Hello Friends… Kaise ho? Humare friends ko ek problem se aksar gujarna padta hai, us problem ko hum normal language me kahte hai.. One sided love. Uff…bahut mushkil hai ise handle karna. But koi baat nahi, hum hai toh kya gum hai, isko bhi handle kar lenge! Toh aaj hum apne un friend ki problem ka solution denge, jinka question hota hai – Main ek Ladki Se Pyar Karta Hu, par Agar Ladki Pyar Na Karti Ho to Kya Kare. Ab kuch situations mein hota kya hai ki, ladka ek ladki se one sided love karta hai, aur jab wo use propose karta hai toh woh use yeh bol ke mana kar deti hai ki -“Main tumse Pyar Nahi Karti.” But ladka use itna pyar karta hai ki woh use kisi bhi halat me khona nahi chahta. But ab problem ye hai ki use manaye bhi to kaise, bole bhi to kya bole. Toh aisi situation me bas ek hi cheez dimag me aate hai – Yaar Main Kya Karu?. Hmmm…baat to sahi hai ki, Kya kare ab woh.

Toh chalo hum sab mil ke unhe ye batate hai ki, One sided love ko two sided love mein kaise convert kare. Hum sab hai na unko batane ke liye ki Ladki ko kaise manaye, ladki ko apne pyar mein kaise deewana banaye to fir tension ki kya baat hai.

Ladki Ko Apna Banane Ke Tarike

Ladki Ko Apne Pyar Mein Kaise Dale Tips

Agar aap ladki ek baar propose kar chuke hai or usne aapko relationship ke liye mana kar diya hai, toh pehli baat us cheez ko wahi chod do, uski baat ko dil se lagakar mat baithe raho. Aap apni friendship yaani Dosti me difference na lao, warna aap uske paas aane ka aur uske sath time spend karne ka mauka kho doge jo ki bilkul bhi acchi baat nahi hogi, aur phir toh aap use apne pyar mein kabhi nahi dal payenge. Toh is proposal ko aapko aur usko embarrass mat karne do. Pahle jaisa comfort level maintain karke rakho. Dhyan rakho ye cheez bahut important hai, agar yha aap fail ho jaate hai to fir bahut muskil ho jayegi.

Aur haan ladki ko manane ke liye, thoda patience level badhana padega, kyunki ladki nakhre bahut karti hai. Aapka pura patience level test karengi ladkiyan. Toh bas phir agar aap is stage ke liye ready hai, toh ab badhte hai aage..

⇒ Uski Care Karo

Ladkiyon ko caring ladke bahut pasand hote hai, so agar aap uski care karte hai toh uske aapki taraf attract hone ke chances badh jaate hai. But haan, aapke propose ke baad wo is care ko galat na samjhe is cheez ka dhyan jarur rakhna. Uske saath friendly behave karna taki use lage ki proposal ke baad or specially uske mana karne ke baad aapki dosti me kuch farak nahi aaya hai aur aapki friendship waise ki waise hai. Is cheez se wo aur jyada khush hogi.

⇒ Maturity Show Karo

Ye ek fact hai ki.. Ladkiyon ko mature ladke bahut pasand hote hai, aise ladke jo apna decision wisely (soch-samajh kar) lete ho. Usko impress karne ka idea bahut helpful hota hai, aap situation ko kaise deal karte ho aur us pure outlook ko kis tarah se perceive karte ho. Use show karo.. aapko Money, apne Expenditure, Savings sab ka bahut ache se khayal hai. Aap sab cheez ko carefully manage kar sakte hai. Aur aap apne career ko le kar bhi bahut serious hai. Aap har topic pe rationally or clearly sochte ho and Aap sab cheez ko equally leke chalte ho, chahe fir wo kisi topic pe baat ho, koi bhi conflict ho, disagreement ho to aapki image mature person ki banegi jo bahut important hai. 

⇒ Uske Likes & Dislikes Jaano

Ladkiyon ko aur jo baat achi lagti hai wo ye hai ki, jab ladke unke Likes, Dislikes, Interest, Family and Childhood mein interest lete hai. Usse uske interest ke baare mein baat karo, wo aur attract hogi. Ladkiyon ko bahut acha lagta hai, jab koi unhe sunta hai. Unke baare mein baat karta hai, aur ab us ladki ke liye aap wo banoge jisse wo baat kar sakti hai aur apni har baat ko suna sakti hai.

⇒ Friendship Mein Flirt Ka Tadka

In sab ke sath jab aap uske sath time spend karte hai toh aap kaafi ache friend ban chuke honge. Toh ab aap apni friendship mein flirt ka tadka add kar sakte ho. Aap baaton baaton mein use filmy romantic dialogue se impress kar sakte hai. Aur use kaise na kaise show karo ki, aapke lines mein chahe flirt hai but feelings orignal hai. But haan use kuch aisa na bolo ki use bura lage kyunki abhi wo aapki girlfriend nahi hai. So, dhyan rakhna doston, kahin baat badhane ki jagah bigad na dena.

⇒ Use Compliment Karo

Ladkiyon ko compliments bahut pasand hote hai. Koi unhe praise kare, unhe notice kare toh unhe ye worth lagta hai. Unhe lagta hai ki unka uske liye special time laga ke ready hona safal ho gaya hai. Isliye unhe praise kar do, use choti se choti success pe appreciate karo. Agar aapko lagta hai, usme koi change hai toh use is change pe compliment karo, isse use ye pata chalega ki aap use sach me notice karte ho. Compliment karne ke liye aapko jyada sochna nahi, just Be Simple and Clear like – Aapki Dress Ache Lag Rahi Rahi Hai, Aap Pe Ye Dress Suit Karti Hai, Yeh Colour Suit Karta Hai, Aapke Hairs Ache Hai bas aisa kuch.

Compliment karne mein ek baat ka dhyan rakhna, use simple compliments like Sweet, Cute, Beautiful aise compliments dein, ladkiyon ko aise compliments zyada pasand aate hain, rather than Hot, Sexy, Bold etc..

⇒ Usse Uske Baare Mein Baat Karo

Jab aap ladki ko impress karne ki koshish kar rahe ho aur jab bhi aap uske sath time spend karo toh usse baat karo – Uske baare mein, uski family, uski problems, har cheez ke baare me aur jo bhi wo bol rahi hai use ache se suno. Uski baaton ko attention do. Aap usse apni har baat share kar sakte ho, use lagega ki aap actual mein uske liye alag ho, jo aap use har baat share kar sakte ho. Use ye show karo uske sath spend kiya hua har time aapke liye special or memorable hai.

⇒ Uske Liye Message Drop Karo

Jab bhi aapki friend offline ho toh uske liye ek Cute & Loving message zaroor drop karo. Kyunki jab bhi wo net chalati hai toh wo aapka message zaroor expect karti hai, aur isse aapka kaam aur bhi aasan ho jata hai, use ye bhi lagta hai aap uske baare mein sochte ho aur aap sach mein use admire karte ho. Aap uski absence mein bhi uske baare mein sochte hai. Toh bas ek chota sa message bhi aapka kitna kaam kar sakta hai.

Toh mere Bindaas Doston, ye hai kuch desi tips Aapki Pasand Ladki Ko Aapse Pyar Karne Mein Help Karne Ke Liye. In tips ko ache se follow karna toh pakka positive results milenge. Aur haan jaise pehle bataya patience level zaroor badha ke rakhna, Jaldi mat karna, kyunki ladki agar pyar bhi karti hui na toh unse confess karwana aur bhi mushkil hota hai. Chalo pahle to aap bas use mana lo, phir use confess karwane mein bhi aapko Shivshi aapki help karegi.

Note

Doston, kyi baar aisa bhi hota hai ki, Ek ladka ek ladki se pyar karta hai ya use pasand karta hai par vo ladki usse pyar nahi karti jiske liye kuch bhi reason ho sakte hai. Agar vo ladki na hi us ladke se baat karna pasand karti hai aur na hi uski koi baat sunna chahti hai to ladke ko 1-2 baar usse baat karne ki kosish karne ke baad us ladki ke baare me sochna chod dena chahiye aur use tang nahi karna chahiye. Agar vo ladki mana kar rhi hai to obvious si baat hai kuch na kuch reason hoga aur jaruri nahi hai ki ladke ko bhi vo reason pata chale. Jab ladki ne strictly aur saaf-saaf mana kar diya to uski baat samajhni chahiye, bewakoof logon ki tarah pagalpanti nahi karni chahiye. Isse ladka sirf apna time barbad karta hai aur ladki ko bhi tang karta hai.

Kuch cases me, Agar ladki ne mana kar diya to kar diya, iska simple matlab hai ki vo ladke se koi pyar nahi karti aur na hi use usme koi interest hai. Aur aise me uske upar koi formula kaam nhi karega aur ladka use attract karne ke liye kuch bhi karega to ladki ko vo cheez aur torture hi karegi, jisse uski life me bhi problems aayegi aur uska dimag kharab hoga. So pyar karo, par dusre ko apne se pyar karne ke liye majbur karne ki kosish mat karo, kyunki aisa kabhi hota nahi.

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Mai apne school ki ek ladki ko bahut pasand karta hu or woh mere frnd ki sister hai lekin woh mujhe nahi jaanti thi tab maine messenger pe usse msg kiya pahle toh boli ki tumhe nahi jaanti hu tab maine apne bare mai bataya or woh mujhse messenger pe chat karne lagi or jab mai usse pucha ki mai tumhara kya hu toh boli bahut acche dost ho or woh mujhe apna secret batati hai or woh kahi milne ke liye bhi taiyar hai ab mai kya kru mam Plzz help me lekin mujhe sak Ye hai ki usne mere msg pe hi bharosa kar li pata nahi woh kaisi hogi acchi ya buri

  2. hiii.

    ek mera v sabal hai
    ek ladki hai simple si us se mai ne baat kiya lagbhag 30 days phone pe kio ki bo apne ghar chali gyee thii mai ne us pic mangi vej di usne mai ne usko babu sona sab bola pucha v bura nhi na lagta hai boli nhi bahut acha lagta fir ek din call pe bola mujhe ap se pyaar ho gaya hai apka jo v faisla hoga mujhe manjur hai…aur fir silently call cut hogaya

    fir next day msg aaya pyaar us se kiya jata hai jo jindgi bhar sath nibhaye hum to ap ko ek acha dost samjh k baat karte hai ap ek ache ladke hai ap ko bahut achi ladi mile gi ap us bakat kuch bol rahe thee mere phone chaat se niche gir gaya hum ko fiver ho gaya hai papa ke phone mai mera sim hai kuch galat likha ho to sorry

    ye total usk msg thaa

    ab hum ko kya karna chaiye plz bata dena ap

  3. Hi Shivshi mem,
    Muje starplus ki ek actress se pyar ho gya…..muje uski bhot yaad aati…please mem meri puri bat pad lena….hans ke ignore mat krna or muje reply jrur dena. Baat kuchh is trah ki h…

    Meri family uska serial kuchh saalo se dekhti he. So muje bhi uski adat ho gyi serial dekh ne ki…..phele to kbhi uske bare me itna nhi socha…or esi feeling nhi hui uske bare me….but abhi

    Kuch dino phele mene uska interviw youtube videos me uske past or ex-bf k bare me dekha….usme us ne ye knha kisi trah uska break up ho gya…or usme se vo kis trah nikal payi i mean kis trah usne uske x-bf ko bhula diya or move on hoke marrige kar li….

    Us actress ki ye hi batte muje achi lgi….or pta nhi us din se vo khaylo me ane lgi…muje uski bhot means bhot yad ati he….muje uske bina kuchh bhi acha nhi lgta….kisi bhi kam me mera mann nhi lgta…..muje mar jaane ko man karta he…..ye hi soch soch k ye kesa pyar h na hi me us se mila hu na baate ki kbhi

    To fir uske bare me itni yaade kyu….vo kya jo muje uske bare me na soch par bhi…..soch ne ko majbur kar deti h

    Mem please help me me kese us se bhula du….use or uski yaddo ko….or kese apni life or carrier me aage bdu…

    please mem help me muje jiina acha nhi lgta y….ye soch k me uske bina ji nhi paaunga

    Ye feeling muje 1st time life hui he….is se phele kbhi kisi ladki ko dekh ki nhi hui….me jaanta hu me ek middle class or vo ek actress h jo….jo milna namunkin h…..uski to Merrige bhi ho gyi….

    Fir bhi na jaane muje kya ho gya h….is halat me me kya kru

    So please mem help me and reply me please 😢😢😢😢😢

  4. Main ek ladki ko pyar karta hoo or shadi bhi karna chahta hoo.main pehle to use iske bare main bola to usne mana kar diya to kya karu ab.

  5. Hy shivsi meri problems solve kar do plz ak larki hum dono bachpan sy ak do sary bat karty thy when os ki ma ny help bi ki os ko ma ny friendship ko kaha tu os ny haa kar di next day os ki friend ny os sy bat kari aur os larki ny mujy na kar di pir bi ma ny nahi chora pir ma ny help kia aur pir ma ny os kistech bana kar di aur back py lika do you friend ship with me os ny ho igore kar dia os ko ma ny gift bi dia os ny wapis kar dia os ko ma ny page py i love you bi lika but os ny mana kar dia but wo mujay bahir dekhti ha but igore kar dati ha ab bat bi nahi karti os ka brother mera dost ha 😢plz help me na mujy ap sy uomid ha ap meri problem solve kary gi plzzzz
    Os ki dost meribi dost ha wo muj sy hod baty karti ha but wo nahi karti

  6. hi mam mera am naval singh mein m.ed ka student hu mein ek ladki ko like karta hu lekin vo kisi aur ko like karti hai is baat ka mujhe pata chala toh maine us ladki ko kuch ulta sidha bol diya lekin mein ab bhi use bahut chata hu agar mein Usse sorry maangu toh kuch ho sakta hai kya plllzz tall me mam

  7. Hii shivshi…. Maine ek ladki ko Bola I like u…. Bt usne mana Kar diya… Lekin vo Mujhe chhup chhupkar dekhti hai… Ab Mujhe Kya karna chahiye…. Btayye pls..

  8. So pyar karo, par dusre ko apne se pyar karne ke liye majbur karne ki kosish mat karo, kyunki aisa kabhi hota nahi.

    mai aap ki ye bat par sahmat nahi hu kyonki muje apne love par trust hai to wo ek din jarur ha bolengi,…..

  9. Comment Text*Hai shivshi Mara name Pawan hy or m ik ladki sy pyar krta hu go mry pdos ki hy m hr roj usy subh Sam KO hmari rsty m mulakat ho jati h lakin vo kbhi akly nhi mil pati kyo ki usky sath uski mom hoti h many kye bar bat krny ki kosis bhi ki magr nhi ho pae AGR usko koi isara bhi kry to koi jvab nhi diya magr kbhi bhi achank ally gli m mil bhi jay to go najr nhi htati yhi silsila 3 months sy chl RHA hy many usy number dny ki bhi kosis ki mager unky ghr valo KO pts chl gya mater vo an bhi asy hi riact krti hy kbhi kbhi koi isara bhi krti hy to m ouch smjh nhi pats ki vo kya kh rhi hy an aap hi btao m kya kru .shivshi ji jaldi jvab DNA khi m koi glti na kr du or mujh pchtana pdy ple….

  10. me 12th me hun me ek ldki se 10 th se pyar krta hun lekin aaj tk mene usse baat nhi ki hai sach toh ye hai ki me ldkiyan se baat krne se drta hun kaas kr us se toh bahut jyada me kya kron

    1. ladkiyo se baat kerne se darna ek normal baat hi jaise aap darte hai waise hi girls bhi darti hai so its not a big deal aap aram se jaa ker baat kare zayada se zayada mana hi karegi or kuch nahi.

  11. Shivshi, आप अपने ब्लोग के लिये फोटो खरीदती है या google से download कर के फोटो का उपयोग करती है? Please, जरूर बताईयेगा।

  12. Hi Shivshi…
    Main hu Joy aur meri gf Anu h, main usse bhut pyar krta hu… mujhe pta nhi ki yo mujhe pyar krti h y nhi but main usse krta hu… Main ranchi m rhta hu aur uska ghr jamshedpur k traf h…. yo ranchi aayi thi apna study krne aur ussne mujhe propose kiya tha aur uss samay se hm dono gf-bf h…. lekin ab usko apna ghr jana para… uska family ko hm dono k bare m pta chal gya h par fir v sab kuch thik h… but jb se yo ghr gayi h tb se ache se bt nhi ho rha h… Yo ek din v call nhi krti h…. Hmko he har din call krna parta hai.. aur jb hm usko puchte h ki call q ny krti ho?? toh bolti h ki mri sister mana krti h baat krne ko… Hm agr 1 week v call krna chor dete h fir v yo ek call kr k hmse baat krne ka kosis nhi krti hai…… I am confused ki she loves me or not… Mujhe kya krna chaiye aap btao..??? Saaf saaf bta digiye ki mko kya krna chaiye….???

    1. pehli baat toh yeh ki uske ghar par pata chal gaya hai toh obviously woh aapko call nahi kar sakti par han aapki yeh baat bhi thik hai ki usko thora toh sochna chahiye hai aap usse aise bolo ki agar usne aapke sath nahi rehna hai to aap dubara usse call nahi karege agar woh bolti hai ki han thik hai usse aapke sath nahi rehna hai toh aap kam se kam usse ek week tak call mt karna phir dekhna woh aapko khud call karegi.

  13. Hii shivshi meri ek dost hai aur mai us larki se pyar karta hu aur ye baat usse pata hai bt kahl usne maine usse ek din bol diya i like you. Bt wo kuchh nahi boli aur maine bhi fir baat ko palt diya fir agle din wo bolti h bato hi bato me tum jyada chance mtt maaro tumhara kuchh nahi ho sakta bcozz i have already boy friend… Bt jaha tkk mai usse jaanta hu aisa kuchh h nahi wo mujhse jhuth bol rhi hai… Bt maine usse kai dino baad bola bhi mai tumhare kabil hu ya nahi toh wo bolti hai pata nahi ab mai kya karu na wo yes bol rhi hai nahi no ab karu toh mai kya karu… Bt mai usse bhot pyar karta hu ager wo mujhe naa milli toh mai mrr jaaunga plZ aap kuch meri aisi help karo jisse mujhe accept karne prr majboor ho jaaye bt abhi bhi mai aur wo ek achhe dost hai ager kuchh bhi problem ho toh mujhe yaad karti hai fir uske baad wo call bhi nahi karti hai ager mai call karta hu toh baat karti hai

    1. aap usse jhuth bolo ki apne gf bana lee hai jisse voh chid jaiyegi aur fir use bata do ki nahi apne koi gf nahi banayi hai aap mazak ker rahe the phir jab aap usko propose karoge toh 100% woh man jaigi.

  14. Hii shivshi meri ek dost hai aur mai us larki se pyar karta hu aur ye baat usse pata hai bt kahl usne maine usse ek din bol diya i like you. Bt wo kuchh nahi boli aur maine bhi fir baat ko palt diya fir agle din wo bolti h bato hi bato me tum jyada chance mtt maaro tumhara kuchh nahi ho sakta bcozz i have already boy friend… Bt jaha tkk mai usse jaanta hu aisa kuchh h nahi wo mujhse jhuth bol rhi hai… Bt maine usse kai dino baad bola bhi mai tumhare kabil hu ya nahi toh wo bolti hai pata nahi ab mai kya karu na wo yes bol rhi hai nahi no ab karu toh mai kya karu… Bt mai usse bhot pyar karta hu ager wo mujhe naa milli toh mai mrr jaaunga plZ aap kuch meri aisi help karo jisse mujhe accept karne prr majboor ho jaaye bt abhi bhi mai aur wo ek achhe dost hai ager kuchh bhi problem ho toh mujhe yaad karti hai fir uske baad wo call bhi nahi karti hai ager mai call karta hu toh baat karti hai

    1. aap usse jhuth bolo ki apne gf bana lee hai jisse voh chid jaiyegi aur fir use bata do ki nahi apne koi gf nahi banayi hai aap mazak ker rahe the phir jab aap usko propose karoge toh 100% woh man jaigi.

  15. Main ek ladki se pyar karta hu. Usne mujhe bewajah block kar diya whatsapp pe. Wo class mein lagabhag sabhi se bolti h, but mujhse nhi. Kuchh dino pahle to wo bolti thi , lekin achanak usne band kar diya. Pyar ki baat karne pe wo bhadak jaati h. Ussme main baat bhi nhi kar sakta. Pls. Help me. Ab main usse apna whatsapp no. Kaise unblock karwau aur kaise attract karu? Wo jab bhi kisi se bolti h to mujhe achha nhi lagta. Pls. Shivasi help me.

    1. Koi jarurat nhi hai aisi ladki ko bevajah itna bhaav dene ki, Dear Vishal kisi bhi person ke liye sabse badi cheez hoti hai Self respect and agar koi humari respect nhi karta to use bhaad me jaane do, aisi ladki ke piche apna time barbad mat karo Dear pls.

  16. Yarrr…. Tu kamall kudi h… Yrrr tu Jo Kr rhi h n.. A to badiya kammm. H.. do. Dillo de milana… yara….. Mannn chngaa Ho gya…. Tera. A sab ache soch nu dekh k…. Yara Mai… Tre nal. Or v batt karna chanda Hu. Tu kch aisa btaa jiss se tre nall ache se batt Ho sakee……….. Tu mre badi bhan jaise h. Oo v aisa he bolte rhte the prr koi n uska sunta Ni tha. … Pr taine dekh Kr bht badiya lgaa yara … Thawqq. Ji thaqq sooo wala much……bhagwan tre KO bht he uucha manzil dega…. God blessed u….sis ….

  17. Hello shivshi!
    first of all thank you and congratulate for ur work.
    mai apse kuch bate karna chahta hu, mjhe yah jan kar khafi khushi ho rahi ki aap itna achhha kam kar rahe ho logo ke problem ko solve karna.Mai 23yr old ek smart boy hu , mai av ek Guitar teacher hu, aur mai aapse isliy bat nhi kar raha hu ki mjhe koi ladki ko impress karni h yah to apne aap ho jate h .aur mjhe v kafi pasand h logo ki help karna mai v istarah kam karta hu apne dosto , students ki help karta hu aur meri batai hu ek ek bat kafi karyagr savi hoti h. maine jaise hi aapke bare me jana aur apke articles ko pada mjhe aachha laga aap jo v tips dete ho sare mere bato se milte julte h .maine yah sab knowledge aapne khud ke experience se gain kiya h aur ek bat janke aapko hairani ho gi ki av mere life me koi girl nhi h pr iska Matlab yahi ki pahle nhi thi bahut thi isliy itna kuch janta hu .Bahut kuch mai aage aapse share karuga umid h ki mjhe v aapse bahut kuch sikhne ko milega. ok bye … Thank you very much. ….