Hi Friends, Aaj main apne ek friend ki baat sun kar kaafi soch me pad gyi, kya karu unki khani hi kuch aisi thi jise padh kar koi bhi sochne ke liye majboor ho jayega. Aap bhi is soch me pad gaye na ki, Are yaar aisi kya baat ho sakti hai jiske karan Shivshi jaisi smart ladki bhi sochne ke liye majboor ho gyi 😛 To chalo aapko bhi btati hu ki vo kya baat thi. Apne ek friend hai jo ek kudi ko bahut pasand karte hai aur dil-o-jaan se use dil hi dil me mohabbat karte hai par us ladki ki baate se kuch clear nhi ho pa rha hai ki uske dil me humare dost ke liye kya hai, suniye

Unki khani unhi ke jubani.

Mam plz meri help kariye….

Main ek ladki ko bahut chahta hu or unse bahut pyaar bhi krta hu, but mujhe unka nhi pata vo mujhse karti hai ya nhi ? Humari mulakat tution class me huyi thi … abhi 7-8 months se baat nhi ho rahi hai bcoz tution finish ho chuke hai. Ab hum log roz nhi milte, vo bahut hi jyaada shy hai or bahut cute bhi…Main unse bahut izzat se or kaafi respect se baat krta hun, unke naam ke aage ji laga ke baat karta hun. Ab humari baaten msgs ya call par hoti hai, but face to face bahut hi kam. Ek baar face to face baat huyi thi, to vo itni shaant khadi thi or unki nazren neechi thi…. Mujhe bhi unse face to face baat krne me shy feel hota hai….. ab main aapko bata du ki aaj se 3 saal pahle unka ek bf tha but kaafi jhagda hone ke baad ab unka breakup ho gya hai, isiliye ab unko jyadatar ladke pasand nhi or unka ladko par se vishwaas uth gya hai, ab vo sirf mujhse hi baat karti hai. Kyunki main unse kaafi izzat or respect se baat karta hu or faaltu ki baat kabhi nhi krta. Hum bus normally baat karte hai jaise ki study, dharmic etc.

Maine unse apne dil ki baat kabhi nhi ki, ek din call par himmat karke maine unse bahut hi jyada ghuma fira ke matlab indirectly kaha tha.. vo samajh gyi thi ki main kya kahna chah rha hu, fir unhone reply diya ki..

“I don’t know about this and I don’t have that type of feelings for you… maine aisa kabhi tumhare bare me socha nhi, aage ka main kuch kah nhi sakti, or vaise bhi ab main kisi se again love nhi kar sakti etc”

To ye sun-ne ke baad maine bhi unse fir kuch nhi kaha. Hum ab bhi baat karte hai, Hum dono ke beech bhut jyada baaten hoti hai, lekin bahut hi normal or ek limit ke andar. Us din ke baad maine unse kabhi apni feelings ke baare me kuch nhi kaha… Aur main nhi jaanta ki vo mere bare me kya feel karti hai, vo kya sochti hai ? Ek to bhut hi jyada shy hai.. to plzz mam mujhe bataiye ki main aisa kya kru ki vo mujhe like kare or love bhi. Maine unke liye bhut kuch kiya hai, mujhe jan-na hai vo mere baare me kya sochti hai. Main unko bhut, bhut se bhi jyada bhut chahta hu, ye mere life ka first time hai or first girl hai. To plzz plzz mam mujhe batayiye ki Main kya kru? Main aapse haath jodta hu mam plzzzzzzz meri help kriye mujhe bataiye main kya kru plzz ……

Shivshi ki suggestion 🙂

Dekho beta ji agar to aap ye jan-na chahte ho ki uski aapke baare me kya feelings hai, yaani ki vo aapko sirf apna ek dost hi manti hai ya kuch aur baat hai to aapko kuch cheezo par dhyaan dena padega. Kuch cheeze notice karke aap is baat ka andaza badi aasani se laga sakte hai ki aap uske liye special ho ya ek normal friend..

  • Is baat ko notice karo ki aapse baat karte huye vo kaisa behave karti hai, uska behaviour vaisa hi normal rehta hai jaise uske baaki friends ke saath rehta hai ya aapke saath hone par vo jyada Self-Concious ho jaati hai. Agar aisi baat hai to iska matlab hai vo nervous hai and vo aapko definitely ek dost se jyada manti hai.
  • Halanki, agar uska behaviour vaisa hi rehta hai jaisa normal har waqt rehta hai to bhi aisa nhi keh sakte ki uske dil me aapke liye koi feelings nhi hogi, ho sakta hai vo jaldi ye baat tumhe na btana chahti ho aur vo aapko parakhna chahti ho, isliye aap hamesha uske saath sache raho aur banawti mat bano.
  • Avoid the Friendzone : Ye point bhut hi jyada important hai, agar aap use chahte ho to apni feelings ke baare me Clear raho. Aap uski respect karte ho ye baat theek hai lekin yhi vo cheez hai jo ek friend aur boyfriend ko alag karti hai. Agar aap uske saamne bahut ache bane rahoge to vo aapko ek acha friend maan sakti hai lekin ek acha lover nhi. Aapko thoda flirty hona padega, thoda daring hona padega. Agar aap sirf uski respect aur feelings ki kadar hi karte rahe to vo aapko apne friendzone me dekhegi jo aap bilkul nhi chahoge. Isliye aap uske saath flirt karo. Agar aapko lagta hai ki aap flirt nhi kar sakte to jyada fikar waali baat nhi hai bas aapko try karna hai aur aap mehsoos karoge ye cheez jyada majedar hai, isse vo tumhe dusre najariye se dekhna shuru karegi.
  • Ek bahut badi sachayi ye hai ki, Jyadatar relationships marriage tak nhi pahuch paate aur fir hum normal friendship se bhi dur ho jaate hai, isliye jo bhi karo soch samajhkar karo and agar aapko lagta hai aap dono ke relationship ka koi future hai sirf tab hi aage badho.

See : Girlfriend Ki Care kaise Kare

Kya Kare Ki Vo Aapko Pasand Aur Pyar Kare

Apni Look Par Dhyaan Do : Is baat ka khaas khyal rakho ki jab aap usse milo tab aap best lag rhe ho, agar abhi tak aapne aisa nhi kiya hai to ye aapke liye bhut kaam ki cheez sabit ho sakta hai. Usse milne ke liye jaate time pajame me chappal pehan kar hi mat nikal jaao, apni personality achi bana kar jaao, saaf suthre kapde, ache shoes, good hair cutting and perfume laga kar jaao, taki milte hi use ek surprise mile, yakeen maano isse ek dum se uski feelings aapke liye badal jayengi aur vo khud aapki taraf aane ko majbur hogi.

Ek Ladki Ko Apni Taraf Attaract Kaise Kare Tips in Hindi

Be More Playful : Vo bhut shy hai koi baat nhi par aap bhi Shy bane rahne ki galti fir mat karna, aap usse baat karne me darte huye na dikho kyunki ek ladki sharmate huye achi lagti hai lekin ek ladka aisa karte huye bilkul bhi acha nhi lagta aur isse ladki ko ek negative message jaata hai, aap jab usse milo ya baat karo to ek dum cheerful dikho. Use ye dikhao ki aap darte nhi ho. Bina dare uski khubsurti ki tareef karo, uske saath flirt karo and uske saath majak karo. Use pata chalna chahyiye ki aap ek perfect Boyfriend material ho na ki ek bhut acha dost.

Physical Contact : Ek ladki hone ke naate main aapko ye baat samjha sakti hu ki ek ladki us ladke ko jyada pasand karti hai jo himmat wala ho, jisme apni baat kahne ki himmat ho aur jo daring ho. Agar aap uske saath baat kar rhe ho to uski tarah sharmate mat raho balki himmat karke use touch karo, touch jyada der tak nhi bas 2-3 seconds ka hona chahiye, use ye pata chalna chahiye ki aapme himmat hai, ye mat socho ki use bura lagega. Jab bhi aap log milo, dur se hi Hi karne ki bajaye – Smile ke saath uske saath hand shake karo aur jaate waqt Hug karo, pahli baar me ye cheez muskil lagegi par ek baar karne ke baad aapka hausla hjaar guna badh jayega. Vo aapke baare me dusre angle se sochne ke liye majbur ho jayegi.

Be Useful : Uski help ke liye hamesha taiyar raho, lekin ek baat ka khyal rahe ki aap uske naukar ki tarah behave na karo. Jo kaam vo khud kar sakti hai vo karne ke liye usko encourage karo and uski tareef karo, ye mat kaho ki vo kaam aap usse acha kar lete. Rudeness & Arrogant behaviour kisi bhi relationship ke acha nhi hota.

Ask Her Out : Usse bahar jaane ke liye pucho, vo mana kare to naraj hone ki bajaye usse khul kar baat karo aur use manane ki kosish karo. Aap uske boyfriend nhi ho par ek boyfriend ki tarah behave karo. Agar sharmile bane rahe to uske dil me aapke liye kabhi vo feelings nhi aayegi, so be cheerful, be funny, flirt with her and make jokes.

Ye sab vo cheeze hai jisse kisi bhi ladki aapki taraf attract hogi, agar vo aapki friend hai to aapko bas apna behaviour change karna hai and vo aapke baare me sapne dekhne aur sapne banane shuru kar degi. I really hope this article will help you to get ur girl in ur life. Best of Luck

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. mam me or meri gf dono ik dusre se bhot pyr krty h shadi bhi krna chahte h pr hmari cast same nhi h
    to mene us se kaha k yr court marrige kr lete h to uska kehna h me apne parants ko kisi kimat pe chodna nhi chahti ….mene bhot smjhaya k yr unko to ik din chodna hi h to bolti h wo bat alg h me unko ni chod skti is bat pe hmara bhot br breakup b hua but ik hi din me wps patchup ho jata h bhot pyr krty h ik dusre k bina reh ni skty uska kehna jb tk ho skta h relation me rhty h fir jo parants kahenge wo kr lenge mene kaha hm abhi alg ho ni pa rhy tb kese honge bta to bolti h tb ka tb dekhenge or me uske bina jeena ni chahta mam plz btao ki kya kru wo bolti k apko b ni chodu or parants ko b nhi or whi karungi jo parants kahenge mam mw uske jwabo se satisfied ni hu smjh ni aarha k kya kru plz…mam ans. me

    1. woh sahi hai tab ki tab dekhiyega kisi ko future ka kuch nahi pata hota hai kab kya ho jaiye isliye be positive

  2. Hi ..
    Shivshi
    Meri ek friend hai jise mai bahut pyar karta hu but uska already boyfriend hai fir bhi vo hamesh muzse bahut freely bat karti hai aur kahati hai ki tum muze bahut accha lagte ho mai bahut bar use bat nahi karne ki koshish karta hu but rah nahi pata tum hi kuch bata do ki use kya kahu.? Ya fir propose kar du? Plz help mi…

    1. Vo tumhara chutiya kaat rahi hai aur tum khushi khushi katwa rahe ho. had hoti hai kisi cheez ki!

  3. hello my name is priyansh ..m ek ladki ko bhut love krta hu bt wo meri class mate nhi mere senior h hmari kafi dino se ache bat chal rhi h wo mughse bat krti h rat bhar jb college m rheti h bhut sari bat krti h aur ek bar physically contact bhi ho chuka hu bt ek bar jb use kisi k sath dekha tha to dimag khrab ho gya samgh nhi aaya kya kru aur mne use data to wo bolti h ki jsa tumhre sath h wsa uske sath nhi h aur mere bat bhi man gye shyad wo ab usse bat nhi krti bt wo uska class mate h ab wo ghar chali gye to 1/2 bar dhang se bat ki phir call kiya to boli ki tum bhut chipku ho mughe tumse koi bat nhi krni h pta nhi ghar jaker kya ho gya h use m bhut parezhan hu kya kru kse use vapas lau nd usne mughe block bhi kr dia whatsapp per bolti h irritated ho gye hu kya kru yr kuch samgh nhi aa rha plz reply

    1. Priyansh meri baat suno, vo ladki na tumse pyar karti hai aur na hi vo tumhare ke pyar ke layak hai, isliye Beta bevajah uske piche apna time barbad mat karo please. Apne life ke goal set karo, use paane ke liye hard work karo. Us ladki ke baare me sochna abhi band kar do.

  4. Hiii shivshi ji
    My name is naresh thakur .
    Mai ek ladki ko bhoot se b bhoot Jada pyar krta hu or ek baar usko purpose kiya to bolti h ki mera bf hai but fir maine uski friend ko bola ki mai usko like krta hu fir usne usse baat ki or fir usne MNA kr diya or sath m bolti hai ki mere bhai ko pta lg gya hai ab yr plzzz meri help kro or btao ab mai kya kru

    1. Use aap me koi interest nahi hai isliye aapko uske baare me sochna band kar dena chahiye, koi fayda nhi hoga.

    2. Nareshji aapko ek nasihat Dena chahunga ki ye piyar ka chakkar choro or ek acchha sa aadmi banne ka kosis Karo Baki ek acchha jivan sathi khud mil jaega

  5. Hi mam dis is Rahul…mujhe na ek ladki s love ho gya or meri dosti or ek saal ho gya hai…or mai use bina baat kite reh ni pata hu…Mao jb baat ni karta hu to bo mujhe khud boldeti hai ki baat hai aj kissii KO baat ni Karna hai ky..Mai Saadi karna chahata hu use..BT bo Saadi k lye haa ni bol rhi hai..bo sirf mujhe as a friend rakhti hai.. B taiye Mao kiya karu…maii usko kbi call ni karta hu jb uska call aata hai tb baat hoti h meri ..jb bi bo kahi ghumne jayegi to mujhe pic deti hai apni ..uske bahut safe boys m friend hai BT bolti hai ki koi b mera bf ni hai am single..plz help help me mujhe uske bina kissi kaam m mn ni lgta hai

      1. Hlo…
        M ek ladki ko like krta hoon or usse fb pr baat bhi krta hoon . wo meri school m he pdhti h but face to face kabhi baat nhi hui jb m school m usse dekhta ho ya saamne se jata hoon to face tusri side m kr le ti h asse behave krti h jse jaanti nhi ho
        Kse pta kru ki wo kya chaati h

        1. Usse jab fb par baat hoti hai to usse ye baat discuss karo khud pata chal jayega ki wo kya chahti hai..

  6. Mai ek ladki se 4 Saal se pyar karta hu Maine propose kiya but usne baat Ghuma di Han bhi nhi kiya na nhi nhi kiya hai lekin jab mere samne aati h to nazre jhuka leti h aur mai nhi kuch nhi keh pata. Mai kya karu plzzz. Solve my problems……

  7. hello shivshi.——.mai ek ladki se pyar krta hu.wo bhi mujhse pyar krti h.per wo mujhse bhut sharmati h .jiski bajh se wo mujhe.apne dil ki baat nhi bol bati.kuch esa batao.ki wo mujhe apne dil ki baat khulker bol ske…………..wo phone bhi krti h .lekin hello k siva kuch nhi bolti.

    1. Use pyar se samjhao ki vo kuch bole, agar vo kuch nhi bolti to tumhe bhut bura lagta hai aur agar aisa hi chalta raha to tum usse baat nahi karoge, ho sakta hai kuch farak pade.

      1. Mam plzz aap mera halp kijye me ek ladki se pyar krta hun uska naam shahin hai wo v mujhse pyar krti hai lekin wo mere sath Jada time nhi deti hai aisa nhi hai ki wo mujhe psnd nhi krti hai wo mujhe bht psnd krti hai lekin wo mujhe jada time nhi deti hai aap btaiye mam ki hum aisa kya kre ki wo mujhe achhe se bt kare wo mujhe jada time de hum dono ek dusre se sadi krna chahte hai.aap halp kijye mam plzzz

        1. har koi itna free nahi h ki apko pura time de sake isliye voh bhi apke sath kam time spend karti h aap yeh kr sakte h ki week me koi ek din ap dono subha se sham tk spend kr liya kare ye hai ek acha solution.

    1. Sharam utni hi karni chahiye jitni jaruri ho, agar aap ladki se baat karna chahte hai to sharam mat karo balki confidence se baat karni shuru karo, extra sharam karke kisi insan ne kuch nhi paaya aaj tak.

      1. hi shivshi pls meri be help karo
        me be ek larke se pyar krta hu
        kl Maine usse rokne me khoshish ki
        per vo apne scooty slow krke phele rukne lgge the or ruki nsi muskrakr chle gye me kya karu me bahut pyar krta hu usse se

      2. Mai ek lrki se bt krta hu but hm dono rk ache frnd hai
        Or mai usse pyr krta hu bss mai hi janta hu
        Wo krti hai ya nhi ye kaise pta chalega btao plz….
        Hmlog ek dusre ka care v krte hai bht
        Or bt v bht hoti hai
        So plz btao kaise pta chalega ki eo pyr krti hai ya nhi

        1. Usse duri banao, aur note karo aapke dur jaane se use kitna fark padta hai. Uska reaction aapko ye cheez saaf saaf bata degi.

  8. Hi mera name Talib Arsh hi
    Mai ek ladki Se bahut pyar karta hoo an Se nhi bachpan Se he mai use dilo jaan Se chat a hoi qunki bo ladki meri cousin hi jab hum 10 ya12 k they tabhi Se mai use pyar karne lga tha ab humari age17 ki ho gaee hi
    Mujhe nhi pta bo mujhe chati hi k nhi magar mujhe uske behaviour Se pta lagta hi kahina kahi no bhi mujhe chati hi magar mai ye poore yakeen k sath nhi kah Santa
    Him saal me ek ya do bar mil pate hi qunki uska Ghar humare Ghar Se bahut door hi uska town alag hi or humara town alag hi isliye him jaldi nhi mil pate
    Jab him milte hi jab him do no ek dosre Se normally bat karte hi to bo bat karte samaye
    Merit bato pe bebjha hasti hi kabhi sath baithe ho to apna hath mere hath Se touch karti rahti hi kabhi mera rasta rokti rahti hi
    Mai hamesha Se bahut kam bolt hoo agar isi bjha Se mai use bahut kam bolt ho or bo hamesha kisi Na kisi bahane Se mujse bolti rahti hi mai bhi sochta hoo mai use bat kya karoo magar mai use bat nhi kar pata
    Na kabhi ussne mujh Se kabhi purpose nhi kya or Na hi mai use kabhi karr paya
    Mai hamesha sochta rahta hoo ki aaj purpose krr doing a magar merit himmat toot jati thi isiliye mai use much kah nhi paya jab mai use ek saal k bad mila socha isbaar to purpose karke hi aaonga Maine uske liye prise bhi liya jab mai uske paas. Pahuncha bo.mujhe ajeeb so.lagne lagi ab.bo pahle bali meri arshi nhi rahi bo pahle jaise baat bhi nhi karti bo pahle ki tarha mujhse.chipak krr bhi nhi rahne lagi ab.bo pahle.Se bahut alag.lAgne lagi.thi isi karn mai use purpose bhi nhi krr paya
    Sir mujhe mere liye.much solutions btao Jo mai use kah sakoo k mai there bins nhi rah sakta

    1. Aapko sirf thodi himmat karni hogi, Aapko ye samajhna hoga ki agar aap itni si himmat nahi kar paaye to vo aapko nahi mil payegi kyunki koi bhi ladki aise ladke ko kabhi pasand nhi karegi jisme apne dil ki baat kahne ki bhi himmat na ho. So himmat bandho aur mauka dekh kar keh do apne dil ki baat.

  9. Mam meri gf se mera bhot bada jhagda ho gya hai par galti uska tha lekin mujhe vo bhot jada yaad aa rahi thi to me ab call kar raha hu to vo call receive nhi kar rahi hai aaj 5 day ho chuka hai ek bar bhi call nhi receive nhi ki ab aap hi kuch halp karo plz

  10. Main ek ladki se bahut pyaar kta ho but mujhe kuch dino pehle hi pta chala ki uske pehle se hi boyfriend hai but phir bhi woh mujhe attention dete rhte hai

    1. Dear, ladkiyon ki attention ko kabhi pyar mat samjh lena, kyunki wo hamesha aisa kuch nahi hota. yeah toh girls ka nature hota caring and undestanding toh wo sab ko importance dete hai apne ache se ache friend ko bhi. haan but agar usne apse kabhi confess kia ki wo pyar karti hai wo alag baat hai. Agar nahi toh uski attention ko jayda serious mat lo. its just her friendship.

      1. hii shivshi , main 1 ladki ko bahut dino se pyar karta tha par recently pata chala k uske bf tha jo ki 1 month pahle break up ho gya hai ab m kya kru .

  11. hy sivasi my self pankaj ar me sirf etna janna chahta hu ki jisse me like krta hu and me unse kehta hu k aap ko b hoga means aap b kbhi mjhe kroge like to vo bolte h ptani yrr and vo khud hi bolte h ki mjhe pta h ki aap mjhse love krte ho ar ha vo mjhse half hour k baad kehne lgte h agr aapki baat ho gai ho to me fon rkkhu maybe glty meri hi h me unse baat krne me bhut atkta hu aesa kyu an sayd mjhe baat krna ni aata aapko kya lgta h pliis telll me sivashi and sbse imp point ye ki unhe b pta h ki me unhe jb b dekhta hu meri heart beats bd jaty h pliss help meeee

    1. see, pankaj agar ladki apse baat karne me interested nahi hoti toh use kabhi force mat karna. kyunki ise ladkiyon ka interest khatam hone lagta. Ladkiyon ko aise ladke bilkul pasand nahi jo unko chase karte hai. So try to avoid her, agar usko apki value hogi toh wo apke pas khud aa jayege.

      1. to vo bolte h ki ek me an ek unki d pooja ye vo do log h jinse vo apne saari baate krte h an me to unke liye hr hpte choclets b bhijata hu unki d k hatho kyuki dairy milk unki favret h an avoid kese kru me to unko hpte me do baar call krta hu an jiss din ni krta hu to ajeeb si becheni ho jaty h an vo bolte h ek baar mera trust tuut chuka h to ab bhut muskil h an ha sivasi me unse baat krne me atkta b hu kyu an wait sbse bdi problm to ye h ki vo fon unka ni unki d ka h yllll an ha sivashi plisss mujhe unhe apne birthday pe date pe le jana h halaki mene pucha ki cloge to vo ha ya na me atki h an kete h abhi bhut time h plisss sivashi help me

  12. Main jish se love karta hun ush ko purpose kar
    diya hun. maine ush ke frnd ko bola k main ush ko like karta hun. she said her and she get angry ki maine sab ko bta diya. wo bahut pareshan lag rahi thi.
    main kya krun ki wo agree ho jaaye
    wo kishi ka b nahi sun rahi hai.
    mam please help me

    1. Vo Agree nhi hogi Bcoz she don’t love U, aur faltu me uske piche jaa kar apna time aur uska dimag kaharab karna band kar do to behatar hoga.

  13. Hii mam, ma ek Ladki ko pyar krta hu PR ose purpose nahi Kr pa raha..Ku ki oska papa os ke sath he hota hai…please help kaise purpose kro osko

    1. mauka dekho, koi na koi time to aisa jarur hoga jab usse milne ka mauka mil sake, us waqt ja kar usse baat karo aur keh do apne dil ki baat.

  14. mam plz mere help karo hum relation mai teh but ushne mujhe dhoka diya 3 bf ek saath banai at a time i love u boli aur ab mai uske upar trust krta ho toh bhi woh mere se dur dur rehti hai usko ab yeh baat ka bilkul ghum nhi hai ab fir bhi woh dur rehti call nhi krti message bhi 4 kiya toh 1 aata ab batav mam kaise kro woh mere zindagi hai

  15. Hello shivshi ! How r u?
    …im sameer . actlly mujhe meri senior se hi…ishq hua h…hum school me the..hy hello..smile..hota tha…ab wo kuchh 3 saal lagbhag dur they hum koi contact nhi tha…frnd reqst bhi accpt nhi ki…thi abtak bt ab kuchh din pehle accpt kr li …bt jab baat kiya to kaha ki…kaam ki baat kro to jyda accha hoga..ab aap btao ..usse kya baatein kru…? kaise use dosti se pyar me tabdil kru ?

    1. Toh dear ab agar wo bhav kah rahi hai toh tum pehle toh use baat karne ki koshish karo bus ek try. in case wo sab kuch sort out karte hai toh achi baat hai but agar wo abi bhi apse baat nahi karte toh jayda piche piche jane ki zaroorat nahi hai. life me sabse important cheez hai self respect. use bna kar rakho aur ap bhi use whe chode ke aage move on karo. agar use apki zaroorat hoge toh wo apke pas aa jayege…

  16. Hi
    Main jish ladki ko love karta hun wo alag dharm ki hai. Hum dono class me satth padhten gain.she is not interested in frndship but l love her
    Main kya krun ki wo hum dono become gf bf.

  17. Mera problem ye hai wo mujesh paya Katie hai YAHA nahi qu ki Mujesh use pe sak hota hai mujesh qu ki us ka phone hamesa biji aata hai aur mai puch ta ki kis ka phone tha to wo bhana karti hai or har bat par phone karte deti aur bolte hai Tum ko wishwas nahi hota hai kaise koi wishwas karega

    1. Shak ka koi ilaaj nhi hai, bas ek aur sirf hi cheez ki ja sakti hai ki Baat karke apni shanka dur karo.

  18. hlo dee ap kese ho ….dee mein apse ik question puchna chathi hu jaise meri ik friend hai uska bf bhi hai ….
    pr mein apni frnd ko uske bf se bhi jada love
    krti hu jaan deti hu khi bhi kuch ho jye to mein nhi reh pati god se yehi pray krti hu ki hmesa mere sath rhe har wqkt to dee muje kya krna chiye kya yeh glt hai agr kisi girl ko dusro girl se lovr ho jaye i know yeh question sabko azeeb lgega sun kr

    1. Dear aaj ke time kuch bhi galat nahi hai jo aapko khud ko sahi lagta hai sirf usi ke bareh me sochna chahiye or usi baat ko follow bhi karna chahiye lekin agar wi aapke liye same wohi feelings nahi rakhti to uske baad aapko apni family ke bare me sochna chahiye or jha wo aapki shadi karwa dete hai waha kar leni chahiye or dubara ye baat nahi bolni hogi kisi ko bhi nahi to isse kisi ki bhi najro me aapki respect khatam ho jayegi.

  19. Mem me ek ladki ko bahut pyar karta hu me use pichle 7 saalo se janta hu jab me school me padhta tha lekin ab pata kya hua use dekhte hi mere dil me kuch alag si feeling hoti he aur me us ladki se esi normal bat hi karta hu vo mere ko frd manti he ki nahi mujhe nahi pata vo muthse love karti he ya nahi malum nahi hum dono ek hi jaati(caste) ke he plz kuch esa tarika batao ki meri usi se shadi ho me use dekhe bagair to kya ese hi ghar par nahi rahta hu mera kisi bhi kam me man nahi lagta he me kya karoon plz help me aap hi ab aakhiri sahara ho uski shadi kisi aur se na ho jaye

  20. Hi
    Mai apne cless ki ladki ko pyar karta hu per mujhe samaz nai aa raha ki vo bhi karti hi ya ni
    Mere pass uska no bhi nai hi

    No kise pata karu

  21. Hii maim main ek ladki se pyar karta hu maine use 3sal pahle prapos kiya tha lekin usne mujhe gali di thi uske baad to usne mujhese bat nahi ki par 1mahina se wo mujhese bat karne lagi ha flart karne per bhi gussa Nahi karti hai mujhe dobara puchne ki Himmat Nahi hoti main kya karu

    1. Are Dear, propose karne se pahle baat vaat to karo, thodi jaan pehchaan to karo, aise to propose karoge to vo mana hi karegi besak usne haan karni ho tab bhi. Thodi baat cheet karo, friends bano… hansi majak karo, funny messages share karo, kabhi kabhi uski tareef karo aur mauka milne par thoda bahut flirt karo… uske baad agar sab theek lagta hai to fir propose karne ki socho..

      1. M coaching krta tha usmai mujhe ek ladki psnd ayi m ussai bhot chat a hu but bat mnai do bar hi ki ussai face to face vo batai mnai study s relative ki but for m uska picha krnai lag gya uskai ghar tak vo bhi scoty k mirror m sai mujhe dekhti or apni frnds k sath hasti or Scott ki speed bhdati mnai y 20 din take kiya fir mnai uska picha krna chord diya vo kabhi rukhi hi nhi mnai ruknai k liye bol kabhu bhi nhi ruki to an mujhe vo bhot yad at I h uski mera man h an jakai ussai bol du bat dare lgta h to btao m kya kru

        1. Agar aap pahle se hi ye sochne lag jaoge ki wo naraj ho jayegi ya wo aap se baat nahi karegi to fir to aapki baat kabhi nahi ban payegi isliye use paane ke liye aapko use btana to padhega hi

  22. hy mem mera name h neeraj aur meri gf ka name tha neha ham dono ki love stoyri bhoat achi 2 shal se ki achanak mene usse ek bar kisi ladke ke shat dekha tb mere andr sak karne ka kida lag gaya mene usse bola to ussne bola ki sory ab se ni karugi esa mene maf kar diya kyuki me use bhoat pyar karta hu .fir ab mere sak karne ki todi jada ho gai par mujhe uski fikar rheti thi wo sak samj bethi ek dil mere ph pe cal ayi uski wo boli bhul jao mujhe aj ke bad mere pe cal ya msg bikul mat karna mene usse pucha esa kyu kar re ho to wo yai boli ki tum sak bhoat karte ho mene mafi magi ki ab ni karuga plz par wo ni mani aur ab bus friend samjti h bus par ap hi batao phele itna love kya ab friend to kese chalega plz mem kuch help kar do jis se wo meri gf ban jay me usko bhoat pyar krta hu plz plz plz

  23. hi meri g.f mujhse bht pyaar karti hai but wo show nahi karti and kehti hai k mujhe zyada serious mat lo q k agar mere parents rishtey kliye nahi maany to baad mai aapko problem na ho s liye and 3,4 din baad reply deti hai kehti hai hamain zyada close nahi hona chahiye but mai us se bht pyaar karta hun us k dil mai kya hai plz help koi tip batao k wo b kahe k love u too q k sirf mai hi baar baar love u kehta hun jiski waja se us ne apni value bht barae hai…?

  24. Hi mam
    Main ek ladki ko like kartaa hoon, abhi ek mahina hua hai, wo ladki mujhe bahut pasand hain, but mam abhi kuchh din pehle, wo coaching ja rahi thi to main use dekhne ke liye chala gaya, jab main aane laga to maine us ladki ko ek ladke se milte hue dekha, or wo ladka meri jaan pehchan ka tha to fir maine bad maine us ladke se poochha bhai tum abhi us ladki ae mile the, wola haan, usko jante ho kaya wola meri classmate hai, to ese kyo mil rahe the , to fir wo kuchh ni wola, fir maine hi puchh liya, uase like karte ho kya? Bola haan or wo karti he wola haan
    Fir maine bola tum dono ke bech love he kaya? wola haan
    But mam wo ladki mujhe bahut pasand hai, or wo hamko bahut achchhi najro se dekhti hai, or jab mam kahi or dekhta hun to wo mujhe dekhne lagti hai fir jab main use dekhta hun to wi najre ghuma leti hai
    Ab mam aap bataiye ki mujhe kya karna hai
    Please reply

  25. Hi mam
    Main ek ladki ko like kartaa hoon, abhi ek mahina hua hai, wo ladki mujhe bahut pasand hain, but mam abhi kuchh din pehle, wo coaching ja rahi thi to main use dekhne ke liye chala gaya, jab main aane laga to maine us ladki ko ek ladke se milte hue dekha, or wo ladka meri jaan pehchan ka tha to fir maine bad maine us ladke se poochha bhai tum abhi us ladki ae mile the, wola haan, usko jante ho kaya wola meri classmate hai, to ese kyo mil rahe the , to fir wo kuchh ni wola, fir maine hi puchh liya, uase like karte ho kya? Bola haan or wo karti he wola haan
    Fir maine bola tum dono ke bech love he kaya? wola haan
    But mam wo ladki mujhe bahut pasand hai, or wo hamko bahut achchhi najro se dekhti hai
    Ab mam aap bataiye ki mujhe kya karna
    Please reply

  26. hi g how r u ?
    i have a question mai jab b g.f se romantic baat karta hun to wo kehti hai ” tum to bohut wo ho ” but mujhe dar lagtha hai k wo naraz na hojae q k relation 2 months se start howi hai s liye mai keh daita hun k ye to dirt dialogue maar raha tha to wo kehti hai k sirf dialogues hi marna ghussa si hojati hai wo kya chahti hai plz tell me.

  27. mera naam Ravi hai mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu aur vo mtjhe. Par hum dono ki mobile par bahut baate. Hoti thi lekin ab nahi aakhir kya hua mujhe pata nahi mai bahut garib hun. Aap bataiye

    1. Aapne apna jawab khud hi de diya dear mai bahut garib hun to kya pata use koi amir mil gya hoga ya use ab aap me koi interest hi nhi hoga.

      1. Hi ,mai ek ldki ko psnd krta hu hum dono ka ghr aane samne gali me hai,hm mrng me cochng jate h to hm dono ek sath gali se nikle hai ,hm ek dusro ko dekhte bhi h ,bt bat age nhi badhti,kya karu? Plz help!

  28. Mera comment kyu bina reply k delete ho gaya ji. Mujhe apni udashi dur krne k liye aapka reply chahiye tha. Aapki help chahiye thi.

    1. Sorry dear shayad aapka comment galati se delete ho gya hoga aapmujhe apni problem btaiye me aapki help jarur karungi

  29. Hii
    Dear,

    Me 21 saal ka hone aaya hu. Par abhi tak meri koi g.f nai hai. Mujhe g.f na hone ka bahut dukh hota hai. Most of mere sare doston ki g.f hai. Sirf me single. Mujhe bhut alone feel hota hai. Toh aap meri kuch help karogi ? Me ek college boy hu. Abhi 2 saal hi baki hai college khatam hone me. kya mujhe g.f milegi? Facebook pe unknown ladki se freindship kese ho sakti hai ? Agar aap kuch sikha degi toh meri life badal jayegi. Thank uhh.. Ronak

  30. hiiii….
    I am Ronit

    Main ek ladki se fb pe mila …. baat chit start hui or wo meri best frnd ban gai … mai use love karne laga but uska bf tha pehle se or wo meko tb bolti thi ki agr mera bf na hota to paka main uska bf hota…… uske baad uska bf mere se nafrat karne laga …. to meri frnd ko usne ek din choose karne k liye kaha ki bf ya frnd…… to usne apne bf ko choose kiya ….. or maine gusse me aake usse baat karna band kar diya …. 1 saal baad uske bf ki shaadi ho gai kisi or se …… or hum dono ki phr se baat chit start hui …..maine use propose kiya or usne mana kar diya ….. ye keh kar ki tum purane relation k bare me sab kuch jante ho mere bare me or use abhi bf nhi banana or uska behaviour alag sa tha …. attitude sa tha uske behaviour me ……. to humne ek bar phr se baat chit band kar di ……. 3 months baad humne phr se baat chit start ki …… or mujhe pta chala ki usne kisi or ko bf bna liya ……. maine pucha usse ki tum to keh rahi thi tumhe ab bf nhi banana to ab kaise ……… to usne kaha ki hum dono ki nhi banegi qki mai uske past k bare me sab kuch janta hu …….. or ye bhi kaha ki usne mujhe bf banane k bare me apne frnds se bhi baat ki ……. ki bnau ya na bnau …….. iske baad maine phr se baat chit band kar di …………. 15months baad mujhe pta chala ki uska bf use dhokha de raha h ….. wo baki ladkiyo k sath ghumnta h uski already 2, 3 gfs or h ….. or ye baat aake maine use btaya…… or uska brkup ho gaya us se ………. now again maine use brkup k 1 week me propose kiya or usne ha keh diya or sath me ye bhi kaha ki mai bas abhi aise hi keh rahi hu yes …… pakka nhi h ….. or agle hi din usne mujhe mana kar diya …….. or mai ab bhi uske sath frndshp me hu …… or ab wo ladko ko acha nhi samjhti or na hi relationship me aana chahti h ……. uska behaviour mere sath bahut hi rude ho gaya h pehle se ……… maine sab kuch try kiya ache tarike se baat, respect dena use or uske sath hu ab tak 4months se jab se uska brkup hua h …….. but wo change ho chuki h ……. mujhe apna besti jarur manti h ……. but bf banana nhi chahti ……… 9th jan ko uska birthday h … or usne mujhe invite kiya h ….. aap hi btaiye ab mai kya karu jisse wo bf bna le mujhe ………. i love her alot

    Thanks In Advance 🙂

  31. Hi mam,mera nam Anup hai.mera ak parisani hai plz aap muse sulation dena.
    collage main mulakat huwe hamari.

    Mai pehele job apnee pasan ki ladki ko bat kya,tob vo mus bilkul vi bat nahi kya,unki bestfrnd ne muse bat kya.job unki bestfrn ko mai propus kya tob vo muse dheere dheere bat karne ka moka diya or muse eye contac vi rakha bar bar dekhta hai or muse dekh kor haste hai.leki mai jisko propus kya vo pura 1mont ke bat ans dya vo vi Direct NO.mai kya hu,or mera personaliti kya hai,mera IAM kya hai etc…..xop kuch apnee pasan ki ladki ko share kya…kiyuki maine sosa ki vo unki bstfrnd hai to xop bat unki bst frnd ko share karga xo esilye.or mam mera ak samne wala ladki ko vi mere bare mai dhir sare bate pus liya.top vo muse bhut dekhne lage bar bar.lekin jise mai propus kya vo bilkul muse eisa weisa bat nahi bola becouse vo bohut sarmila hai,darte hai…unse only 2 bar bat kya isi mahine main….lekin mera pasan ka ladki ke sath bohut jada bat kya.job jise mai propur kya tha vo job no kaha top mai dheere dheere mere pasan ki ladki ko aapnee dill ki bat bol dya.phir vo accapt karne nahi chahti.ap vo reaction bilkul alag hai.mere samne se par hoye to sar nije karte hai or chupe chupe se dekhti hai.or job unki frnd jadaa rahe top vo aapnee frnd ki sath muse dekhkar dheere dheere haske se mereko dekhte hai.lekin mai use direct propus nahi diya,jese ki mai uski bestfrnd ko clg hall room me dya, aisa nahi bolki mai use fb por hi dya tha.muse ak din fb block dya or mai khulne ko bola vo next day khul dya.2bar or phir fb block top mera koyi galti nahi the…..or main unse direct bat karna sor dya top vo phir 5day ke bat unblock dya.avi 3bar or phir block.avi na vo bat karte hai or ya mai.mai abhi unko jada nahi dekhta hu and bat vi nahi karti hu….lekin vo kiyu muse dekhte hai chupke chupke vo muse bilkul malum nahi.
    Akhir kya hai jo mere sath aisa huwa hai? Plz plz mam muse ye bat ko bohut tention huwa hai.xo plz aap muse batao mai kya karu……

  32. hi mam Maine aapke articles net pai padhe or mujhe aap se ek help chiye please Kar Dena
    Mai meri classmate se love karta Hu mine us se jyada baat nai ki Hai dar lagta Hai Maine us se first bar aapne collage Mai classroom Mai dekhaa tha or tab se mujhe us se pyar ho gaya Mai use dekhta rehta tha shayad use bhi Pata chal gaya ho GA ki Mai use dekhta Hu ek din Maine collage ke baad raste Mai us se notes mage or usne diye bhi baad Mai Maine use 2 din baad notes classroom Mai diye par Mai us se baat nai Kar paya (dar lagta tha isi chakkar Mai Mai us se thanks bolna bhi bhul gaya ) fir din katte Gaye or use dekhta rehta tha ek din fir se Maine us se baat karne ki koshish ki par usne mooh hilakar javab diya tab se Maine use baat hi nai Kar paya dar lagne laga or din a ise hi Ja Rahe the ek din Maine use fb dekhaa or request bhej di usne request accept bhi ki baad Mai Maine use hi likh Kar message Kiya but reply nai aaya uske 10 minutes baad fir se Maine hi likh Kar message Kiya but fir se koi reply nai aaya aakhr Maine uske profile pic ( jisme ek cute bacchi ka photo tha us pai Maine cmt Kar diya ???symbol laga ke) baad Mai Maine fb band Kar diya par Sam ko vapish Maine fb chalu Kiya or uski profile check Karne laga to usne mujhe block Kar diya tha ab Mai kya karu us se baat kaise karu kya vo mujhe dislike karti Hai ya koi or reason
    But Pata nai usne mujhe block q Kiya ap please meri help Kar diiye or replay kare mujhe jald se jald please

    Are koi answer do to sahi

        1. aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindgi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladki ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayegi. Best of Luck 🙂

  33. m 1 ladki se bht pyar krta hu hmra brekup ho chuka h bt m us se aaj b bhot love krta hu bs plis tell me m ky kru? and m use bhulna chahta hu ? pliss tell me >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

  34. Hlo shivshi.. m ek ladki se love krta hu..hamari baaten kuch dino tk chli jaise normal frnds k beech hoti h..uske baad baaten bnd ho gyi..phir kuch din baad wo apni mom ko leke mre ghar aagyi ki m use disturb krta hu..jbki mri koi glti hi nhi wo phle mujhe dekh k smile krti thi but ab ignore krne lhi h…so I wanna know what can I do in this condition..I really love him..plz Hlp me.My frnd

      1. Aur mam apne apki khud ki story abhi tak share nhi ki me apki story ka kabse wait kar raha hu me jra bsy tha in dino to apse puch ni pa rha tha ap apni story b share kijiye pls muje janni h

  35. Hii… Shivshi ji mere colz ki ik friend h m use love karta ho or vo bhi mujse friendlly baate karti h tu m use kise prpose karo ki vo relationship k liye maan jaye jabki vo mujse ik friend manti h sirf so plz tell me…

    1. Use apni Dil ki sabhi baat khul kar bata do, agar use aapme interest hoga to vo is baare me jarur sochegi aur agar aisa nhi hoga to vo Naa keh degi, aisa koi tarika nhi hai jisse ki us ladki se haan karwaya ja sake, jo aapko chahti hi nhi ya aapke baare me is tarah se nhi sochti. So just go and try 🙂

  36. mai jnv me padhta hoo…. yha par hostel me rahta hooo….or yha par ladke alag or ladkian alag rahti hai mujhe ek ladki se pyar ho gya hai…uska naam ANJU hai… wo ladki meri sinior hai…bas mere se ek class aage hai.
    mujhe koi or ladki achhi lagti thi . to mai us ladki ke bare me janane ke liye anju ki help li ayu ki wo hmare hi ek group me thi or anju girls hostle me hi rahti thi or ek ladki hi dusri ladki hi dusri ldki ke baare me bta skti thi isiliye mai ANJU se help manga. mai us se (ANJU) baat bhi kar chuka tha to mujhe lga ki wo meri help kar degi…or help karne ke liye ready bhi ho gai.
    To mai use (ANJU) roj chit (LETTER) likh ke deta tha…. or jab se mai ANJU se baat kia tab se mujhe ANJU achhi lagne lagi or mai use chahne laga . mera pura dhyan ANJU par hi lga rahta hai…… or wo bhi muje dekhti rahti hai…..ab mai us se bahuut pyar karta hooo………..
    lekin wo bich me ek baar mujh se bolna band kar diya tha kyon ki kuch ldkion ko pta chal gya tha ki mai use chit (LETTER) deta hoooo…. is liye wo mujhse 2 YA 4 dino tak baat nahi ki thi .. leki mai use ek gift diya or jaise taise mna liya . leki ek baar or mujhse naraj ho gai kyo ki meri wjah se mere class ke ladko or uske class ki ldkion ko hmari aapas ki baate pta chal gya ki mai use chit deta hooo or wo (ANJU) mujhse baat karti hai …. wo meri or dekhti bhi nahi thi ….. lekin mai ek di uske bag me ek chit likh kar rakh diya ki agar tum mujhse naraj nahi ho to please mujhse ,jis din ham chhutti par ja rahe hai us din aakarke mil lena….. or wo mujhse milne aai bhi thi…… wo gussa bahut jaldi karti hai.. par mujhe aisa lagta hai ki wo mujhse pyar karti hai… or mai 11/11/2015 (DIWALI) wale din saam ko phone kiya to mai puchha ki tum mujhse naraj to nahi ho…. to wo boli nahi… mai naraj nahi hooooo…. or uske baad meri aawaj clear uske paas tak nahi pahuch pa rahi thi or pta nahi wo kuchh kah rahi thi ,….. mai bhi uska aawaj thik se soon nahi paya…. or uske baad fone kat gya….. or mai uske baad use,,,,,, usi smaye fone nai kar ska,,,,,
    PLEASE aap mujhe btaiye ki mai kya karooo …….. hmare school (HOSTEL) ke students or teacher ka bhi khatara hai ,…… mai us se jaise – taise baat kar paata or chit de paata tha…….. ase akele me dekh kar ya fir mai use chit dikha kar rakh deta tha or wo aakar le leti yhi……….. PLEASE meri help kar dijiye ……..

  37. hiiii….
    I am Tishant.

    main ek ladki she pyar karta hu.our vo bhi mujhse pyar karti h.van kbhi kbhi vo mujhe ignore or deti jaise ki pyar karti hi nhi h.

    main kya karu.
    please help me

    1. > main ek ladki she pyar karta hu.our vo bhi mujhse pyar karti hai.

      Aapko kaise malum ki vo bhi aapse pyar karti hai Koshle sahab ?

  38. Hlo…
    Main ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu … lekin mujh se krti h ya nhi jb bhi m us se puchta hu k tumhara koi b.f. h toh kehti h trust naam ki bhi koi chiz hoti h etc. Etc. Toh uske dil main koi feelings h ya nhi

  39. Shivshi yr ek ladki hai,Roj dekhti hai agr me kahi or dekhu to us wakt wo mujhe dekhti hai.
    Jese hi me dekhu to njr niche kr leti h muskrati bhi h…palat kar bhi dekhti h
    Lkn aj mene usse bola
    Hello ,mujhe apse kuch bat krni hai
    To uska reply aya sorry mujhe apse kuch bat nhi krni ..uske sath 5 uski friend bhi thi ..
    To plz batao mujhe kya prblm hai

    1. Problem kuch nhi hai, vo jab akele ho tab usse baat kane ki kosish karo and apni personality achi banao… Use reason do tumse baat karne ke.. 🙂

        1. Jeetu agar wo akeli nahi rehti to aap ke kaam kr sakte ho aap uski friend me se kishi ek ko friend banao jyada muskil nahi hai aap kr sakte ho aap uski friend ko Tab milo jab wo ladki uske sath na ho jishe aap pyar krte ho aap uske friend se friendship kr lo aap ye keh sakte ho ki dekho mujhe tumhare group me xxyyzz ladki se pyar ho gaya hai wo mujhse baat nai krti but mujhe pura yakin hai wo bhi mujhe like krti hai ! kya tum meri help karogi please ??
          thoda nakhre dikhaegi fir maan jayegi agar na bhi mani to bhi tumhara nishana 50% to us ladki pe chala hi jayega agar wo tumhari help na ki to wo use jake zarur batayegi ki tumne ye sub kha fir wo zarur tumse kuch sawal krna chahegi, bus de di na tumne use baat krne ko or agar uski friend ne tumari help ke leay ha bol di to ek baat to done hai ki uski friend tumhare ungli pe use nacha degi
          Just Try it
          ,
          Best of luck.

  40. i m vry glad to see u,,,,,

    main 11th ka student hun lekin mujhe 12th ki ek ladki se pyar ho gaya hai, o abhi mujhe nhi jaanti,per mujhe dar lagta hai k kahi sanddle na khana pad jaywe,
    to aap hi iska solution batayen ki main usko propose kaha se aur kaise karun,
    mere pas bas 2month ka aur time hai uske baad o bahut door ho jayegi mujhse,
    so please mam

  41. Hii
    Me Deepak jha mam me ek Laski se pyar karta hu WO mere classmate hei abhi hum acche se ek dusre se baat karte hei mere Gf janti hei ki mei usse pyar karta hu lekin 3mahine pahle wo mujhe ignore jasa react kar rahi thi lekin ab mere se bahut acche baat karti hasti hei me ye nahi jaan pa raha ki kya wo mujhse pyar karti hei pls help

  42. mai apne boyfriend ko apne trf always atract n good girlfriend bnne k liye kya kru jisse hm dono me hmesha pyr bdhta rhe plz suggest

    1. Ohhhh… to ye baat hai, acha theek hai mujhe thoda time do main is baare me research karti hu and fir ek mast sa article is site par sabke saath share karti hu 🙂

  43. hello mam,mai akash more…mam mai ek ladkise bahot pyar karta tha.wah bhi muze pyar karti thi,par jab maine use propose kiya to. usane muze kaha ki mai sochkar bataungi aur fir dusare din usane muze ignore kiya….to mam bataiye ki usane aisa q kiya??? aur ab kuchha mahino bad fir wah muze dekhane lagi hai aur smile deti hai to mam ab aaphi batiye k mai kya karu…use kaise hasil karu??????

    1. akash aap ek kaam kr sakte ho ya to response 100% hoga nai to waise bhi aapki relation ka koi naam nahi hai aap use ignore karo usi or dekho hi nahi aap sirf or sirf apne smartness pe dhyan do study pe dhyan do aap itne good look dikho ki uske sath me jo uski friend ho wo kahe yaar dekho ye ladko kitna smart hai hai ladkion ko wo ladke bohout pasand aate hai jishe uske circle me pasad kare agar uske man me thoda sa bhi aapke leay pyar hoga to use turant use ye lagega ki tumhe kahi uski friend na apna boyfriend bana le xxxyyyzzz so jaise hi uce ignore karoge wo khud ye janne ki koshish karegi ki tum use ignore kyon kr rahe ho kahi tumhe koi dusri to nai mil gai ye jane ke leay jwo tumse baat krna chahegi Agar wo tumse baat karne ki koshish ki to aise react krna jaishe lage tum uce jante hi nai ho agar wo kahe (Hi) to tum kehna kya baat hai bolo ?? attitude me toda bohout baat karna fir waha se nikal jao aise ki jaise tumhe koi fark nai padta sidha kahna mujhe bohout kaam hai mai chalta hu fir toke tb bhi mat rukna is se uske man me bhout hi positive asar padega ki kahi tum uske jawab na dene se to naraj nahi xxyyzz fir wo dubara tumse milne ki koshis karegi tumhe sorry kehna chahegi xxyyyzz tum fir aasani se use pa sakte ho ye sub tumhare attitude pe dipend karta hai (ek baat batana chahunga jo tumhe bohout kaam aayegi ladki us ladke ko bilkul bhi pasand nahi krti hai jo uske samne girgiray mare jaye uske leay ladkioun ko hamesa kuch hasil krna achha lagta pasand hota hai wo bilkul bhi nahi jo hamesha uske aage piche ghume or kahe ki mai tumse pyar krta hu tum nahi mili to mai mar jaunga xxxyyzz
      ,
      Tum mard ho yaar ladkion ke samne girgirana band kro aisa bano ki wo tumhe pana chahe uski chah bano!
      ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
      Waise maine jitna write kiya hai agar us ladki ke man me thoda sa bhi pyar hua to definetly tum single se in a relationship me aa jaoge…
      .
      BEST OF LUCK

  44. me ek ladki ko pyar kerta hu vo mere skool me pdti h mera room upper h or uska niche isliye hum resess me hi milte h vo bhi muje dekhti h magar abhi tak hmari baat nhi hui h m usse frenship kerna chahta hu magar bolne ki himaat nhi h me kya kru or usse binaa bole hi kya kru ki vo mere ko like kerne lage

  45. Thank you sooo much Mam for give me a wonderful answer. I will try to be follow all the things …… And if I have more problem related with this then I will ask u Mam …. And plzz Mam always, forever help me plzz …..

      1. Mam, plzz again help me ….
        mene aaj unse firse kaha tha love ki or vo bhi indirectly to unhone kaha ki – “filhal to esa kuch nhi h, aage ka pata nhi”… Fir mene kaha ki esa kyo ? Fir unhone kaha -” yr ab m jabardasti to vo feelings apne ander paida nhi kr skti naa.” …. To mene kaha ok ….
        To ab mujhe bataiye Mam ab m kya kru ?? In sb cheezon ko m kya smjhu ?? 🙁

        1. Mam, plzz again help me ….
          mene aaj unse firse kaha tha
          love ki or vo bhi indirectly to
          unhone kaha ki – “filhal to
          esa kuch nhi h, aage ka pata
          nhi”… Fir mene kaha ki esa kyo ? Fir unhone kaha -” yr
          ab m jabardasti to vo
          feelings apne ander paida
          nhi kr skti naa.” …. To mene
          kaha ok ….
          To ab mujhe bataiye Mam ab m kya kru ?? In sb cheezon
          ko m kya smjhu ??

          1. Mam mene vo artical pada, usme sab kuch sach h, vo mujhe like krti h kyo ki unhone mujhe kudh hi kaha tha ki ” I like u bt not love u, bcoz i don’t have that type of feelings for u ” bus yahi kaha tha unhone.. Ab mam plz btaiye m kya kru plz jldi btaiye .. 🙁

  46. Hi
    Merit ek best friend hai hamari unse kafi baten hoti hain hamari soch pasand etc. Milti julti hai but WO mujhe surf friend kahti hai but agar me kisi or girl se baat karta hun to usko achha nahi lagta n WO mera bahot care karti hai n mere se bat kite bina WO kuch nahi karti jaise breakfast, lunch, dinner etc, aur mughe hamesha miss karti rahti hai . an mujhe ye nahi samajh aata ki uske man me kya hai yahan tak ki jab tak me kuchh nahi khata to WO bhi nahi khati .
    To pls batao ki uske man me kya hai kaise pata kiya jaye

    1. Vivek aap use propose karo, use bolo – “Mujhe tujhse pyar ho gaya hai, main tujhse apni girlfriend banana chahta hu 🙂 ” Agar vo kahti hai ki nhi hum sirf friends hai to uske saath suddenly sab contact khatam kar lo, koi call mat karo uski call receive bhi mat karo and kisi msg, fb chat ka reply bhi mat karo. Use apni kami ka ehsaas hone do, is time me use aapki importance ka pata chalega, fir shaam ko use call karo vo puchegi ki – Aisa kyu kar rhe the to bolo ki – “Main tumse pyar karta hu aur tumhe pana chahta hu, sirf friend banke nhi rehna chahta lekin tumne na kar diya isliye kuch acha nhi lag rha, aur soch rha hu ki ab mujhe kya karna chahiye” Iske baad agar ladki aapse love karti hogi to jarur positive response degi, varna sach ka pata chal jayega.

    2. Vivek wo chah rai h ki aap use perpose karo but mai kahuna ki avi ruk jao shivshi ne achha reply diya aapko but shivshi ka advise use krna lekin mere in tips ke baadh (vivek jaisa ki maine aapse kaha ki wo ladki chahti hai ki aap use purpose kro taki wo na keh sake aapko sata sake aapko apne piche ghuma sake aap use avi tadapne do avi bilkul perose mat krna aap sabse pehle hidenly clear ho jao ki uske man me kya hai wo janne ke leay aap ek kaam kar sakte ho aap use love type sms send krna shuru kr to agar wo same type sms reply dene lagi to samjho green signal hai or use hamesha Romenticly baat kro agar uska response positive rehta hai to badiya hai nai to keh dena aishe hi mazak rk rha tha xxyyyzzz pehle ye puri tarah jaan lo ki such me wo tumse pyar krti hai warna bewajh uske samne dubara jane me bad feel raha agar sub kuch achha raha to use perpose kr dena 100% expt kr legi try the tips