Agar aapko ek ladki bahut pasand hai aur aap use apna banana chahte hai par aap use jante nhi hai sirf use dekha hai aur uske deewane se ho gye ho lekin ab aapko samajh nhi aa rha ki us ladki se kaise baat karu aur kya baat karu to ab khush ho jayiye :). Ji haan, khush isliye kyunki ab Main, yaani ki aapki best friend Shivshi aapki is problem ko hamesha ke liye solve karne waali hai. I guarantee ki, Main jo yha btane waali hu agar aap vo sab theek se samajh gaye to aap bade aaram se kisi bhi anjaan ladki se baat aur dosti kar sakte ho 🙂 . Bas to ab jo main bta rhi hu use dhyan se padho aur samjho, agar kuch kar rhe ho to use chodo aur apna pura dhyan yha lagao.

Kisi unknown ladki se baat karna jyadatar logon ke liye bhut hi jyada challenging kaam hai. Jabki kuch log ye kaam badi aasani se kar lete hai. Agar aap bhi kisi anjan ladki se baat karne me ajeeb mehsoos karte ho aur ladki ke saamne jaate hi aapki dhadkane badh jaati hai, aapki body language bigad jaati hai aur paseena aane lagta hai to sabse pahle ye jaan lo ki is baat ki jra bhi tension lene ki jrurat nhi. Ye cheez bhut hi commom hai, aisa sirf aapke saath hi nhi hota, balki har dusra insan aisa hi feel karta hai. So isme fikar karne wali koi baat nhi 🙂 .

Unknown Anjan Ladki se Baat karne Ke Tips Tarike Girl Kaise Pataye Impress kare

Asal me, ladki ko approach karne ka koi secret nhi hai. Bas kuch cheeze hai jo aapko theek se karni hoti hai aur fir chances hote hai ki jis ladki se aap dosti karna chahte hai vo aapko positive response de. Aapko bas kuch baato ka khyal rakhna hai. Jaise ki, vo ladki aapko goli nhi maregi isliye aapko darne ki jrurat nhi hai. Dusri baat ladki ko darpok kisam ke ladke bilkul pasand nhi hote so aap ghabrao mat aur confidence me raho. Jo log ye kaam aasani se kar lete hai unhe koi jaadu nhi aata hota, bas vo apne aap ko shi tarah se present karte hai aur aap bhi vo aasani se kar sakte ho. Bas ek baat hamesha yaad rakho..

Agar aap sochte ho ki aap ye kar sakte ho to aap vo badi aasani se kar loge. Agar aapko lagta hai ki ye aapse nhi hoga to fir vo aapse ho hi nhi sakta

Kahne ka matlab hai sab kuch aapke upar hai. Agar aapme us ladki ko paane ka junoon aur chahat hai aur aap use kisi bhi haal me paana chahte ho to aapko vo jarur milegi varna vo nhi milne wali. Positive rehna bhut jruri hai. To chalo ab shuru karte hai.

1. Use Dikhao Ki Tum Use Dekh Rahe Ho

Jab aapko aisi ladki se baat karni hai jo bilkul anjan hai so sabse pahle use dekho, use ye baat pta chalni chahiye ki tum use dekh rhe ho, agar usne ye baat notice kar li ki tum uski tara dekh rhe ho to samajh lo bina kuch kahe tumhari baat shuru ho gyi. Lekin ek baat ka khyal rahe ki use dekhna hai goorna nhi. Bas halke se uski taraf najre karo aur jaise hi vo tumhari taraf dekhe, ek second ke liye eye contact karo aur fir khi aur dekhne lag jaao. Fir dekho aur fir jaise hi vo dekhe tum yha vha dekhne lag jaao. Aisa agle din bhi karo, use dekho aur fir najre hta lo. Vo bhi tumhari taraf jrur dekhegi. Kisi bhi haal me ghabrana nhi aur mast attitude me rehna. Use pakka yakeen ho jaana chahiye ki tum use dekh rhe the.

2. Eye Contact & Smile

Ab uske saath eye contact hone do, ab thodi jyada der ke liye najre milao, eye contact maintain karne ki kosish karo. Agar 3-4 baar uske saath eye contact ho gya to samjho response positive hai. Agr baar baar aapka eye contact ho rha hai to bas samajh lo ki ladki chahti hai ki aap uske paas jaa kar baat karo. 3-4 baar ladki ka aapki taraf dekhna aur eye contact hone ka matlab hai ki vo bhi interested hai.

Smile : Ek halki si smile ye btane ke liye kaafi hai ki aap usme interested ho. Uski tarah dekhte huye halka sa smile karo, agr vo bhi smile karti hai to matlab vo bhi interested hai. 2-4 baar aisa hone par uski body language dekho. ladki ki body language se aapko saaf saaf pta chal jayega agar vo sach me aapse baat karna chahti hai.

3. Ladki Ki Body Language

Halanki kisi ki body language se sab kuch nhi jaana ja sakta par kuch behavior se bahut kuch pata chal jaata hai. Body language se aapko ye bahut aasani se pta chal jaata hai ki koi aapse baat karne me interested hai ya nhi.

  • Kya vo tumhari taraf dekh bhi nhi rhi ? Kya uske haath ek dusre me bande huye hai? Kya vo music sun rhi hai ya book padh rhi hai? Kya vo gusse wala muh bana rhi hai? Kya vo ye jante huye bhi ki tum uski taraf dekh rhe ho, tumhari taraf dekh bhi nhi rhi? Agar is tarah ke sign ladki dikha rhi hai to ho sakta hai vo kehna chahti hai ki use ye sab pasand nhi hai aur tum uski taraf na dekho aur use tumme koi interest nhi hai.
  • Lekin, body language hi sab kuch nhi hote. Apne yha gharon me bachon ko sanskar diye jaate hai jo humare sanskriti ki sabse achi bat hai. Ladkiyo ko samjhaya jaata hai ki kisi se faltu baat nhi karna, koi dekhe to uski taraf mat dekhna aur aur koi preshan kare to ghar par batan. So ho sakta hai vo is karan bhi vaise body language show kar rhi ho.

Agar aap ab bhi usse baat karne chahte ho to dhyan se dekho vo kaisa react karti hai aur suno ki kya kehti hai aur agar vo aapse koi baat nhi karna chahti aur akele rehna chahti hai to aapko uski baat samajhni chahiye aur uski feelings ki respect karni chahiye.

4. Ladki Se Baat karo

Ab baari aati hai asli challenge ki. Bahut logon ko ladki se baat me Nervousness hoti hai. Agar aap bhi unme se ek ho to meri ek baat theek se samajh lo… Asal me kisi bhi ladki se baat karna utna muskil nhi hai jitna aap samajhte ho. Aapka dimag hjaar taraf ki baate sochne lagta hai ki agar use acha nhi laga to vo kya kregi agr use bura laga to kuch panga na ho jaaye, ye na ho jaaye, vo na ho jaaye. Aisi hi bhut si baate aapke dimag me aane lagti hai. Iska ek hi solution hai…. Pahle se hi soch lo ki usse baat karni hai ya nhi, agr nhi karni tab to baat hi khatam aur agar baat karni hai to soch lo ki kya baat karni hai. Ek baar decide kar liya bas fir uske baad kuch mat socho. Dimag me aisi vaisi baat aayegi unki tarah dhyaan hi mat do. Bas us ladki ke baare me socho aur relax raho.

Ghabrana sabse badi bevkoofi hai. Suna hai na ki, Pyar Kiya to Darna Kya. Ek baat yaad rakhna jo insaan apni Dil ki baat batate huye ghabrata hai, darta hai ya Sir se paao tak pasine me tar batar ho jaata hai use vo ladki kabhi nhi milne waali. So agar aap us ladki ko apni dost banana chahte ho to ye sab chodna hoga jo ki bahut aasan hai. Ladki chahti hai ki jis ladke se vo friendship kare, pyar kare vo bold ho, apni Dil ki baat khul kar suke saamne ki himmat rakhta ho. Aur agar aap isi point me fail ho gaye to use paana muskil hi nhi Namumkin ho jayega.

▼ Ladki Se Baat Karne Ke Topic

Jaisa ki maine pahle kha ladki se baat karne ke liye kisi special talent ki jarurat nhi hai, bas aap me himmat honi chahiye, face par halki si smile, achi si personality aur muh me aawaz honi chahiye. Aur mujhe pura yakeen hai aap me ye sab gun hai, so aap bhi ye kaam badi aasani se kar sakte ho. Kyi logon me himmat to hoti hai par baat kya karni hai unhe ye nhi samajh aata to `Anjaan Ladki Se Baat Kaise Kare` jrur padhe. Yha aapko detail me topics bhi mil jayenge aur tarika bhi pta chalega. Kuch cheeze main yha bhi btati hu..

Uske paas jaa kar, smile ke saath ache se `Hii…` bolo. Ho sakta hai vo kuch jawab na de, fir se bolo – `Helloo..` vo jrur bolegi `Hanji…!?` Ab aap halke se smile ke saath situation ke hisab se, uske baare me aapko jo bhi jaankari hai usse related ya uske hisab se kuch bhi pucho. Jaise ki..

  • Aap khi job karti ho ?
  • Aapka naam kya hai ?
  • Aap konse school / college me ho ?
  • Aapse kuch baat karni thi.
  • Aap B.Tech kar rhi ho ?
  • Aap XYZ Nagar me rehti ho ?
  • Aap pahle XYZ school me padhti thi ?
  • Aap Shivani ki friend ho ?
  • Maine aapko khi dekha hai ?
  • Aap pahle Call Center me kaam karti thi ?
  • Aap Kha rahti ho ?
  • Aap Delhi se ho ?
  • Aap Robin ki Sister ho ?

Jab aap ye questions ya apna hi koi sawal ladki se puchoge to vo saamne se ye jrur puchegi ki – `Aapko isse kya?`, `Aap ye kyu puch rhe ho`, `Aapko isse kya matlab` tab aap soch samajh ke jaldi se kuch acha sa jawab do taaki vo aapse baat karna shuru kare. Yha aapko apni intelligence dikhani hai ki aap kitne intelligent ho. Sab kuch maine aapko point to point bta diya bas ye aapko khud sochna hai.

Is tarah ke kisi bhi topic par usse koi normal sa sawal pucho. Direct ye mat bolo ki – `Mujhe aap bahut pasand ho, kya aap mujhse friendship karogi?` Pahle ladki se dosti karo, use jaano aur uske interests ke baare me pta karo. Ho sakta hai uske baare me janne ke baad, uska behaviour aur uski thinking samajhne ke baad aap khud uske saath friendship na karna chaho, so direct propose karne ki bjaye pahle ek dusre ko jaano aur samjho. Aur agar sab theek lagta hai and aapko lagta hai ki aap dono ki relationship achi ho sakti hai, aap dono ek dusre ke saath khush reh sakte ho to use propose karo. Propose kaise kare ke baare me janne ke liye `ladki ko propose karne ke best tips` padho.

Most important baat : Agar ladki positive response nhi deti ya aapse baat karne me interest nhi dikhati to aapko uski feelings ki kadar karni chahiye aur piche hat jaana chahiye. Jabardasti karke apne aur uske liye problems khadi karna mha bevkoofi hai. Alag ladki ka ladko me alag taste hota hai, jaise ladko ka ladkiyo ke liye hota hai. Ek ladki ko lag sakta hai ki aap uske type ke nhi ho. Vhi ho sakta hai kisi dusri ladki ko ye lagta ho ki – `Aap hi uske sapno ke Rajkumar ho ♥`

Ek aur jruri baat…. Agar aap kisi ladki ko pasand karte ho aur use impress karna chahte ho to aapko apne aap ko Fit aur Healthy rakhne ki shakht jrurat hai. Koi bhi ladki aise ladke se dosti karna jyada pasand karti hai jo Fit ho, jiski personality achi ho, dhang ke kapde pehanta ho aur himmat wala ho. Ladki nhi chahegi ki uske boyfriend ka pet nikla ho aur uski sab saheliyan uska majak udaaye. Vaise bhi sabko fit rehna chahiye chahe ladki ptani ho ya na ho. Apne aap ko fit aur attractive rahne ke liye ye `Healthy Aur Fit rahne Ke Best Tips` jarur padho aur diye tips ko follow karo.

Friends, Anjan Ladki Se Baat Shuru Kaise Kare aur friendship kaise kare topic ke liye ye best tips hai. Ab ye aapke upar hai aap inhe kitna samajhte ho aur kaise impleent karte ho. Main to bas ye chahti hu ki sab khush rahe, sukhi rahe. Ek friend ne totally unknown ladki ke saath ek hi din me dosti aur Friendship ki. Apne mature behaviour aur confidence ke dum par next day usne ladki ko Kiss kiya aur uske saath Sex bhi kiya. Agar aap soch rhe ho kaise ? to ye padh sakte ho -`Unknown Ladki Ke Saath Sex`. Actually, it’s all about your thinking. Simple sa fact hai, Agar aap apne aap ko hi nalayak manoge to koi dusra aapko intelligent kaise maan sakta hai. So Dear friend agar aap duniya jeetna chahte ho to aapko Sikandar khud banna padega. Pasand ki ladki chahiye to vo aapko apne efforts se hi mil sakti hai. Main aapko rasta dikha sakti hu, Kila aapko khud fateh karna hai. आप लड़की से दोस्ती और फ्रेंडशिप करने के टिप्स हिंदी में भी पढ़ सकते है 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Mai apne school ki ek ladki se bahut pasand karta hu or woh bhi mujhe dekhti rahti hai ab mai kya kru mam

  2. Mam mere school ki ek ladki hai woh mere frnd ki sister hai mai usse jaanta hu lekin woh mujhe nahi jaanti lekin messenger pe mujhse baat karti hai or usse maine uske bare mai puchta hu toh sab batati hai or mai usse milne bolta hu toh maan jaati hai ab usse milna chahiye or mile toh kya kare

  3. Hi mam
    I am umar aur main aik student hoon meri class main aik ladki hai jo mjy bahut ziada pasand hai main jab bhi usy dekhta hoon wo bhi meri taraf dekhti hai hmara 3-4 second eye contact bhi hota hai main smile pass krta hoon aur wo aakhir main ghussay sa aankhon ka ishara da kr moon pher leti hai aisa rozana hota hai ab main kia kroon help me please

  4. Hallo mam mai ek ladki se nahi pyar karta hu par uska ek boyfriend hai aur us ladki ko yeh bhi pata hai ki me use like karta hu us se relationship banana chahta hu aur woh ladki bhi baar meri tarf dekhte hai to kya karu age plz bataiye

  5. Hallo mam mai ek ladki se nahi pyar karta hu par uska ek boyfriend hai aur us ladki ko yeh bhi pata hai ki me use like karta hu us se relationship banana chahta hu aur woh ladki bhi baar meri tarf dekhte hai to kya karu age plz bataiye

  6. Hi dear Shivashi g umeed krta hn ap kheryat se hongi. Mera name Walikhan hy aur mera taluq Afghanistan se hy me 3 saal se Germany me hn muje b yaha 2 larkia bht jiyada pasand hain magr muje dar hy kahi propose kia to bura n’a man le jb b party me jata hn yahi 1 larki waha ati hy aur khoob bate krta hn magr us sath saheleyan hoti hain une aur jise me chahta hn sbko whisky or Bier pilata hn magr pir me apne dil ka haal use nhi bta sakta kia karoo k wo Maan jaye. Apka mashwra chahiye is bare me.

  7. Mam me ek ladki Ko bahut jyada like karta hun hum dono ek coaching me jate hai mein jab bhi use eye contact karta hun to Bo bhi Karti hai but gusse vala or muh pher leti hai Mene kai bar bat karne ki koshish ki lekin Bo ignore kar deti hai so mam pls btaiye me kya karu

    1. aap usse kahi milne ke liye bulaiye aur apne dil ki har baat bata dein agar milna possible nahi hai toh afater coaching usko propose kar dein.

  8. hello mem i m rahul from INDIA ye article likhkar aap kya kar rahe ho thats i also know but i want say somethings thats all to u main aapke all article ko everyday read karte karte aapka fan ho gaya hu you know just jis aapko nahi read karta man hi nahi lagta
    mem i want something say to u
    i ll just propossing u kya aap mujhse dosti karoge

  9. hello mam mujhe apse ak bat puchni thi ki mai ak ladki ko pasand karta hu wo roj mere ghar ke samne se nikalti hai or mai jab bhi use kahi par bhi dhikta hu to mujhe dekh kar smile karti hai me bhi kar deta hu lekin me use kuch bol nahi pa raha hu mai jab bhi use dekhta hu me ghabra jata hu to plz help

    1. Apko itna khabrane ki zarurat nahi hai sab log thora nerves toh ho hi jate hai par aapko aapne aapko sabhalna padega kyunki kabhi na kabhi aapko usse bolna padega ki aap uske liye kya feel karte hai.

  10. Aap na jo kha vo sub ha muj ma pichla 4 sal sa pyar krta hu ma usa pur khana ki himat nahi ha kasha khu kuch tips do nana ya ksha pata kru ki bo mij sa pyr krti hi ya nahi

    1. agar aap yuhi darte rahege to ek din usko koi lein jaiyega isliye aao usko apne dil ki baat bata diye woh aapki jaan nahi legi chill and go propose her

  11. Hay mam Mara pedos ma ak ladki rahati hai ma na usa ko 3 mahina phala propose kiya taa lakin usana mujsa ya kaha ki mara man ma bi tumara liya feeling be to honi chayia aur ab wo Mara sa phala sa jayda bollana suru kar diya hai koi bi usa kam hota hai too so mujsa kahati hai too kay ab ma usa dobara apani dil ki batt bolu kaya plese replay

    1. Use jab koi kaam hota hai to vo tumhe kahti hai varna kuch nahi kehti… iska sedha sa matlab hai vo tumhe istemal kar rahi hai.. tumhara fayda utha rahi hai… Uske mann me tumhare liye koi feelings aa gyi ho iske chances bhut kam hi hai fir bhi dobara apni dil ki baat keh sakte ho, kya pata mamla set hi ho jaaye.. 🙂

  12. hi, Dear mai ANUPAM DIWAKAR meri girl friend ne kisi or se saadi kar liya ab wo usi ke sath rahati hai but mai v uske ghar ke pass rent par rahata hu …. kavi kavi wo yaad karti hogi sayad ham v use bahut payar karte hai but wo mujhe dekhar kavi khus hoti or kavi jalti v hai ayasa kyu karti hai wo…..

  13. jo sex ke liye pyaar kare wo pyaar nahi wo atraction hai jo pyaar hai uski koi kadar nahi jise ham pyaar karte hai unhe hamari kadar nahi jise hum chahte hai wo hame mile to koi gam nahi par jo hume chahte hai unka kya phir to hum bewafa ho gaye ap kisi ko pane ke liye kise or ko chhod nahi sakte chhodna hai to dono ko chhodo kyuki ap kisike liye marte ho or apke liye koi marta hai

  14. shivshi helo aap jesa kam kerti he me bhi sem aapki tara hi sabhi ko help kerta hu or me puri life ke koii bhi pro. ka solution bata ta hu

    so i like you work and aap ke iss peg me thodi shi kamiya he jo batauu nga bad me persnal me mins email id dena . and best of luck apna kam chalu rakho acha he ….
    baki email pe bat kerta hu ki iss pag me kya chang karo or or ye vali tips ko bhi tum firse padh ker kuch add kero…….

  15. Mere ko ek ladki bahut pasnad hai par mai usko bs bol hi nhi pa rha hu baaki tho aapki baat ke hishab se maine phle hi kr liya ab only for usko batha nhi pa rha hu mai thoda sa dharrr sa lag rha hai dil mai ki kahi wo apme ghar walo ko na bolde bs or kuch nahi mai usko bahut pyaar krta hu but wo hai ki muje smaj hi nhi paati hai

    1. Bas ye darr apne dil se nikal kar usse baat karni hogi, simple si baat hai is kaam me thoda risk to hamesha rehta hai. Agar aap rish nhi loge to kaam nhi chalega.

  16. mere pass 1 ladki ati hea type per vo mujhe bahut pasand hea ham bat bhi karte hea but amne samne pata nahi vo mujhe like karti hea ya nahi lekin usne abhi tak apne number bhe nahi deye meane to de diye ab me kaise pata karu ki vo mujhe like karti hea ya ni me use dekhta bhi rahta hu me usase friendship karna karna chahta hu dil ki bat kaise batau samjh me hi ni aa raha

  17. thanks Maidam Ji aapne site ke jariye bahut hi achi baat share ki hai mujhe bahut acha laga jo aapne tips di hai ye tips mai har baar apne doston se poochha karta tha but har baar wahi mazaak ki jaakar bol de yarr but thanks for this post

      1. Mai ek ladki say pyar Karen laga hu wo mere har msg ka reply daite hai but shyad mujhe Asia laga hai mai usse impress nhi kar pa rha ki wo mere or attract ho kyoki wo bhout simple sweat girl h to pls tell me what can I do

  18. hi mem mera naam nikhil h aur meri class m ek ladki h shivani prblm y h ki wo topper h aur m midium bacho m aata hu mujhe usse baat krne ka tarika btaye aur ha uska mera eye contact waisa hi hota h jisa aapne btaya h

    1. Agar aisa eye contact hai bas phir toh kise bhi bhane se use baat start karo, notes ke liye, pen ya koi bhi common cheez. Sabse best, use koi topic samjhne ka bhana bnaye, ise apko uske sath time spend karne ka aur baat karne ka mauka bhi mil jayega. Aur aise he bhane se use baat karte raho aur phir dheere dheere apko in bhano ki zaroorat hi nahi padege kyunki ab wo apki friend ban chuki hoge.

  19. apki baatein 100% sahi hai .. but meri ik problm hai …. hndsum hu talentd hu awaz bhi but .. abhi tk single hu. kyuki ladkiya hmesha yh sochti h k meri pta nhi kitni gf hai real me meri koi gf nhi h

  20. Hi shivshi muze ek anjan ladiki roz apne ghar se dekhti he lekin problem ye he ki vo fourth flour pe rehti he vaha se muze dekhti he our me niche se to me vaha tak kese pohuchu use baat kese karu

    1. Use no. dene ka ishara karo, agar vo de deti hai to aage baat karo and mammla fit karo varna us gali se gujar kar apna iman dharam barbad karna band kar do.

  21. hello dear mera name shubham hai mujhe kal train mein ek ladki mili wo bhi mujhse pyar karne lagi thi leki mujhe uske bare mein jyada jankari nahi hai uska name madhu verma from pithampur mp. kal usse bat karke mulaqat karne ke bad ab main kanpur mein hun mera mfn nahi lag raha hai. wo kal rajendra nagar patna ja rahi thi apne gaon.
    please help me koi usse milwa do.

    1. Hahaha…. Kamal karte ho aap bhi.. Humare paas unka na koi contact hai na hi koi detail hum kaise milwaye aapko.

    2. Yaar Uske Gaon chale jao yadi sach me pyaar karte ho to, vaha ja kar hi aapko uske ghar ka pata chal payega, vaise bhi gaon chote hote hai bus thoda dimag lagao

    1. To vo aapko directly ya indirectly bta degi, fikar na karo pata chal jayega. Ek ladki ka behaviour hi kaafi hai ye sab cheez clear karne ke liye.

  22. Hi mam ek ladki h Jo mujhe baar baar dekhti h mujhe pasand bhi h par woh hamesha mil nahi pati …phir bhi agar woh hame like karti h ya nahin yeah kaise pata chalega aur uska no. Le kaise???????

  23. Hlo I m prashant can u give me some ansr ek ladki h 1-2 week se daily notice krte h but jab bhe m dekhta hu vo mrko dekhta he aaankhe neeche kr late h and vo apne frnd k saath aate h but do din uske frnd bolte h hmmm kl nhe aaege na too uske bola yes hmmm kl nhe prso aaege. And mne USS se baat bhe ke Colge k baare m poocha and name bhe so mrko much smj nhe aa rha kya kra jae ……pose help me

    1. aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck 🙂

  24. Hello mem
    Me ek ladki ko janta hu or baat bhi krta hu
    But usne mujhe nhi dekha he
    To vo mujhe dekhne k liye bula rahi he
    Or me use like krta hu
    Ab me kya kru

    1. Ye bhut stupid question hai, True love Girls and boys dono karte hai and jhutha love bhi dono karte hai.

  25. Assalam O Alaikum Main Aik Larki Se Bhot Pyar Karta Ho Wo Mre Agly Ghar k pechy rheti ha wo muhje dekhti zaror ha but me b dekhta ho par osky sath aik larki our b hoti hai our wo daily mare ghar k samny se apny nani k ghar jati hen plz me ossy bat ni kar pata muhj me himmat ni apati kch asa btao k mre me himmat ajai Me Jis B Larki Se Bat Karta ho to Mre Paseny Ajaty Hen Our Ghabra Jata Ho Me Man Me Bhot Sochta ho ye kronga wo kronga but jab larki samny ati ha to kch ni ho pata plz kch kro plzzzzzzzz jis se meri himmat ajai me os larki ko apna dost bana sako phir ossy apny dil ki bat bata do plzzzzzzzz

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

      Baat Shuru Karne ke liye Are itna sochte nhi hai, bas uske saamne ja kar bolo… `Hi…` vo bolegi `Hi…` bas fir puch lo, aapka no. milega? vo bolegi kyu? Aap bola, bas yun hi aapse baat karni hai. Vo mana kar degi fir kuch din use aate jaate dekhte rho… nain mataka karte rho aur kuch dino bad fir se ja kar bolo, yaar mujhe aap bahut pasand ho… Bas aise hi baat shuru ho jaati hai.. 🙂

  26. mam mai golu mere ghar ke paas ek ladki muje pahle dek kar gorti thi but vo is samay muje dek kar baag jati hai par mai use like karta ho baat karna chata ho kya karo please reply

    1. Are itna sochte nhi hai, bas uske saamne ja kar bolo… `Hi…` vo bolegi `Hi…` bas fir puch lo, aapka no. milega? vo bolegi kyu? Aap bola, bas yun hi aapse baat karni hai. Vo mana kar degi fir kuch din use aate jaate dekhte rho… nain mataka karte rho aur kuch dino bad fir se ja kar bolo, yaar mujhe aap bahut pasand ho… Bas aise hi baat shuru ho jaati hai.. 🙂

  27. Mam me ek ladki se bohot pyar karta hu
    Me use dekhta hu wo bhi muze dekhti hai lakin kuch uske aage baat nahi ja rahi hai
    Plz kuch batao

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

      1. Kohi girl friend nehi hai…Mujha kohi girl SA dosti krwa do mam please, my what’s number -7053490890.. kohi girl ho to help ker do please mam

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

      1. hello shivshi mam mai ladki ko pasand karta hu or wo roj mere ghar ke samne se nikalti hai or me use jab bhi dhikta hu wo mujhe dekh kar smile karti hai lekin me use kuch bol nahi pa raha hu jab bhi wo mere samne ati hai to me ghabra jata hu

        1. aap hamesha ek friendship se hi start kiye uske baat aapne ap hi baat agye bhadti jaiyegi.But aaoko bolna bahut zaruri hai jab tak aap bolege nahi aaapko kuch nahi pata chalega.

  28. Aslam.o.alikum. g ma ak larki sa bhot peyar karta hn ab mujy ni pata ka WO mujy be like karti ha ya ni mujy us sa pheli nazr ma peyar ho gia ha plzz koi hl bata do plzzz

  29. Mem mujhe ek ladki bahut pasand h but usse bat krne ki himmat nhi kr para kyu ki vo highest study kr rhi h mene aaj tk usse bat nhi ki
    But jb bhi vo mujhe dekhti h to esa lgta h ki vo sayad mujhse bat krna chahti h

    1. Himmat karo agar use pana chahte ho, varna koi aur himmat waala use le jayega. As simple as that. Uske paas jaao aur genuine Hi kaho, agar vo bhi Hi kahti hai to simple thodi bahut baat karo, bas use pata chalna chahiye ki aapke man me kya hai, par fir vhi baat himmat karni hi hogi.

  30. Hi shivshi..
    Main ak larki ko like kerta ho ham dono dor k rishtay dar ha meri us larki sy mulakat ak marriage pay hoi thi
    wo mujy dhekti rahti thi jab mai dhekta to wo apni nazar joka leti thi wo 2 bar hamray ghar mai b i milnay ka baat per muj sy baat nhi ki jati us sy agr main us sy baat kr lo to wo bura to nhi manay gi…..

      1. Shivshi dea..
        Akhir ladke ladkiyo se itna darte kyu he
        Are bhai ladki koi bom nhi jo ap uske pass jane se darte ho akhir wo bhi 1 insan hi he
        Agar insan ke pass insan nhi jayega to kya gadhe jayege

  31. Hello mam
    Me jb v ldhki s baat krta hu mujhe jraa c baat p gussa ajata h
    Me ek ldhki ko lik krta hu to plz btao me use kese bat kru .jise mujhe gussa n aye plzz tll mam

  32. Hey I’m akshay
    Maje ek ladaki pasand ahe mai usake ghar ke samanese jata hu tab mai use dekh ta hu par muje nhi malum ki vo muje like karti he kya nhi
    Please help me

    1. Mam.
      Jb me kisi ldhki s baat krta hu ti mujhe gussa ajata h
      Jraa c galt baat p hi mujhse gls k nkhre ni sehn hote to plz mujhe btao ki me kese bat kru

  33. Hey I’m akshay
    Mai ek ladaki se friendship kar na chahta hu par mai use nhi pehachamta
    Vo muje dekhti he or mai bhe dekhta hu fir mai aage kya karu?

  34. Assalamalikum shivish Yarrr ladkiya to mai pata leta huu mgr pyar nai love kaise feel krey kaise pata kare ki jo last night mere saath thi wahi life patner hai ya next night mujhe milegii wo Kisi se bhi zada din reletion ship nai rehta ….. 🙁 bhot preshan huu

  35. I am Ajay. today I want to tell you that kuch mahino pehle maine ek ladki ko dekha. Meri buaa(aunty) ki gulli me rehti thi. Par ab buaaji ne ghar shift kar liya or main us ladki ko like karta hu. Or ab mujhe use galli main jaane ka bahana nahi milta or waha family ke jaan pehchan ke log rehte hain isliye. Ab aap btaiye main usse dosti kaise karun?

  36. Hii mam ,i m little confuse mai ek ladki ko like karta hu but mai ye ni samaj pa rha hu ki vo bhi mujhe like karti hai ya niii..but mai jo bhi usse poochta hu vo sabhi k ans wer de deti hai but vo mujhse mere baare me kabhi nii poochti….nd vo baato bato me mujhe dekhti bhi …to plss ab aap bataiye ki she loves meeh or not ….

  37. Actually mam i want to about love mai ek ldki ko like karta hu but mai ye kaise jaan sakta hu ki she also love meeh or not….nd mai usse jo bhi poochta hu vo sabka answer de deti hai but usne kbhi mere baare me kuch poocha hi nii aur vo mujhe kabhi kabhi dekhti hai but jb mai use dekhta hu to 1 sec k baad vo apni nazre hata leti hai hm dono ek doosre k sath khana khate hai kabhi kabhi sath baithte hai but vo mujhse kuch poochti niii bs keval mujhe dekhti rahti hai

  38. hiii……shivahi ji mera problem yeh hai ki mein us she fb pe bahat baat karta hu or woh bhi mujshe kaphi baat karti woh mujhe achhi tarah se janti hai or mein bi us she achhi tarah se janta hu woh or mein ek hi CLG pe padhai karte but kabhi me us she real mein baat nahi kar paaraha hu please help me

    1. Use dekh kar full confidence ke saath smile karo, eye contact karo.. kosish kare ki eye contact normal se thoda lamba ho paaye. Fir jaa kar usse baat karo bina darre confidence ke saath. Vo jo bhi kar rhi hai uski tareef karo and use koi acha sa compliment do, smile ke saath baat karo. Himmat sabse jaruri cheez hai, next day jab vo mile to Hand Shake karne ke liye haath aage karo. Thoda Besharam hona bhi jaruri hai aur thoda risk lena hi padta hai aise kaamo me. Bas itna bhut hai, itna karo bandi impress hogi jarur.

  39. Hello shivshi ma’am please help me
    my name is Mahesh, mai ek ladki ko parsand karta hu,par vo mujhe naa hi like karti hai naa hi baat karna chahti hai, usne kaha hai ki agar tu mujhe paresan karo ge to mai aapne mammy ko sab bata dugi,aaj maine ek ladki se us ladki se baat karai hai jise mai like karta hu,usne kaha ki vo mujhe like nahi karti vo mera peech chod de kya karu ki vo mujhe dosti hi kar le please help me

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  40. Main ek ladki se bahut jyada love karta hu . Main uske bina nahi rah sakta and wo bhi mujhse pyar karti hai. Problem bas ye hai ki uske parants n usko kasam di hai ki mujhse na mile aur na hi bat kare. Ab ap mujhe batao ki mai use pane k liye kya karu?

    1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya person baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. or sath hi dear ye 21th century ab cast ko bich me lane ka t koi matlab hi banta. I think I’ve made my point.

    1. Are itna sochte nhi hai, bas uske saamne ja kar bolo… `Hi…` vo bolegi `Hi…` bas fir puch lo, aapka no. milega? vo bolegi kyu? Aap bola, bas yun hi aapse baat karni hai. Vo mana kar degi fir kuch din use aate jaate dekhte rho… nain mataka karte rho aur kuch dino bad fir se ja kar bolo, yaar mujhe aap bahut pasand ho… Bas aise hi baat shuru ho jaati hai.. 🙂

  41. My problem is m not getting girl of my type. I’m in Delhi. I’m expert in making friendship and all. Ab tk 5 online Fb gal mili . . 3 years relationship . train pe bhi 2 baar ladki pataya !!
    Per 1 saal se Delhi mein hu. Yar yaha kaun se jagah jau . . kidher jau. . !!??? Sb apne mein busy rehti h.
    Kuchh idea do bhagwan.
    I’m not in job right now. I’m in preparation leave . but kbhi kbhi lonely feel krta hu. Koi to ho jisse baat jru !!!
    Help me.

  42. m ek ldki sey bohot pyaar krta hun or use bhi pta h yeh but uska el bf h but would mujhe smile de kr hi bolti h iska mtlb kya h.?

    1. don’t waste your life for her, uske chakkar me apna time barbad mat karna becoz vo aapko sirf aur sirf ta baat kregi jab vo tensed hogi ya use koi problem hogi baaki time vo apne bf se hi baat karegi, uske saath hi rahegi and usi ke saath sex karegi. So bahut saare dusre ladko ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladki ki liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena.

  43. Hello.mem..m ek ladki ko like karta hu PR mujhe ye nhi pta Ki bo bhi mjhe like karti h ya nhiii..m ousko dekhta rehta hu bo v mujhe thoda dekhtii h….PR m ousse BT nhi kr pata hu…

    1. Agar aap usse baat nahi kar paate to simple si baat hai aap me confidence ki kami hai, jaldi usse baat karo varna vo samajh jayegi is bande me himmat hi nahi hai aur fir vo kabhi Haan nahi karegi, bCoz any girl don’t likes a coward boy.

  44. Hi mam , meri gf ke sath mere 14 Feb ko jhagda hoo gaya, tabse wo mughse baat nahi kar rai hai thik se, na pho mai na WhatsApp main, pho bhi nahi karrahi hai
    Gusse main use bohut kuch bol diya.
    Main kua karu…plse help me mam.

    1. aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck 🙂

  45. Hi Shivshi Ji, Itna bada comment dekh kar please nakaariyega mat……

    Jaise ki aapne mujhse pichhle saal kaha tha ki “Apne GF ke baare me jaanne ki koshish karo.” Maine pata lagaaya ki wo mujhse nafrat karti hai.

    Uske nafrat karne ka reason: (18 mahine pehle ki baat hai)
    1) Main uske colony me roz jaata tha. ((Lekin main use ghoorta nahin tha. Uske colony me mera best friend bhi rehta tha. Main GF ke ghar ke bagal waale park me apne friend ke saath football khelta tha.))
    2) Maine 2 baar uski photo kheechi, use ye baat pata chal gai. (Ek baar School function me usne gaana gaaya tha, tab kheecha tha. Aur ek baar Farewell function pe.)

    Ab please koi raasta dikhaaiye uske saamne firse image banaane ka.

    Pehle wo class me mere peeche waali seat per baitha karti thi, mujhse bahut baaten kiya karti thi. Ab wo mujhse nafrat karne lagi hai.

    Please baataaiye na main usse kya kahun ki wo mujhse nafrat na kare………

    Ek aur baat main usse in sabke baare me baat nahin kar sakta kyunki maine ye sab information GF ki saheli (Sneha) bankar GF ko MSG karke pata lagaaya tha.
    Maine fir ye baat Sneha ko bataai (kyunki I trust her), to usne kaha “Apni GF se kabhi iske baare me mat bolna, nahin to wo mujhse ladne lagegi.”

    Mai GF ko True Love karta hoon. Use khona nahin chaahta.

    Please aap ye mat kahiyega ki “Ye situation ab out of control hai”
    Main ye sab aansoo bahaate hue likh raha hoon.

    Please mere aansuon ki kadra kariyega.

    Agar aapne ek solution nikaal diya to main aapke liye dua karoonga ki aapka BF aapko humesha bahut pyar de, aapki respect kare…….

  46. hello mam.. mai sunil mam maine phelle vi comet kiya mujhe koi jawb nahi mila 20 din hogeye hame ek dusre ki tarf dekhte huiye ek din maine jake usse bat kari to maine pucha ap kha jop karti ho to ussne bola apse matlab to mai kha mujhe apse koi kam tha to boli kam bato maine kam bataya to mukrate hui boli thik hai jab koi jagh avelbal hogi toaongi maine kha thik hai bas etna khe ke chali gai fir o dusre din aai to mane egnor kar diya uske bad o 1O din tak nahi dikhi fir O ane lagi firse dekhne lagi pur ab uske sath koi boye hota jiski wjh se mai bat nahi kar pa raha hun plz..mam mujhe batao mai keya karun

    1. Dear har cheez ke liye sirf ek hi mauka milta hai life me or aapka mauka tab tha jab wo aapki baat par muskurayi thi lekin ab aap sirf tabbhi try kar sakte ho jab wo ladka na ho or usi kaam ke bhane se puchna or kabhi bhi hero ban kar attitude hone ka natak karke use ignore mat karna nahi to akele hi reh jaoge, kyunki jo movies me hota hai wessa real me nahi hota.

        1. Use dekh ke smile karo, agar vo bhi smile karti hai to next day uske paas jaao and smile ke saath Hi Bolo… thodi idhar udhar ki baat karo and fir uski tareef kar do thodi di, genuine waali. Uske baad 2-3 din aise hi Hi Hello, kaisi ho… karte rho aur fir no. mang lo.. Agar ladki interested hogi to de degi varna sad song sun lena 2-4 😉

  47. Hi,
    Me ek ladaki ko pasand karata hu par me kisi bhi ladaki se baat nahi karpata me jababhi kisibhi ladakiko dekhata hu meri najar nichi ho jati hai me kisi ladaki se baat nahi kara pata ab me us ladaki ko kaise puchu?
    Plz ans. Fast please

  48. Hi mem
    Me ek ladaki ko pasand karata hu par me kisi bhi ladaki se baat nahi karpata me jababhi kisibhi ladakiko dekhata hu meri najar nichi ho jati hai me kisi ladaki se baat nahi kara pata ab me us ladaki ko kaise puchu?
    Plz ans. Fast

  49. hlo mam kaise ho aap wo cls mai mere samne baithe h shyd thora thora eye contact v hota h pr mujhe dr sa hota h main us se kaise baat kru kya react kregi so plz hmari problem aap slove kr do

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  50. Hii mene apko us ladki ke baare me batya tha na, mene us din uska picha kiya tha, to tab se ab jab vo mere ko dikhti he, mere ko ghur kar ke dekhne he, mere ko kuch samaj nahi aa raha he vo esa kyo dekh rahi he mere ko.

  51. Hyy mem mujhko ak ladki roj dekhati he aur me bhi use roj dekhata hu kari ak week se hum ak dusri ko. Dekh rahe he ab me usko janta nhi aur wo bhi mere ko nahi janti bus hum ak dusre ko dekhate ab me re ko uske sath bat karni he to me ke se karu bat aur kon si bat se sauat karu

  52. Hi yar mere help kro…me ek ladki nu bht lekin krda aa but kbhi keh nho saka…ek bar bat krne k koshish k thi lekin usne mje khq kya prblm hai to agey meje kuch socha nhi ..phor me use kuxh time dur rehne laga aur phor usey mulqt hoye aur woh ladki ab bi mrti hai mujhpe ab yeh batao kaise mulu usey aur …woh jada tar to ghar pe he hote hai aur ghar uske mera ana jana nhi hai ..aur schol bi jate hai lekin vain me bat nhi ho pte…koi koi tarika hai kya mje batao plzz

    1. Shivani ji ap kha se ho aur kya krti ho …I m from punjab kya ap mujhse Dosti kroge….Mujue bhaur satate k ladkio se vat krna bht acha lgta hai aur mil Bht acah Feel hota hai Agar ap mere bat sun rhi haplz Requst me fcebook pe..id Gavy babaljeet…work it pyar tune kya kiya weh likha ha profile me..thnku so much Shivni

  53. Mera gf samajhti hai ki mai kisi or ke sath piyar karta tha jiski shaadi ho chuki hai merahi ek dost ne usse kaha tha av wo mujhe bhau nai deti iske liye kya karna chahiye plz give me some tips

  54. Hi
    Madam,
    meri problem yhe ki mein us larki ke baare socheta hu jo mere bare me sayed kuchh bhi nhi socheti
    wo mery computer teacher h mein ouse prpose karne s darta hu
    plz help me.

  55. Hi i m adnan..
    Sis meri prob bht chhoti si hy…mujhe girls propose bht krti hy..mujhe mujhe abhi tak koi aese ladki nhi mili jo dil ko chuh jaye..darta hn dil tut ne se..

    1. Itna bhi na daro mere dost.. Zindgi jiyo, dil tuta to kya hua fir se jud jayega, aisi kya baat ho gyi… 🙂

  56. Shivshi Medam.. Mera aapko Namskar….. Mene 28 January me din comment me meri problem bheji thi… Pr aap sayad busy hogi isliye reply Dena bhul Gaye hongi… So please mujhe reply do pls…

      1. Hlw shivshi ji
        Ek ladki h jo humse harek bt share krti h yah tak ki apni bf ki baat bhi share krti h mujhe samjhe me nhi aa rah ki v kya bolna chahati h

  57. Hi shivshi …
    I need ur help plss help me.. mai ek ldki se pyr krta hu jo meri gf hai bo bi mujhe bahut pyaar krti hai mujhe bss itna btaa do ki mai aisa kiya kruu jo bo mujje aur bi jyda pyr kre mai chahta hu ki bo waki sb kuch bd mai aur mujhe pehle rhe mtlb bo jitnaa pyr krti hai utna jtati nahi hai …mai aisa kiya kru

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  58. hi medam ………………… mey ak ladki ko bohat chatahu …… us key sath mere batey bhi hota hey… usko mere dil ki bat bhi bataya tha … magar o mujey na bolkey chor diya …… abhi bhi muj sey bat kartay hey ….. magar mere peyar ka kuch bhi respons nehi dey ta hey …. to mey ab keya karu….

  59. Hello shivshi madam,
    meine abhi recently comment kiya tha. Actually mera problem hai ki mein ladkiyo se aage kuch bol hi pata. Main kya karu ki muzme wo bravness aaye.

    1. Dear aap me braveness ki nahi self confidence ki kafi hai. Isliye khud par bharosa rakhna sihko sabse pahle aapki problem khud ba khud solve ho jayegi.

  60. Hello shivshi madam,
    meine abhi recently comment kiya tha. Actually meri problem ye hai ki mere college mein 1 ladki hai jise main like karta hu, pura soch ke jata hu ki aaj toh baat karunga par jaise wo samne se aati hai aur hum dono ek dusre ko dekhte hai waise hi muze kuch samaj nhi aata aur mein baat hi nhi kar pata hu. Main kya karu ki baat karne se na daru. Please kuch help kijye.

  61. Hii shivi…mai ek ladki ko like krta hu hum do ek dusre ke liye anjaan hai.mostly vo ladki mujko raste mai aati jati milti hai.jb bhi mai usko follow krta hu or kabhi kabhi usse aage nikal jata hu to vo dusra rasta le leti hai jb bhi vo aisa krti hai to always alag alag rasto se jati mai.ye baat or hai ki ager mai usko trace ker leta hu to vo ek baar mudker jarur dekhti hai.vo mujhe dekti to mai pr na to smile krti hai or uske face pr koi khaas expressions nhi hote.can you help me pls?

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

        1. Dear aapko bas thodi himmat karni hogi or khud par bharosa rakhna hoga bas. Or agar aap derr karoge to wo ladki aapse durr ho jayegi.

  62. Mai 1 ladki ko chahta tha wo v chahti thi 1 din mai udse pu6a kisi ko like krti ho bolo aapko fir hmari bs hii hello hoti h
    Mam ku6 alg typ ke tips bataiye ko wo mujhpe fida ho jaye or bat ku6 or aage badhe hm dono jada bat v nhi kr pate wo ghr mre rhti hai or wo call v nhi kr sakti q ki uske pass mob. Nhi h

  63. Hi mai Harshit
    Mai ladki ko pasand karta hu aur bhi
    But baat age nahi bad rahi hai
    Wo sirf bato bato taal deti hi do please
    Batao mai kya kroo

  64. ar yr suno ek ldki h jise m like krta hu bt yr vo bhut confuse krti h m bolta sath dogi bolti ha fir bolta gf bnogi fir bolti.nahahahahahhahahaha abe yr demak ki dahi bna de h nd bolti h ki hamm sirf frnds h pls merai email m msg krna pls email- bishtlucky92@gmail.com pls jarur btana kya kru

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  65. Hi I m op meena meri problem h mene ek ladki ko bola m I love u but usne bola mujhe interest nhi h in sb
    Mager bo ladki mujh ko last tk dekh ti rahi bataoo kyaa m usko fir s bolun kyaa usne mujh ko long time tk dekha but m nhi rukaa m banha s chala gyaa

      1. hey!! shivshi ji mai 1 ladki sey pyar karta hu or I think wo bhe mughe passnd karti hai ham fb me to chat karte hai pr mai uske samne ate he baat nhi kar pata I meen Nervousness ho jata hu es ley kafi dino se fb pr bhe mane ussey koi chat nhi ke pr ab uski friend mugh se chat kar rhi hai or ku ke wo jisey mai passnd karta hu uski best friend hai to kya mughe us ladki sey bhe chat karna hoga pr mai ussey baat nhi karna cahta hu to mai uski friend ko mna kar du pr mughe dar hai ke uski friend kuch glatfyme na kar de ham dono k beech I need you’r help. ..plz…

        1. Aap uski friend se baat karo lekin sirf usi ke bare me jise aap pasand karte ho. Isse ye hoga ki wo ladki khud use bata degi ki you he likes you.

  66. Ek GirL Hai Jisko mene First time dekha Nd Uspe Crush Aagya but uska Ek bf hai mene Usse Friendship ke liye prapose bhi kiya Tha .. But Tarika galt Tha but Mereko vo bhut jyada psnd Hai so what i do

    1. don’t waste your life for her, uske chakkar me apna time barbad mat karna becoz vo aapko sirf aur sirf ta baat kregi jab vo tensed hogi ya use koi problem hogi baaki time vo apne bf se hi baat karegi, uske saath hi rahegi and usi ke saath sex karegi. So bahut saare dusre ladko ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladki ki liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena.

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  67. Hiii dear i am sohil..thanks you so much your co orpaeation …but dear actually me us ladki ko bahot like kerta hu but pro ye he ki us ladki ka already b.f he so me use bat ker leta hu thodi bahot but vo pure din apne b.f se phone pe bat kerti rehti he or aisi situation me use kese izhar kru or use bahar gumne ka bolta hu to vo negative samaj ti he so plz i reqvest u k ap ku6 tips btae.kyuki me use khona nhi chahta or vo meri class mate he so me jab bhi dekhta hi use to feeling aati he uske bare me so plz can u help me…..

    1. don’t waste your life for her, uske chakkar me apna time barbad mat karna becoz vo aapko sirf aur sirf ta baat kregi jab vo tensed hogi ya use koi problem hogi baaki time vo apne bf se hi baat karegi, uske saath hi rahegi and usi ke saath sex karegi. So bahut saare dusre ladko ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladki ki liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena.

  68. Hiiiii,
    Me ek ladki ko chahta hu.mene use prupose bhi kiya but usne mana bol diya fir m uske sanne 3se 4 din nahi gaya fir samne se msg bhi aaya ki wo luv karti h
    Fir achanak kya hua ki agle di usne mana bol diya ki luv ni karti h
    Ab iska solutions plz

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

      1. Hi mai Harshit
        Mai ladki ko pasand karta hu aur bhi
        But baat age nahi bad rahi hai
        Wo sirf bato bato taal deti hi do please
        Batao mai kya kroo

  69. Me aek anjaani ladki ko bahut pasand karta hu…..2 month pahle Me subah jab bike leke nikalta tha tab wo kai baar chalte chalte mere samne dekhti thi. Or me bhi kai baar chupke se dekhta tha… Phir Mene aapki tarkib use ki usko me aese dekhne laga Jese usko maaloom ho gya ki me usko dekh raha hu…. Phir thode din aesa chala.. Phir mene himmat krke usko aek din roka and puchha aap konsi school me padhai krti ho… To usne school ka name bataya … Lekin mere saame Ñài dekha… Usne muhh firake baat ki… Phir wo chalne lagi….is din ke baadMaine us ladki ko 12 din baad or bola xcusme aek kaam tha… Usne bola… Ha bolo… To Maine pu6a aapka name kya he? To usne bola aapki name se kya matlab? To maine bola. Aek kaam tha.. Usne bola ha bolo. Kam kya he? To Mene bola aapki school se vehicle ata he ghar se pick & drop ke liye? To usne bola … Ñài ata.. Phir Mene pu6a.. Ab to name batado.. To usne bola name se kya kam he.? To Mene bola its OK Ñài btana to koi baat Ñài. & thanks… Or me chalne hi laga utne me wo boli… Apki society ke boys mujhe mere name se kyu chidate he? To Mene bola mujhe to maloom bhi Ñài ki Tujhe kon chidate he!.. And phir bhi I’m sorry. But Mene aapko kabhi chidaya? To usne bola… Ñài… To Mene bola to Usme Meri kya galti he? To usne bola Ñài me aese hi bata rahi hu. To Mene bola. Wese ladko ki baat hi mat suno. Apne aap bandh ho jayenge.. To usne bola me to dhyan hi Ñài deti uske samne.. Or aap sab ladke mujhe roj subah raste pe roj kyu dekhte rahte ho? To Mene bola agar Tujhe problem ho rahi ho to. Kalse me raste hi badal dunga. To usne bola Ñài aesi koi baat Ñài he. Meto just baat kr rahi hu…. Phir Mene bola its OK.. Phir me chalne laga.. To usne uska name samnese bataya… Phir me nikal gya…. Phir using din dopahar ko mili to samne dekhke Mene smile kiya to usne bhi smile diya…. Or uske agle din subah me vahase nikla to wo ladki nikli or me bhi nikla… Phir aek ladka aya mere pass or mujhe bola tu us ladki ko kyu pareshan kr raha he?? Kal name kyu pu6a …. USS baatko leke jagda ho gya…. Or us din baad mere samne kabhi wo ladki Ñài dekhti Kya kru me? Ku6 samaj me Ñài ata… please kuchh help kardo

  70. Hi i karan vishwakarma so me ek ldki se bahut pyar bhagwanse bhi jyada krta hu aur wo mjhe dekhti h me use dekhta hu wo mtlb wo sad kar rahi h jo ek ldki bf ke sath krti h bas ek hi problam h me use kese pyar ka ikraar karu

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

    1. Dear aisa jaruri nahi ki wo ladki aap se baat karti hai to wo aap me interested hogi or shayad isiliye wo aap se nahi milna chahti, wese dear iske ilawa bhi bahut se reasons ho sakte hai.

  71. Helo..
    Me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu but wo mujhe school life me mile thi wo mujhe responce de rahi thi daar ke Karan me usse baat kar nahi paa Raha tha abb wo nahi mil rahi he to me usse Abhi Koi baat nahi hh to me kese frndsip karu plz reply

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  72. Hii mujhe mere class ki ladki se pyarr ho gaya par use 10 ldake line matte he par WO mujhe se Jada bat karte he. Par me propose nhi kar pa RHA hu abb him alg school me alg.alg ho gaye he par vo mujhe dekti fir kuch der bad kisi or ko par bat koi she nhi karte made alava kabhi kabhi kar lathi he muhjhe kuch samjh me nhi a raga he par uska koi bf nhi he………….pls help me

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  73. mam ma ladkio ko pasand nhi karta but ak larki ko jub dakha to us ka chera mari nazro say door hota he nhi wo larki muj say age ma be bhari ha or ajnabi be ha ma usay univ jaty howay dakhta ho kya karo ky usay pata chal jay ky ma us say love karta ho or han g ma larkio say bat nhi kar sakta koi or way btan i am waiting for your reply thankx

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

      1. Lladki patane ke liye ham kya kare piiz help me shivshi hame bhtao ki ham kya kare mam ma ladkio ko pasand nhi karta but ak larki ko jub dakha to us ka chera mari nazro say door hota he nhi wo larki muj say age ma be bhari ha or ajnabi be ha ma usay univ jaty howay dakhta ho kya karo ky usay pata chal jay ky ma us say love karta ho or han g ma larkio say bat nhi kar sakta koi or way btan i am waiting for your reply thankx

  74. Please help me I used to make good impression on a girl by seeing her for many times …and I use to get a smile..or responses that she is interested but when their is time to take with I loose my confidence as I don’t use to talk with girls normally…but I have many frnds at fb..and I use to talk their….so please help me how to talk with girls face to face as I want to talk face to face…??

  75. Hi mam pehle me apko dil se thanks bolna chahta hu apki help k liye. Mam mera problem ye he ki jis ladki se me love karta hu wo 11 me study karti he aur me collage me use roj school k time pe dekhene jata hu aur wo b muje dekhti he. Uska num mere pass he to phone karle baat kaha se start karu plzzz mam help me

      1. Halo mam,m ek ladki ko like karta hu or mena usa dakha nhi h or us s fb par baat hoti h or ek din usa mena purpose kar diya ab samja nhi Aa rah ki uski h h us n..plzz aap bato ki m kya kru…

  76. Hello my dear dost i lo ue you dost main apne dost ki taraf se kuch baat puchna chahata hu

    mere dost ke ghar ke pados mein ek ladki jo mera dost karta hai bahi wo karti hai jab mera dost school nahi jata nahi to wo bhi nahi jati hai jaha par mesa dost hota hai bahi par wo aa jati hai aur ek dusare ko dekh kar haste hai aur wo chale jata hai tab wo bhi chali jati hai chahe kitne bhi log ho par wo nahi rukti hai ab mean baat yeh hai ki wo puchna chata hai ki ladki ko mujhse pyar ho gaya hai kya ya agar wo i love you kah de to wo kuch kahegi to nahi.

    Please give me answer

  77. Shivshi maam Aap bahut accha kaam kar rahi he… Aur humjaise youngsters ko aapke counceling se ek disha milti hai… Great job maam, thank you…

  78. Hi
    Dear
    Actualy i’m confused ek lardki mujhe bahut pasand h pr uska koi bf h pr ye baat mujhe bahut din ki baad pta chala ab toh aur jyada like krne lage hain pr ye baat usko pta nhi hai ki hm usko like krte hain pls yaar help me hmko kya krna chaiye or haan iska jawab aap mere jagha aakr sochna ….

  79. Me aek anjaani ladki ko bahut pasand karta hu…..2 month pahle Me subah jab bike leke nikalta tha tab wo kai baar chalte chalte mere samne dekhti thi. Or me bhi kai baar chupke se dekhta tha… Phir Mene aapki tarkib use ki usko me aese dekhne laga Jese usko maaloom ho gya ki me usko dekh raha hu…. Phir thode din aesa chala.. Phir mene himmat krke usko aek din roka and puchha aap konsi school me padhai krti ho… To usne school ka name bataya … Lekin mere saame Ñài dekha… Usne muhh firake baat ki… Phir wo chalne lagi….is din ke baadMaine us ladki ko 12 din baad or bola xcusme aek kaam tha… Usne bola… Ha bolo… To Maine pu6a aapka name kya he? To usne bola aapki name se kya matlab? To maine bola. Aek kaam tha.. Usne bola ha bolo. Kam kya he? To Mene bola aapki school se vehicle ata he ghar se pick & drop ke liye? To usne bola … Ñài ata.. Phir Mene pu6a.. Ab to name batado.. To usne bola name se kya kam he.? To Mene bola its OK Ñài btana to koi baat Ñài. & thanks… Or me chalne hi laga utne me wo boli… Apki society ke boys mujhe mere name se kyu chidate he? To Mene bola mujhe to maloom bhi Ñài ki Tujhe kon chidate he!.. And phir bhi I’m sorry. But Mene aapko kabhi chidaya? To usne bola… Ñài… To Mene bola to Usme Meri kya galti he? To usne bola Ñài me aese hi bata rahi hu. To Mene bola. Wese ladko ki baat hi mat suno. Apne aap bandh ho jayenge.. To usne bola me to dhyan hi Ñài deti uske samne.. Or aap sab ladke mujhe roj subah raste pe roj kyu dekhte rahte ho? To Mene bola agar Tujhe problem ho rahi ho to. Kalse me raste hi badal dunga. To usne bola Ñài aesi koi baat Ñài he. Meto just baat kr rahi hu…. Phir Mene bola its OK.. Phir me chalne laga.. To usne uska name samnese bataya… Phir me nikal gya…. Phir using din dopahar ko mili to samne dekhke Mene smile kiya to usne bhi smile diya…. Or uske agle din subah me vahase nikla to wo ladki nikli or me bhi nikla… Phir aek ladka aya mere pass or mujhe bola tu us ladki ko kyu pareshan kr raha he?? Kal name kyu pu6a …. USS baatko leke jagda ho gya…. Or us din baad mere samne kabhi wo ladki Ñài dekhti Kya kru me? Ku6 samaj me Ñài ata… Aesa kyu kr rahi he wo?

  80. Hi ji mera ghar ke samne hi ak ladki rahti hai mai ne use pasand nahi kiya uss n hi pasand kiya aur mujko 1sal se notic karti a rahi hai mai ye baat nahi janta tha par kisi ke jarye pata chal hum ko ladki khubshrat hai kai ladke peche lage hai par kisi se baat nahi karti hai …. mai ne use frindship ke leye kaha usne haa kar diya ha par

    1. Hi dear, to ye to achi baat hai na aapke liye. Lekin aap use tabhi han karna jab aap bhi use sach me pasand karte ho. Or ek baat yaad rakhna kabhi bhi kisi ki feelings ke sath mat khelna.

  81. Mere class mein ek ladki hai jo mujhe bhai kahekar pukaarti hai wo mujhse itna bolti hai jaise ki meri usse shadi ho gayi ho aur hasti bhi bahut hai ladka mujhe kaheta hai ki ye ladki tujhse pyar karti hai maam chahe na maan main us ladki ko gf bana chahata hu jo ki main jhoota badnam na ho saku

    please help me

    1. Agar wo aapko bhai keh kar bulati hai to fir aap uske bare me kaise soch sakte ho dear, or rahi baat jyada bolne ki kuch logo ko aadat hoti hai jyada bolne ki.

  82. Ladki kis pirkaar ke ladko ko jyda parand karti hai aur wo kya cheey jyada pasand karti hai main apni gf ko khush karna chahata hu please help me madam

  83. Plz mam app meri help karro. Mujhai ek larki both pasand hai. me us say 3 years say payar karta ho mager bataney me darto ho. I really love her … So plz mam app mujhai bataye Ki ma ussay kasay bataho k me us k baghar nahi jee sakta … Plz plz help me

    1. Dear ja kar usse baat karo or Agar aap abhi bhi usse baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate ho to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

    1. Thankx dear lekin hum mil nahi sakte aapko yahi par apni story btani hogi and me aapki help bhi jarur karungi.

  84. mam main bhi ek lAdki ko chaahta hu wo bhi eye contact mere sath rakhti hain facebook pr bhi chat krte hain 27 th january ko merA birthday hain usko maine bulaya hAin usne ha ki hain iske liye kya lekar jau ki wo impress ho jye plz teLL ME MAM

    1. First meeting me to choclate bhi chalegi or sath me aapka birthday hai to use kisi ache reastaurant me le jao. or ek acha time spend karo uske sath.

  85. Medam, me aek ladki ko bahut pasand karta hu… Wo bilkul anjaani he… Uska name tak Ñài pata mujhe… Mene kai baar dekha ki wo mujhe dekhti thi. Jab me bike leke raste se Gujarat tha tab….. 5-6 din aesa chala. Phir me bhi aek jagah khade rehkar usko dekhta tha… Wo bhi mere samne dekhti thi…. Mene aek baar himmat krke usko roka or uska name pu6a … To usne bola ki apko name se kya MATLAB he?… Mene bola aek kaam he…. To usne bola kya kaam he? To Mene bahana banake uski school ke baare me pu6ne laga.. To usne bataya Usme school ke bare me. Phir Mene phir se pu6a apka name to batao aab!… To usne phirse kaha aapko name se kya MATLAB he? To Mene bola its OK.. Ñài bahana to joi baar Ñài…. Phir me chalne hi laga utne me usne mujhe bola.. Ki apki gaali ke San ladke mujhe kyu name se chidate he? To Mene bola.. I’m sorry Bt mujhe to us bat ka maloom tak Ñài… Or Mene bola. Mene aapko kabhi chidaaya? To usne bola …nai… To Mene bola wese ladko ke muh Ñài lagna chaiye… Wo apne aap hi bandh ho jayenge… To usne bola OK…. Phir usne bola.. Ap San roj subah mujhe kyu aese dekhte ho… To Mene bola agar aapko problem ho to kalse me rasta change kr deta hu…. To usne bola Ñài apse joi problem Ñài …. To Mene bola its OK… Or me chalne laga utne me usne mujhe samnese name bataya… Phir ham Dino apne apne Raste nikal gaye….. Phir usi din mujhe dusri baar wo samne Milo to Mene samne dekhke smile liya to usne bhi smile liya…. Phir dusre din aek ladka he Jo wo bhi Uske pi6e pada he … Us ladke ne mere sath jagda liya.. Ki tune us ladki ka name kyu pu6a… Bas is jagde ke baad wo ladki mere samne dekhti bhi Ñài he.!!! Me kya kru

  86. hello shivshi,

    ye btao ki jb ldka kisi ldki ko prapose krta h to wo ghr pe ye sb bte bta deti h kya
    nd ldke k ghr pe ye sb bt pta chalne k kitne percent chance rehte h

  87. hello mem mera naam iliyas hai or main airtel office main job karta hu abhi hi jaldi ek ladki ki joining hui hai jiska naam shalu hai main usse like karta hu but mene dusre ladko se sunna hai ki uss ka boyfrend hai i mean mere frend ne hi dekha hai esa kh rhe the to main usse propose karna cahata hu main bus ye puchna cahata hu ki agr khuda na khassta us ka boyfrend hua to kya o mughe accpt ni karegi plz help bohot jyada dil se lag gai hai plz mem reply karna plz

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  88. hi ma’am

    me ek ladki ko bahot like krta hu, wo ladki ek baar mere ghar aa chuki he,,,,but us time me ghar par nhi tha,,,,hamari usse pehle 2-3 bar sirf eye contact hue he, kbi baat nhi ki,,but wo jab bi muje dekhti he to ek alag tarah ki chamak hoti he uski aankho me,, ,use kbi bat nhi ki,,, but meri mummy ne us ladki se milne ke bad mujse pu6a tha ki wo ldki tumhe kesi lgti he, to mne kha tha a6i lgti he, but problm ye hui ki mummy ne meri baat us ladki se chala di, maraaige ke liye,, ab mummy ne muje baad me bola,,,,ab muje us ladki se maafi mangi chahiye ki nahi ki tumhare sath meri baat mummy ne ki he but muje baad me bola gya….kyo ki wo ladki ko to lagta hoga ki mene bola he….kya muje use mil kar sorry bolna chahiye ki me iss ke bare me ku5 nahi janta,,,,but ha me use like or special manta hu,,but ye ku6 jaldi hi ho gya to muje kya krna chahiye……….pls help me

    1. ear gar aapko laaaaaaaki aapko sorry bolna chahiye to jarur boliye or shayad isi se aapki usse baat chit shuru hi ho jaye.

  89. Hi aap onlline ho to aap ko kuch puch na tha muje,soryy pahili par yesi kisi sait pe puch raha hu me kisi se kuch to kese puchu vo soch raha hu …

  90. Yar meri bhabi ki sister he me vuse bohot like karta hu mene propose bhi kiya or vusne na bola ab me vusse bat nahi kar raha hu par vo meri bhabi ko puch ti he kya kar raha he vo to iska kya meaning huva kya vo like karti he muje ki me mar gaya ya zinda hu ye janne ke liye bhabi ko puch ti he, kya aap is meter me meri help karo gi

    1. Jarur help karenge dear
      and ji han wo aapko like to karti hai lekin shayad uska pahle se hi ki boy friend na ho jis karan wo aapko mna kar rahi hai . Isliye pahle sab kuch pta lgao fir propose karo dubara.

  91. Mai ek ladki se pyar karta hu aur wo bhi mujhse karti hai maine usse baat bhi kari thi lekin ab 2-3 din se wo bilkul nahi boli hai pata nahi naraaj hai kya kya use koi sak hai

    please help me
    main kya karu

  92. hello shivshi,

    meri ek frnd h nd hum dono classmate h use me bhut like krta hu nd hum dono best frnd h

    mene ek din use prapose kiya tha to usne uska koi answer nhi diya
    mujhe lga ki usne mujhse ye expect ni kiya tha
    nd ab mujhse kehti h ki jb se tumne prapose kiya h me apni pdai pr focus ni kr pa rhi hu
    jbse uska behaviour bi mere liye change ho gaya h
    mujhse kehti h ki me relationship nhi rkhna chahti nd tumhe bi khona nhi chahti bs tumhari frnd rehna chahti hu
    but me na use khona chahta hu nd na bs frnd rehna chahta hu
    mujhe usko gf bnana h
    nd use bhut baar smjha chuka hu
    bhut saari pyar bhari bte kr chuka hu
    but wo man ne ko ready ni h
    bs frnd rehna chahti h
    ab kya kru smjh ni aata
    help me plzz

  93. Shivshiji me aek anjaani ladki ko bahut pasand karta hu…. Me pahle uske samne dekhta tha.. Wo bhi dekhti thi….. Ae 17 din tak chalta raha phir………… Maine us ladki ko 12 din pahle roka or bola xcusme aek kaam tha… Usne bola… Ha bolo… To Maine pu6a aapka name kya he? To usne bola aapki name se kya matlab? To maine bola. Aek kaam tha.. Usne bola ha bolo. Kam kya he? To Mene bola aapki school se vehicle ata he ghar se pick & drop ke liye? To usne bola … Ñài ata.. Phir Mene pu6a.. Ab to name batado.. To usne bola name se kya kam he.? To Mene bola its OK Ñài btana to koi baat Ñài. & thanks… Or me chalne hi laga utne me wo boli… Apki society ke boys mujhe mere name se kyu chidate he? To Mene bola mujhe to maloom bhi Ñài ki Tujhe kon chidate he!.. And phir bhi I’m sorry. But Mene aapko kabhi chidaya? To usne bola… Ñài… To Mene bola to Usme Meri kya galti he? To usne bola Ñài me aese hi bata rahi hu. To Mene bola. Wese ladko ki baat hi mat suno. Apne aap bandh ho jayenge.. To usne bola me to dhyan hi Ñài deti uske samne.. Or aap sab ladke mujhe roj subah raste pe roj kyu dekhte rahte ho? To Mene bola agar Tujhe problem ho rahi ho to. Kalse me raste hi badal dunga. To usne bola Ñài aesi koi baat Ñài he. Meto just baat kr rahi hu…. Phir Mene bola its OK. Phir me chalne laga.. To usne uska name samnese bataya… Phir me nikal gya…. Phir using din dopahar ko mili to samne dekhke Mene smile kiya to usne bhi smile diya…. Or uske agle din subah me vahase nikla to wo ladki nikli or me bhi nikla… Phir aek ladka aya mere pass or mujhe bola tu us ladki ko kyu pareshan kr raha he?? Kal name kyu pu6a …. USS baatko leke jagda ho gya…. Or phir kabhi USS ladki ne mere samne Ñài dekha!! Kya kru me? Ku6 samaj me Ñài ata

  94. Hii shivshi maine ek baat puchni h ek ldki h jisse mai like karta hu mai us se thori bhut baat v kr leta hu kabhi kabhi ishare wgera v kr deta hu agar m use fship waare me puchu to kya woh mere se fship krlegi ja nhi but mujhe to 100% lgta hai ki mai use pasand v a jaunga baaki aap btao ki mai use kya khu apko kya lagta h mujhe thora samjaye

  95. Plz Mam help me vo mujmei interested b h plz bta n.. Bs problem itni h k vo sirf mujeh 1 ghnte hi milti h Jo krna h us 1 ghnte mei krna h aap socho gey ki esa kyun h ,, vo isliye kyun mei boys aur vo girls college mei h ..plz help me plzzzz..

  96. Hi mera naam Rishabh h aur mei 12th class mei hun. Mei coaching mei ek ldki se dosti bdhaana chahta hu vo b 12th mei hi h lekin vo apne group k saath apni frenzz k saath hi rhti h.. Toh ab usse dosti bdhaana possible h koi chance h… Plz bta ab kya kyun usse dosti kaise bdhaaun..

    1. Apni personality achi bana kar confidence ke saath uski taraf dekho, use notice karwao ki aap use dekh rhe hp… 2-3 baar eye contact hua to jaa kar Bindas andaaz me Hi bolo, darna bilkul mat aur na hi nervous hona. Usse koi choti si baat karna smile ke saath and thanks bol kar baat khatam karna, next day fir koi baat karna halki fulki and last me uski halki si tareef kar dena, next day no. mangna jarur degi (agr dene waali hogi to) 🙂

  97. Hlw Mam.
    Mai Dhkne Mai Be thk thaak Hu or Prsnelety Be thk hai pr
    … Pr Ak Ldki Ni ptt ri colz ki kya hogaa Ab… Ak Ptii Be the us k saat Breakup ho gyaa wo mry type.. ki ni hai aaj kal ak Ldki Ko notic kar ra hu tou Mai kya kru… plz Help.. me plz plz plz

  98. Hi..
    Meri ek frnd hai use mai bahot like karta hu hamari roj phone par baate hoti hai maine usko prapose kiya puchha bhi ki aap mujse pyar karti ho to usne ha bola par vo bolti hai ki mai pyar to karti hu magar hum frnd hi achhe hai to mai aage badh ne ke liye kya karu..??

  99. Hi mam .. Main ek ladki ko like karta hu. Mam mene usse friendship kar le hai or hum dono kabhi kabhi bat bhi karte hai. Uske picche ek ladka pada tha or vo usse pasand nahi karte thi or vo usse paresan thi or se sab ussne mujhe bataya mene uske help ke for hum dono bat karte lage vo meri classmate hai or ek din ussne mujhe akele me bulaya or kaha ki “main tumse friendship karna chahte hu” or hum dono be todi bahut batte ki fir ek din mene usko Milne bullaya to vo aaye or mujhe gift diya or kaha apne friends se mat battana fir 2din baad mene bhi usse gift diya ab aap bataiye ki me usse kab or kesse propose karu plz ab ye mat kahiye ki sahitime aane par plz accha ye bataiye ki fir bhi kitne do ke andar or kesse karu….

      1. main apli baju vaali bhabhi ko bahot pasand karta hu.uska huaband use marta hai.main use apne dil ki baat batana chahata hu.kyaa karu main plzzz help ma.

  100. Hii my dear.
    Im shrikant chauhan i know ki love nd life wt m chahta hu ki pyar byar ladki bagera y sab mere dimag m n ay dur jana chahta hu en sab se mene lakb kosis kr li pr nahi hota h socha ki achhi taah padai p dhayan du wt nahi ho ta h ab ap batao kya krna chahiy..pls weit

  101. Mai ek ldki ko bhut chata tha mai usko leter and phn no diya ye bhut din se chal raha tha ek din o phn bhi ki bt uske baad o na meko phn ki na hi kuch boli mai usse kai bar dekha milne ki koisis krna chata tha bt chance hi ni mil pta tha aaj mere samne o aa jayegi to mar dunga sali jaan se

  102. Mai 15 years ka hu or meri ek classmate hai uska name ritu hai mai usko bahut jaada like or love krta hu m usse parpose krna chata hu per meri health achi nhi hai m bahut patla hu pr mai usko parpose krna chata hu . Mai kya kru? Plz help

    Thank you for read.

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

    1. Dekho dear is topic par alag alag logon ke alag vichar ho sakte hai, but mujhe aisa lagta hai aapko marriage se pahle sex nhi karna chahiye because aaj kal har taraf yhi dekhne, sunne aur padhne ko milta hai ki pyar me ladki se sambandh banaye aur baad me kuch panga pad gaya, ladke ka to kuch nhi jata par ladki ka kuch bachta nhi, so agar meri salah maano to aapko aisa nhi karna chahiye. Ek baat aur aaj kal ulti seedhi websites par ladkiyon ki videos bana kar dal di jaati hai sirf kuch paiso ke liye, ladki ko pata bhi nhi hota aur sari duniya use us halat me dekh rhi hoti hai jo byaan nhi kiya ja sakta aur fir uska anjaam kya hota hai vo tum janti hi ho…

  103. Mera hwight or nhi baregi to kosis karna bekar hai. Pyar ka ispe depend karta hai. Mai bhut lonly feel kar rha hu. So mai kya kru mko kuch samajhme nhi araha hai. @shivshi.plss tell me.

    1. dear aaj kal kuch aise products bhi ate hai jinhe aap apne shoes me daal kar apni height 2 se 3inch tk badha sakte ho

  104. Ek girl jo mere cusionki classmate hai usse fb pe mila
    Phir whats app
    Mai use like krne lga
    Aur wo v krti hai
    Pr use ye lgta hai ki mai ye sb timepass ke liye kr rha hu.
    Kya kru?

      1. Mujhe ek ldki bhut pasnad he me use pyar ka rta hu mujhe lgta he vo mujhe se pyar karti he but uski bahan mujhse pyar karti he usne usko bta diya usne mujh ko I hate bola .
        Me kya kar

          1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

        1. Dear kuch ladkiyan hoti hai hjo ki pahle se hi relation me hoti hai lekin fir bhi wo timepass ke liye dusro ladko se baat karti hai or baad me jab unka bf fir se unse baat chit karne lagta hai to wo fir wo sabse baat karna band kardei hai. lekin kuch aisi hoti hai jo ki exams ya kuch kaam ke karan baat chit band kardeti hai siliye itni jaldi tension nahi leni chahiye.

  105. mera nam rishabh hai maine ek larki ko larayi me gali di aur usko aur larko ke sath sabke samne badnam kiya aur ab use patanaa chahataa hu use bhi pta hai ki me use patanaa chahataa hu

    1. Don’t waste your time dear. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  106. Mai ek ladki se dosti karna chata hu jise mine kabhe baat nhe ke bas sirf eye contact huwa h wo bhe kabhe kabhe. Maine usse baat karne ke koshis ke whatsapp pe lekin ussne mujhe block kr de to aap bataiye mai kya karu usse friendship karne ke liye

  107. Yah dear Shivshi all the facts and their solutions are very interesting .I have followed these rule and then finaly my girlfriend told that you were not so sensitive abot the love but now you are taking so many intrest in these matter . Are someone who regret you to do like this job ?
    My ans was that there is a girl who is very intelligent and they exposed me do like that job .
    Dear ShivShi i m thankful to u , actually i hv already a girlfriend but she was not so happy with me coz i was a hesitate person , but now a days i m full of Confidence . Thanx Shivshi

  108. Didi mai apni class mate ko bhut like krta hu pr bolne jata hu to ..mera pura body langveg badal jata hi khud pe controll ni rah pata….kya usko roj subh good morning wiss kru to chlega

    1. Apni personality achi bana kar confidence ke saath uski taraf dekho, use notice karwao ki aap use dekh rhe hp… 2-3 baar eye contact hua to jaa kar Bindas andaaz me Hi bolo, darna bilkul mat aur na hi nervous hona. Usse koi choti si baat karna smile ke saath and thanks bol kar baat khatam karna, next day fir koi baat karna halki fulki and last me uski halki si tareef kar dena, next day no. mangna jarur degi (agr dene waali hogi to) 🙂

  109. main abhi tak char ladkiyo ko pata chuka hu par ek ladki hai jo bahut simple hai aur khoobsurat bhi mai use bata nhi pata ki mai use pyaar karta hu.aiseme mujhe kya karna chaiye plz reply

    1. Jo aap nahi kar pa rahe wohi baat aapko sabse pahle ja kar karni hogi tabhi ja kar baat kuch ageh badh sakti hai nahi to us ladki ko kabhi bhi nahi pata halega ki aap use pyaar karte ho

  110. Yar mre gf ko mre purane relationship ke bare m pta pd gaya h or vo ab bt nhi kr rahe h na hi ab mre sath gumte h na hi sex ke liye ate h pahle m jab bulata tha jab a jate the

    1. Shak ka koi ilaaj nhi hai, bas ek aur sirf hi cheez ki ja sakti hai ki Baat karke apni shanka dur karo.

  111. Hi shivshi my name is Ahmad and em from pakistan yar tmse ye pochna hey k mere recently koe girl friend nahi hey tmhari tips bht awesome hain me fan ho gaya tmhari tips ka but plz mjhe btao g.f kese bnao me akela bht boor ho gaya hu i need g.f

      1. Thnk u shivshi…..jo apne anjaan ldki se dosti krne ke tips diye h….mai puri koshish krunga…jesa apne kaha h vese krunga…..aur ek din kamyab zrur honga……thnk u so much

  112. mai eyk poojha nam ke ladki ko bahut chata hu bt wo aj tak muzhe pati nahi only hum frend hai. aur mai unse bahut ishak karta hu. to ap meri khuch help kat sakti ho…..

  113. hiii Shivshi… Howz u… i have a problem with my lover. Ek ladki h jisko me bahut chahta tha and wo b mujhe bahut chahti thi. bt ye sb 5 saal pehle ki bat h. fir me college study ke liye bahar chala gya. Problem ue hai ki im 5 sal me jab me bahar raha to uska koi call nhi aya ab problem jo b ho. bt ab jb kabhi be usse raste me takrata hu to mujhe wo 5 sal purana pyar uski ankho, uski smile me nazar ata h. or wo mere ek friend se mere bare me puchti b rehti h. ab plz bataiye me kya karu. plz help me.

  114. Hlo. M jis ladki se love krta hu.. vo meri frnd ban chuki h pr vo online bhut kam hoti h.. m use kese khu ki vo mujse bhut sari bate kiya kre

    1. Are itna sochte nhi hai, bas uske saamne ja kar bolo… `Hi…` vo bolegi `Hi…` bas fir puch lo, aapka no. milega? vo bolegi kyu? Aap bola, bas yun hi aapse baat karni hai. Vo mana kar degi fir kuch din use aate jaate dekhte rho… nain mataka karte rho aur kuch dino bad fir se ja kar bolo, yaar mujhe aap bahut pasand ho… Bas aise hi baat shuru ho jaati hai.. 🙂

  115. Shivshi. Me aek anjaani ladki ko bahut pasand krta hu.. Jab me subah walking karke ghar lotataa hu tab us time wo school ke liye nikalti he.. Uske sath uski aek friend bhi hoti he. Jab Mene aapki ye trick try kiya ki anjaani ladki ke saamne dekhke usko aesa pata lagana chaiye ki me usko dekh raha hu.. Or aese 2 din dekha to usko maloom pad gya ki me usko dekh raha hu… Wo bhi mere samne koi koi baar dekhti thi… PR 5-6 din baad usne. Apna rasta hi badal diya… His raste me khada raheta tha.. Wo rasta hi badal diya… Me kya karu? Kuchh samaj me nai aa raha…..

    1. Agar jaisa aap bol rahe ho ki usne bhi aapko dekhna shuru kar diya tha to iska matlab tha ki wo aap se baat karne ke liye tyaar hai lekin aap ne derr kardi or isiliye hi shayad ladki ne rasta badal diya hoga, bas ab aapko derr nahi karni chaiye usse baat karne me

      1. Vo mere pass se gujri Vo uski aek friend ke saath nikali thi to Mene usse baat kiya.. Mene bola hello. 2 minutes aek kaam he. Vo chalte chalte rook gai.. Usne bola ha bol. Lekin baat krte vakt uska face or eyes mere samne nai the…. Aese baat kiya… Mene usko bola. Tum konsi school me ho? To usne bola xyz..name bataya… Lekin usne najre nai milayi to mera mood off ho gya.. Me kya kru?.. Plz. Bane utana jaldi reply dena.. My WhatsApp no is 9033220784

      2. Wo mere samne se gujri to Maine usko roka or bola ki excuse me plz 2 minutes baat krni he… Wo ruki or baat krne lagi… Mene sirf uske school ka name pu6a … Usne javab bhi diya..lekin samne dekhe bina hi baat ki.. Uska chahera mere samne nai tha… Mere samne dekhe bina hi baat kiya… To mera confidence khatam ho gya… To Mene sirf school name hi pu6a … Usne ere samne dekhe bina kyu answer diya.. Plzz help me. Plzzz plz Ab me kya kru ku6 samj me nai aa raha… Plz mujhe WhatsApp me contact karo shivshi plzz.. I request

          1. Mene USS ladki ko aek 6 din pahle roka.. Or usko uska name pu6a .. To usne mujhe bola aapko name jaanke kya krna.. He? To Mene bahana banake boo diya ki aapse aek kaam he…..
            To usne bola kya kaam he? To mene bola aapki school ke related baat krni thi….. To usne bola its OK… Mene fir usko uski school ke baare me pu6a to usne sab bataya… Fir Mene wapis name pu6a to usne firse bola.. Name jaanke kya kaam he? To Mene bola. Nai batani to its OK… I m sorry… Itni baat ladke me chalne laga to usne mujhe wapis roka or bola ki aapke area ke boys mujhe name se kyu chidate he? To Mene bola mujhe is baat ka pata tak nai.. Firbhi me in logoki or se sorry bolta hu…. To usne bola its OK…. Or fir usne bola aap sab boys mere samne kyu dekhte rahte ho? To Mene bola sorry agar Tujhe achha Ñài lagta to kal se me rasta badal deta hu…. To usne bola.. Mujhe tujse koi problem Nai… Or Mene bola OK .. Or me chalne lagta to usne samne se name bataya… Fir me vahase chala gaya…

            Ussi din me dopahar ko uske samne se nikla or uske samne dekhke smile liya to usne bhi smile diya……

            Uske pi6le din subah wo nikli… Mene uske samne dekha to usne mere samne tak Ñài dekha… Or uske pi6e or aek boy pda he.. To us ladke ke sath mera jagda ho gya…. Tabse wo ladki mere samne dekh nai rahi.. Plzz me kya kru ku6 samaj nai ata.. Help me

          2. Dear jab aap ne usse ek baar pahle hi baat kar rakhi to duvbara karne me kya problem hai or aap use facebook par dhundho or usse ache se baat karne ki koshish karo lekin fb par us epropose mat karna.

          3. Shivshiji Maine us ladki ko 12 din pahle roka or bola xcusme aek kaam tha… Usne bola… Ha bolo… To Maine pu6a aapka name kya he? To usne bola aapki name se kya matlab? To maine bola. Aek kaam tha.. Usne bola ha bolo. Kam kya he? To Mene bola aapki school se vehicle ata he ghar se pick & drop ke liye? To usne bola … Ñài ata.. Phir Mene pu6a.. Ab to name batado.. To usne bola name se kya kam he.? To Mene bola its OK Ñài btana to koi baat Ñài. & thanks… Or me chalne hi laga utne me wo boli… Apki society ke boys mujhe mere name se kyu chidate he? To Mene bola mujhe to maloom bhi Ñài ki Tujhe kon chidate he!.. And phir bhi I’m sorry. But Mene aapko kabhi chidaya? To usne bola… Ñài… To Mene bola to Usme Meri kya galti he? To usne bola Ñài me aese hi bata rahi hu. To Mene bola. Wese ladko ki baat hi mat suno. Apne aap bandh ho jayenge.. To usne bola me to dhyan hi Ñài deti uske samne.. Or aap sab ladke mujhe roj subah raste pe roj kyu dekhte rahte ho? To Mene bola agar Tujhe problem ho rahi ho to. Kalse me raste hi badal dunga. To usne bola Ñài aesi koi baat Ñài he. Meto just baat kr rahi hu…. Phir Mene bola its OK. Phir me chalne laga.. To usne uska name samnese bataya… Phir me nikal gya…. Phir using din dopahar ko mili to samne dekhke Mene smile kiya to usne bhi smile diya…. Or uske agle din subah me vahase nikla to wo ladki nikli or me bhi nikla… Phir aek ladka aya mere pass or mujhe bola tu us ladki ko kyu pareshan kr raha he?? Kal name kyu pu6a …. USS baatko leke jagda ho gya…. Or phir kabhi USS ladki ne mere samne Ñài dekha!! Kya kru me? Ku6 samaj me Ñài ata. Plz help me

          4. Maine us ladki ko 12 din baad or bola xcusme aek kaam tha… Usne bola… Ha bolo… To Maine pu6a aapka name kya he? To usne bola aapki name se kya matlab? To maine bola. Aek kaam tha.. Usne bola ha bolo. Kam kya he? To Mene bola aapki school se vehicle ata he ghar se pick & drop ke liye? To usne bola … Ñài ata.. Phir Mene pu6a.. Ab to name batado.. To usne bola name se kya kam he.? To Mene bola its OK Ñài btana to koi baat Ñài. & thanks… Or me chalne hi laga utne me wo boli… Apki society ke boys mujhe mere name se kyu chidate he? To Mene bola mujhe to maloom bhi Ñài ki Tujhe kon chidate he!.. And phir bhi I’m sorry. But Mene aapko kabhi chidaya? To usne bola… Ñài… To Mene bola to Usme Meri kya galti he? To usne bola Ñài me aese hi bata rahi hu. To Mene bola. Wese ladko ki baat hi mat suno. Apne aap bandh ho jayenge.. To usne bola me to dhyan hi Ñài deti uske samne.. Or aap sab ladke mujhe roj subah raste pe roj kyu dekhte rahte ho? To Mene bola agar Tujhe problem ho rahi ho to. Kalse me raste hi badal dunga. To usne bola Ñài aesi koi baat Ñài he. Meto just baat kr rahi hu…. Phir Mene bola its OK.. Phir me chalne laga.. To usne uska name samnese bataya… Phir me nikal gya…. Phir using din dopahar ko mili to samne dekhke Mene smile kiya to usne bhi smile diya…. Or uske agle din subah me vahase nikla to wo ladki nikli or me bhi nikla… Phir aek ladka aya mere pass or mujhe bola tu us ladki ko kyu pareshan kr raha he?? Kal name kyu pu6a …. USS baatko leke jagda ho gya…. Or us din baad mere samne kabhi wo ladki Ñài dekhti Kya kru me? Ku6 samaj me Ñài ata

          5. Kya pata dear wo pahle se hi relation me ho or uske bf ne aap dono ko baat karte hue dekh liye ahoga or fir usne apni gf se puchas hoga isliye meri mano to us ladki se dur raho kyunki jab uska pahle se hi koi bf hai to time easte karke kya fayeda or agar us ladki ko aap me interest hoga to wo khud ayegi.

          6. Medam Please Comments me problems ho rahi he… comment me dalta hu pr upload nai hoti… jab commentbox me dalta hu tab us vakt batati he.. pr jab me dusri baar ye site open krta hu mene upload ki hui new comment nai aati….

        1. Pahle so mere saamne dekhti thi….. PR USS din USS ladke se panga ho gya usske baad so saamne nai dekhti….. Kabhi kabhi hi dekhti he…..!! Pta nai uske man me kya chal raha hoga

          1. Dearabhi to wo dekh bhi rahi hai agaraap ne jald hi usse ja kar baat nahi kari to wo aapko dekhna bhi chord degi.

  116. mam ma ek larki se pyar karta hu ye ek saal se chal raha hai pehly wo muje dekti be nahi thi lkin abb wo thor sa muj me interset leti hai magr ma abb kia kro ma uss dekta hu to wo wha se cali jate hai aur wo apne ghar walo se be darti hai abb kia kiya jaey plz tell

  117. Hi…… Give me ur contact no……..
    Mujhe mere pehle pyar se milwa do mam mai aapko apple I phone as a best friend gift kr dunga as u like……. My contact no. Nine six three nine double five seven four nine seven……

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    1. Friend request ke sath use ek message bhi bhejo or btao ki aap kon ho kya pata usne aapki friend request dekhi na ho kyunki ladkiyon ko bahut si friend request ati hai ek din me.

  118. helo
    mara ladki ka saat eye contact be acha ta or postive response be achs ta par mana ladki ko offline 1 ya 2 baar baat ki hogie usna acha response diya ta finaly jab mana facebook par request send ki to unnohna raject kar diya please help me.

  119. hii shivshi me ek ladki se bhut pyaar karta hu magar me uske name ke ilava khuch nhi janta usme bhut atitude bhi h main kya kru hum same class me padhte h

  120. hello ! Shivshi ji
    ek ladki hai jo mujhe pehli baar mandir mei mili thi or dekhne lagi or mai v dekhne lgaa uske baad je sab chlta rha or mai uske piche school ke bahar jaane lgaa or jab school khatam hota hai toh voh bahar aa jati hai or dekhne lgti hai or mai dekhne lgta hu par kuch bol nhi skta kal marriage thi mere papa ke friend ki jaha par voh ayyi thi or usne meri sister se mere baare mei pucha ki yeh apka brother hai toh meri sister ne khaa yes or voh kehne lgi mere piche school , mandir mei aata hai par baat nhi krta or ajj marriage par bola nhi mujhse.. ab voh mujhse guse hai ki maine ukso bulayeya nhinab voh mujhse baat nhi krna chahti ab usse mnau kaise btao G…uss ladki ka name MEHAK hai

    1. dekho wo gussa isliye kyunki aap ne usse baat nahi ki or jitni derr aap abhi bhi usse baat karne me lgaoge utne hi aapke chances kum hote jayenge usko paane ke. so derr mat kijiye jitna jaldi ho sake ja kar use baat kijiye.

  121. Hi shivshi. Mera naam Asif khan hai. Main west bangal ka ragne wala hoon.mujhe ik ladki pasand aagayi hai mujhe usse pyaar hogaya hai lekin wo mumbai me rahti hai. Mere pas uska number hai or jab bhi main usko call karta hoon to uski aawaz sun kar rakh deta hoon samajh me nahi aata k ysse kya baat karo or kya bolu..plz help me

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  122. mdm hum phle dost the bs misunderstanding hui mne usse apne feeling k bare m btya or woh shyd se bura mn gyi or kh rhi thi ki mjhe y nhi psnd or ab hmara utna acha contact nii h .what can i do?

    1. Aapko apni friendship ko time dena chaiye ha na ki jaldi karni chaiye th use apna bnane ke liye har ladki ko time chaiye hota hai kisi relation me ane ke liye

  123. Hi mam..
    Ek laki this class me me use psand krta tha fir usne response dena strt kiya or mene much nahi kiya or fir next year mili mujhe fir usne Hi plat kar mujhe smile Di per mene bhut kosis ki use prapose krne ki or ek din kar diya per usne kha usepta he me kya bat krna chahta hu or usne bat nahi ki fir mene 6mahine bqd use fbperr frndship ki or bhut dino se bat nahi ki ab me usse frnd ship krna chahta kuch btao kya krna chiye sirf fb per he

  124. Mam me ek Ladki se college ma bhot jyada pyar krta Hu halaki ma phla ussa bat karna ma shrmata tha lekin bad ma usna hi mera sa bat karna start kiya phir ma bhi ussa bat krna lega phir dera dera muja ussa pyar Ho gya vo khi bhi milti thi muja smile kar ka bat karti thi or ma bhi lekin ma ussa propose marna chta tha lekin ma Ya sohta tha ki khi USA Ya sun kar bura na laga or hamri fr khi tut na jaya ap btao ma kya kru us baat ko ek saal Ho gaya or agar ma dubara use milu to kya khu

    1. Jab tak aap use apne dil ki baat nahi bologe tab tak use aapki feelings ke bare me nahi pata chalega or jaise ki aap bata rahe ho ki 1 saal ho gaya hai is hisab se aap ne bahut derr kar di lekin ab jab bhi wo mile tabhi use apne dil ki baat bol de ab derr na kare .

  125. Mam
    Mie sunil sharma
    Mie ek ladki ko pasand karta hu
    Jo ki mere ghar se kuch duri par raheti hai or mie roj use raste me college jate hue dekhata hu jab mie collge se aata hu tab vo college jati hai use mie dekhta hu or dekh ke halka sa smail bhi karta hu vo bhi kabhi kabhi dekhti hai
    Par mujhme dering hi nhi aa rhi himmat hi nhi aa rhi ki mie usase baat kya karu
    to batao ki mie kya karu
    plis batana

    1. Look dear Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  126. Mere college Mai ek ladki study krti hai aur go new ayi hai mai usee but psand krta hu Mai jab bhi uske sath eye contact bnata hu vo bhi bnati hai air mere pass se gujrati hair too smile krke jldi se baghh jati hai to an kyaa kru useee kya khuu

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  127. Hi mera naam ashish hai mai ek ladki ko approach karne wala hu monday ko jaisa aapne bola waisa hi chal rha hai wo bhi mujhe dekh kar smile karti hai. Maine socha ki usko bolu, hi apse baat karna hai chahta hu. agar usne pucha q to mai bolunga ki aapse friendship karna hai. agar wo puchi q frndship karna to mai kya bolunga?help me .kya mai boldu that i like u

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  128. Shivshi ji mai apna dar kaise dur karu mai ladki ke pass jata hun ek to dr dusra ulte pulte swaal
    Or koi koi ladki mujhe dekh ke smile karti hai to ussse kaise baat kare

    1. Are itna sochte nhi hai, bas uske saamne ja kar bolo… `Hi…` vo bolegi `Hi…` bas fir puch lo, aapka no. milega? vo bolegi kyu? Aap bola, bas yun hi aapse baat karni hai. Vo mana kar degi fir kuch din use aate jaate dekhte rho… nain mataka karte rho aur kuch dino bad fir se ja kar bolo, yaar mujhe aap bahut pasand ho… Bas aise hi baat shuru ho jaati hai.. 🙂

  129. Hlw sinior mai mujhe pata nahi hai ki pya kese hota hair phir bhi mai janana chahata hu ki merit ek dost hai mai use bat krne me sarmata hu aur WO nahi sarmati hai WO bejijak mujhse bate krti hai & ek bat mere me kami hi mai jyada hi hasta hu jab bi mai use dekhta hu to vo hasti hai aur sat me mai bhi hast data hu phir barge bhi krti hai mai uske famly ke sat bhi bate kr 2 yearback hamlog ek hi sat rehete the everyday badminton kelte the WO jyada mere sat hi khelti thi aur kisi me sat nahi mai nahi janta ki pyar hota hai kese mai aap se ek hi chig banana chats hu ki WO mujhe chati hai ya nahi

  130. Hiii, Mai ek ladki se bhut pyar krta hu 1 month se use school ke time follow krta tha or eye contact v hota tha hamara wo meri trf dekh krbek smile v kiya krti thi pr jb maine ussw baat mi to usne kaha mujhe koi interest ni ye sb me or wo chali gyi par dir v mai usse baay krna chata hu mai kya kru..?

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  131. Hii Mam ..hamare tuition me aik new girl aai hi….pr aik din mai uska aik help kiya…aur wo hame tnxx kaha..pr aab parday..mai usii ke backside wale site pe baithta hu…pr mujhe samajh me nahi aaata hi ki mai kaise baat kru…mai usse friendship kaise karu…aur wo mujhe pasand bhi aa gai hi…Please aap hi batao g mai kaha se shru karu

    1. Apni personality achi bana kar confidence ke saath uski taraf dekho, use notice karwao ki aap use dekh rhe hp… 2-3 baar eye contact hua to jaa kar Bindas andaaz me Hi bolo, darna bilkul mat aur na hi nervous hona. Usse koi choti si baat karna smile ke saath and thanks bol kar baat khatam karna, next day fir koi baat karna halki fulki and last me uski halki si tareef kar dena, next day no. mangna jarur degi (agr dene waali hogi to) 🙂

  132. mam ma ek larki e boht pyar karta ho lakin wo mere teraf buht kam dekte hai magar us ki dousri bhan muj se boht pyar karti hai tu ab mam app hi kuch batae plzz ye qa maz qam be 11 month se chal raha hai plzzzz mam reply

    1. Dekho dear jo aapko pasand nahi karti wo aapko kabhi pasand nahi karne wali or jo aapko pasand karti to agar aapko wo pasand hai to use pata lo or khush raho nahi aapko kisi or ladki ko patane me bhi alag se mehnat akrni padegi isliye abhi mauka hai jo mil rahi hai use pata lo or khush rakho or nahi to kahi aisa na ho ki wo bhi aapke hath se jaye.

  133. hii shivshi me ek ladki se bhut pyar krta hu lekin me uske name ke ilava khuch nhi janta hum ek hi class me padhte he usme bhut atitude he please help me.

  134. Ek ladki mere sath bachpan se padti as rhi thi mujhe ussey love ho gaya 3year ho gya mujhe izhar nhi kar paya sayd mujhme himmat nhi halp me

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  135. Hi mera naam Danish hai mai collage me meri classmate ko bahot pasand krta hu maine usse baat karne ki koshish bhi ki lekin wo koi responce nhi di but jab exam hua to hamara exam ek hi class me hua us din wo khud mujhse boli maine bhi baat kiya phir kuch din baad maine parpose ke liye maine apne frnd se usko milne ke liye collage ke bahar buwaya tu usne mere dost ko dhutt kah kar bhaga diya tab se aaj tak wo mujhse bolti hi nhi hai mai kya karu or mujhe wo bahot pasand hai plz help me

    1. Danish aap khud ja kar aaram se, pyar se politely, face par smile ke saath baat karo tab hi baat banegi, ladki kabhi dost ke through nhi patti. Khud hi himmat marni padti hai.

  136. Mam ek ladki se baat karna chahta hoon or kam se kam 1 year se aisa ho raha ek baar maine usse baat bhi kari maine kaha mam mai jara apse 1 minute baat kar sakta hoon ti usne kaha kyo dimag kharab hai kya lekin eye contect par day hota hai pahli bhi hota tha par usne aisa kyo kaha

  137. Hi mam, ek ladki main bahut pasand karta hu main use smile karta hu to o bhi mujhe smile deti hai roj o class jate samay o mujhe baar baar dekti hai or palat ke bhi dekhti hai main bhi aapne shop se use dekhta hu mere shop se 5 minut ke duri par rahti hai par o class ke shiva dusre time pe mere idhar aati nahi hai to kya o mujhe like karti hai ya nahi ye kam se kam 3 mahino se chal raha hai please answer me main kya karu

  138. Hi mam,
    Mam ak ladki he mere flate me rahti he, jab bhi me usko dekhta hu to vo bhi dekhti he, ak din mene use bat ki study kesa chal raha he to usne muskurake kaha achha chal raha he,
    Dusre din jab vo school se chut kar aati thi tab me flate ke niche khada tha to mene use dekha eye connect karne ke liye to usne muje dekha fir niche najre karke aage Jake dekha magar vo usne smile nahi ki aesa kyu ab to pehchan bhi ho gai he…..?

      1. hii shivshi me ek ladki se bhut pyar krta hu lekin me uske name ke ilava khuch nhi janta hum ek hi class me padhte he usme bohut atitude he please help me agar aapki koi persnol gmail id ho to mujhe dedijiy if you don’t mind mujhe uske baare or bhi baat karni he