Hello Shivshi, yaar meri Love story badi hi complicated hai, samajh hi nhi aata ab ho kya rha hai. Actually maine aapke bhut post padhe hai toh mujhe lga me aapke saath agar apni story share karungi toh pakka mujhe koi na koi solution to mil hi jayega. That’s why I’m texting you my story..


Yaar ek saal ho gya, baat april 2015 ki hai. Ek ladka tha Main uska name bhi aapko bta deti hu, Anuj. Vo meri massi ka relative hai. Humne ek saal pehle ghar shift kiya tha toh meri Mausi humare yhan aayi thi toh vo unko lene aaya. Main uttrakhand se belong karti hu aur vo bhi, usko Main pehli nazar me hi pasand aa gyi thi aur mujhe bhi vo pasand aa gya tha.

Fir ek baar Main Mausi ke ghar gyi thi holidays me, tab Main uski family aur usse bhi mili, vo time mere liye sabse best tha. Ek din aise hi humara no. exchange ho gya aur humari WhatsApp par baat hone lagi. Vo bhi mujhe pasand karta tha aur pyar bhi karne laga tha. Usne mujhe apne past se related sab kuch btaya, 5 months tak hum bhut khush the aur ache se baat bhi karte the.

Fir baad me pta nhi mujhe kya hua yaar, Main pyar karti thi usse per fir bhi pata nhi kyu mera interest usse khatam hone laga. Vo meri wait karta tha ki main baat karu usse aur mai hi natak karti rehti thi. Fir ek din usne mujhe gusse me msg kiya – `Ab lagta hai hum saath nhi reh sakte, isse acha hai alag hi ho jaate hai.` Usne aisa kha to mujhe us time kuch khaas feel nhi hua aur us tym mene bhi usko kha – `OK`.

Ab mera pyar mujhse baat nahi karta Main Kya karu

Fir 2 mahine humari bilkul bhi baat nhi huyi. Uske baad maine hi usko ek din msg kiya, par usne dhang se baat nhi ki, unknown person ki tarah baat karne laga vo pahle waali baat hi nhi thi. Yaar ab tak bhi aisi hi baat hoti hai humari.

Samajh nhi aata Main kya karu! mujhe lagta hai usko mujhse bas attraction hi tha kyunki mere B’day January me vo achanak meri massi ke sath aaya vo din mere liye sabse bada din tha yaar. Us din humne baat ki toh vo mujhe bolta – Jab tum samne hoti ho toh main feelings ko control nhi kar pata hu, sach me lagta hai ki humare beech me kuch to hai.

Toh mene usko kha – `Relationshp me fir se aa jao` toh usne bola – `Main ready feel nhi karta ab kisi bhi relation me aane ko.` Uski is baat ne mera dil tod diya 🙁

Ab baat ye hai ki jaise vo reh rha hai Maine bhi socha me bhi aise hi rahu. Main bhi ab usko msg nhi karti. But is saturday ko uski sister ki shaadi hai aur uski mom khud humare ghar card dene aayi, aur uski family aur meri family ab kaafi mil jul gyi hai.

Yaar main kya karu? Mumny papa sab force kar rahe hai waha jaane ko aur mera bilkul bhi mann nhi hai. Jisse pyar karti hu vo hi ab mera nhi, mann hi nhi kar rha wha jaane ka. Uski mummy mujhe bhut acha manti hai, uski mummy hi nhi balki uski puri family. Ab mujhe samajh nhi aa raha jau ya nhi.

Yaar is baar mera result bhi kharab ho gya aur ye baat maine usko btaya toh usne mujhe danta aur kha – `Aur ghumo, padhyi pe dhayan nhi hai ye vo`. Us din se aaj pura ek mahina ho gya uska koi msg koi call nhi aaya.

Yaar main kya karu kuch samajh nhi aa rha 🙁 Jaau ya naa jau aur Jaau bhi toh kaise jau wha.

Aur uski ek baat.. usko apni ex-Gf se bhi nafart thi kyunki usne uske saath misbehave kiya tha, jiski vajah se unka break up hua tha. Lekin vo hamesha uske bare me bolta tha, vo bhi loyal thi. Aur vo bolta tha pta nhi uske dil me ex ke liye ek soft sa corner hai jisse vo kuch bhi kare dil kabhi bhi usko galat nhi smjhta. Pls help.

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Hello di me Raushan meri pr h ki kuch din pahle meri gf se me breakup ho gaya tha BT Usk frnd ne patchup karwa diya tha aur WO MBA karna chah rhi thi BT me hi use ROK diya ki MBA mat kro aur bola ki tum MBA karoge to tere bhaiya mere se shadi nhi hone denge BT me lagta h ki me glat tha WO MBA kar leti me v ek der sal me job le leta aur jyada paisa kamane k liye me v MBA kar leta BT WO me ab gussa me h idhar do din tak msg breakup wala aisa sab kar diya ki WO ro gayi thi aur me bhut gali de rhi thi phir me kuch din shant RHA Usk bad pichle 4 dino se uska pH hi nhi pic kiya WO phir ro rhi thi aur apne frnd ko bol rhi thi ki Jo me itna rulayega WO me pyar karuga BT mam me use rulana nhi chahta hu

    1. aap khud confessed hai apni life ko leke aur uss ladki ko bhi kar rahe hai aur usse rula bhi rahe hai aap khud hi decide kariye ki apne karna kya hai aur jo kuch gf ne karna hai usse karne dein woh aapki gf hai uski aapni life apne dream bhi hain.

  2. hi,
    office me ek ladki ko bahot chahta hu pich le ek saal se usse ke liye paagal hua hu haa agar ye attraction hota to ab tak usse bhul gaya hota lekin ye jo feeling he kasm se bhot alag he halakhi usse mene bata ya ki me usse pyar karta hu lekin ussne mujhe na kaha wo sab thik he me usski respect karta hu lekin ab wo pure office me mere feeling ka mazak uda rahi he jab mene usse kaha ki esa mat karo to pata nahi lekin wo mujh se kuch es tarh se behave kar rahi he mano me koi gunha kiya ho bahot ajib sa behaive karti he agar me saamne se jane bhi laga to apna rasta chnge kr ke nikal jayegi halakhi mere samne se jane pe me kar bhi kya lunga pata nahi aur kabhi kabhi kaam ki wajh se baat karni padti he to usse esa lagta he ki me jaan bhuj ke usse pareshan kar raha hu lekin ek baat he wo mujhe laakh bura mane par mere andar se aawaj ati he ki yaar yahi he wo per wo mujh se es tarh behavie karti he ye bahot bura lagta he mujhe aaj bhi lagta he ki … acha ladkiyo ko baat karne me kya problem he pata nahi sala jab dekho tab apni he suna ti he dusre ko kya bolna he es baare me kuch sunti hi nahi samne wale ko hamesha galt hi tahrati he help yaar bahot pyar karta hu abhi tak bhot control kiya he ab bass paagla ho raha hu uske liye soch soch ke kuch bhi karo meri help karo …..

    1. Dekho dear jab ladki ka nature aisa ho to use bina baat ke bhaav dene ki jarurat nhi hai, Aap bhi apne attitude me rho, haso, bolo, doston me majak karo aur life ko enjoy karke jiyo. Bhaad me jaane do use ye hi aapke liye sabse acha rhega… Kisi ke liye bhi hum apni khushi kyu barbad kare.

      1. sister aap saadi may jao bo aapko dekha kar buhut kusha hoga par apko pata nahi lagni diga quoki may bhi yahi karta ho aur aap ussi baat karni ki kosish karna
        pahli jisi baat nahi rahegi par relationship may tu aa gayegi aur
        mere gf ki sath tu humsa koyi-na-koyi rahta hi unki family ka

  3. mujhe apne ghar ki samne wali ladki se pyarh but uski badi behen mujhe chahati h jbki maine use bola k main use nhi uski choti behen ko chahata hun to wo boli k wo aapko like nhi krti
    jbki wo jb bhi mere samne ati h to bhag jati h nazrein nhi milati eye contact krte hi head dusri taraf kr leti h kbhi kbhi smile pas krke bhag jati h main kya krun plz help me to find out uske mann me mere liye kya h
    kya jo uski badi behen ne btaya wo sach h ya wo mujhe like krti h

  4. Pehele wale comment ek chiz likhna bhul gaya.iss liye dusra comment kar raha ho.
    Wo har wakth mujhe support karti hain lekin jab wo mujh par gussa karti hain tab uske batoin se pata chalta hain use tab mere sare baat galat lagne lag jate hain.
    sis,aap help kar sako issi liye maine aapko uske bare me sabkuch bataya.please jaldi reply karna.

    1. Support vhi karta hai jise aapse lagav hota hai aur aapki care karta hai so enjoy these moments.

  5. Hi sis,main abhi class 9 me par raha ho.mujhe ek larki se pyar hain.wo mere class me hi parti hain.mere dost kehte hain mujhme bohot attitude hain.sayad issi liye main usse pehele zyada batt nahi karta tha.lekin pata nahi kya hua mujhe ab usse pyar ho gaya hain.main ek accha student ho.and wo vi parhai me bohot acchi hain.mujhe gussa bohot jaldi aa jata hain iss liye maine gusse me usse kafi baar kaha ki main uska friend nahi hoon,wo mujhse bilkul alag hain.maine jab us school me admission liya tha toh wo aayi thi mere saath batt karne.main agar uski baat na vi suno,wo mujhe batt karti rehti hain.hum dono me bohot jhagra hota hain.jab wo mujhse gussa hoti hain toh wo aisi behave karti hain ki wo mujhe pehchanti hi nahi.wo mujhse tab batt vi nahi karti.lekin main sorry bolta hoon toh wo mann jati hain.uske parents ne usko kaha ki use agle saal ek dusre school me admition karayenge.jo sayad abke school se zyada better hain.usne mujhe yeh batt batayi and boli,”tum agle saal khush rahoge kyu ki main dusre school me parne jayongi.”maine use kaha ki tumhare parents ko samjhao agar tumhe us school me nahi jana.usne kaha uski khusi issi school me parne se jaha wo ab par rahi hain.main bohot seriously batt karta ho lekin pata nahi kyu wo jab vi mujhe dekhti hain ya batt karti hain uske chehere pe ek halki se muskaan rehti hain.usne ekdin kaha tha ki wo mujhse batt kiye bina khusi se nahi reh sakti hain.lekin kuch din pehle mera jab usse larai ho gaya tha tab wo uske baki friend ke sath hass hass kar baat kar rahi thi.wo mujh par bohot haq jatati hain.and use yeh vi lagta hain ki main baki girls ke sath zyada khush rehta hoon.kuch dino pehele hum dono ke beech ek misunderstanding ho gaya toh usne mere sath baat karna hi baand kar diya.baad me maine sab clear kar diya.usne school me mera number liya.wo har vakth kehti hain ki main usse baat karna nahi chahta iss liye main usko call nahi karta.yeh baat sunne ke baad maine usko ek accha sa sms send kiya tha.Lekin usne mujhe call ya reply nahi kiya.
    (Class ek hone baad vi wo 2sal alag sec me thi iss liye baat nahi huyi lekin agar wo mujhse baat kiye bina khush nahi rehe sakti toh usne batt kyu nahi kiya?)
    Kya wo mujhe pyar karti hain ya wo sirf timepass kar rahi hain?and main yeh vi janna chahta ho ki wo mere baare ma kya sochti hain.

    1. Chahe ladki ka baat karne ka kitna bhi mann kare, ladki hamesha chahti hai ki ladka hi pahle baat shuru kare ya call kare Ye Girls ki jeans me problem hai aur ek tarah se acha bhi hai kyunki jis ladki me nakhre na ho vo ladki fir kya ladki huyi isliye vo khud se baat nahi karti.
      Dusri baat.. vo pyar karti hai ya nhi ye batana to muskil hai but itna jarur hai ki use aapka saath acha lagta hai aur ye time ye umar serious hone ka hai bhi nahi kyunki abhi life me bhut se time aur bhut saare situations aane baaki hai aur ye ladakpan ka pyar saath rahe aisa bhut kam hi hota hai. So bhut jyada serious hone ki jarurat nahi hai, jo chal raha hai chalne do, baat karne ka mann karta hai to baat karo faltu me ye soch ke preshan hone ki jarurat nhi hai ki vo kyu nhi baat karti. ye life hai aur best cheez iske saath yhi ki ja sakti hai ki Ise har situation me enjoy karo. Best of Luck.

  6. Yaar dekho baat saari humare mind ki hai, agar to aap apne mind ko control kar sakti ho tab to koi problem nhi aayegi aap jaa sakti ho but agar aapka apne dimag par bas nhi chalta to shayad muskil aa sakti hai. Main aapki jagah hoti to jaati aur function enjoy karke ghar wapas aa jaati. Jo cheez beet chuki hai usi ko yaad karte rehna aur usi baare me sochte rahna ye hume kabhi life me aage nhi badhne deta. I hope it will help. 🙂

    1. Kis cheez ka solution btaye apko anu g, bolo. Hume apni problem btao hum apko solution bhi zaroor btayenge.