Hello Doston, Delhi ke humare ek friend Mohit ji is waqt bahut tension me hai. Jis ladki se vo bachpan se pyar karte hai uski kuch dino me shaadi hone waali hai, lekin kisi aur ke saath. Ladki ne unse hamesha waada kiya ki, vo kisi aur se shaadi nhi karegi aur unhi ki sajni banegi par ab usne kisi aur ko apna Sajan banane ke liye haan kar di hai. Ab vo khushi khushi apna ghar basane ki taiyari kar rhi hai aur idhar humare dost behad dukhi hai aur ye decide nhi kar paa rhe hai ki unhe kya karna chahiye. Vo humse help chahte hai. To chaliye Sumit ki problem ko detail me samajhte hai aur unki help karne ki kosish karte hai..

Sumit ka Sawal..


Hi…dear…

Mera nam Mohit hai…or meri bhi ek problem hai or mai us problem se bahar nhi nikal pa rha hu..or us prblm ki vajah se main tension me hu or chup chap rehne lga hu…. kyuki mujhse ye sab dekha nhi ja rha hai, or jisse bar bar mera man karta hai ki main apne aap ko hi khataM kar lu…..

Ab main jo btane ja rha hu usko pls dhyaan se padhna or fir mujhe btana ki mujhe kya krna chahiye is prblm me….

Meri college life me bhut ladkiyo kiesath frdship thi.. par clg life khatam huyi or jab main sabse dur hua to mujhe itna fark nhi pada or main dhree dhree sab bhul gya.. lekin ab mujhe jisse pyar hua usko sayad mai jab 10 saal ka tha tab se pyar karta hu. Lekin kabhi bol nhi paya kyuki.. wo humare village me rehti thi. Lekin fir wo delhi aa gyi apni study puri karne ke liye or mere mammi papa or uske mammi papa ek dusre ko jante the kyuki hum log gaon me ek dusre ke podshi hi the… isliye sayad main usko apne dil ki baat nhi bol paya. Lekin jaise jaise main bada hua fir hum dono me bonding kafi achhi ho gyi or fir hum dono ko ehsas hua ki hum ek dusre ke bina nhi reh sakte… lekin hum ye baat bhi jante hai ki humare mammi papa hum dono ki shaadi ke liye nhi manenge, isliye hum dono ne faisla kiya tha ki jab tak shaadi nhi ho jaati tab tak hum saath rahenge.

Aur ab uski saadi ki baat chal rahi hai, jisse mujhe uski saadi ki baat sun kar bahut gussa aata hai…or mujhe achha nhi lagta hai, kyuki shaadi se ralted uske ghar par kuch bhi baat hoti hai to uski mammi aake meri mammi se share jarur karti hai, jisse mujhe gussa aata hai.. or main ye sab baate sun kar bahut preshan ho jata hu or samajh nhi aata hai ki kya kru

Ek bar sochta hu ki ye to hona hi hai… fir sochta hu ki agar ye ho gya to main zinda kaise rahunga….? Aur jab se ye shaadi ki baat chal rhi hai… tab maine us ladki se baat kari to usne mujhe hamesa yhi kha ki – “Ye saadi nhi hogi..” kyuki main kuch aisa kar dungi jisse ye shaadi na ho or ladke waale khud mana kar de… Aur main uski baat par viswas kar ke chup ho jata or apna gussa bhul jata… lekin maine ye dekha ki wo kuch karti hi nhi hai…or shaadi ke liye haan bhi bol diya usne… or jab se shadi ki liye haan boli to ab ladke waale ke phone bhi aate hai uske paas, or wo baat bhi karti hai kyuki uski mammi bahut force karti hai.

Aur main usse puchta hu ki tune haan kyo kri saadi ke liye? to wo bolti hai mammi ne kasam di hai… or ye baat Main bhi janta hu. Wo to saadi kar rhi hai par mujhe samajh nhi aa rha hai, main kya kru. Kyuki main uske bina nhi reh sakta.

Aur ek cheej maine note kari, usse maine bas ek baat boli thi ki wo shadi se pahle us ladke se baat na kare or unko bol de ki main shadi ke baad baat krugi, usse pahle nhi. Aur usne mujhse kha bhi ki vo aisa karegi, lekin maine 2 din pahle dekha ki wo us ladke se baat kar rhi thi or jab maine pucha ki, kisse baat kar rhi hai to usne bola apni friend se kar rhi hu… or jab maine phone me chupke se dekha to wo us ladke se baat kar rhi thi.

Tab se mujhe bahut gussa aa rha hai ki, shayad wo mujhse pyar karti hi nhi hai. Tabhi to usne meri baat nhi mani…kyuki aisa bahut baar hua, means unse mujhse kyi baar jhuth bola hai… kyuki bahut baar maine uska phone check kiya tha to kyi baar hnre realtionship me inhi baaton se prblm hoti thi, kyki wo mere alawa or ladko se bhi baat krti thi, or unke sath realtion me bhi thi.. Lekin jab maine usse breakup karne ke liye bola to usne mere liye sabko chor diya. Ye baat mujhe uski aachi lagi or tabhi humara realitonship itna long time chala.

Lekin ab shaadi ka issue aa gya hai, humare beech me… Pls mujhe btao ab Main kya kru… Wo ladki to shaadi kar legi, lekin shayad uski shaadi hone ke baad main zinda na reh paau… Please tell me ki, main kya kru.

Shivshi Ka Jawab…

Hello Sumit,

Main ye baat manti hu ki us ladki ke liye aapka pyar bahut sacha hai aur aapka rishta bhi bahut lamba chala isliye dukh pahuchna lajimi hai. Par, aapki kuch baate mujhe bilkul bhi pasand nhi aayi.

Dekho, sabse pahle to ye baat samjho ki is duniya me koi kisi ke saath na aata hai na jaata hai, isliye ye kehna ki agar uski shaadi ho gayi to shayad main Zinda na reh paau bilkul galat hai. Kya aapko malum hai, aapke saath jo abhi beet rha hai uske khi jyada bura logon ke saath har din, har ghante, har pal hota hai aur fir bhi vo haar nhi mante aur Zindgi ke safar par aage chalte jaate hai. Isliye sabse pahle khud ko khatam kar lene waali baat ko apne dil aur dimag se nikal do, ye baat sochna bhi aapki maa ko kokh ko gaali dena hai.

Mujhe ye btao aap us ladki se pyar karte ho vo theek hai par, kya aap apni mammi ko pyar nhi karte? Apne papa ki ijjat karte? Apni family ko pyar nhi karte? Jin Maa-Baap ne apni zindgi ke sab sukh aap par luta diye, apni khusiyan kurban karke aapko sab khushi dene ki kosish ki, kya unke liye aapke dil me koi kadar nhi hai? Kya ek ladki ka pyar in sab cheezo se upar ho gaya?

Dekho Sumit, Zindgi har kisi ko muskil waqt deti hai, lekin iska matlab ye nhi ki ek muskil ya takleef ke karan aap apni zindgi se judi baaki sabhi cheezon ko bhula do. Mere khyaal me duniya me hum sab ke liye sabse upar humare Maa Baap aate hai aur fir hum khud aur fir koi pyar, mohabbat ya aisa kuch. Aapki zindgi aapse pahle aapke mata pita ki hai, ise aap ek ladki ke liye unse cheenne ki soch rahe ho ye bahut badi galti hai, aisa fir kabhi mat sochna. Are pyar unse karo jo aapko pyar karte hai aur aapki khushi ke liye duniya me koi bhi dukh sahne ke liye taiyar hai, aur vo hai aapki Mammi ji, aapke Papa, aapka parivar. Apna koi bhi sukh ya dukh dekhne se pahle unke baare me socho, jab vo khush honge to aap khush hoge, aapki aatma khush hogi, aapka bhagwan khush hoga. So don’t ever think this nonsense thing again. 🙂

Main Bahut Dukhi hu samajh nhi aa rha hai Main kya karu - Positive Attitude hi sab kuch hai

Ab baat karte hai us ladki ki shaadi ki..

Sumit aap ab ek baat achi tarah se jante ho ki, vo ladki aapse jhuth bol kar dusre ladke se baat kar rhi hai. Iska simple sa matlab ye hai ki vo khud bhi khi na khi, jo ho raha hai usse khush hai, aur vo janti hai jo ho rha hai shi hai. Aapne hi kaha ki aap dono ki shaadi nhi ho sakti. To aap hi batao aise me vo ladki kya kare, aap ladke ho…. aap kahi bhi jaa sakte ho, khi bhi reh sakte ho, apni life enjoy kar sakte ho, doston ke saath masti kar sakte ho aur kisi bhi age me shaadi kar sakte ho. Par ye mat bhulo ki, Vo ek ladki hai mere dost. Use apne ghar waalon ki ijjat ki bhi fikar hai aur apne future ki bhi, agar vo shaadi nhi karegi to uska kal bahut bura hoga, isliye vo shaadi kar rhi hai. And She is doing absolutely right.

Ab ek baat reh gyi ki, aapne use kha abhi us ladke se baat na kare par usne kiya. Dekho friend, jab koi rishta packa ho jaata hai aur ladka baat karna chahe to ladki ko baat karni padti hai. Aap khud socho… kal jab hum aapki shaadi ke liye ladki dekh ke aayenge 😉 aur vo aapko pasand bhi aa jayegi, uske aap usse baat karne ki kosish karoge aur vo ladki aapse baat na kare to aapko kaisa lagega. Ho sakta hai aapke dimag me alag aag tarah ke khyaal aaye ki, yaar vo baat nhi kar rhi khi aisa to nhi ki vo khush nhi hai, ya vo ye shaadi hi nhi karna chahti etc etc. Lekin agar vhi aapse kuch der baat kar legi to aapko acha lagega aur aapke dimag me koi tension nhi rahegi. So ab aap samajh gaye na ki, vo bechari bhi to yhi kaam kar rhi hai.

In the end, overall ye kah sakte hai ki, jo ho raha hai, theek ho rha hai. Aap kisi cheez ki tension na lo aur humse baat karte rho. Uski shaadi ki baat sun kar tension na lo balki jab bhi aisi koi baat sunne ko mile to smile ke saath socho, ye to hona hi tha aur jo ho rha hai shi ho rha hai. Kuch dino ke liye doston ke saath bahar ghumne ke liye jaao, aur apna attitude positive banao. ye mat dekho kya bura ho rha hai, ye socho aap duniya me kitne logon se achi life jee rhe ho. Khush raho, masti karo. Attitude is everything my friend.

Aap apne parents ko khush karne ke liye har mumkin mehnat karo, kuch aisa karo, aisa ban ke dikhao ki Uncle Aunty ke saath saath hume bhi proud ho ki Sumit humara friend hai. Make us feel proud my friend.. 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Mem meri gf he mujhe uske sath reletion me 2 saal ho gaye me meri jaan se bhot pyar karta hu me serious hu or meri jaan bhi mujh se serious he mem me usse shadi karna chahta hu lekin meri jaan ke ghar waley ham dono ki shadi nahi karana chahte mene kaha jaan ab kya karey to mem usne kaha tum tention mat lo me karungi tumse shadi yaha tak ki wo apne ghar walo se mere liye ladti thi mem achanak usey pata nahi kya hua he 2 haftey se mujh se sirf raat ko baat karti he wo bhi 10 min fir call kat kar k sojati he mem ghar me kaam bhi karti he lekin mem mene ussey rotey huye puchah kya baat he tum mere saath esa kyu kr rahi ho mujhe batao mene kya kiya he usey kasmey dee fir usney mujhe bataya ki mujhe tumse baat kartey me achanak ghabrahat honey lagteee he or usne achanak yeh bhi kaha jaan me ghar walo ki marzeee se shadi karungi esa kyu kiya usne mem…..

  2. Hello dear..Mai ek ldke se our krti hu or wo b mjhse…humare rltn Ko 2years ho gye the….but is Feb me uski shdi ho gyi…. phle usne mjhe ab jhuth bola ki Mai shdi krunga agr fmly Maan gyi too…..lkin uski fmly nhi maani.or usne fmly ki mrzi se shdi kr kii.. uski wjh se mjhe bhttt dukh jhelna pda….meri fmly Ko pta chlgya that…bhttt tnsn me thi Mai..Aisa LG rha that ki marr Jau….but meri fmly ne mjhe support Kia…or aaj wo ldka mjhe cll krta h or bolta h kii mjhe waisa hiii rltn rkhna h tumhare sth humesha..Jo ho gya wo ho gya….kyaa woo mjhse abi b pyr krta h ya mjhse sirf physical hona chaahta h?

  3. Hi meri gf ki shadi ho gayi he ab me kya karu ab koy solution hain kya use bhaga lejaungi me

  4. Kya karu ? Meri GF ki shadi kahi aur confirm ho chuki hai.
    Aur mai aur meri gf hamdono ise rokna chahate hai.
    Aur ye bhi chahate hain ki kisi bhi tarah se gharwalon ki insult nahi ho ho.
    please solve my problem

    1. aap doo apne apne ghar par baat kare aur jo sabse bada ho usse baat kare aur unko yakin dilaye ki aap bahut ache insaN HAI AUR USKA BAHUT KHAYAL RAKHEGE.

  5. Mam Me ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hun aur us se shadi karna chahata hun par vo muslim hai aur me hindu kese karun me bahut pareshan hun

  6. Hii shivashi , plz ap fast reply krna bhut urgent h M ek Ldke se apni jan se v jyda pyr krti hu.3 sal se relationship me h hm mere ghrwale Ldke k yha riste ki bat krne b gaye but Ldke k papa bole jb tk job ni lgegi tv tk sadi ni krunga mere ghr wale jante h M us Ldke k bina ji ni skti fir b meri sadi kahi aur fix kr diye h 27 may ko engement h idr Ldke ki v job lg gai h bus joining letter ana Baki h bs 10 din me letter aa jyega mujhe smjh ni aa rha M kya kru apne ghr pe Kaise mna karu, meri sadi jha fix hui h kya m wha phn kr k sadi se mana kr du? ?

    1. nahi aap mana mat karo isse aapke ghar walo ki insult hogi , aap jiss ladke ko pasand karte hai usse bole ki aaapke ghar par akar ek baar aapke papa se baat kare.

    1. bhag ke shadi karna koi acha solution nahi hai isse aap dono pareshani me ajaoyege aap uske ghar per baat kare positive way me soche.

  7. HI MERI SADHI HO CHUKI H WO V LOVE MARRIAGE PR MUJHE FIR SE KISE SE PYR HO GAYA H AB MAI NA GHAR KA NA GHAT KA HU AB MAI KYA KARU …..

    1. pyar har kisi se nahi hota hain toh apko distraction ho gayi hain aur kuch nahi isliye aap apni wife ko cheat na kare jo apse bahut pyar kerti hai do pal ki khushi ke liye apni wife ka dil na tode unko iss baat se bahut dukh hoga or apki m,arriage bhi kharab ho jaigi or extra materiel affair ka bhi koi future nhi hai.

  8. Hi…!! mam’m …mai sidhe point pe ata hu… meri gf ki sadi jo ri h…but hum ..normal hona cahahte h… meri gf to normal ho gyii h lekin mujshe nhi ho rha hai…hum normal friendship relation me rhna cahahte h…. hmesa ek dusre ko frd ki trh yad kre…. toh btaye …mai kya kru normal hone ke liye mai apne aap ko ye yakin kaise dilau …. ki.. o bs ab meri ek acchii frd hai…

    1. Aapko apne mann par control karna seekhna hoga, aap sab jante ho aur samajhte ho ye aapka mann hai jo ye sab problems khadi kar rha hai aur iska ek hi solution hai… Mann ko jeeto. Apne mann ko apne vash me karo khud mann ke bas me rahoge to hamesha hi preshan aur dukhi rhoge.

  9. Hello mam
    Mai ik ladki SE pyar karta hu aur wo ladki bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti h aur jab bhi wo mujhse milti h rone lagti h hamari shadi ko lekar wo mujhse shadi karna chahti h mai bhi usse shadi karna chahta hu uske ghar wale bhi taiyar h is shadi SE but mere ghar wale nhi taiyar h q ki wo SC aur mai obc hu plz help me mam mai kya karu

    1. Dekho Deep is tarah ke mamle bahut complex hote hai, parents ko manana bhut tough kaam hai but ye try karne ke alawa aur kuch sahi kiya bhi nahi ja sakta, aapki apne family ya relatives me jiske saath bhi sabse ache relation hai usse is baare me baat karo aur unhe bolo ki vo aapke parents ko ye samjhaye ki – “Bacha jisme khush hai hume vhi karna chahiye, agar aaj humne jabardasti uski marji ke khilaf uski shadi kahi aur kar bhi di to vo kabhi khus nhi rahega…” ho sakta hai vo isse kuch samajhe aur maan jaaye.

  10. hey shivi i am rishabh meri gf hai ar usse daily kisi na kisi wajah se ladaai hoti hai vo mujh per ar mai us per pura di tenss rahne laga hu to mai kya karu usko chod du….?

    1. Jis rishte se aapko khushiyan milne ki bajaye har waqt tension mil rhi ho use continue rakhna moorkhta hai.

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

      1. Hii.i am raji am b.tech 3rd year student .mai ek ladki se pyar krta hu.wo b.com3rd year student hy.we love each other very much .Her family also know about both of relationship.but uske dad uski sadi krna chahte hy next year kisi dusre ladke se.uske dad sochte hy us ladke se that means “me” shadi krne me bhut time hy..ladki bolti hy mai usse court marriage krlu.phir dad kuch nhi krenge.and bad me arrange marriage krlenge uski mom v agree hy is bat se.kya mujhe court marriage krna chahiye plz help me.

        1. Sabke baare me soch liya par apni Mata Pita ke baare sochna bhul gaye, unki koi importance hai ya laaj sharam sab bech diye ho.

  11. Hello miss…….
    Mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu
    But use kabhi kab nahi paya
    Darta hu ki kahi usne inkar na kar diya
    Pata nahi WO musse pyar karti bhi hai ya nahi mai use kaise apne dil ki baat batau ki mai tumse pyar karta hu kahi usne inkar kar diya to mai jeete ji mar jaunaga mai uske bina ji nahi sakta
    Mai use kaise apne dil ki baat batu plzzzz aap meri help kar dijiye.,.

  12. Hi
    Mera nam jitendra Tiwari h mai kise ladke se bahut pyar karta hu ek time tha ki ham dono ek sath rahte the khana peena nahna sona ghumna sab kuch ek sath karte the lekin aaj vo ladki mujhe ignor kar rahe h plz mujhe Gide karo ki mai kya karu kyu vo mere jaan or zindge h mai uske bina nahi rah sakta hu

      1. Hyy I m rahul me ek ladki se pyar karta hu or wo bhi mujse pyar karti he me usse shadi karna chahta hu lekin ladki ke ma baap man nahi rahe to me kya karu plz help me

  13. Ma ak ldki sa bhad pyar karta hu vo bhi mara sa bhad pyar karti ha vasa to ham ak hi umr ka karib ha pr mara ko bad ma pta chla ki vo mara sa 5 month bdi ha ….pr ab to pyar ho chuka ..kya asa aksr possible hota ha ki ldki ki umar ladka sa bdi ho ya aga hame dikkt ho skti ha pls say

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  15. Hi shivshi meri ek problem hai mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu wo mujhe facebook pe hi mili mai usase daily phone se bate karta hu mai usase bola bhi ki mai tumse pyar karta hu but wo bolti hai ki mai kisi se pyar nahi karti aur tumhe as a friend pyar karti hu aur tumhe kisi bhi kimat pe khona nahi chahati . Mai janta hu ki wo mujhse pyar karti hai phir bhi wo kahti nahi . Mujhe kya karna chahiye kya mai uski zindagi se dur chala jaau

    1. Duri badhao usse, agar vo pyar karti hogi to khud bata degi aur agar agar dusri baat hogi to vo bhi pata chal jayegi aapko.

  16. Hii mem meri ek gf h wo mujhe sex krne ke liye hmesha force krti h kya shadi se phle apni gf ke sath sex krna Aachi baat h.Agar my kr diya to kuch bura to nhi hoga
    please help me

  17. Hi Shivshi! Mera naam Arnav hai. Meri story bahut he complicate hai. Meri koi gf nahi h. Pr meri ek dur ki(mami ke behan ki ladki) cousin h jo bahut he cute hai. Din me jb bhi free tym mile, hum dono ek dusare ko whatsapp karne lagte hain. Jb msg karte hain to hume tym ka bhi khayal nahi rehta. Kabhi2 to raat ko aadhe neend me msg karne lagte hain. Mujhe wo bahut he acchi lagti hai. I have a huge crush on her. I think I am falling for her. Pr ye baat mai usse keh bhi nahi sakta kyu ki aisa kehna bahut he ajeeb hoga. Pr baat dil me daba ke bhi nahi rakh sakta, bahut pain hota h aur ajeeb bhi lagta h. Kabhi2 to baatein karte2 aankhon me aansu aa jate hain ki wo meri cousin h. Mujhe samajh nahi aata ki mujhme kya gadbadi h? Life me kabhi to koi itna pyara lga. Pr meri badkismati to dekho ki mai jo uske liye feel karta hu wo usse keh bhi nahi sakta. 🙁 🙁 :'(

    1. Oh,..aur wo apke bare me kya feel karte hai, apko pata hi kya? aur doosre cheez agar aap itne cheez ko samjhate ho ki aap ki family use approve nahi karege ya aap uske sath nahi reh payoge toh apni family ke bare m socho aur use chod do, isse pehle bahut der ho. kyunki aj nahi toh kal apko karna toh yahi pdega. bas haan apni family ko aur unki feelings ko kabhi ignore mt karna baki sab kuch theek ho jayega bas unka toota hua dil nahi. So take care aur calmly situation ko handle karo. Aur jayda serious mat ho. apne aap ko use bat karne ke ilawa kahi aur busy rakho.

  18. mem me ek ldki se bhut pyar krta hu or vo bhi.. hm ek he cast se he lekin hm dono k prents is risty ko accpet ni kr rhe h .. hmne bhut koshish ki lekin bat bnne ki bjay or bigad gai…hm ek dusre k bina nhi rh skte hmne shadi bhi kr li lekin hm bhag bhi ni skte kyu ki pari uske papa se bhut drti h … unhone hm dono k bat krne k sare raste bhnd kr diye esy me main kya kru plss koi helpful idea btao…

    1. Sab problems bhi apko pata aur uska solution bhi toh phir shivsi apko kya btaye. main toh hamesha se apko bolte hu, kise se bhi pehle apne parents ko preference de. Ab apka bhi same problem hai parents aur ladki, toh agar mere mane toh ladki toh aur bhi mil jayege but parents nahi. Ab apko sab ache se samjh toh aa gaya hoga. Aur apko pehle sab pata hota ki parents nahi manenge toh phir aisa sab kyu karte ho. chlo der aaye durusat aaye, ab apna decision sahi se lo aur shivsi se baat karte raho.

    1. Dear, agar aap dono ready ho marriage ke liye aur marriage ke responsibilities handle karne ko toh aap kabhi bhi shaddi kar sakte hai. Ab apke sahddi me apko koi help toh nahi kar sakte but jab bhi shaddi karo, hume btana mt bhulna.

  19. Mai bachpann sa ek ladki sa pyar karta hu….. bs mujhe wahi achii lagti h… bht she is not love me… woo mare bare mai koi felling nhi rakti h.. pls help me

    1. Aap usse baat karke apni feelings use batao, uske baad agar vo koi problem btatai hai to dekho agar kuch kiya ja sakta hai ya nhi. uske baad ki baat us par chod do jo hoga ache ke liye hi hoga.

        1. Sorry dear lekin aajkal me use nahi chalti hun isliye aapko apni problem yahi par btani hogi.

        1. Sorry dear lekin aajkal me use nahi chalti hun isliye aapko apni problem yahi par btani hogi.

  20. Mai apne coching ke ek ladki se pyar karta hu , mai ne abhi tak use ye bat nahi bataya , aur ab coching band ho gya ,wah kahi doosri jagah ja rahi hai , ab wah muje kahi nahi milti , mai uske bina nahi rah sakta, mai kya karu ab

    1. Vo ladki aapse pyar nhi karti, so better hoga aap use paane ki sochne ki bajaye kisi kaam ki cheez me apna time aur dimag lagao. Jo sach hai use maano, aankh band karke uska naam mat japte rho, because usse kuch nhi hoga, sirf time waste ke alawa.

  21. Dear aap lagta hai….koi pari ho….jise khud nhi pata ki WO kya hai…..are itni achi baate mat kiya karo…..plzzz kya kaho ….jaane do magar aap really koi pari ho….meri bhi kuch problm hai…..par may ab us layak he nhi raha ki ap se kuch bata pao….par may bhi doosro ki khusi se khus hota hn….aur aur doosre ke dukh se dukhi ….bs yahi rhe gaya hai meri life me….

  22. hello my nane is ritesh mam mai apni gf ko bahot pyar krta hu but usko bhula nhi skta kabhi usse shadi krna cahta hu pr aaj meri gf ne apni mom ko bola ki mai usse shadi krna cahti hu but maa ne mna kr diya usne bola agr vo job krega tab too kraoge but tabhi uski mom ne mnaa kr diya kya kru mai bahot tensn mai hu or uski mom ne uske papa ko btaya too vo bhi bahot gussa hue ………………..plz help me but mai usko khona nahi cahta hamesa usko pana cahta hu

    1. mam plzzz meko msg krna bahot tensn mai hu mai or abhi mai padhai krra hu h.m ki mai bus yahi cahta hu ki vo mere sath hamesa rahe

    2. Dear aapke pas sirf ek hi option hai jaldi se jaldi koi job par lag jao or apne ghar walo se baat karo or fir unhe apni gf ke ghar bhej do.

  23. Muje bhi ladki KO impressed Karna hai but..kyunki woh muje ghas tak nahi dalti..but use hamesha lagta hai..me use hi dekhne sya hun…please meri confusion dur kare

    1. Use dekh kar full confidence ke saath smile karo, eye contact karo.. kosish kare ki eye contact normal se thoda lamba ho paaye. Fir jaa kar usse baat karo bina darre confidence ke saath. Vo jo bhi kar rhi hai uski tareef karo and use koi acha sa compliment do, smile ke saath baat karo. Himmat sabse jaruri cheez hai, next day jab vo mile to Hand Shake karne ke liye haath aage karo. Thoda Besharam hona bhi jaruri hai aur thoda risk lena hi padta hai aise kaamo me. Bas itna bhut hai, itna karo bandi impress hogi jarur.

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  24. Me ek ladki se pyar krta hu bhut phale se krta tha kuch galti meri thi kuch uski lekin vo mere ko chhod di to me usse ladai kr liya hu bhut or vo ab mere dost se bt krne lagi he or mere ko bilkul acha ni lagta ap bta do me kya karu plz or me is samaye mera man ni lagta to me drink karne laga hu plz mera reply to de do plz didi

  25. pls mam ans my qustn muje bhut tenshn ho raha hai vo aisa q kara raha bolke akele akle rahta hai kuch pochto kya huva bolke kuch nai bolta ese mai bhaut pareshan hi

  26. Mera bhi kuch aisa hi hai mai bhi ek ladki ko bohat pyar krta hu or use apna bnane k liye m kuch bhi krne k liye tyar hu i mean jaisa wo chahti h wo meri traf kbhi kbhi dekhti to h bt i dnt knw wo like krti hai ya nhi wo itni sweet h ki mai bta bhi nhi skta use pehli baar dekha tha bs us tym hi soch liya tha ki bss is ldki k sath hi maine puri zindgi btani h so tell me mai use kis tareeke se purpose kru ki wo humesha k liye meri ho jaye

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  27. Help me pls main 1k ladki ko like krta tha but main sabse pahle dosti rkhi phir shire dhire sage bda phir main purpose ki to wo boli nhi krti surf friend manti hu or feeling bhi nhi hai but wo mujhe lagta hai kisi baat se wo Dar rhi hai pls help me mujhe wo chahiye solution do koi…pls

  28. Mam mai apni story st ct m bta ta hu ek girl h jo mere ghr k pas rhati h hmlog 8 month se love kr rhe h lakin 2 month se wo bdlgyi h jise pehle meri. Hr bt ur bt krti thi waise ab ni krti h ur na h acche se bt krti h ur alwy hurt krti h m kuch bolta hu smjhat hu bt ab wo ni manti h ur 7mjhti tb m gusa m kuch bolta hu bt glt aj tk ni bole bt wo hmesa mujhe bolti h k tm hurt krte ho ur trust ni krte ho bt wo mera trust ek br tordi ti tb se kam hogya ur wo hmesa hurt krti h m bahut presan hu wo kyu aisa krti h mujhe kvi kvi lgta h wo love ni krti h ab m usko ni bhul pta hu ab to mujhe bolti h tm mujhe bhul jao bt m ni bhul pta hu kyu ki ghr k pas rhati h m jb v study krta ur usko dekhta hu to rone lgta hu wo aisa kyu kr0ri h m presan hu lgta mar jau ap bto kya resön ho skta h plz

    1. AK simple si baat batati hu, likh lo…. Agar apni zindgi me khush rehna chahte ho to us ladki ke chakkar se niklo, yakeen maano usse tumhe kabhi khushi mile na mile pareshani itni milegi ki tumhrai zindgi nark ho jayego. Jo agr khusiyan pyari hai then stay away from these type of girls.

  29. Hm ek ladki se bhaut payr krtr hai ot usko hm bol diyr ki jao hm tmse kvi baat nhi karege but hmto nhi kt rhe hai lekin wo nhi call kr rhi hai or na msg ab kya kru bhulan v chah rhe hai to nhi bhull pa rhe hai.

    1. Saurav ji aisa isliye ho raha hai kyuki aapse paas life ka koi Target, koi goal nhi hai.. Apni zindgi ka ek goal banao aur use paane ki har sambhav kosish karo, use bhulane ki jarurat hi nhi padegi.. 🙂

  30. Maine Apni Chachi k Beti ko sote waqt cheda diya tha…
    Manta hoon mujse galti huwi hai.. aur pachtap B bahot kiya…Aur o mujse Baat nahi kar rahi
    Ab mai kya karun??? 🙁

  31. hiiii m abhinav plz help me m blkl bhi smj nh pa rha hu ki m kya kru meri ek gf m mtlb mera phla pyr m uske lye bht srys hu m uske bina ek din bhi nh reh pata hu or vo bhi mjse pyr krte h k nh mje ye nh pta m uske hr choti se chote or bde se bde wshses pure krta hu usko kbhi ksi chiz ki kmi nh aane deta hr tnsn m uske sth rhta hu bde se bde problm slove krta hu lkn vo apne phle bf se brkup hone k bd bhi bt krte h mne bht br mna kiya apne pyr ki ksm bhi de fr bhi nh mnte chup chup k msg krte h usko yr m kya kru mere kch smj nh aara or mre smne vo show krte h ki m tumse bht pyr krte hu or m bhi uspr blind trst krta hu plz tell me ki m kya kro mere kch smj nh aara vo mne krne k bd bhi usse bt krte h

    1. Abhinav my boy, that girl is using u so badly. Don’t do her any favour bcoz usse aapko kuch nhi milne wala, aur pyar wyar kuch nhi karti vo tumse, sirf aur sirf time paas aur use kar rhi hai.

  32. H…i shivashi ap bahut a6a kaam kr rhi ho apke in sb bto se hm sare g.f &b.f ko bahut help milti pls aise advise dete rahna yar

  33. Hello, shivshi jee mera name puja hain… Main bahot paresaan hu plz help me….
    Main ek ladke se bahot pyar karti hu aur bo v mujsey bahot pyar karta hain par main apni famly ki wajah se us ladke se break up karna chahti hu… par main ku6 nai karparai hu q ki main use dard dena nai chahti aur na uske saath jindagi beeta sakti hu… Maine kai baar use sachchai btani chahi par mujhsey nai hua…
    Ab aaphi btaiye main kya kru..

    1. Puja aapko family aur usme se ek koi chunna hai to main aapko suggest karungi jisse aap jyada pyar karte hai use chuno, main aapko jagah hoti to family ko hi chunti. Aap jise bhi chuno soch samajh ke chuno, Maa Baap ka naam kharab mat karna pls, bhut dukh hota hai. Pyar ki baat main samajh sakti hu par family se badh kar koi nhi. So think wisely and use apni saari baat aaram se btao.

  34. Shivshi jee please aap apna email id btaiega , mujhe v aapse apne girlfriend se related ek important question puchna chhahta hu. Mai aise moor pe aa gya hu jaha mujhe finally decide krna hai ki usse chor du ya usse kuch waqt du. Aap se suggestion lene k baad hi koi future step lunga.

      1. Shivani ji namsty iam Najeeb 4rm pakistan city hyd me ek larki sy bhot payar karta ho aur wo b mugse bhot payar karti h par uski shadi ho gai h and uske 2 chaild be h par wo ab b mugse payar karti h mene usy parpose be kia par ab wo kahti h k mere bacho ka kia hoga agr me ha kaho to bus yahe kah k tal deti h wo mere ghar k pas h rahti h

        1. Najeeb ab uske saath baat karna aur uske baare me sochna chod do, apni life jiyo aur use bhi apni life sukh se jeene do. Yhi sahi hoga.