Baat tab ki hai jan maine college me B.tech me admission liya. Vhan bhut sare dost bane… par kisi se khas attraction nhi tha fir maine computer classes join kar liya. Vha computer center par ek ladka tha jiska naam Abhishek tha. Abhishek Character ka bhut acha ladka tha but as usual mujhe sab ladke dhokhebaj lagte the, flirt type lagte the. Fir bhi meri usse baat hoti thi and na chahte huye bhi usse ek attraction sa ho gya, Vo muje acha lagne lga… but maine apni feelings kabhi uske saath share nhi ki. Fir ek din usne mera no. manga.

Maine pucha, `Mera no tumhe Kyu cahiye?` to kahne lga tumse kuch baat krni hai.. to maine de diya bcoz jaisa ki maine btaya vo acha ladka tha. Sham ko uska phone aaya, study se related kuch puchne ke liye to maine bta diya. Uske baad uske msg aane start huye.. Main use pasand ksrne lag gyi thi, aur bhut acha lgta tha jab uske msg ya call aate the. College time me kabhi usse bat nhi karti thi. Fir hum bhut ache dost ban gye aur vo mujhse apni har choti badi baat share karne lga tha. Vo chandigarh se B.tech kar rha tha and mujshe ek saal senior tha to study me uski help bhi leti thi. Kabhi kabhi help ki jrurat nhi bhi hoti thi fir bhi le leti thi. Fir ek din usne mujhe kha..

Main Tujhse Pyar Karne Laga Hu

Maine kha… `But main nhi karti` fir Abhishek ne kha… “Mujhe kuch nhi pta. Main karta hu and I can’t live without you”. Uske baad maine bhi use `Love you` kha. Uske baad ek bhi din aisa nhi jata tha ki vo mujse baat na kre. Har roj baat karta tha aur har baat share karta tha vo apni family se bhut pyar karta tha.

Ab 3 saal ho gye the hume saath. Hum bahar milte bhi the. Meri family me thode restriction hai but jst bcoz of him Mai bhane bna ke usse milti zaroor thi. Ek din usne kha ki – Vo milna cahta hai aur sex karna chahta hai! But maine use mna kar diya. Mujhe in sab cheezo se bhut dar lagta tha.

Fir usne kha… “Ok, but kiss to kar sakta hu na?” toh maine kha – “Han vo to kar skte ho” fir Hum uske dost ke room par mile. Us Din humne bahut baate ki aur usne mujhe touch kiya, mujhe acha lga. Fir usne mujhe lip kiss kiya..

gf ko sex ke liye kaise puche kese manaye

Is tarah ka ye mera pehla ahsas tha. Meri saanse tej ho rhi thi, Uske baad usne mujhe ek tight hug kiya and kha “I love you“. Maine bhi use kha “I love you too“. Fir usne muje sex ke liye insist kiya but maine mna kar diya and usne kha thik hai, jab tak tum ni khogi hum nhi krenge. Main khush thi ki vo bhut acha ladka hai aur bat ko samajhta hai.

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Fir sham ko main ghar aa gyi… usne mujhe phone kiya and mujhse meri Facebook ki ID puchi. Maine ID password bta diye to agle din usne phone kiya and kha ki Tumhari id me kon-kon hai?

Actually mere ek college friend ne Mujhe msgs bheje the ki He like me. Vo inbox me pade the. Abhishek ko gussa aa gya and usne mujse gusse me bat ki. “Kyu tumne aise dost bna rkhe hai?” Actually ye uska caring nature tha. Usne phone cut kar diya and maine bhut try kiya but vo phone nhi utha rha tha. Fir finally usne call uthya to maine kha – “Kya hai phone kyu cut kar rahe ho?”. Usne kha – “Meri marji krunga!“. Mujhe bahut bura laga, fir bhi marti kya na karti, Maine kha – “Nhi mujhe baat karni hai” Aur mujhe rona aa gya.

vo kahne lga – Chup ho jaa aage se gussa ni krunga, Sorry. Humare jhagde huye but hum jaldi solve kar lete the. Vo mujhse kahta tha ki tu roya mat kar mujhe bhut bura lagta hai. Kabhi kabhi hum puri raat baat karte the. Usne study me meri sach me bhut help ki and mere Birthday par mujhe gold ki ek ring di. 🙂

Hum bhut ache dost and Gf – Bf the. Exam time me main kbhi use disturb nhi karti thi aur na vo muje. Humari love life bhut achi thi. Use ya mujhe kabhi paiso ki jrurt bhi hoti thi to hum le lete the ek dusre se. Jab uski degree complete ho gyi to vo ghar aa gya and mujhse bhut kam baat karne lga. Mujhe bura lgta tha but main use smjhti thi ki ghar par time kam hi milta hai, family hoti hai so baat karna easy bhi nhi hota. Ya to vo mujse roj baat krta tha ya fir vo bilkul baat karni chod gya.

Uska ek dost tha Rahul, Abhishek ne mujhe Rahul ka no. diya aur kha ki agar kabhi mujse baat krni ho to is no. par phone kar liya kar. Mujhe kuch samajh nhi aa rha tha!! ye kya ho rha hai!? 5 se 10 din jab Abhi ka koi phone nhi aaya to maine Rahul ke no. par phone kiya.

Usne muje btaya ki Abhi ke liye ladki dekh ke aaye hai! uski engagement bhi ho gyi hai!!! Mujhe ye sunkar dhakka laga aur maine phone rakh diya. (Mujhe tabhi yaad aaya, Jab hum starting me dost bane the to usne mujhe bola tha.. hum dost hai aur hamesha rahenge but main shaadi apne parents ki marji se hi krunga). Mera dil toot gya. Mujhe kuch samajh nhi aata tha ki Main kya karu aur Main din raat bas roti rahti thi.

Fir ek din usne phone kiya. Lekin main kuch nhi bol payi, bas use congrats bola. Usne mujse pucha – `Naraj hai?` toh main rone lag gyi. Mai kuch bol nahi paa rhi thi mere gale se aawaz hi bahar nhi aa rhi thi. Usne mujhe kha chup ho ja tu ro mat. Maine kha Main nhi rah skti tere bina ♥.

Usne mujhe kha Yaar mumy ne pasand kar di main mna ni kar sakta tha. Maine bola Ok. Maine usse jyada baat nhi ki. Maine pucha – `Aap aage mujhse baat kroge?` toh usne kha, haan bilkul krunga. Main usse bhut pyar karti thi bas chahti thi vo khush rhe and jab bhi uska phone aata tha mai usse baat karti thi but vo time bhut bura tha mere liye. Main tension me rahne lagi har time vhi dimag me rehta tha, bhut roti thi uske liye but vo meri kismat me nhi tha.

Fir uski shaadi ho gyi 🙁

Uske baad vo kabhi kbhar mahino me ek baar mujhe phone krta tha, usne mujhe mna kar diya ki main use phone na kru. Ek do baar maine use phone kiya to usne gussa kiya and kahne lga ki tu kabhi mere paas phone nhi kregi. Maine fir bola ok.

Fir vo mujhse kabhi baat nhi karta tha. Uski shaadi ko 6 mahine ho chuke the, tab fir ek din usne phone kiya and apni wife ke baare me btaya vo bhut sundar thi. Maine kha – Aaj purane dost ki yaad kaise ayi?. He said, Bas aise hi bhut din ho gye the tujse baat kre.

Uske baad humari kabhi koi baat nhi huyi. Ab vo mujhse baat nhi karta fir bhi main bhut pyar krti hu usse. Shayad usne kabhi pyar kiya hi nhi tha mujhse. Main nhi chahti ki vo disturb ho ya mere karan uske family me koi kalesh ho, isliye mai bhi use kabhi phone nhi karti. Lekin uski kami har ek saans me mehsoos hoti hai hai.

Kyi sunsaan raaton me takiye bheeg jaate hai. Aur aksar ek shayari yaad aati hai..

Khuda Ka Shukar Hai Ki,
Usne `Aanshu` Berang Banaye..
Warna…
Raat Ko Bheege Takiye,
..subah ♥ Ka Raaz Bayan Kar Dete..✔

Shayad isi ko pyar kahte hai aur shayad isi liye…

Main Apna Pehla Pyar Kabhi Nhi Bhool Sakti 🙁

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. shivshi g, kya hota hai jb hm kisi se pyar Krte hai phir vo khi hmse dur chla jaye ya koi use hmse chhin le, pyar kamjori nhi takt, power hai kuch achha krne ki, tbhi to ye sansar juda hai pyar ki Dori se, mujhe phrk nhi pdta log mere bare me kya sochte hai phrk tb pdta hai ki khi me kya sochti hu, bdi khubsurti se kahani ko swara hai aapne.

  2. mujhe apni gf ka haat pakadne ka mann karta h …bt nhi pakar pata…….use jb pata chala meri feelings ke baare me….usne mujhe fattu kaha….!!
    ..
    …abb meri kya galti h…mai jb v use dekhta hun…mera dimaag kaam krna band kr deta h..??
    ..
    ….. what 2 do ??

    1. Apne andar Confidence le kar aao varna life bahar aise hi niras hona padega, itni himmat to honi chahiye insan me ki apni dil ki baat keh sake..

    1. kam ladai kia karo na us se nhe toh mna lo use ab gussa ho hi gaye hai toh, ab wo manege kaise wo toh apki girlfriend ke nature se pata chalega, use kya pasand hai outing, flowers, chocolate, gifts, movies. use kahi apne sath le jao, pyar se samjhao. aur ladkiyan thodi sensitive hoti hai toh jo bhi krna pyar se karna use hurt mat karna.

      1. Main khus naseb manta khud ko mere gf mere wife bana wali or woo mera liya ek bhagwan ki jaise hai aaj jo kuch v ho uska chalta hu or aisa ek bhagwan he kar sakta kisi ka liya..

    1. Pasand nhi to mana kar do, as simple as that. Life ko complicate banane ki jaruat nhi hai ye already kafi complicated hai.

  3. me ek ladki se pyar krta hu PR bo mujse pyar nhi krti mna krti h PR friend ki trha baat krti h 15 month ho gye baat krte krte PR use pyar nhi hu aaj tak kya kru or koi relation bhi nhi banana chati bs friend maanti h

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  4. Hello dear

    Meri ek girlfriend hai
    Or main use bahot pyar karta hu
    Main use hamesa khus rakhna chahta to yesa kya kru jise wo hamesa khus rahe or mere or pass aa jaye ……?

  5. Hi, i need your help so badly.
    ……
    forgot to add some things. She is 2 years older than me. and almost every other day she gets a proposal [at least that’s what it looks like. But she is a proper orthodox kind of girl who doesn’t accepts strangers proposals [i know this bcoz she told me once]

    HELP !!

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  6. Hi, i need your help so badly. I met a girl last year in Bangalore. She was way out of my league. I know she had feelings for me. par last year we could only stay together for 4 months and i was not able to tell her how i felt. Abhi i got relocated to Pune and ab sirf kabhi kabhi hi baatein ho pati hai par i am absolutely sure i am in love with her. mereko samajh nahi aa raha hai ki How do i tell her that i have fallen for her and get her to say how she feels. batana toh hai warna regret reh jayega humesha ke liye. HELP !!

    1. Akshay, call her… Usse kuch der bas idhar udhar ki baat karo and fir bolo – Acha listen I gotta tell you something serious, I don’t want to sound weird but maine bhut kosish ki par ye baat dil me daba kar aur nahi raha ja rha so today I decided to tell you, but first of all promise me that Agar tumhe meri baat pasand nahi aayi ya kuch bhi bura laga to tum naraj nahi hogi” she will definately say – “Tell me, main naraj nahi houngi. Then say it my friend.. That’s lief and we don’t have much time to regret so say it now.. Best of luck 🙂

  7. dear shivshi Meri love story kuch alag hei. Me us ladki ko khudse bhi jyada pyar karta hu. me aur wo ek hi city me rehte he lekin .hamara aamne samne Milna nashib ke hath me hota he. hum 6-7 month pehle bat kiya karte the lekin kuch problems aye isliye hamari bate karna band ho gaya. hum kisi din milte he to bate karte he .me uses bat karna chahta hu lekin wo kuch na kuch reason nikal deti he aur kal aana aesa keh deti he but wo aati nahi. wo aesa kyu karti hogi. ?aur me kya karu.? uske bina me Mar jaunga

  8. meri ek achi friend hey hum kabhi close hey aur muzhe usse pyar hey lekin mey use propose karne se darta hu kyuki use relationship mey interest nahi hey mey kya karu

  9. I am vicky ?
    mai ek ladki ko pasand krta hu but mughe ye nahin pata wo mughe like krti hai ya nahin by theway mai us se everday milta hu wo bhi dekhti hai mai bhi dekhta hu magar is se kya hoga wo mughe dekhti hai iska mtlb ye to nahin ki wo mughse pyar krti hai aur na mai bol pata hu ki mai tumse pyar krta hu Ab tum he mughe batao mai kya kru Aur haa mai pahle kisi se Love nahin.kiya wo paheli Ladki hai jise mai cahta hu

  10. shivshi mai aapse bht humbly respect ke sath puchna chahta hu ki ye upar jo kahani hai wo kiski hai, mai janna chahta hu ki kya koi itna bhi pyar kar skta hai kya , agar haan , to kya mai unse mil skta hu, mai dekhna chahta hu ki sacche pyar krne wale kaise lgte hain, pls pls pls pls

          1. Me aapko is bare me soch kar btaungi aap mujhe apna contact number de or apni company ki details bhi.

  11. Shivshi jii meri GF h Anjali Sharma Me usse jab bhi kiss ya hug kerne ki koshish krta hu to vo bas ye kah deti h ki Shadi ke baad….Or ye or kahti h ki mujhe in sab cheezo me intrest nii h ……Me or girls ki tarah nii hoon…To aap bataiye ki me isme kya kroon..????

  12. hello mera naam rajan h me ek ladki se bohot pyar krta hu vo b mujse krte h PR hmari relation mama bhanji ka h mgr me uske bina reh nhi skta me bohot pyar krta hu usse kya hme is pyar ko aage bdana chahiye plzz muje btaye

  13. Mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta tha,aur abhi b karta hu but she cheated me,aur usne apne bhai se kehke mujhe aur mere pariwar walo ko gandi gandi galiya dilwayi,mera kasoor yahi tha mai usse bahut pyar karta tha aur abhi b karta hu.maine usse 24 gahnte me se sirf 10 mint. dene keliye kaha to aisa ki,jabki humdono 2 saal tak committed the.ab wo sayad kisi aur ko pyar karne lagii h but mai use bhul nahi pa rah hu kya karu

        1. Use dekh ke smile karo, agar vo bhi smile karti hai to next day uske paas jaao and smile ke saath Hi Bolo… thodi idhar udhar ki baat karo and fir uski tareef kar do thodi di, genuine waali. Uske baad 2-3 din aise hi Hi Hello, kaisi ho… karte rho aur fir no. mang lo.. Agar ladki interested hogi to de degi varna sad song sun lena 2-4 😉

  14. Me aur meri gf bahot love karte he ..Hum ek dusre k bina nahi reh sakate . Hum dono mrg karna chahte he … But family k khilaf nahi Jana chahte. Wo mere bina nahi reh sakati. Me to manage kar lungu.par usse kese samajau…..plz adv me

      1. hey I am singles and need gf I will find but how to impress him or
        convert his frndship into love ….
        for this problems i need some one and u get me as frnd

        agar ho sake to private mai msg kiji ye
        mujhe step by steps jarurat lagegi so plz help me

        1. Aap comments me hi apni baat puch sakte ho, jab hume time milega hum reply jarur karenge.

  15. Yrr mai mere bf se bhot pyar krti hu ….wo bhi mujhe bhut pyar krta haii mujhe lgta haii yrr wo mujhse jooth bhot bolta haii nd yr sab se bdi prblm wo brkup bhot krta haii fir pachup b krleta hai or khta haii tere fayde k liye kiya tha brkup…yrr wo chahta kya haiii plz tell me…nd plz rply fast

  16. Listen plz help hn actually he is not trying to understand my feelings he is my bf but kuch months se he is ignoring nd nd i dont no whats wrong with him will u plz tell k kese wo samjhe ga muje wo wo nai krta jo me chahti tomorrow is my birthday nd he is going to makkah for wish me nd wo saturday ko aye ga but i want him here to spend time with me i said him k wo yahin rhe time spend kre with me but wo nai mana he want to wish for ne in makkah mein aisa kya krun jise wo meri hr bat mane muje ignore nai kre time spend kre with me ok plz say something

  17. Hello my name is riya wil u plz help me actually mera bf kuch months se ignore krne lga hai nd he also hurt me so much usko intention nai hota hurt krna but wo krta hai me aisa kya krun jise wo hurt nai kr sake he is so good but wo nai samjhta jo me chahti hu mein aisa kya krun jise wo muje samje aise hurt nai kre problem is this k he is hurting ignoring wo mujhe samjhta nai hai plz help me say something lig this jise wo muje samjhe meri feelings ko

    1. Riya dear tumhe us ladke ko apni dil ki baa khol kar openly batani chahiye… Ho sakta hai vo us tarah se baat ko samajh nhi pa rha ho, jaise samajhne ki jarurat hai.

  18. Ek questions hai meri frnd mjhse daily puchte hai ki love mai kya kya baate hoti hai maine kha mai love ni kri hu mjhe ni mlum plzz aap log bta dijiye hamko wo pareshan kri hai plzzz bta aur kis kis type ki baate hote hai plzzz aur kya kya hota hai

    1. ahahahaha…. Sneha is topic ka koi syllabus nhi hai, pyar karne waalon ko jo pasand hota hai vo baate hoti hai.. as simple as that.

  19. Hii meri girlfriend hai usko me bhot bhot piyar karta hu utna wobi mujai piyar karti hai or bhat aasi hai k hum ak dusrai k bina nahi ji sakte menai phili bar piyar kiya hai or hum ak siti mehi rahitai hai bhot salose usko me dekta tha wobi mujai dekti ti me usse bhot piyar karta hu philai se par mujai pata nayta k wobi mujse bhat karti hai k humri 1 2 bar bhat bi huvi phila fon par par wo mujai samaj nay pati ti fir 3 bar menai usko sab bhat ki k me tujse bhot piyar karta hu abi humri love story ko 2 sal k upar hogayai hai bhot acchi calri hai hum ak dusrai k bager nay re saktai …par ak bar meri mammi ne merai liyai ak ladki pasand kiti to mujai uswakt khuc padi nayti menai kahidiyata k tumhai acchi lagti hoto mujai khuc nay to wo ladki se meri bhat pakki kardi ti ab me jisse piyar karta hu uskobi bataya menai ye bhat par hum bhat kar k akdustai ko samja detai te is bhat ka duk bhot hota hai hame humri love story k ak sal bhad us kbi prenc ne us k liyai ladka dunda uski bhat bi pakki hogay nahi wo ladkai wo bhat karti hai or nahi mera jise k shat huva hai usse me bhat karta merai dilmeto bas akwohi hai meri jaan jis k bager me akpal bi nahi re sakta menai usko buag kar sadi karnaikobi kaha par wo usse na padti hai abi mujai akhi bhat bar bar satti hai k uske beger me kesai ji pavga abito hum shathai koi problem bi nayhai humrai bic kabi lafda jagda bi nay hota hum msg me ratko bhat kartai hai or usko moka milta tab dinme kabi fonparbi bhat kartai hai humdonoka piyar saccha hai hum ekdusrai k shat zindgi bitana chatai hai par hum khuc kar nau parai hai iska koi accha sa rasta batwo jisse hum shat re sake zindgi bar please. ……..

      1. hi… ek ladki hai jo samajhati hai ki mai usko like krta hu.. hn like krta hu bt… mai usase kah nh sakta… aur ek din kya hua ki wo mujhe time di thi ki mai usako bolu pr mai nh bol paya… mai chahta hu ki wo bole mujhse pr aisa hota nh hai…. ab aap hi btaiye ki mai kya kru..

  20. Hi dear..me meri jan(lover) se bhut pyar krti hu ham 7th std k the tabse contec me hai hum bhot ache or close the pr usne muje 10 th me pros kiya mene mna kr diya fir vo 11 or 12 me std k liye bhar chla gya…fir hum colg me bca kr rhe the vo dusri colg me or me dusri colg me pr ak citi hone k vhjese or frns phleki the to contc cntinu tha fir muje vo roj phone pe or msg pe bat krta tha..fir usne muje propos kiya or me us close or imp. Thi to ha kh diya fir roj puri rat bat kiya krte the…fir uske 1.5 yr rilesn k bad hum uske rum pr pheli bar akle mile…to usne muje kiss k liye or me mna nhi kar payi…fir hum dono khi bar kiss kr chuke hai..ase hi hmne bca com. Kiya or me apne home pr aagyi vo abhi mastr kr rha hai…vo mujse sadi k liye tyar hai pr mere mom dad me meri eng. Krva di vo b icha hai pr meri jan se me bhaut payr krtfi vo b mujse pyar krta hai…pr mere emg. Ho gyi hai to fir bhi mere sath contec rkhna chahta hai me kya kru…..vo muje hmesa khta hai ki vo khbhi kisise pyar nhi kr payega…oisiliye vo mujse bate krte rhna chahta hai..me bhi uske bina nhi rh skti or fmly se bhi bat k to fmly ne kha kam nhi kr rha or fmly bdi hai uski ma ka savbhav tight hai kese sadi krvade me kya kru me use or vo mujse alg nhi hona chahtee…plz help positiv…

    1. Komal tujhe ek bahut hi tough decision lena hai aur is baare me main ye nhi keh sakti ki tujhe kisi select karna chahiye, but agar teri jagah main hoti to jisse engagement huyi hai usse shaadi karti. Main manti hu ki isse pyar me dhokha hoga but morally yhi shi hai bcoz ab jisse tumhari engagement huyi hai vo bhi tumhe pyar karne lag gya hoga is baat ki guarantee hai and vo ladka bhi har hisab se shi hai (according to ur parents). Aur tera lover keh rha hai ki vo life me kisi se pyar nhi kar payega, is cheez ki jyada fikar karne ki jarurat nhi hai, time bahut balwan hai aur ye sab jakham bhar deta hai.
      Still coice is urs. Main sirf salah de rhi hu, faisla lena tera kaam hai. But yes jo bhi decision le batana jarur.

  21. Me apni zindagi (my lover ) se bhut pyar karti hu or WO bhi pyar karte hai unke liye kuch bhi kar sakti hu 3 saal hone wale hai Hume relationship mein to WO ab jaake pyar karne ke liye bol rhe hai ( mean x ) to kya ye thik hai aap kuch suggestion de skte ho muje plz

    1. Dekho dear is topic par alag alag logon ke alag vichar ho sakte hai, but mujhe aisa lagta hai aapko marriage se pahle sex nhi karna chahiye because aaj kal har taraf yhi dekhne, sunne aur padhne ko milta hai ki pyar me ladki se sambandh banaye aur baad me kuch panga pad gaya, ladke ka to kuch nhi jata par ladki ka kuch bachta nhi, so agar meri salah maano to aapko aisa nhi karna chahiye. Ek baat aur aaj kal ulti seedhi websites par ladkiyon ki videos bana kar dal di jaati hai sirf kuch paiso ke liye, ladki ko pata bhi nhi hota aur sari duniya use us halat me dekh rhi hoti hai jo byaan nhi kiya ja sakta aur fir uska anjaam kya hota hai vo tum janti hi ho…

  22. hlllooo shivshi Di…..
    M ek hindu ldka hu ur ek muslim ldki s pyar krta hu wo b mjhse bht pyar krti h ek pal wo tha k hm ek dusre k bina rh ni dkte thee but ab br br kisi na kisi bt ko lekR jhagda hota rhta h phle hm phn pr bht baate kiya krte the but ab bht kam hoti h phle hm roz daily mila krte thee but ab mile hue b 8month ho gye h hmari love story ko 1year hua h kuki wo uski family ki bejti s drti h isliye hm mila ni krte… But its okkkk…
    Haali ki bt h k mne ko bht kuch bola yha tk ye b boa kuki mere s ekglti hui ur mne phle b bola ur ab b bola k m bht bura hu mjhe chor do m gmhre laysk ni ur usne mjhe chor diya aisa b hota h kya…..phr mjhe kuch amjh ni aaya ur mne usko bht bura bhala kha k m tmhre isharo pe nachta rha phr b tmko smjh ni aata m tmse kitna pyar krta hu but m apni glti maan rha hu babu plZZZ maaF krdo aage s ni krunga plzzz wse aisi mafi ur nhi krunga phle jhagdo me b kiya tha but ab ni plzzz pta h wo bolti h maaf kiya but kisi b zrurat prblm k baare me ni btaungi aisa thodi na hota h plEase maaf krdo na plzzz jaaN….. I REALLY LOVE U mera babu plzzz maaf krdo I’m REALLY REALLY SOOOORRRRRRRYYYYYY….

    1. Dekho Mr. Selfish… Ye bacho waale kaam chodo aur ek mature ki tarah behave karo.. Ab jo ho chuka hai vo ho chuka ab present situation ye hai ki vo aapse jyada close nhi hai aur ye koi khas baat nhi hai… aap agar aise nasamjh wala behave karoge to vo aapse aur dur jayegi, kyunki koi bhi ladki ek bache se apna rishta nhi jode rakhna chahti. Aapne apni baat keh di bas theek hai, ab normal raho aur ho sake to usse duri banao isi se sab theek hoga. Ye baat sunne me abhi ajeeb lag rhi hai par aapko iska andaza baad me lagega ki maine aisa kyu kaha.

  23. hlllooo shivshi Di…..
    M ek hindu ldka hu ur ek muslim ldki s pyar krta hu wo b mjhse bht pyar krti h ek pal wo tha k hm ek dusre k bina rh ni dkte thee but ab br br kisi na kisi bt ko lekR jhagda hota rhta h phle hm phn pr bht baate kiya krte the but ab bht kam hoti h phle hm roz daily mila krte thee but ab mile hue b 8month ho gye h hmari love story ko 1year hua h kuki wo uski family ki bejti s drti h isliye hm mila ni krte… But its okkkk…
    Haali ki bt h k mne ko bht kuch bola yha tk ye b boa kuki mere s ekglti hui ur mne phle b bola ur ab b bola k m bht bura hu mjhe chor do m gmhre laysk ni ur usne mjhe chor diya aisa b hota h kya…..phr mjhe kuch amjh ni aaya ur mne usko bht bura bhala kha k m tmhre isharo pe nachta rha phr b tmko smjh ni aata m tmse kitna pyar krta hu but m apni glti maan rha hu babu plZZZ maaF krdo aage s ni krunga plzzz wse aisi mafi ur nhi krunga phle jhagdo me b kiya tha but ab ni plzzz pta h wo bolti h maaf kiya but kisi b zrurat prblm k baare me ni btaungi aisa thodi na hota h plEase maaf krdo na plzzz jaaN….. I REALLY LOVE U mera babu plzzz maaf krdo I’m REALLY REALLY SOOOORRRRRRRYYYYYY….

  24. Hiiii..mai bhi kisi se bhut pyar krta hu jayada tr bat jo phone se hi hoti h mila bhi hu usse wo bhi mujhse pyar krti h pr kvi khti ni ..usse aur kaise impressed kru kucch smjh ni aa rha h pls…help me

  25. Hiiii….. Yr m ek ldki se bht pyr krta hu……… Vo phle mjhse baat krti thi but ab nhi krti h… Usney mjhse 4 mnths baat ki… Bs phr pta nhi kya ho gya usney mjhse baat krna band kr diya…. Aaj 3 years ho gye h….. Lekin vo mjhse to kya mre naam bhi nhi sunna chahti h…… Aisa kyu h….. I love her more than my life…. I cannt live without her……. Plz help me …… Main kya kru

  26. Hi shivshi. Main mere bf se bahut pyar krti hu but I dont know ki vo mujhe v utna hi pyar krta hai hmara pyar ka 3 sal ho chuka hai. Pahle to vo mujhse bahut bate krta tha but ab nhi krta kehta hai ki busy hu bt other sare kam or sb k liye uske pas time hai to aap mujhe btayeğ ki main kaise janu ki vo sch bol raha hai ya jhut or vo mujhse sch me pyar krta hai ya nhi? Plz jldi btana.

    1. Vidya g, ho sakta hai wo kisi tarah ki problem mein ho. Aap shanti se usse puchiye ki koi problem to nahi? Shayad main tumhari is problem ko solve karne mein help kar saku. Use realize karwao ki aap uspe bahut trust karti ho

  27. Hi m from allahabad…. Mai Aur meri gf ka relation almost 1 year se h…. Hum dono ek he clg me the to isi bhnane phle hum dono ek saath apna bht tym spend kr lete the…. Pr ab clg khtm ho gya h to wo ghr chali gai h isliye approx 2 months se humary bich bht km he baat ho rhi h.. Wo khti h ghr me baat nhe kr skti kaise bhe tym nikal 1-2 mint kr leti Hu……… To aapse Jan na chahta Hu ki kya es relationship ko aagy continue rkhna chahiye ya……

    1. Dilip ye baat aapko mujhse nhi apne aap se puchna chahiye, kyunki is baare me aap ache se jante ho so u can decide well.

  28. Yr mai firstly apko thank bolna chata hu kyuki ap sbko advised bht achhi tra se kr ri ho . yr mere relation k bre me mai apko btata hu jis se mene pyr kiya . vo muje pyr krti hai ya ni mai ni smj pa rha hu . pele mai apko bta du ki vo pele kisi or k sath realation me ti jo ki vo ladka mera dost tha bs hi hello tk vo bhut bura hai ese bolna ni chaiye dure k bre mai pr ye such h . vo glt cheeje sari krta hai . like drinking . tash khelna or phlto ki bte krna . yr shivhi me us lakdki se 7 year se dil hi dil me pyr krta tha mene kbi ni bola tha use mene socha ki pele kuch bn jao ya kuch achha kr lo tb boldunga pr m pta chla ki vo us lakdke k sath realation me h . pr vo jb bi mere se bt krti ti tb m puchti ti ki vo kya kr r hai means . puchti ti ki vo koi glt cheej to ni krta ab yr me use pyr krta ta or krta hu to me usse jhut ni bol skta ta me vo bolta tha jo such hota tha. co lakdka sb kuch krta ta jo co pele we krta a r ta . do din esa aya meri life me no mene apne dil ki sari bt bta di . usne m love you too bola or me bhut khus tha . vo bi m pyr krti ti yr hmr bich sex ko chhodhkr sb kuch hua hai . yr ek or bt uske ghr mai meri ek achhi image bi bni hui h. pr vo ladka bhut hi kmine typ ka h . co m marne k liye bolta hai . pta ni yr vo Jose me pyr krta hu vo mere sath na hoke uske sath h . is bt ko 2( more ) ho gy h . kya vo m pyr krti ti ya krti hai …… kya ap m bta skti ho

    1. Sorry kundan is baare me mainkuch nhi keh sakti ki vo aapse pyar karti hai ya karti thi… this is a very complicated case.

  29. In love with my ex even after breakup. It has been 1 year now n I know that she also love’s me but religion problem.. She moved on with someone but I still loves her. 🙁

    1. And that will not take u anywhere, so accept the reality asap and start living ur life. What u doing is a stupidity. U will get a wife, Love her more than ur life but before that make an empire for her.

  30. hlo im abhay yr meri problam bhut alg h jo sbiki hoti h jyada tr me apni gf se bhut pyar krta hu or vo bi mujhe bt unki famly ni manri humari.shaadi ko vo thode old think ke h unhe pyar vyar smjh ni ata or hum bhag kr bi shaadi ni krna chate so plz kuch advice do yr

    1. Apne parents ko samjho is baare me detail me and fir unhe ladki ke ghar bhejo uske parents se baat karne ke liye..

  31. Hey
    I am in relationship from 6 months. In start, we talked a lot like for 5-6 hours continuously. After sometime it starts reducing. In this time, my bf got disappear for 1 month. I felt he was playing with me. I were too upset. After sometime he messaged me that he was busy and I send him ‘ lol ‘ because I want to show him that if u don’t care I don’t too.
    But after that I asked from him so many times that why u don’t message me once or call me in these days. He didnot tell me anything.
    Then we ignored it and start regular chat and meetings.
    Nowadays we don’t met. We don’t talk for 3-4 days. He says, he is too busy . He has to do over work.
    What it shows ? I am very confused

    1. Hi Nisha, there are two possibilities that may be He is really busy and second is He is trying to avoid you for any reason. Chances of second point is stronger so I will suggest U to don’t care about his msgs and calls too much. May be he is not that trustworthy.

    1. Hahhahah…. bas baat karte karte haatho ko kis karo fir dheere dheere upar ki taraf jaao aur fir… 😉

  32. Main kisi se pyar krti hu… or humra relation 5 saal se jyda ka h…lakin aaj tk muje unhone kbhi kuch nhi dia or na kabhi bhi muje apni family members milwya nd apne frnds se milwaya or vo kbhi bho mujse baat krne ki kosis nhi krty…. main call krti hu to pic krke ye keh dete h ki.abhi fone rkh do main bat nhi kr skta….. aap muje bta skte ho ki aisa kyu krty h vo

    1. May be vo aapse pyar nhi karta just kisi reason se ya apne fayde ke liye aapke saath relationship me hai. Main aapko khungi jaldi se jaldi kuch action le varna aapko problem hogi baad me. Agar vo aapse pyar karta hai to use aapki care karni chahiye, aapki khusiyon ka khyal rakhna chahiye. Agar aap uski life me apni jagah janna chahti hai to ek kam karo… Kuch dino ke liye usse baat karna bilkul band kar do, mo message, no call. Agar vo msg ya call karke puchne ki kosish karega to ho sakta hai uske dil me bhi kuch ho varna to saaf clear hai vo bas fayda utha rha hai.

  33. mera pyar bahut sweet he . Hum ek duse se bahut pyar krte he . ps kabhi kbhi achanak vo kuch sochti he. Or kuch b bol deti he jisse mujhe bahut bura lgta he.

    1. To usse apni baat share karo and use batao ki uski is baat se tumhe bura laga taki vo aisa fir na kare.. Jab pyar karte ho to itni baat share karne me koi dikkat nhi hai.

  34. Mai apni gf se bhut pyar krta Hu, bt abhi kuch Dino se usne job krli hai aur Vo mjhse ab acche se baat n krti hai,, msg krta Hu to bdi der tak reply bhi n aata h,, jb bolta Hu to khti hai Ki busy thi aur jb ghar me hoti hai tab khti h Ki sab log hai,,kbhi kbhi busy jaata h uska phone to khti h

  35. Jo aap ki story hai shivshi wahi mari story hai mari girlfriend hai vaishali wo kya hai ki wo polytechnic kar rahi hai aur main bas high school pass hu 2008 main maine pass kiya tha aur abhi vaishali ka last year hai polytechnic ka but us ke ghar wale us ki shadhi kara rahe hai us ki shadhi hai Nov… main but jo aap ke bf ki baat thi wahi baat vaishali ne mujhse kahi ki shadhi main apni maa ki pasand se hi karogi is liye aaj tak maine vaishali ko touch bhi nshi kiya tha maine usko promise kiya tha ki hum sab shadhi ke baad hi aap ko touch karoga but ab bahut dar ho gayi (Shivshi) bas vaishali khush rahe main yahi chata hu……… but Maine ak promise aur kiya tha vaishali se ki agar mari shadhi hogi tho sirf aap se vaishali warna kisi se nahi am baat aur main 2008 se bad ak private job kar raha hu printer repair ka yahi hai mari story ab aap hi bata digiye ki main kya karu………

    1. Dekho Dashak main aapki feelings ko bhut achi tarah samajh sakti hu, lekin aapko janna chahiye ki isi ka naam zindgi hai friend. Aap jante ho roj is website par kam se kam 100 log comment karte hai aur aisi aisi problem batate hai ki hum soch bhi nhi sakte vo kitna dukh sah rhe honge isliye agar aapko lagta hai main aapko shi salah de sakti hu to aap Reality ko sweekar karo. Vaishali ki marriage ho rhi ye baat samajh lo aur apne aap ko ahsas dila do ki theek hai yaar pyar kiya par vo nhi mili to kya hua, log to kaise kaise bure haalat se gujarte hai. Use ek past samajh kar bhul jaao aur kosish karo usse dur hi rho, uske touch me mat rho. Aur rhi baat kisi aur se shaddi karne ki to Vo aapko jarur karni hogi becoz aapki ye zindgi jo hai aapse pahle aapke bhagwan yaani aapke Mata Pita ki hai aur ye aapka farz banta hai ki unhe har tarah ka sukh do. Bahu ka sukh, Santan ka sukh aur har parivar waali khushi.

      Apne Mammi Paapa ki khushi ke liye jiyo, kabhi niras nhi hoge 🙂

  36. Meri gf kisi or ke sath bat karti rehati he. Or jhut bolti he ki meri aj iss ka tha kal us kaa tha
    Pata nhi kya he mujhe esa trik bataoo ki woo mere se hi bat kare mujhe hi pyar kare

    1. Agar ladki aisa kar rhi hai to uski koi guarantee nhi kab ghosle se ud jaaye, isliye bas apna dil sambhal kar rakhna aur faltu me kisi bewfa par na luta dena.

  37. love is nothing yr!!!!!!!
    koi kisi ko pyar nahi karta hai bs sb apni needs puri karte hai yha sb!!!!!!!

    1. Acha Ji.. Ye Anurag kashap ki kisi movie ka dialogue lagta hai. Khi tum Anurag Kashyap to nhi ho.. 😛

  38. aaj khus to bahut hogi tum……
    ab kuch kaam ki chiz bhi bata do hain…….
    tumhe batana he to batao ni to abhi (mission impossible 4) relezz hone wali he me tom cruz se hi puch lunga wese bhi mera mission kon sa possible he help me plz ha ni to me ro dunga phir tum chup ni kara paogi me bata ra hu (or dentist ka no. bhi bata dena dusra dant bhi tudwa aaya me kal) #prashant_burman is my fb in name plz send me frinde rec. plz plz plz ni to……..

  39. me ek girl ko love karta hu wo mere sath 5th se 8th st. tk padhti thi ab ham 11th me he pr dono alag scl me me use bhul hi gaya tha pr mene kuch din pahle jab me subah jogging kar ra tha use uski shop par dekha or ek budhe aadmi se takra gaya wo hasne lagi me use dekhta raha pr mene thoda left me dekha uska bada khadus bhai mujhe gabbar ki yarah ghur ra tha(akshay wala ni shole wala) me roj uski shop ke samne se nikalta use esare karta use hasata(only 4 days) kyoki 5 day uske bhai or uske frnds me muje uske samne bahut mara or uska phone bhi le liya me usse comtect kese karu(ha usne mera samne wala dant bhi yod diya tumhare lass koi dentist ka no. he to batana)

          1. hy me apne bf se bahot pyr krti hu WO b mujhse bahot pyr krte h but pta nh kyu humara humesha jhagda hota h me kya karu plzzzz help me

          2. ha esi bat Jo humare past se related ho ya unhone koi galti ki hoto mujhe bahot gussa aajata h or hurt ho jata h to me bina soche samjhe unhe kuchh b bol deti hu kyuki pahle unhone esi kuchh galtiya kithi jinse mujhe bahot hurt hua tha to wo bate mujhe har chhote jhagde me yad aajati h or n chah kr bhi me unhe pura bhala bol deti hu

          3. Dekho Anu problem kya hai vo tum janti ho. All u need to take strong decision. Past me jo hua agr us baat ko issue banaogi to deer hamesha hi jhagde honge so kill that issue. Don’t mention that thing ever in conversation. THis is the key of ur Happy Life.

            See dear, Healthy relationship ka best point hota hai Love and thoda compromise. Agar ye dono cheez ho to problems nhi hoti so just forget past. And live ur Today.. 🙂

    1. Prashant : – Wo study to karne jati hi hogi use bahar milne ki koshis karo aur agar baat karne ka mauka mila to purpose kar dena itna pite ho to wo bhi tumhare bare me hi soch rahi hogi so go ahead and try to meet wid her, lekin babu dukan pe to bilkul mat jana pichli baar to maar ke chod diya tha is baar (main ya batau yaar tum khud samsajhdar ho…………