Ram Ram Dear friend _/\_ Aaj-Kal mere friends ek khaas baat par apne aap se ya apne friends se bada jyada discuss karte hai, so maine socha mujhe bhi aapke saath vo jarur share karna chahiye. Because main sochti hu ye baat aapko bhi pta chalna chahiye… kya pta ye baat aapke kaam bhi aa jaye, abhi nahi to future me hi shi :P. Aur kya pta aap ya aapka koi jaankar bhi is baare me soch soch ke preshan ho rha hai to par kisi reason ke karan nhi discuss kar paate ho.

Bahut se friends comment karke ye puchte hai ki — Hey Shivshi “Ek ladki hai jo mujhe bahut dekhti hai, jab bhi main uske samne jata hu tab vo baar baar meri taraf dekhti hai.. lekin mujhe ye nhi pta ki vo kis attention se mujhe dekh rhi hai, Isko main kya smjhu”.

Agar main ye samajh lu ki vo mujhe like karti hai isliye dekhti hai par agar uski side se kuch feeling na huyi aur ye meri galat fehmi huyi aur usne apne pita ji ko bata diya to Vo mujhe ache se dekhege fir toh :P. Isliye main pahle ye confirm karna chahta hu ki… Aakhsir kya hai uske dil me mere liye.. Kyu vo mujhe dekhti hai.. Ya iske possible reasons kya ho sakte hai.

Means aaj kal ke time me mostly boys and ke liye ye ek bahut badi problem hai, jiska solution dhundhna meri jaisi “friend” ke liye behad jaruri hai, after all I care for you guys 😉 . Most of the time aisa hota hai ki ladke sochte hai… Jo dreams hum dekh rhe hai apni dream girl ke baare me, vo pure bhi honge ya “hum aur humare dreams hi reh jayenge…..”

How To Know Ladki Baar Baar Kyu Dekhti Hai

Friends, Aaj ke time me ye big issue hai kyuki aaj kal toh most of the things aankhon aankhon me ho jaati hai but unki jinko koi doubt nhi hai ki vo ladki usko pyar krti hai. So… Main aapko kuch simple but very effective tips bata rahi hu. You just follow these simple steps to know that… Agar ladki ladke ko dekhti hai baar baar to iska kya matlab ho sakta hai. Lets start now..

Ladki Baar Baar Dekhti Hai Iska Matlab Kya Hai

Agar Ladki Anjan Hai to Ho Sakta Hai Vo Like Karti Hai

Firstly, agar ladki aapko baar baar dekhti hai aur jab aap usko dekhne lagte ho toh vo ankhe chura leti hai, it means vo aapko like krti hai. Tab ladke ko ye karna chahiye ki vo khud usse baat karne ka try kare, kyuki ladkiya hamesha chahti hai ki pahle ladka unse baat kare. Aisa isliye kyuki ladkiyan pahle baat karne me jijhkti hai. Isse yeh hoga ki, jab aap usse baat kroge tab vo bhi apne dil ki baat aapko bina kisi jijhak (hesitation) ke bta degi.

So aap ja kar usse baat karni shuru karo… Baat shuru karna koi muskil kaam nhi hai, just `Hi…` bolo and baat shuru ho jaati hai. Jyada socho mat, kyunki jo bhi ho is point se aapko itna clearly toh pta chal jayega ki uske dil me aapke liye kuch hai ya nhi. (Yha Padho : ★ Pasand Ki Ladki Se Dosti & Friendship karne Ke Best Tips ★)

Ladki Known Hai to Vo Kuch Share Karna Chahti Hai

Kabhi kabhi aisa bhi hota hai jaise koi ladka , ladki friends hote hai us time par agar ladki ladko ko dekhti hai tab usko koi baat share karni hoti hai, jo vo sirf aapse hi share karna chahti hai. Jaise agar vo kisi problem me hai toh vo aapko direct to bol nhi sakti na kyuki kya pta aap uske baare me kya soch loge. So… kabhi kabhi dosti ki nazro se bhi dekh sakti hai. Lekin agar ladki jaan pehchan ki hai aur aapko dekhti hai to jaruri nhi ki vo kuch share hi karna chahti hai, yha bhi ho sakta hai ki vo aapko like karti ho, so same thing yha bhi karo, Jaao and usse baat karo.

Ho Gaya Hai Mujhko To Pyar Sajna ♥

Most of the time ladkiya jab kisi ko dil hi dil me pyar karna shuru kar deti hai. Tabhi yeh chori chori usko dekhna shuru kar deti hai. But ek baat hai jab ladke ko pta lag jata hai na ki koi usko chori chori dekhta hai, tab ladke ko himmat karke usko puch lena chahiye na ki ye sochna chahiye ki vo kuch bolegi tabhi mai bolunga. Is case friend na toh ladki kuch bolti hai or na hi ladka fir kuch time bad dono ek dusre ki shadi me flowers leke jaate hai :P. SO.. My dear friends, Aisa kuch ho jaaye usse pahle hi baat karke sab clear kar lena.

I think guys, sirf yeh hi 2 purpose hai ladki ke dekhne ke kyuki koi bhi Achi ladki without any feeling to kisi ko bhi aise hi nhi dekhti… So agar aapko koi chori chori dekhti hai aapse toh it simply means – She likes you and she wants to talk with you. Lekin chahe jo bhi ho ladki khud aa kar baat nhi karegi so… Baat pahle aapko hi karni padegi so carefully baat karni shuru karo. Agar aapko lagta hai ki vo aapko like karti hai to aap usse no. maango. Thode bahut nakhre karne ke baad vo no. de degi. And no. mil gaya to samjho uske Dil me jagah banane ka rasta mil gaya.

In case ladki aapko dekhti hai but jab aap usse baat karne jaate ho to vo baat karne se mana kar deti hai ya kuch ulta seedha bolti hai to, aapka bhala isi me hoga ki vo dekhti hai use dekhne do aap uski taraf dhyaan mat do. Aisa isliye kyunki is tarah ki ladkiyan har time confuse rahti hai aur inka kaam hota hai bas dusre ko tang karna, so aapka kaam hai try karna, agar try karne par bhi vo faltu ka bhaav khati hai to uske chakkar se nikal jaane me hi aapki bhalayi hai. Usne karna karana kuch nhi hai bas dimag kharab karna hai aapka.

Ab plzz jo bhi karoge ache se karna bas maar khake mat aana :P. Okk friends jo bhi result hoga Apni Shivshi ko jrur btana, bhulna mat. All the best friends.

Published by Shivshi

Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

Join the Conversation

222 Comments

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

  1. Hlw I m tajinder mujhe kayi ladkiyan baar baar dekhti aa par main ladki se kon c baat kru plz mujhe commnt kr ke baatayen ASA kayi baar hota hai par main ladki se baat nahi kr pata

  2. main re koi gf nahi hai lekin mujhe bhot si ladkiya dekh ti hai main kya karu our mai unse baat kar ne me thoda sharmata hu me kya karu

  3. Shivshi mem
    Mai 19yer ka hu or nai am ladki se bat karta hu 17yer ki he him dono 1yer se chatting karta hai ratke 2pm tak but mai ladki ko point mail kitni bar keh chuka hu hum akdusre ki bahut care karte hai but kabhi ak dushre KO I love you kehne ki himmat nhi hoti am dushre KO khodene k darse mail kyare karu..

    1. jab aap ek dusare ko pasand karte hai toh bolne mein kya problem hai, aese darne se kuch nahi hota hai yeh aapke negative thoughts hai.

      1. mein 18 saal ka hu mein aap se pusna chata hu agar ladki bolti hai mein tum mera haath pkd lo too kya wo mujhe like krti hai

  4. Hello shivshi ji mai ap se parasanali bat karana chahata hu mera whatsapp no.8576852998 hai

  5. Hello shivshi ji mai ap se parasanali bat karana chahata hu mera whatsapp no.8576852998 hai

  6. Hello shivshi
    mai ek ladke se bht pyaar krti hu vo bhi mujhse pyar krta hai lekin vo bolta hai ki uske parents humari shaadi ke liye nhi maanege aap btao mai uske parents ko kaise impress kru plz help me

    1. aap unke samne bahut ache bane or hassi mazak karte rahe jisse ek positive mohole banta hai unke sath ghul mile jaiye unki tarifee kare.

  7. Mai ek ladaki se pyar karata hu aur vo bhi karati thi lakine bhir kya huya ki vo mujhase gusa ho gayi hai jab maine kaha kaisi ho to kahane lagi chapal se marungi akhir aisa kyo kiya shivshi ji

  8. hiii
    dear shivshi
    ek ladki daily mujhe dekhaty hai or muskrati hai,,, jo ki mery class mat hai jab Maine usse bat ki, to o yese react karti hai jese o mujhse kuch chupa rahi ho, jab bhut time dino tak o mujhe dekhti rahi I mean kai mahino tak smile karti rahi or dekhti rahi to
    maine usse propose karna better samjha to usne mujhse mana Kar diya
    or ab o mujhse yese react karti hai jese mera usse bhut badhi ladhai ho gyi ho
    mujhe samjh mai nhi aaraha mai es conditions Mai kya karu

  9. hello madam
    ek ladki hai wo dekhti hai or muskurati bhi hai lekin wo mere burai krti hai ise kya samjhe

  10. Hello shivshi ji
    Mai ek ladaki se bahut pyar karata hu aur vo bhi mujhase bahut pyar karati hai lekin jab bhi mujhe dekhati hai to ghabada jati hai hume dekh kar ya sarama jati hai maine use i love you bhi bole kar prpose bhi kiya lekine kuch bhi Ripley nahi de rahi lekin akho mai akhe dall kar ab bhi dekh rahi hai lekine samajh nahi aa raha ki o kuch bole kyo nahi rahi hai yaar ab mai kya karu shivshi ji please helf me

  11. Hii…
    mere ghar k sath wale ghar me 1 larki rehti ha me use boht like krta hu or jb bhi moka milta ha wo bhi mujhe zaroor dekhti ha lekin baat krne ka chance hi nhi milta mujhe koi tip bta do k me us se kis tarha or kia baat kru…..😊
    Reply zaroor krna plzzzz

    1. jab woh ladki aapko dekhti hai toh aap usse smile diya kare aur hii bola kare aise aapki baat agye badegi.

  12. Hi shivshi mai sadi k liye ladki dekhne gaya lekin mujhe laga ki she is not even interested to see me so sab log press kiye talk to her but I don’t speak even a single word to her and come back .and both the parents are ready kya mujhe ye sadi karni chaiye help me……..

    1. Aapko ye faisla lene se pahle ek baar us ladki se baat jarur karni chahiye is baare me ki vo kya chahti hai, varna aisa na ho ki abhi aap ghar waalo ke pressure me to shadi kar lo aur baad me pata lage koi aur hi lafda hai!

  13. Yadi koi larka kisi larki ko gift de, larki gift ka reason puche larka aise hi keh k baat ko tal de, larki gift accept kr le lekin usko pehne nahi to eska kya reason ho sakta hai.

    1. Behtar hoga ye aap us ladki se direct puch lo jise aapne gift diya hai, jarurat se jyada sochne ya preshan hone ki jarurat nhi hai!

  14. Hi..
    Shivshi Meri ek classmate h …..
    Wo mujhe class me sabke samne dekhti rahti h …
    Mere dekhne per bhi wo aakhe nhi churati
    Hm dono.3 month se yahi aaakhe milane or khud hi khud hasne ka khel khel rahe h .per wo mujhse homewark k alawa kuch or baat nhi karti..
    Buss ek hi sawal kya tum homewark karke lae ho..
    What i do
    I want to do frndship with her
    How to start coversation…

    1. ap usse frankly bole ki tum koi or baat kyu bahi karti ho. kya pata voh bhi apse baat karne ke bhane dhunti ho or koi topic na ho uske pass.

      1. Aap jitne ladke se mile ho me un sab se alag hu me jo socata hu oo koye nahi soca sakta hai jitna. Me duniya me sab se alag socata hu.lekin me use baat kar ta hu jo meri tarahi soche.ok aap mejye pagal maat sa majiye ga.Byyy.

  15. hii shivshi
    main na jisko pyar karta hu bo mujhe bhi pyar karti hai kafi din tak ek doosre ko like krte rhe but ab maine whats APp pr propose kr diya usne ha bhi bol diya hai lekin jb hm log face to face milte hai to aise milte hai jaisr anjan hai usse baat krne ki himmat ni hoti btao yr kyaa kroo mai.???

    1. Bas confidence ki kami hai, apne andar confidence le kar aao varna vo aapko darpok samajh kar dur bhi ja sakti hai.

  16. Hello , shivshi muje samaj nahi aa rha hai me kya karu because muje ek ladki roj mere ghar ke samne se nikal ke muje haskar dekhti hai so what I do ? please help.

        1. Ache se Study karo, Achi Job lago, ek successful insaan bano aur fir rishta le ke mere ghar aa kar Pita ji se milo… 🙂

    1. Kuch time tak usse baat karne ki kosish karo agar fir bhi koi baat nahi banti to fir uska peecha chod dena chahiye.

    2. Hy. Mera nam rahul hai ma bihar sa hu.ma ek larki sa pyar karta hu but us larki sa mera dost bhi pyar karta hu. Pahela mujhe usa pyar nhi tha but oo huma bar bar class ma dekha karti thi aur jb ma dekhta th oo nazar chipa liya karti thi.. Ma usa ab pyar karna laga hu bt. Mera dost uska bf hai to ma ab kya karu

      1. Dekho Rahul is tarah ke lafde me pad kar logon ne apni life barbad hi ki hai isliye Main aapko yhi salah dungi ki Aap uske baare me sochna choro, vo already kisi ki girlfriend hai isliye faltu me din raat uske baare me soch ke time waste mat karo balki apni life successful hone me lagao, jab tum safal insan banoge to tumhe khud sab milega jiski tumhe chahat hai par agar inhi sab cheezon me lage rhe to uch nhi ho payega.

  17. me ek ladki se bahut pyaar krta hu nd hum fb friends he mene usko praposer diya to usne bola mujhe time chahiye nd kuch din baad usne bola ki sry mujhe ye friendship ye kam pasand nhi he bt mujhe aapse koi prob.nhi he.plz..help me

  18. mujhe aacha nai lag raha h meri koi gf nai h ye comments padh ke aajkal log wag kaise gf bna lete h 5din me aisa pyar ho jata h jaise ki 5janmo kaa ho or mujhe to samaj nai aata h ladkiya kaise sab kuch kr leti h uske sath shaadi nai sex kisi ke sath shaadi kisi ke sath matlb jo life time sath rahega usko dhoka dena jo sirf 5mahine rahega uske liye fully packef sex gift nd khudke life partner ke liye opned gift jara ek baar sex krne se pehle aankh bandh krke khudse poocho kya me sahi raste pe jaa rahi hu or jisko ne sabkuch dene wali hu wo sahi h mere liye wo mera life time sath de skta h ya dega fir aapka design h jo aapko thik lageye sirf aapne mata pitako dhoka to de hu rahe ho jisne aaoko paal ke itna bada kiya jisne 21saal aapne sath rakha unko bhula ke 5mahine ke bf ke sath sabkuch jo 21saal ke sanskaar kaam padh gye the jo 5min me bhul jate h hum log aap log jara ye thik se sochiye waise shivshi mam aap koi galat kaam nai kr rahi ho but aapse consult krke ladkiyo ko fasana or unko sex karwane ke tarike dhundte h aap jara sochiye or mujhe btaiye jarur.

    1. Main aapki har baat se 100% Agree karti hu VR, log aaj kal bhut bewakoofi kar rahe hai, Main sirf isliye help karti hu ki unki life me jo bhi stress hai vo at least kuch kam kar saku.

  19. Hii shivshi yr mere ghr kai paas ekk ladki rhti hai and vo kaafi time sai mujhe dekhti hai tonits means vo like keti hai mujhe nd maine abhi tak usse baat nhi ki yr plzz koi help kro yrr

  20. Hii shivshi ji muze ek ladiki roz apne ghar se dekhti he lekin vo fourth flour pe rehti he vaha se muze dekhti he me use baat kese karu vaha tak kese pohchu pease help mee

    1. Dear wo kabhi toh neeche aate hoge. Ab agar aap usse baat karne ke liye itna he serious hai toh uske aane ya jane ka time pata karo. Uske bare me jaan lo aur dekho us ke bad ap use kab bat kar sakte ho. agar phir bhi kuch problem ho toh puch lena, hum yahi hai apki help ke lie.

  21. Hi,shivasi main ek ladki ko like karta hu vo roj mere mohlle ki gali se hokar padhane jati kisi school mein jab bhi uski taraf dekhta hu thori der vo dekhti hai mujhe phir muh pher leti hai jab kbhi main use nhi dekhta vo meri taraf dekhti koi upaye batao please

  22. Hi shivshi. Mera naam suraj h. M ek ldki se bahot pyar krta hu. Or use manane ne mjhe 1 sal lg gya. Pr jab wo bhi mjhe chahne lagi to lagbhag 1 mahine bad hi usne mjhe chod diya sayd apni family ki wajh se ki wo log nahi manenge . Or hm dono alag alag states me rehte h. To mai use mana bhi nhi sakta. Or phone krta hu to wo uthati bhi nhi h .. kya krooo plz btao i missed her

    1. Aap usko kuch din call na karo or fir ek message bhej dena wo ye aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck 🙂

    1. don’t waste your life for her, uske chakkar me apna time barbad mat karna becoz vo aapko sirf aur sirf ta baat kregi jab vo tensed hogi ya use koi problem hogi baaki time vo apne bf se hi baat karegi, uske saath hi rahegi and usi ke saath sex karegi. So bahut saare dusre ladko ki tarah aap bhi apni zindgi kisi aisi ladki ki liye barbad na karna jisse na kuch lena na dena.

  23. hiii shivshi meri taraf ek ladki 2 saal se dekh rahi h lekin woh mujhse baat ni karti h m ise kya samjhu ? saath hi woh dusre ladko se baat bhi karti h lekin dekhti mujhe rehti h

  24. Shivshii jiii hiiii mere college ki ek ladki h wo hamare pure clg me sabse khoobsurat dikhtii hai clg k sabhi boys uspe line marte h nd wo ladki b sabhi ki taraf dekhti h mere tarf b dekhti h nd clg k 10 boys use purpose maar chuke h un sabko wo reject kar chuki h kya usse patana mere liye possible h plss plsss help me meri life ka sawal h ji reply me….

  25. Hi! Shivshi
    I hope Ki Aap Mera Ye Msg Zaroor Dekhoge…
    Ek Ladki Hai Jo Mujhe Bahut Pasand Hai , aur wo Bhi Mujhe andar Hi Andar Bahut Chahti Hai. Par Problem ye hai ki Main Jab Morniing walk pe Park jata huu.. Tabhi raaste me uska Ghar hai , aur mai Apni bike Pe hota huu
    Bas Aakhon Hi Aakhob ae Batein Hoti hai 🙁
    Par main Use Sab Batana Chahta Huu.. Par koi na koi Uske aas paas waale Beech me Aa jate hai… Mai use kaise batauu.. Plzzz meri Help karo
    Uske bagair mai jee nahi sakta

    1. Sabse pahle confidence ke saath usse baat karni shuru karo, uske saath hansi majak karo, uski tareef kar do aur halka fulka flirt karo. Jab baat is level par aa jaaye tab uska no. lo and whatsApp ya Facebook par chat karke uski pasand, na pasand ke baare me jaano, use thoda samjho fir aapko jab lage time shi hai to usse baat karte time pahle koi achi baat kar do jisse vo khush ho jaaye fir Pyar se apne dil ki baat batao. Is sabke liye aapko confidence chahiye aur apne aap ke upar vishwas. Best of Luck. Fir kya hua vo batana jarur 🙂

  26. Hi mare office mai ak ladki hai jese mai like karta hu mai us se whattsap par be chat karta hu par kuch deno se par bs use he bat hote rahtee hai par who kbe be whattsap nhai krti bs mare sms ka jwab deti hai aaj mane unhe hi lekhkr bja tha par kyee be jwab nhai aaya

  27. Hii main ek ladki se behd pyar karta hoon aur ye baat use pata hai lekin wo kuchh response nhi de rhi hai aur Maine unhe propose kiya aur wo yes bhi boli lekin lekin uske chehere par koi khusi nhi thi aaisa kyu

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  28. Dear main apse yeh puchna chayte hun ki koi ladki agar kisi ladke ke sath agar ist time date par jah rhi ho to toh woh ush ladke se kya kuj aash leker ushse milne ayi hoghi kya aap bta sakte ho ache se.. main cconfuse hu… kya ap meri help kar sakte ho???

    1. Dear ye depend karta hai ki wo kis type ki ladki hai, jaise ki agar koi garib hai touske dimag me bahut kuch chal rha hoga kyunki shayad wo pahle kabhi aise kisi date par na gayi ho or jo amir hogi wo sirf apne bare me hi soch rahi hogi.

  29. hlww avneet sir…
    mere city me har friday ko market lagta h. jisme ek bhut hi sundar ladki aati h. nd mai v every friday ko market jaata hu. wo har Friday ko market aati h aur mere ko dekhti h. mai v use dekhta hu to wo najre jhuka leti h (jaise ki wo mere ko nhi kahi aur dhyan de rhi ho.) but mai jaanta hu wo mujhe thoda-thoda like to krti h. mai jaise hi uske agal-bagal se gujrta hu mera dil dhak@dhak krta h. nd muh se aawaj hi nhi niklti. mai kyaa kru……..plZzzzzzz help me avneet…. sir…..$$$

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  30. Hi my name is pramod ek ladki hai jo mujhe dhekti hai aise to wo mujhe10-15din se dhek rhi h per mujhe samjh m nhi aa rha k mai kya kru or mai usse baat nhi kr pata feeling to aati hai lekin ager maine usse prapose kiya to wo angry na ho jaaye isliye mai usse kuch bole nhi pata pls help me

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

      1. Hlo mam shivsi ,
        mai ik ladki ko like karta hu vo mere college me mujh se senior me padti ha vo kbhi kabhi mere ko dekhti bhi h par mene abhi tk baat bhi ki ab mai kya kru ki vo maan jaye

  31. Hi mam
    Mera nam ashish hai main jis ladaki ko chata hoo wo mujhe bhi chahati hai lekin kabhi mana karti hai or khabi fir pyar karane lagati hai jab mana karati hai toh ye word boli hai
    1-mera tumase koi rishta ni hai
    2-mujhe tumse koi bat ni karani hai
    Ab ashish kya kare mam plz help me
    Ladaki ka nam shashima pathak hai
    Kya karu mam bolo plz

  32. mam plz help me ai jis tution me padhta huu waha par eak ladki padhti h wo mere ko baar baar dekhti rehti h but maine socha kii wo mere ko shayad like karti h but jab mai usse baat karne gya hello mere ko kuch baat karni h toh wo ladki mere se dur bhagne lagi mere se baat hi nhi kii isi lye agle din maine fr se try kiya but frr see usne baat nhi kii auur aage badhte chali gyiii

  33. hii mam
    i am rahul. mam mai ek ladki jo mere ghr k pass ki h. jo mujhse karib 5 year chooti hogi mai us se payr kar baitha hu maine use ek ladki jo uski friend h us k through use bolne k liye kha tha uske baad oh ladki mujhe deekhti h aakho me aakhe daal kar v deekhti h lekin ek problem h mai apne ghr per nahi rahta mai us se rooj mil v nahi sakta. ab aap hi bataiye mai kya samjhu

    ek aur baat jb uski friend se pucha ki usne kya kha to oh bolti h mujhse nahi ho paiga aap hi kud kar lijye

  34. Ek Laski mujhe pahle dekhti thi din me ek do baar par ab woh chhat par aana band kar diya hai aur mujhe dekhne chat par bhi nahi aati kyu please help me me usse kuch kahna chahta hun hum kai dino se dekhte hai par ab jab me ijhar karne wala THA toh WO tar rice (chat) par Aana hi band ho gai

    1. Dear kahi baar insaan ko koi kaam aa jata hai isliye aapko kuch negative sochne ki jarurat nahi or ja kar usse baat karo nahi to derr ho jayegi.

  35. Hello mem
    Me ek ldki se love krta hu but mene ushse
    uska name sb dhire dhire pucha
    Jan pahcan hone krne k bad mene 1 din kha ki will you friend me
    Tb usne mujhekha m sorry
    vivek Ushne Q mna kiya..??
    Dushri bat us din se mene kbhi ushse bt nhi ki lekin pichle 10 15 dino se vo mujhe roz dekhti he or jese hi use pata
    Chlta he ki mene use dekh liya hevo nazre hata leti he….
    Mujhe kya karna chaiye ab plz give me answered mem…
    I really love her…
    Plz.
    Vo roz college me milti he mujhe..
    Help me mem..fast.

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  36. ik. married women hAi wo. mujhe lagatar dekhti rehti hai… main hi nazre jhuka leta hu… but wo dekhti rehti hai…. iska kya matlab hai… plzzz tell

    1. Kuch bhi naa karo, aage se uski taraf dekhna bhi mat. Is tarah ki aurton se jitni dur reh sako usse jyada dur raho. Kisi bhi halat me uske paas bhi mat jaao.

  37. Hiii.. Shivashi….. I m agree with ur tips mujhe ek baat puchni h meri class mai ek ldki h jise mai bhut pyar krta hun bt vo in sb baaton mai intrest ni rkhti vo bs pdhai pai focus rkhti h .use kaise ptaya jaye can u help me plzzzzzz yrrr.

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

    2. yr mai jis ldki ko like krta hu vo multiplied family relation ma aati ha muje usse kaise propose krna chahiye ki family relation kharab na ho

      1. Cousin sister aapki behan lagti hai!! Apni behan ke saath aisi baat soch bhi kaise sakte ho, deen dharam kuch bacha hai ya sab bech khaya hai modern banne ke chakkar me.

  38. hy my name Junaid and …..me kisi ko like karta Hun kahi bar wo mujhe street me mil jati Hai to bhot hi ajeeb nighao se dekhti Hai …..I think mujhe lagta Hai wo mujhme interested Hai …but jab bhi wo dekhti Hai to confidence nahi ban pata Kuch kehne ka I mean hear beat tez hojati heart attack sa lag jata Hai me is dar me bhi rehta Hun agar usne Mana kardiya to Mera ego or attitude bhot hurt hoga I mean thoda Alag level pe chala jaega ……..mujhe kya karna chaiye please btae shivshi …… ☺

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. 😉

  39. Jha pe mai tution padhta hu wha ek ldki v padhne aati h …mai use dkhta hu to wo v dkhti h tirchi njr se but mai baat nhi kr pata us se plz help me How to talk

    1. Apni personality achi bana kar confidence ke saath uski taraf dekho, use notice karwao ki aap use dekh rhe hp… 2-3 baar eye contact hua to jaa kar Bindas andaaz me Hi bolo, darna bilkul mat aur na hi nervous hona. Usse koi choti si baat karna smile ke saath and thanks bol kar baat khatam karna, next day fir koi baat karna halki fulki and last me uski halki si tareef kar dena, next day no. mangna jarur degi (agr dene waali hogi to) 🙂

  40. but mam vo sabse to bt krti but mujhes kya nhi mai jab usse bt krne ki kosis krta hun to chehra ye bta ta hai ki usne mujhe kbhi dekha hi nhi becouse vo mujhe bahut dekhti

    1. Dear jaruri nahi hai ki agaar ladki baar baar dekhe to hamesha hi wo kuch chahti ho. isliye usse us baat ke bina hi dosti karo or fir ageh badhna.

    1. Dear baat karne ka bhi ek tarrika hota hai or baat karne se pahle bahut si cheeze note karni padhti hai jaise ki koi ass pass na ho ya us ladki ka mood kaisa hai or etc or shayad wo ladki apna relation gupt chahti ho isiliye wo aisa karti hoo.

  41. ladki ko purpose Kaise kare. ladki se kaise baat Kare. ladki ko kaise baato me patanye. uska name muskan hai .mera name hitendra hai. agar ladki apko baar baar dekhe to woh apse love karti hai

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..
      and aap bas ye – Pasand ki ladki ko impress karke Patane Ke Best Tips in Hindi padh lo dear, Ye meri Guarantee hai aapki problem ka solution aapko mil jayega 🙂

  42. Shivshi Ji ………
    Phli Baat Aap Intelligent Smart Aur Beautiful Ho You Have All Questions “S Answer You Are Such A Ginius ….

    OK Ab Mai ek swaal puchna chahta hun muje ab tk 300 ldkiyo ne positive respone diye hai mtlb mujse eye contact kiye hai aate jate shadi mai aas pdosh school college sb jgh aap ykeen nhi kregi but that is true….
    and yes i have no any g.f
    coz i have no time kbi kbi couple ko dekhkr sochta hun ki g.f bna lun but mai confuse hun g.f bnau to kisko hr din ek nyi ldki ke positive respone……. to muje ab btayiye ki mai kya kru kese bchu ldkiyo ki nzro se…..
    Plz Give Me Good Answer Ab Aapka Answer Hi Muje Bcha Skta Hai So Plz

    1. Agar aisa hai to ab aap ekhadd par beautiful ladki dhundho jo ki pyaar shadi sabke like ho fir usse serious relation rakho tab aapko khud baki sari ladkiyan uske samne pani kum lagegi.

  43. please pls pls help me
    ek ladki mere tarf dekhti hai lekin mai usk tarf dekhta hu to chehra ghuma leti hai aur ek bar bo baidmintan khelne aayi thi apne ghar k bahar to uski mumy v aa gyi thi gate k pass aur samne mai baitha tha
    mai kya karu aur samjhu

  44. hi siv ek grl ghar se kv mujhe dekhti hai aur kv kv eye conct. v ho jati hai lekin ek bar bo baidmintan khelne k lie bahr aayi to uski mumy v aa kar gate pas khdi ho gayi
    4day bad bo mujhe takti hai lekin jub mai use dekhta hu to chehra ghuma leti hai q

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

  45. Hi Sivashi ji m Delhi k Rahne wala hu Maine Apke Sare Ideas Parde hai Apke Sare Idias bhot Achhe h But Meri Halp Nhi kar Sakte kyu Ki Meri Problem Kuch Hat Ke hai ….Main Ek Lardki She Bhot Pyar Karta hu Mujhe us Lardki Se Pyar large Hue 1 Saal Ho Gya Hai Main Jab Jab Uski Gali Se jata Hu To ishi Matlb se Jaata hu Ki WO Mujhe Dikh jay Main Us Lardki k liye Bhot Pareshan Hu Aaj take Mujhe Uska Naam Nahi Pata …,Puchu bhi to Kaise WO Apne Ghar Se Bhar Nikle To Hi Main Us Se Baat kar Sakta Hu .Ab Aap Hi Batao Mai Kya Karu?????please Halp me Shivashi ji….

    1. Sabse pahle to aapko kaise bhi karke uska naam pata karna hoga or agar wo ghar se bahar nahi nikalti to aap use facebook twiter jaise social networking site ke through usse baat karne ki koshish karo ya agar wo tution jati hai kahi bahar to uski tution join karlo aisa karne se aapko uske sath time spend karne ka mauka milega or use janne ka bhi isi ke sath aap use apni feelings ke bare me bhi bata sakte ho

  46. Hi Shivashi maine Apke Sare ideas Parde , Apke Sare Ideas bhot Achhe hai …But Meri Problem kuch Hat k hai ….
    Main ek lardki se pyar karta hu Main jab bhi us ki Gali s At a hu m jab jab ushe Dekhta hu or WO bhi dekh ti Mujhe use pyar karte hue pura 1 Saal ho gaya hai Aaj Tak mujhe uska naam nhi pata main puchubhi to kaise WO apne Ghar We bhar Nikle To puchu na ….ab Aap hi batao m kya karu .WO jab Ghar s bhar Niklegi Tabhi to Baat kar Santa hu ….please halp me main kya karu???

    1. aamir dekho aaj kal bahut si cheeze aa gayi hai jis paraap ladki se baat kar sakte ho jaise ki facebook instagram and etclekin uske liye aapko ladki ka naam pata hona chaiye or uske liye aap apna or us ladki me koi common friend dhundh lo jo ki aapko uske bare me sab kuch bta de.

  47. hi shivashi
    ek ladki hai jo apne ghar se dekhti hai aur coaching jate samay mujhe dekhi jati hai kv kv najre mil jati hai aur kv kv najre dusri or karti hi lekin mai jub uske pass jata hu to bo mujhse 2 kadam dur hat jati hai mai kya karu aur kya samjhu

  48. Hai friends me ek ladki ko pasand karta hu vo jab school jati hai to mere ghar ke samne se jaati hai vo aur uske friend mujko roj dekhte hai aap bataye ke main kya karu me unse friendship karna chata hu please reply

  49. Hi shivshi.I m raj.
    Me ek ladki se pyar karta hu .wo meri gali me Hi rehti be.but hum me kisi bhi tarah ka koi rishta nahi.humdono ek dusre mo dekha karte par nazdik ate Hi dono ki nazar juk jati .par kafi to.e se vo meri taraf dekhti tak nahi. Or agar vo muje uske karib dekh leti he to pith fer kar khadi rehti he .ye kya ho raha he samaj nahi ata .pls iska jaldi se solution bataiye. Pls pls pls.

    1. Aapko bas thodi himmat karne ki jarurat hai, confidence ke saath uske paas ja kar usse baat karni shuru karo, ek baar baat shuru ho gyi fir sab khud-b-khud track par aa jayega 🙂

  50. Hi. shivshi didi me aapki site ka bahot bada fan hogya hu ,aapki site par har tarha ki problem ke solutions hai,
    aur ap jabab bi bahot achhe se deti ho, muze aapki site par visit karke bahot khushi hui , mai apne friends circle me apki site share karuga. thanks.

  51. hiiiiii maim. mai ek ladki ko fb pe chat krta hu lekin dekha nhi hu. mai confome hu ki wo larki hai. chat bhi bahut krti hai. bt pic magne per nhi deti. bolti hai whatsaap use krungi to send kr dungi. whatsaap abhi use nhi krti hai. number magne per bhi nhi deti hai. bolti hai mujhe phone pe batt krna achha nhi lagta. mai kisi ko aapna number nhi deti. waise frd ki tarh batt krti hai. mai use like krta hu. maim …. kaise bolu usko like krta hu bina dekhe.maim aap boli thi mai porve manga to boli mai aapke relation se belonge krti hu. jo sahi tha boli belive nhi hai to bloke kr do usske bad gd bye likh di. plz plz help me. mai kya kru mai like krta hu. plz plz

  52. Hi shivshi. mere colg mein ek ladki hai Jo colg ki sabse acchi sundar ladki hai. Wo muje dekhti hai main bhi use dekhta hun . main accha dikhtabhun and nyc body hai .Wo sab ladko se acxhe se baat karti hai mujse hamesha attitude mein baat karti hai. kynki main bhi kuch ka. attitude wala nai . muje samj nai ata main aisa kya karro. jise wo clear kar de ki she likes me or not. hum ek Hi colg grup mein bhi hai fir bhi baat nai hoti. wat shud I do please genuine advice dena. how can I get her

  53. hii shivashi Ji…
    baat ye hai ki ek ladki mujhe dekhti thi or hansti thi jab main uski taraf dekhta tha to vo sharma ke apna face niche kar leti thi or main b use dekh kar sharma jata tha or apna face b niche kar leta tha! maine usse baat b ki hai to vo ghabra jati hai! to ab ise main kya samajhoo? ab jab main use dekhta hu to vo apne hothon par ek chhoti si smile dikhati hai ! ab main use purpose karna chahta hu to main use kaise purpose karu ! pehle kaisa react kru! or pehle kaise or kya baat kru? plz plz plz shivashi g meri help karo !

    plz plz fast your answers…

  54. hi
    mam mera name ratnesh h mein ek ladki ko pyar krta hun jiska name shraddha h
    par vo mujhe nhi janti
    hum log koching mein padte h
    vo mujhko dekhti h par aage kya kre ki bo mujhse bat karne lage
    vo mujhe nhi janti na hi humne kbhi usse bat ki aur na hi usne ki bas ek dusre ko dekhte h please help me ab kya kre

  55. Thik h agar me use aaj se hi alag ho javu to fir me varsu se kya bolu ye to bta do sry di aapse itne sawal puchne k liye bt ye aakhiri swal ka jawab de do plz plz plz plz reply fast ……………..

    1. Are kuch mat bolo, bas apne kaam me mast raho, baki vo khud samajh jayegi, aapko lagta hoga ladkiyan samajhti nhi par vo sab samajhti hai..

  56. Di yr aapse ye ummid nhi thi mne apko btaya na ki varsu se to me lv krta or rhi bat present wali gf ki to wo bhi or me bhi dono lv nhi krte lekin me varsu se lv krta hu or me usko btana chata hu ki me sirf usi se lv krta hu to me use kya bolu plz batawo plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz

    1. Agar aisi baat hai to sabse pahle current gf se alag ho jaao, ye kya koi film hai ki ek time pass ke liye ek love ke liye..

  57. Me ek larki se bhut pyar krta hu or mene use 5 bar prpose kiya lekin usne apne mna kr diya kyo ki use apni badnami se drr lgta h lkin ab un bato ko 5 saal ho gye or ab mere dost ne ab mere liye try kiya to use mere present wali gf ke bare me pta chal gya to usne mna kr diya leki me present wali gf ko time pas h bt me us se abhi bhi bhut pyar kRTA hu plz muje kuch bato i lv her yr i lv her n uska naam varsu h i lv varsu

  58. mam mujhe ye janna hai k .. ladkiyon ko jb praposs karo .. to vo thoda gussa dikhati hai .. aor uske frns k samne . insert kr deti … so wo gussa na ho uska kuch ilaaj batao yr …

    …….. …. .

    ..
    2 qua ..

    k ladki se shuruat me kaise baat kare jisse wo impress ho jaye .. ???? plzzz reply fast
    ..

    1. Arman ladki gussa nhi karti hai nakhre marti hai aur ye to ladkiyon ka gun hai… 😛
      Shuruwaat me baat karte hi Tareef kar do, aur beech beech me karte rho… ladki fir ijjat se baat karegi (Agr uska mood aur dimag theek hua to) 😛 😛

  59. Hiii mem,
    Mein apne school ki ek ladki ko like krta hu jo mujhse 1year junior h…mein usr like krta hu…but es bat ka use realize abhi tak niii h…or mem mere kuch frnds mujhse jalte h…or vo ladkiyo se bat krne me expert h…or mujhe darr h ki khi vo mujhse pehle hakar ys sebat na kr le….mein us sr bat niii kr pata hu mujhe darr lagta h..so medam ye thi meri sad story….plz help me…

  60. hello … meri problm ye hai k . mujhpe ladkiya line toh bahot marti hai bt .. mujhe unse baat karne me dar lagta hai so mai kyaa karu ????

  61. mam mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu.
    wo bhi hamse bahut pyar karti hai,
    2 din se uske number pe phone karte hai to wo receive nahi karti,
    but isse pahle aisa ek bhi din nahi gaya hamlog phone pe do bar jarur bat karte hai.
    par mam mai kya samjhu uske pyar ka.
    mai bahut paresan hu.
    uske ghar ka address janta hu.
    par mai use kaise khoju.
    mujhe kuchh samajh nahi aa rahi hai.

    1. Are shanti rakho jara, ho sakta hai kuch problem ho gyi hogi… isliye baat nhi kar rhi… Thoda wait karo uske phone ka..

  62. Shivshi ji aapne mere comment ka reply nhi diya> ye post same usi type ka hai jaisa maine comment kiya tha…. maine aapko puchha tha mere samne ek ladki hai jo mujhe har waqt dekhti hai halaki mujhe v wo achhi lagti hai mai v use bahut pasand karta hun ……….. mai usase baat nhi kar pa rha wo akele bahar v nhi milti ………. baat kru to kaise …….. dar v lagta hai uske ghar wale na pakad le agar mai kuchh ishara kru use ?? samajh nhi aa rha batao pl kaise kru ye sab

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Risk to aapko lena hi padega, success milni ya na milni baad ki baat hai… Jab vo aapki taraf dekhti hai baar baar iska matlab hai kuch to hai fir aapko itna sochan nhi chahiye, jaa ke baat karni chahiye..

      1. hii me ajay
        me ek ldki se bahut pyar krta hun vo sbko pyar krne ke tips deti hai, pr vo àpne or mere baare me kuch nhi sochti. or sbki prvaah krti hai pr meri ni krti, vo esa ni sochti ki koi usko b like krta hoga, phli baar kosi se pyar hua hai or agar ye phla pyar khtm ho gya to me mar jaooonga. i love you…………………………………………………………………

          1. Hi, shivshi mujhe ek ladki rozana dekhti hai aur mushkurati hai wo mere relation me ati hai wo jb bi mujhase baat krti hai to apne bolne ka andaz badal deti hai aisa ki wo jaise jatana chahti hai ki me bahut smart hu aise condition me mai kya Karu……..