Hello firends mera naam Rohit hai aur main first year me padhta hu, Aaj Main aise ek topic ke bare me baat kar raha hu jise aapko bahut help milne wali hai wo topic hai “Ladki Se kaise Chat karna chahiye“. Chat hi ek aisa sadhan hai jisse badi aasani se Girlfriend banayi ja sakti hai, chahe wo baat karne se ho ya mobile chat se dono ek jaise hi hai. Jis ladko ko chat karne ke tarike ke bare me khub pata hai ki ladki kis kis msg se impress hoti hai. Un ladko ki to lottery lagi hoti hai. Kahte hai jaisi dosti ki sangat waisi hi rangat.

10th ke baad se hi mere kuch aise dost the jinko chat karne ki samjh achi khasi thi. Bas unhi ke beech me reh reh kar mujhe bhi kafi chezein pata lag gyi thi. Aaj main aapke samne apni aashiqi ke baare me batana chahta hun. Ye main isliye kar raha hun kiuki mera to bhala mere dosto ne kar hi diya hai aur main aap logo ka bhala kar du. Shayad aap logo ka bhala kart e­karte ek do girlfriend hi ban jaye. 😛 Chalo fir aap sidhe topic par baat karte hai.

ladkiyo se chat kaise kare
ladkiyo se chat kaise kare

Main padhne me bahut tej hua karta tha aur jyadatar ladkiyo ko chod kar kitabo pe dhyan diya karta tha. 10th pass ke baad maine DAV me admission le liya. Waha jakar to main mahine me ek number ka tapori ban gya. 1 mahine pahile kya tha aur ek mahine baad kya ban gya, ye to main bhi nahi samjh paya bus ye to dosti ki sangat thi. Mere dosto me lagbhag sabhi ke paas Girlfriend thi siwaye mere…. kiuki main jyada bolta nhi tha aur na hi in kamo me purana tha. Aksar mere dost mujhse yeh kaha karte the ki Rohit kab tak aise hi singal rahega. Ab nahi Girlfriend rakhega to kab rakhega. Mujhe bhi laga ki….. han dosto ki baaton me kahi na kahi sacchayi to hai. Bus phir kya tha maine dosto ko kaha ki meri bhi banwa do. To unhone agle din hi apni Girlfriend ki friend se mera intro kara diya.

Usne mujhe dekhte hi haan kar diya. Phir kya tha school me to hum baat kar liya karte the jaise taise qki dosto ke sath hota tha. To beech beech me haasi majak chalta rahta tha. Par halaat kharab huyi meri tab, jab raat ko chat karne ki bari aayi. Us time samajh nahi aata tha ki chat me baat kis topic pe karu, qki school me to puri baat kar liya karte the. Main to khajjal ho jata tha. Kabhi kabhar mujhe lagta tha ki ye friendship jyada dino tak nahi chalegi. Par dhanay ho mere doston ka ki unhe chat karne ka khub tarike pata the. Bus phir kya tha dosto ne mujhe ek do din me tyar kar diya. Pata to mujhe pura lag gya tha par mann me confidence nahi tha qki pahli bar in tarkio ko aajma raha tha. Kya pata ye tarike chale bhi ki nahi.

10th tak to main ek sidha sadha sareef ladka tha qki mere dost bhi mere jaise the. 3 – ­ 4 din baad maine saaf saaf conversation me likhna suru kar diya jisse usko meri baat saaf saaf samjh aa jati thi. Aaj kal ke time me koi bhi lamba chora nahi likhta shortcut me likhte hai. Jisse bahut logon ko samjh nahi aata hai ye bahut jaroori baat hai samjhne ko. Phir maine uski family ke bare me phuchna shuru kar diya jisse ladkiyo ko lagta hai ki koi apna chat kar raha ho. Family me sab ke bare me puch lena chahiye. Isse relation thoda majboot ban jata hai. Ye wala tarika to fail ho hi nhi sakta. Maine to uska dil issi me hi jeet liya tha. Chat chat me main usko koi ek aadhe jock mar diya karta tha.

Jise usko beech beech me hasne ka mauka mil jata tha. Doston chat karte waqt aapni girlfriend ko thoda thoda hasaa diya karo. Qki kabhi kabhar chat karte waqt pata nahi kab vo bore ho jaye. Isliye jokes marne se chat lambi ho jati hai aur ladki ka interest bhi bana rahta hai.

Sabse important aur powerful tarika “hamesha ladki ke msg ka reply usi waqkt kar diya karo. Qki ladkiyo ko intezar karna pasand nhi hai. Main to usi waqkt reply kar deta hu jaise wo bhi reply usi wakt kar diya karti hai. Dono me understanding bani rahti hai or phaltu ki ladai bhi ni hoti.”

Ye ek cute sa word hai jisko sunkar koi bhi khush ho jata hai. Agar aap kissi ko repect dete ho to aap uski najro me sabse uper hote ho (Jab maine chat karna shuru kuya tha to usko me hamesha aap kar ke bolta tha). Aur chat me ye bahut jaroori hota hai. Main to yahi kahunga ki relationship ko agar aap lambi rakhna chahte ho to ye tarika jaroor apnaye. Is baat ka bhi khyal rakho ki use kya pasand hai aur kya nahi, Agar apko uski har ek cheez ke bare me pata hai to sawal hi nahi paida hota ki apki relationship toot jaye.

Doston aaj maine apko chat karne ke tariko ke bare me bahut kuch bata diya hai. To main umeed karta hun ki ye topic, and Ladki se Chat Kaise Kre tips aapke bahut kaam ayenge. Agar aap in tariko ko aajmate ho aur kamyab hote ho to hame jaroor comment kijiye aur problem ke bare me bataiye. Ham agli story me un problems ka hal jaroor nikalenge. Agli baar ek aur storty ke sath. Hamari story ko like kijiye aur jitna ho sake utna share kijiye, pata nahi kab kiska bhala ho jaye.. 😀  Aur ek jaroori baat…. ladki ko sab se jyada acha tab lagta hai jab aap uski topic par baat karte ho jo use sabse jyada pasand ho. Have a nice day all my Friendz……

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Mari aik gf hai mai ussa sex chat karna chata hu kasa start karu wo bhi chati hai karna Abhi mai durr hu ussa isliya hamara bich sex nhi ho paata

  2. Hye shivsi mai aapke baare me bataa mera naam mayank and muzaffarpur se acttually mera problem ye ki mai fb pe ek ladki ko bhot like kartas hu Maine use poocha agar mai aapko purpose karu t9 usne jawab diya mai kaisi ke sath relation me nahi rahna chahti pata nahi but Aida usne kyo Maine wajh pooch BT nahi plssssss help me mai use bhot pyàrrrrrrrrrr k
    Karta h pls kis8 v haaal me reply jarur dena mere email pe plssssssss I reqestttttttttttttttttttttt

    1. aap usko samjhaye ki har koi ek jaisa nahi hota hai aap usko khud per vishwas dilaye tabhi baat banegi.

  3. hello mam aapki advises mujhe bhot achi lgi . aapne meri ek bhot bdi prblm solve kr di hai. thanks for being here and keep this good work on.

  4. Hii my name is monty , main kisi bhi ladki se baat karne ki kosis karta hu par wo ladki baat hi nahi karte
    chae wo whats up ho ya fb kisi ko bhi hii hlw karta hu uske baat reply ata hi nahi ……………..

    1. Iska matlab ye hai ki aapki image unki najar me kuch acchi nahi hai, koi bhi ladki ek aise insan se baat karna passand karti hai jo safal ho, so pahle lie me kuch karo, kuch bano aur fir ye sab cheez ki koi kami nhi rahegi.

  5. Shivshi ji meri ek frd h whatsapp p use m kiss topic p baat kru luch smj nai aata aap aesi kuch tips to jise hamari dosti gehri ho jaye..plz help me..

  6. mai ek ladki ke sath 3 salo se relation me hu. hum dono ek dusare se bahut pyar krte hai. aur rdaly ghanto bat krte hai aaj tk mai sirf use kis tk hi manga hu aur wo muje di v hai. but wo sex chat krna chahti hai aur mujhe bilkul v iske bare me nhi pata ki mai ise start kaise karu plese give me best suggestion.

  7. Hello mam am zahid
    Me ek lakri she bahut jada pyaar karta hun or hm dono.ki baat hmesa sms duwara hoti hai hm dono ka chakka chalte hue 4 manth ho chuka hai lekin hm dona kafi dur rehne ki wajha she mil nhi pa rahe haim
    Meri problam ye hai mujhe ye kaise pata chalega ki vo mujh she sache dil she pyaar karti hai
    Plz help me

      1. helllo shivshi ….mae ek aunty se attract ho gya hu.mae unse whts app pr baat krta hu.bt samjh nhi aa rha h unko apni side attract kaise kru .jaise wo bhi mujhe usi feel se baat kre jaise mae krta hu..plz help

  8. Hi shivshi..meri ek gf thi …main usse bahut pyar karta tha or karta hu..wo bhi kahti thi k mujhse bahut pyar karti hai..par kabhi kabhi mujhse uspe shaq hota hai..maine uska loyalty test lia par usme wo fail ho gyi..
    She cheated me

    What should i do..i love her soo much..

    1. If U love her so much and if she is also guilty then U may think of giving her a chance, but agar aapki jagah main hoti to aisa na karti.

  9. hi Mam me ek ladki se bhaut pyaar krta hu lekin me usse kuch bol nhi pata hu .me usse bolne ke koshish be krta hu magar jaise he vo samne atti hai me usse kuch nhi bol pata hu.. Mam plz help me

      1. Hello shivsi ji
        Mere sath ek bahut bdi problm h that is i have every thing like…me smart b hu sb kahte h , rich b hu , personality b cool h dressing sense b bhut achha h but fir b i have no gf gf plz help mere dost kahte h bhai gf bna le dosto ki gf bi bolti h tm single achhe ni lagte but kya kru ..
        I have many things to tell u plz contact me on my whatsapp 9808252638 plz plz plz???☺

        1. Sunny aapke paas ye sab kuch hai ye bhut acchi baat hai but Girlfriend banane ke liye sabse jo important cheez hai Confidence and maturity. ladki se confidence me baat karo, ghabrao mat confidence me baat karo, hansi majak karo, open minded bano.. ladki se majak karo, masti karo. Jo ladki pasand aaye use approach karo, sirf sochte mat raho.

  10. shivshi mam mai ek smart boy hu mujhe gf bnani h i mean mujhe kisi married lady ya phir girl k sath firat sex experience krna h plz aap kuch help krogi ki married ko kaise ptau unko kaise tyr kru apne liye jo bji unknown ho plz hlp me mam plz.

  11. Hi. Shivashi mere ek dost ne ek ladki se meri whatsapp pe baat krai hai,ab uss ladki se kaisi bate kru aur milne ke liye kaise impress kru

  12. Mujhe ab tak bahut ladkiyo ne propose kiya h and me lagbhag sabke proposal accept kar leta hun and saari baatte karta hun sab se ek ladki se mera breakup ho gaya tha 2 saal pahle but abhi kuch din pahle usne dobara peopose kar diya mene fir accept kar liya q kii me kisi ka dil ni r
    todna chahta hun
    ab itni saari ladkuyon me se apne liye perfect ladki kaise pata karu

    1. Dear parfect use kaha jata hai jo cheez aapki najro me perfect hogi ya yu kahe ki ek simple pastry banana ya ya truffle pastry bnana kya perfect hoga aapki njro me wesse hi aapko hi pata hogha ki kya hai aapki najro me perfect ka matlab.

  13. Hello mera naam sumit hai or main ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hoon main + 2 mein padta hoon or woh meri classmate hai mera section A hai or uska Section B main oosay eye contact se dekhta hoon or woh janti hai ki main oosay like karta hoon problem yeh hai ki mere +2 ke paper khatam ho gaye hai or practical hone wale hain par Girls ke practical jis din hai uss din boys ke nahi hai ,vaise meri uss say fb par chat hoti hai main kya oosay fb chat par propose karu yaa naa karu ?

  14. hi, ek ladki h ji se Maine dekha to h lkin usne ni dekha h, ar ab bahoot door h mujhe pasand h,samjh ni aata ki use kaise impress kroon, kya ar kaise chat kroon ki wo impress ho Jaye, sb se bdi problem to yh h ki shayad uska boyfrnd h, usi n ek baar bataya tha. pls…….. help, suggest me list of questions to ask for better imression.

    1. Use dekh kar full confidence ke saath smile karo, eye contact karo.. kosish kare ki eye contact normal se thoda lamba ho paaye. Fir jaa kar usse baat karo bina darre confidence ke saath. Vo jo bhi kar rhi hai uski tareef karo and use koi acha sa compliment do, smile ke saath baat karo. Himmat sabse jaruri cheez hai, next day jab vo mile to Hand Shake karne ke liye haath aage karo. Thoda Besharam hona bhi jaruri hai aur thoda risk lena hi padta hai aise kaamo me. Bas itna bhut hai, itna karo bandi impress hogi jarur.

    1. Dear jo topic use pasand hai us par baat karo jaise movies, ghumna firna, adventure, study, romance etc etc fir aapko jo topics pasand hai un ke baare me baat karo jaise aap kya banna chahte ho, kya karna chahte ho life me, abhi tak zindgi me aapke liye sabse ache din konse the, usse pucho uske liye konsa time sabse acha tha… Abhi tak life me kya sabse funny cheez kiya hai jo soch ke ab sharam aati hai….. Jab aap dono saath hoge to ya karoge, use kaise pyar karoge, kis tarah use khush rakhoge, usse kaise pyar karoge… yhi sab baate hoti hai… 🙂

  15. Meri ek frnd hai jo ki 11th class me hai or mai college 1st year me vo meko apne se bada samjhti hai.. or vo meko 1bar bhaiya bhi bol chuki hai..mai usse beht pyrar krta hu..mai use propose kaise kru

  16. Meri ek frnd hai jo ki 11th class me hai or mai college 1st year me vo meko apne se bada samjhti hai.. or vo meko 1bar bhaiya bhi bol chuki hai..mai usse beht pyrar krta hu..mai use propose kaise kru or

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  17. shivshi mai apni gf se bahot pyar krta hu mgr vo kehti hai ki tum baat hi nhi krte or jbki vo khud nhi krti baat to mai kya akela bolta rhunga or ab vo brkup ke liye bolri hai to pls aap kuch advise dijiye ki vo mujhse kese baat kregi

    1. Dear jha tak mujhe lagta hai wo sirf bhaan dhundh rahi thi aap se breakup karne ka wo ab aap me interested nahi hai isliye aise relation ko rakh kar koi fayeda nahi agar aap ise bacha bhi loge to ye relation jyada se jyada 1 ya 2 month or chalega bas isliye sahi hoga ki abhi hi khatam kardo.

      1. Hi dear mujhe ladki ko engaged karna par usme attitude bhot hai usse baat kaise karu or vo jada online bhi nahi raheti to pls help me

  18. hello shivshi ji m ek ladki ko pasand krta hon pr vo mhujme interst nhi leti h or mhuje fb p reply nhi krti h to m use kya baate kru jis se vo mhuje like kre.
    plz tell me

  19. Jose me pyar karta hu vo mere bhai ki sali ha but mere pass uska koi context nai ha or na hi me Kisi SE mang sakta hu mai kya karu

    1. Dear agar aapko uska naam pata hai to aap use facebook par bhi search kar sakte ho. aaj-kal to bahut se options aa gaye hai dear. aap koshish to karo pahle.

    2. Dear agar aapko uska naam pata hai to aap use facebook par search karke usse contact me jud sakte hai kyunki aaj kal to har koi facebook use karta hai wo aapko badi aasani se mil jayegi.

  20. I am Tanveer meri problm ye hai ki
    Meri glfrend ne mujhse yr bolkr na kr diya hai ki aap hamesa siryas rahte ho aap kabhi b kli masti mazak nahi karte ho isliye mujhe ye jaanna hai ki larkion ko kis type ka msti mazak padnd karti hi mujhe larki se bat karne me problm ye hoti hai ki larkiyan kaisi bat karna pasnd karti hain or kaisa masti mazak pasand karti hai so iska solution bataye or thora clyer bataye kaisa masti mazak karna larki ko pasand hota hi

  21. Meri glfrend ne mujhse yr bolkr na kr diya hai ki aap hamesa siryas rahte ho aap kabhi b kli masti mazak nahi karte ho isliye mujhe ye jaanna hai ki larkion ko kis type ka msti mazak padnd karti hi mujhe larki se bat karne me problm ye hoti hai ki larkiyan kaisi bat karna pasnd karti hain or kaisa masti mazak pasand karti hai so iska solution bataye or thora clyer bataye kaisa masti mazak karna larki ko pasand hota hi

  22. I am shubham
    Me gf to Bana leta hu pr mere se gf ho ya or koi fake bate ni ki Haiti na hi kisi ki burai ki jati hai
    Or bahut se boy aisa hi karate h wo girl ko impress krne ke liye bahut jyada jhoot ka sahara leet hai jo
    Mere we nahi hota hai or using karan koi b ladki mere se jyda din tk baat nahi krta hai baad me mera breakup ho janta hai
    Pat nahi mere sath aisa q hota hai
    Shayad girl ko sach bhi pasnd nahi hai
    my mobile number is 8899052392
    Frm MUZAFFARNAGR uttar Pradesh

    1. Agar aapki aisi problem hai to aapko wohi sab karna chaiyte jo ki aapki gf ko pasand ho or ye baatein jo aap bol rahe ho in par dhyaan na do bs apni gf par dhyaan rakho isse aapka breakup nahi hoga balki aapki gf aapko or chahne lagegi.

  23. mem
    me kai ladkiyo se bat krta hu, vo sb meri kafi acchi friends h
    pr koi bhi ladki dayrkly nonvej chet nhi krti.
    pr me ladkiyo se nonvej chet kna chata hu.
    please guide me ke unhe adult chet ke liye kese dhire dhire teyar kru?

  24. Hello friendzz…….Mere ek frnd ki g f h or meri usse baat hoti h only whats app pr or wo bhi merese daily baat krti h or bolti h just a frnd…..ab aap muje ye btaoo ki mei usse frndship kaise krunn apne dost ko htaa kr

    1. Waah re Zamana…. Dost dost na raha… aapko sharam aani chahiye aisi baat karne me. Had hai kya khu main ab..

  25. Hiii,,,main ek Ladki se bohat pyaar karta hoon ,,,,But kabhi kabhi mujhe lagta hai ke wo ladki mujhe love nehin karegi ,,,,kyun ki wo mujhe apni best friend samajh rahi hai,,,,,Plz help me,,,,,suno wo hum dono to bachpaan ke friends hai ,,,,per hum gaon main padhte the or jab hum 8th class main aye to hum dono acche friends the ,,,par USS year hi USS ki family Mumbai sift hogaye ,,,USS din se na koi baat hua tha na contact,,,,ESE hi ,,,,or ab main Diploma Engineering kar raha hoon ,,,,or ek din Ussne mere Facebook ke ek mere photo ko comments diya ke kyalagrahe ho ,or handsome lag rahe ho ,,,,par Jada style matt Mari nehin to ladkiyan tumhare picche padd jayenge ,,,ASA comments diya to I don’t know ki wo koun tha,,,,or bohat pucch ne ke baad wo mujhe boli ki tumhra Bachpaan wala friend,,,,or photo bhi diya ,,,,main to usse bachpaan se hi pasand karta tha or ab bhi karta hoon ,,,,per wo Mumbai main rehene ke karan bohat style maintain karti hai ,,,,,or main surf uski photo dekh ta reheta hoon ,,,or wo apni no bhi mujhe dedi or hum hike pe chat karte hai,,,,really main usse bohat pyaar karata hoon ,,,,wo 10din pehele aya tha mere gaon ,,,,apni mama ji ke ghar ,,,,or wo mujhe message diya where r u ,,,,but main mere exams chal raha tha to busy tha or usski msg dekh hi nehin paya ,,,,per baad main jab dekha wo 5din baad wo Mumbai chaligayi,,,,plz help me ,,,kese janoon ki mujhe kese pyaar karegi,,,

  26. Meri ek frd hi uska nam mamta hi wo new new rhne k liye aayi h main use like krne lg gya hu main use apni filling btana chahta hu pr wo mujhe janti Bhi nhi hmne aaj tak ek dusre se bat bhi nhi Kiya, Maine pta cla ki wo boys se dosti nhi krti main isa kya kru jisse main use bta sku ki main use psand krta hu

  27. jo mujhe pyar krti uski ek hi prblm h vo kuch bol nhi pati khbi khud nhi khti ilove m khta hu tb hi khi h pr m janta hu vo meri hr tkleef smjhti h pr aisa kya kro m ki vo mujhe khud khe i love you plz mam. ans me

  28. me jisse pyar krra hu vo bhi mujhe bhut krti h bhut jyada koi shq nhi pr vo khti nhi kbhi phle ki i love you pr vo shrmati ya dil m rkhti h baat m smjh nhi pataa koi solution ho to btao ki m kya kro ki vo bhi mujhse i love you khe khud

  29. hey mam merko ap ki help chiya merko hey ladki ki request aai thi 1 year phla then hum logko ki baat hui thi nd mila b tha nd fir uss na id bnd kr de nd number b
    nd kuch time phla uska new number se merko msg aaya nd baat start hui h nd merko usko gf bnana h to me ky kru nd uska koi bf nhi h

  30. hii..mam m ek ldki se fb pr bat krta hu vo mujhe pta nhi ki mujhe pyar krti h ki nhi m usko bahut chahta hu meri ek sal pahle phone se bhi bat hui lakin kuch kaha nhi iiss matter m kaise usko btaun ki m pyar krta hu tere se mujhe ye bhi dr lgta h ki vo phir chat kregi ya nhi no.manga to kah rhi thi ki m apse fb pr bat krti to hu…..kya kru its vry complicated…situation btao na help me

    1. Shayad jo quality aap me dhundh rahi thi, wo use aap me na mili ho isliye usne aisa kiya ho, ab aapko bhi use bhul kar ageh badh jana chaiye.

  31. Hi mam, mera naam anant hai aur main ek ladki ko bhut like krta hoon wo bhut sweet & cute hai wo mere hi coaching me study krti hai wo class me mujhe khoob dekhti hai main bhi use dekhta hoon mujhe lagta hai wo bhi mujhe like krti hai jb wo coaching se bahar aati hai to mujhe baar baar dekhti hai aisa 3 mahine se ho rha hai. Ab main use propose krna chahta hoon but mujhe darr lg rha hai ab aap hi mujhe idea dijiye please mam.

    1. Darne ki koi baat nhi hai, daroge to ye kaam ho hi nhi payega, aise kaam karne ke liye thoda risk lena hi padta aur thoda daring banna hi pdta hai. Just go for it. 🙂

      1. hello shivshi mae ek aunty ki trahf attract hu mujhe wo bht pasnd h..mae unse whats app pr baat krta hu bt wo busy hone ki wajh se kam baat kr pati h kuch esa btaiye ki wo mujhse baat kre or meri side attract bhi ho..plz help me

  32. Hi mam.meri ek gf h.hamara relation 2saal se h.par 15 Dino se hamari thik se baat nhi ho paati h.vo mujhe milti bhi nhi.milne k kehta tu bolti h time nhi h.pure din bas ghar me hi rehti h.uska ghar mere ghAr k pass me hi h.phele chat aa jaya karti thi lekin ab nhi aati.apna no.bhi band karke rakhti h bas kabhi-2 chalati h.jb me pucha ki no. Band karke kyu rakhti h.to ussne bola ki mera maan nhi krta yis no. Chalane ka ab.aur mujhe jaanbhuj k nhi milti ab vo.mujpe koi diyaan nhi deti h.vo ab .par mam mujhe ptani kya hota jb me usse dekhta hu mera usske pass jane ka bhout maan krta h.vo agar kahi bhar chali jati h to me bhout akela feel krta hu .mujhe vo bhout yaad aati h school me bhi nhi pasd pata me bilkul bhi.bas yiske bare me socja rehta hu.aaj pta chal uski frd se ki vo marriage me gyi h bhar aakele .ye sun k mam bhout pareshan hu ki ptani mujhe chod k kiske sath hogi.Ghar yitne pass hote huwe bhi me usse nhi dekh pata ptani kha rehne lagi vo ab …usse aur mere gharwaalo ko sab kuch pta h yisliye mere ghar mujhe usse baat karne k liye mna ksrte rehte h.par mam mujhe bhout yaad aati h uski.me uski aavaj sun k areshan ho jata hu usse dehkne k liye pr usske ghar k rehte h uuske pass.vo mujhe milti nhi ab kahi bhi aur hamari baat bhi nhi hoti ab…mam plz help me plz plz mijhe batao me kya karu ab..

      1. Mam me aakash hu vase me phele San bta chuka PR sayad mane nhi bataya apne kya batana h mam meri ek gf h jisse me bhout pyar karta hu .par mam mujhe pichale ek machine se Sak tha ki vo kisi aur ladke se baat karti h .mane ussne mujse bhi baat karni bhout jayda band kr di thi…mam mane use aaj pucha ki tune mere sath ASA kyu kiya….to vo mujse ladayi karke chalk gyi ….aur mam me use bhout din se bhulane ki kr RHA hu PR mam vo mujhe bhout yaad aati h..me USSe bhula nhi pa RHA hu…uska Ghar mere Ghar k pass hi h ….vo mujhe roj dikh jati h PR vo BAs phone pe baat krti rheti h….use ab dusra sim bhi le liya h..mam dhyan BA’s vahi rheta h me paadh bhi nhi pata…hu…mam mujhe plz btaoo me kaise bhula ussko vo mujhe roj dikh jati h…air mujhe bhout dhuk hota h jb vo kisi aur we baat krti h…mam mujhe plz btao me ab kya karu…me USSe bhout pyar krta hu…

        1. Vo ladki aapse pyar nhi karti, so better hoga aap use paane ki sochne ki bajaye kisi kaam ki cheez me apna time aur dimag lagao. Jo sach hai use maano, aankh band karke uska naam mat japte rho, because usse kuch nhi hoga, sirf time waste ke alawa.

      1. main ek sipmle ladka hoon meri age 19 years hai aur ab tak maine koi gf nahi banayi hai mera pass kyi problum hain na ki mere health ya mere body mein muje zindagi mein kayi ais
        e mod mile hain jisse maine gf bana hi chhod diya plz u can help me apna chhota bhai samajhkar samajhkar apna no. email kardein plzplz plz plz plz plz plz

  33. Hii……
    Main ek ladki se khud se bhi jayda pyar karta wo bhi mujse khud se jayda pyar karti thi hamare relationship ko 1saal se jayda ho gya lekin abhi usne new mba college main admission liya aur wo bilkul badal gyi………..naa mujse baat karti h naa meri fiksr karti h wo mujse jayda time apne dosto ko deti h online aati h lekin mere se jaysa dhyan apne dosto par deti h in sab baato ko leke meri usse ladai bhi hui in sab ko leke wo bolti h mere dil mae tumhare liye pyar apnapan khatam ho gya aur wo mujse baat to kar rhi h lekin wo khus nhi h mere saat………..mae usse bahut pysr karta hu ab aal hi batao mae kya karu

    1. I don’t think ki ab us ladki ko aapki life me khushi se vapas laya ja sakta hai, ya to use khud realize ho jaaye to alag baat hai lekin aapki kisi kosish se koi khaas fark nhi padega bcoz she has changed her mind.

    2. I know lekin aaj bhi wo ladki meri parwah karti h meri baato ka sunti h maine aaj realise kiya ki wo bhi mujse pyar lekin pta nhi uske dimag mae kya h I’m very kanfused wo bolti h mse shadi sirf tumse hi karungi jab tuhara rishta mere liye aayegaa to lekin mae abhi akele rhna chati hu

  34. Mam meri ek gf h Jise me bhout pyar karta hu me usske sath 2saal se relationship me hu par 1month se usme kuch change aane lage h vo ab mujse baat nhi karti h vo bda ajib react karne lagi h .aur vo an mera reply bhi nhi karti SMS ka .but mane usse kuch din phele pucha ki vo mujse love karti h ya nhi.to usne mujhe bola ki vo mujse hi love kati h.me jab bhi USSR love u bolta hu to .vo love u too bolti h.par PR merit tarah attraction show nhi karti.bas apni hi dhun me rheti h.ab USSR meri koi care nhi hoti.phele vo muj PR bhout dhyan deti thi ssb kuch puchti thi jsse school gaye us nhi .mere chuti k time mere liye wait karna.PR an vo phone pe bhi baat nhi karti h.me USSe bhout pyar karta hu.aap meri help karo plz mujhe kabhi-kabhi ASA lagta h vo kisi aur se baat karne lagi h.plz help me mam vo mujhe bhout yaad aati h uski air bhout dhuk hota h.padayi me bhi dhayan nhi lagta h.ptani kya ho gya h.me issue phale do bar comment kr chuka hu par mujhe reply nhi mills sbhi take mam reply me plz.

  35. mam meri gf mujhe chod kar ab kisi aur se baat karti h aur mujhe bolti h me tujse hi love karti hu but asa real me nhi h vo bas asse hi kheti h mujse aur mujhe ignour karti rheti h me usse bhout pyar karta hu par vo nhi samajti h.ab mujhe samaj me nhi aa rha h me kya karu.vo mujhe ab apne aap milna bhi nhi chati h.ptani kya ho gya h usse plz mam aap bta do ab me kya karu

    1. Kya samajh me nhi aa rha hai ? Vo tumhe chutiya bana rhi hai isliy ab kuch sochne ki jarurat hi nhi hai, bhaad me jaane do use. Aur usse har tarah ke contacts khatam karo, us ladki ka kya character hoga jo ghum kisi ke saath rhi hai aur kehti hai pyar tumse hi karti hu.

  36. hello maam my name is aamir me ek girl se pyar karta ho or wo bhi mjse buht pyar karti hai hum sms chat pe baat karte or wo meri parosi hai… mera question ye hai me jab use milne ka kehta ho to wo mana kar deti hai kuch family problrm ki waja se ya call per baat karne ko kehta ho wo be mana kar deti hai family problrm ki waja se ya kehti hai jab moqa mila tab karenge ya me uske liye pyar se umeedo se acha gift leke jata ho wo mana kar deti hai reason family problem humari relation ko ek month hogaya hai us ek month me sirf wo mjse ek bar milne aae wo be 2 mint mere buht force karne per ub me kya karo pareshan ho please give me any idea????????

  37. iii m aapse ek solution lena chahta hu ek bndi h bahut pyar krti h mujh se ab m bhi use like krne laga hu but m us se shadi nahi krna chahta hu mne use yah kah bhi diya h to usne kaha ki koi baat ni jab tak apan sath rah sakte h relationship nibhate h but m yah soch raha hu mujhe relationship rakhna chahiye ya ni kyoki already 2 saal ho gye h hme but hamara attraction badata Ja raha h Bas baad m problem na ho jab hum alag ho isliye mujhe us se alag hona chahiye ya ni agar ha to kese alag hou??? Please reply me on my email ajay1432245@gmail. Com

  38. Mera qustionki meri class ma ak girl ma osa pasand karth hu par mana oska kisi friend se liya bo buli ki ma apna col friend ko batogi or whatapp block kardda ha tu m os kisi kho ki col ma na bata sshivsh pmz bato reply mei

  39. 5 saal se main ek ladki se pyaar karta hu…
    Pehle wo meri city main hi rehti thi per ab wo kahi or apni family ke saath rehti h.. muje nhi pata ki wo mujse pyaar karti h ya nhi.. uske number h mere pass.. jab bhi main usko call karta hu or baat karne ki kossis karta hu to wo wrong number keh kar call cut kar deti h
    Wo meere saath study karti thi per humari kabhi baat nhi hue.. main humesha uski tarf dekhta rehta tha..or bhi muje dekh kar showoff karti thi..per kabhi ek dusre se baat nhi ki..
    Aaj wo apne gaanv main h.. or mere pass uske home ke number h.. jab bhi main uski call karta hu or apna name batata hu to wo ya to call cut kar deti ya call attend kar ke rakh deti h..mujse baat nhi karti or apna kaam karti rehti h..
    Ab aap hi batao..main kya karu…
    Please reply fast….

  40. Hy!!Shivshi,,apki reply kamaL ki hain main toh apki faN bngya…
    Yaar,,main ak lrki ko bhat hi lyk krta hu.main roz follw krta hu wohse.wohse roz dakta hu job mare ghar k pas’se school jti hain.main wose impress kr k gf bana chahta hu..is’k’liya muja kya krna chahiya.kase pash aawn wosi k samne..plz batainyan apni sab dohka jadu jara muja pe v chalaiya..

      1. Hiii m aapse ek solution lena chahta hu ek bndi h bahut pyar krti h mujh se ab m bhi use like krne laga hu but m us se shadi nahi krna chahta hu mne use yah kah bhi diya h to usne kaha ki koi baat ni jab tak apan sath rah sakte h relationship nibhate h but m yah soch raha hu mujhe relationship rakhna chahiye ya ni kyoki already 2 saal ho gye h hme but hamara attraction badata Ja raha h Bas baad m problem na ho jab hum alag ho isliye mujhe us se alag hona chahiye ya ni agar ha to kese alag hou??? Please reply

        1. Ajay agar aap dono ka future nhi hai to aapko usse dheere dheere duriyan badha kar alag ho jaana chahiye. Usse baat karna bhut kam kar do, use bolo job me busy hu, doston ke saath hu, baad me baat karta hu… bas use realize karwao ki aap usse dur hona chahte ho, shuru me vo thoda haaye tauba machayegi but fir sab track par aa jayega 🙂

  41. hi shivani mam ..
    mere pados me ek ladki he..
    or mujhe lgta he ki use sex karne
    Bohat ichha he abhi vo 11 th vi me he
    to fir me use directly sex ke liye
    kese approach kr skta hu ..
    samj me nhi ata bat kese karu so plzzz mam help me

  42. Yaar!!2saal pahle muja ak larki se pyaar ho gya tha tha.jab main or woh larki ak sat tutioN parte the tab.akdiN wos ne mare math copy leliya wor mera phne numbr v.wosne mera numbr le liya wor muja msg kya fir kya main v reply kya,hum dono bhat baate kya bohat sare..akdiN main wose porope kya .woh akdim shok hogya..wose aahkiN hi nhi huwa tha main wose pyr krne laga tha.fir wose Xcpt kya mera propose.1 month k baadh akdiN woh msg nhi kya call recvid krna bandh kr diya..phir adiN woh muja call kya wor rohte huwa kaha mari engaged hgya muja 2m bhool jaw muja wor kavi v baat mat krna mera hsbN hi mera sub kuch hain main apne hasbN ka bharosa tor nhi sakta.agar frnd baaNke rehna chate ho toh thik hain.mane kaha thik hai aj se hum frnd rahenge wor phne discncted kr diya.fir hum kuch diN baat roz baahte krne lage frndship relatioN main.Dheere dheere pyaar ki baat krne lage hum..wor woh pyaar krta hain woh akdiN boldiya.mane kaha main v wose bohat pyaar krta hu wor krta rahunga bla blaetc.aj v hum dona ak duse se pyaar krte hain.ab main bohat hi pare saN hu kya karu na main wose touch kr sakta hu nahi sadi.muja hlp chaheya kya karu love relatioN ka.jab v main woski yaad ati hain aahkon se aasu ajata hain.plz hlp me..;-(

    1. Jab aapko pata hai ki uski engagement ho gayi hai to fir aapko usse durr rehna chaiye or ek trah se aap apna time waste hi kar rahe ho uske sath isliye aisa mat karo or life me ageh badho. kyuki isse aapko kuch bhi hassil nahi hone wala.

  43. ek ladki se mai pyar krta hu sayad o krti v hai ya nhi muje nhi pta ..usne mujse shadi ke liye promish kiya tha but last me meri vioce record krke public me suna di hai .. or to or mere ghr side se jb college jati hai to muje dekhkr haste huye jati hai .. or uske frnds v nd sb muje glt smjte hai jb ki meri koi glti nhi hai ab lagta hai o ladki ye chahti hai ki mai sucide kr lu .. mai kafi jyda presan hu mai kya kru kaise sbko smjhau
    plz help me ……..

    1. Had ho gyi yaar, itni si baat ke liye aapke mann me suicide ki baat aa gyi, kaise insaan ho yaar aap log sach me mujhe samajh nhi aata.

  44. Mai ek larki se pyar karta hun wo bhi mujh se boht pyar karti hai magar uska nikah ho chuka hai aur me us se wo mujh sy shadi karna chahty hai hum kia karen

    1. Aap Bevkoofi karna band karo. Jab uska nikah ho chuka hai fir kyu sab kuch complicated karna chahta ho… Kabhi kabhi life me compromise bhi karne padte hai, so just leave this matter. Use apni family ke satah rahne do and aap apne kaam par dhyaan do. Yaar apne mann ko apne upar haawi mat hone do, Mann ko apne control me rakho.

  45. Hi mem , Mai ek ladki ko bahut pyar karta wo bhi mujhe bahut pyar karti but hum dono ke bich choti choti baat ko leke ladai ho jati ager mai uske call ya msg ka reply late me deta to usko lgta meri aur koi gf hai mai us se baat kr raha mai bahut smjhne ki kosish ki lekin wo ni manti ulta ladai karti aur bolta mai ja raha kabhi baat ni krni tumse to hath cut krne ki dhammki deti rahi kya karu plz help me …….

  46. hi shivshi.
    mujhe ek ladki se pyar ho gyaa hai. wo mere pdos me rehti hai…. wo bii mujhse pyar kartii hai.. but
    oska kisii or ladke se chaker chalne gla thaa.. jab mujhe sabh ptaa chal gyaa..!! to use bi ptaa thaa k mujhe j sabh kuz ptaa chall gyaa hai..firr bi Maine osse baat karne kii koshish ki to osne koi baat kaa jawab nhi diyaaaa or attitude bi dikhati hai..!! halaki oski gallt wi haii firr bii.
    oski ek friend mere PR line marti rehtii hai.. jbb Mai oskii tarf dekhta hu to ose bohat jaln hotii haii..PR Mai pyar ose hi karta hun..!! ab aap Hii btao k Mai kyaa krun..!! Mai osse bohat pyar karta hun WO ab Wii mujhse py krtii hai..!!
    pls help me..!!

    1. Ye aapka bharm hai ki vo bhi aapse pyar karti hai, meri salah maanoge to uske chakkar me na pado, isse aapko pareshani aur frustration ke alawa kuc nhi milega, aur yakeen maano time bhut keemti hai isko aise faltu kaam me waste na karo. Aaj kal serious relationship dhundhne nikloge to har taraf nirasha hi haath lagegi.

  47. Me ek ladki se pyar karta hu bo college me padte h our bo mari shop pe b atei h our mujse bat b karti our mari himat nahi hoti ke me us ko proposed kar saku so plz hlp

    1. Propose karne se pahle use jahir karo ki aap usme interested ho, uski taraf dekhte rho, jab vo dikhe to apni look ko theek karne lag jaaya karo and confidence ke saath smile paas karo. Kuch din aisa chalne do fir direct use bolna – “Mujhe aapka no. chahiye” Vo bolegi kyu – “Bolna kuch baat karni hai”… Agar vo na kare to koi baat nhi, kuch din baad fir no. mango, apni personaity achi banao aur jab baat karo confidence ke saath baat karo. Darna nhi. ladkiyo ko darne waale boys pasand nhi aate.

  48. Main apni cunz se pyaar krta hu os KO ni pta k main os KO pyaar krta hu muja ni pata k vo muja pyaar krti hai k ni mare dill krta,hai aus KO I love you bol du per muja darr ragta hai k vo apne ghar walo KO banta na da

    1. Stupid insaan cousin is ur sister, apni sister ke baare me aisa kaise soch sakte ho. Dharm sanskar hai kuch ki sab bech khaya hai english filme dekh dekh kar!

  49. me ak ladki se pyar krta hu but pata nai vo krti hai ya nai vo facebook pe baat bhi krti hai our raat me 2 se 3 baje tk krti hai but vo like krti hai ya nai mujhe pata nai me kya kru plz help me

  50. Actully m jis ladki se pyar krta hu…vo phle meri gf thi…fr usne mujhe kaha ki m kisi or se luv krti h m uske sath relation me hu….nd ab m jst uska freind hu..nd m agar usee love u kehta hu to vo kehti h mujhe shw kro …apna pyar..mujhe pyar dikhta nhii..to ab me usee pyar kaise shw kru???

    1. Use kuch show karne ki jarurat nhi hai vo ladki bas timepaas karne ke liye tumhare saath baat kari hai, pyar mat samajh lena.

  51. Hi
    maja wo pasand karti,ha par ma jab usasa bat karana ka liya jata tha tab,ow bat darka najar andaj karati thi mana yak bar usa frend ship ka lia pucha to usana,mana kar diaya lakin dusara din,usana usake sari freind ko,ya bataya ki, mana usako prapose kiya ha lakin wo marako har bar dakati thi lakin jab ma dakata tab wo najar andaj karthi thi yak,bar ma wor wo akho sa akha dalkar,dakhana,laga usana muja dakar,smile dadi mana usi din usako mana usasa bat,karana ki koshisha ki tab wo phir darka najar andaj karana lagi usaki dost usasa kahati ti ki mujasa bat karo lakin uusan najar andaj kiya mana usasa bat karna ki.koshish ki uuato wo mujasa gusa sa mujasa bat ki phir boli tum,yasa que,karta ho, phir usakhi vahi dosat bhi mujasa gusasa bat karana lagi, muja lagata ha ki wo,mujako pasand karati ha par wo que yasa kati ha ma ussa bahut payar karta hu please muja acha sala do ki wo kamiyab hu please

  52. Hi.
    mea akk ladki ko pasond karta hu wo ladki facebook use karti ha chat to hoto ha laken wo jada online nahi rahiti..mea usa kasa impress karu.aur phone num kasa lu

  53. hey Shivshi i need your help baat drasal yah hai ki hmari class me 1 ladki hai ham dono 1 dusrey ko kareb 1 saal sey jante hai pr kbhi 1dusre se koi baat nhi ki topic he nhi mila pr pechle kuch dino sey hmari fb pr baat ho rhi hai aap hmari koi help kar skti hai is love story ki progresh me …?

  54. hey Shivshi aap mughe bta sakti hai ki chat pr kiss tipe ki baat ladkio ko jyada passnd hoti hai …? 1 ladki hai hmari class me me or wo 1 dusrey sey class me kbhi baat nhi karte pr ham fb pr rooj chat karte hai pr jyada nhi kar pate koi tipes mil sakti hai aap sey hmey or 1 or question tha hmara ki yah baat to jarruri nhi hai ki har baar Hii ham he bole ..? kya mera sochna shi hai ….o.O

  55. hey Shivshi mera 1 semple sa question hai mughe 1 ladki pasnd hai naam nhi bta sakta …i thike wo bhe mughe pasnd karti hai or fb pr chat bhe karti hai chat pr ussey sms send karne ki sochta hu pr kiss tipe k sms send karu jokes ,love , ya friendship i need your help

  56. Mai mere parose ki ladki ko pyar karta hu pehle wahi muje apne window se hat karti thi mai uske piche pada fir propose Mara usne sorry kaha fir Maine use ignore kiya fir mere samne natak karne lagi fir Maine use letter road pe raka o leti rahi 5 ya 6 bar fir Maine un letter me cell phone raka aur o bolti hai mera bf hai lekin uska no 2 mahino se band hai muje bolti hai tu sirf mera frnd hai aur o lover hum har roj bat karte hai msg karte hai mai kya karu plz

    1. agar aap use khush dekhna chahte ho to use uske boyfriend ke saath rehne do. Love karne ka matlab ye nahi hai ki uske saath raho, Love ka matlab hai ki jise aap chahte ho use khush rakho

    2. Ji mera naam ganey hai or mai ek ladki se pyar karta tha pr uske pahele mai meri ek friend hai humari dosti ko 9 saal ho gaye hai..or usko T.b. ki bimari hai pichle 1 saal se. Mai apni dost se apni har baat ya prblm share karta hoon or oh bhi.uska bf tha to uske sath uska breakup ho gaya or mai usse chahta hoon ye baat bhi usko pata hai .or meri gf hai ye bhi baat ussko pata thi. Pr ek din oh rone lagi or muzse boli ki maine uska jindagibhar sath ni diya to oh davai ni khayegi or usne davai ni khai to docter ne kaha hai ki usko kuch bhi ho sakta hai..is karan maine usko zindagi bhar sath deneka wada kiya hai..to kya mai sahi hoon yaa galat? Apni prblm maine apne gf ko batakar maine uske pyar ko thukaraya hai to kya mai dhokebaaz hoon?

      1. Meri nazron mein aap dhokebaaz nahi ho. Par aapke saath na rehne se wo ladki dawani nahi khaayegi, ye baat bhi galat hai. To fir aapko use samjhana chahiye. Ek baar koshish to kijiye

  57. Hi mera naam prince hai aur mai ek ladki se pyar krta hu lakin wo jaiyda sundar nhi hai fir v na Jaan Kew mera dil usi ke lye dharakta hai lakin aaj Tak mai use propose nhi kr paya aaphe batow mai kya kru

  58. Me apne college first year me hu sab log naye he aur me ek ladki ko pasand karta hu to esa kya karu ki vo Sab logo mese mujse hi impres ho….

  59. mem me ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu sadi bhi krna chahta hu or wo mere cast ki bhi hai me use kai bar pyar ka izrar kar chuka.hu or wo bolti hai ap mere dost ho to me use bat nhi krta hu to wo mujhe roj subh sam raat me khub bat krti hai or bolti hai i mss u ..mem ap hi btai ye me kya kru ab

  60. mine pahle bhi cmment kiya tha lekin uska answer nahi mia.meri problem h ki mere kuch din baad shadi hone balli h.and mai kayi baar apne bf ke saath sex kar chuki hoon.to shadi ke baad mera husband pahchan to nahi lega ki yah shadi se pahle sex kar chuki h.pls reply as soon possible

    1. No, aisa koi bhi tareeka nhi hai jisse ek ladki ya ladke ke virginity ke baare me pata lagaya ja sake.

  61. Hiiii shivani jiiiii yrrrrr mujme kisi bhi chez ki kami nhi h …….. fir bhi pta nhi kyo aaj tak ek gf nhi h …….yrrrr na to mujhe impress krnaa ataa h or naa he mujhe ladkiyo se baat …..samjh nhi ataa kyaa karu …………..plz help me

      1. m ak ladki ko bhut like pyar krte tha. bo krti v thi pta nhi av krti h ya nhi bhut dino se phon v nhi kiya h m usa bhulna chata hu m kya kro help me….

        1. Use bhulne ki kosish karna chod do, apne aap bhul jaaoge. Apne kaam par dhyan lagao, kuch bada karne ki socho aur vo karo.

  62. m ek ladki se bhut pyaar krta hoon or uske siwa kisi ka ho bhi nhi sakta 1 years humara rista rha
    par ab wo kisi or ko like krti h usne mujhe cjhod diya without any reason m use vaapis chaahta hoon kisi bhi tarah par sirf es baat se dar lagta h ki mere kisi bhi kadam se use taqleef na ho…

  63. hellow mam mere class me ek ladki hai jse maii pasand krta hu uska aur mera class me 10-15 bar i contact hota hai aur jab wo coaching jati hai tb mai use follow krta hu tb wo mujhse thoda baat kr lete hai .mai usse kya baat kru ki wo mujse imphrese ho jay……………………………..?

          1. hiiiiIiiIii … Shivshi .. mere ek gf the jise mai aaj bhe bohot pyar karta ho bt wo mere city me nii rahte aur wo mere kuch family issue ke wajha se mujhe khudse bat nii karne ko bol chuki h usne mujhe whatsapp pe bhe block kr rakha h …. mujhe ye pta niii hai ke wo ab bhe mujhse pyar karte h ya niii … so plz suggest me mai kya karo…

  64. Yr ladkiyo se baat karke kya karo ge or unko pta ke sab ladkiyan frod hoti hai mai jaha jata hu wala har ladkiyan line dene lagti clg me bhi bhot c ladkiyan mujhse baat kar ne ki soch tii hai par mai in sab me nii padta

  65. Uff yaha to itte logo ki yhi preshani h pta ni insab m meri is choti si preshani ka hal milega ya ni shivshi ji.. Gr try to krna hi pdega ..
    Hello Shivshi ji..
    Main ek ldki ko like lrta hu mne bs usse dekha h usne mujhe nahi dekha mgr m usko bhula ni paraha hun vo meri hi city ki hai mene kahi na kahi se krke uska no bhi nikal liya m bs uska naam janta hun or ye janta hun ke vo kiss clg m padhti h isse zada nahi mne usse whatsapp pr bat ki or usse apna naam bataya thodi bat ki to usne ye kh kr block krdiya k vo strangers se bat ni krti vese mne bhi bola tha agr m tume galat lgu to beshak tum mje block krdena bt kuch tym bat krke tume pta lag jayega that m not a wrng guy bt usne block krdiya fir mne usko hike p msg kiya ok bye ..n sorry.. To usne its ok bola bs or mne bhi ok khdiya fir usne rply ni.kiya ab m kya krun jo meri usse bat ho ske m bs abhi usse frndship krna chata hun kya krun ki vo mjse bat kre?? OR block bhi na kre??f

    1. Ayaan aise mamlo me aapko thoda filmy hona padta hai, aisa karo uske college ke bahar ja kar usse baat karne ki kosish karo, agar vo baat nhi bhi karti tab bhi use ye pata chal jayega ki aap uske piche ho, fir roj roj ja kar uske college ke bahar usko follow karo, fir kuch time me vo aapse jarur baat karegi, positive ya negative reponse jarur aayega. That’s the best way, I think.

  66. Main ek ladki se 3 to 4 year se chat kar raha hun …
    Aur daily baat kar kar ke bore ho gaya hun …
    To use kya baat … I want
    Anything different topic to talk her … Plz

    1. Dear friends, Ye sochna aapka kaam hai humara nhi… 😛 ye baat us ladki se hi pucho vo aapko new topics btayegi..

  67. Hi mam
    Mera naam aniket hain mam main ek ladki se bhot pyar krta hu… Hamari abhi 15din pahele frndship hui hain hum dono pahle fb pr chat karte the ab whats up pr usne hi nmbr diya hain… Mam mai use propos krna chahta hun pr use khone se bhi darta hun.. Mam aap hi batai main use kaise prapose karu ke haan kahede o..
    Muze pata hain o muze like karti hain lekin o bura na maan jaye ager maine propose kiya to ab sab kuch aap ke haat me hain mam pls aisa koi idea dijiye ya sagetiion ki o meri ho jaaye pls mam

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

  68. Ma ek Ladki sa pyar karta Hu ma ussa sadi bhi karna chta Hu lekin mana abhi tak ussa is bara ma kuch nahi kha muja lagta ha Ki agar ma ussa propose maraga to kahi ussa bura na laga or Wo mujsa bat karna bhi chod da or ma ussa Itna pyar karta Hu ki uska ilawa na ma Kisiko pasand karta Hu or nahi karna chata Hu us time ko kafi samay Ho gaya ab ap hi bato ma kya kru

    1. Vijay use propose karne se pahle us ladki se baat karni shuru karo pahle… Usse dosti karo, fir usse is baare me baat karna.

  69. Mam :- mai opretion theater techniques ja diploma kr RHA hu aur meri ek frnd hai Jo ki bsc nursing 2year mai hai hum dono best friend hai aur mai usde silent love krta hu btt mai us se apne pyar ja izhar krne se darts hu q ki ek to uski phele jiss ladke ke sath thii usne sath abb tutt chuki hai mai uske sath rojj batten karta hu aur usse apne pyar ja izharr kaise kru g

    1. Kisi din uski khoob tareef karo, khub tarif karo.. vo kahegi aaj itni tareef kyu? to bolna aaj main tumse ek dil ki baat kehna chahta hu, fir keh dena…. Jyada der nhi karni chahiye, jo hoga dekha jayega.

        1. Bina risk liye kuch nhi hota, ye socha agar aapne bola hi nhi aur kisi aur ne bol diya aur usne use haan kar di to…

          1. ek ladki hai mujhe dekhti rehti hai mebhi use dekhta rehta hoon lekin na woh mujhse kuch kehti hai nahi mein usse kuch keh pata hoon ab kiya pata ki oh mujhse pyar karti hai ya nahi ye me nahi janta hoo plz help me plz

  70. Hi
    I m Ronny
    Me b.com complete kr liya hu avi me government job ki taiyari kr rha hu lekin aj tk meri koi girlfriend nhi h mere sare friends ki girlfriend h but me aj to kisi ldki se friendship vi nhi kiye h girlfriend banana dur ki bat h. Mere sare friends mera mjak update h plz tell me what I do me real love chahta hu surf girlfriend nhi ek serious relationships plz tell what I do.

    1. Uske liye aapko ek ladki pasand karni hogi jisse aapko lagta hai aapki thinking match ho and aap use khush rakh sako jab aisi ladki mil jaaye to use impress karo and aage ka kaam karo, sabse pahla kaam hai ladki to dhundho…

  71. hyee mam
    namste ji

    mam ek ldki h m usko 1-2bar mila hu

    kaffi hasa majak kiya h
    pehle na us ki frnd mri gf thi bus aise hi time pass
    but muje na uski frnd ki jagha vo ladki aachi lgne lgi h mne uski frnd se breakup kr liya sirf us k liye
    m us ko aapni gf banana chahta hu
    batao m kaise us se baat kru ki vo impress ho jaye or mri gf ban jaye

  72. Mere ek relative h vo mere se bat karte h ma usko like karta hu or mene us se alag tarike se bat ke to usne pucha ke vo tune he bat ke the mene kha ha or vo hii ka msg karte rahte h mere pe mjhe sammj nhi araha h ke ko chati h mere ko. Ya nhi ma kase pta karu vo kya pyar karte h mere ko

  73. Hello didi
    me 10th me parta hu me ek girl ko like karta hu mene ose kahi bar chocolate di aur bat bhi kari par vo ha bolne se darti hai ose uske mummy papa se dar lagta hai ab me kya karu ki vo muje accept kar le

    1. Deta pahle thode bade ho jaao, aur us ladki ka darna bilkul jayaj hai…. Apni bachpan ko ji lo varna humari tarah pachtaoge baith ke.

  74. Haa maine baat to suru ki hai.. bahot baat karta hu.. par tarif karne main kuch ideas nahi hai.. kuch aap batao na ki kaise tarif karu.. kya karu kaise karu.. kitni karu.. details main.. or mujeh kaise pata chalega ki voh meri baat se impresse ho rahi hai… and one more ki aisa kya karu phn pe ki voh pure din mere khayalo main gumti rahai…?

    1. Tarif karne ke liye bhu ideas chahiye… Kisi bhi cheez ki tareef kar do.. Uski aawaz ki, soch ki, baat karne ki style ki, uski hadiyon ki, uske kutte ki, uske Activa ki, uske ghar ke toilet ki… 😛 D 😀

  75. Hey Shivsi… Hello… And Thanks… You are Doing Great… Well I Love My Gf A Lot… And I will Marry her… But 2 Girls Recently Proposes me… Pehle Meri 12, 13 Gf thi Tab Main Love ko Only Flirt Samajhta tha… So Itni Gfs Rakhi thi Maine… But Jab Se Mujhe Meri Gf se Pyaar hua Tab Samajh Aaya Ki Usske Bina Ek Pal bhi nahi Reh Sakta… I Love Her As My Life… So Love Ko Samajhta hoon… Issliye 2 Girls Jinhone Mujhe Prop kiya Unnka Heart Break Nahi Karna Chaahta Aisa Kya Karoon Jo Woh Mujhse Nafrat Karne Lage Dono… Kyunki Maine Sab Kuchh Try Kar liya ki Woh Dono Mujhse Nafrat karein… Ek Ne Toh Nafrat Karne bhi Lagi But Phirr Pyaar karne lagi… Main Sab True Batana Chaahta hoon… So Please Dont Take It As Wrong… And Dont think that khud ki Taarif kar raha hai… Kyunki mujhe Lagta hai ki… Doctor ko Total Problem bataani Chaahiye Doctor se kuchh nahi Chhupaana Chaahiye… So Bata raha hoon… Meri public me Achhi image hai… I am Handsome n Smart… I help everyone… So that I had many gfs And Recently 2 girls propose me… But i love only My Gf (Ps) so Ab aisa kya karoon jis se Woh dono girl ka dil bhi na tutte aur woh dono nafrat karne lage ya mujhe paane ki zidd chhod de… Kyunki nafrat karne ka tarika aazma liya but help karte dekh leti hai… So help me please Doctor..

    1. Raj is baat ki jyada tension mat lo ki unka dil tutega aur unhe hurt hoga because aap jaise marji mana karo eventually hoga yhi ki aapne unhe mana kar diya and jo feeling aani hogi vo aayegi hi use aap rok nhi sakte. Mujhe khushi hai ki aap unhe hurt nhi karna chahte, so I will suggest you ki… Aap unhe 100% reality bata do, use bolo ki – Tum bahut achi ladki ho but Main already kisi se bhut pyar karta hu aur uske bina nhi reh sakta so main agar chahu bhi to bhi tumhara proposal accept nhi kar sakta. Main Tumhe kisi dhokhe me nhi rakhna chahta isliye sab open bata raha hu, please forgive and forget me.

      Aap itna bol do un dono girls ko, ho sakta hai unhe thoda bhut hurt ho but aisa karke aap apni taraf se best karoge and unki feelings bhi kuch dino me sab normal me ho jayega. Time is so powerful 🙂

  76. thnxs mam… baat to wo kisi se bhi nhi krti… but mujhse bhi Ab acche se baat nhi krti… phle bhot pyaar se baat krti thi jb wo preshan thi PR Ab uska behavior thoda bdl gya h… bs wo bolti h k carrier bnana h use apna or kuch nhi… kya wo abhi bhi preshan h kisi chj KO lekr… mujhe kya krna chaie mam

  77. meri ek ldki se ek frnd k through baat Hui… tb us ldki ka breakup hua tha… mene usko kaafi emotional support KIA… uski baate suni… uska dhyan uske ex se hta dia…. wo or m kaafi close hue… fir uski job lg gyi… or wo time km Dene lgi or dhire dhire bhot km… wo psnd krti h mujhe I know… but av haalat kuch ESE h k smjh nhi aa raha k aage kese bdhaau baat or kese uske saath relationship Me AAU… plz yaar help me

    1. Agar to vo ladki aapse baat nhi karti aur kisi aur se bhi baat nhi karti fir to theek hai varna baat kuch aur hai. Aapko kisi chuti ke din usse milna chahiye and aaram se baith kar is baare me baat karni chahiye. Agar aap abhi aisa nhi kroge to baad me problems aur badh jayegi.

      1. shivsi mam …. suggestion k lie thnks… PR or bhi kuch baat krni h… mjhe ye pta h k wo kisi or se baat nhi krti…. m kuch changes btana chahta hu Jo uske behaviour me aae h… jb wo preshan thi tb uske kisi bhi frnd ne usse baat nhi krni chahti or wo khud bhi unhe bhla bura bol deti thi bhot baar…. but Ab jb wo thik h to uske lie wo frnds mujhse jaada important hogyi jinki kuch time phle Tk koi value hi nhi thi mere samne…. phle wo bolti thi k m uske sbse jaada close hu… or Ab wo mjhse 2 min baat Tk nhi krti… baat to mam wo krti hi nhi kisi se… bss hmesha bolti h carrier bnana h… dunia to distract krti h mujhe kisi ki koi jrurt nhi h… mam ap bta skti h k uski problem kya h or m kya kru .. mam uski problem kya ho skti h ye jrur btana kuki m use preshan nhi dekh skta

  78. hi dear shivshi main ek ladki ko like krta hu aur maine usse jake baat bhi ki hai do baar frndship ke liye bt wo naah bol ti hai to main kya kru dear plzz help mee

    1. Agar koi aapko us tarah pasand nhi karta jaise aap chahte ho to koi badi baat nhi hai, ye ek bhut common cheez hai so deal with it.

  79. Hi shivashi , mera sawal ye he Ki Kisi ladkise chat kar rahe hote ho to how can I keep the conversation going? Jyada tar mere pass much hota nahi he bole ko to aap please mujhe batayenge Ki me Kisi vi ladki se jyada der tak n kis topics par baat kar sakun

    1. Use jo pasand hai us baare me baat karo, apne future ke baare me baat karo, usne aage kya karna hai ye baat karo, aap kya kahrna chahte ho ye baat karo, konsi movie achi lagti hai konsa actor favourite hai, konsi actress best lagti hai. Aur kya chal rha hai, kal kya karna hai, khanya khaya, paani piya ye baat karo… Jitni chezon ke baare me jante ho sab ke baare me baat karo.. 😛

  80. main 6 sall se ladkiyo ke piche padha hu ek bhi ladkine aj tak ha nahi bola sabhi tarike ajma kar dekhe par kuch bhi nahi ho raha hai. 2 ladkiya mujhe chahti thi unki ab shadi ho gai par mai unhe kah bhi na saka ki mai tumse pyar karta hu .ab main kya karu ap hi batao ……mujhe jindagi me ek to bhi ladki patani hai plz meri madat karo ….plz plz plz plz help me…..

  81. hello shivshi ji mai or meri girlfriend hm kafi long time se bte krte te sb kuch teek chal raha but pta nhi kya hua ki ab vo mujhe bt kr nhi rahi h only kbhi bs whatsp pr bt krti hai but phle jaise nhi phle hr 1 hour pr call laga leti thi ab 1 month ho gya uska call tk nhi aya plz help me

  82. hii….

    me ek ladaki ko pyar karata hu ..but ek probalem hai me use janta hu. lekin wo muje nahi janati me ne fb me uske sathe chat bhi kiya hai me ne use kaha tha ki ham dono ek hi school me padhate the lekin us ne muje kabhi nahi dekha tha wo fb pe mere sath yahi kehati hai ki… i unkonw .. to me kya karu ki ..wo muje like kare ….us ne to meri fb pe friend requvest accpet bhi nahi ki …muje ..

    aap muje batayi ye me esha kya karu ki wo muje notice kare ..our ab me kya esa sms karu ki use muj par vishavas ho ki me hasha ladaka hu…

    plz help me …

    1. Sabse pahle usse dosti karo, jab bhi usse baat ho ya vo mile uski tareef karo thoda bhut flirt karo and hansi majak karo, is tarah se aap log thode close aa jaoge and ache dost ban jaoge. fir acha mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat bol do. Lagta muskil hai par asal me aasan hai, bas himmat chahiye.

      1. Mai ladki se baat karne se bahut darta hu kahi usne mera accept nhi to mera kya hoga ye sochta hu …

        1. Aur agar baat hi nhi kroge to vo kabhi accept hi nhi kar payegi agar use karna bhi hoga to bhi. Negative mat lo kisi bhi cheez ko mana kar diya to kar diya at least silsila shuru to karo..

  83. Hi shivani
    Me ek ldki se bahut pyr krta ho jb me 11 th me tha but nw I m in btech 4yr … I really like her … harama relstion 1 saal chalo but unfortunately she done brk up … I wnt she back in my life .. wht can I do

  84. hyy shivshi,How Are You……
    meri Ek Friend Hai Usse Main Abhi Just 4 Din Pahle Mila Tha
    wo meri classmate hai
    wo mujhe itna janti bhi nahi
    but class me any time mujhse bolti rahti hai
    syad wo bhi mujhe like karti hai
    mujhe usse friendship ke liye bolna hai
    so please Help me……!!!

  85. Men ek ladki ko bahut chahta hu vo bhi mujhe chahti hen hamare din bhar chat hoti rahti hen or meri dusri koi gf nahi hen PR mujhe nahi malum kya baat karni chahiye usse plz help me

    1. Use jo pasand hai us baare me baat karo, apne future ke baare me baat karo, usne aage kya karna hai ye baat karo, aap kya kahrna chahte ho ye baat karo, konsi movie achi lagti hai konsa actor favourite hai, konsi actress best lagti hai. Aur kya chal rha hai, kal kya karna hai, khanya khaya, paani piya ye baat karo… Jitni chezon ke baare me jante ho sab ke baare me baat karo.. 😛

    1. Attitude wali ladki ko propose karna bhut risky kaam hai fir bhi dosti karne ki kosish karo, aur himmat se usse baat karna shuru karo.

  86. Hello mere sath eek ladki padti thi / ::;
    who class me mujhe dekha karti thi
    Lekin me use nhi dekhta tha
    School se niklne ke baad who mujhe pasand aane legi
    Maine eek dusri ladki sath use friendship ke liye proposes beja lekin who nhi Mani plz help me aaj m ujhe unhi njro se dekti h

    1. Kabhi bhi kisi ladki ko kisi aur ke through propose nhi karna chahiye, khud ja kar baat karo, himmat karo.

  87. Yr how old u jo itne sari bate jannti ho !!! simply gr8 …ya fir koi course kia hai in sb me :p 🙂

  88. Main ek ladki se pyaar Karta hoon.wo akeli tution jaati h..bus ? se. Main soch raha hoon usse baat karu isliye main Sunday ko ja raha hoon usse baat karne ke liye 1 hour ka safar h..bus ? se to main usse kya baat karu Jo wo bor na Ho jaay aur wo mujh se friendship karle..so I request help me please….

  89. Hi shivshi

    cllg. main ek girl hai jise dekhkr hi mjhe one side love ho gya. jb maine uske baare main saari infrmtn. get kri to pta laga ki uska phle ek boyfrnd. tha jisne use bht hrt kiya tha nd uska brk up ho gya tha nd ab ek boy hai jo usko imprss kr chuka hai nd vo grl. ab sirf usse baat krti hai nd main usse frndshp. krna chata hun btao mjhe kya krna chahiye..

  90. Mujhe ek ldki ko propose krna hai to aap mujhe kuch propose krne k bare me btaye….jise wo impress ho jaye aisa propose tips example k sath btaye

    1. Uske liye koi acha sa but chota sa gift le ke jaana, ek Card pyara sa aur ek Rose… Jaise hi vo mile use pyaar se dekhna aur sabse pahle Chocolate dena.. Fir Card jisme kuch achi life likhna apne dil se… aur fir Rose de ke propose karna.
      Kisi aisi jagah milna jha shanti ho, koi disturbance na ho… Best of Luck.. 🙂

  91. Hiiii…..shivshi aap bahut achha kam kr rhi ho agar aap ko koi v galat bolta hai to uski bat ka bura na maane kyu ki wo aap ke tip smjh nai paya or aap ko bad cmnt kr rha hai wese aap bahut sweet ho bye

  92. Hello…..dear shivshi g wese mene aaj hi aap ke tip pade or mere andar confident itna pada ki me soch rha hu ki mene yaha jo v sikha hai usse kyu na ajmao wese aap ki bate mujhe bahut atrack krti hai wese aap mujhe nai janti to mera name to wese diya hua hai fir v me aap ko impress krne ke liye apna name batata hu my name is shahjahan haque naam to suna hoga wese sab mehi boluga to aap kya kahoge dear kuch tum kaho kuch hum kahe hena…

  93. ap sb ka conversation dikh kar bht acha feel hua.
    kese lago h aur kesi kesi jarurte h kher shishi ki part tym job b achi help b aur prsnl intrest b khafi h. . .
    Shivshi tmhare liye simle .

    Nd i m w8

  94. Jis ladki se me pyar krtahu vo mere garke pasme hi rehti h or vobhi mujse pyar krti h pr izhar nhi krti mene usse izhar kiya pr vo inkar krti h vo apne pyar ko chhupati h pr me uske bager nhi reh skta plij u help me

    1. Usne inkar kar diya, aur aapko lagta hai vo aapna pyar chupati hai.
      Aapko kaise pata vo aapse pyar karti hai ?

    1. Hanji jarur bas thoda intezar kijiye. Main is topic par research kar rhi hu and jaldi hi share krungi. 🙂

        1. Bahut aasan hai.. Use jo pasand hai us baare me baat karo, apne future ke baare me baat karo, usne aage kya karna hai ye baat karo, aap kya kahrna chahte ho ye baat karo, konsi movie achi lagti hai konsa actor favourite hai, konsi actress best lagti hai. Aur kya chal rha hai, kal kya karna hai, khanya khaya, paani piya ye baat karo… Jitni chezon ke baare me jante ho sab ke baare me baat karo.. 😛

  95. mere 11 gf hy(because i m v good on girls mater) pr 1se main bahut pyar krta hu to baki 10ko kya bolu to unse mera breakup ho jaye aur us 1ko pta na chale ya pta chale to use bura na lge.

    1. Baki 10 ko apni ek ke baare me bta do, apne aap break up ho jayega. ya un par kisi tarah ka koi kharcha karte ho to vo band kar do.

  96. yaar mera name dhruv h.me ek ladki ko buhut pyar karta dilse wo mujhse bolti bhi h but as the freind
    Or meri problem h me thoda action me ni rahta buhut hi simple rahta hun isliye me us ladki se apni dil ki baat ni kah pata kabi kabhi uski freinds bhi uske sath hote h
    i’m reallyy love her please help me

    1. I can’t help u. Only u can help urself. Aapme usse baat karne ki himmat nhi hai, himmat karo and baat karo.

  97. me 3 saal se ek ladki ke saath dosti karne ki kosis krta hu
    or kus kahta hu to ladki muje ulta muje kus bolti hai or kabhi smil bhi deti hai
    lekin vo love ke bare me kus nhi bolti hai ,pls us ladki ko kese chet karu .

      1. Omg …. I don’t believe it yr itne sare idea apke pass aate kaise h shivshi =-O mujhe aaj pta chala ke aise website v hote h nd ye boyz inhi sb se tips parke dimag khate h hadd h….

  98. Hey Shivshi!!!!
    Mai Ek ladki se bahut pyar krta huan aur shyad vo bhi uska naam my dream girl #Archana hai uske alava mujhe kuch dikta hi nahi lekin jab vo samne ati hai usese nazar bhi nahi mila pata….
    Mera dil bhi kitna pagal hai ye pyar to tumse karta hai par samne jb tum ate ho kuch bhi kahne se darta hai
    Vahi haal hai mera mai usese kaise nazar milau kaise baat karu plz explain i am student of class X.

  99. Hlo ji.
    M ek ladki se kaafi deno se baat kr rha hu. ..meiny us ladki se number manga pr. ..usny mna kr dia. …
    Meiny bol dia ki tuj muj pr trst nhii h. ..
    Usne na bola. .
    fr meiny usse bol diya ki tuje jab muj pr trst oh jayga. .
    To tum muje message kr dena nhii to gud bye. …

    Us ny muj dowra mess kia but mobile number nhii diya

      1. Dear Mam,
        Plz help me, mujhe ek ladki bahut pasand hai. Vo mere bus stand se bus pakdti hai or jis bus stop pe mai utarta hu usi stop pe vo bhi utrti hai, kaaphi seedhi hai. Pre vo mujhe nahi janti. Mujhe batao ki mai kis topic se baat start karu usse or vo mujhe galat bhi na samjhe
        Note- hum dono ek hi cast ke hai or uttranchal ke hai
        Plz urgent response mam

          1. Mujeh ek ladki pasand hai.. me usse face to face to ek bar mila tha or num. B le liya.. uske baad hum msg pe baat karne lage.. me ne usse proposed b kiya bt usne mana kar diya..Me use meri gf banana chahta hu so… aap meri help karo na ki vo pat jaaye our meri gf ban jaaye… ek or baat ki uski clg or meri clg alag alag city me hai to hum mil nahi sakte jo b hona hai vo phn pe hi impress karna hoga… ek bar gf ban jaaye to uske baad me mil sakta hu… so rply me fast

          2. Bas fir usse baat karna shuru karo phone par and jitni tareef karni aati hai kar do… Impress ho jayegi 😉

  100. Hello Shivshi….

    me ek ladki se bohat dinose pyaar karta hun. our hamesha aise sitution rehti he ki me use baat v nahi karpata.. me kabhi kabhi usko dekh k smile v karta hun… woh v mujhe dekh k ek do bar smile ki he or kabhi kabhi mujhe dekh k v ignore kar deti he jabki me akela hota hun our use v koi dekh nahi raha hota… iss sitution me mein karu… kaise pata lagaun ki woh mujhe like karti he ya nahi… or ek bat woh mujhse age me 3-4 saal chhoti hogi.. plllllllllllzzzzzz help me Shivshi ji…..

    1. Are itni Tension lene ki itni baat nhi hai jitni aap tension le rhe ho… Dekh dekh kar smile karne se baat aage nhi badhti uske liye baat karni padti hai. Himmat karo and uske paas ja kar baat karo.

  101. koi esa tips btaen shivshi G jis se ladki khud muje sms kare.. aur js se mn chat karta hoo wo bht ghamandi h wo meri bato se interest nhi lety

  102. Dear shivi…….
    Meri 3year se ek hi gf h jo mujhse real love karti hai but yaar ek prblm hai uska ek bachpan se best frnd h jo usko flirt karta rahta hai mai apni gf se use chorne k liye bolta hu to wo naraz ho jati hai dear aisa kya jaye ki wo apne friend ko chor de or kisi boy se friendship na kare ye mujhe achxha nhi lagta…..
    So plz hlp me dear…..

  103. hey shivshi….
    meri gf h bahut hi cute h nd m bhi smart
    hu:-P m usse bahut pyar<3.karta hu see is
    lv me..meri life m bhaut specal h…hme 6
    month hone ja rahe h but ab Bo mjhme kch
    intereste km le rhi h jaise pahle bat karti
    thi baise ab nhi karti mjhe kch samjh nhi
    aata h ki bo aisa kyu kr rhi h usse rejon
    puchta hu toh ulta bolti h ki tm mjhse pyar
    hi nhi karte ho:-/ ab m purani ho gayi hun
    na…..m usko bahut care nd respect karta
    hun jo ek acha bf karta h usko kisi bhi baat
    ki Koi problem nhi di h yaha tak uski Koi
    bat ko maine mna nhi kiya uski galtiyo pr
    bhi nhi data hmesa uska kahna manata hu
    kbhi usko rulaya nhi hmesa pyar hi diya jb
    bhi date pr bulati hmesa jata hu Chahe m
    kisi kaam m busy hu firr bhi sab kch chor
    kr jata hu usko apni problem bhi batata hu
    but bo nhii Manti hehehe Apne aage chalne
    hi nhi deti h yar….but abhi kch time s pta
    nhi bahut km baat karti h thik s baat nhi
    karti h ab….plz help me kaise Apna
    relationship bacha pau m agr ye tut gaya
    toh m tutt jaunga…

  104. Hi Shivshi..
    Muje 1 confusion hai
    ap plz help kerdei..
    Mai 15 years age hai or meri class mai ek larki hai.. main use pasnd krta hun wo mujse chat b kerte hain .. wo chat b mujse shi krti hai or.. maine use chi friendship ki hai or maine use bataya bhi nhi ke muje tume pasnd ho liken mere ek dost ne use bata dya tha ke mai use pasnd krta hun …us lrki ko ye pata hai ke mai use pasnd krta liken us larki ko koi or pasnd hau …maine us se 3 4 bar pocha ke tume koi pasnd hai?? Liken wo khti hai muje koi b nhi pasnd …
    an muje kesse pata chle gha ke meri kitni ahmiyat hai uski life mai

    1. Kuch din ke liye usse duri bnao, koi message nhi, koi chat nhi… Agr to usne ye cheez notice ki and aapse reason pucha to samajh lena uske life me aapki kuch na kuch jagah jrur hai aur agar vo ye baat note bhi nhi karti to sorry.. 🙁

  105. Muje girl ke bare M btao ki girl ho kya 2 pasand hota hota hai.. Or kya nahi pasand hota hai.. Muje ek girl ko gf bnanna hai.. . To btaiye ap

    1. Girls ko ache ladke pasand hote hai jinme himmat ho, Darpok aur jrurat se jyada sharmile ladke ladki ko pasand nhi.

  106. Me ek ladki se fb pe chat kar raha hu par sab kuch me hi puch raha hu vo jyada kuch nai puch ti use empress kese kare…?

    1. Uski life and dislikes pucho, use pucho ki sabse jyada khushi kab milti hai fir vhi karo..

  107. hii.mam
    mai ek ladki ko bahoot like karta hu.wo mere ghar k hi pas ki hai. mai usse bt bhi karta hu. wo bhi mujhse bt krti hai . bt muje kaise yakin hoga ki wo bhi mujhe like karti hai.wo abhi 11th me hai.

  108. Kya tum advice deti ho. Jo shadi shuda se love krta hai wo love nhi. Aur jo single ladki se love krta hai wo love hai. Love to kisi se ho jata hai.

    1. Mujhe bhi pata hai, lekin shadi shuda se love karke problems ke alawa kuch milta hai ??? Nhi! isliye main aise pyar se dur rahne ko kehti hu.

    1. Ye sabse badi galat fehmi hai. Arrange marriage waale jyada khush aur sukhi rahte hai dear.

    1. Sirf aur sirf uske baare me hi baat karo, kya pasand hai kya nhi, kya acha lagta hai kya nhi. Life me kya ban-na hai kyu banna hai, kaisi zindgi chahti hai..

  109. I me ak ladki say bat kar ta ho or use love v karta ho likin use bol nhi pa rha ho me chat pe kiya bat kro mujhe samjh nhi aaja koi mere help kro n plz

  110. muze nahi samaj main aa raha hai main ladki ko impress karne ke liye kyaa?? aur kaise chat karu jise woh pat jaaye
    plzzz plzzz help me

          1. Jhony Darte to hum apne bap se bhi nhi hai. Ar rahi bat bed tak pahuchane ka punya wo to kr rhi ho n help kr ke ladko ki.

          1. Hlo jii,,,,mera nam Naveen hai meri aj tk koi b girlfriend nai bani.fb pe to kbi nai WO mere sat baat b kr leti hai but friend ship ke liye MNA kr deti hai muje ye smaj ni ata ki WO MNA kyu kr deti hai,,,,an ap hi btaiye main kya kro

  111. To main ab kya kru
    kuch samajh main nahin aa raha…
    Bass main chahta hun ki wo jahan bhi rahe khush rahe….
    Magar ye sochte hue meri akhon main asun kiyun aa jata hai pata nahin

    1. Tu andar se kamjor ho isliye aanshu aa jaate hai, khud ko mard bnao. Ek ladki jise tumhari koi parwah nhi uske liye rone se kuch nhi hone wala. time waste ke alawa. Apna kaam dhandha karo aur usme safal hone ki socho.

      1. Ur r8 main andar se kamjor hun but its only for her.Magar aapki ye baat galat hai ki wo meri parwa nahi karti.wo mujhe reject karne ke baad to hamari friendship jyada strong ho gaya hai.Aab to wo mere se har baat share karti hai.

        Aur wo samjh ti hai ki lv karna achhi baat nahi hai time waste hota hai.And she also want a successful career in her life.
        Thats why main confused hun ki wo akhir chahti kya hai.

        Bdw mere dost log to hamari conversation dekhke bolte hain are sale yeh to pura pati hui hai
        Bass bata nahin rahi hai.do tin mahine me boldegi.magar mujhe aisa nahi lagta.
        To aap hi bataye mainkyakru…..

  112. I love a girl..but she doesn’t love me..she talks to me formally..but sometimes she ignores..and she has a bf..but I love her too much..so kya karu.plz help

    1. Just stay friend with her, make her feel special. Uska khyal rakho uski har ek baat ka dhyan rakho, uski care karo. use dikhao how special she is.

      1. Hlow femail love guru ji akk anjan ladki h fb par usko kase ptana hoga wo na too block krti h or din me sirf akk he replay krti h ab aap he help kro k uss chori ko kase ptau…………

        1. Yaar jab tak vo theek se baat nhi karti tab tak kuch bhi kar paana muskil hai. Usse kuch pucho, jaise ki aapko life me sabse jyada kis cheez se pyar hai ya aisa hi kuch taaki baat start ho sake, ek baar baat shuru to bas fir sab theek..

  113. I lv a girl so much dat I can even die 4 her little smile. But when I propose her she said that she’ll never love me.It happened before 2months.
    And fact is that she is chatting with me in whatsapp like my best frnd.
    And she also said that she doesn’t have any boyfrnd till now.
    The moment she rejected me I tried to kill my self but couldn’t suceed. I realize that I have to stay alive 4 my parents coz the will depend on me after 5 years.
    And Now I can’t kill my self but I’m dieing every day.Is dis the punishment of true love.

    1. Oho dekho to jra, ye chahte hai inhe koi smart girl khud call kare. Aisa bhi hota hai bhala,…

  114. hlo jii m ekk ladki koo kaafi like krta hu btt usa mera upar trust nhi thaa maine usa trust dilbane k lia bda kuch kia btt usne toh bhi mera upar trust nhi kia fir ekk din maine gussa m aake uske prents koo kuch galat bol dia baaf m meko realize hua kii mujhe aise nhi bolna chahiyea thaa fir maine ussr srry khaa nd usne mujhe maaf kt dia nd maine usa ekk do din ignoor kia aur boo tabb ye sehr chod k chli gyi fir usne mujhe freind requst bheji fb pe nd aab hmm hr ros fb p baat krte h pr m usa impress kaise kru jisse bo bhi mujhe like krne lga plx give me a solution my question

    1. Use jo sab pasand hai vo kro and uske sath share karo. Usse uski tareef karo, uski care karo.

          1. Hello shivani JI.. Mein Fb par Ek ladki se chat ki vo bhi mujhe se chat karne he.. But abhi bhi mujhe friend nhi manti to use kese imprese kre.. Jaruri or wokt mang rahi he

  115. Kuch sikho yaaro ek larke itne larko ko dabung andaj mai advise de rhe bs es he trh frenk ho jao sb muskil hl ho jayege.(I like your style shivshi)

    1. Thank U Kunal. Kuch log aise sawal puchte hai ki bas kya btau. Khair main baithi hu help karne ke liye aur jitna kar sakti hu usse jyada krne ki kosish rhti hai hamesha 🙂

  116. hi dear
    me ek priyanka nam ki ldki ko psnd krta hu bt vo mjhse bat nhi krti he han fb pr jese to tese ad kia he kal raat bat hui uska bdy tha to hppy bdy bola mne nd vo bolti he me jisse jnti nhi bat nhi krti hu aisa kuch attitude bhut he pls hlp.me

    1. Use bolo Jaan pehchan to baatcheet karke hi banti hai. Are yaar aap log filme nhi dekhte kya. Unse kuch seekha karo bas heroine ko dekhte rhte ho 😛
      Humanshu Dear aapme thodi si confidence ki jrurat hai. Nothing more.

  117. Mein jis ladki ko chahta tha usse meine pucha tha, pr usne no kar di..
    Frr hamaari 8 month baat nhi huii
    Ab ham phir se baay krne lge hein fb pe…
    Wo mere ghar k pass hi rehti he, aur jab bhi mujhe dekhtii he, mujhe lagta he ki wo shaed mujhe like krti he…
    Aur mujhe sari raat neend nhi aati
    Toh abh kya kr skta hun mein …????
    Respected miSstress..

    1. Usse ek baar fir se achi bonding bnao and use frienship ke liye propose karo, ache friends bano and fir agr possible ho to milne ko bulao vha face to face apni dil ki baat use pyar se samjhao.

    1. Shadi shuda ladki ko ptane ki kaise soojh jaati hai aap logon ke mujhe ye nhi samajh aata 🙁

    1. Dil me himmat dalo and muh me kuch ache ache alfaz…. Confidence ke saath use line maro, smile kro, fir agr positive signal aata hai to baat karo aur fir kya keh do dil ki baat… 🙂

  118. Me 1 ladki ko bht pyar karta hu uski taraf se b starting me positive response tha meri cousin k through uska no. Mol gaya hamari bat b hoti he par wo mje frnd banti he uska kehna he k wo kisi relationship me nai ana chahti qki kuch time bad ho sakta he uski engagement ho jae or me use bht like karta hu chat b karta hu uske rply ka bht wait karta hu par wo aj kal rply bht kam deti he intrest hi nai leti mje me kya karu?

    1. Agar to aap uske saath Marriage kar sakte ho to hi uske chakar me pado varna koi fayda nhi hai. Kuch time baad uski shaddi honi hai aise me agr aapki uski sath setting ho bhi jati hai to baad me panga hi padega kyuki aapne abhi shadi ni karni to relationship end hoga, isliye vo phle hi han nhi kar rhi taki kal koi problem hi na ho.

  119. Me 1 girl ko bht pyar karta hu me usse 1 bar mila hu Crescent water park me wahi meri cousin ne uska no. Lia tha or wahi meri b usse normal bate hui fir jb me photo setion kar raha tha to mje uski taraf se positice response mila mene use smile di usne b mje smile di wo mje b it look de rahi thi bht dekh rahi thi me b use bht dekh raha tha wo mjse chat karti he par bht kam uska kehna he uski mammi kehti he mobile kitna use karti ho me chahta hu wo meri gf ban jae bcoz i love her par wo mjme ab utna intrest nai dikhati me kya karu smjh nai aa raha me yaha har kabhi nai aa sakta ap mje mail kar dijie abdularshad390@gmail.com ya fb kar dijie abdularshad920@gmail.com ya whats app kar dijie 8269776421 or free sms hota he google se jisse apka no. B nai jata registration b nai karna padta usse mje 1 msg kar dijie k apne solution kaha dia he whats app pe fb pe ya mail pe thanks

    1. Agr aap dono ek hi city me rhte ho to usse milne ki kosish kro ek bar, jaise bhi ho usse milo and use propose karo ache tarike se. Use btao ki vo aapke liye kitni special hai and aap use kitna chahte ho. Use malum hona chahiye ki uski aapki life me kya importance hai.

      1. I Love You…
        हमे तुमसे हुय़ां हे पियाच बटाU हम किय़ां करेँ……..SHIVSHE

  120. Main ek lardki ko pasand kar ne laga hu aur wo mere ghar k pass k school mai teaching kar te hai. Jab mai waha se guzar ta hu to wo mujhe ous ke teacheing room mai dekhai deti hai. Aur wo mujhe dek thi hai aur mai ouse dek tha hu bass ouse baat nahi ho thi hai. ap batayee mai kya karu. this question for shivshi

    1. Use dekh kar smile kro agr vo bhi smile karti hai to samjh lo baat karne ke liye rasta clear hai. Fir use ishare se himmat karke Hi kro, use apna no. do ya uska no. mango aur baat cheet shuru kro.

    1. Jinse aapki pehle baat hoti thi aur ab nhi hoti unse kisi taraf ek baar contact karke pucho ki vo btaye ki kya karan hai ki kuch time baat karne ke bad vo aapse baat nhi karti, vo aapko jo points btayengi un par work kro, problem solve. Bas confidence honi chahiye aur kuch nhi.

      1. Main ek ladki ko like krta hu aur use propose bhi kiya lekin usne tum bahot sidhe ladke ho kahkar na bol diya . give me suggestion

      2. Main bahut antar mukhi hon main bilkul akela hun kash meri koi girlfriend hoti jo mujhe sympathy deti aur mujhe pyar karti
        please help me

    1. Tarike ache lage uske liye thanks 🙂
      Par aapke mobile no. ka hum kya krenge Waseem miya ?

        1. Use jo pasand hai us baare me baat karo, apne future ke baare me baat karo, usne aage kya karna hai ye baat karo, aap kya kahrna chahte ho ye baat karo, konsi movie achi lagti hai konsa actor favourite hai, konsi actress best lagti hai. Aur kya chal rha hai, kal kya karna hai, khanya khaya, paani piya ye baat karo… Jitni chezon ke baare me jante ho sab ke baare me baat karo.. 😛

  121. Thanks friend
    Mujey ap ki topic bahot ahchi lagi
    Meara naam rasheed hai main hydrabad mea rehta hu
    Mainey kisi ku sachey dil se chahatha mager yuney mujse baat karna band kardey hai ager ap k pas es problem ka koi rasta hai toh plz ap mujey meary whats up k number pea msg karey plz ye meara number hai.09700681345

    1. Baat karna band kar diya hai to uska koi reason to hoga, ya kuch aisa hua hoga jiske karan vo baat nhi kar rhi. Vo kya hai btao ??

        1. Smile kro. Agr vo bhi smile karti hai ya koi positive signal deti hai to hi hello kro aur fir baat shuru.. 🙂