Humare dost Mr. Jeet janna chahte hai ki kya unhe apne sapno ki rani milegi ya unke pyar ki kahani bhi hajaron aashiqon ki tarah adhuri reh jayegi. Ye raha unka sawal jiska jawab maine niche de diya hai. Aur aap sab friends se request hai ki.. pls jeet ka sawal padh kar mera diya hua jawab padho and agar aapko mera jawab galat lagta hai to niche diye gaye comment box ke jariye batao. Aur agar meri di gyi salah achi lagi and aap bhi kuch salah dena chahte hai to Aapka most Welcome hai ji. πŸ™‚ Ab seedhe aate hai Jeet ki story par….

Jeet Ka Sawal..

Ek ladki hai jise Main 3 saal se pyaar karta hun, wo mujhse 4 saal chhoti hai. jab usse maine pyaar kiya tab wo 10th me padhti thi… Toh suruwat pehle iss tarha se huyi..

Vo mujhe dekhti thi our smile karti thi or main bhi karta tha. Mere ek dost ki behan uski niche ki class me padhti thi, to maine ek letter me apni dil ki saari baat likh ke use dene ke liye bola. But galati se wo letter unke teacher ke hath lag gyi jiske karan usko punishment bhi mili.

Phir uske school ke sabhi ko ye baat pata chal gyi or class ke sabhi students usko mere nam se chidhane lage… Hum gaon me rehte hain or Main nahi chahta tha ki wo meri wajah se badnam ho, isiliye maine ek saal ka break le liya. Uska picha karna aur rashte me uska wait karna sab band kar diya.

Ek saal bad use jab dekha to…. Vo phir se pehle ki tarha mujhe dekhne lagi or smile dene lagiΒ β™₯ to maine is baar khud usse baat karne ki thaan liya or mouka dhundhta raha….

Ek din maine uske saath uski cousin-sister ko dekha (jo ki 10th tak mere niche ki class me padhti thi, hamare gaon mein padhai ki but hum dono me kabhi baat nahi hui, mano hum dono stranger ki tarha the… Aur baad me bahar sehar me 5 saal padhai karke aayi thi).

To maine sochaa ki uski sistter ke samne usse baat karna thik nahi hoga, but main uss din se usko jab bhi dekha to aapni sister ke sath bahar nikalti thi. Aur mein use jab dekhne ki kosish karta to uski sister mujhe dekh ke smile karne lagti thi. But meri waali mujhe ignore karne lagi.

Kuch din aisa chala, or ek din jab usko akela dekh ke maine usse baat karne ki koshis ki…. But vo mujhe dekhke waha se chali gyi, aur ab tak wo mujhe ignore karti hai.

Uske karib jaane ki koshish karta hun to woh mujhse dur bhagti rehti hai.Β Mujhe ye pata hai ki aaj tak uska koi Bf bhi nahi hai.… Aur uski sister se Main ye sab baatein nhi keh shakta kyunki mujhe dar hai ki vo jaake uske ghar me na keh de.. Aur mere jo dost ki behen thi (jiske haath maine letter bheja tha) uski bhi koi help nahi le sakta kyun ki ab vo bahar reh kar padhayi karti hai aur mere contact me bhi nahi hai….

Toh Shivshi ji Kya isme meri koi galti hai? ya khuda ne hi use meri takdeer me nahi likha. Uske jitna bhi kareeb jaata hoon takdeer use mujhe dur kar deti hai… Shivshi ji kya meri pyaar ki kahani adhuri rehe jayegi..?.. plllzzzz help me…..

My Suggestion…

No. Aapki pyar ki kahani adhuri nhi rhegi isme dum hai aur ye aage ja sakti hai. Sabse pahle kisi bhi tarah se us ladki ka no. pata karo. Agar uska no. mil jaata hai to fir baat aasani se ho jayegi aur baat ho gyi to samjho baat ban-ne ke chances bhi bhut ho jayega. Ab karna aapko ye hai ki uska no. pata karna hai kisi bhi tarah.

Maan lo aap uska no. nhi nikal paate khi se bhi to dusra rasta bachta hai vo School ya College to jarur jaati hogi, is raste me use milne ki kosish karo. Agar mil na bhi sako to use ye jarur pata lagna chahiye ki aap uske liye roj uske piche aate ho. Lekin baat karne ki kosish hamesha karte rho, aapko mehnat karte dekh ladki ka dil bhi karega aapse baat karne ka so is tarah se baat ho sakti hai. Jaise hi vo school se nikle use dekhte rho and smile karo. Agar usne back Smile kiya to samajh lo ladki patne ke liye positive signal de rhi hai. Fir usse dosti karo and usse uska no. mango. Aur chat karo. Chat se ladki aasani se impress ho jaati hai lekin propose mil kar hi karna. Read : Propose kaise Kare – Best tips.

Jis Ladki ko Bachpan se Pyar karta hu Use kaise apni life me lau

And last…. Agar maan lo kisi karan ye bhi nhi ho paata hai to ek game bachti hai jiske risk hai par kyunki koi aur rasta nhi hai isliye yhi karna padega…. Uski cousin sister se dosti karo.. Vo aaram se aapse baat karegi, bas aapme itni himmat honi chahiye ki usse baat kar sako. Usse aise hi baat karne lag jaao kisi bahane. jaise ki –

Aur kya chal rha hai ? Study Kha tak ki ? Abhi kya study chal rhi hai ? Study chal rhi hai ya Job ? Purane class me friends milte hai ? Unse baat hoti hai ? etc etc..

Jab usse thodi dosti ho jaaye to use feel karwao ki aap ek ache ladke ho par ache matlab ye nhi ki bilkul hi lakeer ke fakeer ho. Thoda stylish hona bhi jaruri hai and attitude maintain rakhna. Confidence sabse important hai. Iske baad use indirectly batao ki aapko uski sister pasand hai. Uske reply se hi aapko pura pata lag jayega ki vo aapko help karegi ya nhi. Maximum chances hai ki vo help kregi. Bas fir aage ka plan aapko maloom hi hai. πŸ™‚

Mujhe umeed hai meri salah aapke kaam aayegi. Teen me se koi formula to kaam karega. Jo bhi hoga Mr. Jeet mujhe batana jarur. Kyunki Main bhi jaan-na chahti hu is baare me. Best of Luck ☼.

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. β™₯ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Hiii dear shivshi ji
    My name is naresh thakur .mai ek ladki se bhoot pyar krta hu .3 baar usko purpose b kr chuka hu ek baar khud kiya tha or 2 baar ek friend se krvaya tha but vo manti ni .mai usko bhut se b bhut Jada pyar krta hu or ab ap he btao mai kya kru .

    1. Agar koi humse pyar nahi karta to aisa koi tareeka nhi jisse uske man me apne liye pyar bhara ja sake. Behtar ye hai ki hum reality ko accept karein.

  2. Hii shivshi I m monti sharma
    Actually meri classmate h jise me bhut pyar karne LGA hu or jb mujhe usse pyar hua tab I didn’t know Ki uska bf hai 5 month tk use pane ki koshish krta raha or fir jb usne btaya Ki uska bf hai to mera dil Tut gya Mene use bhulne Ki bhut kosis ki but nhi bhul PA raha wo mujhe apna bhut acha dost manti pr me use as a best friend accept nhi kr PA raha hu roj rat ko sota hu or God se pray krta hu Ki subh jab nind khule to wo mujhe yad na ho
    M bhut paresan hu ya to mujhe ye btao Ki me use kese apna bnau ya fir use apne dil se kese nikalu or khush rah saku classmate hai isliye roj use majbooran dekhna padta hai isliye use bhulana mere liye bhut muskil hai
    Pls help me??

    1. Kuch nahi hai bas apne mind par control karna seekhan hota hai, bachpan me aisa hota hai but jaise jaise aap mature hote jaate ho ye cheez aap samajhne lagte ho ki ye sab kya hai. Aapko just sach ko accept karna hoga aur apne aap ko ye samjhana hoga ki Vo aap mere interested nhi hai so forget it and enjoy the Life.

  3. ab vo baat tho kar rahi but jase pehli karti thi ase nhi msg k reply bhi 2 4 mint baad aata h Aaj school k paas mili bhi thi jab tho sahi se baat ki reply let karti h kabhi kabhi sahi karti h kya karo bolti h mumy ka phone h yrrr

    1. Parveen dekho baat jo bhi hai kuch din me khul kar tumhare samne aa hi jayegi, isliye faltu me fikar karne ka koi fayda hai nhi, jo hoga acha hoga.

  4. mai kisi bahut pyar kiya pr wo aaj kisi or se sadi kr rahi hai muje last time tk boli ruk jaa or bad me kisi or se sadi kr li wo meri kya galti thee pucha to boli ki ghar walo ki marzi se kr rahi hu
    kuch samj nahi aata kya kru mai

    1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya person baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. or sath hi dear ye 21th century ab cast ko bich me lane ka t koi matlab hi banta. I think I’ve made my point.

  5. Vo baat apki thk h but vo khana bhi nhi kha rahi mene ouski friend se bhi baat karne ki kosis ki but vo boli ye love kuch nhi hota or kha ouski mane ouse mara bhi tha 2 din se ousne khana bhi nhi khaya mere number bhi block list me daal diye ouski friend ye cahti me ouse baat na karo balki ouski friend se karo

    1. aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck πŸ™‚

  6. Main ek ladki ko pyar krta hu uska naam hai muskaan aapne toh pyar kiya hoga aur aapko toh pta hai pyar kbi bhi kisi ke saath bhi ho jata hai kisi ko pta nhi chlta maine usse pehli baar terris pr dekha tha aur dil main ghanti baji ab main kya kru aap toh meri behen jaisi ho plz bta do jaldi se jaldi

  7. Hi shivshi Mera ek problem hai mai ek office mai job karta hu or us jaga mai ek school nai to us school k ek ladki ros dekhta tha us ladki k sath ekdin bat kiya to usne bola Mera ek boyfrnd hai to mai Fir kuch din nahi gaya isse bat karne me lie lekin o jab school jati hai oh Fir school ke chutti k bad har ros us ladki ko dekhta hu…or abhi kuch dino se o ladki mujhe vi dekh rahi he bich bich me thora sa smile vi deti he..mere samajh me nahi aa rahi he mai abb kya karu…o ladki kya mujhe like karne lagi he ya Fir ye Mera dhoka hai…please reply…

    1. Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

    1. Jab ek ladki saaf saaf mana kar rhi hai aapko fir bhi aap kyu uske peeche pade ho aur usko preshan kar rhe ho saath hi saath apna time kharab kar rhe ho.. Aap kya force karke use apne se pyar karne ke liye majboor karna chahte ho ? Kya aapme koi self respect nhi hai? Vo aapko like nhi karti ye kab samjhoge? Agar ladki ache se baat karti hai ya smile kar deti hai to iska matlab ye nhi ki vo aapse pyar karne lag jayegi. Maan lo ek ladki hai jise aap jante ho but vaise pasand nhi karte aur vo aake aapko bole main tumse pyar karti hu to aap kya karoge. Simple si baat hai use mana karoge. To yhi same cheez vo kar rhi hai. Aap sirf aur sirf apni life barbad kar rhe ho uske chakkar me my friend. Please ye anmol zindgi aise barbad mat karo. Itni mehnat successful banne ke liye karo, apne maa baap ke liye apne bhai behan ke liye mehnat karo, sachi khushi usme hai. Jab aap safal hoge tab khud aapko ladki approach karegi, aapko khi jaana nhi padega. I hope aapko meri baat samajh aayi hogi.

  8. Shivshi ji,me ek ladki se 4 saal one side pyar kar raha hu me kaise samjhu wo bhi mujhse pyar kar rahi hai.aur ek baat 4 saal ke beech wo ek ladka pyar krta tha ab beched gayi

    1. Agar aap baat karne ki himmat nhi kar paate to fir kuch nhi hone waala, ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. Agar use apni banana chahte ho to jaldi se jaldi usse baat karna shuru karo. Jyada sochne ki jarurat nhi hai bas `Hi…` Bolo and baat shuru ho jayegi… Itni himmat aur itni creativity agar kisi me nhi hai to use ladki patane ki baat sochni bhi nhi chahiye. Baaki aap khud samajhdar ho.. πŸ˜‰

  9. Dear shivshi ji….
    mera meri gf ka affere aaj 7 saal se chal raha tha .. bat aab ghar me sb ko pata chal gaya.. jis din ye sb ko malum huwa uske dusre din meri gf ne uski frnd ko kaha k Arjun ko bol do k aaj k baad mujhe bhul jaayegi aur apni life jiye. Aur mai apni life jiungi.. phir 2 din baad uske bhai ka mujhe call aaya toh use mujhse Bahot baat ki toh mere muh se ye word nikal gaye ki tumari sis ne mujhe propose ki thi aur ham dono kab kab baat kiye ye sb maine uske bhai ko bol diya. Phir shayad usko ghar me kuch bole hoga. . Ab usko kahena ye aa raha hai k maine Arjun par Bahot bharosa ki thi lekin use mera bharosa tod diya.. ab na toh mujhe Arjun se shadi karni hai aur kisi se bhi nahi.. mai apne mummy papa k saath rahene chahti hu.. lekin mai usse Bahot Bahot pyaar karta hu.. Koi toh upay bataye. . Ham dono Bahot dur dur rahete hai.. o mumbai aur mai puna me raheta hu…

    1. Aapko ladki se milna hoga or jaise bhi karke usse baat karni hogi jab tak aap ladki se baat nahi karoge tab tk kuch nahi hone wala

  10. vivek November 23, 2015
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    Main ek ladki se pyar karta hu vo bhi mujse pyar karne lagi aur vo mere pados me rahti hai ek din hum dono ko kiss karte hue uske bhai ne dekh liya lekin uske bhai ne mujhse kuch nhi kaha lekin us din ke bad vo mujse bahut kam najar mila rahi hai.kya ghar balo ki bajah se ya phir vo mujhe bhulne ki kosis kar rahi hai mera paglo ki tarah uska wait karta hu kya mera pyar bapis aayega …
    Aur mera man bilkul nahi lag raha hai plese mujhe koi solutions do

    Shivshi November 26, 2015
    Reply
    Sabse pahle to aisa kuch jab aap karte ho to koi safe jgah dhundhni chaiye, apna soch kar nahi ladki ka soch kar kyunki agar uske bhai ki jagah us time wahan koi or aa jata to uski kitni badnami hoti, baki aapko usse maafi mangte hue usse bade pyaar se puchna hoga ki hua kya agar koi problem hai to wo aapko btaye jisse ki aap dono mil kar uska solution nikal sako.ha

    Mam Maine kal usse bat ki Thi to mene usse pocha kya mujhe bhulana chah rhi ho to usne rote hue yes kaha mene kaha hum bhul jaye to vo roti hui apne ghar bhag gayi kya vo mujse ab bhi love karti hai ya fir vo apne ghar balo ki vajah se nahi bol pa rahi hai please much Aisha batana me kya kru jisse mujhe mera pyar vapas mil jaye

    1. Aap usse sorry mango or use kisi bhi tarah vishwash dilao ki aap kabhi bhi aisa kuch dubara nahi karoge jisse ki use problem ho or aap samjhte ho ki aapki wajah se use kitni pareshani hui hai or aap un sab baat k liye bahut sharminda bhi ho

  11. 5 Dec sy apka wait kar raha k kab reply ayega reply nai aya to Next post ki plz ap apna fb page ya group be bana lo Shivani ji namsty iam Najeeb 4rm pakistan city hyd me ek larki sy bhot payar karta ho aur wo b mugse bhot payar karti h par uski shadi ho gai h and uske 2 chaild be h par wo ab b mugse payar karti h mene usy parpose be kia par ab wo kahti h k mere bacho ka kia hoga agr me ha kaho to bus yahe kah k tal deti h wo mere ghar k pas h rahti h

  12. Mai Apne bhai ke sali se pyar karta hu an wo bhi mujh se karti ha lekin hamri baat nhi ho pati hai q ki mere bhaiya bhabhi nhi chaty hai ki hamari baat ho
    to hamari baat kaise ho ka?

  13. yr..shivshi..m boht prblm mein hu…kuch bhi krke ek personal chat krlo yr mere sath plz.. har umeer pe paani fir gya..bs ab tum hi meri ek aakhri umeed bachi ho…
    plz shisvhi..discussion thodi lambi ho skati h..lekin plz help me.. plz

  14. Main ek ladki se pyar karta hu vo bhi mujse pyar karne lagi aur vo mere pados me rahti hai ek din hum dono ko kiss karte hue uske bhai ne dekh liya lekin uske bhai ne mujhse kuch nhi kaha lekin us din ke bad vo mujse bahut kam najar mila rahi hai.kya ghar balo ki bajah se ya phir vo mujhe bhulne ki kosis kar rahi hai mera paglo ki tarah uska wait karta hu kya mera pyar bapis aayega …
    Aur mera man bilkul nahi lag raha hai plese mujhe koi solutions do

    1. Sabse pahle to aisa kuch jab aap karte ho to koi safe jgah dhundhni chaiye, apna soch kar nahi ladki ka soch kar kyunki agar uske bhai ki jagah us time wahan koi or aa jata to uski kitni badnami hoti, baki aapko usse maafi mangte hue usse bade pyaar se puchna hoga ki hua kya agar koi problem hai to wo aapko btaye jisse ki aap dono mil kar uska solution nikal sako.

  15. meri frnd mujhse dosti karti hai or mai bhi mai usse piyar karta hu par pata nahi wo karti hai ki nahi par wo mujhse jyada healthy hai or mai use apni dil ki baat kaise kahu………??

  16. meri class frnd mujhe sabse best friend manti hai or wo mujhe msg and call dono ke beech daily hote rahta hai par mai chahta hu ki ise piyar mai badlu to kaise

    plz help me my dear frnd???

  17. Hey mera naam vinay h muje ek ladki se bhaut pyar h magar muje ye pataa nai h ki use bhi muj se utna hi pyaar h karti h ya ni
    Me jab bhi us se baat karta hi to wo has deti h aur bolti h pagal h tu to
    Plz help me

  18. mam
    wo meri classmate h wo meri taraf kafi attract thi par kuch dino s usne muje note krna band kr diya h or kisi or ko note krne lgi h. wo bhut cute h mene usse kbhi baat nhi ki but phele i contcat hota tha fir wo muje dekti rheti thi but ab pta nhi kya ho gya plz help

  19. thanxs shivshi Ji…..muje nahi lagta ki wts up ke through propose kerna sahi hein …..app ko kya lagta hein wts app ke through bolna sahi rahega ya direct Milne per bolna sahi rahega

  20. apse pehle bhi baat hui thi ….ki ek ladki muje like kerti hein orr mein abb love kerne laga hu but mein janna chahta hu ki voh mujse real love kerti hein ya nahi…….actually apko mein ek clearity dena chahta hu voh meri class mate abb humari CLG katam hoo chuki hein ….CLG time mein humarre bich bahut kam batt hui hein uss vakt mujme koi feeling nahi tha ……after CLG humare jayyadater batchit wts app mein hui hein ..starting mein normal hi baat hotti this kuch time baat..uske kerne kee tarikk mein muje kuch different sii laggi hein …..orr usne ekk Barr I like u msg bhi ki thi ….orr ekk Barr indirectly heartly love u msg bhi ki this( kisi item ko target kerke bollii thii) uskke badd meine doubt clarify kerne ke liye apko msg kiya tha ………… humarre bich chat mein kahi bar usne ” kuch kehna hein keh ke ” puchne per baatt talti rehti he in….ehh hein mera purra kahani …..kya karru app batayyie …..uske bolne tak mein wait karu ya fir mujje bolna padega….. buss yehi mera bada confusion he in…….muje kabhi kabhi lagta hein kahi derr naa hojaye ….buss apki suggestion chahiyee

    1. Meri suggestion ye hai ki aapko jaldi se jaldi bol dena chahiye, shi samay ke chakar me samay nikal jayega aur pta bhi nhi chalega.

        1. Nhi hai to bana do na
          Surprise waisa dena chahiye jo samnewale ko bohout pasand ho aur use uski pasand achanak se mil jaye Aur tumhe to pata hi hai mujhe kya pasand hai..?

      1. ek ladki se me payr karta hu vo bhi karti h mujse hum dono roz phone par bate karte h WhatsApp par bhi but ab kal jab me ouse baat kar rha tha ouski mumy aa gai ousne bola mummy aa gai 10 15 mint baad phone karna mene phone kiya ouski mumy ne phone utha liya mene fir phone cut kar diya 2 mint baad ouski mummy ka phone aata h bolti h kon mene kha anti namste anti boli beta tu jo koi bhi Aaj k baad yha phone mat karna mene anti se bola anti payr karna Galt baat h kya anti boli tujhe permission kiss ne di fir mene phone cut kar diya Raat ko 10 baje osuka msg aaya boli aap phone mat kiya karo only msg kiya karo mene ok bola but next day ouski mumy ne ouska phone le liya mene sochaouske tution k bhar jake ouse baat karta hu jab me vaha gaya meri jaan roti hui aa rhai thi sath me ouski mumy bhi but mujhe ye nhi pata kyu mene socha kal school k bhar jake baat karta hu par Aaj ouse lene ouske papa aai me ab ouse kase baat karo kuch bhi acha nhi lag rha plzzzz koi tho options hoga me ousebaat kar pao

        1. Parveen itna had-badane ki jarurat nahi hai, mamla shant hone do.. kuch din ki wait karo aur fir baat ho jayego, tab tak ke liye sirf itna karo ki uski kisi friend ki help se use itna bata dena ki – Kisi baat ki tension na le, jab kuch dino me cheeze normal hogi to baat karenge, preshan hone ki jarurat nahi hai.

          1. Vo baat apki thk h but vo khana bhi nhi kha rahi mene ouski friend se bhi baat karne ki kosis ki but vo boli ye love kuch nhi hota or kha ouski mane ouse mara bhi tha 2 din se ousne khana bhi nhi khaya mere number bhi block list me daal diye ouski friend ye cahti me ouse baat na karo balki ouse karo

          2. Koi baat nahi aisa hota hi hai, jo cheez parents mana karte hai karne ke liye vo samajhni bhi chahiye, hamesha apni soch par hi nahi chalna chahiye, don’t worry time ke saath sab theek ho jayega, preshan hone se agar problem solve honi hoti to sab log preshan ho kar hi samasya suljha liya karte. U need to give time to this matter, fir jo hoga uske baare me socha jayega. Faltu me soch soch kar apna dimag kharab mat karo.