Lo Doston! Pyar aur rishte ke Sawal jawab me ek aur sawal hajir hai. Humare Kolkata ke ek dost aaj kal bahut preshan chal rhe hai aur unhe kuch samajh nhi aa rha ki unhe kya karna chahiye aur kya nhi. Samasya bahut hi filmy kism ki hai. Vo kisi ko dil de baithe hai aur jise vo apni Dil wali kothi me bithana chahte hai vo kuch aur hi raag alap rhi hai. Vo humse janna chahte hai ki unhe ab kya karna chahiye aur kya nhi. To aayiye doston hum apne friend ki samasya ko jaane aur unko behtar se behtar salah Dein…


Main Use Pyar Karta Hu Par Vo

Main ek ladki se 1 saal se baat kar rha tha…. uske sath tution me bhi padha tha lekin us time usse koi khas jaan pehchan nhi thi. Fir jab 12th class ke bad tution jana band ho gya toh maine us ladki ko facebook par friend banaya. Phir hum bahut ache dost ban gye, Aur fb, whatsapp aur mobile pe baat hoti thi lekin bahut hoti thi. Dekhte dekhte ek saal ho gya aur mere man me uske liye feelings arise hone lgi… Main usse pyar karne lga. Tabhi ek din baat baat me usne keh diya ki – `Vo mujhe bhai jaisa manti hai`.

Ye sun kar mera dil tut gya, aage kya karu kuch samajh me nhi aaya to phir 4 – 5 din toh baat band kar diya aur phir mujhse rha nhi gya usse baat kiye bina aur main uski bahut care bhi karta tha toh maine usse vapas baat karni start kar di…aur aaj bhi baat kar rha hu.

Main Use Pyar Karta Hu Par Vo samajhti nhi sad boy standing alone Image

Karib 6 months ho gye jab usne kha tha ki vo mujhe bhai manti hai toh main beech beech me gusse me baat band bhi kar deta hu. Kabhi kabhi to mahine bhar baat nhi krta. Lekin phir control nhi hone pe krne lgta hu…. aur aisa sirf isliye kyuki main uski bahut care karta hu. Uske jyada friends nhi hai aur vo bahut akeli akeli hai. Mere alava kisi se kuch share bhi nhi krti. Mujhse sab kuch share karti hai…. isliye…lekin Main usse bahut pyar krta hu… Aur samajh nhi aa rha ki kya kru. Use bhul jau ya kuch aur karu. Bhulne ke liye baat karna band krna hoga… Please suggest me Main Kya Kru ?

Use Apni Dil Ki Baat Khul Kar Btao

Dekho friend aapki pyar ki problem hume samajh aa gyi hai aur ab hum jo aapko batane ja rhe hai vo dhyaan se padho aur dimag me daal lo. Tum use bhut pyar karte ho ye baat theek hai par vo is baat ko theek se nhi janti. Isliye ye tumhari duty hai ki us tak ye baat saaf saaf clearly phuchao. Use ye baat puri taraf pata chalni chahiye ki tumhare man me uske baare me kya khayal hai. Tumne kha vo tumhare saath sab share karti hai aur kisi ke saath kuch share nhi karti, ye tumhari galat fehmi ho sakti hai. Lekin isse jyada fark nhi padta.

Ab tum karo ye ki jab next time usse baat karo use bolo..

Mujhe tumse ek bahut serious baat karni hai. Dekho mujhe nhi pata ki tum humare is rishte ho kaise dekti ho, dosti manti ho ya friendship ya kuch aur. Lekin mere dil me kuch hai jo main bhut time se tumhe batana chahta hu aur ab mujhse rha nhi ja rha so ab batana chahta hu. Baat ye hai ki… Main tumhari bhut care karta hu, tumhe bhut like karta hu aur Mujhe tumse pyar hai. Ab se nhi kafi pahle se hai but main ye baat kahne ki himmat nhi kar pa rha tha lekin aaj khe bina nhi reh saka.

Itna likh kar tum use bhejo, Apni taraf se editing kar lena aur agr kuch aur bhi kehna chahte ho to add kar dena. Fir vo kya response deti hai us par depend karta hai ki tumhara relationship kis taraf ja rha hai. Agar uske dil me bhi tumhare liye pyar hoga to vo jrur postive reply kregi aur agr kuch aur baat hogi to vo bhi khul kar bta degi kyuki tumne khul kar sab kha hai.

Uske baad tum par hai ki tum uske faisle ko accept karte ho ya fir ek filmy aashiq ki taraf uska picha karte rhte ho. Uske liye tadapte rhte ho. Khair ye sab baat baad me krenge, pahle use jo maine btaya vo bhejo aur dekho vo kya kehti hai.

Doston ye to thi meri salah apne friend ke liye jo bechare pyar ke ek jaal me fase huye hai. Agar aapke paas unke liye koi suggestion ho to jrur share kare ho sakta hai humare dost ki help ho jaaye aur ek dil tutne se bach jaaye. Aapki apni is Love & Relationship Tips site par Sache pyar ki, Tute Dil ki khani bhi hai aur health tips bhi. So enjoy Life. Be Happy 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Meri gf ko family problem hai wo pyar krti hai mujhse but family ke dar se relationship me nhi aati mujhe kya krna chaayie maine usse baat ki hai purpose bhi kr diya hai but uska reply yhi aaya ki wo apne family ko dhokha nhi de skti ab me kya kru plzz help me

  2. Hii
    मैं विनय गोड़ लखनऊ से मेँ आपसे ये कहना चाहता हूँ ।
    मैं एक लड़की से प्यार करता था और वो भी मुझसे प्यार करती थी पता नही कैसे क्या हुआ उसके life में कोई और आ गया और उसने मुझे छोड़ दिया इस बात को बीते 7 साल हो गए लेकिन आज भी उससे बात होती है उसके birthday पर उसके life में कोई और है लेकिन आज तक मैं उसको भुला नही पाया हूँ ।
    अभी हाली की बात है मेरे facebook पर एक friend request आया था मैं उसे acsepat किया उसका नाम रिया है फिर हम दोना की बात होना सुरु हुआ फिर हम whatsaap पर बात करने लगे फिर एक दिन उसने मुझे parposs किया तो मैने acsepat करने से पहले मै उनको अपने पिछले प्यार के बारे में सारी बाते बता दिए फिर मने उनका parposal acsepat किया इस time हमारी बाते call से होती है लेकिन डर सा लगता है कि ओ उसके जैसा फिर न हो मेरे साथ वो मेरे हिसाब से हमें time नही दे पाती वो अक्सर अपने हिसाब से time देती है problam ये है कि मुझे बहूत डर लगता है मैं अभी तक देखा तक नही हूं मुझे कुछ समझ में नही आता क्या करूँ क्या न करूं ।।।।कही ये मुझे छोड़ न दे

    1. aap zayada pareshan na ho aapko jitna time chahiye hai usse baat kare aur zaruri nahi har ladki ek jaisi ho

  3. Hii
    मैं विनय गोड़ लखनऊ से मेँ आपसे ये कहना चाहता हूँ ।
    मैं एक लड़की से प्यार करता था और वो भी मुझसे प्यार करती थी पता नही कैसे क्या हुआ उसके life में कोई और आ गया और उसने मुझे छोड़ दिया इस बात को बीते 7 साल हो गए लेकिन आज भी उससे बात होती है उसके birthday पर उसके life में कोई और है लेकिन आज तक मैं उसको भुला नही पाया हूँ ।
    अभी हाली की बात है मेरे facebook पर एक friend request आया था मैं उसे acsepat किया उसका नाम रिया है फिर हम दोना की बात होना सुरु हुआ फिर हम whatsaap पर बात करने लगे फिर एक दिन उसने मुझे parposs किया तो मैने acsepat करने से पहले मै उनको अपने पिछले प्यार के बारे में सारी बाते बता दिए फिर मने उनका parposal acsepat किया इस time हमारी बाते call से होती है लेकिन डर सा लगता है कि ओ उसके जैसा फिर न हो मेरे साथ वो मेरे हिसाब से हमें time नही दे पाती वो अक्सर अपने हिसाब से time देती है problam ये है कि मुझे बहूत डर लगता है मैं अभी तक देखा तक नही हूं मुझे कुछ समझ में नही आता क्या करूँ क्या न करूं ।।।।

  4. yrr me ek ladki se bhut pyar krta tha but usse kabhi bolne ki himmat nhi hui ab uski marriage ho gyi or ab mene use btaya to wo bolti h ki me bhi apse pyar kerti thi prkabhi bol na saki ab hum dono pachtate h ki na bolne ki wajah se aaj dono ka dil tut gya but ab humhum dono se rha nhi jata ek dusre ke bina plezz ap kuch btay hme ki kya krna chahiye ab hme

    1. Ab tumhe apni bewakoofi chod deni chahiye becoz ab kaafi der ho chuki hai, bina baat ke jha koi problem nhi hai vha problem create mat karo, varna tumhara to pata nhi uski life jarur barbad ho jayegi. Stay away from her!

  5. Me study karta hu aur muje ek ladki bahut pasand he par mene kabhi bhi use baat nahi ki he. Par vo kabhi kabhi mere samne dekhti . par me ye soch raha hu ki me usche baat karu ya iska itzar. Mujhe kuch pata nahi chal raha vo kabhi mujhe dekhti to kabhi nahi dekhti.kya karu me plz jaldi reply mam.

    1. Agar himmat hai to ja kar use smile ke saath Hello bolo – agar ladki ko interest hoga to uske impression se saaf pata chal jayega varna vo baat hi nhi kregi.

  6. Madam m ek ladki se pyar krke use saadi ki ph pe parichay hua tha,ek ladka bhi hua, mai ek din gusse se ghar aa gaya wo mera ghar nhi janti mai wahi uske saath raha.maine registry ki.bt wo ab chup kar kisi se baat krti h aur kahti h m tumhare paas kabi ni jaungi aur tum saadi mat karna.m use ph karta hu wo receive ni karti m kya karu?Gf hota to chor deta bache ko bhul ni pa raha

    1. Aapko is baare me apni family ke kisi trusted member se baat karni chahiye, possible ho to kisi acce dost ki salah lein aur us ladki ko samjhane ki har kosish karo, agar jarurat padi to uske parents se bhi baat karo.

    1. May ak indin hnu mai ak larke se payr kart hu or mane usko bola bhe par o bole ke mare sade hone wale hi may aap se pare nah kar sakte hnu laken may use bahot pyar karta hu kya karo aap hi bataeie

  7. Mai ek ladke ko bhot pasand kaarti hu. Wo mere cls mai padta hai… Hum dono ache fd bhi hai. Lekin mai confuse hu thoda ki mai use bol du ki mai use pasand karati hu ya nahi…. ?

    1. Aisi ladki ke chakar se bahar nikal jaao vo hi acha hoga, varna hamesha preshan aur dukhi hi rahoge.

  8. YR m apni Gf se bhot pyaar krta hu or Wo muje bolti hai k mujse pyar krti hai pr fir bhi wo meko Kbhi kbhi ignore kr deti hai merko thoda late rply krti hai or jada baate nahi krti hai azeeb. Azeeb rply krti hai yr merko bhot bura feel hota hai jb m usko bolta hu ki tu aisa q krti hai tb wo bokti hai ki m kuch ni krti bsss or kbhi kbhi mujse har baat pr bhane banati hai mujse baate na krke wo dusre logo shaat baate krti hai or m uska wait krta rhta hu wo merko samzti nahi hai m kya kru m yrr…..

    1. Dekho, agar wo apki girlfriend hai toh apka pura haq banta uske bare me sab jaan ne ka. aap har cheez ko ache se jane, ho sakta yeah bs apki misunderstanding ho, use actually me kuch aur problem ho aur apko hurt na karne ke wajah se wo koi fake excuse de rahe ho. But haan agar ap sure ho toh pehle toh apne mind ko convince karon use chodne ko kyunki wo apke liye sahi nahi hai. wo actually me apko cheat kar rahi hai. Aur apko jayda he uspe gussa aa raha toh apne feelings shivsi se share karo. Bas kabhi khud ko ladki ki wajah se hurt nahi karna. wo nahi toh kya hua, shivsi jaise friend toh hai na apke pas.

  9. Mujhe apni mom ki pasad k ladki say shadi karni hai but ek ladki mujhe bohot pyrr karti hai zabardasti mujhe sexy karne pe mazbur karti hai aur uska pahila pyrr mai huai kya karu bolo

    1. Kuch dino ke liye gayab ho jaao, kisi dusre sehar apne kisi known ke paas ja sakte ho to chale jaao aur use bol do ki career aur study se related mujhe ghar waale ab bhut bol rhe hai… Jab duriyan badhegi to apne aap pyar ka bhoot nikal jayega..

  10. Hey aplog help kre mera mai larki se pyar karta hu or wo v mujhse karti hai lekin mujhe apne parti uske aankho me pyar nhi jhalakta hai so mai kya kru.

  11. mera naam ansar hai, meri girlfriend do din se naraz hai, main fhone &massage bhi kar raha hu lekin wo koi bhi response nahi de rahi hai, batao mai kiya karu,,,,,,

  12. Me ek ladki se bahut pyrr krta hu vo hamari class ki sbse popular ladki h me b accha dikhta hu nd padhne me bhi badhiya hu but vo meri taraf kabhi dekhti bhi nhi ab mujhe kya krna chahiye ???

    1. Aapko apni image banani hogi uski najar me, Confidence le ke aao, usse Hi Hello karni shuru karo, Baat karo, hansi majak karo, use hasao…. Fir dekho jo banta hai.. 🙂

  13. Meri gf…ajkl muje ignore krti..mai usseeee bhauth pyr krta but…vi muje ignore krti…dear so plz help dear ..but i lub her …so much..yll

  14. mam, mai jis ladki se pyar karta hu uska boy frind h ! lekin uss ladki hamesha bat hoti h aur mai usse bahut chahta hu.kya mam mera kuch ho sakta h.

    1. don’t waste your life for her, uske chakkar me apna time barbad mat karna becoz vo aapko sirf aur sirf ta baat kregi jab vo tensed hogi ya use koi problem hogi baaki time vo apne bf se hi baat karegi, uske saath hi rahegi and usi ke saath sex karegi. So bahut saare dusre ladko ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladki ki liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena.

    1. don’t waste your life for her, uske chakkar me apna time barbad mat karna becoz vo aapko sirf aur sirf ta baat kregi jab vo tensed hogi ya use koi problem hogi baaki time vo apne bf se hi baat karegi, uske saath hi rahegi and usi ke saath sex karegi. So bahut saare dusre ladko ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladki ki liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena.

  15. main ak ladki se pyar karta hun or wo bhi mujhse pyar karti hai par wo bhi mujhe apne se nahi batati or main bhi aaj tak usse nahi bata paya ki main bhi usse pyar karta hun to main kya karu uske bolne ka intijar karu ya main use bata du ki main use pyar karta hun plz help me

  16. Hi i am Neeraj
    main ek ladki ko chahta hu .wo mere pados mein rehti hai lekin mujhe bhai manti h q ki wo mujhse 4 yrs badi hai. Main use sirf do month se janta hu aur usse jada baat bhi nai hoti. Lekin jab maine use pehli bar dekha tha usi time se main use like krne lga tha lekin baad mein jb usne mujhe bhai kha toh mujhe acha nhi lga. Ab aap hi batao ki mai kya kru?

  17. M ek Hindu ldka ho, or jis ldki sa m pyar krta ho vo Muslim h. Vo bh mojha bhot pyar krti h. Oska ghr valo na oska college bh chodva diya h. Ab ossa bat bh nhi hoti, phone pr bh

  18. Hi mai ek ldki se pyar karta hu or hum karib 2saal se achhe friends hai or maine use ek baar propose bhi kiya magar usne kaha ki mujhe pyar me intrest nhi hai tb uske baad hum sirf friends the magar wo ab is dosti ko todna chahti hai or pahle hum 1hrs baat krte the magar ab hum baat krte hai toh sirf ladai hi hoti hai or uska koi b f bhi nhi hai toh fir ku wo mere har ek baat se gussa ho jati hai or aaj usne mjhe phone me kaha ki aaj ke baad humara kch nhi ho skta sb khatam ho gya .toh ab ap mjhe bataiye ki mjhe kya karna chahiye is dosti ko kaise maintain karu or dosti pyar me convert kaise karu .help me please i need your help

  19. mosti upr jo tips di gai h me vesa hi krti hu pr mere honey ka khena hai ki me uski prob bati hu pr us prob se thori der door n kar pati m usko mna n pati . me kya karu smjh n aara h i lv him alot or vo v mjhe mjhse jada pyar krta h me usko smjhna hi ni blki ussw prob se door v krna chati hu pls help me kese karu vo meri jaan se bhi jada h usse heppi kese rkhu pls help..

    1. Bas fir ho gaya kaam, ab aap bhi apne kaam par lag jaao… prem khani itni hi thi… Itni si baat samajh nhi aati aap logon ko… ya samajh ke bhi samajhne ki kosish nhi karte..

  20. हम रहे ना जग की अब काबिल, तेरी चाहत के हैं हम तालिब,
    कल ना पड़त दिन रैन हमें, तेरी चाहत ने हमें मार दिया ।
    नहीं लौट के हमने जाना है, तेरे अधरामृत को पाना है,
    ऐ मधुसुदन कर दो पूरा, जो तुमने है इकरार किया।।।।

  21. Hi shivshi Ji
    Sufyan
    Actually mere class mai do dost hai OK mai those din un dono ko ignore kiya par ab baat karna chahta hun wo dekhti hai mere taraf abhi bhi kya kru janab

    1. Agar aap baat karna chahte ho to ja kar unse baat karo bas unhe ye feel mat hone dena ki aap ne unhe ignore kiya tha ya aap ye baat unhe khud bhi mat bolna nahi to fir wo ab aapko ignore karna shuru kar sakti hai.

  22. frnds plz help me…
    muze ek girl 2 yr pehle fb pe mili thi .dhire dhire hmari baat hone lagi.whtsapp no bhi liya.or whtsapp pe bhi baat hone lgi.esa 6 month tak hua.uske baad mere man me uske liye feeling aane lagi muze us se love ho gya…but vo muze sirf muze apna best frnd manti h..or frndly muze love bhi krti h..vo muzse hr baat share karti h.or m uski behut care karta hu love karta hu.bt vo kuch or boys se bhi baat karti h or muze bilkul bhi acha nhi lagta .or maine use purpose kiya to usne bola m sirf tumhri best frnd hu or m tumhe kabhi khona nhi chati .is liye m tumhe bf nhi bna sakti.bt koi baat nhi.love to karti h na..par muze vo baat pasand nhi ki vo kisi or boys se baat kare..ha vo muze pyar karti h or mere bina rh bhi nhi sakti ..or m bhj nhi rh sakta or use kabhi khona bhi nhi chata..din raat use shochta rhta hu..or na hi study me man lagta h na hi kuch karne ko man karta h..I feel like, I am broken. i am losing my life, my dream ….bolo frnd ab m kya kru koi help karega meri..plz plz

  23. hello shivshi Namasty mera nam anmol hai me pakistan me rehta hu aapki web mjhe bht achi lge & dosray ki tarah mere bhi ek problem hai wo ye k me ek girl ko 13saal c bht like krta hu hum pre-necessary se sth parhty aarahe hai or aaj hum fstyear class me hein un se love bhi bhohat krta hu but first problem wo muslim hai and me hindu aajtk wo mere sth parhti hai lekin mjhe 8th clas me pta chla uska ek boyfriend hai mjhe sub usne khud btaya tha me us k boyfriend se mila bhi tha mjh se handsome tha but ab us boy ne ksi or girl se engagement krli hai uslye me bht dino se soch raha hu ab usko perpose kru but kaise kch smjh nhn aaraha mjh me itne himat nhn k me jaker aise bolun haan letter likh ker uski copy me rkh skta hu aap please mere help krein ab aap e batain me kya kru me bht darta hu us se……….

    1. Miya ji agar to aap use sach me bhut chahte hai and use apni banana chahte hai to likh kar copy me rakhne se baat nhi banegi, aapko himmat karni hogi… Himmat karke confidence ke saath uske saamne ja kar usse smile ke saath baat karo and fir mauka nikal kar apni baat keh do. Sunne me ye bhut challenging lagta hai par yakeen maano aisa hi karna padta hai maximum aashiqon ko 🙂

    2. BuT Mjhe dar Lagta hai us me bht atitude hai nd wo muslim m hindu wo kbi akeli nhn hti uski cousin us k sth hti hai hamesha ya phr uski doxt but letter likh kr send krskta hu plz aap letter k bary me kch batain kya kya likhun letter meh wo batain ………

        1. Mai ek ladki se 2 saal se baat karta hu lekin vo kisi or se karti h and vo ladka uske sath cheat kar raha h tell me frends mai kya karu mene uske piche zehar bhi khaya h vo bhut roi lekin vo khati h mai tujhe frend manti hu or kuch nhi and mai us ladke se pyar karti hu uske bina mai nhi reh sakti frends bato mai kya karu mai uske bina nhi jee sakta frends btaoo mai kaise us ladke se kaise bachu use plz frends tell me and help me

          1. Vo ladki aapse pyar nhi karti, so better hoga aap use paane ki sochne ki bajaye kisi kaam ki cheez me apna time aur dimag lagao. Jo sach hai use maano, aankh band karke uska naam mat japte rho, because usse kuch nhi hoga, sirf time waste ke alawa.

  24. Hi!!! Mera naam Nitesh rajput hai,mein balasore me study kar raha ho,
    Baat yeh hai.Mein ek anjaan larki se pyar karna laga ho, wo hamari room ke fornt me unki ghar. Har rooj subha mein hamari mulkat hoti,, but mein uska sath baat kar nhi pati,Kash mein use apni dil ka baat keha pati” kiyonki wo scoty mein jana aana karti… Plz help

  25. Time is very Powerfull
    Time kisi ka intzaar nahi karta
    .
    Aap ye Decide karlo kii kya karna hai….
    Warna Time decide kar lega kii aapka kya karna hai…..
    .
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    #Mohit_Jamba

    1. Swaroop yhi aapki galti hai, aap use apne aap se bhi jyada pyar karte ho and use ye baat pata hai isliye vo bhaav kha rhi hai aur aapko apne piche ghuma rhi hai bina koi jawab diye, jab tak aap use bhaav dena kam nhi karoge vo aisa hi karegi. Use ignore karna shuru kar do, uski taraf dekho bhi mat.. koi msg, koi phone nhi karo… Fir agar vo khud kuch action leti hai to samjho uske dil me bhi kuch hai varna kuch sochne ki jarurat nhi hai.

  26. Dear mam .. m jise pyr karta hu or vo bhi mujhe karti h hmara love pichle 1 saal se chalra h mne aaj tak usko real m nhi dekha only phn pr bat hoti or daily hoti h mne uski sirf pic dekhi or usne meri net pr or m use bhot love krta hu Kyo ki uski har bat mujhe bhot achchi lagti h aaj usne kaha mujhe ki meri engagement hori h Sunday ko ye sun ke mujhe jhatka laga or mujhe kuch achcha nhi lagra vo bolti h ki m shadi k bad bhi apse bat karungi vo mujhe boli m apko suchcha pyr krti hu but hamari sadi nhi ho paygi mere ghr Vale kabhi bhi hamari shadi ko except nhi karenge or m uske khilaf nhi ja skti m kya kru m usko bhot pyr karta hu

  27. hi….mera name jayesh hai…me ek ladki se 2 saal se pyar krta hoo…bt wo kisi aur ko chahti hai…maine use 2-3 baar meri dil ki baat batayi…bt wo nhi maan rhi hai…aur me usko zyada hurt krna bhi nhi chahta…ab me use kaise ahsas dilau ke me uske bina nhi reh sakta…

    1. Jab ek ladki saaf saaf mana kar rhi hai aapko fir bhi aap Bevkoof ki tarah uske talve chat rahe ho ki mujhse pyar karle. Kya aapme koi self respect nhi hai? Vo aapko like nhi karti ye kab samjhoge? Maan lo ek ladki hai jise aap jante ho but vaise pasand nhi karte aur vo aake aapko bole main tumse pyar karti hu to aap kya karoge. Simple si baat hai use mana karoge. To yhi same cheez vo kar rhi hai. Aap sirf aur sirf apni life barbad kar rhe ho uske chakkar me my friend. Please ye anmol zindgi aise barbad mat karo. Itni mehnat successful banne ke liye karo, apne maa baap ke liye apne bhai behan ke liye mehnat karo, sachi khushi usme hai. Jab aap safal hoge tab khud aapko ladki approach karegi, aapko khi jaana nhi padega. I hope aapko meri baat samajh aayi hogi.

  28. Hello Shivshi ji….

    Mera story thoda bada he so taklif k liye mafi chahata hun or sidhe story pe ata hun….

    Ek ladki he jise me 3 saal se pyaar karta hun wo mujhse 4saal chhoti he jab usse maine pyaar kiya tab wo 10th me padhti thi… toh suruwat pehle iss tarha se hui o mujhe dekhti thi our smile karti thi or mein v karta tha, mera ek dost ki behen he jo uski niche ki class me padhti he, to maine ek letter me apni dil ki baat likh ke use dene ke liye bola, to galati se wo letter unke teacher k hath lag gai or usko punishment bhi mila, phir uske school k sabhiko yeh baat pata chal geya or usko mere nam pe class k sabhi chidane lage… hum gaon me rehte hain or mein nahi chahta tha ki wo mere wajah se badnam ho, isiliye maine 1 saal ka break le liya ,uska pichha karna ya uske usko rashte me wait karna sab band kar diya… our 1saal bad use jab dekha to phir se woh pehle ki tarha mujhe dekhne lagi or smile dene lagi to meine iss bar usse baat karne ki thaan liya or mouka dhund ta raha…. or ek din maine uske saath uske cousin-sister ko dekha ( jo ki mere niche ki class me padhti thi 10th tak hamare gaon mein padhai ki but hum dono me kabhi baat nahi hui mano hum dono stranger ki tarha the… our baad me bahar saher me 5saal padhai karke aaithi) to maine sochaa ki uski sistter k samne usse bat karna thik nahi hoga, but main uss din se usko jab v dekha to aapni sister k sath bahar nikal ti thi, or mein use jab dekhne ki kosish karta to uski sister mujhe dekh k smile karne lagti thi, but wo mujhe ignore karne lagi kuch din aisa chala, or ek din jab usko akela dekh k mene usse bat karne ki koshis ki o mujhe dekhke waha se chali gai, or aab tak wo mujhe ignore karti he uske karib janeki koshish karta hun to woh mujhse dur bhagti rehti he or mujhe pata he ki aaj tak uski koi Bf bhi nahi he… or uski sister se yeh sab batein me keh v nahi shakta kiyn ki mujhe dar he ki o jake uske ghar me na keh de.. or mere jo dost ki behen he uski v koi help nahi le sakta kyun ki aab bo bahar reh kar padhai karti he or mere contact me v nahi he…. toh kya Shivshi ji isme meri koi galti he ya khuda meri takdeer me use nahi likha, uske jitna v kareeb jata hun takdeer usse mujhe dur kar deti he… Shivshi ji kya meri pyaar ki kahani adhuri rehe jayegi..?.. plllzzzz help me…..

  29. Dear mam….main aapke advice ki respect krta hu jo ek tarah bilkul shi h…mujhe ek bar use sari baate bata deni chahiye lkin mera dil dimag sabkuch kehta h ki nahi batau…ek toh woh bahut simple larki h…chasma v lehenti h hamesa salwal suit jo simply indicate kr rha h ki bahut simple h….lkin ha bahut sundar ,intelligent,brillient,aur bahut hi achi larki h…uske friend circle me aisa koi nhi jisse wo sari baate share kre…ek friend thi uski lkin usse av uska contact nhi h…main aapse thori aur baat batana chahta hu ki….maine aapko phle v thora sa bataya tha ki mera ek dost use pyar krta tha….ya phr sayad av v krta h…toh jb maine us larki se facebook me dosti ki toh normal friend ki tarah hi baat krta tha phr jb 2 4 month baad maine us larki ko apne dost k pyar k bare me sab bta diya ….toh usne kha wo usse pyar nhi krti…phr 2 4 month aur baad bolti h ki ek larka 3 sal se mera picha krta h….jab v main tution ya market jati hu toh..( mam main aapko real sabke naam nhi bta skta lkin normally kuch naam main rakh dta hu…mera naam toh aap janti hi h …chandan…mera jo dost larki se pyar krta tha uska saurabh….larki ka naam priya…aur jo larka uska 3 sal se picha kr rha tha uska rajesh…toh ab story pe aate h) toh ek din rajesh ne raste me jate tym priya k carry bag me apna mobile no likha hua ek kagaj dal diya…aur jab priya ne us no pe phone nhi kiya koi response nhi diya toh rajesh usko aate jate rasto me rokkar baat krne ki kosis krta tha….toh achanak pata nhi rajesh ko kaise pta chal gya ki priya hamse baat krti h ….rajesh ko sak hua ki khi wo humse pyar toh nhi krti…toh ek din rajesh priya ko bich raste me rokkar mers bare me ulta phulta baat bolnd lga ki kya tum chandan se pyar krti ho….toh priya in sab se paresan hokar pta nhi kyu uski galatfaymi dur krne k liye rajesh ko aise bol di ki- chandan mera dost h aur main use apne bhai jaisa manti hu….jaisa tum soch rhe ho waisa kuch nhi h hamare bich…aur phr ghr chali gyi….aur pta nhi kyu ek din priya ne rajesh k sath apna phone no exchange ki …aur phr thora thora baat krna msg se call se start v kr di…aur ye sab baate priya ne ek din mujhse kha mere kisi baat ko gusse me lekar….aur kuch baat usne aisi keh di ki mujhe lagne lga ki wo rajesh se pyar krne lgi h…aur main aapko kuch msgs uske dta hu aap khud hi andaja lga lijiye…thnxx

    1. Beta tumhe ek baat seedhi seedhi bta dena chahti hu, tumhe is rishte se kuch nhi milne wala, guarantee hai. na us ladki ne mauke par tumhara saath dena aur na hi tumhare phyar ki koi kadar karni. Acha hoga ki tum apne dilo dimag ko uske upar se hta kar kaam ki cheez, padhayi ya jo bhi kaam karte ho us par lagao. Man nhi manta koi baat nhi, man khud maan jayega agr tum use manana chaho to. Ye sab hume lagta hai ki aisa nhi hoga vaisa nhi hoga lekin sab man ka khel hai agr tum final decision lo and soch lo ki mujhe us chakar me time nhi barbad karna to tum aaram se kar sakte ho. Maine bhi kiya hai. Main jise pyar karti hu usne bina kuch btaye mujhse relationship khatam kar liya, maine bhut time uske chakar me barbad kiya to baad me samajh aaya kuch nhi rakha in sab baaton me. So now everything is upon U. ladki chahe kitni bholi bhali ho us par 100% vishwas kabhi nhi karna chahiye, main ladki hoke ye keh rhi hu kyuki main ladkiyo ko samjhti hu. Tumhe tough decision lena hoga. Chodo use. Uske liye mat jine ki kosish kro jo tumhare dil ki bhavnao ki kadar nhi karta balki unke liye apni Zindgi lga do jinke liye tum sab kuch ko. Aisa kaam karne ki than lo jisse tumhare maa baap ka sir garv se ucha ho jaaye. Beta is pyar mohabbat se zindgi banti bhut kam hai aur barbaad bhut jyada hoti hai isliye meri baat maano. Jiyo unke liye jo tumhe pyar karte hai uske liye time barbad karne ki koi jrurat nhi hai jise tumhara man chahta hai. Man pagal hai. Jitne bade log aur successful log huye hai sab yhi kehte hai jisne man ki baat suni vo hmesha barbad hua hai. So Good bye.

      Aur han, agr to tum meri salah maan rhe ho tab hi mail ka reply karna, mujhe msgs aur story forward krke apna time aur mera keemti time barbad mat karo. Time anmol hai iska shi istemal karo.

          1. Meri gf 3sistr hain uski bdi sistr ka crcter kafi bura hai..wo 2-3 month me apna bf change Kr deti hai..uss se choti sistr 12th tak to acchi thi but is tym wo b usi Ki trh hi ho gai hai aur Jo 3rd sistr hai wo meri gf hai..hamare rlson ko 2year ho gai hain..ab tak to sab thk hai but main use true love Karta Hu..i mean main us se saccha pyar krta Hu..so ab muje darr sa lg rha hai..kahi wo b un dono Ki tarah ho gai..to mera kya hoga.. So pls main apse yhi puchna chahta Hu Ki main use kis tarah se handle kru jo wo b apni sistra Ki tarah na ho..paye bczz muje is bare me itni knowledge Ni hai so plsssssssss tell me?????

  30. यह दुनिया पत्थर है जो जज़्बात नहीं समझती,
    दिल में जो है छुपी वो बात नहीं समझती,
    यह चाँद भी तनहा है तारों की बारात में,
    दर्द मगर चाँद का ज़ालिम यह रात नहीं समझती।