Humare ek dost hai Satish, vo bechare aaj kal gam ke mahol me dube huye hai. Baat ye hai ki, Vo ek ladki ko pyar karte the vo adki bhi pyar karti thi fir kuch hua aur vo dono alag ho gaye. Ladki to kisi aur ke saath set ho gyi aur humare dost bechare us gam se nikal nhi paaye. Unhone apna ek mayusi bhara sawal humse pucha aur humari madad mangi hai so Main hamesha ki tarah unhe apni taraf se best answer dene ki kosish kar rhi hu. Aap log bhi unka sawal padhe aur jo sahi salah dena chahe vo comment ke jariye dein. Taki humare dost normal ho sake and unki zindgi fir se patri par aa jaaye.

Satish Ka Sawal…

Mam,

Main pahle ek ladki se bahut pyaar karta tha but hamara kuch month phle breakup ho gya… 🙁 Ab wo ladki kisi or se pyaar karne lagi. Pta nhi pyar karti hai ya nhi par mujhe pta laga hai ki uski kisi aur ke saath friendship chal rhi hai.

Wo ladki mujhe bar bar yaad aati hai.. Main usko bhulna chata hun. But bahut kosish karne ke bavjood wo bhulayi hi nhi jaati. Uski yaadein mujhe bahut preshan karti hai, Bahut Tadpati hai.. Main Kya Kru help me plzzz…

Shivshi Ka Jawab..

Dekho Dear mujhe achi tarah pta hai ki jise hum pyar karte hai use kho dena Dil ko bahut dukh deta hai aur yaadein preshan karti hai. Main ye sab achi tarah se isliye janti hu kyunki main khud ye situation jhel chuki hu. Aapko ek aur baat btau… Ye website bhi maine isi liye bnayi thi taki is sabse jo maine seekha aur samjha vo sabke saath share kar saku aur jitne logon ki ho sake unki help karu.

Ab suno… Agar aap meri baat manoge to main aapko guarantee deti hu ki ab se aapko uski yaad bilkul bhi tang nhi kregi. Balki kabhi kabhi use yaad karke aapko khud ko acha feel hoga. Dekho aapko karna kya hai – Khud ko Busy rakhna hai.

Apne aap ko jitna busy rakh sakte ho utna busy rakho. Mujhe puri umeed hai aap kuch na kuch jrur karte honge, padhayi ya job ya koi bhi kaam. Jo bhi aap karte ho us field me apne liye ek extreme target set karo, matlab ek aisa aim bnao zindagi ka jise jab aap hasil karo tab aapke Papa ka seena Garv se phool jaaye aur aapki Mammi ke aanshu na ruko. Us target ko hasil karna hi karna hai, kisi bhi keemat par.

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Dear super successful bano. Bada socho, bada kaam karne ke liye apni puri effort lagao. Duniya me aisa koi target nhi hai jo hum achieve nhi kar sakte bas uske liye junoon bharo dil me. Ye soch ke din raat ek kar do ki, ek din jab us ladki ko aapki safalta ka pata chale to ye ye soche ki – “Usne aapko chod kar Zindagi ka sabse galat decision liye tha.

Humare liye duniya me Bhagwan humare Mata Pita hai fir koi aur, isliye sabse pahle Unke liye socho jinhone apni zindgi sacrifice karke aapko har khushi di aur dene ki kosish ki. Aap ye socho ki aapne unke liye kya kiya hai abhi tak, ya jo kiya hai.. kya vo kaafi hai. Pyar to Maa ka sacha hota hai us maa ke liye jiyo fir dekho aapko kabhi koi gam chu bhi nhi sakta.

Mujhe umeed hai ki main jo kehna chahti hu vo aap samajh sakte ho. So Stand Up my friend and don’t think about that girl. Har waqt apne target ko achieve karne ke baare me hi socho, usme jo maja hai vo kisi aur cheez me nhi. 🙂

I hope my answer will help you. God Bless you. Aur ye tips jitne bhi dost aise hai jo pyar, Ishq, Dhokha waali situation se gujar rhe hai un sabke liye hai. Soch ke dekho. Yhi shi tareeka hai. Jab aapke paas uske baare me sochne ka waqt hi nhi hoga to uski yaad preshan nhi kar payegi. Tab aapko usko yaad karne ke liye time nikalna padega. Humara dimag bahut powerful hai uska shi istemal karo. Try it my friend. Try this.

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Mera naam jitendra parmar he mujhe apni wife ki yaad aati he or dil bhi bechen rahata he Kyo ki wo apne Mata pita ke pass rahana pasand karati he meri shadi (7 years) ho chuki he wo mere pass sirf (6 month) hi rahi he or is time bhi wo apne father ke pass he es karad mere ghar wale bhi paresan he me aap se bas yahi chahata hu ki mujhe us ki yaad kabhi nahi aaye or mujhe usase nafarat ho jaye or me apni jindgi dobare se start Kar Saku mujhe aapne ummeed he plzzzzzzzzzz

  2. mam
    please help me
    mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu aur wo bhi Krti Hai but uski shadi hone wali hai Mai use bhulne ke liye try karta hu but nhi kar pa raha because hm done ,ek hi class me baithte hai aur wo mere bagal wali seat share karti hai aur daily call bhi karti hai
    kya please help me uske sath Rhte huye kaise bhulu use

  3. Didi me bhut musibat me hu mujhe samaj nhi aa rha h..plz help me kese bi kr ke mere se cont.krne ki kosis kro.. Me gr se singal hu or garib bi.. To me apne mammy or papa ko ye sb kese batau…kis mu se mujhe maar dalenge ya khud sdme me ho jayenge…. Mere se pyaar ka khel khel kr larki or uski famly mujhe blackmail…kr rhe h. me kya kru…ab mere pass mrne ke aalva koi rasta nhi….

  4. Sister aap jo work kar rhi h ye bhot hi batter h kuch hmare apne Aim se bhatak ja rhe h h and apko bhagvan bt khusiya d m bhi in chizo se gujar rha hu but ye muge hara nhi paygi Aapko bhagavn bhot sara pyar aur khusiya d

  5. Hello shivshi ji mera naam farman he delhi se hu me bs ese hi net pr time pas kr rha tha or tabi me apki websit pr pohcha logo ke sawaal padhe or apke jawaab bi bhot acha laga is trha ki website dekh kr or kafi sukun bi mila logo ke sawal padh kr ke me akela nahi hu is raat ki tanhayi me kisi ko yaad krne wala or bi bht he mere jese lekin mera koi sawaal nahi he apse bs apse ek bar call pr bat krne ki chahat he or ye zruri bi nahi he k apse bt zrur ho ye bht hi pagalpn wali bt h pr me kya kru mere man jo ata he me bol deta hu pr apke jwab padkr apki bate padh kr mene itna jana he ke aap bhot achi he or aap apni life me ek dm clear he or aap dusro ke liye bi yhi chahti he ke log apni zndgi me uljhe na rhe aap un sbi ko suljhana chahti he qki aap is uljhan se guzar chuki he kher pta nahi ye msg aap tk pohcheg ya nahi pr mjhe abi bht nind a rhi he fir mulakaat hogi shivshi ji tb tk k liye Gud nit & take care & God bless you allahfiz

  6. Hello mem me kuldeep me do sal se ek ladki se pyar karta hu aur vo bhi muchse karti hai vo do sal se muchse sadi karne ki kah rahi thi me bhi use sadi karna chahta hu an jab mere ghar Vale is sadi me like razi ho gaye to an vo kah rahi hai ki me tumse sadi nahi kar sakti me apne ghar balo ki marzi se sadi karungi aur an uski jaldi hi sadi hone vali hai jab muche pata chala ki uski jaldi hi sadi hone Bali hai tab se me bahut paresan rah raha hu an aap hi bataye ki me is sadme se kese bahar niklu jabki vo mere ghar me pass hi rahti hai aur muche ye bhi bataye ki vo muchse pyar karti this to kisi aur se sadi kyu kar rahi hai aur me usko kese bhulu vo mere ghar me pass hi rahti hai

    1. aap usse ek baar milne ko bulao aur pucho ki problem h kya, mana teri sadi khi aur ho rahi h but tujhe mujhse problem kya hui yeh bta dein bss

  7. didi mera naam Akash he meine ek ladki ko dekha usne bhi mujhe dekha hum log her roj dekhte the uska ghar aur mera ghar pas he magar uske gharwale aur mere gharwale baat nahi karte isliye humari baat karneki himmat nahi hoti Magar ek sawal mujhe hamesha tang karta he ki wah mujse pyar karti he ki nahi magar kuch month s pehle mei usase pyar nahi karta tha Magar jabse humari nazre mili he tabse mujhe usase pyar ho gaya he aur o pehale jaisi mere aur nahi dekhti he to mei kya karu mujhe usase bahut pyar he mei mar jaunga wah mujhe na mili to………….

  8. didi mera naam Akash he meine ek ladki ko dekha usne bhi mujhe dekha hum log her roj dekhte the magar uske gharwale aur mere gharwale baat nahi karte isliye humari baat karneki himmat nahi hoti Magar ek sawal mujhe hamesha tang karta he ki wah mujse pyar karti he ki nahi magar kuch month s pehle mei usase pyar nahi karta tha Magar jabse humari nazre mili he tabse mujhe usase pyar ho gaya he aur o pehale jaisi mere aur nahi dekhti he to mei kya karu mujhe usase bahut pyar he mei mar jaunga wah mujhe na mili to………….

  9. Hi mam,
    Main ek ladke ko bahut pyar karti hu wo mujhe shadi.com par Mila Tha sab Kuch thik Tha usne apni mammi ko mere ghar bheja or wo mujhe shagun k rupye b dekar gai Maine b apne papa ko uske yaha bheja pehle to Ghar wale mere agree nhi the but Maine bahut mushkil se sabko manaya but ab uska kehna Hai k uski family ko main pasand nhi ab workout mujhse baat b nhi Karta main uske bina nhi reh pa rahi pehle kehta Tha k kuch b ho jaye mujhse hi shadi karega but ab nhi Wo ab mana kar raha hai ab mere ghar wale mera rishta kahi or kar rahe hain Mera kahi or shadi karne ka Mann hi nhi Kar raha ap bataiye m Kya karu wo ye b Keh Raha Hai k koshish Kar sakta hu sabko manane ki but mera wait mat karna aise m main Kya karu uski bahut yaad aati Hai Maine usko kahi baar samjhaya but wo kehta Hai k main tumhare layak nhi tum wahi Kar lo Jahan Ghar wale keh rahe hain mam please help main Kya kru

  10. Hi Didi, mera naam kittu h…emeri relationship meri classmate se thi joki Muslim thi…..4 mhine relationship mrhne k bd us ldki n give up kr diya…reason btaya h ki ghr waalo ko pta chl gy h..or go ldki an class ki bench p apnefirst bf ka name likhti h…to kya go ldki lyf m bapas aa skti h……sb him ek foosre ko ni dkhte h class m..kya no baat kregi mjhse …bo dusre logo se khti h ki me phli jese ni ho paa rhi hu…kya use meri yd aati hogi.

    1. yeh baat toh woh hi aapko bata sakti hai aap usse ek baar ja kar miliye aur baat kariye as a friend tabhi sab normal hoga.

  11. Ek ladki thi dusre dharam ki mujhse bahut pyaar krti thi bolti thi tujhse dur hoke mar hi jaungi phir baad me ham dono k bich sex bhi hua but uske baad mujhe ignore krne lagi aur phir mujhe bolne lagi ki mujhse shadi krna hai to muslim ban nahi to main nahi krungi . Aur kahi aur uska rista jud gaya phir pata nhi kya hua cancel ho gaya rista phir maine usse baat band krdi phir wo kuch months baad aayi aur baat krne lgi but as a friend mujhe laga pyaar krti hai but aisa nhi tha. Phir ignore krkr chali gayi aur 1 saal baad aayi but boli pyaar nhi krti as a friend aayi hu . Maine use bola ki sex k baad tera pyaar mar gaya tha dhokebaaz hai tu to bolti hao religion ki wazah se majbur hu. main bahut confusion me hu kya ho raha h ye. Kya usse baat kru ya phir ignore kru

    1. May be, woh aapse pyar karti hai par bol nahi pati hai becouse of relogion so aap usse ek baar paat kare aur clear kare ki saath rehna hai ya nahi.

  12. Hi didi mera naam rahul h mai ek ladki se pyaar krta tha par maine usse kabhi kuch kaha nhi to ek din meri usse whatsapp par baat hui to usne bola jo tum chahte ho mai janti hu to mai bola kya to usne kaha tum hi bolo pehle maine usse bol diya that i love u to usne kaha ki aaj se mujse baat mat krna aur wo mere hi class m h mai kya kru

      1. Hii
        Shivshi mai ek larki se bat krta tha but uska phle koi bf tha but use chor diya tha or mai us bat krta tha maine use parpose mar diya but wo larki muje bhao hi nhi deti hai direct mana kr diya or muje uske liye love filling aati hai tai mai trap jata hu kuch samj nhi aata ki kya karu plzz help me koi aaisa solution dijiye ke mai use bolu to wo mere liye love fill kre plzz just replied shivshi ji

        1. see love bolne se nahi hota hai yeh baat toh bahut natural hai, baki aapko usse pyar hai ya hone laga hai toh thora sabar se kaam lein unko aap yeh bole ki thora time lein aur aapke bare mein soche isse aapka impression acha padega aur woh aapke bare mein zarur sochegi.

  13. meri an girlfriend hy wo mujhe she ab bat nehe krti or na he mera phone pick krti hy.main kya kro?

    1. aap usko ek massage karo jiss mein aap usko bolo ki aapse baat kare aapne kuch zaruri baat karni hai aur sara kuch clear ker lein.

  14. meri wife bhut demanding hai hmesha apni krti hai mera 4 mnths ka baby bhi bina btaye apni maa ke sath ja ke abort kr diya or divorce manng rhi hai bhut smjhaya lekin nhi manti main us se bht pyaar krta hu mere ghrwle kehte hai wo tere layak nhi thi beta shadi ke baad 6 mhine stdy ki delhi mein or puchne par btaya tk ni wo kahan rhti hai beech beech mein aati jati rahi kuch puchta hu to kehti hai shk krte ho mam mujhe us bache ka bhut wait tha jb khin or hi rhna tha to mujse shadi kyu kib or ab mujhpe hsti hai

    1. aapke ghar wale sahi bolte hai jo ladki itna ker sakti hai ke aapki bina salah ke abort kara dein uska aage ja kar pata nahi kya hoga isse acha aap usko divorce dede.

  15. Meri Gf jo bhut intelligence hai or apna dimag game khele me lagti hai keise apne bf ko use kare
    bass apna kaam hoga toh call or msg karegi warna kabhi baat nhi hogi
    or humeaha selfish hi rehti hai
    aisi ladki ko realize keise kar waauga woh woh humeasha galat rehti hai but sorry mujje bolna padhta hai
    yaah sab khtam kar do yeah bol kar
    game is over

    1. Simple si baat hai use tumse koi Pyar vyar nhi hai, relationship ke naam par vo sirf tumhe use (istemal) kar rhi hai aur tum ek Bewakoof Nasamjh ki tarah uske isharon par naach rhe ho. Mujhe taras aata hai tum jaise logon par… Agar thodi bhi apni najron me ijjat bachi hai to use bolo – Bhaad me jaa.
      Aur apni life me aage badho, aisi ladki ke chakkar me pad kar life barbad mat karo pls.

  16. Hlo mam, mera nam rajiv hai mai apne college ki ek ldki se bhut he pyar krta hu, lekin o kinhi or ko like krte hai, mai un se dur hona chahta hu, bt hm se ho nii pata ( plzz help me)

    1. Mann ko control karna seekho, aise agar abhi apne ko control karna nahi seekhoge to aage bahut jyada problems ho sakti hai.

  17. Hy mam me jabalpur say ho mera name ritik hai ur kuch month pehle he mera meri gf say break up ho gya muje uski bohut yaad aati h mai kya kro because Syd me uske bina nhi je sakta

    1. to aap unse contact kare aur patchup kar lein. unko samkjaye ki aap unse kitna payar karti hai.

  18. Hi mem
    Meri sagai Ho chuki h or vo Ladki mujse bot pyar krti h use bhi mujpar etna ykin h ki m use jaan se bhi zada pyar krta Hu
    But m asa nhi Hu meri kafi sari gf rh chuki h
    Lekin ab nhi h m meri sagai hui es ladki se pyar nhi kr pa rha Hu ab aap btaye kese kru usse pyar kus smj nhi aata

    1. Koi baat nahi bas tum sacche dil se loyal bane rho pyar to ho jayega, vaise bhi jo ladki itna pyar karti hai usse pyar bhut jaldi ho jaata hai..

    1. Agar aap khush rehna chahte ho to mera yakeen karo ye baat accept karo ki vo aapko pyar nahi karti, Main ek ladki hu aur ye samajhti hu ki aisa hi hai isliye ab uske baare me sochna band karo aur life me aage badho..

  19. mam me phle ak ladki se bhut love krta tah wo bhe muj se bhut love krte the but ab us ladki ka or koi boyfriend h me usko bhula nhe pa rha hu kya kru m e

    1. Sabse pahle use bhulane ki kosish karna band kar do aur apne kaam par dhyan do, life ka time nikal raha hai ise barbad mat karo, zindgi me kuch banne ki socho aur uske liye mehnat karo, sab khud-b-khud theek hone lagega.

  20. hii mam
    meri gf thi, jiske sath mera brekup ho chuka he or vo mujhse phir relesion karna chahti he jabardasti but me redy nahi hu, relesionship k liye. ab aap hi batao me kya karu…?

  21. shivshi ji…yrr..meri ek problem h ki ma kesi ladki sa bt nahi kar pata hu…so please help me….ap .muja kuch idea n kuch esa trip do jissa ma ussa impers kr saku

  22. bina payar ke zindagi adhuri lag rahi sabkuch hi mere pass sirf duniya ko dikhane ke liye payar nahi islie mere ko tanha sa zindagi lagata hi……………..
    its my problems………. please di bataye kya kare………..

    1. Dear jab tak aap pyar ko yha vha dhundhte rhoge vo nahi milegi, aap apne kaam me lage raho, apni life me successful banne ke liye Hard Work karo aur fir destiny khud aapko aapki Dilruba se mila dega, bas apna Dimag khula rakhna 🙂

  23. Hello dosto koi mera paresani ka hal batao mai kya karu
    Mai ek ladki se pyar karta hu aur 2013 me ham dono ne cort marrige kiye hai aur padhai ki wajah se hum dono aaps me bt krke apne apne ghar me rahte the aur 2016 me 26 jan ko rista leke bheja to ladki wala bola puch ke bataunga aur ladki ghar me ha bol diya phir ladki ko dat dabao karte rha esi bech me ladki ne kisi aur ladke ke sath 6 feb ko ghumne chala gsya aur sex krke aa gaya aur mujhe pta chal gaya phir ladki ne btaya ki glti se ye sb ho gaya sirf dost hai kahke aur mai us din se mo ko le liya es bich me hum dono ke bte aur milte the phir 15 din bad ladki no me msg aaya to ladki ko bola to bola mujhe nhi pta khke to mai use bulwaya aur us ladke ko mara bhi aur thana tk bt pahuch gaya aur hum dono ko thana le gaya phir hum lpg aps me samjhuta hoke waps ghar a gaye thana wali bt ladki ghar me pta chal gaya phir usko dt dabav lagaya aur ab ladki bol rhi hai ki mai tumhare sath nhi rahna chahtaaur bt bhi nhi krta aur wo ladki pregnant hai mere taraf se ab kya karu batao plz mai abhi bhi us ko rakhne ke liye taiyar hu kyoki mai us lfki se bahot pyar karta hu ab kya karu ki ladki phir meere pass rahne ke liye man jaye plz help me plz plzplz

    1. Aap uske ghar jaao aur uski family se har baat open karke batao. I know this is so difficult but iske alawa koi aur rasta nhi hai. jab aap uske parents se sab baat sach sach btaoge to vo gussa jarur honge par lastly unhe ladki ki marriage aapse karane me hi sab sahi lagega aur vo aisa hi karenge. So don’t waste much time and go to her home. Aur agar aap apni family me bhi kisi person ko sab baat pahle se bata do aur unse bhi salah lo to jyada accha hoga. Jo bhi karo dnt waste time.

  24. hy.mam main Sahil Mehra from Rohtak

    mam main aapko btana chahunga Ki meri life me ek ladki h jisse m bhut pyar karta hu .. our WO bhi mujhse bhut pyar karti hai.. lekin na mere ghar wale khush hai na uske ghar wale .. lekin mam main uske bina nahi reh Sakta…our ek din usne kha Ki main tumse pyar nahi karti pheer Maine usse pucha Ki q nhi karti to usne kha ki mere papa ne bola Ki use bhool jao.. nahi to tumhare papa mar jayega.. ab aap hi btao mam m kya karu m uske bina nahi reh sakta plj help me mam plz

    1. Tumhari is baat ka jawab main kuch dino me site par ek new article publish karke dungi, site par visit karte rho tumhe tumhara jawab jaldi hi mil jayega.

    1. me’m ham kya kare anupam aaj tak nahi mili 6 years bit gaya ham use payar karte wo mujse payar nahi kart but bachpan me ham class frinds the wo aaj se 10 years ago mera ghar v aathi thi jab ham payar nahi jante the…. ab uske bina koi or larki se dil nahi lagata…….

    2. agar wo apse pyar nahi karte aur aap itni cheez jante bhi ho toh phir kyu itna time usko leke beithe ho. aapko itna time uski wait karne ki bjaye, move on karna chahiye. kabh kabhi ye sab kuch hi aage move on karna ka reason banta. so be positive.

  25. mam mi.ek gril.se bhut pyar krta hu phale too vo bhut phone krte thee ab too phone hi nhi krte h aur fb pr friend request bhi accept nhi kr rahe hai ! mi kya karu

    1. sahi kaha kartik, agar ap successful honge toh apko koi bhi kise cheez ke liye mana nahi kar payega aur aap in sab cheezo se upar uth jayenge.

  26. hy shivashi ji mai ak bahut bara dharam sankat mai hu mai
    ak larki sa pyar karta
    hu wo kisi or sa pyar
    karte hai mai usa apna
    love ka bare mai bata ka
    usa heart nahi karna
    chahata hu issa hamari
    dosti v tut sakte hai mai ussa jitna chaha utna dur rahana
    chahata hu par usa mila
    bina ussa baat kiya bina
    mai nahi rah sakta mai
    sakta mai ussa jitna
    chaha utna dur rahana
    chahata taki wo hamasha
    kush raha mai usa bhulna
    ka liya kya karu please
    help me

    1. Sachi btao bhulne ki koshish ki? kaise ki thi yeah koshish, bas ek baar bat karlo phir nahi, bas aj ka din, aj ka din, aise karke. Aise nahi hota kuch. Agar uske khushi ki itni tension hai aur seriously bhulna chahte ho toh apne man ko ek hi baar samjha lo na, nahi ab nahi aur kabhi nahi aur aap uske bina reh sakte ho. Apne aap ko usse jayda kahi aur busy rakho, friends ke sath raho, tv dekho, family sath time spend karo, movies dekho, kuch din usko mat dekho, mat dhyan do, sab kuch ho jayega.

    1. Dekho friend usne jaana tha so vo chali gyi ab uske baare me soch soch ke apna dimag kharab karne ki koi jarurat nhi hai. Ab aap apne kaam par dhyan do aur kuch achieve karne karne ki kosishkaro. Apne friends and family ke saath time spend karo, masti karo, films dekho aur jab uska khyal aapke dimag me aaye to us par dhyan mat do bali apne aap ko busy kar do. Aapko apne mind ko control karna hoga, fir kuch time me cheeze apna aap sahi hone lagegi.

        1. Use bhulane ki kosish karna chod do… Aur apni life me successful banne par jor lagao, sab kuch bina kuch kiye hi theek ho jayega.

  27. mam mai 5 to 6 yes pehle mere uncle k ghar gaya that vaha meri frndship ek ladki she hui din spent hote gaye for ek fin usne mera num mnga Maine diya for jab main mere ghr aaya usne muje msgs se contact krti rahi fit achanak we usne mujse baay krni bandh krdi mam mai aaj bhi us ladki ko bohot pasand krta hu mam mai usse shadi kRNA chahta hu plz help me

    1. kya ab aap us ladki se mil sakte hai, baat kar sakte hai? nahi na, toh phr kyu us ek ladki ki wajah se sab kuch kharab karna aur wo bhi jab itna time ho gya ho. life me aur bhi bahut kuch hai. Aur kya us ladki ne kabhi bola tha apse shaddi karne ko ya use apke irade pata the shaddi ke. agar wo ab baat nahi kar rahi toh matlab wo intersted nahi hai dear, toh apko use bhul ke move on karna chahiye. Ho sakta apko usse bhi achi ladki mile.

  28. mam mai apni gf ko bhulna chahta hu kyoki ab uski sadi hone wali hai to mai usko puri tarah bhulna chahta hu per uski bahut yaad ati hai kabhi kabhi to mai rone lagta hu aap mughe use bhulne ka sabse accha tarika bataye mai aap ka ahesan jindgi bhar nahi bhulunga

  29. hii mam meri ek ladki se dosti hui lekin kuch din baad hi mera break up ho gaya ….uskke ek saal baad taak me use bhul nh paya hu mujhe uski bhut yaad aati h me use fir se dosti karne me liye kya bolo vo mujhse baat tak nh karna chahti h…

  30. Mere jo GF he vo muje bhot presan ker the he rat ko baat mere se krege o’er subhe pucho to apne. Bf se baat ker rhe the bol the he o’er aebhi mene us se baat ker na band ker deta he kyu ke me nhi chta ke vo mere se aleg hoe es leye me kya kru btaao plezz…..

    1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

  31. Mam main use 8 saalo se chalta hu per bol nahi pata aur jab bola to usne kha ki WO phele kuch banana chati hai aur main to usse chota bhi hu ……….aur kha him frnd reh sakta hai isse age kuch nahi…….to Ab main kya karu bhool jai use kyuni WO mujhe main bilkul bhiin intrested nahi hai.

  32. Hi mam mera naam abhi h me ek ladki se bhout pyar krta hu.vo meri do saal se gf bhi this par mahine a vo kisi aur k sath h.maine usse usse aapne sare no band kr diy the.vo ab bhi kisi aur ladke chaless gf 2dun phele meri uske sath lgyi kisi topic par to maine usse cha rater less btamiz time paas ptani kya kya bol diya.phir maine usse kal milke sorry bola usse pyar se samajya to bola ki ussene bola ki tujhe galat femi h .maine use bhout sorry bola aur usse porpose kr diya to mam usne mujhe kuch reply nhi diya .maine usse phir sorry bola aaj paur porpose kiya sms me to usse kuch reply nhi diya vo baat nhi kr rhi muj ab aur koi answer deti h mere sms ka aur mobile pe baat krti rhe i pta nhi kise .maine usse bhout br i love u bola sorry bhi bola pr ussene koi reply nhi kiya vo sayad ab kisi aur ladke se pyar krti h. Sayad mere puchne pr ussne mujhe kuch ch nhi kha mam me usse bhout pyar krta hu mam mujhe btao mujhe ab kya krna chahiye me bhiut pareshan hu.mam plz reply me.

    1. Suno Abhi, sabse pahle to apna dimag shant karo aur meri baat dhyan se suno..
      Aapne galti ki thi aur Aapka kaam tha ki aap usse ye baat btao aur apni galti ke liye maafi mango par aapke ye sab karne ke baad bhi jab vo aapki sunne ke lye taiyar nhi hai to aapko uske liye preshan nhi hona chhaiye becoz vo aapse pyar nhi karti aur jabardasti kisi ko apne aap se pyar karne ke liye majbur karna sabse badi bevkufi hai. Vo aapse sacha pyar nhi karti aur agar aapne use pa bhi liya to aapko kabhi sacchi khushi naseeb nhi hogi so let her go wherever she wants to go. Live Life happy and Enjoy every second 🙂

  33. … hie …mam … itz meh.. sam
    actually story kuch aesi.. hai k.. k ek ladki hai…. i love her…. but abhi sirf frenshp chl rhi hai… i proposed but she insisted me to be fren…. baat krti… khoob batein… but frenshp k aage jana nhi chahti…. n uski life mein koi or ladka bhi nhi hai….. mere siva kisi k sathbaat bhi nhi krti.. bcuz fb pe bhi main hi use leke aya hun… abhi main kya kru krun… sud i cntiue to talk wid her… ya nhi….

  34. … hie …mam … itz meh.. sam
    actually story kuch aesi.. hai k.. k ek ladki hai…. i love her…. but abhi sirf frenshp chl rhi hai… i proposed but she insisted me to be fren…. baat krti… khoob batein… but frenshp k aage jana nhi chahti…. n uski life mein koi or ladka bhi nhi hai….. mere siva kisi k sathbaat bhi nhi krti.. bcuz fb pe bhi main hi use leke aya hun… abhi main kya krun… sud i cntiue to talk wid her… ya nhi….

  35. hello, mene v kisi ladki ko pyar kiya h aur ab bo mujhe najar ho gai h to humara brikeup ho gya h.mujhe ye thik ni lg rha h.kuki mene unse sadi ki thi.agar koi rasta ho ki bo bapis a jaye to help me.

    1. aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck 🙂

  36. mam mera name lucky hai me jis ladki se pyar karta tha wo ab kise or ladke se bat karne lagi hai.or mujhe usko bhulana namumkin hai.mam aap batayiye ke me kya karu

  37. hello madam main ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hun or vo bhi mijse bahut pyar karti hai kuch din pehle hi us me GHAR walo ne use mujse door karke use kahi door bej diya hai main ab kya kru

    1. Dear agar wo bhi aap se true love karti hogi to jarur aap se contact karegi nahi to ayeh zndagi kisi ke liye rukti nahi hai aapko bhi life me ageh badh jana chahiye.

  38. u are right

    jo aap ne keha h mujhe bhut acha lga
    but ye meri life me ho chuka h to
    may b apni life may kuch bnaa chata hu
    esliye may b apne target ko dekhta hu

  39. hiii shivani ji:) meri gf ka naam bhi shivani h..
    vo kbhi mujhse milne nii aati hr bar mna kr deti h…
    raste me khai jati h to me kehta hu ki me molne aa jau vo fir bhi mna kr deti h..
    date pr bhi ni jati..
    us ka ik frnd h.. sumit naam ka vo us ko apna bhai bhi btati h us ko hmre relationship k bare me bhi pta h..
    vo us k saat to chli jati h bt kbhi mere saat ni jati bahit dukh hota h..
    me us se real love krta hu vo smj kuu ni rhi..
    plz plz plz help me plz help me..
    bs vo mujhse phn pr hii baat krti h..
    face 2 face kbhi nii..

    1. Vo ladki aapse pyar nhi karti, so better hoga aap use paane ki sochne ki bajaye kisi kaam ki cheez me apna time aur dimag lagao. Jo sach hai use maano, aankh band karke uska naam mat japte rho, because usse kuch nhi hoga, sirf time waste ke alawa.

  40. madam plz help me I am serious mai life se bahut disappointed ho gya hu Main ek ladki se bahut 2 pyar karta hu wo bhi bolti h mujhe pyar karti hu lekin main jitna karta hu utna nahi karti mai har gadi har pal bas uske bare mai sochta rehta hu uski yaadein mujhe bahut preshan karti hai, Bahut Tadpati hai unki khushi ke liye maine kya kya nahi kiya jo demand kiya sub pura kiya 37000 ka gold ka chen diya mahnga mobile diya bahut sara paisa bhi diya or bhi bahut kuch lekin ab mere se bat nahi karti 1 ghnta bhi time nahi nikal sakti 10 20 minutes hota nahi h or bolti ho mujhe kam h ghar jana h sirf rat me hi bat karti hai,uske bare mai jab sochta hu mujhe bht tension hota hai mujhe uske upar bahut sak jata h tera koi boyfriend h tabhi mujhse bat nahi kar rhi h but wo bahut kasam khati h apne mammi papa ka bua ka or bhagwan ka ki mera koi boyfriend nahi h karke mai use milna chahta hu lekin wo milna nahi chahti mai use sacha pyar karta hu, mai kiss karna chahta,magar kaise karu

  41. Hello shivasi
    My name is raghav from jpr Muje ek cousin se pyar Ho gya tha or usse b mujse pyar Ho gya tha pahle tikh se bat krti thi sab kch krti thi Maine usko kiss b kiya sex ko chod kr sab kch kiya but ek din Maine uski ek bat ni mani to wo mujse naraj h uss din se or Muje bolti h ki ab Tu mujse bat Mat kiya kr bat kre to kiss or in sab k liye Mat kiya kr bolti h ki ab se Tu mera Bhai h behan samj kr bat kiya kr ye wo pata ni Kya Kya Bol deti h Muje ki Mai ab tujse pyar ni krti or Mai saala usko bhul ni pata ab aap hi batao Mai Kya kru??

    1. Vo sach me aapki behan lagti hai aur aapko sharam aani chahiye. Deen-dharam hai kuch ya sab bech khaya hai. Thoda to socha karo kuch karne aur kahne se pahle aap log.

  42. hi my name is navi bhinder mari life may ik ladki ayi jiska name tha mahima yr 3 sal rhi humari voh tu krti nhi thi kbhi oska phn pay kisa or ka sth chat dekhna kbhi kuch kbhi kuch bus jab pakdi jati thi tu sry bol deti thi or may v pgl may maff kr deta yr voh chod gyi 3month o gya koi or mil gya may Etna krta o ki bhul nhi pa RHA plzz help yr..may pgl o oska picha

    1. Kya samajh me nhi aa rha hai ? Vo tumhe chutiya bana rhi hai isliy ab kuch sochne ki jarurat hi nhi hai, bhaad me jaane do use. Aur usse har tarah ke contacts khatam karo, us ladki ka kya character hoga jo ghum kisi ke saath rhi hai aur kehti hai pyar tumse hi karti hu.

  43. Hiii…..this side Rohit ….mei apni g.f ke sath last 3 years se relationship mei tha…sab thk chal reh tha ….Maine apne ghar pe bhi bta dia tha …..then ek din mei ghumne gya aus ke sath pher achnak ausi din aus ne bola ab mere ko relationship mei ni rehna …..then mere ko lga ki mere ko smoking krte dekh lia ha sirf 1 week hua tha start kare mere ko but Maine sab clear kra aus ko pher bhi ni Mani vo….then ek din aus ko help chayie thi Maine puri help ki ….Maine pucha koi problem ha toh batao mere ko but aus be lightly reply dia tu khud soch tune Kay kia ha …then mere ko khud ni pta chla abhi tak Maine Kay kia ASA?. AUs me mere ko sirf bola tu mera hamesha acha Frnd rehega ( Mam Maine aus ko kabhi intercourse tak ke lia ni bol …..balki kabi humre bech mei asi koi baat hoti thi toh vo khud bol deti thi …per mei maina kar deta tha I always said after marriage aus se phele kuch ni) …..Maine bola koi aur mill gya na tere ko pher aus ne bola mere ko mei kise se ni krna chati mere ko yahi ek kaam ha Kay….but ajj bhi meri AU’s se baat hoti ha…..reh ni pta jab tak aus ka reply ni at a….pic na dekh lu …aus ka last seen na dekh lu……apne app ko busy rekhne ki koshish ki but kita busy rakhu? Baat baar aus ki I’d mei Jana msg krna apne app ko rook ni pta….what can I do?

  44. Hello,
    shivshi
    my name is abhilash
    Me jis ladki se pyaar karta tha vo bhi mujhe like karti thi hamne apne family ko bhi bataya ghar wale shaadi ke liye bhi taiyar the par achanak pata nhi mere gf ko kya hua ab vo bolti hai mere mom dad taiyar nhi hai par uske pariwar wale bhi ready the.Par ab vo mujhse baat bhi nhi karna chahti jab phone karta hu uske family bolte hai vo ghar par nhi hai.pls help me

  45. Hello everyone!
    Mai aapke hr tarah ki taklif ko khatm krne ki kala bata skta hu lekin krna apko khud hi hoga. Apka jeevan itna khush ho jaega jitna kbhi ummid hi ni kiya hoga. Isi khushi ki khoj me koi sanyasi bn gye to koi suicide bhi kr liye.

  46. Mam kya aapka no ni mil sakta a apse kabhi baat to kar sakte h agar mind m kuchh negative points aaye to….bcz yaha time lagta h bhot or koi kuchh kar le jab tk apne aap ko tabtak aap jabab na de pao mam …..plz if u don’t mind

      1. hiiii shivshi me ek ladki se bht love karta hu aur mera uske sath breakup hogaya he, or vo kisi or ke sath sett he, par muje vo hi chahiye , plz help me

        1. Ye aaj-kal chal kya rha hai, Break Up ho gya vo kisi aur se set ho gyi… ab aapko vo kyu chahiye, itna hi pyar tha to Break up hi kyu kiya. Ab use khush rahne do aur apna dimag Kaam Dhandha me lagao, kuch karo, kuch bano… Zindgi me in sab cheezon ke alawa bhi bhut kuch hai karne ke liye.

  47. Hello mem
    Mem mera jo bf h 5 years se mere sath h or bht pyar bhi krte h ek dusre ko lekin mem ab usme kuch changes aa rhe h or bat bhi regular hoti h but kch bate wo chipane bhi lga h mujhse or ladai bhut hoti h hamare beech lekin m usko khona nhi chahti bhut pyar krti hu usse but koi aisa suggestion do mem ki m usko samjha sku pls help

    1. Ache se date par jao uske sath and agar shadi ke age he aploko ki to fir shadi kar lena chaiye ap loko ko yai apki prob ka solution he

  48. help mam..me ek ladke se bahot pyar krti hu ek saal pehle mera brk up ho chuka h par me use nai bhul pa ri hu aj WO khus h uski gf v hh.par me aj v whi hu..khud ko din bhar busy rhti hu taking yaadein pareshan na krne fir v jb v ankh band krti hu whi dikhta h rat ko jb bed pe aati hu. uske sath spend kia hr pal yad aata h uska pyar jatana mujhe has an a sab..me kya kru ap btao

  49. mam mai sskisi se bout pyar kart thi par hum ek sath jeyada din nai rah pay par use kabhi nai bhul payi use Hume sha thuch me rahe par use Bo baar fir nai ayi par mai apna pyar Kam nai kar pay meri ab shading ho chuki hai mere do bete hai 5 year ho chke meri shading ko mai use bhulna cahti hu par mai kuch bhi karuga mere dil din bhar uska naam let rata hai is ka kya matlab hai mujhe samjh nai at a pls half me

  50. Mai jis ladke s pyar karti hu pahle to wo bhi pyar karta tha ya nahi pata nahi par ab usko sirf ladkiya chahiye mai nahi .par mai bahut pyar karti hu bhula bhi nahi pa rahi hu .mai karu to karu bhi kya

    1. Agar aap sach me sab pareshaniyan khatam karna chahte ho to apna saara dhyaan kuch bada karne aur kuch banne me lagao.. Apni life ka ek bada aim set karo and use achieve karne ke liye 24 ghante bhi mehnat karni pade to karo. Apna sara dhyaan aur dimag us goal par tika do, bada socho, bada karo, safal bano aur sabse pahle apne Papa aur mammi ke liye socho, baki sab chor do, ye socho ki kaise Papa ka naam ucha karunga, kaise papa ko apni li huyi gaadi ka steering pakdaunga, kaise mammi ko sabse mehangi saree gift dunga…. Zindgi shi tarike se jiyo aur sahi raste par mere dost, baaki sab to 2-4 din ka khel ka, sab badal jayega. 🙂

  51. ham dono ka relation ship around 9 years tha hmlogo m bahut lv tha bat jab shadi par aayi to meri family ne ekdam se mana kar diya..fir maine usko apni lyf set karne k liye bol diya uski family ne uski shadi kar di aab mai uske bina reh nhi pa raha meri family v aab raji ho gai but wo aab aa nahi payegi bich me try v kia uske ha pe but bad m wo fir na kar di…
    mai kya karu mujhe bhulne ka upay de..
    plzzz work m busy rehna ya fir family m tym dena ye sab na bole sab dekh liya hu

  52. hii…i am bobby me 1 problem me hu me jis ladki se pyar karta hu wo kisi or k sath set ho gai hamare brkup ko 2month ho gae he or wo kisi or k sath he abhi.. par me wapas usi ladki k sath paychap karna chahta hu plz help me .

  53. hello shivshi tumne jo trika btaya wo hi ek esa rasta hai jisse Hume apne partner ki yaad nhi aati Maine 1st time tumari site Kholi hai bt tumara ans bilkul shi hai

        1. Apne aap ko busy rakho, uske baare me socho mat, thoda time do apne aap ko. Dheere dheere time sab dard bhula deta hai. Doston ke saath raho aur khush raho, logon ke saath aisa hota rehta hai.

  54. Thnx shivshi but want a sincere girl who understood me…… Pta nhi bani h ki nhi…… Koi ho to batana….. Fb pe add kr Lena mujhe 9807230850

  55. Hii mam mai bahut parsan hu mai ak ladki ko 11 sall sa bahut piyar karta hu or vo bi karti hai par pata nahi kise ki najar lag gai ham sadi karna vala the par muja sa ak galti ho plz ya baat mai ap ko call kar ka bata sak ta hu mar no 7509986080 hai plz call mai 8march tak mai jinda hu bass

      1. Mene pura padha… mere bahot successful ho jane ke bad use lag bhi jaye ki usne mujhe chor kar galti ki… Toh usse kya hoga… Vo jisse ham payar karte hai vo toh hame mili nahi… Or use ham nahi mil paye use bad me use lag bhi jayega ki… Mene itna acha ladka kho diya…..
        Usse kya hoga sach toh yah hai… Ki aap use pa nahi sake… Or use apme vishvash nahi tha ki apme itni quality hai ki aap kuch achieve kar paoge…. bhad me jaye ese log jo apse nahi apki success se pyar karte hai
        So live well apka kya kahna hai shivshi ji

  56. hlo mam meri love story sabse alag hai hum dono ek sath job krte the …aur humdono mai frndshif huyi ,humdono apni har baat share krne lge ,aachnak hum dono mai physical reletionship bhi ho gya but kabhi pyar ka ikrar nhi kiya bhut baar humdono me reletion hua ,phir 7-8 month hogye the aisa hi chal rjha tha sb office mai kehte the tum dono ko pyar ho gya but hum klabhi nhi mante the,aachanak uski sadi ka date fix ho gya just uske sadi k 2 month bad meri sadi honewali hai but jab aaj uaski sadi ho rhi hai mujhe feel ho rha hai ….i love him pata nhi ku bhut rona aarha hai…plz isme mai kya kru….

    1. Dear ab bahut derr ho gayi hai mere hiisab se aapko use bhul hi jana chahiye nahi to aise me aapke parents ki bahut badnami hogi baki aap khud samjdar ho.

  57. Hlo mem. Ek ladki thi jo mere sath 2 saal relationship mein rahi. Iss Bich uska or mera 2-3 baar brkup b hua. Bt wo hmesha aajati thi. Or galti uski hoti thi. Mein usse bahut pyar krta tha nd Hu. Ab 9-10 months hogye bilkul baat nahi hoti. Mujhe abhi pta chala ke mera ek khas dost tha jo uske sath baatein krrha hai. Usse Mil b chuka hai. Mujhe aisa lagrha hai k Un dono m kch chakkr hai. Ye baat Mujhe bda preshan krrhi hai.. M kya karu

    1. Hume pahle hi ye decide nhi kar lena chahiye ki – Main use khona nhi chahta. Bcoz dear aap ye baat samjho ki, koi agar humara ho kar khush nhi hai aur humse dur hona chahta hai to use jabardasti karke apni life me rakhne se ya usse uski marji ke bina forcefully usse relationship banaye rakhne se kabhi bhi koi bhi khush nhi rha hai..

  58. Mam
    Ek ladka h Jo muse 3din pehle mila uski bato be mujhe pagal kardiya..usne pro kiya Maine except b PR aaj 5din uska behave total change hogya h,lagta he nahi he wo ho sakta h,usne mujhe block kardiya h Mao use nicha dikhana chahti hu,sabak sikhana chahti hu bhulna chahti hu plz help me yaar plz

    1. No need to do anything like that Piu, just forget that mothfckr bastasrd and move ahead, every second is precious and let’s not waste it for a loser.

  59. Vo ladki ki yaad Mujhe boht satati hai
    Aisa lagta jaise corrnt lag gya ho or mujh mae jaan he na ho
    Or bhookh toh lagti he nahi
    Boht preshan hu mae kya kru
    Vo kisi or se set ho gye
    Kisi or k sath ghumti hai selfish

    1. To aap bhi kisi or ko set karlo kyunki jo chali gayi uska liye apna time waste karna bekar ki baat hai isliye aapko bhi ageh badh jana chahiye.

  60. madam ji kise ladki se pecha chudana ho to kya karu us ni mere ek baar police staton me complant bhi ki ab us baat ko 2 year ho gye hai pr bho kahte hai ki shadi karo pr mere ghar wale ni mante mujhe bhi ni karni us se shadi

    1. Dear aap thode time ke liye underground ho jao matlab ki apna phone number change karlo or wo number kisi ko bhi dene ki jarurat nahi hai agar possible hai to kisi dusri city me ja kar raho thode din or agar aisan nahi ho sakta to apne ghar me hi raho or bahar ma nikalna or aisi afwaah fehlla do ki aap ab kisi dusri city me rehte ho. Or sath hi apna fb ka account bhi change karlo.

      1. Mai kisi ladke ko bhout chahte hu 12 saal ho gay hum relenstion me bhi a gay Lekin ab na wo mujhse baat krta h na kuch shayad WO kisi or ko chahta h or mai uske liye din bhar roti hu mai usse bhulna change hu uski yade Jine nhi dete plz help me mam

  61. mam
    me ek ladki se buhat pyar karta ho aur woh humare pados me rehti hai maine usse parpose kiya aur usne inkaar kar diya shayed uski zindagi me koi aur hai ab me usko bhoolna chahta ho lekin bhula nhi pata jab bhi bhulane ki khosish karta ho woh saamne aati hai saare zakhm taaza hojate ya phir kisi dost se milta ho woh uska he zikar karte hai phir uski yaad aati hai apne aap ko busy rakhta ho kam ke waqt wohi yaad aati hai kisi ladki ko dekhta ho uski yaad aati hai dimaag me sirf uska he khayaal hai aggar yahi hal raha toh phir me zaroor pagal ho jaoga
    mam
    plz help me

  62. hii mera naam alok hai mai ek ladki se love karta hun maine use propose kiya usne accept kar liya mai lagbag 20 din baat hoti rahi ek din maine usse ek ladiki ke bare be kaha ki vo mughe dekh kar muskurane lagti hai vo jab se naraz ho gayi jab se usne baat karni chod di jab mai usse kaheta hun ki baat kyun nahi karti to kehti hai ki time nahi mita hai ek month ho gaya hai mai kya karu plz reply

    1. Hey.
      aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck 🙂

  63. Hello mam mujhe apni padosh ki ladki se pyaar ho gaya hain bt mujhe nahi pta wo mujhse pyaar karti hain ya nahi directly nahi puch sakta padosh ki baat hain kaise pta chalega ki wo mujhse pyaar karti hain ya nahi. Plz help me

  64. Help me
    Meri gf aur mera 15 -20. din breakup hua hai mai use bhul nahi pa raha hu
    Usane muze chod ke dusra bf banaya hai
    Kabhi phone kiya to mere samne Uski bahut tarif karti hai aur muze bhi din mai 1 baar Call karti hai mai use vapas pana cahata hu mai ab uske siva rah Nahi sakta please, meri kuch help kijiye.

      1. My gf cheat me Maine usy galiya di sahi kiya. …..ab Vo mje fb pe Msg kr ri hai fake fb profiles se.. .. Kya kru yr shez bullshit girl

  65. Mam mai jisse love karti hun wo mere saath sath meri behan k sath v affair chala rha h. Jiske karan maine use chor diya ab mai reh ni pa rhi hun mai kya karun mujhe batayiye plz mujhe suside krne ka man kr rha h help me plz

    1. Dear india me logo ki yehi problem hai ki dhoka khane ke baad bhi usi dukan se saman kharidenge jiske ki pahle bhi dhoka kha chuke hai or khaass baat ye hai ki jab aapko pata ho ki wha ja kar sirf dhoka hi milna haiisliye mere hisab se aapko us ladke ki G par laat marni chahiye or sath hi apni behan ko bhi usse bachana chahiye. Or use aisa sabak sikhao ki wo kabhi bhi future me kisi bhi ladki ke sath aisa dubara na kare.

    2. Dekho sona tum ache ladki legti ho tumhai sochna chaheye tha ki wo ladka kis kisam kaa hai time pass ya pyar ab dekho wo tumhare saath time pass kr ke tumhari sis ke saath kr rha haI I think. Tum samjh gyi hoge mai kya bolna chahata hu bus tum use dur raho or apni sis ko bhi rakho ok

  66. Hiii mam..help me

    mai ek ladki se 1 sal 8 mahine 21 days se relation mai hun ….
    pr vo uski jo parents h unka our mere family ka kuch thikse nhi h contact

    mere parents ko jb pata chala hamare bare mai
    toh mummi rat bhar roti rhi
    & dad ke chest m pain suru hua

    toh unhone muze samjaya ki ,chahe ladki acchhi ho ya na ho pr uski family organt hai jo hme pasnd nhi
    tune aage shadi krli toh tu hmse door hoja..
    maine toh itna pyar kia h ki
    call reacording bhi save kiye h hr din k wid date& occasion
    pr my parentss ki halat & kahna dekhkr mai confusion m hun
    1..mummj rat bhar roi
    2 ..dad k chest mai pain
    3..dad said agr ladki se shadi krega toh hmse door hoja
    4..i love her lott& she too

    plz apke guidence ki muze bahot jarurat hai….

    1. Dekho dear jha tak meri soch hai agar aisa mere ghar me hoti to me wo cheez kabhi dubara nahi karti jisse ki aisi situation dubara create ho mere ghar me or jisse ki mere parents ko itna dukh ho. Or mere hisab se shayad aapko bhi aisa hi kuch karna chahiye. KYunki parents dubara nahi milte.

  67. HI Me life me first time kisi ladki se relation me aaya hu, actually start usi ne kiya wo ek operator hai, sim lene ke liye usse bat hui, bad me kuch issues huye, aur 1-2 bar whatsapp pe bat hui fir usne ek din achanak pucha kya kar rahe ho, to mene kaha office hu, fir introduction, last me usne mujhe miss u kaha, fir chali gayi, ab me usse bat karne laga hu phon pe, mujhe kya karna chahiye taki wo khus ho jaye, actually wo 28/30 days working hai. aur family k sath rahti hai

  68. mam main ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu uske bina dil nahi lag raha kahi mera usse jhagda ho gaya maine usko kisi kaam ke liye mana kiya tha lekin wo wahi kaam ki maine usse kaha ki kyu ki to wo boli han karenge aap mera dimag kharab na kijiye mujhe gussa aaya aur usse kaha tumko bahut jayada gurur hai na apne pe aaj ke baad mere number pe call ya sms nahi karogi agar call ya sms ki to hum samjhenge ki tum bahut giri huwi ladki ho wo boli thik hai nahi karenge call ya sms ab uska call ya sms nahi aata hai.
    humko lagta hai wo mere se pyar nahi karti hai lekin wo mere liye bahut roti thi aur apne hanth pe mera naam bhi likhi thi jala ke ye pahle ki baat hai mujhe samjhh me nahi aa raha kya sach hai aur humdono me bahut jayada bhi hota humko samjhh me na aa raha kya karen aap hi bata do mam wo mere se pyar karti hai ya nahi ya phir humko uske pass jana chahiye sorry bolne ke liye.
    aur jab bhi jhagda hota tha to hum hi sorry bolte the ab bahut guilt feel kar raha hun ki ab nahi girna uski nazar me sorry bolke plz help me mam

  69. mam hlp me
    mai kl apni gf se dur aagya hu
    usne pata tha ki mai usse dur ja rha hu but sayad use Mazak lag rha tha
    usne rote Huye kuch der bat kiya but wo fon nhi kar rhi mob swich of aarha hai mai bahut paresan hu but kya karu mujhe kuch smjh me nhi aarha

    1. Dear abhi wo naraj hai bas aap uske liye ek pyara sorry ka message chord do fir jab wo aapka wo message dekhegi to jarur coll karegi.

  70. Hii mam mera bf h hmara relsn 2011se strt hua fr bich me m usse ghr ke kuch rsn se alg ho gyi hmara bt ni ho pta tha 7 mth tk hm alg rhe fr hm 1mnth tuch me rhe fr 11mth ke liye dur ho gye qki us tym mere pas khud ka phone ni hota tha so bt ni ho pati thi fr 2013 se hmara relesn cntinew h starting ka 1-2 sal hmare bich sab acha tha but dgire dhire hmare bich bhot jhgda hone lga wo mujhe bhot gali v deta h n bt bt p phn of kr k rkh deta h bat hi ni krta n fr bd me ulta mujhe hi gali deta h n kabhi v apni koi si v glti ni manta n jb m usse hmare resln khtm krne ka bt bolti hun to wo mere se kehta h ki tjhe jana h to jao m.tumhe rokunga ni na hi kabhi tumhe cl kr k distrb krne jaunga n wo ye v bolta h ki agr mujhe uske sath relsn me rehna h to m apna muh bnd kr k rahu wo jo nole m.wahi kru agr m.aisa ni kr skti to m chli jau relsn tod ke wo mujhe waps lane ni ayega kbhi ar m pgl hun uske pyr me br br inslt hone p v usi k pas waps chli jati hun but ab mere se bardast ni hota uska behaivr na hi to m usse dur reh pati hun pleez help me m kya kru :-‘(

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

        1. Dear wo to aapko dekhna hai ki aap raat ko kya kar sakte ho jisse ki aap busy raho or aapko neend ajaye use yaad kiye bina.

  71. Meri love story thori si complecated h..
    I love someone,pichle 7 year se..
    Lekin kvi usse mil ni ska,because use sirf ek baar hi dekha tha or pyar ho gya..
    Bhut dhunda use bt ni mili..
    Ab jakr 2014 m wo mujhe mili or wo v aise ki maine kbhi socha v ni tha,wo meri teacher bn chuki thi..
    Mai use like krta hu yeh baat bs mujhe h pta thi,yeh bat maine use ni btaya tha because wo ab meri teacher bn chuki thi…
    Bt aage chal kr hm bhut close hue.or maine usse sb btaya,tb mujhe pta chala ki in 7years me wo kisi or ko like krne lgi h…
    Bt undono ka brkup ho gya h..
    Ab wo khti h ki she need my help for forgeth him..
    Kl wo usse bhut miss kr rhi thi..usne mujhe btaya..maine koi react ni kiya because ab wo mere saht close hona cahti h,agr mai uschod dunga ya mai usse gusha rhunga…
    To wo apni feelings kisse share kregi…
    Mai bs usse khus dekhna cahta hu…
    Cahe mare saht ya usse k saht….
    Wo uska 1st love tha…
    Brkup ki wjh mujhe pta ni h…
    Bt jo v ho mai usse bhut pyar krta hu…
    Bs uski khusi cahta hu..
    So what i do…
    Mai kya kru…
    Kya mai usse uske pehle pyar se milwa du…
    Ya mai khud usse pna payr du..
    Wo khti h she need me,to forget him..
    Bt bhul ni pa rhi h…
    Plz help me…

    1. I really feel sorry for you but dear agar aap chahte to aap in 7 saal me uske jaise pata nahi kitni ladki pata lete ya apne future me kha se kha pahunch jate ab agar aap mujhe apni friend mante ho to plz use bhul jao or apne acche future or sath apni family ke bare me socho bas.

  72. Meri love story thori si complecated h..
    I love someone,pichle 7 year se..
    Lekin kvi usse mil ni ska,because use sirf ek baar hi dekha tha or pyar ho gya..
    Bhut dhunda use bt ni mili..
    Ab jakr 2014 m wo mujhe mili or wo v aise ki maine kbhi socha v ni tha,wo meri teacher bn chuki thi..
    Mai use like krta hu yeh baat bs mujhe h pta thi,yeh bat maine use ni btaya tha because wo ab meri teacher bn chuki thi…
    Bt aage chal kr hm bhut close hue.or maine usse sb btaya,tb mujhe pta chala ki in 7years me wo kisi or ko like krne lgi h…
    Bt undono ka brkup ho gya h..
    Ab wo khti h ki she need my help for forgeth him..
    Kl wo usse bhut miss kr rhi thi..usne mujhe btaya..maine koi react ni kiya because ab wo mere saht close hona cahti h,agr mai uschod dunga ya mai usse gusha rhunga…
    To wo apni feelings kisse share kregi…
    Mai bs usse khus dekhna cahta hu…
    Cahe mare saht ya usse k saht….
    Wo uska 1st love tha…
    Brkup ki wjh mujhe pta ni h…
    Bt jo v ho mai usse bhut pyar krta hu…
    Bs uski khusi cahta hu..
    So what i do…
    Mai kya kru…
    Kya mai usse uske pehle pyar se milwa du…
    Ya mai khud usse pna payr du..
    Wo khti h she need me,to forget him..
    Bt bhul ni pa rhi h…
    Plz help…

  73. Hii mam me ek ladki ko bhut pyar kerta hu phle wo b kerti thi wo mere se 3 month badi he jb uske ghr pta chla tb se shi se baat nhi ker rhi he me shadi nhi ker skti bar bar yhi bolti he or mene region pucha to bolti he me mujhse chote ho isliye nhi ker skti me me bhut pyar kert hu me uske bina nhi rah skta kya kru mam plz hlp me….

    1. Dont waste your time and life for her, jisne aapko sidhe se hi mna kar diya hai isliye use chord do or ageh bado life me . kyunki baad me bhi to aisa hi karna hai aapko to abhi hi kyun nahi.

  74. Hii mam me ek ladki ko bhut pyar kerta hu phle wo b kerti thi wo mere se 3 month badi he jb uske ghr pta chla tb se shi se baat nhi ker rhi he me shadi nhi ker skti bar bar yhi bolti he or mene region pucha to bolti he me mujhse chote ho isliye nhi ker skti me me bhut pyar kert hu me uske bina nhi rah skta kya kru mam plz hlp me

  75. Mam mai ek ladki sai bahut pyaar karta hu 25 December 2012 ko maine usse baat karna start kiya aur ham dono ek dusare sai bahut pyaar Karne lage uske 6 mahine baad uske papa ko pata ho gya aur june 2013 koham dono alag ho gye uske baad lagbhag 8-9 mahine letter sai baat hui hamari Woh bhi pakad liya uske papa nai aur Woh apne mama ke ghar chali gyi July 2014 mai aur wha sai 12th kiya ab wapas aa gyi aur graduation kar rahi hai first year mujhai aksar dikhai pad jati hai aur mere ghar sai bhi dikh jati hai kyuki mere ghar sai uska ghar dikhai deta hai per Woh mujhai dekh ke bhag jati hai itna kharab behaviour karti hai pata nhi kyu mujhai usse ek baar baat karni hai per nhi kar pa rha hu mai Kya karu ek din maine usko roka toh bola ki papa sai keh dege uske baad sai mai usko dekh ke Hi khus ho jata hu uska kisi aur ke sath koi set up nhi hai Kya kare dippresion mai rehta hu marne ke thought aate hai Kya kare kaise Kya karu

    1. Dear aapke liye accha hoga ki aap use bhul jao kyunki wo bhi aapko bhul gayi hai or main baat ye ho sakti hai ki aapki wajah se use apne ghar se dur jana padha isiliye shayad wo ab aapko nahi chahti.

  76. Hello Frnds Mera Naam RV Saini Hai Aur M Haridwar Se Hu Agar Ap Kisi Girl Se True Love Karte Ho Aur Girl Ap Se Love Nahi Karte Hai To Usko Bolo Ki Mere Akele Ka Love Kafi Hai Hum Dono Ke Liye But Vo Phir Bhi Accpet Nahi Karti Toh Ap Usko Force Na Kare Kyonki Pyar Ka Matlab Kisi Ko Pana Nahi Hota Hai Balki Jisse Ap Pyar Karte Ho Sirf Aur Sirf Uski Khushi Chahana Hi Hai Mein 100℅ Kahta Hu God Apko Aise Girls Se Milayega Jo Apko True Love Kare Kyonki Mere Sath Bhi Aisa Hi Hua Hai Aur Ek Baar Ni Kafi Baar Girls Ne Mujhe Dhoka Diya Hai But Mein Ek Baat Jarur Bolunga Apse Life Mein only Mom Dad Hi True Love Karte Hai Aur Koi Nahi Agar Ap Apna Love Bhulana Chahate Hai Na Toh Jo Mam Ne Bola Hai Na Use Try Karo Best Idea……..Thanks Frnds….

    1. Dear aap in tips ko padhe or follow karehttp://shivshi.com/girlfriend-kaise-banaye.htmlaapki problem jarur solve ho jayegi.

  77. Mei Ekk ladhki ko bhut pyaar krta hu .#2010 say …pr wo muja mili nhi khub dhunda … bt 26April 2014 ko mil … gyi .. nd mena ush sau Drt ja kr bola … i like u …thn ush na Hasta Hua Face Turn Kr ky bola dont like u….
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  78. hiii mam me ek boy ko lv krti hu or vo bhi krta tha bt pta nhi vo kya hua vo mujhse bat bhi nhi krta ab kya krusamjh nhi aata

    1. Dear ya to use koi or mil gayi ya use aapke bare me kisi ne badkaya hai. Or ab ye baat aapko pta lagani hogi ki reason hai kya asal me.

  79. Hi mam, meri ek ladki se b.sc first year me frndshp hui, bs 2 3 month baad vo dosti khtm ho gayi,usme saari glti meri h ,class me baat virul ho gayi, aur uska koi old frnd usko pata chal gayi, phir vo mujhse bhut naraj ho gayi, mene use manane ki bhut kosis ki but vo nh mani ,mene use pane ke apna respect kho diyaa h, me usse bhut love karta hu par vo dosti k liye raji hi nh hoti h , ab me uske sath college bhi nh padta ,lekin me usse bhut pyar karta hu , kya meri dost ban jayegi.

  80. yar meri khani to difrent h but meri ek dil se aasha h ki mujhe to apna pyar ni mila but mai bhi aap hi ki taraf sabki help karna chahta hu so plz join me…yar mujhe bada sukun milega agar maine kisi ek ki bhi help kardi to……so plz give me a one chance

  81. Hi mam meri ek girl friend thi 2008 se mai uske contact me tha par mai kabhi usse bol nhi paya ki mai usse pyar karta hu bad me kisi aur se bat karne lagi fir mai sab chhodh k apne padhai me lag gya 3 years bad mai fir mila fb par wo. Khud mujhe msg ki halaki aisa koi din nhi bita ki mai usko yad nhi karta tha par ek din fb par mili mai bhut khush hua maine apni success ki bat btaya ki mai government job mil gya hai wo attract ho gyi hamne sadi karne ka faisla kiya par uska cast mere se different tha uske ghar wale mna kar diye mere ghar wale bhi fir bhi. Maine bola chalo bhag k sadi kar le par wo nhi mani boli. Papa ko mna legi par koi nhi mana fir jabdasti Uski sadi kar diye uske papa. Ab wo mujhe jan chuki thi ki mai use bhut pyar karta hu jisase uski sadi hui wo bhut hi kala aur jobless tha fir bhi uske papa paise dekhkar kar diye usko accept nhi hua ye rista mujhe bhi nhi fir 1 sal koshish ki yetalak ho jaye par nhi hua usne usko touch nhi karne diya usko bhut roti thi wo ab uske papa ne bola ki wo jahar kha lenge agar wo nhi mani to fir wo chali gyi na uske pas mobile ab na kuchh. Mujhe. Usse true love hai kaise bhulu rat din wo hi yad aati hai please help me…….

      1. Mai bahut patesan hu please mujhe samjhaye mai puri bat likh nahi sakta mai aapko phon se batana chahta hu mujhe galat na samjhe please missed call me 9670983132

          1. Meri love story thori si complecated h..
            I love someone,pichle 7 year se..
            Lekin kvi usse mil ni ska,because use sirf ek baar hi dekha tha or pyar ho gya..
            Bhut dhunda use bt ni mili..
            Ab jakr 2014 m wo mujhe mili or wo v aise ki maine kbhi socha v ni tha,wo meri teacher bn chuki thi..
            Mai use like krta hu yeh baat bs mujhe h pta thi,yeh bat maine use ni btaya tha because wo ab meri teacher bn chuki thi…
            Bt aage chal kr hm bhut close hue.or maine usse sb btaya,tb mujhe pta chala ki in 7years me wo kisi or ko like krne lgi h…
            Bt undono ka brkup ho gya h..
            Ab wo khti h ki she need my help for forgeth him..
            Kl wo usse bhut miss kr rhi thi..usne mujhe btaya..maine koi react ni kiya because ab wo mere saht close hona cahti h,agr mai uschod dunga ya mai usse gusha rhunga…
            To wo apni feelings kisse share kregi…
            Mai bs usse khus dekhna cahta hu…
            Cahe mare saht ya usse k saht….
            Wo uska 1st love tha…
            Brkup ki wjh mujhe pta ni h…
            Bt jo v ho mai usse bhut pyar krta hu…
            Bs uski khusi cahta hu..
            So what i do…
            Mai kya kru…
            Kya mai usse uske pehle pyar se milwa du…
            Ya mai khud usse pna payr du..
            Wo khti h she need me,to forget him..
            Bt bhul ni pa rhi h…
            Plz help…

          2. Meri love story thori si complecated h..
            I love someone,pichle 7 year se..
            Lekin kvi usse mil ni ska,because use sirf ek baar hi dekha tha or pyar ho gya..
            Bhut dhunda use bt ni mili..
            Ab jakr 2014 m wo mujhe mili or wo v aise ki maine kbhi socha v ni tha,wo meri teacher bn chuki thi..
            Mai use like krta hu yeh baat bs mujhe h pta thi,yeh bat maine use ni btaya tha because wo ab meri teacher bn chuki thi…
            Bt aage chal kr hm bhut close hue.or maine usse sb btaya,tb mujhe pta chala ki in 7years me wo kisi or ko like krne lgi h…
            Bt undono ka brkup ho gya h..
            Ab wo khti h ki she need my help for forgeth him..
            Kl wo usse bhut miss kr rhi thi..usne mujhe btaya..maine koi react ni kiya because ab wo mere saht close hona cahti h,agr mai uschod dunga ya mai usse gusha rhunga…
            To wo apni feelings kisse share kregi…
            Mai bs usse khus dekhna cahta hu…
            Cahe mare saht ya usse k saht….
            Wo uska 1st love tha…
            Brkup ki wjh mujhe pta ni h…
            Bt jo v ho mai usse bhut pyar krta hu…
            Bs uski khusi cahta hu..
            So what i do…
            Mai kya kru…
            Kya mai usse uske pehle pyar se milwa du…
            Ya mai khud usse pna payr du..
            Wo khti h she need me,to forget him..
            Bt bhul ni pa rhi h…
            Plz help me…

  82. Hlo mamm
    Mai ek ldki se bhuy pyr krta hu woh bi bhutt krti this hm 2 sem me mile or lover bn gy uske yh condition rkhi ki 7 sem to hi pyr hota uske be ni .. Uske papa hmare reln ko acpt ni krnge so.. But 5 sem to OK tja SB 6 sem me or7 me usne mjse BT chupana start kia new frnd bna lia or ghumne jne lgi mera importance ktm pir b pdai me uska bhutt help krta or always help krta tb woh ache se behve krti jese bhuy pyr h but end me jb colg ka end this uske bola mere sth rhegs but apne frnd ke sth rhi. Pir mai breakup kia socha smjegi mnayegi but ni or ab kshi or rhne lgi pg me waha bi new frnd bna ki jb mai ek dafa cal kia woh boli MRA mn lg gya ywhw pir cal cut di mai 2bbr se adik 15 min to cal kia ni receive ki aj 5 din ho gye na msg ki call woh apne frnd ke sth bhutt hpy hogi MRA bura haal h hr tym yd a jti smj ni pa the kya kru hope mai Joe OK ho jwu

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

      1. Use bhulne ki kosish karna chod do aur apni life me apne kaam me busy rho kuch dino me sab theek ho jayega..

  83. Hello frnds kya ap mai se koi meri help kar sakta h me ek ladke se pichle 8 saal se bahut pyar karti hu pehle 3 saal vo mujh se as a frnd bat karta tha mai uski her bat sunti thi kabhi kisi ladki ki to kabhi kisi ki mai use ek acche dost ki tarha samjhati thi .. or 2011 me sayad use b mujh se attraction ho gya ya pyar pata ni … me uski ek muskan k liye kabhi koi harkt karti kabhi koi vo bahut pyara hai … bat karte karte 8 saal kese bit gye mujhe pata ni chala … 2014 me uske ghar walo ne uska rishta pakka kar di me bahut roi … mene use bahut samjhaya usne bola jo hora h hone de…. 2015 feb me uski shadi ho gai or vo mujhe 5 feb ko delhi akela chor k goan chala gya 10 feb ko uski shadi thi… or jate wakt usne mujhe bola k i love u or phn kat dia or chala gya mene socha tha kabhi us se bat ni karungi…. par vo 18 feb ko waps aya or bahut roya.. mere gale lag k….. unke parivar k shadi k ek sal bad ladki ghar par ati h… uski wife 17 january ko delhi a jayegi ..me roj raat ko roti hu ek pal k liye dimag se ni jata…. vo mere me us se bat aj b karti hu or vo b bahut rota h bolta h k uski family ne use bahut torcher kia tha… mai us se bshut pyar karti hu … mujhe kuch samjh ni ara kabhi kabhi man karta h k mar jau … uske bina rehna use kisi or k sath dekhna me bardash ni kar paungi plss help me mam plss help me mai bshut jada depress hu her wakt roti rehti hu kuch samjh ni ata kya karu … us se dur hona chati hu to vo dur jane ni deta…usne apni wife ko bol dia h k kisi or se pyar karta hu shadi se pehle b bola tha k apne ghar walo ko bol de kyu k mere ghar wale ni maan rahe par us ladki ne nahi suni….. mene abhi bat karni to chor di but ek pal k liye b nahi raha jara kam dhyan lagane ki soch ri hu vo mere dimag se jata h vaha uska ro ro k bura haal hum kya kare … mujhe…ma baap imotionly black mail kyu karte h kya humari feelings kuch ni h…kese uske ansoo ko puchu ab to mai uske pass b ni hu vo mujhe se 4 saal bade h par ek chote bacche ki tarha h unhe koi kuch b bolta h sab such maan lete h….unki her ek baat yaad ari h me kya karu yar help mai mar jaungi unke bina

  84. MAM MY NAME IS PRTEEK
    MAINE apni grill/f ko bahut miss karta hu usne hame bina bataye kisi aur ke sath relesion me chali gai ..jab uska call 2 se 4 hours busy ane laga t hamne pucha ke ye kya hai to usne bola ki hamari majburi hai mai apke sath nahi rah sakti ab.. hme uske sath rahna hai apse pyar pura nhi mil pata esliy mai nhi rah sakti…plzz helt us kya ap kuch bhulne ka tarika bata sakte ho…ki mai usko yad he na karoo kabhi hool life……

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  85. Mai v isi problem se gujar rha hoon
    meri gf ne mujhe dhoka de di kisi r se pta chla k wo kisi se krti hai
    ab mai usko bhula hi ni paaa rha hoon

  86. aisa imagin hmne use pyar krne se pehle kiya tha.
    ex- wo shadi k bad mere sath rahegi to ainsa achha lgega etc
    Just uske ulta sochen ki shadi k baad wo mujhhe bhut paresaan krti or meri life ko bainsi nahi rehne deti jaisi mai jeena chahta hu
    aur
    unsuccessful married se seekh len

    Aur agr aap college ya school k student h to apne aap ko ainsa bnao ki use tumhe dekh kr ghutan type ki ho
    ex- pehle se aur action, pehnawa,handsome, ekdam khushmizaz

  87. Aur main jb se uske parents Ne mujhay jaatay dekha hai uss din se wo mujhse baat ve ni kr rhi hai….uska age abhi 17 saal hai and mera 18

    1. Wohi to me bol rahi hu ki aapko use mnna chahiye kyunki jab aapko itna burra lag rha hai to socho ki aapki gf ka kya hall ho rha hoga.

  88. Mam main bahut guilty feel kr RHA hu mujhay apne ap pr bahut gussa aa rha hai baat ye hai ki main apni gf ka ghar gya tha wo boli the family bahar gaye hai dopahar tak aayangay aur main ussay melne chla gaya aur phir kuch der bad uska papa ghar aa gaye wo mujhay chup k bhag jane k leye boli aur jab main gaya to mujhay pechay se uske papa ne jatay dekh leya….mujhay bahut kharab lag RHA hai ki main q uska ghar gaya mere wajah se na Jane ussay ghar mn ketna sunna para hoga..mera koi chez krne k maan he ni kr rha hai bus USS incident ko soch kr apne ap pr gussa a RHA hai..

    1. Aapko apni gf se baat karni chahiye or pahle to apni gf ko sorry chahiye na ki khud guilty feel karna chahiye kyunki jo hona tha wo ho gya lekin ab aapko apni gf ka shara bnna chaiye.

  89. Hi mam me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta tha bahut dilo Jan se mene uske pyar lye ek bar apna hand ka vein kat liya tha to wo bahut paresan ho gyi thi.bt me kuch din bad usse mila n suddenly uska phone check kiya to mene dekha ki wo kisi aur ke sath chat kar rhi n esa chat jase ek gf apni bf ke sath karti h bt mere puchne par wo boli ki mene ye majburi me kya n me tmse hi pyar karta hu wo v sacha pyar bt wo jisse chat karti h uske bare me pata chala wo ek sadhi sudha characterless admi h jo sabko use karta h bt wo uski ghar ko chalata h jisse me pyar karta hu.bt wo mujhe bolti h ki mene majburi me ye chat kiya n mujhe apna galti susharne ka ek moka do me tmse bahut pyar karti ho bt mujhe biswas nhi hota h to plz mam mujhe solution batayen jaldi reply kijiyega mam

    1. Agar wo kehti hai ki usne majburi me kiya to usse ek mauka jarur de lekin agar aap uski khushi ke liye uske uppar paise kharchte ho to wo sab karna band kardo or ab sirf ye dekho ki wo kitna aapko msg call kari hai ya aapko kitna yaad karti hai. Lekin ye sab kuch ek temperary tor par karna or agar fir bhi lage ki wo aapko cheat kar rahi to usse breakup kar lena or in sab cheezo ko ek month k andar andar check kar lena. Taki agar wo aapko cheat bhi kar rahi hoggi to aapka jyada time waste hone paye.

  90. Me school me ek ladki ko chahta hu or vo 12 commarce mai hai or mai science me hu,mai use line marta hu to vo bhi muje line deti hai par..mai use pahechanta bhi nai or mai use propose kese karu plz answer me?

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  91. shivshi gii ap se ek help chahiye mujhe ek girls friend banani hai magar high attitude type o uske pass jada hi paissa ho or main uss paise ais vais kar saku magar aisse type ki ladki chati kya hai ladko main bas ye mujhe jana hai

  92. Hi mai ek ladki sa pyar karta tha w/o bhi mera sa pyar karta thi pahle mera sa bina baat kies bina nahi rahi thi nahi jab tak mujh dakhita nahi tab tak Bachman raha karti thi par eka eka mera sa nafrat karne lagi ab bolti bhi nahi ek bar kahi ki mujh bhul jawo par ma usko bhul nahi pata koi upya bataea

  93. Mai aap se kuchh batana chahata hu wo ye hai mai kisi ladaki se pyar karta hu ladaki bhi mujhe pyar karti thi lekin ab uski shadi kahi aur fix ho gayi hai aur wo us ladake se baat kar rahi hai aur mujh se bhi kabhi kabhi baat kar le rahi hai lekin jo pyar mere liye pahale tha uske dil me ab nahi lagata hai.mai kya karu please help me.mera naam sunil hai aur mobile number.8543894885

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  94. mam mere husband hai pahle unki ek shadi ho rakhi hai ye bat muje bhi pata hai or pahli wife ko bhi but pahle wo muje baht pyar karte the par kuch dino se wo muje ignor karte hai aisa lagta hai wo muje chodna chate hai na muje pe unko yakin kisi bat ka main unhe kaise bhulu main bhul nhi pa rhi unka vishvas kese paun

    1. Ye baat kuch samaj me nahi ayi ek taraf aap bol rahi ho ki aap unhe bhulna chahti ho or dusri taraf unka vishwas bhi jitna chahti ho

  95. heyy how are you ihope you are fine itne sare logon ke sawal aur un sab ko aap perfect ans deto ho hats off shivani ji ek sawal mera hi aap se mujhe aapke releation ke bare janna hi mai janta hu ye takleef dene wala sawal hi kisi baaat bhoolna fir achanak past ki bataon ko yaad karna takleef hoti hi kuch yadien aur lamhe bahut khoobsurat hote hi unko sambhaal kar rakhna chiaye so aap jaldi se apni story share karo pyar karna aur pyar ko paa lena har kisi ke kismat me nhi hota so i will wait miss shivani sharma ji jaldi jaldi jaldi mera net pack khatam ho jayenga

  96. Mai ak ladki se pyar karta hu wo bhi mujhe bahut pyar karti hai,but ghar walo ke janne ki wajh se wo mujhse bat nhi kar pa rhi,kya mujhe uska intzar karna chahiye ya nhi ?

  97. hy shivshi
    me puja,
    yaar i m in a big prblm, yaa bolu to, kch prblms hai jo shayad maine hi create ki h…and mjhe apke kch suggestions or advice chahye…
    aaj se 4 saal phle, mai ek ldke se rltnship me thi…, his name is ishu, that time uske pyar me bhut pgl thi, but uska rude behaviour, ego ne mujhe usse 2 saal ke baad alg hone pe majboor kr dia, and then i decided to move on! then he also agree for breakup, we both moved on!
    after 7 8 months, i saw his pic with a girl, i found that she has a new gf.. then gusse me mne b mere classmate, jo mujhe like krta tha..usey, bf bna lia… but in the last that classmate ditch me!
    in another side ishu also, left himanshi (his new gf jiski pix fb pe dekhi ti mne) n came to me n sb ke lye sorry bola n btaya he still luvs me, that time mne b sb bhool k new starting ki.. but after few weeks himanshi ka call aya n she said, that due to my mistakes she is suffering today! bcz wo bhi ishu ko bhut pyar krti ti! then finally maine decision liya, mai ishu k life se ja rahi, n mai chli gyi, ishu ko glt reason de kar, after a year, i came to know, that ishu himanshi ke paas wapas nahi gya… one of my bstt frnd proposed me! n i also liked him name prabhat, we came into rltnship, hm hassi khushi rah hi rhe te.. n ishu mujhe daily clls n text krta, bolta, i am chngd now, drink krna b chhod dia.. gussa b nahi krungi kbhi… etc etc. but i refused, but knhin na knhin prabhat ko chhod ni skti ti coz prabhat mujhe pyar krta tha bht.
    ishu ka birthday pe maine usey wish kia, n as a gft usney bola, he wants me back in his life… maine mana kar diya, becz of prabhat, but ab mujhey sb purani baatein hi mind me aati hain.. smjh nahi aata kya kru..?
    ishu ne to bola h ki wo 5 years tak wait bhi kr lega.. but mne usey ek baar fr se, galat reason de kar buri ban gyi.. now he hates me to love! usney ye tak kah dia h ki aaj tak roya nahi, even di ki shaadi me bhi ni, but meri wajah se aaj ro dia…
    shivshi, plz now told me! what to do? i still love him 🙁

    1. Dekho puja aapko prabhat ke bareh me hi sochna chaiye ki wo bichara to ektarah se dhoke me hi hai kyunki uski gf isi or se pyaar karti hai isliye agar aap abhi bhi ishu ko chahti ho to aapko uske pass hi chale jana chaiye kyun aap apni life ko itna complicated bna rahi ho wo bhi khud apne hath se bas ab aapko khud hi akele bhaith kar sochna hoga ki aapkiske sath rehna chahti ho or fir ek faisla karo ki kon hai wo Mr. right fir jab aap decide kar lete ho to aapko dusre ko bilkul sahi reason bata kar move on ho jana chaiye or uske baad kabhi bhi khud apni life ko itna complicated mat baniyega

  98. Hi………..
    My Name is Aliza. Main kya karu pe pehli bar dekha aur sab ki story padhi aur acha laga. meri b ek pareshani hai mai apke sath share kar k apni problem ka solution chahti hoon.
    main ek ladke se bht pyar karti hoon woh b mujhe bht pyar karta hai. but use bht shak karne ki adat hai mujhpe har bat pe koi b bat ho use mujhpe shak rehta hai ise karan hamara jhagda ho gaya aur hum alag ho gaye mai use bhul nahi pati hoon har pal use yaad karte rote rehti hoon kahi b mann nahi lagta hai mera kisike sath b bat b nahi karti hoon plz meri help karo mai kya karu mai uske bina reh b nahi sakti hoon. woh kabhi mera paas nahi ayega use khud pe bht attitude hai hamara love 6 years se hai but use mujhpe yakeen hi nahi

    1. Dekhiye shak ka to ilaaz nahi hai lekin agar aap unke bina nahi reh pa rahi ho to unhe ye baat bta do or pyaar me attitude ko bich me mat laya karo

  99. Me ek ladki se bhut pyar karta hu or bo bhi mujh se utna hi pyar karti he per me usshe sadhi karna chata hu per bo mujh se saadhi nhi kar rhi he bo apne mami papa ko dhokha nhi dena chati he
    me usshe saadhi karna chata hu so plz help you mjhe aap ki bhut jarurat he so plz help u

    1. Aap pahle apne parents se baat kare fir agar aapke parents maan jate hai to apne parents ko uske ghar bhej de rista le kar kyunki shayad aapki gf apne parents ki marji se shadi karna chahti ho or isiliye wo aapko mna kar rhi ho.

  100. mai bahoot paresan hu mai usse bahoot pyar to krta hu or wo v mughe krti hai pr usne mughe dhokha diya hai bat uss time ki hai jab mai 8th me tha tab se uss se pyar krta hu pr wo uss time kisi or se pyar krti the mai har 6 month me perpose krta tha pr wo inkar krti the dekhte dekhte 4 saal guzar gay 2006 aa gaya fir maine usse uske bf ke sath dekha mera chhota ho gaya bara mayush rahta tha fir maine apne aap ko bahoot busy kr liye fir v mai 2008 me uss se mila or perpose kiya fir uss ne inkaar kr diya fir mai uski life se chala gaya 2011 aa gaya mughe aache se yaad hai wo August ka mahina jab mai uss se mila to apne aap ko rok ni paya or perpose kr diya uss ne kuch time liya or finaly sep 22 ,2011 ko accept kr liya mai to khusi se pagal tha usse paglo ki tarah payr jo krta tha pr jald hi meri khusi gumm me badal gai jab mughe pata chala uss ne khud bataya (kyu ki uske bf ne mere saath dekh liya tha bike pe le kr jate time or bol raha hogs ki mai bata dunga) ki wo 2009 me apne Ist bf ko chor ke dusre se pyar krne lagi or uss ke sath 2 saal tak physical relationship me rahi mai 15 din tak rota raha halaki mai prepare tha ki aisa kuch hoga to jisse mai janta tha uske Ist bf ko uske satha hoga pr uske saath kuch ni tha mughe iss bat ka dukh jayada tha ki uss ne mughe kyu ni accept kiya Ist wale ko chhorne ke baad chalo maine wo v accept kiya or hum dono sath aache se rahne laga pr mughe 2014 me pata chala ki uss ne mughe tab v dhoka diya jab mere saath the wo 2011 me Nov me 2 se 3 bar uss se relationship banaya jab se maine ye jaana hai mai nhi rah pa raha hu mai uss se pyar v bahoot krta hu mai ky karu maan krta hai apni jaan de du mughe neend ni aati hai iss topic pr uss se bat kiya wi boli galti hui h ab aisa ni karugi pr uski galti ki saza mughe mil rahi hai mughe wo saari bat yaad aati rahti hai ple suggest me

    1. Raja – Mai aaj ke date me well setted hu hum dono pichle 4 saal se relationship me hai or mai usse bhul ni pata hu jab uss se dur jane ko sochta hu uske saath bitaya har pal mughe paresan kr deta h

    2. Agar aap sach me sab pareshaniyan khatam karna chahte ho to apna saara dhyaan kuch bada karne aur kuch banne me lagao.. Apni life ka ek bada aim set karo and use achieve karne ke liye 24 ghante bhi mehnat karni pade to karo. Apna sara dhyaan aur dimag us goal par tika do, bada socho, bada karo, safal bano aur sabse pahle apne Papa aur mammi ke liye socho, baki sab chor do, ye socho ki kaise Papa ka naam ucha karunga, kaise papa ko apni li huyi gaadi ka steering pakdaunga, kaise mammi ko sabse mehangi saree gift dunga…. Zindgi shi tarike se jiyo aur sahi raste par mere dost, baaki sab to 2-4 din ka khel ka, sab badal jayega. 🙂

  101. Shivshi G plz help mera nam swapnil hai me ek larki se bhot jada hi pyar karta hon hm fb par mele the hamare pyar ko 4 year ho gaye par wo muslim hai or me ek hindu larka hon or wo pakistan ki hai ham dono juda nahi hona chahty hame bhot taklif hoti soch kar hi hmari baty shadi tak agayi wo ye kahti ki meri mom nahi raji hogi plz mujhe bhol jao me nahi bhul sakta aj kal me raat din sirf us ka hi w8 karta hon wo nahi milne par bhot tut jata ho bhot bechan udas rahne lagta hon mene fir us ko varosa delaya ki agar ap ki mom dad nahi mane to me islamiq qabul karu ga par plz mujhe kavi mat chor ta or aj kal wo har choti bat par ghusa hoti or pahle ham dono bhot baty karty the raat din par aj wo bhot kam ati or bar bar of hoti or nahi mere par trus karti hai or har bat us ko buri lagti to bolti jao kisi se vi kar lo shadi fir vi me har bar apni galti man kar sory bol dena bhot mana ta wo mujhe ab bhot kam waqt de rahi me bhot trus gaya hu us se bat karne k leye nahi ab me chod parha hon wo agar ghusa hoti to saf kahdeti aj k bad me fb par nahi aao gi nahi ham cl par bat karty agar me us ko cl karta to bhot ghuse me akar wo sabad kahti jo dil par lagta ki aj k bad cl mat karna thik me kya karu plz help..!!

  102. madam mai ek ladki se pyar karta hu par usne kahi aur shadi kar li thi phir meri life mai ek aur ladki ayi jisne mujse mujhe apna idiol batakar baat shuru ki two yrs ke baad usne bhi shadi kar li wo mujse befkoof banati rahi mujhe kano kan khabar nahi hone di apni shadi ki mere se money liye 50000 aur jise apna relative kahkar dalwaye usi se usne shadi ki… i am very depressed .. leaved my job .. what should i do now. should i tell the truth to his husband .answer

    1. Mere hisab se aapko ab is baat ko ek sabak ki tarah le kar chalna chaiye or us ladki ko bhul jana chaiye or ab apne future ke bare me sochna chaiye or sath hi apni family ke bare me bhi sochna chaiye aapko job chord kar kuch nahi milega isliye ab depresses hone ki wajaye apni life ko acha bnane ki socho

  103. Hello ! Mai ek ladki ko like karta hu vo bhi mujhe hamesha college me dekhti hai aur kafi dekh kr muskurati bhi hai hm dono ek dusre ko lgbhag bachpan se jante hai .
    mai biology ka student hu to aur vo bhi ,

    Ek din maine uska disection box maga usne turant de diya fir mai jo uske baare me feel karta tha vo likh kr box me de diya

    AFTER 2 Day

    Maine pucha ki kya tumne box me kuch dekha

    Vo boli ha lelin mujhe accha nahi lga , mai cycle se to maine kha ki uske liye sorry likin ek baar fir se soch lena

    TO KYA VO MUJHE ESKA ANSWER DEGI ??????

    kya vo mujhe like karegi

    1. Use isliye acha nahi lga kyunki aap ne apni feelings ek page me likh kar di na ki direct bola agar aap use direct bolte to wo aapko tabhi han kar deti

  104. HI Shivsi Mam,
    How are you.?
    Again I reminded to you.
    My condition is going on very critical .
    So pls Mam 25 days before I sent you mail in your Personal Gmail id.. Pls give to me reply as soon as possible. I waiting for your Advise…!!

  105. Hii mam mera name priya hai mai mohali se hu mai is waqt bhut musibat me hu next month meri shadi ho rhi hai us insan se jise mai pyar krti hu pr mai is shadi se khush nhi hu mera man bhut bechain rehta hai kyuki kbhi kbhi mujhe lgta hai ki jisse meri shadi ho rhi hai vo bhut selfish hain na kbhi unke pas time hota hai ki mujse pyar se baat kr ske or hmesha duniya ki baat krte rwhte hain duniya me kiska divorce hua kiske sath kya hua mai is baat se bhut preshan hu kyuki mai shadi ke baad peacefull life chahti hu bilkul jb mai use kuch btati hu toh use lgta hai ki mai uspe kuch pressure dal rhi hu mera sath nhi de pa rhe hain vo proper apne parents ke vicharon pe or smaj ke doston ke vicharon pe chalte hain aise me mujhe kya krna chahiye kya nhi mai kuch smjh nhi pa rhi hu mujhe kya krna chahiye..

    1. Agar aapko lagta hai ki ye wo right guy nahi hai jisse aap shadi karna chahti ho to yehi baat aapko apne parents ko btani chaiye or unhe samjana chaiye.

  106. hey maine aapki eamil.id par mail kiya hai jb aap free time me honaa to mujhe kuch batein share karni hi jo mai publicly nhi kar sakta hu so i will wait ur mail i will pray for allah give u all happinesss in ur life always smile jiiiiiii

  107. Hey Shivshi how ru i hope ur good actually I need ur help mai Ek ladki ko Bahut pyar karta tha abhi Bhi karta hu her name is suman wo faki time ke bad apne ghar gayi thi Uske kuch din bad usne Bataya ko Uske parents Uske engagement kar rahe hi fir usne mujhse 3 month tk koi contact nhi kiya mai faki preshaan go Gaya tha ye samajhye ki mera mind work nhi kar raha tha fir Ek din achanak uska call aya usne mujhse surf 2 min baat ki air call cut di fir jb uska Mann Hota tha wo bat karti hi Ek week me Ek baar fir Ek din usne mujhse Bataya ki 25 nov ko uski marriage hi uska ye bolna meri liye to Sab kuch khatam go Gaya tha aur wo his tarah se mujhse bat karti thi wo feeling nhi aati thi hi jo hmdono me thi Uske according to uski shadi go gayi hi par na jane kyu mai sahi aur galt ka Faisla nhi kar pea raha hu aap batao aap ka Kay view hi mai Ek business man uh mains Khud ko faki busy kar Rakha hi bt jab mai rat ko apne room me jata hu to uski yaad a jati hi help me plz I will wait ur mail I will pray for u ur whole life spend happiness nd joyfull ????

  108. Me ek.ldki.se pyar krta tha wo mujhse .hm ab bhe krte h pr mujhe kuch bnna h pdna h .use mna krta hon pyar na krne ko to.rote h.tdpte h to me har jata hon.aisa kya kron ki bo.mera pyar bhe bhol.jay khus rhe aur mere dost rhe pr pyar ni.nafrat na kre .aisa kya kron.ki bo bina roye mujhe bhol.ske mtlb mere pyar ko

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  109. hello ! shivshi .. one question jo dimag mai 5 years se tahal raha hai.. mera question ye hai ki love relation main sab se jyada phone kisko karna chahiye.. boys ko ya girls ko.. joki jyada tar to boys hi karte hai apne girl friend ko.. but boys hi phone kare aisa jaruri hai kiya ?? please answer or solution batao..

    1. nahi dono ko brabar krne chaiye or agar aapki gf ye kehti hai ki sirf boys ko hi sab se jyada phone kisko karna chahiye to wo galat hai usko bhi phone karna chahiye or ab aap use phone karna ban kardo or agar wo aako sch me pyaar karti hogito miss jarur karegi phone bhi jarur karegi or agar wo phone nahi karti to iska mtlab wo sirf timepass kar rahi hai

  110. Madam good afternoon mai ek ladki se pyar karta hu wo bhi mujhse pyar karti hai par maine usse kaha ho usne nahi kar diya wo bhi usne jaati ke karan nahi kar diya mai gangwar ho aur wo ladki choudhary hai ashe mai kya karu koi raay do main uske bina adhura ho.

    1. Jab ek ladki saaf saaf mana kar rhi hai aapko fir bhi aap kyu uske peeche pade ho aur usko preshan kar rhe ho saath hi saath apna time kharab kar rhe ho.. Aap kya force karke use apne se pyar karne ke liye majboor karna chahte ho ? Kya aapme koi self respect nhi hai? Vo aapko like nhi karti ye kab samjhoge? Agar ladki ache se baat karti hai ya smile kar deti hai to iska matlab ye nhi ki vo aapse pyar karne lag jayegi. Maan lo ek ladki hai jise aap jante ho but vaise pasand nhi karte aur vo aake aapko bole main tumse pyar karti hu to aap kya karoge. Simple si baat hai use mana karoge. To yhi same cheez vo kar rhi hai. Aap sirf aur sirf apni life barbad kar rhe ho uske chakkar me my friend. Please ye anmol zindgi aise barbad mat karo. Itni mehnat successful banne ke liye karo, apne maa baap ke liye apne bhai behan ke liye mehnat karo, sachi khushi usme hai. Jab aap safal hoge tab khud aapko ladki approach karegi, aapko khi jaana nhi padega. I hope aapko meri baat samajh aayi hogi.

  111. me ek ladke se bahut pyar karti hu wo shadi shuda Hi wo mujhe galat samajhta Hi or isliye bina kahe mujhe chhod gaye wada kia tha sath rehne ka hamesha but fir bhi najane jab humara relationship 10 saal ho gai or meri age badh gai to unhone mujhe chhod dia me jee to rahi hu lekin ek lash ban gai hu kuch samaj ni aata kya karu wo to bahut khush hai

  112. Meri ek girl friend hai …vo mujhe love krti hai lekin kabhi kabhi apne x boyfriend ke sath bat karti hai aur ghumne jati hai …maine uako pucha ki tu kyo ghumne jati hai to vo..bolti hai ki mai usse bat hi nhi krti …..is situation me kya krna chayiye use bhulna bahut mushkil hai mere liye.

    Plzzzzz mam give me suggestion

  113. Dekh bhai simple aur aasan tarika hai dusri girlfriend bana lo mard bano ye soch kabhi mat rakho ki mujhe uske jaisa partner nhi milega ye soch rkho mujhe usse achha partner milega

  114. Main ek ladki se pyar karta ho usko 2years line diya fir WO fb pe mili aur kuch month Facebook pe baat karne ke baad no di fir hum dono ke beech bahut baat huea sath milke ghoome aur ek bar kuch ghante sath bitayea takriban 9month hum dono ke beech accha tha WO mere alawa do ladka se baat karti thi jisme ki ek uska ex boyfriend bhi hai ye baat hame nahi mallom tha ki WO Abhi bhi us se baat karti hai ek din pahle main usko usse phone pe baat karte pakar liya to main usse pucha ki WO aisa q ki mere sath to WO kehne lagi ki main usi se baat karungi tumse nahi meri khoise thi smart ladka se baat karna aur ghoom na Jo ki tumse pura ho gaya Jo ladki ek ghanta baat na karo to pershan ho jati thi aaj WO mera phone nahi utha rahi hai please help me main bahut preshan ho usko hamare smart hona bura lagta hai kehti hai ki main usko agar bolu ki raat hai to WO kahega raat hai ab main kya karu main usko bahut chata ho jo ki mere sare Fre kehte hai ki WO tumhare lyak nahi hai fir bhi WO humko bahut acchi lagti hai kya mam kya WO kabhi baat karengi ya nahi ya main kya karu help me mam

  115. hy di meri age 22 year he.. 3 saal phle 12th k baad mene ek Ladhki se pyar kiya… vo meri colony me rhne aayi thi gaon se thi.. humari zyada bt bhi nhi ho pai thi but vo mera phla pyar tha or saccha . mene use Mobile no bhi diya tha ek baar gaon se usne call bhi kiya tha… but 8 month baad vo vapas gaon gai to 10 din tak call nhi kiya to mujhe gussa aya to mene usi number pe call kiya to uske bhai ko gali de di or use bhi… sab khatam ho gya tha ye 4 sal mene tension me bas nashe k sahare se bita diye.. fir abhi kuch din phle call aya to me bhut khush hua uske pas Mobile nhi tha uski friend k Mobile se call krti h but abhi bhi 15 din ho gye to call nhi aya or jab aya to mene use bhut sunaya or gusse me uske bhai se khne ko kaha.. to vo khti k me us per vishwas nhi krta to usne shadi or milne sab se mana ker diya me fir se tension me aa gya hu kya glti meri thi plzzz btao…
    me usse bhut pyar krta hu…
    uski friend ab usse bt nhi krvati or khti h k ab vo mujhse pyar nhi krti. .
    plz btao uski kya thinking h or mujhe kya krna chahiye mene uski friend se use sorry bolne ko bhi kaha but vo mari help nhi kr rhi…
    me kya kru plz help me.. …….

  116. Hello shivshi mam, pata nahi mere sath aisa kyu hota hai… kuch log mere life mein bahot kam samay ke liye aate hai aur aisi yaade de jate hai jinhe kabhi bhul bhi na saku…Aur aise sweet log jyada der tal meri life me rehte hi nahi bas apni yade dekar mujh se bichad kate hai… Aur main tadpta rahta hu…Aisi hi ek baat hui. meri mulakat ek ladki se hui fb pe. wo bahot hi sweet thi. hamari achi si friendship hui aur humne bahot sari baate ki thi aur hum ek dusre aur kareeb aane lage the..aur pata nahi achanak usko kya hua… kal usne apna fb id deactivate kar diya hum number exchange karne hi wale the ki usne fb band kiya.. fir ek din baad id chalu krke mujhe msg kiya ki mujhe time nahi mil raha aur id fir se deactivate kar diya… aur ab mujhe wo bahot yad aati hai har baar uske bare me khayal aate hai… uska mere sath majak karna hasna pyar se mujhe alag alag naam se bulana ye baate ab uski bahot yaad dilate hai… har woqt uski sweet si baate mujhe pareshan karti hai jab yaad aati hai to… Wo meri life me apni ek sweet si yaad de gayi… par uski wo yade ab dil ko dard de rahi hai… Ab aage ka step kya lu wo nahi samjh rha..

  117. mam mai bhut preshan hu mere bf ki shadi hone wali h kisi or se . vo b pyar krta tha or mai b pr family ki vjah se hum shadi nhi kr skte .humare relation ko 4 saal ho gye thai ek dum se uski shadi ki bt sunkar shock lag rha h ..mai use bhul nhi paugi pr bhulna chahti hu uski har ek chij ko yaad nhi krna chahti ..meri lia bhut muskil h bhulna kyuki mai ghr se bahar b nhi nikalti jyada. or ghr me b bhut tension mujhe hai.. mai stress feel krti thi pr jb vo mere sath tha or ab nhi hai mujhe darr h kahi mai kuch kar na lu ..mai kuch krna nhi chahti mam mujhe bhulne ka koi acha tarika btao ..plss mam meri help kro..

  118. M aaj bhut dukhi hu kyo ki muje aj pata chala ki uska affair uske ex bf k saaath bhi chal RHA tha karib 3 saaalo s jb vo mere relation m ayai tb usne muje bola ki meri lyf ap hi ho or koi nhi h lekin muje aj pata chla ki uska relationship Abhi tk bhi uske saath chal RHA h jb ki uske bf ki Saadi ho gyi h mene usse bhut pyr kiya uski har khwhahish puri ki or usne mera fyada uthya kya kru halat kharb ho rhi h ..kese rhunga uske bina…

  119. Mai ek ladkise bohatl payar karta hu bt darta hu use paya karne ke liye muje pata h wo bhi karti h mujse payar bt problem ye. . H . Ki wo bohat rich h… nd mai. ..bohat. garib to mai aab kya karu…..?..

  120. hello mam
    m jb 12th me tha to 1 ladki ko bht pyar karta tha aur maine use impress kar lia tha aur wo har time mujhe dekhti rhti thi aur smile deti rhti thi…..phr m kisi karan se use propose ni kar paya…..ab 3 saal baad mujhe phr mil gai h wo college jati h…ab m us par phr try maar rha hu wo kai baar dekhti h aur kai baar ignore kar deti h……madam what to do now….
    plzzz help me

  121. ek ldke ne mujhe chhod k kisi or se shady kr li or m uske bina nhi rh pa rhi hu BT rhna to pdega hi m us shikhr tk jana chahti hu jha aaj m uske lite tdf rhi hu vo mere liye tdfe

    1. Dear usse koi fayda ni hoga, sirf aur sirf tumhara time waste hoga and dimag kharab hona. Khush rahna chahti ho to us baat ko chor kar aage badho. Yhi life hai.

      1. mujhe pata hai sab ladke ese hi hote hai who bas ladki ke emotions ke sath majak karte hai pagl hote hai jab ehsas hota hai jab ladki dur chali jAti hai

  122. Hi Shivshi Mam,
    Good day to you,
    How are you.?
    Please check your Gmail Id, I sent you one mail, please give to me reply as soon as possible.. I m Waiting for your reply…

  123. may ek ladka sa pyar krti thiii……
    ya ho……..
    ya to mujha ab nhiiii pata……. haa phela bhut krti thi……..
    hmra or uski mulakat fb pa hui thi….. or fb pa pyar kr ka mania bhut bari galti ki… mujha pata h fb pa har koi jhuta nhiii hota…… pr ya jhuta hai usna mujha cheat kiya…… usna aapni family ka bara may sb kuch jhut btya or aapna bara may ve har ek bt jhut btya……… jis din usna purpose kiya th uska 6-7 din ka baad sa mujha us pa dout hona laga usna kisi or ki pic koi aapni pic bta rha hai…..may us say clear krna ka liya puccha ve wo har waqt mujha bolta wo meri pic hai………. usna meri aapni mom aapni dad hmra pyar ki ksm kha kr har waqt bolta th…… wo meri pic h……..phr ve mujha dout rhta th…. wo jhut bola rha h phr mania ek din uska dost sa puccha to usna bola wo uski pic nhiii hai…… tb mera bf na uska baad succhi btai………

    Mujha is baat sa prblm nhiii h wo poc uska nhiiii th pr mujha ya baat sa prblm hai….
    .
    …… usna meri aapni mom ki aapna dad ki jhoot ksam khai…… or ek bt bolo wo har bara jhut bolta haiii jhuti ksam khta haiĺ or to or wo bolta hai uska dad mara gya but he is alive….. aapni sis ka bara may har ek bt galat btya th…….
    may us insan pa kasia belive kr sktiiii ho jo aapni family ka nhiii ho skta wo mera ky hoga……plzzzzz help me what to do…….
    ab wo nujha msg krta hai bolta hai agar tm nhiiii mili to mar jaoo gyaaa….. mujha bhutttt bura lgta…. mujha lgta hai mania bhut bari galti kr i us say pyar kr ka……… plzzzzzz help suggest me what to do……

    1. Sonal, just end up all contacts with him. Usse kisi bhi tarah se koi contact mat rakho, sab khud theek hone lagega, usske msgs, calls ka koi jawab mat do, no. block kar do. Fb par block kar do.

  124. Hi Shivshi Mam,
    How are you.? i got your website and than i feel good.
    I am Musheer Khan 23 years Old from india . i have like this problem so i want to need your help as a Valuable advise.
    My problem as below-
    Me bhut gareeb ghr ka tha, me ek ladki ko bahut like karta tha.. wo mere relatives ki thi.. lekin wo mere status se zyada thi uski family paise wali thi, isiliye me ussse keh nahi pata tha ki me tumhe like karta hu. wo relatives ki thi to wo mujse bolti thi thoda-thoda waqt guzarta gaya, lekin ek din wo aaya ki apni mehnat or lagan se or apne maa baap k aashirvaad, us god ke karam se, meri Saudi m job lag gayi, Saudi me me bhut acchi tarah apne kam handle kara, wo relatives ki thi, to uske ghr walo se me phone par baat karta tha to usse b bt hoti thi. Saudi m hmne apne 2 years or 6 completed krne k bd vacation chala gya. to us ladki ne hmse kuch saman mangwaya, m uske liye le kr gaya.. jb me baha pachucha to usse meri bt hui, usne hmse mob no manga or hmne diya, or is tarike se hmri bt hone lgi by sms se or by call se, hmne usse apni dil bt keh di or usne accept b kr li, m usse bhut pyr krne lga tha, hmne usse poacha ki agr tmhri zindgi m koi or ho to bata do plz, m ni chhata mere liye aage ki life kharab ho jaye,ku ki me bahar rehta hu, usne kaha ki hm tmhre alava kisi se pyr nahi krte h. baton ka silsila chhata rha sb kuch theek thak tha,, ek din hmne usko kisi or k sath dekha, hmne poacha kon h ye to wo kehne lagi. ki ye mera 4 years purana frnd h or koi ni, agr apko bura lgta h to me usko choad dungi bas thoda sa time do, hmne usse kaha tu mere liye apne 4 years burana frnd ko chadh degi, agr hmse accha koi mil jye to hme b choadh degi, uske bare m hmne pata kiya to wo bhut badhi froud nikli, uska pyar vyar kuch ni tha, sirf ldko se paise lootna tha, hmne usse bad words use kare or hmne usse bt krna band di, wo rone b lagi, hmne usko smjaya ki agr tmhri life or koi tha to mujhe dhoke m ku rakha…lekin uske sms aana band ni hue, uske sms ka reply hm bad words se dene lge….or m usse door rehna laga lekin wo kareeb ane lgi, wo tamam ldko se baat krti hai, hmne ye b pata kia, uske dheere dhere raaz pata lgne lagne.. hmne true love kia tha usse, lekin usne mujhe dhoka diya,, wo ladki aaj kisi or se baat karti hai,.. pyar dono ne kiya tha fark itna tha – ki hmne usse pyar kiya tha or usne mere paise se..wo ladki mera pehla pyar tha. usne mujhe dhoka diya h. aaj uski zindgi me koi or hai humse bhi purana. aaj wo khush h kisi dosre k sath………hmne saare contact khatm kr diye usse …………me usko bhula nahi pa raha hu, hamesha uski yaaden pareshan karti hai, me theek se so ni pata hu, kaam nahi kar pata hu, ab to bhut sad rehne laga bahut….me meekar rehne laga or body din pe din down hoti ja rahi hai….soachta hu ki ab zyada din nahi jee paunga…wo mera pehla or true love tha…
    * Shivshi Mam Please Advise*
    What to do, how i can removed her from my heart and mind.. i waiting for your valuable advise…plz help me….

  125. Di main ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu but kuch misunderstanding k karan WO mujhpr trust ni kr rahi hai aur WO mujhse thora gussa hai to main soch raha tha ki main apna baat blade se kaat lu kya ye dekh kr WO mujhpr trust kare GI ya Mani GI ki main ussay ketna pyar krta hu …..humlog abhi 12th mn hai…..

    1. Agar koi ladka aisa karta hai to mera man-na hai ki kisi bhi ladki ko usse kabhi baat nhi karni chahiye na koi hamdardi dikhani chahiye, ye sabse bevkufi bhara kadam hai.

  126. Meri gf ko mujse baat kiye bager nahi chalta …wo pura din msg bhejti rahti he…lekin me busy rahta hu or thhik tarah se reply nahi de pa ra hu …fir wo naraz ho jaati he…
    Or meri koi bhi baat maanti nahi he….

    Saval ye he ki me use kese samjau…answer me..plz…..

    1. Jawab ye hai ki… use ye baat khud samajhni chahiye, aisi baate samjhane ki jarurat nhi hoti, agar vo is baat ki nhi samajhti to ya to use abhi samajh nhi hai ya fir vo over sensitive hai.

    1. Humari yaad jab aaye to smile kar liya kijiye….. Isse jyada aur kya chahiye kisi ko ki uski vajah se koi khi muskura rha hai.. 🙂

  127. Helo Shivshi pehle mai bhi aise hi sochta tha ke mai apne pyar ke bina nahi reh sakta aur aisa soch soch ke maine apne 4 saal barbaad kar die. Par real mai aisa nahi hai ham khud pe controll kar sakte hai jaisa ki ap kehte ho think about ur goals. Ye bht zaruri hai pyar ko agr bhulana hai to dosto Career aisa set karo ki parents ka sar garv se uncha ho jaye. Ladkiyo ka kya hai ek baar jab career set ho jata hai na to ladkiyo ki to khud ba khud line lag jati hai.

  128. mere girlfriend too much abusive hai. Hamesha gift manghte hai expensive walli means to much menu use karte hai. Na dhene par abusive language use karte. Jab koe kam hoto sweet bath karte and apna kam nekalhneke badh again abusive behaviour ho jata. Tell what i shoud do????????????????????/

    1. R u mad ?? Just end this relationship right now, mujhe samajh nhi aata log itne Bevkoof kaise ho sakte hai. Kya tumhe dikhayi nhi deta ki vo tumhe puri tarah use kar rhi hai?? had hai yaar.

  129. hello mai ek ladki se pyar krta hu or wo bhi mujhse bahot pyar krti h uska naam pooja h or wo hindu hai mai maiuslim hu hamara relationship ko 2 year ho chuka h isse phle hamare relation me aisa kuch nhi hota tha but aaj kal use bohot log koi bhi aake use mere bare me ulta sidha bolta h mere bare me bhadkata ki mai accha ldka nhi hu mera kahi or bhi afair hai is bat ko leke ab wo mujhse jhgda karne lagti h mai karu mujhe kuch smjh me nhi aarha hai
    help me plzzzz…

    1. Sameer agar to vo ladki sach me aapse utna pyar karti hai jitna aap karte ho fir to uske upar is tarah ki baaton ka koi asar nhi padna chahiye agar fir bhi is baat ko le kar baar baar aap dono ke beech jhagda ho jaata hai to dear, I would suggest…. aapko apne future ke baare me sochna chahiye.

  130. Mam m bhut presan hu m ek ldki s pyar krta tha or WO bhi krti thi y bat mere sister n brother ko pta thi ki hum relationship m h .hum dono k bich jgda ho gya mujhe uspe kuch daunt tha ki tum apne cusuin s jda close kyu rhti ho or kyu usse bte krti ho .bas isi bt pr .Maine apna no.band kr liya or fir usne mere bhai k no PR call ki or usse purpose kiya PR usne MNA kr diya .fir Maine much din bad usko call ki or use mafi mngi or WO man gyi .hum dono ache s BT kr the fir mujhe pta chala ki hmre bich jb jhgda huwa tha to isne chote bhai ko purpose kiya tha.bs is BT s Maine use MNA or diya.ki tumne itna bda kdm kaise uthaya AGR tumhe pyar tha .m tumhe chord RHA hu be.for WO Rone lgi kehne lgi ki m to surf tumhe aisas dila rhi thi bs tumhe wpas pnae k liye jlas fil kra rhi thi bs PR maine use kha ki AGR mera bhai ha bol deta to for to tum mhuje chord hi deti .meri smjh m ni ara m kya kru WO ldki shi h ya glt plz plz mujhe achche s explain or k btao plz m presan hu.

    1. Mam m anu, mei ye puchna chaahti hu ki mera boyfriend jishe mei bhut pyar karti hu or wo bhi pyr bhut krte h. Hmare relationship ko 2 saal ho gye hain. Or hmara religion alg hone k kaaran hmari marriage nhi ho sakti. Or meri marriage khi or tay ho chukhi hai , jiske kaaran wo mujhe phle se km bt krte h or ignore krne lge h.

  131. Hello shivshi I am a 15 years boy meri gf ka name mona hai aur wo mujhse 3years badi hai ham dono ek jagah rehte hai uska ghar mere ghar ke samne hi he ek baar me nawratri me 9 din bahar chala gaya puja me jab me wapas aaya to mene use dekha ke wo meko dekh ke bahot ancomforteble feel kar rahi hair mene usse flying kiss mangi to usne inkar kar diya aur phir achank se boli. Me ko pyaar ho gaya mene puchha kisse to use bola ke wo mere se senior boy hai phir mene puchha wo koun hai tu usse kaha mili to usne batane se mana kar diya me uske same rone laga use koi fark na padsaphir mene pata Kia to wo ladka hamare ghar ke pichhe ek badi ground hai usi me subbe wo walking pe aata tha phir mene bola ki kya ye wahi ladka hai to usne bola nai me to teko jhut bol rahi thi me kisi aur ko nahi chahati tere siwaye aur chali gayi par wo pehle jaise beheve nai karti me uske wajah se bahot paresan rehta hu aur me usse baat bhi nai kar pata jisse mere andar jo quistion hai usse puchh saku phir mene usse bola ke agar tum aisa kargi to me bhi karunga mene bola ke agar meko pata chala ke tum meko dhokhade rahi ho to me apni x ke sath pairup karlunga to wo bahot gussa ho gai aur jelous ho gayi aur tab se thik se behave karti hai par kya wo normal ho gayi hai ya phir jhoot bol rahi hai me kaise pata karu ke uske dil me mai hu ya aur koi bhi hai mujhe hamesa chinta rehti hai ke kahi wo dusre ladke ke sath mil ya baat to nai karri hai me uske wajh se jyada ghar se bahr nai jata aur uske wajh se mera kisi kaam p bhi maan nai karta me kya karu please tell me aap meri jagah hote to kya karte

  132. hello mam mere girlfrind hai jo muse pyaar karte hai lekin us ka ek x boyfrind tha usko wo khabi khabi yaad karti rehte hai us ko us k demag se nikalna hai kese nekalu plz mam help me me use bahut pyaar karta hu

  133. Pleze use mat bhulna. ..kyu ki jab pyar Sacha ho jata hi to ..Phir dubra nahi milta dost….kosis karo ki Phir se mere zindgi me aa jaye ……

  134. mera naam ARYAN hai. Meri girlfriend RAKHI Jo mujhse bahut
    pyar karti hai or mai v us se utna hi pyar krta hu.
    mam yha tak to thik hai but meri girlfriend ki mummy & papa
    meri or uski marriage ke liye ready nahi ho rahe hai..uski
    marriage kahi or kar rhe hai or ye meri girlfriend or mai kabhi
    nahi chahte hai.
    isliye meri girlfriend bol rahi hai chaliye bhaag chalte hai or
    mujhe bhaag ke marriage karna comfortable nahi lagta.
    2nd problem ye hai ki humlog bhaag ke v court marriage nahi
    kar sakte kyoki meri girlfriend ki age avi 18 nahi hui hai..
    ab mai kya karu kuchh samajh me nahi aa raha….kya karu ab
    aap hi bataaye please…..
    please…..
    please…..
    please…..
    please…..help me…

    1. Aryaan Bhagne waali galti kabhi bhool ke bhi mat karna, aisa karke indgi narak se bhi buri ho jaati hai. Jab us ladki ki age abhi 18 years bhi nhi hai to shaadi karne ki itni jaldi kyu padi hai ?

      1. mam problem ye hai ki. uski shaadi fix ho gyi hai to ruk v to ni skte na…or meri gf bahut roti hai or wo apne mummy & papa ko mana v ni kar skti hai …kyoki wo is baare me bahut kuchh bol chuki hai par wo sb maan ni rhe hai.or uski Saadi force krke kahi or kar rhe hai…3 month baad uski Saadi hai …plz mam kuchh kijiye…plz…

        1. Aryan aapko baat karni hogi, jisse bhi possible hai jo aapko lagta hai is mamle me aapki help kar sakta hai. Mujhe kuch samajh nhi aa rha hai.

          1. mom dad se jyada true Lv kisi ka nhi ho skta…unhe thoda sa hi feel ho aisa mat krna …if ur ur Lv is true thn u achive her…i also wnt every true lover live toghter …bt thts idea is wrong for ur both family

  135. bat takriban 4-5 saal phle ki h mai ek school me padta tha to vaha ek ldki muje achi lgti thi …. vo aksar muje dhekha krti thi…. par us smay meri use bat ni ho ski…. fr kuch mahino bad uski dosti mere dost se ho gyi ……
    vo dono ek dusre se bat krne lge…
    fr maine us ldki ko bhul jana h behter smja…
    par unka 1 saal me h brekup ho gya …
    mai apni padai ke liye 3 saal bahar chala gya … jb mai holidays p aata to vo muje mil jati mai usse bat krne k liye uske piche gya aur hi hlo kiya….
    fr agle din gya aur maine use bta diya k mai use chahta hu , to vo ye kahkar chali gyi k ye sb faltu ki bate h tm padai pe dhyan do….
    fr b dai agle din gya aur kha k muje tmse bat krni h frndsip krni h… maine use apna number b diya …. par usne kbi call ni ki
    usne muje kha k mai uske sath kal uske collage chalu …. maine kha k okey ….
    next day mai uske sath collage gaya
    raste me hm bat krte hue gaye aur vapis b aaye…
    fr muje apne exam k liye vapas jana pada ….
    jb mai vapis lauta to muje dhekhkar apni najar churane lgi…
    muje kuch smj me ni aa rha h iska kya mtlb h….
    kya muje ek bar bat aur krni chaiye ya ni….

  136. Hello mam…
    Mam Hm ak ladke se bahut pyr karte hain aur hmari uski baat bhi Hui some month but ab wo mujhse pta nahi kyun fb PR bhi baat nahi karta hai aur coll karti hun to baat nahi karta hello hello bol kar rakh deta hai mai bahut pareshan hun plz help me…..

    1. had hai preshan kyu ho, agar koi interested nhi hai to jabardasti kyu kar rhi ho dear, isse na vo khush reh payega na tum..

  137. Hi mera naam rinku hai me bi sbki tarh ek ladki se pyar krta hu.aur wo bi krti ti.hum dono ne ek st 4 saal bitaye hai.aur hum dono hamesa khus the ek dusre ke sat.but kuch din pehle pta ni kya ho gya use usne mujhse bt krni hi chood di mene use pucha bi kyo kr rhi hai vo ye sb lekin usne kuch ni btaya.aur chli gyi mujhe akela chod ke.aur ek din to mene use ek ladke st dekha.pta ni kya smjhti hai vo apne ap ko.me use sbk sikhana chata hu.me bi ye chata hu ki jese me aj ro rha hu wese vo bi ek din roye.aur tdp jaye mujhse bt krne ko.me use sbk sikhana chta hu bs.kuch idea de do khtrnak se.to bhot mehrbani hogi apki.

  138. hlo madam
    i m a student final yr b.com
    mujhe ek ladki se payar h aur use bhi h
    i know

    per bat ye h ki hammara breakup ho gya h ek chhoye se reason k karan ..
    our caste is diff.
    use lagta h ki hummare parents shaddi k liye ni manege bad m …
    to mujhe ye samjh ni aa raha h ki use kaise samjaun…..
    4-5 din ho gye h hammari bat hui thi ki koi bhi kisi ko call ni karega
    koi bhi communication ni hui h
    i lv her

    what can i do noww…..
    i never wan lus hr….
    she is my life….
    🙁

    suggest me something so that use samjh aa jaye ki
    hummara payar adhura ni rahega …..

    wo apne parents k bare m sochh rahi h jayada hi kuchh….sayad

  139. mai ek ladke se bahot pyar krti hun or WO bhi mujhse krta hai mai usse kbi door ni Jana chahti love marriage krna chahti hun hm dono ki caste alag alag hai wo bolta hai caste ki wajah se mere parents love marriage ni krenge wo job krta hai mai student hun meri love marriage ho ske or wo is baate ko accept kr le ki hm love marriage krenge pls iska solution btaye hme Kya krna chahiye hmare liye Kya shi hai.

  140. mam mai ek ladke se bahot pyar krti hun or wo bhi mujhse krta hai hme mile huye ek saal hua h mai usse kbi alag ni hona chahti lekin WO ghar walo ki dar se love marriages ni krna chahta bolta h mai ghar walo ko ni mna paungi mere mummy papa love marriage ni krenge or bolta hai iske alawa kuchh bhi mango mai tyar hun dene k liye mujhe usse or kuchh ni chahiye bs WO love marriage k liye kaise mnaun

  141. mai ek ladke se bahot pyar krti hun or WO bhi mijhse bahot pyar krta hai mere liye kuchh b krne k liye tyar h meri hr ek baat manta h bs ek baat ni manta mai usse marriage krna chahti hun WO bolta h mere mummy papa love marriage ni krenge mai family k against ni jaunga mai love marriage k liye use kaise mnaun or WO hme kbi alag krne ki baat na kre iske liye mai Kya krun

    1. Had hai, Aap log love karte ho to use bolo ki arrange marriage hi karte hai, bas apne parents ko mere ghar le aao.. Parents mil baith kar baat kar lenge, Love bhi reh jayega & arranged Marriage bhi ho jayegi. sab shi hoga.

  142. Hi yr main bahut bura fell kr RHA hu kuch din se,main ek ladki se pyar krta tha,WO bhi krte thi but kuch din pehle usne mujse breakup krne ki baat krle but aj kal Maine suna h ki uska koi dusra bf h mai usse reason janna chahta hu ,plz help me yr.

    1. Koi fayda nhi reason jaan kar, aisa sirf bevkoof log hi karte hai. Vo apni taraf se sab khatam kar chuki hai isliye apna time waste karna band karo.

  143. Hi.main ek ladki se payar karat hou ham dhono 1 year se relationship main the.but kuch dino pahale who muzase naraj rehane lagi muze ignore karne lagi muzase baat karni banad kar di.maine bhauto pucha uske friends ki help li but uska sirf ek answer thaa muze use baat nahi karni.
    And she Break the all relations

    1. She has moved on, ab aap bhi aage badho yaar, kya rona rote rahte ho sab log aaj kal. jab use pyar hai hi nhi to tum kyu uske liye ro rahe ho had hai yaar.

  144. hello
    my name is prince verma age 15 and her name is khushbu bano 16 year’s age
    hum dono 3 yrs se relationship me the
    hum dono ek school me sath hi padte the but kuch dino baad mera school change ho gya n hum dono ki phone pe baat hoti rhi but summer vacation pr hmari baat hone band ho gyi fir uska call aya 3 month’s ke baad jb uska call aya to mujhe uski bato se lga ki wo mujhe cheat kr rhi hai
    to maine pta krne ki kosis ki to mera sak shi nikla wo mere school ke hi ek ldke ke sath hai…
    so ab hmara koi relationship nhi hai
    but mujhe uski yaad abhi bhi aati hai
    agar wo aaj bhi mere pass a jae to mai use accept kr lunga
    b’coz mai uske bina nhi rh skta
    so ab mujhe kya krna chahiye
    🙁
    but plzz ye mt kahiyega ki usko bhool jao or aaage bdo
    plz plz

    1. Prince vaise to dear tum bahut samajhdar lagte ho par ye baat tumne bacho waali kar di… Dear if a girl cheats with you then never believe her back again. Ab vo tumhare paas aana bhi chahe tab bhi tumhe use Accept nhi karna chahiye, self respect is a big damn thing. Apni life ka target set karo Champ, kuch bada banne ki socho, apna goal achieve karne ke liye apni puri capabilities se bhi jyada mehnat karo and super successful bano, fir uski jaisi 36 tumse baat karne ko tarsegi. Think Big. Live Life with friends, family and ur Life Goal.

    2. yr ths is nt psbl….u forgt her bt thts btr for u avoid her memories nd do smthng btr….agr tumhara pyar sacha h na tho tumhe hurt feel nhi krna chahiye…yahi sochker kuch aage bado…ki usne tho wah khoya h jo sirf uska tha..or maine wo khoya h jo mera tha hi hi

  145. Mam Mai ek ladki se bahut pyr krta Hu aur wo bhi mujhse bahut pyr krti h but aj muje pta chala h ki wo pahle kissi aur se pyr krti thi to ab muje KY krna chahiye Plz answer me..

  146. Mam mai married hu auur ek ladki ke sath last 8 saal se relationship mai hu.usko maine nahi batya ki mai married hu.abb uski shaadi pakki ho gayi hai mujse alag ho gayi hai.mujje bahut yaad aa rahi hai uski abb.man nahi lag bilkul bhi.mere 2 bacche bhi hai mam..plzzz help me

    1. Hahahaha…. Bitto Sharma ji aapko balki ye shukar manana chahiye ki ye case itni achi tarah se khatam ho gaya, ab aap usse har tarah ka contact khatam karo and apni family ke saath khushi se jiyo, sharam aani chahiye aap apni wife ko itne dino se dhokha de rahe the.

  147. Hii shivshi my name is hanuman me kisi ladki se dosti karta hu lekin wo mujhse naraj h to me usko manane ke liye kya karu me usko bahut pyaar karta hu dil or jaan se prem to mujhse wo bhi karti h lekin ab wo naraj h me usko kese manau please helf me

    1. Sabse pahle use ek sorry message bhejo and promise karo ki vo cheez fir nhi hogi jiske karan vo naraj hai. Uske baad use milne ke liye bulao, jab vo mile to uska haath pakad kar, aankhon me aanhe dal kar usse maafi mango, promise karo and fir use koi ek chota sa gift do and khush raho 🙂

  148. Hi

    My self umme

    Mai apne bf jinka nam Asif Equbal hai unse bahut love krti hu bahut aur ha mujhe pta hai wo v mujhe bahut love krte hai but last December se pe kuch problem ho gyi thi jiske wjh se wo mujh se bat krna bnd kr diye hai…
    Actly unko gussa bahut aata hai…
    But is bar to bahut jyada ho gya hai but mai sach bol rhi hu k m unke bina so v nhi payi hu last December se…
    Plz wo mere life pe wapas kyse aa jae suggst kro aap plzz…

    Aur ha koi acha sa solution dena aap bhulne to bolna hi nhi aap please wrna mai mr jaungi…bol de rahi hu..
    Plz reply fast.

    1. Are yaar Habeeba ab tumne baat hi aisi kar di hai ki main kya kahu…. Tum aisa karo uske kisi friend se baat karne ki kosish karo ya kisi bhi aisa person se jo tum dono ko janta ho, use bolo ki Asif ko bolo sirf ek baar mujhse mil le, main unse kuch bahut jaruri baat karna chahti hu… Asif agar to aapse sach me pyar karta hoga to vo jarur aayega Fir use mil kar kuch bolna mat, apni sari feelings aur pyar ek paper me likh kar rakhna aur jab vo samne aaye udas chehre se use Hi bolna, vo puchega ki, kya baat karni hai to use vo paper dena aur bolna, pls pahle aap ise ek baar padh lo fir baat karna. Agar Asif really tumse pyar karta hoga to us letter ko padh kar vo khud tumse baat karega aur sab theek ho jayega. This is the best idea I can think of. Pls try and mujhe bhi batana 🙂

  149. mai ek ladki se pyar karta ho aur woh bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti ek din mai usse akele mai baat kar raha tha tabhi waha par uska bhai aagaya aur usne apni sister ko ghar bhej diya aur mujhe 2 tamacha mar diya fir mai mila toh maine kaha ki tum mujhse pyar karti ho ya nahi to usne kaha nahi, ab toh wo mujhse baat bhi nahi karti, but roz mere saath ghar aati hai? Ek bar bhi kuch nahi bolti ab aap hi bataye mai kya karo

    1. Abhishek ji, vo ladki samajhdar hai aur apne family ki baato ki respect kar rhi hai. Agar aap use paana chahte ho to safal bano, itne safal ki uske ghar waalon ko apni ladki aapko dene me koi problem na ho.

      1. Mam mein aik ladki sey bohut pyar karta wo phle wo b mujhe bohut pyar krte thi and mujhe shadi k bare mein b bolti thi kya ap mere sath shaddi karo gye mam mujhe uski asi he mithi mithi bato sey bhout yada pyar ho gya mam par ab bolti hai ki tum koi aur dekh lo .. par mam wo pagal kya samjhti hai ki zindgi mein pyar aik baar he hota hai bar bar nahin mere toh usne life he barbad kr di mujhe. Sirf rona atta hai mam usne 20 din phle mere sath frindship ki aur 4 din sey asa he natak kar rhi hai na phone karti hai phone mujhe. Khid krna pdta hai usko and mam mein 4 din sey sirf ro he raha ho mam mujhe j pyar 1st time hua hai mam meri age 18 saal hai and uski koi 15 16 hogi mam. Plzz mujhey batou kuch

        1. Sunil man to tumhe gaali dene ka kar rha hai par majbur hu aisa kar nhi sakti, tum itne Bevkoof insaan ho ki 15 din kisi ladki ne meethi meethi baate kya kar li uske liye din raat ro rahe ho… Ye btao jin maa baap me hjaro dukh seh ke apni zindgi tumhare naam karke tumhe pala, posha itna bada banaya unke liye kya kiya hai tumne aaj tak ? Bevkoof logon ki duniya me kami nhi hai so aap bhi ek aur bevkoof mat bano, bhaad me jaane do us ladki ko, apni life ka target banao, aur use achieve karo, safal bano zindgi me. fir uski jaisi 36 milegi.

  150. mai ek se pyar karta ho aur woh bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti ek din mai usse akele mai baat kar raha tha tabhi waha par uska bhai aagaya aur usne apni sister ko ghar bhej diya aur mujhe 2 tamacha mar diya fir mai mila toh maine kaha ki tum mujhse pyar karti ho ya nahi to usne kaha nahi, ab toh wo mujhse baat bhi nahi karti, but roz mere saath ghar aati hai? Ek bar bhi kuch nahi bolti ab aap hi bataye mai kya karo

  151. Mai ek ladke se bht pye karti hu wo b mujhe bht lyr karte hai but uske gharwale razi nai mujhse shadi karwane k liye aur ab mere gharwale chate hai kisi aur se shadi karlu bht bht bure stiution me hu plzz help

    1. Us ladke ko kisi bhi haal me apne ghar waalo ko samjhana hi hoga, use bolo ghar me jiske saath uski achi bonding hai use samjhaye, uske saamne roye aur gharwaalo se apni baat manwane ke liye request kare.

  152. Main ek ladki se bahut bahut pyar karti hu,wo bhi mujhe pyar karte hai,
    Leki me jittna karti hu utna nani,mai har gadi har pal bas uske bare mai soch ta rehta hu,wo mujse sms me bat karti hai,mai har gadi uske sms ka
    Intejar karti hu,bt wo sirf rat me hi msg karta hai,uske bare mai jab sochta hu mujhe bht tension hoti hai,mai khana,pina sorke sirf uske bare mai sochta hu,mai use milna chati hu lekin wo milna nahi chahta,wo apni ma,bap ko bht respect karti,hamesha dorti hai uske ma bap se,lekin mai bht tension mai rehta hu,mai use sacha pyar karti hu,lekin mauje biswas nahi hota k wo mujshe shadi karigi.,isiliye mai use tuch karna chati hu,kiss karna chati,magr kaise karu,..agr mai use tuch karunga to wo bhi mujhe be inteha pyar karegi meri tarha,,,,.plz mujhe bata ye kaise use milu,kaise usko kiss karu plz plz??????

    1. Agar us ladki ki jagah main hoti to aapse break up kar leti, jo insaan koi dhandha na kare har waqt faltu logon ki taraf msg ka wait karta rhe aur nonsense reason se theek se khana peena bhi chod de aise insan ko koi ladki pasand nhi karegi. Bhut tension me rhte ho?? kyu rahte ho?? Jo hona hai vo hoga, jyda tension le ke kya hone waali cheez nhi hogi ? Aap bas apni taraf se sab theek karo and apni life jiyo, jo ho rha hai hone de apni life jiyo aur jo aapse pyar karte hai unki fikar karo, bajaye iske ki ek ladki ke chakar me pagalpanti karte rho din rat.

  153. Hum ek ladki se pyar karte the
    Lekin bo ladki kisi dusre se bahut pyar karti thi
    Bo ladki ji se pyar karti thi us ladke ki shadi ho gai.
    Bad me Maine propose kara to nahi Mani(bo hamari ristedar hai) tab hum ne use kahan
    Ki hum train se mar jayege tab bo maan gai .
    Lekin phir bhi bo yahi keh rahi hai ki mujhe us ladke ki yaad ati hai .
    Or mere dil/dimag me bahi rehta hai

    Pls mujhe batao mai kya karukaru pls

  154. Ek girl ko m baahut like Krta hu wo kisi or ko like krti h kya kru wo mere room k samne rahti h or wo jise like krti h wo ladka bhi wahivpe rahta h mai kya kru plz mam reply

  155. mera qus ye tha ki mujhe gf bnana chahiye to KYU BNANA CHAHIYE
    nhi bnana chahiye to kuy NHI BNANA CHAHIYE
    thoda logical qus hai mam smajhne ki kosis kro fir ans do

    1. Yeh jaroori nahi ki aapko gf banani chahiye. Life mein gf banane ke siwa aur bhi bahut saare aur achche kaam hai. Aap aise kaam karo ki khud ladki aapki gf banne mein majboor ho jaaye

      1. me mera nam pjd likha he kyuki mere ghar ko na pata chale
        me jb 10me thi tab muze ek ladke ne propose mara mene 10 ke ending me use yes bola oh mera pehala pyar tha but us relationship me bahut utar chadhv hue

  156. Me bank me job karta hu me ek gf bnana chahta hu kya mujhe gf bnana chahiye,Mera question hai. Agar mujhe gf bnana chahiye to kyu bnana chahiye? agar nahi bnana chahiye to kyu nhi bnana chahiye.ye ques mujhe bahut problem me dal diya hai plz reply me

    1. Aapko gf ki koi jarurat nhi hai, kyunki agar hoti to aap ye nhi puchte ki gf banani chahiye ya nhi, balki aap puchte Shivhi ji gf kaise banau… 😛

        1. Jis ladki ne aapko chhod diya hai aap uske liye apni life mat spoil karein. Up downs are part of life and the one who keeps going is the real person.

  157. Shivashi ji main ek ladky ke piche 2year se parahua hu,bich me wo mujhe accept kia tha but jab use hamara dharm ke bareme pata chala na jane kyu wo mujhe abort karne laga phir mobile number change kar dala ,or ha apko batana bhul gaye ki wo mera samne building rehti hai,or wo loge humlogoshe haisiyate bara hai,phir wo pehle ki tarha chat me nahi ati thi or agar ati thi to zyada der nahi rehti thi or mere tarap nazar bhertei nazar ghura leti thi hum usshe bat karne ki kitne kaushish kie par wo mujhe moka deti thi ,phir ekdin maine suna wo kishi aur ke sath pyar karte hai par mujhe yakin nahi hota tha kyu ki hum jab yeshara karte the wo kavi kavi rat me vi chatme ati thi lakin nazar virtehi moo gura leti thi .aab main do tana me pargya tha ki WO mujhshe pyar karte hai yaa nahi mera dost yaar mera mazak uraA ta tha mujhe DAT ta that ki uski picha chod de lakin main chod nahi pata tha,phir ekdin nazar aya wo uski boyfriend ke sath phone pe batkar rahi this tabse mera halat bohut kharap ho gaya hai.main kya karu much samaz me nahi as raha hai?main ushshe itna pyar karta hu ki ushe kousish karne ki bawazud bhi bhula nahi pa raha hu .mera accha accha job ka ofer araha tha par maine uske liye sab ko thukra diya abhi bhi job ka ofer araha hai mujhe kuch samazme nahi aaraha hai main kya karu??PLEZE HELP Me……

    1. Kalyan aap job shuru karo, apni life ko nyi disa di, apna attitude change karo, chutiye ladko ki tarah na raho, Fun karo, masti karo, Job me hard work karo, apne bhagwan (Mammi-Papa) ko khush karne ke liye, unko proud feel karwane ke liye har pal kosish karo, kuch aisa na karo ki aapki Mammi ji ko dukh ho…. Aapki koi problem nhi hai, bas aapki life ka attitude galat track par hai, aapko use change karna hoga, jo ladki aapko nhi chahti us ek ladki ke liye itni achi zindgi ko barbad mat karo pls, Ye meri request hai aapse. Khoob mehnat karo, safal bano, itne safal ki hum bhi garv se keh sake ki wah yaar kya baat hai, apni zindgi ka goal set karo aur use achieve karne ki kosish karo… Inspire the world my friend. make everyone happy. Love ur Family, Enjoy with friends, ye hoti hai zindgi 🙂

  158. shivani ji me apni gf se bahut pyar karta hu but kuch bato ke karan ham dono me ladai ho gai nd uski shadi bhi ho gai hai ..me usko mana rha hu o mn hi nhi rhi hai ..
    kya mujhe uska picha chhod dena chahuye ..
    mujhe uski bahut yaad aati hai me usko bhul nhi pa rha hu hu pls meri help karo me kya karu..

    1. Bilkul uska peecha chod dena chahiye, jis cheez ka koi acha future na ho vo karne ka koi fayda nhi hai. Pls don’t waste ur time dear..

  159. Me PG kar rha hu sath me I.A.S ki taiyari kar rha hu.Meri koi gf nahi hai mujhe lagta hai kisi girl se love karna sirf apne ap ko dhokha dena hai keval time barbad karna hai. kya ye bat sahi hai ki gf bnana apne ap ko dhokha dene ke brabar hai aur apna time barbad karna hai.ap ye btaiye kya mujhe gf bnana chahiye ya nhi? plz reply me

  160. me ek ladki se bohot pyar krta hu…pr woh bhi krte hai….bs fark itna hai ki pyar me caste ko kyu late hai log sab…..mere gf bohot masoom hai….uski mami bar bar damkee deti hai tuh usse bte mt kr brna mara jyga….uska bina hum nhi rhe skte nah woh rhe skte hai….kya karu….aab bta dijya…me apna feeling kisi ko share nhi krta hu sirf mere mummy ka sibaye….apne bola hai solution milega isliya apko bola hu…zaroor bta dijyga mera liya bohot important…..aap ne bhi toh kisi se sacha dil se pyar kya hoga nah…toh aap mere feeling zaroor samjhgne…..

    1. Raju Thakur pyar chahe kitna bhi ho Family pahle aati hai kyunki mera manna hai ki is duniya me asli bhagwan Maa aur Pita hi hote hai, unko dukh de kar kuch bhi karna alat hai. Aap itne pagal na bano pyar me, manti hu pyar karke bhulna aasan nhi hota par uski family ki feelings ki respect karna bhi jaruri hai. Agar kuch galat kiya to kuch fayda to hoga nhi par hamesha ke liye kuch na kuch nuksan jarur karwa loge aap.

  161. Mam mera aapse simple sa question hai mein ik ldki ko bahut jayada hi pyar krta hun every time ussi ki yaad aati hai mujhe mein aapni life setlled nyi hun abhi par mein setled nyi ho pa raha hun vo kehti hai life mein kuch bn jao par koi v kam krta hun to vahi nazar aati hai kanhi man ni lgta or vo jayada padi huyi hai mujh se vo bolti carrier pahlay hai krti vo v hai par limited or aapne mom dad k deciaon k khilaf ni ja skti agar ho gyi to theek hai agar nyi huyi shaddi phir v koi ni kehti par mein control ni kr pa raha hun ye soch soch k preshan hota rehta hun ki aayegi meri life mein ki nyi pyar bahut krta hun 7 year ka relation hai tell me mam

    1. Dixit ji aise sochne se kuch hone waala hai nhi balki tension hi badhegi, so aapko ye sochna chahiye ki aapko kisi bhi haal me apni life me sucessful hona hai, kaam ke time uske baare me mat socho, uska khyaal aata hai to us khyal ki taraf dhyaan hi na do. Apne kaam par dhyan lagao aur safal banne ki kosish karo, mehnat karo, best bano..

      1. Bahut tuff hai mam uska phone v aa jata hai phir dil krta ki mil loon par carrier v bnana hai aapko kya lgta vo ldki sahi hai ya nyi shaddi kr skti ya nyi uske mom dad raazi nyi hai or humra relation kafi storng hai mein bhul ni pata yr jo kuch pal uske sath beet jaye yaad aate hai tell me miss

        1. Are yaar ye to sabke saath hota hai, main baat ye hai ki aap kis cheez ke liye passionate ho. Apne mann ko kabu karo ya jaise lakhon karodo log aam zindgi jee rahe hai vo jiyo, aapki marji hai.

      1. Ji Aapki baten Se phir Se Jeeny Ko ji chahta hai bilkul theek Bol rahi hain aaap……
        Main B apni zindagi ka aim banata hun
        mujhy dunia dekhni hai… like bunny bunny k jaisa ban jaunga Ko usko bhool jaunga thank you

  162. Hii Shivshi mam. my problem is ke main use bahut dil se pyar kr chukka hu. lekin mjhe use bhulna ha apne zindagi se bahut dur krna ha use lekin bhula ni pa rha hu. aur bhulane ka ye karan ha q ki mjhe doubt ha ki wo kisi aur se pyar krne lagi ha uska mob busy to nhi batata but hmlogo ki baat ab jab bhi hoti ha bahut jhagda hone lagta ha. So mam what should I do.

    1. Dear Noor ek relationship ka matlab hota hai ki usse hume khushi mile aur hum apne saathi ko khushi de, apne khushi aur gam baante, par aapke case me bilkul ulta ho rha hai… Khushi kam aur vo faltu ke tension jyada de rhi hai to simple si baat hai agar aap me dum hai to use direct bolo “baat baat par jhagda mujhe pasand nhi hai, tu har baat par lada na kar” uske baad agar vo relationship todne ki dhamki de to usse pahle aap use bolo Bhaad me jaa..
      Relationship me khush ho to raho, varna baat khatam karo, 100 baat ki ek baat.

  163. Hiii…..
    Hwz U Dear??
    Mera Ek Quest H Mai Ek Ladki Ko Bht Pyar Krta Hu Agar wo Mujhse Baat Nhi Krti To Pata nhi Sab Alone Boring Type Lagta H !!
    wo Kehti To H Ki I Love U but Mujhe Doubt Hota h ki wo kuch chupa Rahi H mujhse !
    wo Mujhse Zyada Modern H Acche Clg M padhti h
    Please Sis Help Me Mai kese Pata Kru Ki Wo Mujhse real m love Krti H Kya Kru Please tell me??
    Aisa Koi Rasta To Hoga Ki Wo Mujhe Confirm Ho Jaye Ki Wo Bhi Mere Bina Nhi Reh Sakti ??

  164. hi shivshi mera ak gf tha bt uske sath mera break ho giya ha.now i fill very lonly. isme sara dos uska tha i thing usne new bf bana liya or may ab or upset fill kar raha hu. ab may kiya karu usko saja dilwalene k liye or ya fill karwane k liye ki wo mujhko chorke bohot vul kiya. hey shivshi am a bengali boy thats why hindi likhne me thora dikkat hota ha agar kuch k vul likha hu to plz thora samajh9 ka par lena.

    1. Raj I understood what u saying, but see.. if you want to teach her a lesson or want to make her miss u then sorry dear, I don’t help in revenge. Isse aap sirf aur sirf apna time waste karoge aur kuch nhi. Take my advice just leave her and take her out of ur brain. Move forward.

  165. ye problem kuch alag hai…wo m ap pe problem de kr puchta hu…

    smjh ligye ki ap kisi ladkey se bhout pyar krti ho krib 8years tk ap logo ka chala
    jyada kuch nhi bus kiss hua in 8 years me
    phir ap ko us ladkey k visay me pta chala kisi or k through ki us ki merrage ho chuki hai or ap ne us ladkey se bola ki chalo abhi merrage krtey hai phir oo ladka bolta hai ki meri merrage ho chuki hai or oo chala jata hai…lekin ap us se bhout pyar krti ho…

    yo plz ap ye bt btaiye ki ap us ladkey ko kese bhula dogi
    mtlb usey bhulnay ka koi aacha idea ho to plz bta digye…

    1. Use bhula dena possible nhi hoga, jiske saath maine 8 saal gujare use kaise bhul sakte hai par mujhe ye reality accept karni padegi ki ab vo ja chuka hai and mujhe apni life jeeni hai so Main apni life ke liye shi decision lungi uske liye din raat roti nhi rhungi bcoz usse ultimately kuch hone wala to hai nhi. Main apne parents ki marji se marriage krungi and jisse meri marriage hogi use apni Dil aur Jaan se pyar dungi. 🙂

  166. Mam 1 ladki school tym me sath padti thi mere hm 9th or 10th class me classmate the per kbhi school tym per hmne baat ni ki thi ek dusre se…per ab vohi ladki 8 saal bad fb per mili phir hmne ek dusre se bat ki fb pr hi bde ache se phir no b exchange kiye ek dusre k sath fir hm whatapp pr bat krte the ache se lekin phir mne ek din use kha ki me tumse phn per bat krna chahta hu ek bar uske bad se uska mujse bat krne ka trika hi bdl gya rudely bat krne lgi uske bad vo or muje shutup khdi fir muje gussa agya to mne us pr thoda gussa kr dia uske bad usne whatapp or fb per b muje block kr dia phr mne use smjane k liye dusre no se call or msg kiye use to usne bola ki muje tumse bat ni krni ab or kafi badtamizi se b bat ki usne mujse to muje b gussa agya to mne use gusse me i hate u kh dia uske bad usne mere frnd ko bola ki mujse khde ki m kbi use call ya msg na kru uske bad se mam 1.5 mhina ho gya pr usne na to block se htaya or na mne kbi call ki use per muje uski bht yad ati h gusse me i hate u kh to dia mne per me bht pyr krta hu use me kya kru mam btao please ab please mam apse request krta hu reply jrur dena

    1. Sayar main aapko yhi salah dungi ki aap us ladki ke chakkar se nikal jaao vhi aapke liye acha rhega. Apne kaam and future par dhyaan do and successful person bano. Vaise bhi ye sab aaj kal bhut common ho gya hai aaj ladki kisi ke saath aur aur kal kisi aur ke saath, same thing Boys ke saath bhi hai so don’t be so serious. Live and Enjoy Life 🙂

      1. Mam aap sabki problem solve karti ho sabki story sunke per kabhi apne apni khud ki story nahi batai aisa kya hua apke sath jo apne ye site bnane ki sochi aisi kya bat hui jisne apko ye sab sochne per majbur ker dia

          1. Thik hai mam per aap btaiyega jarur apki bato se kafi motivation milta hai mujhe me apki story janna chahta hu muje intejar rahega apki apni story ka.