Hello Friends, meri ek dear friend Sushma pyar mohabbat ke jaal me aise ulajh gyi hai ki zindgi ko jhanum bana baithi hai. Ek ladka hai jisse ki vo pyar karti hai aur vo bhi kehta tha ki vo Sushma se bahut pyar karta hai aur shaadi karna chahta hai, but ab vo ladka usse baat bhi nhi kar karna chahta jis karan Sushma behal pareshan hai aur mujhse puch rhi hai ki, ab Main Kya Karu? Chaliye pahle hum Sushma ki khani usi ke zubani sunte hai yaani ki padhte hai aur fir uski help karne ki kosish karte hai..

Sushma Ki Pareshani

Mere BF ka name Chandan hai aur mera relation ke 4 saal ho gye hai, Main usse bhut bhut jaada pyar krti hu. Mai uske bina nhi ji sakti, pahle to Vo mujhse bhut acche se baat karta tha or shadi ke liye bhi purpose karta tha, but… ab baat karna bhi nhi chata hai. Main uske bina nhi rah sakti, so isliye kabhi apna haath cut karti hu kabhi expiry date ki medicines khaa leti hu bas isliye ki vo mujhse baat kare. But ab bhut jaada ho gya hai, Jeene ka bhi mann nhi karta. Mujhe pta nhi kya ho gya hai uske alava mujhe or kuch nhi dikhta hai. maine break-up karne ki bhi kosish ki but fir main khud hi nhi reh paayi usse baat kiye bina. Plz help me. Mujhe btao ki, ab Main kya krun plz!

Shivshi ki Salah…

Sushma maine tumhari puri khani 2 baar padhi aur ab jo main batane ja rhi hu vo pahle pura padho aur fir socho ki tumhe kya karna chahiye… 🙂

Tumhare saath jo ye sab ho raha hai vo sab asal me kuch nhi sirf tumhare mann ka khel hai, tumhari thinking tumhari asli problem hai. Reality me tumhare saath koi problem hai hi nhi but tum khud apne liye problem bana rhi ho….! Tumne kha – Tum usse pyar karti ho. Theek hai chalo maan liya ki tum bhut pyar karti ho, lekin kya vo karta hai ?? Vo bilkul pyar nhi karta, aur jo harkate tum kar rhi hai uske baad use tumse ulta nafrat hone lagegi! isi karan vo tumse apna picha chudana chahta hai aur tum is baat ko samajhne ki bajaye haath katne aur dwayi khane jaisi ulti seedhi harkat karti ho, jo is baat ke proof hai ki tum me maturity nhi hai, shareer se tum badi jarur ho gyi hogi par  dimag ek nasamajh bache waala hai, isliye tum apni pasand ki cheez na milne par itni Haye Tauba macha rhi ho.

Mera Bf mujhse baat nhi karta Boyfriend Kaise banaye

Samajhne waali baat ye hai ki vo tumse alag hona chahta hai aur tum haath dho ke uske piche padi ho jisse usko bhi pareshan kar rhi hai aur khud ko bhi dukh de rhi hai. Meri dear friend, ye pyar nhi pagalpan hota hai, aise karke pyar hasil nhi hua karte dear, maan lo is tarah tumne use paa bhi liya to kabhi socha hai ki, fir kya hoga? Na to vo aur uske ghar ka koi tumhari ijaat karega aur na hi tumhe kuch bolne dega, agar tumne kuch bhi bola to vo tumhe yhi kahenge – “Tu hi mari ja rhi thi, hum to nhi gaye the tere piche”.

Dear meri ek baat bahut dhyaan se suno – “Pyar, Ishq, Mohabbat & feelings ek jagah hai lekin… Duniya me self respect se badh kar aur koi bhi cheez nhi hoti, kuch bhi nhi... Izzat ki keemat pyar se bahut jyada hoti hai, aur jo tum abhi kar rhi ho vo raasta vinash ki taraf jaata hai.”

Agar koi aapse pyar karta hai to aapko use free chor dena chahiye aur – Agar vo aapke paas aaye tab vo pyar hota hai na ki Haath jod kar, pair pakad kar, ro pit ke jabardasti ka rishta pyar hota hai.” Vo tumse pyar nhi karta aur tum uske saath khush nhi reh paogi kabhi bhi. Isliye apni soch thodi si badlo dear. Mere saath isse bhi bhut bura hua hai lekin dekho aaj main tumse baat kar rhi hu aur apni life puri shaan se jee rhi hu, agar main tumhari tarah sochti ya karti to maine kab ka suicide kar liya hota, lekin maine aisa nhi kiya because ye galat hai. Aur aaj kisi ka baap bhi mere samne muh nhi khol sakta kyunki lakh sitam ho jaane ke baad bhi Apni Izzat kisi ke kadmo me nhi rakhi.

In the end, main tumko bas yhi salah dungi ki… Kisi ko apne se pyar karne ke liye majbur mat karo, apni zindgi puri khushi aur positivity ke saath jiyo. Jo tumhari baat ko samajhte hai aur respect karte hai jaise ki tumhari friends, tumhare mami, papa, Bhai, Behan aur main unke saath khushi se apni zindgi spend karo, takdeer me likha hua hume milna hi hai, jab upar waale ne hume kuch dene ka mann banaya hoga to vo milega hi milega.

Isliye ab se khud ko pareshan karna band, abhi utho, jaao Nahao aur apne aap ko badlo. Uske saath bitaye pal aur baate yaad aayengi to unhe yaad karke pareshan hone ki bjaaye ek smile ke saath unse apna dimag hata do, yaad aayegi jarur par tum us par dhyan hi mat do. Mann baar baar usi taraf jayega lekin agar hum chahe to mann ko control karna humare bas me hai, aur ye bhut aasan hai bas humari will power strong honi chahiye. Tum apne dimag ko train karo ki time barbad nhi karna hai apne kaam me lagana hai. Apne aap ko busy rakho, friends ke saath time spend karo, masti karo aur positive attitude ke saath life jiyo. Fir vo yaad aani bhi khud kam aur band ho jayegi.

Maine kyi logon ko sahi raaste par aane me help kiya hai aur aaj tum bhi unme jud gyi ho. Ab mujhe puri umeed hai ki meri dear friend kahegi – “Kya baat hai Shivshi meri Jaan, tune to meri zindgi bana di” 🙂 Doston agar aapke paas bhi Sushma ke liye koi salah ya suggestions hai to please comments ke jariye jarur share kare. Mujhe umeed hai mera jawab aapko pasand aayega. Mainkyakru.com ko fb par apne doston ke saath share jarur kare. Read more similar Love Problems & their solutions.

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Main apne bf se bhut love krti hu but us ne mere sat sadi ka promise b kiya fir main 2 month k lie out of state chali gyi bha hm dono ki koi bat nhi ho pa rhi thi aur jb main bapas aayi to us ne kisi aur girl se love marriage kr li ab jb main call krti hu to bo reply nhi krta no sms no call mujhe kya krna chahiye

  2. Hii….Shivshi…ap sbki problm solve krte ho…plzz meri probm ka bhi solution btae…
    me bhi e relationship thi …me or mera bf hm dono ek dusre se bht pyar krte the…aj bhi krte h…pr hmare bicg kuch miss understanding ho gyi…vo bhi kisi third person ki wajah se…uske baat 20-25 days tk hmne baat nhi ki…usne mujhe fb pr unfriend kr diya…mene bht wait kra…mujhe ghusse aya to mne to usko block kr diya….kuch din pehle jb mne usko unblock kra to usko msg aya ki mujhe unblock kyu kr diya…usne bola ki me hi block kr deta hu…then i said that ki mne ghusse ghusse me block kr diya tha…bt mujhe bht bura lga to fir mne un block kr diya…ab apki mrzi ap mujhe block krna chahte h to kr do…bs fir us din se hmari baat start hui..vhi pehle jesi….ek dusre se puchna ki tumne khya khya ya nhi ..agr nhi khya ho to datna…me agr kisi ldke se baat kru to uska ghyssa ho jana…pr fi hmare bich vhi purani baato ko lekr jhgda ho gya….then ab hm baat nhi kr rhe h..mne kha ki mujhe block krdo..to usne kha ki me ye nhi kr skta…mujhse ye nhi hoga ….
    plzzz mam help me..kuch esa btaiye jisse ya to hm ek ho jae…ya fir ek dusre ko hmesha k liye bhul jae…bcoz we truely love each other…hm alg nhi ho skte pr hm ek sath bhi nhi h….
    plzzz help me….

    1. Best mere khyal se yhi rahega ki, aahe badho aur apne upar, apne career par dhyan do. Kuch cheezein zindagi me jaane ke liye hi aati hai isliye itna dukhi hone ki jarurat nahi.

  3. Hi shivshi
    me apne bf se bhut love krti hu me usse bina bat kiye ni rha skti hu bt vo mujse har bat pr naraj ho jata hai oll ajkl ek bat per apni x gf ke karan mujse bat krni band kr di oll muje kha ki call v mt krna mene bhut time try kiya ki me bhool jau usse jb vo mujse pye ni krta bt mujse ni ho paya mene bhut time apni glti mankr sorry bolkr mansya hai usse bt bar bar asa ni hota hai vo bat ni krna chahta mujse syd hi kv bat krega bt i love him so much kux asa solution do ki vo kidh hi vps aa jaye

  4. Comment Text*hello shivashi me ek ldke se bahut pyarr krti hu aur vo bhi mujse pyar krta h but kch din se mujhe egnor kr rha h aur jb bhi bat krta h to dant ta hi rhta h mujhe samjh nhi aata ki ab bhi pyar krta h ya fir mujhe chhodna chahta h me kya kru…plz halp me me uske bina nhi rh skti aur vo bhi ye janta h fir bhi egnor krta h ..plz btao kya kru me. hmare beech sb hud par ho chuki h fir bhi nhi samjhta.

  5. hye shivshi
    mai ek ladke se bahut pyaar karti hun and mai jaanti hun vo bhi merese bahut pyaar karte hai…mere liye vo do baar jaan tk dene ki koshish kiye the but abb thik h..sb achcha chaL raha tha…unka ek frnd hai bhaai jaisa h unka..mere bf ne ek group bnaya tha whatsapp me..usme mujhe aur apne frnd ko add kiye the..but m kchh din baad group left krdi..fir unke frnd ka mere pass personl chaT me mssge aata h..aur vo mko bolte h meri ek frnd se set karwa de set karwa de..aur mere bf ko bahut problem hoti hai agr unke frnd ka mssge mere pass aata h toh..aur jb unke frnd ko block kr deti hun toh mujhe bolte h bhaai h unblock kr..aur kbhi mera saamne se unke frnd ko msg ni jata..isme meri kya galti h jb unke frnd ka msg aata h toh..mujhe bahut suna diye tko bss timepass krne k liye chahiye hota h..10 log ka no mil jyga toh start..jbki mere phon contact me 1 bhi boy add nhi h! m unke frnd ko boldi aap mujhe mt mssg kiya kro..aapke karan mera relationship khrb ho gyaa..toh mujhe mere bf daate usko q btayi krke..aur abb mko ni lgta patchup ho pyga..bt i know vo merese pyaar krte h tbhi unko jealousy hua! bt abb kya karu..i want him back!! jbki meri glti nhi thi tb bhi mai unko sorry boli.ulta 10 baat suna diye mujhe! wht should i do now! i dnt wnna lose him!

    1. sari galti aapke boyfriend ki hai tabhi aisa hota hai aap itna dar ke na raha kare sidha jo hai confident se apne bf se bola kro jitna aap daroge utna hi aapko darayege aur chidayege.

  6. Meh jis ledke ko pyar karti hu woh v mujhe pyar karta hai but suddenly woh mujhe chod diya b.cos meh other caste ka hu aur uske ghar se allow nhi karega but meh usko Paglo Ki tarha pyar karti hu, kuch v achha nhi lagta uske bina meh aisa kya karu jisse woh mere pas aajay aur uske ghar mai v man jaye plz help me.

    1. aap wahi kro jo usko pasand hai aur koi aisa kaam na kare jisse unko gussa aye ya naraz ho aapki problem solv ho jaiyegi.

  7. hi shivshi, humara divorce ho k 1 saal ho gaya hai aur hum divorce se 3 saal phele se aalag rhe rahe the humne love marriage ki thi but mai aaj bhi un se bahut payaar karti hu .kya muje ye baat un ko baatani chahiye please reply.

    1. yes aapko unko yeh baat zarur batani chahiye hai aap apni baat dil mein rakhne se unko kisi or ka hone degi aapki puri life age padhi hai kaise kaam chalega isliye aap usko jaa kar turant bataye.

    1. nahi uski shadi ho gyi hai ab aap dono ke sath rehne ka koi matlab nahi banta hai aap jitna ho sakta hai utne jaldi move on kar lein wahi acha hai.

  8. Hi mam..hum log fb pr mile they..starting m hi laga ki wo mujh se shadi karna chahte hai ….unho ne apne past ke bare m mjhuy sb kuch bataya ki unko kisi ne dhoka diya hai or life m bhut si ladkian ai…or last wali girl jo unki life m ai to uski death hogai. Jis se wo kafi upset hai or life m unhe koi interst nahi raha….hm bhut batain karty thy or mazak bhi ….phir dhere dhere wo mujhy ignore karne lagy…online rahe to bhi reply nahi karty thy…….mere offline jane pr hi reply dete the……phir main ne bhi zyada bat karni band kardi…
    Roz hone wali bat 3 din or 3 din m hone wali bat hafton m….or hafton m hone wali bat sirf mahene m ek bar hi hone lagi….ab maine bbhi unko msg karna band kardiya……mujhe laga wo bhi mujhy bhul gay hongy ….lekin unhone mujhy msg kr kaha ki ….tum mujhy bhul gai ho…shayed koi or dost mil gay hai……pehly wo mujhse sb kuch puchty thy pr ab mere koi bhi mazak pr wo koi sawal nahi karty ……kya main koi time pass to nahi ho na unke liy…q ki wo kehte hai ki mujhy shadi jaise chiz m koi dil chaspi nahi…..abhi tk unki taraf se liking jaisa kuch laga nahi…pr shayed unki life koi or ladki bhi nahi hai…batao ab m kya karo

    1. abhi woh upset hai isliye aapko kuch jawab nahi de rahe hai. baaton baaton mein aap unko puch sakti hai ki aap unki kon hai dos ya dost se zayada.

  9. Hello ,, shivshi mera naam Pooja . mera saal pehle break up hua but me abhi tak us ladke ko bhula nhi pai hu ..uske sath mera 1 year ka relationship tha ..hum sadi bhi karna chahte the ..but usne break up kr liya vjha ye thi ki vo apne par confident nhi tha … But vo mujhse fir se baat karne lga h me kese pta lgau ki vo mujhse abhi pyar karta hai ya nhi …

    Plz plz help me

  10. shivshi m apse yhe puchna chti hu m ek ladka se bhut jdya pyr krti hu vo ladka mujse phle bhut pyr krta tha par pat nhi kya hua ek dam se ki vo ab mera sath hi nhi rhna chta muje ek bar koi glt ho gyi thi mne kch jhut bol diya tha to vo mujhse bolta ki tune mujhse jhut bola or mera trust tutoa par m aj bhi usko trust krwati hu par vo mujhe par trust nhi krta pyr to krta hai mujhe par pta nhi aise kyu rhe hai dear unse to mera trust bhut bar tuta hai par m aj bhi usaa bhut jdya pyr krti hu apne jaan se bhi jdya pyr krti hu kch bhi kr skti hu uska liya but ap mujhe btao ki m aise kya kro ki usko trust ho jyga mujhe par plzz help me

    1. isme apki koi galti nahi hai woh banda apke sath nahi rehna chahata hai tabhi aesa ker raha hai usse baas reason chahiye hai apse breakup kerne ka.

  11. AGR main apne bf ke sath khi ghoomne na jau to bura maan jaata h main uske sath khi nhi ja paatighr vaale ke karn vrna mjhe bhi use hrt krne me mja nhi aati main kya kroo kaise khush kroo use meri hr baat jhooti lgti h

  12. Ku6 khna to tha but mere willpower nahi ho Rahi ki ye baat me kisi se share karu give me some time
    Me abhi thoda time line ke baad apne aapko prapee karke aapse baat karugaa

  13. hi shivshi maine ek ladki ko bangloare mai deakha ho wo ek nurse training padhrahe hai,aur mai hyderabad ka ho,jab mai bangloare mai tha usse accha baath kartha tha wo bhi accha baath karthe thi, mai nai usse fb account pouch ussne dea bhi tha but problem ya hai ki jab mai hyderabad ko aaga ya uss ne fb request tho accept karley,lakin wo messages kay reply nahi karthe hai,kam se kam mai 40 ya 50 messages kar ra hoo lakin ek ka bhi reply nahi karthi hai,mujh samjh mai nahi aaraha hai,agar mujh passand nahi karthi tho block tho kar na hai na..,kay karu ?so pls help me

    1. Vo ladki aapse pyar ya pasand nhi karti, so better hoga aap use paane ki sochne ki bajaye kisi kaam ki cheez me apna time aur dimag lagao. Jo sach hai use maano, aankh band karke uska naam mat japte rho, because usse kuch nhi hoga, sirf time waste ke alawa.

  14. Shivshi mai ek problem mai hu merit gf me mujhese breakup kar liya hai hum dono 5 mahine relationship mai the aur bohat aache pal saath mai bitaye hai but usne mujhese breakup kar liya reason ye tha ki Maine uske dad ke baare mai galat bol diya tha isliye usne breakup kar liya usne kaha ki usne mere liye apne dad se jhoot bola unka promise toda sirf tumhare liye magar tumne mere dad ko hi galat bol diya. Aur abhi 20 days ho chuke hai usne mujhese baat nahi ki hai uske dad ne uski sister ne sab ne usko mana kiya hai ki mujhese baat naa kare. Pllz meri help karo mujhe batao ki mai kya karu..? Mujhe pata hai ki who mujhese bohat pyaar karti thi. Pllz help me…. $alman

    1. aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck 🙂

  15. Hello mam
    Meri problem ye ki meri do sal pahle job ke karan bahar rahta hu waha pr do ladki rahti hai ..na jane kyo mujhe ladkiyon se bat karne m ghabraht hoti h ya shrm si aati thi..is vajh se m unse dur rahta tha …lekin wo mujhse bat karne ke liye krti thi kintu m unse dur rahta tha m jaise unke samne jata to mujhe wo ajibo garib ahsas dilati .dhire dhire samay bitta gaya aur unme se ek ladki se mujhe sacchha pyr hogaya kintu ab wo mujhe ignor karti h m jaise hi dikhta hu to wo waha se gayab ho jati h …wo ab aisa kyo kr rahi kya wo pahle mere maje lene k liye kr rahi thi ya usko mujhme inerest tha
    But kabhi kabhi smile deti h aur andar chale jati h pleaae bataye ab mujhe kya krna chaiye mujhe din bhar uski ka khayal rahta aur nind bhi nhi aati plz suggest me

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  16. hey shiwani I’m pooja plz help m
    me usse bht pyr krti hu phle to WO mujhse bht bat karta tha but ab bilkul bat ni krta
    kuch bi pucho normal ans de ta hai me kya karu plz tell me

    1. Bas ye dekho aur pata lagao ki vo aisa kyu kar rha hai, agr kaam ki vajah se aisa hai tab to koi khas problm nahi hai but agar baat kuch aur hai to aapko soch samajh kar aage chalna chahiye taki aapki life spoil na ho.

  17. HEY shivshi M bHut Preshan Hu Yr meri Gf ka mere Sath 2 Saal Tak relation rha aur ab Usko ptani kisi ne bhdka dia Ki meri koi gf h aur mene bhi uska trust dekhne k liye kitna trust krti h mujhp ye janne k liye ek kisi aur ldki ka naam likh kr msg bhej dia aur ab vo mujhse 2 mhine se bt tak krna ni chahti yr aur next month uska bdy h… Aur lst me usne ye kha tha mre pass glti se msg ya call nhi ani chahiye should i wish her bdy or not?

    1. aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck 🙂

    1. Bas fir ho gaya kaam, ab aap bhi apne kaam par lag jaao… prem khani itni hi thi… Itni si baat samajh nhi aati aap logon ko… ya samajh ke bhi samajhne ki kosish nhi karte..

  18. hello shivshi , me ek ladkii se bahut pyaar karta hu but boh mujhse nafrat karti hai !!!! asal me baat thodii ghumii hui hai !! pichle saal meri ek ladki se mulakat hui me useee attract ho gaya tha aur usne bhi mujhe kafii chance diye baat karne ke but mene attraction samajh kar use ignore kar diya aur usse baat tak nhii kii but time nikalta gyaa aur mujhme uske liyee feelings badne lagiii but usme mere liye interest kam hone laga mene usse bhut mafii mangiii but boh nhiii man rahii haii usne mujhe fb par bhi block kar rkha hai and uskii friend se bhii meri nhii patti because boh dono us time sath sath hii rahtii thi aur hai so me friend ke pass bhi nhi jaa sakta hu but in sub me ek baat such hai ki aaj mujhe usse saccha pyaar haiii par boh hai kii man hiii nhi rahiiii usne mujhe call aur milne ko naa khaa hai and mera ek dost uskaa kariibi hai boh bol rha hai kii usko mujhme interest nhi hai nut muje to bohi bandiii chahiyeee i really love her now and i am mad in her love
    so kyaaa kiya jayeee

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  19. Hi my friend mai +1
    class me hoo mere class mai ek ladki hai jise mai like karta hoo wo jab bhi mujhe dekhti hai to uske face par smile hoti hai maine usses 3 week baat nahi kia to usne mujhe kaha ki tu mujhse baat kyo nahi karta usne mujhe ek baar bycycle sikhane ke liye kaha tha wo mujhe kisi na kisi bahane tokti rahti hai mujhe lagta hai ki wo bhi mujhe like karti hai but mai usse purpose karne se darta hoo kyoki mere class ke ek ladke ne use purpose mara tha par usne inkar kar dia tha mujhe lagta hai wo mujhe bhi na na karde ab mai kya karu plz mujhe batayie

    1. Use apni Dil ki sabhi baat khul kar bata do, agar use aapme interest hoga to vo is baare me jarur sochegi aur agar aisa nhi hoga to vo Naa keh degi, aisa koi tarika nhi hai jisse ki us ladki se haan karwaya ja sake, jo aapko chahti hi nhi ya aapke baare me is tarah se nhi sochti. So just go and try 🙂

  20. Hii thid side Reeta me bohat disturb hu plz help me meri shadi fix ho gai h but me kisi or se pyr karti hu
    mujhe pta h meri familt agree nhi hogi becouse meri shadi 2 months me hone wali h or me apne bf ko problem me nhi dekhna chahti me chahti hu wo mujhe bhul jaye but me esa nhi kar pa rhi plz tell me but i do

    1. Aapke pass do raste hai ya to aap apne fiance se baat karo or use bolo ki wo ye rista todd de iske baad aap us ladke ko bolna ki wo apne parents ko lekar aapke ghar ajaye apni shadi ka rista lekar fir shayad aapke ghar wale maan jaye ya aap us ladke ko bhul jao kyunki agar aapki shadi ho gayi to isse aapke sath sath or 2 logo ki life kharab ho jayegi.

  21. mre bf saal mai ek baar ghar aata ghar aa kar bhi vo busy hota us ke paas time hi nhi hai aur vo 15 din bhi ek baar baat karta hai jab vo bahar hota hai na to vo mujse koi aapni baat share karta hai na nhi kuch life ka part mai kya kro haan par vo mujse pyaar bhut karta hai

  22. Hello shivshi ! Main ek bht Bari dhubidha Mai hi.. Jo avi tak 4 years ho Gaya hai. Meri girl friend mujhe phone nahi karti.. 4 years main hi kata aaraha ho. In 4years Mai 5,6 bar kabi phone kiya tha.. Main jab usse bolta ho kabi mujhe bhi phone kar liya karo.. Toh uska kahna yahi hota hai Ki boys ko hi phone karna chahiye.. Koi boy friend apni girl friend ko phone karne ko nahi bolta.. So Isi batt se hamare bich jagra bhi hota hai.. Toh aap hi suggestion dijiye Ki boys ko hi apne girl friend ko phone karna chahiye girls ka koi adikar nahi hai love relationship Mai… Main kya karu bataiye.. Please.

    1. wo galat hai usko bhi phone karna chahiye or ab aap use phone karna ban kardo or agar wo aako sch me pyaar karti hogito miss jarur karegi phone bhi jarur karegi or agar wo phone nahi karti to iska mtlab wo sirf timepass kar rahi hai

  23. Sorry Allready Bol De raha Hu … Kya Sister in Law Se Pyar karna Wrong Hain & Kya Apne se BiG Age wali Girl se Pyar karna Wrong Hain. Answer Hindi mein DiGiye Ga oK

  24. hiiii shivishi
    meri.problm h ki meri tutn pe ek ldki pdti thi but aftr 8 yrs m ne ek.ldki ko reqst bheji fb pe bychnce vo ldki vhi thi hmari bate hone lgi vo bohot cute h use or muje dono ko ek dusre se bohot pyr ho gya usne mujhe bohot pyr dikhaya but suddny usne muje kaha sry mujhe rltn.me nhi rahna m rota hu uski yad ati h m sb janta hu ki jo ldki abi itna chnge ho skti h mrg ke bad b kafi kuch ho skta h na vo mujse baat krna chahti h dil krta h m usse pyr kru khush rkhu but chahte hue b m.kuch nhi kr skta kynki vo mujse baat tk b nhi krna chahti lekin mujhe abi b uski bohot fikr hoti h kisi chij me mn nhi lgta mere xam h btch finl year ke m khud ko ase busy kru i knw busy rahne se hi bhul skte h but mere frnds b nhi h jinke sath tym spend kr sku

  25. hii shivshi my name is ashima.. yar meri problem main khud hu .. main apne pyar ka ijhar nai kr pa rahi hu.. wo mujhse pyar krta hain.. n main nai bol pati plzz main kaise kahu unse koi tarika btao.. ..

    1. Use smile karo, aadha kaam to smile kar dega 🙂 Uske bad use baat karne ke liye apne paas bulao jara pyar se, fir thodi idhar udhar ki baat karo and fir bolo do- Acha mujhe aapse ek bat kahni thi, agar aap bura na maano to… Aur fir keh do. Don’t make it too complicated.

  26. Hello shivshi…
    Main ek problem me aa geya. Mujhe yeh nahi pta chla k kya huaa. Kya main ho galt tha. Mujhe ek ladhki aaj se 4 months pehle se notice kr rahi thi. Main notice krta tha k mujhe wo dekhtI hai. Jab main kabhi bhi jane k liye nilklta to mujhe dekhti hoto thi aur 1 ,week pura eyes to eyes contact bnaeya. To wo slime krti aur reply me main bhi krta. To ek din mene use hii se contact kya. To uske agle din usne mujhe gusse se dekha aur mujhe ignore krne lag gayi. Mujhe tension hone lagi to jese tese kr k mene uska phone number liya jab contact kya to usne baat krne se mnaa kr diya. Msg kiya to koi reply naho diya kuch dino baad fir se msg kiya to usne apne ghar walo ko btya k main pareshan krta hunn. Jab ki usne ne shuru kya aur fir jeh kiya… plz suggest me…

    1. Hahaha…. Ravi us ladki ka chakkar chor do, kuch ladkiyan aisi hi hoti hai jo kya karti hai unhe khud bhi pata nhi hota 😀

  27. meri ek friend hai jise main like karta hoo….par mujhe samane se bat nhi karti hai . . .oh whatsapp par bat kaarti thi . . . kuch time se oh humse bat nhi kar rahi hain . . .hum kya kare . . . reply plz . .

  28. hello my name is ashi .. meri ek problem hain . mera fiance hain . jab shadi tey hue to hum bahut baat krte the.. but pta nai kuch mahino se mujhse baat krna band kr diya hain.. main samajh nai pa rahi main kya karu … bahut pareshan hu plzz help me

    1. Ahana aap usse reason pucho is baat ki, direct. Jyada idhar udhar ki baate soch kar is baat ko ignore mat karo, usse seedhe ye baat pucho ki ab vo baat kam kyu karne laga hai isse agar koi aisi waisi baat hogi to abhi pata chal jayegi jo acha rahega.

      1. yar main baat ki thi wo gussa hain mujhse… main unhe mana nai pa rahi hu… yar main love matter ko solve nai kr pati main bahut jaldi emotional ho jati hu ..

  29. Hello dear,
    Meri problem mera gussa h jise me control nhi kar pati.gusse me aakar mene apne to be In-laws k yaha tamasha kar diya and usk baad apne to be hubby se zagada jisk karan woh naraj hokar on duety hi kahi dur nikal gaya.
    Ab uski job chali gayi h aur woh behad pareshan h. Woh mujhse pyar toh behad karta h par ab itna naraj h k mujhse baat tak nhi karna chahata. Humara zagada kisi third person k wajah se hua h uski ex girlfriend mujhe contact kar k mera dimag kharab karati h aur mere saath relationship me hote hue b mere to be hubby ne usk saath phone par baate jari rakhi thi aur ek dafa usko milne b gaya tha bus issi k wajah se me gusse me thi.. Me ab uss se bahot jyada pyar karti hun. Meri jindgi ka jaise koi mahtwa hi nhi raha. Mere pass busy rahene k liye abhi kuch b nhi. koi b nhi. I m totally alone person. Man me sucide jaise khayal aa rahe h.

  30. Hello dear..
    Mera problem mera gussa h mene gusse me kuch aise kadam uthaye jisk karan ab mera mangetar mujhse bahot jyada naraj h aur shadi b nhi karna chahata. Mujhe bahot bura lag raha h me unhe behad pyar karti hun woh b karte h par ab woh apni family k karan mujhse shadi nhi karna chahte h q k unko lagata h me sabk najar me gir gayi hun aur aage kabhi agar unki family members ne mujhe kuch kah diya toh me sah nhi sakungi..

    Mujhe kuch samajh nhi aa raha I really love him..Meri Life me unk alwa koi b nhi jisse me baat karu.. I m very alone person ab me unko bhula b nhi pa rahi

      1. Meri halat din b din bigadti ja rahi h stress k karan meri health kharab ho rahi h. Mene unhe kaise manau plz plz help.. Mujhe kya karna chahiye. Me chah kar b dard bhula nhi pa rahi hun…

        1. Aap apne aapko kisi kaam me busy rakho, kuch aisa karo ki use karte huye aapko kuch aur karne ya sochne ki fursat hi na mile. Bas apne mann ko control karo, vhi se sab manage hota hai.

      2. hlo shivshi howz’u me ek girl se bhut pyar krta hu bt mujh ye bhi ni pta wo krti hai yaa ni pta ni two days se aachi baat bhi ni kr rhi khi me usko kho naa du pls help me.

    1. Aaditya yes hai jab tum us chiz ko mention kr lo jiske naa hone ke karan tumhe usne inkar kiya tha ! tab chance hai tumhe kuch aisa krna hoga jishse use lage ki yaar maine ishe na kr ke galti kr di aap waisa bano na jaisa wo chahti hai ladki ko hamesha kuch hasil krna hota hai kuch pana pasand hota hai wo bilkul bhi nahi jo hamesha uske aage piche ghume use i love you kehta phire aap uski chah bano uski zarurat bano..fir dekho ladki haan kiye bina nai reh sakti… Ladki se kabhi ye mat kaho ki aap ki koi GF nahi hai aap soch rahe honge ki aisa kehne se to achha asar hota hai ladkion pe to fir main aapko aisa krne se kyon mana kr rha hu !
      Yes friends sahi kha maine Agar aap kishi bhi ladki ko ye kehte ho ki aapki koi GF nahi to ye aapke leay bohout bad sabit ho sakta hai agar koi ladki aapse puche ki aapki koi GF hai (iska matlab hota hai wo aapko like kr rhi hai ) kabhi ye mat kehna ki NO nahi hai Aap ye keh sakte ho (Ha thi na 2-3 thi but ab nahi hai ) Wo janana chahegi ki kya hua tha to aap keh sakte ho ki rehne do yaar lambi story hai mai khamakhah tumhe bore nahi krna chahunga or na hi us pal ko yaad krna chahuna ladkion ko ye lagna chahiye ki tum wo chiz ho jishe pehle bhi pasand kiya ja chuka hai pasand ki huyi cheez sabko pasand aati hai yaar agr aapka attitude achha hai aap baat achhe se kr lete ho to samjho ye tips samne wale pe tumrant asar karegi Try it koi fark nahi padta dubara uspe try krne se achha hai kishi or pe try kro Best of luck ..

  31. hloo… mai ek ladke ko bhot like karti hu mai 12 me hu nd vo 11 me…..Maine apne ek frnd se bola DAT usse bolo DAT mai use like karti hu BT usne proposal accept ni kia… aap plz btayiye mai kya kru Jisse vo meko love krne lge… nd me pass Sif 2 months hi bche hai… plzzz kch btayiye…:(

    1. Sabse pahli baat kabhi bhi apne friend ko use mat karo propose karne ke liye, khud confidence ke sath uske paas jaao, smile ke saath baat karo,uski thodi tareef karo and apne dil ki baat kaho. 40% girls aise boys ko hamesha naa khti hai jinme apni dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho.

    1. Are Somya kal to tum keh rhi thi ki Hubby job ke karan alag city me rahte hai ??? Kyu confuse kar rho ho mujhe 😕

  32. pr mam mujhse bhale hi vo jbrdasti krta glt bhv krta but mere kuchh spne the usne suddenly sagai ki n sb tut gya mera

    1. So now finish everything, apne mann ko apne control me rakho, khud ko mann ke control me mat aane do.

  33. mera ek boy k sath affair tha…
    but kuch din bad vo mujhe bhot jabardastiii krta tha hr chij ki… bat kr…
    yha chal….
    jo khta vhi krooo…
    n usne jbrdasti physical b kiya..
    mai usk sath ded sal relationship me rhi.. shadiii k liye jb usne kha to maine usk behavior k karan mna kr diya
    ab vo dusre girl k sath sagai huyi uski 20 din phl.
    but mujhe aisa bhot bad feel ho rha ki isne meri life to kharab kr di ab mai to shadi kr nhi skti.
    pr ab ye q shadi kr rha kisise
    jb meri life kharab kiye to
    usko maine msg ki sagai hone k bad congrats krk.
    vo bat kiya fir khta abse mujhe contact nhi krna
    maine kha ki mujhr apse shadi krni h qki mai apk siva kisise shadi nhi kr skti na ap shadi krne k phl ek br puche to vo block kiya mujhe

    ab mai kya kru plz suggest

    1. Pahle jo hua uski baat chodo but Usne ab jo kiya vo bilkul shi kiya, aur aisa kya ho gaya ki tum ab shaadi nhi kar sakti?

  34. thnx dear..
    mujhe achi salah dene k liye…
    but problem ye h ki vo apni mom se bat nhi krt..
    or mai or mere husband unki job k karan alg city me rhte hai..

  35. dear
    mai ek married girl hu….housewife hu..
    meri shadi huyi 3 sal phl meri shadi huyi n abhi ladki h mujhe

    mujhe problm sirf mere husband se hai vo kbhi mujhe pyrse bat hi nhi sunt na mere mn ki sunt hai.
    ghr me sb h..
    but unka behaviour k karan mai bhot depress hu…
    kya kru bataoo

    1. Hi Somya, Dekho dear situation kaisi bhi ho agar hum Depress ho gaye to fir situation sudharti nhi sirf aur kharab hoti jaati hai. isliye sabse pahle tum apna attitude change karo, positive raho. I know ki aisi problem me aisa kar paana kaafi muskil hai but dear this is the point, muskil bhut hai but impossible nhi. Ab dekho… agar vo tumse theek se baat nhi karta ya fir tumhari baat nhi manta to iske piche jarur kuch na kuch karan hoga, sabse pahle us karan ka pata lagao, jaise bhi possible ho vaise ye pata karo ki vo aisa behave kyu kar rhe hai, kya tum logon ka kisi bat par koi jhagda hua hai ya fir vo tumse kisi baat par naraj hai. Agar vo ghar me sabse achi tarah se baat karta hai, apni bacchi ko laad-dular karta hai and sirf tumse hi galat behave karta hai to iska direct matlab hai ki vo tumse kisi baat se naraj hai. Agar tumhe vo nhi batate to apni Saasu maa se sab baat khul kar batao aur unse bolo ki tumhare pati se sirf ye baat puche ki – “Vo tumse naraj kyu hai, kyu theek se baat nhi karta” Jaise hi vo baat pata chale, uske baad apne husband se pyar se udaas chahre ke saath baat karo. Unhe bolo – “Main aapse bahut pyar karti hu, main apne parivar me bhut khush hu. Meri aapki kisi tarah ki koi maang nhi hai…. Main sirf ye chahti hu ki aap mujhe batao ki aap mujhse naraj kyu ho. Kyu mujhse gusse me baat karte ho. Please mujhe btao, kyunki main voproblem solve karna chahti hu.. Jo bhi baat hai btao, agar mujhse koi galti huyi hai aur aap us karan naraj ho to btao…. Iske baad usse vaada karo ki Tum uske saath zindgi khushi se gujarna chahti ho aur vo tumhare liye duniya me sab se badh kar hai.

      Mentally strong raho, vo agar gusse me galat behave karta hai to tum bhi nasamajh waala behaviour mat karo, ho sakta hai vo kisi bat ko le kar pareshan ho.. usse baat karo. baat karke ki solution nikalta hai dear. 🙂

    2. somiya, aap kuch mat karo uce jo krna hai krne do unhe jab koi aapse sidhe muh baat hi nai krna chahta to aap kyon padeshaan ho rai ho us se baat krne ko aap khud ko aisa bana lo ki lage aapko koi fark hi nai padta aap janane ki koshis hi na karo wo kyon naraj hai, aap use bilkul shidhe tarike se pesh aao kuch bhi bole possessively jawab do somiya ek baat aapko batana chahunga jab koi bhi kishi se rudely baat krta hai or samne wale possessively baat kare to bhale hi wo samne kuch na Jataye but jab wo akela me baithta hai na to use ye feel hota hai ki wo to itna achhe se baat kr rai thi mai hi jyada rude ho gaya xxxyyyyzzz ye think 90%people ke mind me aata hai ye mai guarantee ke sath keh sakta hu aap itna positevly attitude rakho ki use aisa lage ki aap uski care krti ho but ek chiz dhyan rakhna uce bilkul bhi ye ehsas na ho ki aap ab ye janana chahti ho ki wo kyon naraj hai xxyyyzzz kuch time aisa hi chalne do approx 1 week kuch time baad uske man me lagega ki mai to is se hamesha ulta baat karta hu but ye hamesha sidha jawab deti hai fir dhire dhire na chahte huye wo khud aapko ye ehsas dilane ki koshish karega ki aapne kya galti ki thi jo wo aapse naraj hai so aap fir bhi utna intrest mat lena janane me ki wo kyon naraj hai bus positive attitude rakho i promiss wo khud aake aapko batayega ki wo kis baat se naraj hai aapko iske leay thoda sa mehnat krna padega so just go and try it !