Kya aap bhi kisi boyfriend ki talash me ho, Lekin kisi ladke ko bf bnane se pahle janna chahti ho ki.. ek acha boyfriend kaisa hota hai? Agar aapka answer Haan hai to, fikar not! ab hum aapko detail me btayenge ki ek ladka ek acha Boyfriend kab kehlata hai. Dekho dear, sabse pahle to aapko ek baat samajh leni chahiye ki, jaise haath ki sabhi ungliyan ek saman nahi hoti waise hi har ek ladke ki ek alag personality hoti hai. Ab aapko ek acha bf paane ke liye sabse pahle apni pasand ka ladka dhundhna hoga, uske baad uske bare me aapko kuch basic information collect karni hogi jaise ki… wo kis tarah ka insan hai, uska nature kaisa hai aur use kis tarah ki cheeze pasand aur napasand hai. Relationship jodne ke liye jaruri hai ki uski or aapki thinking match hoti ho. Iske alawa aur bhi kyi baatein hai jo ki aapko kisi ladke ko apna boyfriend bnane se pahle dhyaan me rakhni hoti hai. Vo sab hum aapke saath is article – `Acha boy friend kaisa hota hai` me share kar rhe hai. Bas ab dimag shant karke niche diye gaye points ko ache se padh kar samajhna hoga, jisse ki aapko pata chal sake ki ek acha boy friend kaisa hota hai aur yadi aapka already ek bf hai to vo acha hai ya….

Ek Acha Boyfriend Kaisa Hota Hai

To aaj hum janenge ki ek acha boyfriend kaisa hota hai, or usme kya kya quality honi chaiye? Jisse ki wo ek acha boyfriend saabit ho. To ye sab janne ke liye aapko bas niche diye gaye tips lp steps wise ache se padh kar unhe follow karna hai. Let’s start now…

Acha Boyfriend Kaisa Hota Hai

Samne Kuch Aur Piche Kuch Aur Wala Insan Na Ho

Ladka jaisa hai waisa hi rahe, aisa na ho ki time aane par wo change ho jaye. Matlab, vo aapke sath bhi vaisa hi behave kare jaisa vo dusron saath behave karta hai. Ek banawati insaan par kabhi bhi bharosa nhi karna chahiye, kyunki vo kab badal jaaye kuch kha nhi ja sakta. Jo use pasand ho wo wohi kare kisi ke bare me na sochta ho, ki logo ko uske kuch karne acha nahi lagta bas ye na soche. Jo logo ke samne showoff na kare or fir chahe uske paas kuch na ho. Ya kisi ko impress karne ke liye wo waisa ban jaye jaisa ki wo asal me hai hi nahi. Aise ladko ke sath ladkiyon ko kabhi honest relation nahi milta. Kyunki wo time aane par us ladki ko bhi chor dete hai jo unhe besak sacha pyaar karti ho.

Jo Sabke Sath Polite Acha Behave Kare

Ladkiyon ko sochna chahiye ki jo ladke polite hote hai, jaruri nahi hai ki wo boring ho. Kyunki jyadatar girls yhi sochti hai ki us type ke ladke boring hote hai or isliye wo unhe ignore kar deti hai. Lekin asal me wohi ladke hote hai jo ki serious relationship ke liye bane hote hai ya jo ki uska real matlab jante hai. Ek tarah se unhe hi samajh hoti hai ki jab kabhi breakup hota hai to ladkiyon ko kitna dukh hota hai or jo is baat ki kadar bhi karte hai. Or aisa karne se pahle 100 baar sochte bhi hai ki aage is action se us ladki par kya farak padhega. Iske sath hi ladkiyon ke ilawa bhi wo baki sabhi ke sath polite behave hi karta ho, fir chahe uske samne koi waiter ho ya koi old insan. Isliye ladkiyon ko sochna chahiye ki polite ladke bhi boyfriend bnane ke kabil hote hai.

Yha Padhe : Ladkiyon Ko Kaise Ladke Pasand Hai

Jo Affectionate Moments ko Samajhta Ho

Waise to bahut tarah ke raste hote hai apni girlfriend ko apna pyaar jtane ke, lekin har boyfriend ka pyaar jtane ka alag or apna hi ek tarrika hota hai. Jyadatar ladke kum hi jtate hai ki unhe aapse pyaar hai ya wo aapki care karte. Lekin kuch hote hai jo ki har baat par aapko jtate hai ki wo aapse pyaar karte hai, lekin ye bhi acha nahi hota. Ladkiyon ko ladko ka behave dekh kar hi samajh jana chahiye ki wo ladka aapki kitni care karta hai or sath hi wo ladka aapke liye kaisa feel karta hai. Aur aapke sath kaisa behave karta hai. Kyunki kuch baatein hamesha bolne wali nahi hoti isliye ladkiyon ko bhi ladko ki feelings ko samajhna chahiye. Fir unhe judge karna chahiye or sochna chahiye ki wo ladka unke layak hai ki nahi. Isse aapka relationship bhi ache se chalega or is baat ko le kar aapko aapke relation me kabhi bhi koi problem nahi hogi. Ladke apni feeling kum hi show karte hi is mamle me fir chahe unke samne koi bhi ho jaise ki girlfriend, gharwale ya friends. Bas unke aapke sath kiye gaye behave or aapke liye unke taraf se ki gayi care or support hi unka aapke liye pyaar hota hai.

Jo Women Ki Respect Kare

Aaj-kal jis tarah se newspaper me, News me aur social media par rape ki news aati hai us hisab se to ladkiyan bilkul bhi secure nahi hai. Lekin aapko aisa ladka talash karna hai jo ki har tarah ki girls ya women ki respect karta ho. Sath hi janta bhi ho ki unke sath kis tarah se behave karna chahiye, jisse ki ladki ya koi women uske sath secure feel kare. Kyunki kuch ladko ki wajah se bahut se sharif ladke hote hai jo ki badnam ho jaate hai. Or ladkiyan bhi unhe usi najariye se dekhti hai jaise ki kharab ladko ko dekha jata hai. Isiliye kha Jata hai ki kisi ko bhi itni jaldi judge nahi karna chaiye. Har kisi ko utna time to milna hi chahiye jisse ki aapko pata chal jaye ki ye ladka us kabil hai ya nahi.

Boys jarur padhein : GF Aaj Kal Theek se Baat Nhi Karti, Kya Karu

Jo Ki Aap Par Trust Kare  

Ek tarah se aaj-kal aisa time aa gya hai ki, agar koi ladki apne kisi ladke friend se baat kar rahi hai ya uske sath ghum rahi hai to uska boyfriend is baat ko lekar bahut jealous feel karne lagta hai ya bahut bada issue bana deta hai. Or sath me ye bhi sochne lagta hai ki uski girlfriend ka us ladke ke sath affair chal rha hai. Jab ki aisa kuch nahi hota, ye bas trust karne ya na karne ki baat hai. Or jyadatar ladke aisa hi sochte hai, isliye ya to ladkiyon ko jab bhi apne kisi ladke friend se baat karni hoti hai ya koi kaam hota hai to pahle apne boyfriend ko btana padhta hai ya usse milte time apne boyfriend ko apne sath rakhna padhta hai. Jisse ki baad me unme ladai na ho. Ya iske ilawa pahle se apne boyfriend se clear karle ki aapke friend circle me ladke bhi hai jo ki aapke friends hai or jinhe ki aap apne boyfriend se pahle hi milwa bhi sakte ho. Jisse ki baad me aapka boyfriend bilkul bhi jealous feel na kare, jab ki aap apne friends se baat kar rhi ho or isi ke sath wo aap par pura bharosa rakhenge.

Ya aapka hone wala boyfriend aisa hona chahiye jo ki aapko itna samajhta ho ki pahle to aapke har tarah ke friends ke sath jaan pehchan bnaye, aur sath hi aap dono ke beech me itni understanding rakhe ki kabhi bhi kisi or ki wajah se apne relationship me koi bhi darar na aane de. Jisse ki aapka relation kharab ho ya aap dono me us baat ko lekar behas ya ladayi ho.

Jo Aapki Feelings ki Care Karta Ho

Iska matlab ye nahi hai jo cheez aapko pasand nahi or ladke ko pasand hai, aap use wo karne se bilkul hi mna kardo. Iska simple sa matlab ye hai ki jaise agar aapka boyfriend galat logo ke sath rehta ya ghumta hai to use wo karne se mana karo. Or jo ki aapki ye baat samjhe ki aap use kis level me bol rahi ho. Or fir wo waisa hi kare jisse ki aap dono ki life sahi rahe aage chal kar bhi. Matlab ki jo aapki is baat ko samajh kar apne future ke bare me soche. Iske sath hi ladkiyon ko bhi is baat ka fayda nahi uthana chahiye agar aapka boyfriend aapki khushi ke liye compromise karne ko taiyar ho jata hai. Kyunki jyadatar ladkiyan isi baat ka fayda utha kar apne boyfriend ko apne ishare par nachati hai. Or baad me isi karan unka ka relation bilkul khatam ho jata hai. Or fir wo pachtate hai isliye aapko bhi unka sath dena chahiye, khas kar tab jab wo aapki khushi ke liye compromise kar rha ho. Iske baad jo ki aapki life or aap me puri tarah se interest le or sath hi aapko har jagah support kare.

Agar wo aap me interest lene me katrata hai ya use aapke sath rehne ya ghumne me sharam aati hai to us relationship ko tabhi kahtam kar dene me hi aapki bhalayi hai. Kyunki agar wo aap me interest hi nahi le rha ya aapko support nahi kar sakta to iska malab ki wo aapke liye bilkul bhi serious nahi hai. Isiliye is baat ka khass dhyaan rakhe ki jo aapko hamesha support kare fir chahe wo koi khel ka maidan ho ya aapka koi kaam ho. Or sath hi jo aapki har cheez me interest le jaise aapke bare me janne ki icha jtata rahe or aapki pasand or na pasand ka khyaal rakhe. Iske sath hi agar aap kuch galat karti ho to aapko tokke or samajhaye ki aap galat ho. Fir aapko sahi raste par bhi le kar jaye or aapko puri tarah se support kare.

Jo Aapko Apni Puri Space De

Agar aap kahi bahar jana chahti ho, apni kisi or friend ke sath to wo aap par kisi bhi trah ki koi rok tok na lgaye. Balki agar aap busy ho to wo bhi apna kuch kaam kar le ya apne dosto ke sath kahi ghum le. Bas ladka aisa ho ki jo aapke ek baar bolne par samajh jaye ki – Haan aapki ek apni bhi life hai or is cheez me usko jyada interfere nahi karna chahiye. Balki use khushi honi chaiye ki aap apna kuch khud karne ja rahi ho ya independent type ke ho. Bas ladka aisa na ho ki jo aapko baar baar bole ki mere sath chalo or ghumo and all. Bas jo ki aapki feelings janta ho or aap par trust bhi karta ho puri tarah se. Jo ki space ka matlab janta ho bas.

To friends ye the kuch lajawab tips ye janne ke liye ki,  Acha boyfriend kaisa hot hai. Umeed hai ki aapne in tips ko acchi tarah se padh kar samajh liya hoga. Agar fir bhi aapke mann me kisi bhi tarah ka koi doubt hai ya aapko Life se judi kisi problem me humari help chahiye, to aap niche comment karke humse apni koi bhi problem share kar sakte hai. Hume bhi aapki help karne me khushi hogi.

Published by Shivshi

Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Hello shivshi ji please aap meri thodi so help kar dijiye

    Mai ak ladhki ko true love karta hu vo karti hai
    Jab bhi vo hasti hai to mai bhi has deta hu lekin vo mughse love karti hai ya nafrat karti h mughe nahi pata mai jab usse kuch isharo me kahta hu to vo mughe dekhti rahti hai
    Lekin vo javab deti lekin me samgh nahi pata Ki kya problem hai

    Na hi mai usse Milne Ki himmat bana pata hu is bare me apka kahna h
    Plz jawab dijiyega I’m waiting

  2. Hello mam,
    i hope you fine.
    I have no any problm. But muje aapke ye saare article bahut achhe lagte hn.
    Really awosam

    thqnx mam

  3. hlo mam plz help me mam my name is gurvinder kaur me ek ladke s bahut pyar krti hu hm fb pe mile the tb us ldke ne hi mujhe purpose kiya tha hm relation m a gye mile bhi lekin dheere dheere us ldke k baare m mujhe pta chalne lga ki wo achha nhi hai har ldki ko purpose karta hai feelings k saath khelta hai isliye hamara breakup ho gya lekin breakup k baad bi hm alg nhi hue baat krte h milte hai kaafi time hamari ladae ho jati thi ek ek month hm baat nhi krte the lekin usko koi kaam ho ya advise chahiye ya mujhe advise chahiye ho koi kaam ho hm tabhi ek dusre se baat kr lete hai or us time hm sb baate bhul jate hai hamari ladae kyu hue thi normal jese kuchh hua hi nhi breakup k baad ham physical relation me aa gye lekin wo bolta h ki wo kisi s pyr ni karta bcoz uska ek ldki n dil toda tha jiski vajah s usko kisi s pyr ni hota wo kabhi mujhe kuchh galt ni kahta kabhi dosto k samne burayi ni karta agr mujhe uski zarurat h to ready rahta h always agr m kuchh galt kar rahi hu ya rasta galt h usko jo bhi galt lge mujhe advise deta h ki y galt h tere liye fir bol deta h baki mujhe koi fark ni padta y bat dil p lag jati hai jb bi mai usko milne jati hu care karta h respact krta hai agr dost aa jaye uske office p to mujhe alag bitha deta hai na dosto ko ignor karta h na muje dono side time spend karta hai lekin mam wo or girls k bhi contact me hai bate krta h pahle m gussa hoti thi lekin ab khud ko change kar liya mam plz help kaaro kya karu mai mai usko bahut pyr krti hu pahle batati thi lekin ab batana chhod diya samjh ni aa raha kese usko sudharu kese wo meri feelings samjhe plz help me mam.

    1. Hi Guri,

      Agar aisi baat hai to aapko ye test karna hoga ki vo aapse love karta hai ya aapko ek acha dost manta hai. Agar to vo karta hai fir to vo aapko mil jayega aur agar vo nahi karta to fir jitni bhi kosish kar lo uska aapki life me permanently aana muskil hi hoga. test karne ke liye aap karo ye ki..

      Achanak se usse har tarah ka contact khatam kar do… No msg, no call, nothing. Totally uski life se gayab ho jaao, uski call aaye to uthao bhi mat…

      Agar vo tumhare absence se preshan hone lagta hai, tumhe baar-baar msg aur call karta hai aur buri tarah se frustrate ho jaata hai to iska matlab hai uske dil me bhi tumhare liye special feelings hai aur is incident ke baad use bhi ye samajh aa jayega.

      Agar uske upar tumhare is absence ka koi khas fark nhi pada aur vo apni life me jaisa tha vaise hi khush hai to ye baat yhi saaf ho jaati hai vo tumhe sirf ek acha dost manta hai aur tumhare hone ya na hone se use koi bhut jyada farak nhi padta.

      Hope it helps.

  4. Hi Dear Good Morning for all….

    Mera name Kailash Main ek college student hu. Main jo ladki se like karta hu wo Class XI me padta hai but mujhe wo Dada bolke pukarti hai.
    Mujhe pata naki ki uske or vi koi bf hai ya nehi ?
    Lekin meri problem hai ki relation se unke Vai lagta hu per apna Baheen nehi bahud due ki hai..
    So please helps me madam…
    Wada large hai Hum aapki Biswas kavi nehi todenge so plz help me.
    Plz plz plz…

    1. Use ek baar apne dil ki baat batao… jaise ki use pucho… “Main tumse ek baat kehna chahta hu, par darta hu ki tum naraj na ho jaao” fir vo kahegi Main naraj nhi houngi Aap btao to aap use keh do ki vo aapko pasand hai. Iske baad vo jo response degi use aage ke baare me sochna chahiye ya baat yhi khatam kar deni chahiye ye pata chal jayega.

    1. Mujhe lagta hai, Yes. Actually har choti se choti aur badi se badi cheez se fark to padta hai.

    1. Shak ka koi ilaaj nhi hai, bas ek aur sirf hi cheez ki ja sakti hai ki Baat karke apni shanka dur karo.

    1. aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck 🙂

  5. Dear Mam,

    ap ne feelings par koi artical nai likha hai…

    matlab larka or larki ki kya feelings hoti hain or wo ik dusre ki feelings ko kese samajh sakte hain….

  6. ye shantustjanak jawab nhi hai
    unhe shadi karni chahiye ADITYA SIR AAP ALAG MT HOEYEGA AAP KORT SE SHADI KR SAKTE HO PYAR SE BHADH KE KUCHH BHI NHI HAI SAHAB……ALAG MT HONA PYAR SE ALAG HONA MR JANA JAISE H

  7. Kya Aap Mujhe Bata Sakti Hain…Agar Koi Ladka Kisi Ladki Se pyar karta Hain..aur wo Girl & boy dono jante hain ki unki shadi nahi ho sakti to isme kya karna chahiye aur kya nahi . Please today tell me.

      1. Hello shivasi mai na ladki se baat karta hun o b karthi hai..sab share karthe hai dusare ko sab baate par kya jab b usko meet hone k liye puchtha hun tho o saap saap mana karthi hai Kaiser kare

        1. Shayad wo ye sochti hogi ki jab aap miloge to agar aapko wo pasand nahi ayi to fir kahi uski bejati na ho jaye. kyunki fb par to log picture edit karke daal dete hai lekin real life me wo kuch alag hi dikhte hai.

  8. Hello mam good afternoon , mam meri ek problam hai kay aap help karogi? Meri ek girlfriend hai jise mai 2 saal se like karta tha par tab wo kisi aur ki gf thi par tab bhi ham friend the aur hum dono ek dusre ko like karte the par boyfriend hono ki wajaha se wo muje accept nahi karti thi abhi 2 tarikh ko uska bahut hi bure tarikhe se breakup hua aur fir 5tarikh ko ham engaged hue so abhi use mai kis tarah treat karu kay usane meri care karni chahiye ya uska bartav kaisa hona chahiye lez tell me plez help me,

    1. Hello shivshi ji

      Plz
      Me ap se ye pata karna chati hu ki kya

      Mera bf mujhe love karta h ya ni
      Ye me kaise pata lagau ki mera bf mujhe real love karta h plz mam tell me & help me