ladki se baat krna h vagera vagera…
    Koi dekhti bhi to baat ki hi nhi jati…
    Plz aapse request h agr aap khud thoda detail m smjhaye

  116. Hi……
    mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hun wo kahati h ki aap mujshe chhote ho mai aapse kaise pyar karu bt mujhe like karte h mera age 21years h aur uska 22 .mai ky karu pls help me

    1. Hahahaha…. Koi baat nhi aap thode time baad fir puchna, tab tak baate karte rho aur apni taraf se jatate rho ki aapke dil ke kuch kuch hota hai.

  117. ek ladki hai mere pados me jo mujhe dekhti hai maine kabhi koi ladki se bat nahi ki aur me baat karna bhi cahta hoon to mere paas alfaaz nahi hote magar me us se baat karna chata hoon shuruat kaise karoon kuch samajh nahi ata plz help me

  118. Hi shivshi I’m Prem .mai ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu lekin WO ladki kisi anya class me padti hai aor WO mujhe janti bhi ni .mai use kish prakar se impress kru kuch tricks do yar please

  119. hello sweet n lovely shivsi ji,i want to ask u something,yr m 1 ladki ko bht pyaar krta tha n hu…wo ladki yr mujhe bht jyada response n smile deti thi n expect krti thi k m propose karu but due to some personal reasons m use propose ni kar paya….ab 1 and half year baad apni uljhano se nikla n usko search kia bt nhi milti khi bhi….ab m soch raha hu unke ghar jaane ki koi b bahana banakar…m us ladki k town ka ni hu…uske mummy papa mujhe ni jaante so m soch raha hu ab m unke ghar hi jaau jo hoga dekha jayega bcoz uske bina neend to mujhe waise b ni aati aur na dusri ladki patane ka dil krta h…so i want to ask u mera step sahi h unke ghar jaakar khood ko apna aap ko dikhane ka…

    1. Kyunki koi aur chara hai nhi isliye yhi kiya ja sakta hai, vaise me thoda bhut idhar udhar to chalta hi hai aakhir ye dil ka mamla hai… Go for it 🙂
      And batana jrur ki kya hua 🙂

  120. Hello Shivni. I am Vishal. I live in Gzb
    Main Ladkiyo se baat karte waqt hickhichta hu. Main ek ladki ko college jate dekhta hu roz. 3 din se msin usse baat karna chata hu kaise start karu. So help me yaar.

  121. Mere Tution pe ek ladki hati hai yr….
    Mai ushe apni g.f. bnana chahta hu..
    Par mujhe bs ushka naam naam pta hai or na ushe abhi tk bt kr paya hu…
    Toh ushe kaise bt start kru yr

    1. Apni personality achi bana kar confidence ke saath uski taraf dekho, use notice karwao ki aap use dekh rhe hp… 2-3 baar eye contact hua to jaa kar Bindas andaaz me Hi bolo, darna bilkul mat aur na hi nervous hona. Usse koi choti si baat karna smile ke saath and thanks bol kar baat khatam karna, next day fir koi baat karna halki fulki and last me uski hali si tareef kar dena, net day no. mangna jarur degi (agr dene waali hogi to) 🙂

  122. ek laadki sai kabhi sai baat krna chata hu ….per kr nhi sktha vo sirf tuesday mandir mai aathi hai ….baat krne jaau toh uska chota bhai ya sis hoti hi …kuch idea hai

    1. Use ye dikhao ki aap use dekh rhe ho, confidence ke saath usko dekho taaki vo ignore na kar paaye, fir next time jaise hi vo aapki taraf dekhe, use phone no. dene ka ishara karo…

  123. hello mam,darta ni hu m kisi se b even usse b jisse pyar krta hu…mam m bs ye puch raha tha ki m milte hi use apna number dedu to thk rahega na bcoz m bht dino se uski 1 jhalak ko taras gaya hu pata ni kahan gai maine har wo jagah chhan mari jahan kisi ne b bola k wahan milegi,wahan padhti hogi,etc….m bs jb b wo dikhe use apna number dena chahta hu n thats m asking k aise dena thk rahega kya…kya usme wahi feelings again jaag jayegi jo phle uski mere liye thi…

    1. Aap usse bat karo and no. de do, theek rahega ya nhi rahega is chakkar me jyada mat pado. Jyada sochne se problems jyada dikhayi dengi aapko 🙂

  124. hello mam,jb m 12th class me tha m 1 ladki ko
    bht jyada love krne lag gya tha aur m studies
    me acha tha n love me aane k baad looks n
    personality banakar usko bht jyada impress n
    attract kar lia tha aur wo bs mujhe dekhti rhti
    thi(ya kaho ghoorti rhti thi) n smile deti rhti thi..phr mereko pata laga unke area k students se ki wo character
    ki achi ni h and 4 this reason i let her go
    without proposing her….bt ab 2 saal k baad
    confirm hua ki sab rumours thi n she is
    very good girl….wo mujhe ab milti ni h m
    unke ghar k samne bike/car rokkar khada ho ho kar aata hu subh phn par baat karne k bahane…..mera question
    ye h mam ki aapko lagta h jo itni attracted thi
    wo ni bhuli hogi mujhe n dobara mujhe
    waisa hi response degi bcoz m number
    dene krne ki firaq me unke ghar k
    saamne ya thoda aage piche unke gate se khada ho hi jata hu 10-15 dino me 1 baar taki
    wo kbhi nikal aye ghar se bahar…n 1 thing
    more mam maine number dene k liye 1
    opaque pen me kagaj k tookde par no.
    Likhkar daal dia h aur soch raha hu jb wo
    dekhe to m pen ko jameen par fek du aur ishara kar du

    1. Agar itna sab kuch karne ki bajaye tum simple usse baat karne ki kosish karo like WhatsApp par, call par ya fb par to vo jyda acha rahega. Girls kabhi bhi aise ladke ko pasand nhi karti jo itna darte ho ki apni bat bhi shi tarike se na bol sake, agar aise ladke se friendship ho bhi gyi to koi fark padta nhi, ladkiyon ko smart and intelligent boys with daring nature pasand aate hai, so go and talk to her directly.

  125. Hii Shivani …
    Meri problem h k m ladkiyon se baat nhi kr pata agr kisi se baat hoti h to hi hlo BT usske baat smjh nhi aata kya baat kru..pta nhi aaj tk koi gf nhi bni… Thoda shy type hu.. BT personality OK h.. Mera frnds bolte h k tu kisi se baat kre or vo ladki yes n kre aisa nhi ho sAkta… Kya kru.. Kya ladki paise wale ya play boy type ladko ko hi psand krti h…?
    Kya ladki ko saaf dil se baat krne wale ldke psand nhi Aate? Thoda aap suggest kroge. To….

  126. Hi..
    Mam mere batch me ek ladki h. Usse kai baar eye contact hua.. To ek din Maine usse uska naam puchha BT usne btaya nhi…
    Class m kisi ladke se baat nhi krti.. Apni saheliyon ke sath aati h…
    Uske baad ignore kiya BT vo kai baar dekhti h.. Or usko pta h k m usko notice krta hu… Baat krna chahta … BTkr nhi pata… Kya krna chahiye… Pahle kabhi ladkiyon se baat nhi to thoda nervous ho jata hu… Kya krna chahiye

      1. Hi.. Shivshi
        kya mujhe us ladki se baat krni chahiye… Agr krni chahiye to kya bolna chahiye.. Kuchh idea nhi mil rha.. 2 months se usko dekh rha hu.. Usko bhi pta h kai baar uske pichhe gya baat krne lekin kr nhi paya vo dekhti h .. Kkyu dekhti h kuchh smjh nhi aa rha.. Sirf isliye to nhi ki Maine uska naam puchh tha.. Bs .. Aap thoda detail m btaoge plz… Yr mind se nikal nhi pa rha hu .. Ignore krna chahta hu BT wahi dimag chla jata h…
        Batch m kisi dusri ladki se bhi baat krna se drta hu lekin uski vajah se nhi kr pata lagta h k kabhi us ko ye n lge k ye to sb p chance Marta h…
        Plz help

      2. Mam kya usse baat krni chahiye ya vo sirf isliye dekhti k Maine uska naam puchh tha.. Aapke sare post padhe PR koi idea nhi mil pa raha apply nhi kr pa raha hu aap agr khud answer dengi bjaye kisi post Ka naam ke to better hoga plz

  127. Hello Shivshi Mere ghar se 5 ghar bagal me ek ladki rhti h or mai usko bahut like krta hu nd sayad wo v mujh ko like krti h. M nt sure. But wo mujhe dekh ke smile deti h. Mai bahut baar try kiya hu ki us se baat kru but wo ni krti h wo hass ke apne ghar chli jati h. Kya kru mai. Plz help me Shivshi

    1. Uska no. nikalo kahi se aur phone ke through contact karo… Bas baat shuru honi chahiye uske baad to sab apne aap trak par aa jayega..

  128. dussri coaching ki ek ladki pasand aayi hai mein usse bahut like kar ta hu par problem ye hai bo van se aati hai or jaati hai. bas mein use utni hi time dekh sakta hu jab tak van nahi aati jab tak bah jab tak bah coaching ke samne benches hai bo bah bethti hai approximate 15 se20 minutes tak ab sabse bada problem ye hai ki mera aur coaching walo se 36 ka aakda chalta hai. ab mein kya karu pls help

  129. hi shivshi..
    Mujhe ek sweet and pyari si ladki se love ho gya hai..
    wo mere ghar ke pass wale school me padhti hai jiske karan mai usko daily dekhta hu or jis din mai nhi dekhta uss din pta nhi mujhe kya ho jata hai mera kisi kaam me man hi nhi lagta..
    Mai paglo ki tarah uske liye tadapta hu.. Maine aPki ye post ” Anjaan Ladki Se Baat Kaise Kare”bahut baar pdha hai lekin hum ek small town se hu jiske karan mai usse sidhe khul ke baat nhi kar sakta,..
    ek saal se mai uske liye tadap rha hu mai usko hmesha ke liye apna banana chahta hu but mujhe kuch samjh nhi aa rha mai kya kru ,
    Plz help me shivshi..plz

      1. Shivshiji me meri clg me ek ladki ko chahta hu vo computer department mai hai or mein automobile me or na vo muje janti hai pr vo mai use love karta hu prr me prpose krne se darta hu kyoki vo muje na kahegi to aesa dar lag rha hai to kya kru plz help me fast

        1. Na kahegi ye soch kar agar aap daroge aur puchoge hi nhi to vo jyada bura hoga. Aap itni tension mat lo jo hoga us par humara control nhi hota lekin hume apna kaam jarur karna chahiye, aapke man me uske liye pyar hai to izhar karo aur jo hoga vo hoga, uski mat socho..

  130. ek ladki muzhe roz skul jaati dikhti hai mein use like karta hu mein use roz dekhta hu bo aur uske frnd samaz gaye hai ki mein use like kar ta hu ab mein ky akaru mein uae khona nahi chahata hu pls tell me

  131. Mai ek lrki ko like krta Hu wo mere uper ke flat me rehti hai . Ab ye nhi pta Ki wo mujhe like krti hai ya nhi but one time jb Mai glary Mai khara tha tb usne mujhe ice cream offer Ki thi but Mai kha aap khao phit Maine dobara upr dekha to wo whi thi ur usne phir ice cream offer Ki Tb bhi mene mana Kr Diya .is bat ko 2-3mahine Ho gai .ab smjh nhi aata Ki kese baat kru.aur haan wo yha se khi aaur ja rhi hai .ab btao Mai kya kru ussse kese bat kru uska no.kese Lu. Plz solve my problem

  132. ek ladki mjhe bohat achhi lagti hai mai b.tech kar raha hu aur wo mjhse 1 class senior hai mai use 1 ladke k sath ghumte dekhta hun usse bat karna sahi rahega agar ha toh kaise bat karu ek bat aur mera unse eye contact v bohat bar ho chuka hai

  133. I like your wep site mujhe bhi ek ladki love hai or use bhi par hum dono ek dusre kah nhi pate kyo ki hum dono ek dusre se mil nhi pate or 11 class me padhati hai or or vo mujhse amir hai or mai rent par rahata hu or mai job karta hu

  134. Hi..
    M ek ladki se fb pe baat krta hu..and we r frnd. Pahli or ek hi ladki h jisse mne life baat ki h. Kabhi mila nhi hu pr i like her bcz uski or meri soch frndship or relationship k bare me same h. i respect her. Like krta hu ye bola h usko pr vo kahti h k feelings kisi k liye bhi aasakti h .so v r frnds. Kaafi din baat nhi hui to kuchh stupid sa msg kr diya than i say sorry . She say its ok. Now she dont reply me … kya kru
    Plz reply Shivshi

  135. hello , madam ,
    I am sanghani bhautik from Surat I am asking u some thing about love ,
    me ek Ladki ko sacche dil se pyar karta hu kyu na karu akhir wo hai hi into khubsurat .waise Mujeonly Uska face dekh kar hi love nahi hua but uska behaviour , uska natura etc. ab problem ye hai ki maine uske sath ek bar bat Karen ki try kari thi but usne koi replay nahi diya so muje laga jaise use ye bat pasand nahi aayi WO chahti hai ki me USSe direct bat karu par meri himm at nahi ho rahi so me kya karu or Kaiser karu ? wise WO muje class mai kai bar dekhti bhi hai.so give me replay fast as possible….
    thank you..

  136. Hi..
    M ek ladki se bat krta hu fb pr aur bhot like bhi krta hu… bola bhi pr usne kaha feelings kisi k liye bhi aa sakti pr dobara mt bolna .. baat krti pr mujhe koi experience nhi h baat krne ka isliye smjh nhi pata k vo kis trh baat krna chahti h
    Kuchh din pahle uska reply nhi aaya to maine kuchh glt bol diya naraz hui usne kaha dekh yr m pahle hi tnsn m hu bhadak mt kr maine sry bola or kaha ab nhi krunga… fir ek do din msg nhi kiya 3 din mere msg na krne se vo normal se jyada fb use kr rhi h
    Maine hello kaha bt usne dekha nhi….
    Like krta hu bt as a frnd usko khona nhi chalta…baat nhi krti to bhot yaad aati hai bola bhi tha pahle maine use. Uski soch or meri soch ek jaisi h bhot common . Maine to socha tha agr meri job lag gyi to shadi ki puchh lunga. Mgr ab to baat bhi nhi krti kabhi militi bhi nhi. Bolti h m kisi se nhi milti ..na hi no. Deti h.. ha baki sb btatya kaha padhti h… m kya kru… agr aap meri email id pr reply dengi best hoga

    1. Navin us ladki ko aapme koi interest nhi hai, ye baat likh lo. Ab agar tum uske chakar me ek second bhi waste karte ho to bevkoofi hogi. Apni soch badlo, live life for those who loves u, make u mom smile, make ur Papa proud, set life target and do 24 hour hard work to achieve that goal at any cost.

    1. Vaise age koi Matter nhi karti But apko Apni Personalty Esi Banani Padegi Jo Us Ladki Ko Passand Ho, first Apko Pta Hona Chahiye us Ladki ko Kin Baato mein interest hai, Ladki ke interest ki baate jyada kare and uske Comfort Feel Karana Jaruri hai, Kabi usko feel mat hone dena ki aap Age mein Usse Bade hai,

  137. Hlo mam…
    Mere tuition cls m ldki ko like krta hun ,o bhi mujhe dekhti hai.PR hmlog kabhi bat nahi kr pate.mai bahut bar socha ki bat kiya jay pr o hmesa apne friends k sath rahti hi.mujhe ye bhi nahi pta ki o mujhe kis liye dekhti hi….

  138. Hai
    my name is Abhi
    mere tuition me ek ladki h jise me apni gf bnana chahta hu .
    vo mujhe dekhti h but bat nhi krti kbhi me use kese bat kru and uski frnd mere side se aati h to me usse kese bat kru .
    yar plz help me

    1. Yaar tution ki ladki se baat karne me kya muskil hai, kisi bhi bhane baat karni shuru kar do, kuch puchne ke liye ya vaise Hi Hi kar do and mast si tareef kar do, ladki bas ye dekhti hai ladke me dum kitna hai.

  139. hiii shivani u r soo beautiful i m ishant… mai aik ladki ko like karta hu per usse janta tak nahi nahe kavi usse baat ki hai aur mai usse jab v dekhta hu toh wo v mere aankhon mai aankhen dal kar dekhti hai mere taraf attract v hote hai or usse baat karne mai muje koi problem nai hai but uske samne jaakr kya bolu kya kahu yahe nahe samj aata pllz dear help mee..

    1. Are Ishant itna sochte nhi hai, bas uske saamne ja kar bolo… `Hi…` vo bolegi `Hi…` bas fir puch lo, aapka no. milega? vo bolegi kyu? Aap bola, bas yun hi aapse baat karni hai. Vo mana kar degi fir kuch din use aate jaate dekhte rho… nain mataka karte rho aur kuch dino bad fir se ja kar bolo, yaar mujhe aap bahut pasand ho… Bas aise hi baat shuru ho jaati hai.. 🙂

  140. Hello mam, mera ek gf he. O mujhe bahat pyar karti hai.hamara har time phone pe bat chalti reheti hai lekin men kuch mehi bolta hun, wo hi hamesa bolti reheta hai. Men sirf han ya na esha kuch bolta reheta hun. To men kiya bat karu uske sath?

  141. Main ek ladki ko pasand karta hun. Wo mujhse 3 yrs junior hai humari college ki hai maine use pehlibaar dekha hai college main aur I want to talk to her I dont know any thing about her even dont know her name.Please help me…..

  142. Shivshi Mam, main puch toh raha tha kisi aur ladki ke bare main lekin main kya karu mujhe toh aapse hi pyar ho gaya. I want 2 meet u anywhere mam & I really like u soo much u & u r tips also Can u plz give me u r no.

    1. Yr tum colg main koi b km ya faction party etc main participate kro har ek teacher ki respect kro students ki help kro girls se friendly raho good looking raho fir dekhna kaise dhere tumhari baat bnti

  143. Hi shivani ji mai BA 1 me study karta hu but mai ladki ko bahut chata hu use baat kaise karu but uske pass jane ka mauka nai milti hai kaya karu please help me

    1. Shivani ji
      Main Mumbai me abhi 1 saal se shift hua hu
      But jaha rhta tha wo place chod kar dusri jagah aagya hu waha par mere ghr k samne ek ladki hai Jo mujhe like karti hai main bhi usse like karta hu ek baar hum issaro me baate bhi krte hai but jab main usse kuch deta hu to wo mana kar deti bolti hai baad me
      Main kya karu
      Aur jab main usse puchta hu uska college to bhi batati hai aur ye bhi batati hai ki kaise aane ka but jab main uske college k pass jata hu to wo friend k sath mast hoti hui mujhe ignore kar k chali jati hai
      Mujhe batao kya karna chahiye
      Aur kuch dene par baad me ki baat kyo krti hai

      1. Aap us ladki ko ignore karna shuru kar do agar vo aapko chahti hogi to khud aapki taraf aayegi varna…. 🙂

  144. hi plzz help me shivshi mujhe mere school me bahut larkiya like krti hogi mujhe pta hai or WO sab mujhse baat krne ki kosis krti hai PR nhi kr pati kya pta unko lgta ho ki meri gf hogi aab me kya kru … 🙁

    1. Akash aap khud ja kar unse baat karni shuru karo, isme koi problem nhi hai. Kisi bhi bhane shuru karo fir aage khud badh jayegi..

    1. Ohh… mujhe pata hai jab kisi ke saath aisa hota hai to kaisa feel hota hai. Par aapko ye sochna chahiye aise kyu hota hai and un points par work karna chahiye.

  145. Hi ma’am
    main ek ladki ko bahut like karta hoon wo mere hi college ki hai but class same nhi hai to meri us se bt nhi ho paati hai main us se friendship ke liye pucha tha but usne mana kar dia or college mein wo hamesha apni friends ke saath rehti hai to baat nhi ho paati
    wo jb coaching se aati hai to mujhe dikhti hai ab main use kisi tarah apna banana chahta hun

  146. Meri Ek New Classmate He. Me Usko Bahut Like Karta Hu. Jab Bhi Wo Muje Dekhti He To Uski Smile Se Muje Lagta He Ki Wo Bhi Muje Like Karti He Muje Ye Samaj Nhi Aa Rha He Ki Me Us Se Kese Apne Pyar Ka Izhar Karu Didi…

  147. Ek ldki hai jise mai pehle like krta tha or ab bhi wo mere ghr k samne rhti h wo mujhse pehle bohot baat krti thi per ab usne kam kr diya kyo ki maine bhi mere baju wale ghr me ayi ek bhopal ki ladki se baat ki thi bhopal wali ladkine mujhse samne se aakr baat ki thi to mai usse pyaar krne laga ab wo chali gyi bt hamari love story ban gyi or jo samne wali ladki h wo mujhse bilkul bhi baat nhi krti jab bhopal wali thi tab wo mere se baat krne ke liye rha dekhti bt ab wo ghr k samne wali ladki bilkul bhi baat nhi krti pehle dekhti to bhi thi ab wo bhi nhi krti baat krti h bt uska man nhi krta mujhe usse baat krna h or no. Bhi lena h plzz help me

    1. Next time jaise hi vo dikhe vo Hi karo, fir ishare me hath jod ke use request karo ki 2 mint baat karni hai… Aise karne par vo baat kregi.

  148. वो मेरे सामने के घर मै रहती हे बात एक साल
    पहले की हे वो मुझे देखती थी मुझे लगा ऐसे ही देखतीहोगी पर बात कुछ और थी वो छत पर भी ऐसी जगह बैठती जहाँ मूझे देखती रहे जब मै जॉब जाता हु तो घर से ही मूझे देखती और जब मै रात को घर आता हु तो मेरा इंतजार करती है चाहे रात को दस बज जाये वो कॉलेज भी मेरे साथ जती है मैने एक बार उससे बात करने के लिये उसके कॉलेज तक गया मैने उससे कहा xxxx सुनो मुझे आपसे बात करनी है पर वो सुनती नही है और कोई भी जवाब नही दिया अब मै उसके साथ जबरदस्ती बात नही कर सकता ना फ़िर मै वहा से आ गया फिर रात को मेरा इंतजार क्यों माना की वो पढ़ाई करती है तो पढ़ना कमरे के अंदर भी हो सकता है बाहर ही क्यों फिर वो एक दिन कॉलेज एकेली पैदल जा रहीं थी उसके साथ कोई फ्रेंड्स भी नही था तो मै उसके पास गया और बोला xxxx bike पर बैठो तो उसने कहा की मै आपसे कुछ नही कहती इसका मतलब आप कुछ भी करोगे और मेरा पीछा मत किया करो मै उसको बात करता but वहा भीड़ ज्यादा थी क्योंकि वो मैन रोड पर जा रही थी
    क्या हमारे बीच क्या वो मुझ से प्यार करती है

    1. Pta nhi yaar bhut confuse karne waali baat hai. Ladki baat bhi nhi karna chahti aur din raat intezar bhi karti hai.. Pagal hai fir to..

  149. Hi shiavani

    I need ur uelp
    Ek ladki hai Jo bahut pas and hai . mujhe Facebook pe mili hai
    Jab Maine usee friend req send kiya to usne accept nhi kiya

    To aap ye bataye ki usse. Kya bolu mera frnd req acpt kare and mujh se frndshp kare le

    1. Use bolo – Pls friend request accept karo, mujhe aapse kuch baat karni hai. Fir usse dosti karo pahle and then propose.

  150. hello shivshi didi i need ur help bcz mujhe ek ladki se pyar ho gya hai oh ek Muslim hai or me hindu oh mujhe hamesha dekh ti hai but me jab ose dekh ta hu to oh face ghuma deti hai ek din mene os se bat ki ose kaha will u b my frnd oh mujhse puchi kya tm hindu ho mene kaha han me ek hindu hu or mene pucha kya aap ko kuch problem hai is se so is ne kaha nahi fir mene os ka nam pucha os ne aap na nam bola hashte hashte but mere yeh problem hai ki oh mujhse patti nahi oh road me bat nahi kar na chahti hai or aap na number bhi nahi deti hai so me kya karu

    1. Use bolo mujhe 5 mint aapse baat karni hai akele me pls. Fir kisi aisi jagah jaao jha bheed kam ho and use apne dil ki baad batao..

  151. Hello Shivashi 😀 mujhe ek ladki pasand hai and wo meri gali se Daily tution jati hai
    main bhi ussi k time par tution nikalta hun…But dono k tutions Alag hai wo mujhe ek jhalak dkh leti h or main bhi dekhta hu usey But usey first time baat karun to kya karun? i mean ‘i like you’ bolunga to usey Old lagega’Cause ye toh har ladka bol deta hai
    kuch naya Batao first time kya bol k propose krun??? 🙂 :-\

  152. Hiii
    meri ek frnd fb pe hai aur mujse baat bhi karti hai. .
    par maine uska photo bhejne ko kaha to usne mana kar diya . . Agar mhje uski photo chahiye to muje uske sath kaisi baatchit karni padegi aur kaise me uska mobile number le saku. . . Plz ans. Me

  153. Hello, shivshi ji
    koi baat nahi agar aap nahi samje,
    We should change the topic…
    Vese agar me shi soch raha hu to…
    Aisa pyara kam karne wali shivshi ji bhi pyari
    si dikhti hogi?

  154. Hello shivshi ki
    Aap shi ja rahe ho,
    Kisi ne sahi kaha he,”kam vahi karna chahiye Jo mann se ya dil se achha lage” and mujhe lagta he aapka mann and dil isi kam me lagta he.

      1. hello
        me jb roj subh clg jata hu to o ladhki bhi usi time pe clg nikl ti he. bt o uske papa ji ke sath aati he to me kaise bat karu usee kuch idea batao

      1. hello mam- jab mai kisi ladki ko call karta hu to baat na kar pane ki wajah se rong number kah kar kaat deta hu ar phir dobara call karne ki himmat nahi padti hai to please mam iska solution bataiye…

        1. Solution yhi hai ki apne andar himmat le ke aao ya aisi cheez ki taraf dhyan dena chor do.

  155. mam mai ek ladki ko bahot pasand krta hu vo mujhe aksr anjane jagah milti h shop, me garden me road pr mai uska nam bhi nhi janta bt bahot like krta mai kya kru ap he btayiye

  156. hi dear
    kal mera collage main 1 day tha almost girls mjse baat krna chahati thi bt maine kisi se baat nhi kii bcz. main ek aise partner find krna chahata hun jo hmesha mera saath de so. plz mjhe suggst kro ki mjhe kya krna chaiye ki main kisi ko dhund skun…

    1. kuch mat karo bas dekho konsi ladki nature ki achi hai, analyze karo ki kon paiso ke piche bhagti hai aur kon nhi, ye samjhne ki kosish karo konsi ladki aapke nature and aapki thining ko best samajh sakti hai aisi koi mile to Go and ask her for Friendship. Baat karne se pahle agr Pasand Ki Ladki Se Dosti & Friendship karne Ke Best Tips padh loge to sone par suhaga hoga.. 🙂

  157. Hi shivsi main ek ladki se pichhle ek saal se bhaut pyar krta hun pr aaj tk us se baat nhi krpaya meri himmat hin nhi hoti hai ussey baat krne ki kaise main ussey baat karoon

  158. Me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu vo bhi mujhse pyar karti hai lekin ab vo mujhe ignore marti hai and baat bhi kam hi karti hai ab mai usko apni taraf acractive karne ke liyd kya tips karo

    1. Ye muskil kaam hai. Fir bhi try kar sakte ho use milo, uske saath time spend karo, movies ke liye jaao, vo karo jo vo chahti hai.

    1. Dear jab aapko mauka mile usse baat karo, vo baat nhi karti koi baat nhi aap apni taraf se kuch na kuch puchte rha karo vo khud jawab degi vaise bhi abhi vo choti hai so in sab cheezo me itna interest nhi hota so give her time bas ek baat ka khayal rhe ki uski najar me aapko repo achi rehni chahiye and use ye maloom hona chahiye ki aap ache insan ho and uski care karte ho and use like karete ho.

  159. Ek ladaki mere padose me rhti he 9th me padhti he vo ladko se jyada bat nhi karti mera uske ghar ana jana he ydi use patana he to me kya karu

  160. Hi.good evng..kesi ho aap….apki tips realy good h and its works…
    My question is that..
    Mere office me ek ldki ne new joining ki h.or uski ye first job h. To sbse alg si rhti h and she is only a female sfaff in my office.
    So first day mene hlo hii kiya usko and rutinly krta hu …kbi kbi yaha waha ki bate b hoti h…o ofic k pass rhti h to walk krke aati h…finely I like her but how I impress her….kya m usko Ghr drop krne k liye puchu….kya kru btao plz

    1. Bilkul shi ja rhe ho, usse jitni mel milap kar sakte ho karo, Hamesha Hi Hello Smile karte rho jab mauka mile uski tareef karo and use ye feel karwao ki is office me aap uske best friend ho. Fir kisi din use ghar tak drop karne ke liye pucho. Sab shi rehta hai to kabhi bahar jaane ka pucho.. Best of Luck.

  161. Hi mara nam ha sourabh ma 14sal ka hu ma 9th class ma padta hu mare class ma ak ladki padte ha i am like u mane us ladki ka sath bat be kare ha ma roj us ladki se bat karta hu vo my pohne be use karte ha ma uske pas be baith jata hu par vo mare girlfriend nhi ban paye ha koi tarika btao ke mujhe us ladki se kya kahna ho plz help me

    1. Use jo cheez pasand ho uski baate karo uske saath. Uska mood acha karo and kuch funny joke maro taki use acha and Happy Happy mehsoos ho fir usse thoda flirt kro and indirectly apni Dil ki baat kaho agr vo positive response deti hai to aage baat karo.

  162. Hello mam.mam mai ek ladki ko bahot pasand karta hu wo mere padosh me hi rehte hai aur wo mujhe dekhte hai aur mai bhe use dekhta hu pr kru kuch samajh nhi aata aap bataiye kya wo mujhe pas and krte hai ya nhi mai use kaise bat kru wo ghr we bahar jaldi nhi nikalte hai aur WO school me padte hai lekin wo school hmare padosh he me hai Maine ek bar use jate samay raste me bat karne chahe lekin nhi ho paeee mai use bahot pasand karta hu WO mujhe dejhte hai air mai use lekin bahot bar Maine dekha ki WO mujhe dekhte aur jaise hi mai use dekhta WO turant hat jati WO mujhe pasand krte hai ya nhi mujhe kuch samajh nhi aaara ha hai .plz help me.

    1. Aapko himmat karni hogi aur kuch nhi. Usse baat krne ki himmat karo baki bat apne aap aage badh ayegi. Go and try to talk to her.

    1. Baat karne ke liye 2 cheeze chahiye Himmat aur Alfaz. Mere khyal se aapke paas dono hai so Go and say Hi to her, fir baat apne aap start hogi agr Aap bolne ki himmat hi nhi kar sakte to sorry kuch nhi ho sakta.

      1. dear shivshi apka help krna bhoot acha lga or me is nateejy pe pohancha hun k app hi wo larki ho jise me dhoundh raha tha.so u can friendship with me. i waiting ur ans.

        1. Dekho to jra… Propose kaise kar rhe hai… Are jra pyar se propose karo yaar.. Main itne aasani se nhi manne waali.. 😉

  163. Shivashi..me new colg me admsn liya hu aj 1st day tha.. 1 ldki h clasroom me but unkown h.. to usee kya bolkr kos bahane baat shuru kru ? Kya me usk bench k side k bench pe beth jau ? Use shaq to ni hoga k me line marn aya hu or hA HMRE CLASROOM ME SAB BOYS SE JYDA ME HI GUDLUKING N HIGHTED HU YE + POINT H.. AP APK pas jitnr bahane h btao koi 1 to mre kaam ayga or is website k readers ko.. k unkown grls se kin kin bahane se batchi