Ladki Se Baat Karte Time Kis Tarah Ki Baatein Bilkul Nahi Karni Chahiye

Girls ko koi nahi samjh sakta hai ye toh aap sabne suna hi hoga same as kuch aesi baatein hoti hai jo aapko girls ke samne nahi bolni chahiye hai. Boys bahut bindass hote hai woh kabhi bhi kuch bhi bol sakte hai aur sahi bhi hai bolte time itna kya sochna aap sab bhi yahi sochte hoge na? But attention! girls ke samne bolne se pehle das baar sochna chahiye hai kyuki jab girls aapke sath hoti hai aapko nahi pata ki woh aapki kiss baat se aapko judge kar dein aur aapko kya samjhe chahe aapki real personality kuch bhi ho. Girls ki ye ek habit hoti hai jisko woh chah kar bhi change nahi kar sakti hai.

Never Stare At Girls

Never Stare At Girls

Ladkiyon ko kabhi bhi ghur kar naa dekhe balki unhe hamesha Pyaar bhari nazaron se hi dekhe, Ladki aapki Diwani ho jayegi. Agar aap ladki ko ghur kar dekhege toh woh aapse baat kerne mein kabhi interested nahi hogi balki aapse dur dur bhagegi. Isliye girls ke sath jab ho politely dekhe aur baat kare.

Never Be Angry

Never Be Angry

Ladki par kabhi bhi gussa na kare, Hamesha pyaar se hi pesh aaye. Ladkiyo par gussa hona toh banta hi nahi hai woh itni cute aur sweet hoti hai, bass yahi baat soch kar aap unke sath rahe aur agar gussa bhi ajaye toh usko avoid kar dein kyunki gussa hone ka koi faida nahi hai. Baat karte karte ek dum gussa na ho jaiye. Isse girls dar jati hai aur aapki taraf dekhna bhi asand nahi karti hai.

Girls Do Not Like Timid Boys

Girls Do Not Like Timid Boys

Ladkiyan darpok ladko ko pasand nahi karti hai issliye aap darna chod de aur Ladkiyon se ek nidar ki tarah react kare. Koi bhi baat aesi nahi honi chahiye hai jisse unko lage ki aap kisi bhi chiz se dartein hai, brave ban ke rahe aur har aisi baat kare jis mein aapki bravery nazar aye aap powerful lage ye cheez girls ko impress karti hai.

“You Ask A Lot Of Questions.”

“You Ask A Lot Of Questions.”

Aap jab kisi ladki se baat kare toh usse bhi moka dein baat karne ka. Aesa bilkul na kare ki bass aap hi bolte rahe aur woh chup chap baithe rahe, aesa karne se girls bore ho jayegi aur aapse dubara milne ke bare mein sochegi bhi nahi. Isliye neutral rahe jitna aap bol rahe hai utna unko bhi bolne ka mauka dein isse aap dono ki understanding bhi bani rahegi.

Show Off

Show Off

Girls ko show off karne wale bande(boys) bilkul nahi pasand hote hai, toh iss baat ka khas dhiyan rakhe ki unke sath aap jab bhi ho aap apne Money, Gadgets, Watches yani kisi bhi luxuries cheez ka show off na kare. Girls aise ladko se jayada milna ya baat karna pasand nahi karti hai. Kyuki har kisi ke pass showoff karne ke liye cheeze nahi hoti hai aur phir kisi aese ke sath rehna jo show off kare thora mushkil ho jata hai.

Some Words

Show Off

Iss baat ko khaas dhiyan rakhe ki jab kisi ladki se baat kare toh kuch words ka use na kare like  Hmmmm, Fine, Ok Great, Nice, Whatever  ye sare words aapki conversation ko khatam kar dete hai. Age baat karne ke liye aapke paas kuch nahi hota hai aur i’m sure ki aap jis bhi girl ke sath apni time spend kar rahe hai aap ye kabhi nahi chahege ki woh chup chap baithi rahe so usko aisa koi mauka hi na dein jisse aapko kuch zayada hi efforts karne padhe.

Your Behavior Towards Everything

Your Behavior Towards Everything

Jab aap kisi ladi se milne ke liye jaiye toh kuch khas baaton ka dhiyan rakhe like aapne kaise baithna hai kaise baat karni hai, kaise usko response dena hai, kaise kisi bhi cheez ka order dena hai, kaise khana hai like as i tell you before you have to concern about everything. Mark my words!

Past Relationship  

Past Relationship
Girl se kabhi bhi uske past ke relationships ke bare mein baat na kare, ho sakte toh is topic ko avoid kare kyunki past ko past mein rehne dein  toh acha hai, aur aap jankar ke bhi kya kar sakte hai. So aap unse relationship par baat kare but unke nahi ya aapke nahi apne present days ke bare mein baat kare 

Apko is article ko padh ke zarur rahat mili hogi, aur ab aapke pass solution hai. Ladki Se Baat Karte Time Kis Tarah Ki Baatein Bilkul Nahi Karni Chahiye humne aapko bahut sari baatein baataye hai jisse aapko confidence milega.

Office Ki Ladki Se Pyar Karta Hu Par Samajh Nahi Aata Aage Kya Karu.

Aap kabhi bhi kahi bhi kisi ko pasand kar sakte hai phir woh school ho, college ho, market ho, aapki society ho ya office. Agar aapne ek sahi tarike se girl ko propose kiya toh aapka kaam ban jaiyega bas aapko kuch cheezon ko sikhana hoga itna muskil nahi hota kisi bhi ladki ko impress karna jitna aap sochte hai bas aapko kuch tricks ko use karna hoga phir aap easily kisi bhi girl ko impress kar sakte hai. Agar aap apne crush ko propose karna chahte hai aur aap iske liye tips dhund rahe hai toh aap sahi jhagha hai humara article aapki bahut help karne wala hai. Chaliye jante hai Office Main Ladki ko kaise propose kare.

First Impression Is Last Impression

First Impression Is Last Impression

Aapko yeh baat toh pata hi hogi ki aapka pehle impression hi aapka last impression hota hai agar aap pehli baar hi bazi maar gaye phir aapki jeet pakki hai. So guys agar aapke office mein koi aisi girl hai jisko aap pasand karte hai toh aapke first impression sabse best hona chahiye hai. Agar aisa nahi hua toh aapko thodi zayada mehnat karni padegi so aapna first step bahut soch samjh kar lein.

Looks

Looks

Looks really matters for girls, isliye aap apne looks par dhiyan dein sabka looks ache hote hai hume bas kuch choti Choti cheezon ka khayal rakhna chahiye hai like shave, perfume, dressing sense, way of talk girls aapke looks ko bahut notice karti hai chahe woh yeh kyu na bolti ho ki usko looks se farak nahi padhta but it’s a fact ki unko boys ke looks se farak padhta hai.

Confidence

Confidence

Agar aap nerves huye aur aapka confidence level khatam ho gaya toh aapki kaam wahi khatam hai samnjiye. Aap kitne bhi nerves ho kitni bhi anxiety ho aapke face par hamesha smile rehni chahiye hai aur aap confidence dekhne chahiye hai isse girls impress ho jati hain. Aap jab bhi baat kare pure confidence se kare.

Impress Her

Impress Her

Aap apne office mein sabse aage rahe sara office work time se pura kare aur office mein jitna ho sakta hai active rahe. Aap apne boss ke sath ek acha relationship bana kar rakhe isse woh ladki definately aapse baat karegi aur impress ho jaiyegi. Girls hamesha popular logo se zayada attract hoti hai isliye aap office mein thora popular hona hoga. Aap aapna behavior sabse ek jaisa rakhe aur sabse ache se baat kare aapna mood itna acha rakhe ki har koi aapko dekh kar khush aur fresh ho jaiye. Aap bich bich mein apni feelings ke bareme uss ladki ko show karte rahe mazak mazak mein thora batate rahe aise aap aapni feeling ko ache se bata sakte hai.

Introduce Yourself

Introduce Yourself

Agar woh ladki thodi shy ya introvert hai toh aap apna introduction khud dein sakte hai ya kisi common friend  se apna intro dila sakte hai aap aapne bare mein thora bataye aur uss ladki ke bareme kuch puche bich bich mein thora hasi mazak bhi kar sakte hai mohole ko zayada serious na banaye. Office ke lunchtime mein uss girl ko apne sath lunch ke liye puch sakte hai ya office timing mein aap usko coffee ya tea offer kar sakte hai. Agar usko koi kam samjh nahi araha hai toh aap uski bina puche help bhi kar sakte hai isse aap uss ladki ko impress karne mein kamiyab hoge.

Be Cool

Be Cool

We know aap uss girl ko pasand karte hai aur aap apne excitement ko hide nahi kar sakte hai but aapko apni excitement ko hide karna hoga. Like aapko thora cool behavior karna hoga aap sabse baat kare same way mein aap uss ladki se bhi baat kare sabse pehle step as a friend lein jab woh aapki company mein ajaiye toh usko apne sath combatable kar lein after some time usko aap apne dil ki baat bata sakte hai. Aur agar woh mana karti hai toh apne behavior mein koi change na leke aye same rahe usko aap bolein ki take your time isse girls par aapka impression acha padhta hai.

Toh ye thi kuch baatein jinka khya rakh kar aap apne pyar ko paa sakte hai. Ek baat dhyan se samajh lo,jiss bhi ladki ko aap pasand karte hai usse aapki gf banana mushkil ho sakta hai but agar Aap Shivshi ke in tips ko theek se follow karte ho toh kuch bhi mushkil nahi hogi, aur aap for sure aapne one sided love ko paa sakte hai.

Lover Se Shadi Karni Hai, Parents Nahi Maan Rahe! Love Vs Family

Agar aap bahut time se ek relationship mein hai aur genuinely apne lover ko pasand karte hai aur ab aap dono apni shadi ki soch rahe hai aur apne ya partner ke parents ko manana chahte hai but aapke paas itni himmat nahi hai ya aapko samajh nahi aa rha ki kaise baat kare ya fir vo maan nahi rahe to Relax, aaj aapki Shivshi aapki ye problem bhi solve kar degi. Believe me, Main aapko aise tips dene ja rahi hu jinhe agar aap sahi se follow karo to vo aapke liye ek magic se kam nahi hoga.

Sabse pahle to agar aap marriage ka decision final karne ki baat soch rahe hai toh sabse pahle yeh soch lein ki… kya yeh sahi time hai aur aap iske liye sach me ready hai! kyunki marriage ka decision lena koi choti baat nahi, yeh bahut badi responsibility hai and agar aap sure nahi hai toh aap abhi apni partner ke family se baat na kare jab aap puri tarah ready ho jaaye sirf tabhi baat kare.

How to Convince Parents for Love Marriage

Ab agar aapne final kar hi liya hai ki aapko apne Love partner ke saath shaadi karni hi hai to chalo fir ab baat karte hai, Shadi Ke Liye Parents Ko Convince Kaise Kare ke baare me..

Share Your Secret with Close Member of Family

Ghar Walon Ko Shadi Ke Liye Manane Ke Tips Hindi Me

Sabse pahle aap apni family ke kisi close member (jiske saath aapki sabse acchi banti hai) ko apna secret bataye. Unhe directly ya indirectly ye signal de ki aap kisi ko pasand karte hai aur aap is baare me unse koi baat karna chahte hai. Bas Aap ek baat jarur yaad rakhe ki baat karne ka sahi moka dekh kar hi ye baat kare, yuhi kabhi bhi shuru na kar dein. Agar baat sahi tarah se aur sahi tarike se nahi kahi gyi to isse aapki baat kharab bhi ho sakti hai. Agar har kosish ke baad bhi aapka close member nahi maan raha toh phir aap apne parents se jaa kar baat kare jab unka mood acha ho tab aur apne parents ko sab kuch bata dein, unse kuch bhi nahi chupaye. Apne relationship ke bare me bata dein ki aap kitne mann se apni lover se marriage chahte hai aur sahi time dekh kar apni girlfriend se bhi mila dein jisse woh thoda jan pehchan lein aur ek dusre ke sath comfortable ho jaaye. Aap apne parents ko assure kar dein ki iss baat se kisi ki bhi social image kharab nahi hogi.

Vo Jo Bhi Bole Chup-Chap Suno (Beech Me Mat Bolo)

Listen Them

Possibilities hai ki aapke parents is rishte ke liye maan bhi jaiye but phir bhi aapko unki sari baatein sunni hogi agar NO bolein toh aapko sunna hoga uss par aap react nahi kar sakte hai. Aap ye janne ki koshish kare ki aapke parents kis baat ko dislike kar rahe hai woh kuch bhi ho sakta hai like Caste, Social issue, Language, Family Background any thing. Yaad rakhe behas karne se kuch nahi hoga aapko unki baat sunni hogi aur pata karna hoga ki unko kis baat ka dar hai aur unka yeh dar dur karna hoga chahe jaise bhi ho.

Stay Calm – Har Haal Me Apna Dimag Shant Rakho

Stay Calm

Aapke parents aapse bahut sare questions puchenge aur aapko unki har baat ka properly answer dena hai, kisi bhi baat par galti se bhi over react nahi karna hai. Aapke liye yeh baat normal hogi but aapke parents ke liye yeh baat normal nahi ho ye possible hai, unko har baat ke liye concern karna padega woh har baat ke liye pata lagayenge  aapke pasand se related har baat puchenge. Ho sakta hai parents gussa bhi kare but its OK, yeh action bante hai aap full confidence mein rahe har baat ko maturely handle kare. Aap unhe btaye ki is baat se aapko kitna fark padta hai and agar aisa nahi hota hai to is baat ke kya mayne honge aapki life me.

Always Be Positive While Talking

Be Positive

Aapke relationship ko leke mushkilein toh bahut ayegi but aapko har baat ko positively lena hai, aapko bahut tough lagega but aapko ghabarana nahi hai shuru-shuru mein problems aayegi par last me sab thik ho jayega aur agar aap himmat har ke baith gye toh phir aapki marriage ka kuch nahi hoga isliye aapne end tak manana hai give up nahi karna hai. Unhe facts btaye ki isse aapki life par kya asar padega. Aap unhe samjhao koi acha example de kar.

Thodi Nautanki – Thoda Drama

Some Drama

Yes aapka thoda dramatic hona kaam bana sakta hai. Agar aapke parents nahi man rahe hai toh aap unpar thora emotional atyachar kar sakte hai, like aap khana na khaye, parents ki har baat ko maane, ghar par rahe pura din, udas rahe, raat ko soye na, pareshan dikhe, isse aapke parents is baare me seriously sochne ke liye to jarur time nikalenge, jab unhe dikhayi dega unka baccha kis haal me hai to ho sakta hai unka bhi Dil pighal jaaye. Kyunki yeh fact hai ki agar aap apne parents ke piche lage rahenge toh woh aapki baat ko importance nahi deinge but jab aap khamosh ho jayenge toh parents aapki baat ko understand karenge.

Meeting Arrange Kare

Meeting

Aap apni lover ke sath apni family ki ek meeting plan kare jisse aapke parents ko aapki Gf ko janne me help milegi. Aap apni girlfriend ko bhi bole ki aapki mother se baat kare, kyuki jab 2 females ek dusare se baat karti hai toh woh ek-dusre ko samjhne mein jyada kamyab hoti hai kyunki kuch baatein aisi hoti hai jo kuch log hi ek dusre se baat karke hi samajh sakte hai. Aap aisa bhi kar sakte hai ki aap aur aapki mother hi aapki gf se milne jaaye kyuki agar aapki mom ne aap dono ke relationship ko understand kar liya toh phir aapki family ko manana asan ho jayega. Ek baat yeh bhi hai ki aapki mom mein itni power hoti hai ki woh aapki puri family ko mana sake isliye sabse asan target yahi hai aur best bhi. Aakhir Maa ka dil to apne bacche ke liye hi hota hai 😉

Problem Waali Baat Ko Samjhna Jaruri Hai

Analyze Your Problem

Jab aapko saari problems ka pata lag jata hai toh aap ab un problems aur insecurity ko dur karne ke liye jo bhi kar sakte hai vo kare. Ye baat jarur hai ki ye kaam kaafi muskil hai par bade kaam ke liye badi muskil to aayegi hi.

Aap parents ko time dein sochne ka aur aapki baat ko samajhne ka, kyunki yeh unke liye ek bada issue hai digest karne mein time lagega hi. Ek baar woh samajh gaye toh phir aapka kaam ban jayega phir aap unko apne partner ki family ke sath mila sakte hai aur aage sari baat aapne aap adjust hoti jaiyegi. Bas aapne confidently apne parents tak baat le kar jana hai aur bahut Patiently manana hai.

Facts & Emotion Se Baat Kare

Aapne 3 idiots movie to jarur dekhi hogi usme jab Farhan apne Papa se Engineering chodne aur photography karne ki baat karta hai to vo nahi mante aur bahut gussa hote hai, lekin jab vo apne Papa ko kehta hai ki – “Agar Photography karunga to kam paise kmaunga, chote ghar me rahunga, gaadi choti hogi… par Papa main khush rahunga..” Isi tarah aapko bhi apni baat parents ke dimag me dalni hai.

Aap apne Mammi-Papa ko ye baat samjhane ki kosish kare ki is cheez se koi problem nahi hogi. Log shuru me kuch bolenge par vo to vaise bhi kuch na kuch bolte hi hai kyunki… Kuch to Log Kahenge, Logon ka Kaam hai Kehna!

Apna Chanakya Taiyar Rakhe

Parents se Love Marriage ke baare me baat karte time agar aap kisi family member, ristedar ya Papa ke dost ko pahle se hi pata ke rakhe to vo aapki bahut help kar sakenge. Mere kahne ka matlab hai.. aapko apne back-up ke liye apna Chanakya ready karke rakhna hoga. Parents se baat karne se pahle aap unse sab baat bata kar setting kar lein aur fir uske baad ghar walon se baat kare taki agar kuch gadbad ho gyi to vo sambhal lein. Par dhyan rahe, ye setting kis person se karni hai uska faisla soch samajh kar lena hoga, kahi aisa na ho ki vahi insan aur badi musibat khadi kar de. Vaise ye kaam best Bhabhi, Mama ji ya fir Papa ke vo dost jo aapko bahut layak samajhte hai vo kar sakte hai.

Sahi Time Aur Tareeka Sabse Jaruri Hai

Doston mujhe puri umeed hai ki ye tips aapki life ki sabse badi problem ki solve karne ke liye bahut hai. Bas aapko in tips ko sahi time par mauka dekh kar istemal karne hai, timing bahut matter karegi… matlab Mauke Pe Chauka Marna hoga.

Ghar waalon se aise time me is baare me baat na kare jab vo kisi cheez ko le kar pareshan ho, tension me ho ya family me koi issue chal rha ho, agar aapne galti se bhi kisi problem ke beech me ye baat ki to samajh lo watt lag gyi.

Final Tip

Dekho friend, humara kaam hai kosish karna jo mujhe pata hai aap puri shiddat se karoge kyunki aap chahte ho ki aapko apna pyar mil jaaye, but faisla lene ka kaam hai Ghar waalon ka. Aapne apni har kosish ki aur vo maan gaye to isse accha to kuch ho hi nahi sakta.

But… Agar aapki har effort ke baad bhi vo nahi maan rahe to baat aati hai ki ab kya kare! Ab baat ko chahe jitna marji ghuma fira lo par last me aise  mamle me 2 cheez hi possible hoti hai..

  1. Ya to apna pyar nibha lo aur ghar waalon ki baat ko ignore kar do.
  2. Ya fir Ghar waalon ki baat maan lo aur apne pyar ka balidan de do.

Ab in dono me se kisi bhi ek option ko choose karna aapne liye aasan nahi hoga aur yakeen maano ye kisi ke liye bhi aasan nahi hota. Ab aap kya faisla lete hai is cheez ke upar aapki puri life depend hoti hai isliye jaldbazi me ye faisla kabhi na kare, har baat ke baare me pahle soch lein aur tab hi faisla kare. Agar aap sure nahi hai aur confuse hai to aapko final decision lene ki jarurat nahi hai. Galti se bhi aisa na kare!

Suggestion: Agar aap decision nahi le pa rahe hai aur is point par fas gaye hai aur aise situation me aapka partner aapko jaldi faisla lene ke liye force kar rha hai ya rahi hai to yakeen maano aapki choice galat hai. Is baat ko samajh lo ki, jo insan aapko aapki life ka sabse bada decision soch ke theek se nahi lene de rha hai vo acha life partner nahi ho sakta.

Ab aap chahe koi bhi decision lo, family ya love dono me se ek ke saath to bura hoga hi aur yhi sabse muskil situation hai. Mujhe nahi pata aise case me kya karna chahiye aur aap kya karoge, par Main ye janti hu ki.. end me har person vhi karta hai jo usko sahi lagta hai.

Main bas yahi chahti hu ki aap vo decision na lo jo aapko sahi lag rha hai balki aap vo decision lo jo aapke liye asal me sahi hai.

Pyar Aur Parivar Me Se Kisko Chune – Shivshi Tips

Ab Main yha apna personal suggestion share karna chahungi. Agar main aise situation me fas gyi to Main Parents ke saath jaungi, matlab main Pyar aur Family me se Family ko choose karungi aur ghar waalon ki baat maan kar apne pyar ki kurbani dungi.

Kyu? Kyunki Main kisi se pyar karti hu ye baat sahi hai par mujhe pata hai Meri family bhi mujhse pyar karti hai, infact meri Mammi aur mere Papa se jyada mujhe duniya me koi pyar nahi karta aur na hi kar sakta hai. Aur mere liye meri felings se jyada important hai Mere parents ki feelings.

Agar main apne pyar se shaadi nahi karungi to uska dil dukhega par agar main usse shaadi kar lungi to mere Ghar waalon ka dil tut jayega. Ho sakta hai pyar karne waala person aise situation me preshan ho, dukhi ho aur roye par mujhe pata hai agar main apne Papa ki marji ke khilaf shaadi karungi to mere Papa aur meri Mammi ka Dil zindagi bhar royega.

Mere bade bhai jinhone puri zindagi mere ek baar kahne par har ek cheez ki, chahe jaise bhi ki unko main aisi situation me kaise daal du ki vo apne doston se najre na mila paaye. Apne office me unko jillat jhelni pade. Mere bhai mujhe tab se pyar karte hai jis din main paida huyi thi, meri kisi takleef me mere Bhai ki aanshu nikal aate the us insan ko main kaise zindagi bhar le liye sharminda kar du.

Abhi mere Papa society me ek rutbe waale insan hai, jab vo ghar se walk ke liye nikalte hai to log ijjat se haal-chal puchte hai aur main ye kaise kar du ki kal se mere Papa ghar se bahar nikalne me bhi sharam mehsoos kare. Agar koi unse haal chal puch le to vo muskura ke jawab bhi na de sake.

Meri Mammi jo mohalle ki sabhi ladies ki best friend hai usko Main kaise zindagi bhar ke taane sunne ke liye chor du sirf apni dil ki baat puri karne ke liye. Meri mammi ki tabiyat kharab hoti hai tab bhi vo hi khana banati hai taki mujhe study chod kar kitchen me na jaana pade us Maa ko main kaise rula du.

Main apni khushi ke liye apne ghar ki khusiyan ujaad du Main itni matlabi nahi ho sakti, fir chahe mujhe uske liye koi bhi gum sehna pade. Vaise bhi duniya me bahut log pyar karte hai par sabko apna pyar mile ye jaruri nahi hota. Duniya me rojana anginat rishte bante hai aur bigadte hai isliye agar mera pyar mera na ho saka to koi baat nahi.

Kyunki ye fact hai ki Dukh aur ijjat me fark hai, dukh hamesha nahi rehta, har dukh ek din chala jaata hai par ghar ki ijjat ek baar chali gyi to fir vo vapas laut kar nahi aati.

Isliye my dear friend, I don’t know you are a Boy or a Girl but main aapko bas yahi kahungi jo karna soch samajh kar karna. Ummed hai aapko apni Shivshi ki baat pasand aayi hogi. Koi sawal ho to puchna, jyada tension mat lena.

Now read: Love life Problems aur Uske Solutions

Girlfriend Se Baat Karne Ke Topics

Vaise to jab ek ladka aur ek ladki ek dusare me interested hote hai tabhi vo ek relationship me aate hai aur Girfriend – boyfriend bante hai aur jab do log ek dusre me itne interested hon toh unko baat karne ke liye kisi special topic ki zarurat hi nahi padti, baat to apne aap hoti jaati hai. Par fir bhi humare kuch friend aise hai jo bechare is baat ko le kar bahut preshan hai, unhe ye samajh hi nahi aata ki Apne lover se kis topic par baat kare.

Unka bas yahi chalta rehta hai – Kuch bolo aur dusri taraf se bhi aawaz aati hai – Aap kuch bolo. Aur isi Aap bolo – Tum bolo me pura time gujar jaata hai aur 2 premi mayus ho kar majburi me phone kaat dete hai. Lekin ab bas, bahut hua.

Girlfriend Boyfriend (Lover) Se Phone Par Kya Baat Kare - Topics

Ladki Se Baat Karne Ke Topic


Ab aapko is baare me tension lene ki bilkul bhi jarurat nahi hai kyunki ab aapki Shivshi aapko apni jaan se baat karne ke liye itne saare topic batane waali hai ki aap jitni marji baat karo ab aapko ye nahi sochna padega ki – `Yaar ab kya baat karu?`. Bas aapko apne dimag ka dhakkan khol kar rakhna hai 😛 To chalo ab shuru karte hai..

✪ Like & Dislikes

Aap dono ki soch ek dusre se alag hoti hai, ek dusre ki soch ko janne ke liye unse puche ki – Unko kya pasand hai, kya nahi pasand hai. May be jo unko pasand ho woh aap ko na pasand ho or jo aapko pasand ho woh unko na pasand ho ya aisa bhi ho sakta hai ek aap dono ki pasand ek jaisi bhi ho. Is topic par agar chahe to rojana ghanton baatein ho sakti hai. Ek example ke trough samjhati hu. Farz karo…

Aap… : Aapki favorite sabji kya hai?

Lover : Meri….. ummm…… Aalo matar.

Aap… : Acchaaa…..

Lover : Aapko ?

Aap… : Mujhe mushroom bahut pasand hai.

Lover : Mushroom !! Sach me?? Mujhe to mushroom bilkul pasand nahi.

Aap… : Kya baat kar rhe ho?

Lover : Haan sach me.

Aap… : I don’t believe this.

Lover : Le isme don’t believe waali konsi baat hai.

Aap… : Aur nahi to kya, mujhe nahi lagta duniya me koi aisa hoga jise mushroom nhi pasand hoga..

Lover : hahahahahaha…..

Aap… : Isme hasne ki kya baat hai?

Lover : hahahahaha….. lol 😀 😀

Aap… : Aap hans kyu rahe ho?

Lover : Mashroom par hans raha hu aur kya 😀

Aap… : Dekho aap faltu me haso mat.

Lover : Are hasu nahi to aur kya karu baat hi aisi hai…

Aap… : Itni bhi funny nhi hai. Bandar kya jaane adrak ka swaad…

Lover : Acha ji to………………………………………..

To dekha aapne… bina baat ke baat kaise hoti hai. Isi tarah kisi bhi favourite cheej ki baat karni shuru karo aur aise hi baal ki khaal nikalte raho 😀 aisi hi baate hoti hai jab aapko ghante ghante tak kisi se baat karni hoti hai. Ab aap puchoge ki aur konsi favorite cheez ki baat kar sakte hai apni premi ke saath to kuch points main bata rahi hu, baaki aap soch lena, itna dimag to aapko bhi chalana hoga.

  • Favorite Flower  
  • Favorite Movies
  • Favorite Actor
  • Favorite Actress
  • Favorite Song
  • Favorite Clothing Brand
  • Favorite Food Brand
  • Favorite Place
  • Favorite Dishes
  • Favorite Restaurant
  • Favorite Colour  
  • Favorite Drink
  • Favorite Tourist Place
  • Favorite Dress
  • Favorite Athlete
  • Favorite Car
  • Favorite Bike
  • Favorite Book
  • Favorite Phone
  • Favorite Poet
  • Favorite Leader
  • Favorite Player
  • Favorite Fruit
  • Favorite Game
  • Favorite Chocolate
  • Favorite Dancer
  • Favorite meal of the day
  • Favorite ye….
  • Favorite Vo……….

Aap ko ek dusre ke Likes aur Dislike ka bhi dhyan rakhna chahiye, both Gf ko bhi aur Bf ko bhi. Yeh knowledge aapko aapke lover ke liye surprise plan karne me bhi help karega, jisse aapka rishta bhi majboot hoga aur aap saath me khushi ke pal bhi share kar payenge.

✪ Daily Activities Ki Baatein

Aap apni Gf / Bf ko roj saubah Good Morning wish karke unki morning beautiful kare, unko message kare, love quotes send kare, beautiful flower ki pics send kare aur unki beauty per compliment kare. Aap unse roz ka routine puche. Apne lover ko pucho ki – Unka din kaisa gaya, unhone kya kiya pure din aur kal ka kya plan hai? Is tarah aap unse closely attached bhi rahenge aur aapko sab pata bhi hoga ki unki life me kya chal rha hai taki jarurat ke time par aap unka saath dene ke liye available reh paao.

Note..

Ek baat ka dhyaan jarur rakhein ki ye cheez jyada na ho jaaye, har cheej jab balancee me rahe to sabse acha hota hai. Mera matlab hai aap unse ye jarur pucho ki – Kya chal rha hai, kya kar rhe hai aur kya plan hai, par…. jab vo busy ho to bina jaruri baat ke baar baar phone karke ya msg karke unhe preshan nhi karna chahiye. Kyunki kyi baar person aisi situation me hota hai jab vo koi baat nahi karna chahta aise time par aapko unki feeling samajhni chahiye vo faltu me tang nahi karna chahiye. Hota hai kayi baar jab bande ka mann nahi hota baat karne ka, jab mood theek hoga tab vo khud aapse baat karenge. Agar koi person ye point nahi samajha aur yshi galti baar baar karta raha to uska rishta bhi is vajah se toot sakta hai. Isliye samajhdar bane, is cheez ka dhyaan jarur rakhein ki kab konsi baat karni chahiye.. Care karein, Torture nhi.

✪ Personal Dreams

Aap dono apne dreams ke bare me discuss kare ki aap future me kya karna chahte hai, aap dono ne aapke aane waale days ke liye kya socha hai. Aap dono ka kya aim hai, kya goals hai life me ye topic aap logo ko bhut help karega. Is topic par aap regular lambi baat-cheet kar sakte hai, isse aap bore bhi nahi hote aur lambe time ki planning bhi ho jaati hai.

✪ Advice Lena – Dena

Aap apne lover ko advice kare, kya acha hai kya bura hai woh baatein bataye, logon ke bare me samjhayein. Agar aapki Gf mature nahi hai toh usko samjhaye, alag-alag tarah ke logon ke bare me batayein, bahar ki duniya ke baare me jarur bataye taki woh bahar jaa kar safely kaam kar sake aur use is duniya me jeene me kisi tarah ki koi bhi problem na aaye.

Gf-Bf ka matlab chat karna hi nahi hota hai, agar aapki Gf nasamajh hai ya koi baat jaldi nahi samajhti toh usko gussa karne ya usse Break-up karne ki bajaye use pyar se samjhaye aur usko mature banaye. Iske alawa kuch points aise hote hai jinke baare me aapke lover ko jyada acchi tarah se pata hota hai, to aise points par unse baat jarur karein. Aap koi lover apne love ki help karta hai to use bahut khushi meshoos hoti hai, isliye kabhi bhi unko khushi dene ka mauka khali na jaane dein. Unse advice lete rahein aur advice dete rahein.

✪ Personal Opinion

Agar aap dono ek dusare ki kisi baat se gussa ya naraz hai toh usi time is baare bata de ki kya baat hai, jisse aap dono ke beech sab clear rahega. Kisi bhi rishte me khush rahne ka secret hai… Dono ko ek dusare ki baat sunni chahiye. Kisi bhi relationship me jaruri hota hai ki ek Lovers dusre ki baat ka bura na mane, balki use samjhe. Ego or Attitude ko side me rakh kar ek dusare ki feeling ko ke baare me soche, is baat ke baare me vichar kare ki kisiko kya baat buri lagi or kyu. Uske baad agar aapki galti hai to galti maan kar promise kare ki aage se vo baat fir kabhi nahi hogi taaki aapka relationship hamesha salamat rahe.

✪ Compliments

No doubt aap or aapke lover behad khoobsurat hai, phir bhi aapko or aapke Bf/Gf ko ek dusare ko compliment jarur karna chahiye. Jab bhi aap apni Gf ko date par leke jaaye uske bad jab vo ghar pahunch jaaye toh use call karke jarur puche ki – Voh theek se Ghar pahunch gayi ya nahi, aur kya kar rahi hai. halki fulki formal baat karne ke baad use ye jarur btayein ki – Aaj voh kaisi lag rahi thi, unhone jo color pehna tha vo un par kitna haseen lag rha tha, unki dressing sense ki tareef kare, aapko kaisa laga unse mil kar ye baat feeling ke saath apni Gf ko jarur btayein. Aur saath hi saath unko puche ki unhe kya acha laga, kya nhi taki next time aap aur acha kar paaye. Ek baar mulakat ho gyi to uske baare me aap jitni chahe utni baat kar sakte hai.

✪ Do Some Funny Things

Aap apni Gf ke saath new Quiz, Games, Puzzle, Brain Testing Games khel sakte hain because these activities really creates fun in relationship. Isse relationship boring nahi hota aur ek dusare ke saath aap khush reh sakte hai aur  interest bhi bana rahega aap dono ka, saath hi saath aapko kuch naya karne ko aur seekhne ko milega. Isse new topics bhi mil jayega aur aap dono ek dusare ke sath acha time bhi spend kar sakte hai.

✪ Sports Conversation

Aap apne partner ke favourite sportsperson ke bare me puche unka favorite Athlete, favorite Sport Team ke bare me puche isse aapko pata chalega ki aapke lover ka kis cheez me interest hai, voh cool hai ya sobar hai etc. Agar aap dono ko koi same game pasand hai to aap jitni chahe utni baat kar sakte hai is baare me, sports ki baatein kabhi khatam nahi hota, bas agar aapka thoda interest ho to.

✪ Society – People & Politics

Aas paas ki duniya me kya chal raha hai, log kitne bewakoof hai, kitne genius hai is baare me din raat baat karte rahe tab bhi ye topic khatam nahi hone waala. Desh duniya me koi aisi cheez huyi ho jo trend kar rahi ho us baare me baat ki ja sakti hai, koi facebook video ke baare me baat ho sakti hai, WhatsApp par aaye funny jokes, serious matters par baat ki ja sakti hai apne lover ke saath. Politics ke baare me knowledge honi aaj-kal bahut jaruri ho gaya hai, kyunki aap kahi bhi chale jaao, koi bhi exam do politics har jagah hai isliye politics ke baare me, Govt. kya kar rahi hai, acha kar rahi hai ya bura kar rahi hai is baare me bhut saari meaningful baatein ho sakti hai. Isse aapki baat bhi hogi, aap hansi majak bahi kar payenge aur seekhenge bhi bahut kuch.

✪ Horoscope

Is baare me bhi jitni baat karlo utni kam hai, agar aap bore ho rahe hai aur kuch samajh nhi aa raha ki kya kare to Newspaper uthaye aur apna aur apne lover ka Horoscope padhein aur der tak is baare me baat kar sakte hai. Newspaper me roj Horoscope aata hai aur roj kuch na kuch likha hota hai bas aap agar ye baat bhi kare ki Horoscope me jo likha tha vaisa hua ki nahi tab bhi bhut baat ho sakti hai.

✪ Yaadein

har person ne Zindgi me bahut kuch dekha hota hai, bhut kuch feel kiya hota hai aur bhut si cheezon se gujra hota hai, unme se bhut saari cheezein to log bhool jaate hai par kuch baatein aisi hoti hai jo achi ya buri yaadein chod jaati hai. Agar aapka relatinship strong hai to aap un yaadon ke baare in baat kar sakte hai, kisi funny incident ki baat kar sakte hai ya fir jab aap School trip par gaye the us time ki baat kar sakte hai. Jab aapke kisi friend ne ya kisi known person ne kuch vaisa kiya jiski aapko umeed nahi thi tab aapko kaisa laga us feeling ki baat kar sakte hai.

✪ Future Life Ki Baatein

Isme bahut maja aayega aapko… Agar aapka relationship strong hai aur aap apne lover ke saath apna future dekhte hai aur unke saath hi apna ghar basane ki soch rahe hai to fir aap apni future life ke baare me bhut si baate kar sakte hai. Jaise ki, shaadi ke baad aap dono kaise pyar karoge, jab sab TV dekh rahe honge aur aap dono ek dusre ko chup-chup ke flying kiss karoge to kitna maja aayega. Jab mammi gussa karegi to kya karoge. Jab koi aisi situation aayegi jab ghar me kuch tension hogi tab kya karoge. Jab aap office se late aayenge aur kitchen me khana bana rahi apni wife ke peetch par pyar se surprise touch karoge to kya feeling hogi vo…. Ye baatein karne me aapko bhut interest aayega aur aapko bhut khushi bhi mehsoos hogi, saath hi saath pyar to badhega hi.

Ek acche relationship me rahne ke liye, Aapko apne relationship ko hamesha new rakhna chahiye, use kabhi boring nahi hone dena chahiye. Relationship me hamesha spark hona chahiye, ek dusre ke liye time nikale. Agar aap working hai to after job ya off day par aap apne partner ke saath kahi ghumne jaaye aur aisi jagal time spend karein jha mind ko bhi relax mile aur aapki outing bhi ho jaaye. Yadi aap working nhi bhi ho toh bhi new places par jaaye, explore kare taki jab aap dono kahi dur ho to baad me aap us time, us jagah ko yaad karke ek dusare se share karenge, aise aap ek dusre se baat kar sakte hai or aapke relationship me excitement bhi bani rahegi.

✮ Call Avoid Karke Chat Kare

Agar aap lambe time tak apne lover se baat karna chahte hai to iska ek accha tareeka ye bhi hai ki jitna possible ho sakte aap utna call avoid kare aur chatting kare, isse fayda ye hoga ki ek choti si baat par bhi kaafi der tak baat kar payenge, chat se ek baat 10 minute me hoti hai jo call par 1 ya 2 minute me puri ho jaati hai isliye lambe time tak baat karne ke liye aap chat ka sahara bhi le sakte hai, ye ek lajawab tareeka hai aur bhut se successful relationship ka secret bhi.

Aapka relationship new ho ya purana ho, kuch baatein aisi hoti hai jo aap dono ne kabhi discuss nhi ki huyi hoti so time to time aap ek dusare ke baare mein jaante rahein aur baatein karte rahe. Agar ab bhi koi person aisa hai jise apni Gf se baat karne ka topic nahi soojhta to use is pyar mohabbat ke chakkar se bahar hi rehna chahiye kyuki usse vaise bhi kuch hone waala hai nahi. Bas jarurat hai in tips ko theek se samajhne ki aur apna thoda sa dimag chalane ki.

Girlfriend Se First Date Par Kaise Mile : Kya Kare, Kya Pahne & Kya Bole

Hello, Namaskar Doston.. Kaise hai aap? Main aapki Dost Shivshi ek dum maje me hu aur umeed karti hu ki mere sabhi Dost bhi bhut acche honge, honge kyu nhi, aakhir dost kiske hai! Doston aaj main aapke saath ek aise topic par baat karne waali hu jo behad serious and bahut majedar hai. Ye to hum sab hi jante hai ki, Aaj-kal dating bahut hi common cheez ho gyi hai, aksar log milte hai aur fir kuch baatein hoti hai, kuch rishte bante hai kuch kisi vajah se aage nahi badh paate. Ab mudde ki baat ye hai ki, Humare kuch friends aise hai jo pyar ke khel me apni inning ki opening karne ja rahe hai to vo aisa kya kare ki vo Out na ho jaayein aur unki inning hamesha hi chalti rhe! Is cheez ki unhe badi tension hoti hai, laimi hai, honi bhi chahiye. Easy words me kahu to baat ye hai ki, Bhut se friends aur apni Love & Relationship Hindi website ke readers aksar First Date se related kuch cheezon ko le kar pareshan hote hai jaise ki – Girlfriend Se First Date Par Kaise Mile, Jab Ladki Ko Pahli Baar Mile to Kya Kare, GF se Baat shuru karne ke liye Kya Bolein. Inke alawa log ye bhi puchte hai ki First Date Per Kya Gift Karu aur uske saath kaise baat kare – Kya Karein, Kya Na Karein. Basically vo ye janna chahte hai ki – Pehli mulakat me Ladki Ko Kaise Impress Karein.

Ladki GF Girlfriend Ke Saath First Date Par Kaise Jaayein Tips in Hindi Me

First Date Ko Perfect Banane Ke Tips

To finally aap first time date par jaa rahe hai, par agar aap shy (sharmile) hai aur ladkiyon se jyada baat bhi nahi karte or girls se jaldi frank bhi nahi hote to ab is baat ki tension lene ki jarurat nahi ki – Main Apni First Date Pe Kya Karo. Kyunki aapki best friend Shivshi aapki ye problem aaj aur bhi dur kar degi. Chaliye ab shuru karte hai..

 First Date Par Kya Pahne?

Pehli cheez jo aapko samjhni hai, wo ye ki aap ek date pe ja rahe ho wo bhi apni Girlfriend ke sath, toh aap is cheez ka dhyan rakho ki wo aapko aise hi pasand karti hai jaise aap ho. Toh jyada kuch sochne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Agar aap kahi Cafe, Movie ya kahi Art Gallery wagera me jaa rahe ho toh, aap us se milte waqt kuch bhi casual dress pehan ke ja sakte ho. Agar aap kahi dinner date par jaa rahe toh aap semi formals prefer kar sakte ho. Waise toh aap casuals or jeans bhi prefer kar sakte ho, but rugged jeans avoid karo, kyunki ho sakta use wo pasand na ho, isliye first time ke liye aise cheez avoid karo. Tuxedos or suit kisi wedding ya Anniversary occasion ke liye chod do. Agar aap acche se Dress-Up honge aur ache se looks ke saath jaaoge toh isse wo kaafi impress ho jayegi. Yaad rahe aapki first look sabse jayda effect dalti hai, wo toh aapne suna hi hoga, first impression is last impression.

Sirf acha dikhna hi nahi, but apne aapko acche se present karna bhi bahut zaroori hota, jaise Clean Breath, Trimmed Nostril Hair, Clean Eyes, Ears, Fresh Body Fragrance. Ye sab tips ko apne dress up me implement karke, aap ladki ko first look me impress kar sakte hai.

❤ Pahli Date Par Kya Kare?

Ab ache se taiyar toh ho gaye but ab kare kya? Kaise jaayein usse milne? Toh chalo phir ab dekhte hai, mirror se apne perfect score lene ke baad kya kare, kaha jaaye, kaise kare?

Aapki looks ke sath-sath, aapki good manners us date me extraa charm add kar deti hai. Agar aap apni first date pe jaa rahe ho, toh use uske ghar se pick karo. Agar aap car me use pick karne ja rahe ho toh uske liye car ka door khud kholo, ye aap ki manners ko present karta hai. Agar wo apni koi cheez drop (gira) kar deti hai, galti se ya jaan boojh kar toh use pick karein, iss se ladki pe aapka acha impression jata hai aur isse aapki gentlemen qualities pata chalti hai.

❤ Ladki Ke Liye Kya Gift Lekar Jaayein

Sabse badi baat, agar aap kisi ladki se first time mil rahe ho toh kabhi khali hath na jao, kuch na kuch gift zaroor le ke jaao uske liye. Ab aap sochoge ki `First Date Per Kya Gift Karu` to iske bahut se options hai, jaise ki aap Roses Bouquet, Chocolate Box, ya scarf wagera prefer kar sakte hai. Ek baat ka dhyan rakhein ki first time ke liye jyada expensive gift prefer na hi karo toh acha hai, isse usko aap desperate or show off type ke lag sakte ho.

❤ Date Ko Special banane Ke Liye Out of the Box Sochein

Agar aap date plan kar rahe ho toh kuch alag, unusual se date plan karo, but jo bhi plan karo uski choice ko dhyan me rakh ke karo. Ye na ho ki ek vegetarian ko non-veg waali jagah pe leke ja rahe ho, koi salsa club jo use shayad pasand na ho. Toh kuch bhi karne se pahle dhyan rakhna ki date ko alag banane ke chakkar me kharab mat kar lena. Aap apni date ko unusual or creative plan karke, or bhi yaadgaar bana sakte ho. Jaise ki main aapko idea deti hu.. Agar usko outing ka shauk hai toh aap hill climbing pe jaa sakte ho, hilltop par jaa ke time spend karo, baat karo. Ye kuch alag hoga aap dono ke liye.

❤ Bill Pay Kare

Ab ek mard hai aur aapne hi ye date plan ki hai isliye bill aane par aap bill pay karein, agar vo bill pay karne ki baat kahti hai to bhi mana kar do. Chahe koi ladki kitna bhi insist kare bill pay karne ke liye ya bill half-half devide karke pay karne ke liye, Aap aisa na karo because agar aapne aisa kiya to maximum chances ho sakte hai ki ye uski saath aapki aakhiri mulakat ho. Agar ladki financially bhut acchi hai fir bhi bill aapko hi pay karna chahiye, at least first date par to jarur. Agar aapki har kosish ke baad bhi vo nahi manti aur bill pay karne ke liye ad jaati hai to aap soch sakte hai.

❤ Kya Bole?

Hmm.. Ab taiyar bhi ho gaye, sab kuch plan bhi kar liya, use pick bhi kar liya. Ab usse baat kahan se shuru ki jaaye, kya baat ki jaaye, kya bole ki use bura bhi na lage. Toh chalo btate hun, ladkiyon se kya baat karni chahiye, unhe kya acha lagta hai.

❤ Use Attention de

Aap nahi jante ya shayad jaante bhi honge, ladkiyon ko attention gain karna bahut pasand hota hai. Toh use impress karne ke liye, aap use attention dein aur use ye show karein ki aap ka pura dhyan bas uski taraf hai. Use compliment zaroor karo. Compliment ladkiyon ko bahut ache lagte hai, or is time pe toh especially use lagega ki jo time usne specially lagaya aapke liye taiyar hone me vo safal hua. Sirf ye compliment na de ki – “You are looking great” thodi detail me jaa kar uski tareef karein to bahut behtar hoga. I mean be particular about her hairs, Dress, Face, Smile, Sense of Humor etc..

❤ Gf Se First Date par Kya Baat Karein

Ab baat ye aati hai ki Baat kya karein? Kahan se start karu, kya bolu. Toh suno phir, kya bolna hai aapne jaa ke. Is conversation ko interview jaise toh bilkul mat leke jao, like kaise ho, job kaisi hai, kaha job karte ho, wagera wagera. Ye aapka time hai, aapne use baat karni hai, kaise karni hai or kya karni hai woh professional nahi personal honi chahiye dear. Aap use uske bare me pucho, uske bare me jaano, aur sabse important baat, uski bas suno or patience se, kabhi uski baat ke beech interrupt mat karo. Isse ladki ko lagta hai ki aap unme interest show kar rahe hai aur use pure gentlemen way se deal kar rahe ho. Ye aapki sabse impressive quality hogi. Apni conversation me sense of humour add karo. Ladkiyon ko humorous ladke bahut pasand hote hai. Toh jitna ho sake use is date pe khush rakhne ki kosish karo.

❤ Drop Karke Aaye

Use jis jagah se pick kiya wahan pe drop karke aayein, use kabhi akele na jaane dein. Isse use ye pata chalta hai ki aap uski actual mein care karte ho. Ye aapke manners or aapke gentlemen nature ko show karta hai. Iske baad usme aapka itna craze ho gaya hoga ki wo aapke bare me hi sochegi or aapse phir milna chahti hogi. Toh usko bolna – “Hope to see you soon again" and then wave a Good Bye.

Toh ye thi kuch baatein jinka khya rakh kar aap Apne First Date Ko Shaandar Bana Sakte Hai. Ek baat dhyan se samajh lo, Girlfriend ko pahli date pe impress karna mushkil ho sakta hai but agar Aap Shivshi ke in tips ko theek se follow karte ho toh kuch bhi mushkil nahi hogi, aur aap for sure ladki ko first time me hi impress kar sakte ho.

Agar aap humare saath kuch share karna chahte hai, ya aap chahte hai ki main aapki kisi or cheez me help karo toh bas phir aapko pata hi hai kya karna hai. Neeche comment box me apni baat likh kar comment kar dein, aapki baat mujh tak pahuch jayegi.

Jis Ladki Se Pyar Karta Hu Vo Dost Manti Hai, Main Kya Karu?

Humare ek dost Rahul aaj-kal kuch preshan chal rahe hai aur jaisa ki sab jante hi hai ki, sirf ek saccha dost hi preshani ke time ek dost ki help karta hai isliye Rahul ne humse help mangi hai aur apna dost dharam nibhate huye hum bhi unki help jarur karenge. Baat ye hai ki, Vo bechare ek ladki se bahut pyar karte hai aur use apni life partner banana chahte hai par ladki hai ki dosti ke platform se aage badhne ko taiyar hi nhi ho rhi hai. Ab humare dost ko samajh nhi aa rha hai ki vo kya kare. To chaliye doston Rahul ke sawal ko detail me padhte hai aur fir kosish karte hai unko kuch kaam ki baat batane ki… 🙂

Rahul ka sawal..

Hi mam, dis is Rahul… mujhe ek ladki se love ho gya hai or uske sath meri dosti ko ek saal ho gya hai. Aur mai usse bina baat kiye reh nhi pata hu. Mai jab baat nhi karta hu to Vo mujhe khud bol deti hai – Kya baat hai aaj kisiko baat nhi karna hai kya..?

Mai usse Saadi karna chahata hu but vo Shaadi ke liye Haa nhi bol rhi hai.. Vo sirf mujhe as a friend rakhti hai.. Btaiye Mai kiya karu?… Main usko kabhi call ni karta hu, jab uski call aati hai sirf tab hi baat hoti hai uski aur meri. Jab bhi vo kahi ghumne jaati hai to mujhe apni pics jarur deti hai. Uske bahut safe boys me friend hai but bolti hai ki koi bhi mera Bf ni hai. am single. Plz help me. Mujhe uske bina kissi kaam me mann ni lgta hai, Main use kisi bhi haal me paana chahta hu.

Jis Ladki Se Pyar Karta Hu Vo Dost Manti Hai, Main Kya Karu

Shivshi ka jawab..

Hello dear Rahul… sabse pahle to ye clear kar lena bahut jaruri hai ki Bhabhi bhi tumse pyar karti hai ya fir ye pyar ki Mashal sirf apni tarah se hi jal rahi hai. Aur isse bhi important ye ki pahle theek se soch aur samajh lo ki kya uske saath tumhara acha future possible hai ya nhi, kya agar vo tumhe mil jaati hai to tum khush reh paoge.

Kahi aisa na ho ki – Hzaar kosishon ke baad ladki ko paa liya, apni bana liya aur baad me ghar waalon ka koi issue ho jaaye! Ya fir tumhe khud hi uska nature pasand na aaye, because jaisa ki tumne bataya uski aur bhi kyi boys se dosti hai to aise me agar vo tumhari ho bhi gyi aur apne doston se baat karti rhi to tumhe problem to nhi hogi. Is tarah ki basic baatein youth normally nahi sochti hai aur fir baad me inhi reasons ki vajah se zindgi narak ban jaati hai. Isliye aage badhne se pahle acchi tarah se vichar kar lena behad jaruri hai.

Agar ab bhi tumhe theek lagta hai aur ab bhi tum use apne Aangan ki Tulsi banana chahte ho to chalo mission par kaam chalu karte hai.

Ab usse jab baat ho to baat baat me use apne dil ki baat batane ki kosish karo. Use batao ki tum use pasand karte ho, use apni banana chahte ho, usse bahut pyar karte ho aur uske bina tumhara kisi kaam me mann nahi lagta. Aur fir dekho ki vo kya response deti hai.

Agar to vo tumhari baaton ko samajh rhi hai aur jo tum keh rahe ho uske baare me deep me baad kar rhi hai tab to theek hai lekin yadi vo tumhari baaton ki taraf dhyan hi nhi de rhi aur un sab baaton ko hansi me uda rahi hai to baat aisi hai ki use tumse pyar nhi hai. Yaa fir… shayad hai but use bhi pata nhi hai.

Ab ye pata lagane ke liye ki uski life me aapki kya jagah aur kitni importance hai tumhe thoda muskil kaam karna hoga, aur vo muskil kaam ye hai ki – Kuch dino ke liye usse har tarah ka contact khatam kar do… No msg, no call, nothing, uski call aaye to utho bhi mat...

Agar to uske upar tumhari is absense ka koi khas fark nhi pada aur vo apni life me jaisi thi vaise hi khush hai to ye baat yhi saaf ho jaati hai vo tumhe sirf ek dost manti hai aur tumhare hone ya na hone se use koi bhut jyada farak nhi padta.

Aise me mere friend, Main tumhe yhi salah dungi ki Life me sabse keemti cheez hai – Time. Aur is time ko ladki ke piche bewakoofi me bevajah barbad mat karo. (must read : Kya Aap Ladki Ke Piche Apni Zindgi Barbad Kar Rahe Hai) Apni life me aage badho aur apne mann ko control karo. Sach ko jitna jaldi pehchan liya jaaye aur use maan liya jaaye utna hi acha hota hai. Feelings ka hona theek hai par akalmandi se kaam lena jyada jaruri hai.

But agar vo tumhari absense se preshan hone lagti hai, tumhe baar-baar msg aur call karti hai to iska matlab hai ki uske dil me kam se kam tumhare liye ek khaas jagah jarur hai. Use call aur msg karne do, kisi bhi msg aur call ka jawab mat do aur fiir kuch dino baad achanak uska phone uthao. Vo puchegi ki tum itne din se kahan ayab the, mera phone phone bhi nhi utha rahe the aur kisi msg ka reply bhi nhi kar rhe the. Aisa kyu kar rhe the to use btao ki –

Yaar baat ye hai ki Main tujhse bhut pyar karta hu, but tujhe mujh me interest nhi hai so Main life me aage badhna chahta hu aur aise life barbad nhi karna chahta. Mujhe life me kuch banna hai, ek bada insan, ek safal beta banna hai isliye main ab in sab cheezon se dur hu. Jab humari is dosti ka koi future hi nhi to jarurat se jyada najdiki badha ke bhi nuksan hi hoga. Tujhe ho na ho kal ko mujhe bhut dukh hoga dur hone ka, so acha yhi hai ki abhi sambhal jaya jaaye.

Iske baad vo ladki sochne ke liye majbur ho jayegi aur uske dil me agar tumhare liye thodi si bhi feelings hongi to vo jarur tumhari taraf attract hogi aur ho sakta hai tumhari dilruba tumhe mil jaaye.

So Friends, mujhe puri umeed hai ki – Maine jo bhi Rahul ko bataya aap usse sehmat honge. Yadi aapko meri koi baat galat lagi ho ya aap Rahul ko kuch aur batana chahe to please niche diye huye Comment box me comment karke jarur bataye.

Agar Ladki Pyar Na Karti Ho to Kya Kare

Hello Friends… Kaise ho? Humare friends ko ek problem se aksar gujarna padta hai, us problem ko hum normal language me kahte hai.. One sided love. Uff…bahut mushkil hai ise handle karna. But koi baat nahi, hum hai toh kya gum hai, isko bhi handle kar lenge! Toh aaj hum apne un friend ki problem ka solution denge, jinka question hota hai – Main ek Ladki Se Pyar Karta Hu, par Agar Ladki Pyar Na Karti Ho to Kya Kare. Ab kuch situations mein hota kya hai ki, ladka ek ladki se one sided love karta hai, aur jab wo use propose karta hai toh woh use yeh bol ke mana kar deti hai ki -“Main tumse Pyar Nahi Karti.” But ladka use itna pyar karta hai ki woh use kisi bhi halat me khona nahi chahta. But ab problem ye hai ki use manaye bhi to kaise, bole bhi to kya bole. Toh aisi situation me bas ek hi cheez dimag me aate hai – Yaar Main Kya Karu?. Hmmm…baat to sahi hai ki, Kya kare ab woh.

Toh chalo hum sab mil ke unhe ye batate hai ki, One sided love ko two sided love mein kaise convert kare. Hum sab hai na unko batane ke liye ki Ladki ko kaise manaye, ladki ko apne pyar mein kaise deewana banaye to fir tension ki kya baat hai.

Ladki Ko Apna Banane Ke Tarike

Ladki Ko Apne Pyar Mein Kaise Dale Tips

Agar aap ladki ek baar propose kar chuke hai or usne aapko relationship ke liye mana kar diya hai, toh pehli baat us cheez ko wahi chod do, uski baat ko dil se lagakar mat baithe raho. Aap apni friendship yaani Dosti me difference na lao, warna aap uske paas aane ka aur uske sath time spend karne ka mauka kho doge jo ki bilkul bhi acchi baat nahi hogi, aur phir toh aap use apne pyar mein kabhi nahi dal payenge. Toh is proposal ko aapko aur usko embarrass mat karne do. Pahle jaisa comfort level maintain karke rakho. Dhyan rakho ye cheez bahut important hai, agar yha aap fail ho jaate hai to fir bahut muskil ho jayegi.

Aur haan ladki ko manane ke liye, thoda patience level badhana padega, kyunki ladki nakhre bahut karti hai. Aapka pura patience level test karengi ladkiyan. Toh bas phir agar aap is stage ke liye ready hai, toh ab badhte hai aage..

⇒ Uski Care Karo

Ladkiyon ko caring ladke bahut pasand hote hai, so agar aap uski care karte hai toh uske aapki taraf attract hone ke chances badh jaate hai. But haan, aapke propose ke baad wo is care ko galat na samjhe is cheez ka dhyan jarur rakhna. Uske saath friendly behave karna taki use lage ki proposal ke baad or specially uske mana karne ke baad aapki dosti me kuch farak nahi aaya hai aur aapki friendship waise ki waise hai. Is cheez se wo aur jyada khush hogi.

⇒ Maturity Show Karo

Ye ek fact hai ki.. Ladkiyon ko mature ladke bahut pasand hote hai, aise ladke jo apna decision wisely (soch-samajh kar) lete ho. Usko impress karne ka idea bahut helpful hota hai, aap situation ko kaise deal karte ho aur us pure outlook ko kis tarah se perceive karte ho. Use show karo.. aapko Money, apne Expenditure, Savings sab ka bahut ache se khayal hai. Aap sab cheez ko carefully manage kar sakte hai. Aur aap apne career ko le kar bhi bahut serious hai. Aap har topic pe rationally or clearly sochte ho and Aap sab cheez ko equally leke chalte ho, chahe fir wo kisi topic pe baat ho, koi bhi conflict ho, disagreement ho to aapki image mature person ki banegi jo bahut important hai. 

⇒ Uske Likes & Dislikes Jaano

Ladkiyon ko aur jo baat achi lagti hai wo ye hai ki, jab ladke unke Likes, Dislikes, Interest, Family and Childhood mein interest lete hai. Usse uske interest ke baare mein baat karo, wo aur attract hogi. Ladkiyon ko bahut acha lagta hai, jab koi unhe sunta hai. Unke baare mein baat karta hai, aur ab us ladki ke liye aap wo banoge jisse wo baat kar sakti hai aur apni har baat ko suna sakti hai.

⇒ Friendship Mein Flirt Ka Tadka

In sab ke sath jab aap uske sath time spend karte hai toh aap kaafi ache friend ban chuke honge. Toh ab aap apni friendship mein flirt ka tadka add kar sakte ho. Aap baaton baaton mein use filmy romantic dialogue se impress kar sakte hai. Aur use kaise na kaise show karo ki, aapke lines mein chahe flirt hai but feelings orignal hai. But haan use kuch aisa na bolo ki use bura lage kyunki abhi wo aapki girlfriend nahi hai. So, dhyan rakhna doston, kahin baat badhane ki jagah bigad na dena.

⇒ Use Compliment Karo

Ladkiyon ko compliments bahut pasand hote hai. Koi unhe praise kare, unhe notice kare toh unhe ye worth lagta hai. Unhe lagta hai ki unka uske liye special time laga ke ready hona safal ho gaya hai. Isliye unhe praise kar do, use choti se choti success pe appreciate karo. Agar aapko lagta hai, usme koi change hai toh use is change pe compliment karo, isse use ye pata chalega ki aap use sach me notice karte ho. Compliment karne ke liye aapko jyada sochna nahi, just Be Simple and Clear like – Aapki Dress Ache Lag Rahi Rahi Hai, Aap Pe Ye Dress Suit Karti Hai, Yeh Colour Suit Karta Hai, Aapke Hairs Ache Hai bas aisa kuch.

Compliment karne mein ek baat ka dhyan rakhna, use simple compliments like Sweet, Cute, Beautiful aise compliments dein, ladkiyon ko aise compliments zyada pasand aate hain, rather than Hot, Sexy, Bold etc..

⇒ Usse Uske Baare Mein Baat Karo

Jab aap ladki ko impress karne ki koshish kar rahe ho aur jab bhi aap uske sath time spend karo toh usse baat karo – Uske baare mein, uski family, uski problems, har cheez ke baare me aur jo bhi wo bol rahi hai use ache se suno. Uski baaton ko attention do. Aap usse apni har baat share kar sakte ho, use lagega ki aap actual mein uske liye alag ho, jo aap use har baat share kar sakte ho. Use ye show karo uske sath spend kiya hua har time aapke liye special or memorable hai.

⇒ Uske Liye Message Drop Karo

Jab bhi aapki friend offline ho toh uske liye ek Cute & Loving message zaroor drop karo. Kyunki jab bhi wo net chalati hai toh wo aapka message zaroor expect karti hai, aur isse aapka kaam aur bhi aasan ho jata hai, use ye bhi lagta hai aap uske baare mein sochte ho aur aap sach mein use admire karte ho. Aap uski absence mein bhi uske baare mein sochte hai. Toh bas ek chota sa message bhi aapka kitna kaam kar sakta hai.

Toh mere Bindaas Doston, ye hai kuch desi tips Aapki Pasand Ladki Ko Aapse Pyar Karne Mein Help Karne Ke Liye. In tips ko ache se follow karna toh pakka positive results milenge. Aur haan jaise pehle bataya patience level zaroor badha ke rakhna, Jaldi mat karna, kyunki ladki agar pyar bhi karti hui na toh unse confess karwana aur bhi mushkil hota hai. Chalo pahle to aap bas use mana lo, phir use confess karwane mein bhi aapko Shivshi aapki help karegi.

Note

Doston, kyi baar aisa bhi hota hai ki, Ek ladka ek ladki se pyar karta hai ya use pasand karta hai par vo ladki usse pyar nahi karti jiske liye kuch bhi reason ho sakte hai. Agar vo ladki na hi us ladke se baat karna pasand karti hai aur na hi uski koi baat sunna chahti hai to ladke ko 1-2 baar usse baat karne ki kosish karne ke baad us ladki ke baare me sochna chod dena chahiye aur use tang nahi karna chahiye. Agar vo ladki mana kar rhi hai to obvious si baat hai kuch na kuch reason hoga aur jaruri nahi hai ki ladke ko bhi vo reason pata chale. Jab ladki ne strictly aur saaf-saaf mana kar diya to uski baat samajhni chahiye, bewakoof logon ki tarah pagalpanti nahi karni chahiye. Isse ladka sirf apna time barbad karta hai aur ladki ko bhi tang karta hai.

Kuch cases me, Agar ladki ne mana kar diya to kar diya, iska simple matlab hai ki vo ladke se koi pyar nahi karti aur na hi use usme koi interest hai. Aur aise me uske upar koi formula kaam nhi karega aur ladka use attract karne ke liye kuch bhi karega to ladki ko vo cheez aur torture hi karegi, jisse uski life me bhi problems aayegi aur uska dimag kharab hoga. So pyar karo, par dusre ko apne se pyar karne ke liye majbur karne ki kosish mat karo, kyunki aisa kabhi hota nahi.

Tution Ki Ladki Se Friendship Kaise Kare

Namaskar, Sat Sri Akal, Aadaab… Doston. To kaise ho aap? Main toh bahut badhiya hu, bas aapse baat karne ki wait kar rahi thi aur aap mera wait kar rahe the ya nahi, Jarur kar rahe honge, I know because Main hu hi itni Special 😛 . Main dekh rahi hu ki aaj-kal hamare friends ko Ladkiyon ko propose karne me problem aa rahi hai aur unhe friendship ke liye manane me bahut dikkat-preshani se gujarna pad rha hai. Waise toh problem aani bhi genuine hai.. Bhai ab, Ladki hai to nakhre toh dikhayegi hi aur jab use pata hai ki aap use follow karte hai ya usse friendship karna chahte ho toh phir toh ye nakhre aur bhi badhenge aur attitude bhi aayega.

Recently humse humare ek friend ne ek sawal pucha, vo ek baat ko le kar kasmkas me hai aur unhe ye samajh nahi aa raha ki, ab Main Kya Karu. Baat ye hai ki, vo apni ek tution ki ladki se friendship karna chahte hai aur use friendship ke liye manana chahte hai, but problem ye hai ladki ko manaye toh manaye kaise. Upar se humare dost thode se shy yani sharmile kisam ke insan hai aur is baat ka thoda sa dar bhi lagta hai kahi wo kuch aisa waisa na bol de. So basically unka sawal hai – Tution Ki Ladki Se Friendship Kaise Kare.

Toh bolo friends, hum karenge na inki help Apni pasand ki ladki se friendship karne me. Haan.. toh aapki taraf se haan hai toh kare phir shuru sab ko ye batana ki apne College/ University/Class/Tution ki ladki ko approach kaise kare?

Institute Ki Ladki Se Friendship Karne Ke Tips

Tution Ki Ladki Ko Approach Karne Ke Tarike

India mein toh Apni class ki ladki patana to vaise bhi world famous hai. Most of the Indian Ladkon ki common approach hoti hai apni class ki ladki ko patane ki, aur wo bhi class ki sabse sundar ladki ko patane ki. Toh chalo btate hai, is Ladki ko kaise Impress kare.

 🙄 Use Bulane Ka Koi Excuse Dhoondho

Iss cheez mein toh aap sab mahir ho 🙂 Waise toh aap samjh hi gaye hoge. Ji haan.. Pen sabse common excuse. Pen/ Pencil ya aisa kuch stationery material toh waise bhi ladkon ke paas muskil hi hota hai, toh bas phir mil gaya aapko excuse use bulane ka. Mang lo usse Pen or isi bhane usse thoda bahut interact bhi kar lena. Aur haan usse jab bhi pen borrow karo toh Pyar se aur good gestures ke sath or pen wapis karte waqt `Thank Youbolna galti se bhi na bhulein. Aapke yhi gestures or aapka first impression uspe work karega. Ye toh aapne suna hi hoga – `first impression is the last impression.` Toh bas make your first and last impression, the best.

 🙄 Notes Mang Lo

Kaise lag raha hai aapko ye excuse use bulane ka, Mujhe toh lagta hai ye chalta hai. In fact chalta nahi daudta hai. Maine bhi bahut baar, suna hai or dekha bhi hai 😉 It actually works. Use class notes lo, Use uske notes ke baare mein pucho like, xyz topic kaha hai, yeh kya hai aur Main aapke notes leke jaa sakta hu, kal wapis kar dunga, mujhe apne notes complete karne hai etc. etc… Vaise to aap log iss cheez mein expert hote hi ho to is baare me jyada btane ki jarurat hai nahi. Toh main ab aapko next cheez btati hu jo aapne karni hai.

 🙄 Notes Mein Ek Letter Likh Ke Do

Kuch samjhe ke kya karna hai? Haan, ab aapne notes toh unse le hi aaye ho toh ab jab aapka kaam ho jaaye notes ka toh unhe notes wapis karne se pehle, usme ek friendship note dalo. Ab iske liye karna ye hai ki, ek acha sa paper lo, if possible toh aap use heart shape mein cut kar sakte ho but zaroori nahi hai. Ab is sheet mein apna friendship proposal likho, like – `Will You Be My Friend`, `Can We Be Friends`. Ya phir aap kuch mysterious bhi kar sakte ho. Kuch aisa karo ki wo smile kare, like directly ek note likho jis pe likha ho – `Thanks For Being My Friend`. Isse woh sochne lagegi ki aisa kab hua, isse ya toh wo aapse baat karne aayegi ya bas ek smile karegi aapki is naughty yet creative harkat ke liye. Iss note ko uske notes mein rakho or notes use wapas kardo. Aur haan notes dete waqt aap use thodi baat kar sakte ho jaise, Hi! Hello! Kaise ho, Thanks for the notes. Aap use uski handwriting ke liye compliment bhi kar sakte ho. But haan uska wo note padne ke liye wait mat karte rehna.

 🙄 Friend Ke Through Approach Karo

Agar aap thode shy type hai ya aap use direct baat nahi kar paate toh is tarah ke cases me friends bahut help karte hai. Aapne dekha hoga ki wo aapko hamesha kuch na kuch bolte honge, salah dete honge, jaise ki – Jaa kar le baat, Kuch nahi hota yaar, Aise cases me peer pressure me aake kahin kaam kharab na kar liyo. Calmly sab kaam karna.

Aapke liye ek aur option hai, use kisi common friend ke through approach karo jo uski acchi friend ho aur aapki bhi friend ho(bahut close na bhi ho tab bhi chalega). Agar aap use direct kuch nahi bolna chahte toh apni friend ko bol sakte ho aapke behalf pe baat karne ke liye. Aur waise bhi isse aapka kaam jaldi ho jayega kyunki wo uspe pahle se trust karti hogi aur wo jaldi convince bhi ho sakti hai.

Note: But ek baat ka khyal jarur rakhein ki kuch girls is cheez ko negative bhi leti hai, like vo sochti hai jis person me apni baat kahne ki himmat bhi nahi hai vo vaise bhi relationship me kya karega. Aur vo sirf is vajah se bhi Naa kar deti hai. So kisi common friend ko involve karne se pahle is cheez ke baare bhi thoda jarur soch lein ki ye cheez us par kaam karegi ya nahi. Vaise Main personally sochti hu, agar aap khud baat karo to better rahega.

 🙄 Looks Se Impress Karo

Ye galat fehmi rakhne ki galti toh mat hi karna ki looks or taiyar hona sirf ladki ke liye important hai. Nahi! aap apni looks se bhi ladki ko impress kar sakte ho. Institute ya college jha bhi vo aapko milti hai vha jaate waqt apne looks ka pura dhyan rakho, apni Dress, Hairstyle, Shoes ka khaas khyal rakho (ye jaruri nahi ki aap bhut mehangi aur branded kapde hi pahno, aapko bas ye khyal rakhna hai ki aap jo bhi pahno vo aapke upar suit kare and saaf suthre well ironed jrur hone chahiye). Apni puri personality se jaao aur ladki khud aap se impress ho jayegi aur ho sakta hai aapse khud baat bhi kar le, but is cheez ki kabhi wait na karo to hi acha hoga. Agar aisa nahi bhi hota toh aapko use aapse baat karne ke liye jyada convince nahi karna padega. Aapki looks se aap mein confidence bhi aa jata hai aur aapka confidence me rehna bahut jaruri hai.

♠ Confidence Nahi to Kuch Bhi Nahi

Doston upar maine aapko har cheez easy language me detail me samjha di hai par ek baat aur aap jitni acchi tarah se samajh lein, aapke liye utna hi accha rahega. Aur vo baat ye hai ki – Aapke Andar Confidence Hona Bahut Jaruri Hai. Yadi aap me ladki se baat karne ka confidence nahi hai to besak rishta jud bhi jaaye, kisi tarah friendship ho bhi jaaye, it doesn’t last long. Agar aap seriously Us Ladki ko paana chahte hai to apne andar itni himmat jarur rakhein ki aap usse baat kar sakein, uski tareef kar sakein, use compliment de sakein and uske saath hansi-majak aur har tarah ki baat kar sako. Koi bhi ladki darpok aur boring kisam ka ladka nahi chahegi. 100 baat ki ek baat, Aashiqui ke liye Dum Chahiye.

Toh friend ye the kuch tips – `Coaching Ki Ladki Se Dosti And Friendship karne ke Tips`. Umeed hai aapko jarur acche lage honge. Kuch koshish karoge toh pakka successful bhi hoge, vaise bhi bina kosish kiye aaj tak kisi ne kuch hasil nahi kiya hai. Aur phir humare friends aur aapki apni Shivshi ke bataye hue tips aapke liye kaam na kare ye to possible hi nahi hai. yakeen maano humare friends ne aapko ye tips apne personal experience se diye hai 😉 toh work definitely karenge.

Ab agar aapke paas kuch or tips hai toh hume batana zaroor. Aur iske liye comment box toh aapko pata hi hai, niche hai. Toh phir milte raho aur baatein karte raho Apni Shivshi se. Ladki mane na maane  Shivshi hamesha apne friends ke liye hazir hai.. Wait karungi aapka. Bie… 🙂