Hi, Main aapse ek question puchna chahti hun.. “Kya aap vaisi life jee rahe hai jaisa aap jeena chahte hai?”  Sabki apni ek dream life hoti hai, Humare dimag me us life ki ek picture bani hoti hai…. jaisi hume jeena hai. Mera aapse ek simple sa question hai ki – `Kya aap abhi (is waqt) apni vo Dream life jee rahe ho?`

Maximum logon ka jawab hoga, `Nhi`.

Par, Kyu? Ye puchne par jo jawab milta hai vo lagbhag aisa hota hai : Ye impossible lagta hai. Vaisa ho paana bhut muskil hai. Vaisa sambhav nahi hai. Mere Paas vo life jeene ki opportunity nhi hai. Confidence nhi hai. Ya.. Vo life jeene ke liye jo sab chahiye unme se mere paas kuch nhi hai. Aur in sab ke upar ek common jawab aata hai ki – `Pta Nhi`. Bahut hi aasani se hum keh dete hai – `Mujhe sach me nhi pata ki Main vo life kyu nhi jee pa rha hu jo main jeena chahta hu.`

Ab Main aapse ek aur question puchti hun – “Kya aapne vo life hasil karne ki kosish ki jo aapka sapna hai?”

Bahut se logon ka jawab hoga, – `Haan, vo to main roj karta hu, Usi ke liye to job kar rha hu, usi ke liye itni padhayi ki hai. Ye choti badi cheeze jo main roj karta hu, jo itni mehnat karta hu vo usi ke liye to karta hu.`

Acha chalo theek hai to Main yhi sawal aapse thoda dusre tarike se puchti hun – `Kya aapne sach me apni Dream Life hasil karne ke liye us had tak mehnat ki hai jitni aap kar sakte hai? Kya aapne apna best of the best (110%) kosish ki hai uske liye? Kya aapne kabhi baki sab cheez chor kar apni sapno ki zindgi ko sach banane ki kosish ki hai?

Ye cheez sun kar bhut se log chup ho jaate hai. Vo answer hi ni de sakte. Vo “No” nahi kehna chahte because vo sab logon ke samne kamjor or looser ki tarah dikhayi nahi dena chahte. Aur vo “YES” bhi nhi kahenge because vo khud andar se jante hai ki, agar vo `Haan` kahte hai to vo jhooth hoga, unhone kabhi is tarah se kosish hi nhi ki, Unhone apne best efforts ke saath kabhi kosish nhi ki.

Ab main aapse final question puchna chahti hun – “Kya aapne apni Dream life ko achieve karne ke liye utna hard work kiya hai jitna ek ladki ko paane ke liye karte ho?

Ab agar aap is bare me soch rhe hai to Main aapko bata deti hu, iska jawab `No` hai. Aapki dedication girls ko paane ke liye lajawab hai. Har din aap pta nhi kitni alag alag girls ko Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp par messaging karte rahte ho, use follow karte hai, uski status & photos like aur share karte rahte ho. You don’t give a crap about vo kon hai, aur vo relationship me hai to fir bhi vo aapse baat kyu karna chahti hai. Aap un girls ko text karte rahte hai jise aapne dekha bhi nahi hota hai. Yha tak ki aapko ye bhi pta nahi hota ki vo sach me ladki bhi hai ya nhi aur uske piche aap apna pura time – days and nights – chatting karne me laga dete hai. Aap ek hope leke chalte hai ki kya pata ladki pat jaaye. Doston ye bilkul pagalpanti hai.

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Is baat ki koi guarantee nahi ki jin ladkiyon ke piche aap itna keemti time spend kar rhe ho unme se koi bhi  aapko kabhi date bhi karegi. But aap har din try karte rahte ho. Aap un ladkiyon se reject ho jaate ho jinse aap kabhi mile bhi nahi hote ho. Agar 10 girls me se 9 girls aapko message back nahi karti, aapki friend request accept nahi karti, to aap 90% apne task me fail ho jaate ho. But phir bhi aap himmat nahi harte ho. Aap try karne me lage rahte ho.

Ab aap socho kya aapne itne junoon se apni life me apna sapna sach karne ke liye mehnat ki hai kabhi. Aksar log kisi cheez ke liye 1-2 baar try karte hai aur agar vo nhi ho paata to fir use chor dete hai, boys aur youth me ye cheez bhut jyada dekhne ko milti hai. Lekin agar vhi ladka 1-2-3-4-5….. pta nhi kitni ladki se reject ho jata hai aur tab bhi vo kosish karta hai. Mere dost, yhi to cheez hai itne junoon se aap kosish karo apni zindgi ke sapne sach karne ke liye to aisa kuch bhi nhi hai jo aap hasil na kar sako.

Muskil me Haath Khade Mat Karo, Kosish Karo aur Aage Badho

Doston apne andar ki will power ko dekho. Bas ek second ke liye imagine karo ki.. agar aap apna sara time save karte hai aur apni sari power, hope, intelligence aur junoon ko kisi hot girl, love of life par lagane ki bajaye, apne upar lagate hai to khud socho aap kya haasil kar sakte ho.

Kabhi aapne socha hai, why most girls Friend zone guys? Vo aisa emotional support ke liye karti hai. Jab bhi unhe apni life me koi problem hoti hai, ya kisi help ki jaroort padti hai, ya unhe motivation, inspiration ki jarurat hoti hai tab vo aapko call karti hai. Aur aap apna sara kaam side me rakh ke, sara time and energy unhe motivate karne me laga dete ho, unki problem solve karne me laga dete ho or pta nhi uski khushi ke liye kya kya kaam karte ho.

Jis time vo khush hoti hai, us waqt vo apne boyfriend ke pass jaati hai. Jab usse sex ki jaroort hoti hai, tab vo apne boyfriend ke pass hi jati hai. Jis time use hang out karne ka man karta hai vo apne boyfriend ke pass jati hai. Uska boyfriend hamesha uske liye pahle aata hai. But, jab vo kisi karan depressed (preshan) hoti hai ya use kisi kaam me help kisi ki help jaroort hoti hai, tab vo aapke bare me sochti hai.

Basically aap apni andar ki sari power, positivity ka istemal kisi aur ko successful banane ke liye karte ho.

Why and for what?

Aapko ye baat samajhni hogi, Vo sirf aapka emotional support ke istemal liye karti hai, jab usko aapki jaroort nahi hoti tab vo aapke bare me ek pal liye sochti bhi nhi hogi. Aap uske liye koi mayne nhi rakhte.

Main khud personally aise bhut se ladkon ko janti hun jo ghanto ghanto kisi na kisi ladki ko text karne me lage rahte hai. Kitne aise ladke hai jo ladki ke piche saalo tak pagal bane rahte hai. Kitne aise hai jo apni ex-girlfriend ko kyi saal tak bhula nahi paate. Kitne aise hai jo ladki ke sath time spend karne ke liye unke drivers, yhan tak ki unke naukar tak bane huye hai. Kuch aise hai jo ladkiyon ki problems ko solve karne ke liye khud bahut se dard sahte hai. Aur ye sab sirf is umeed me ki ek din to vo uske pyar me pad jayegi.

Aap apna sara time relationships ko de dete hai or mushkil se apne careers ke bare me kuch sochte hai. Kuch ladke to bechare aise hai jo badi mehnat se ladkiyan patate hai but vo Girls unhi ki life ko barbad karti hai aur unke liye hamesha kuch na kuch problems khadi karti aati hai.

In sab ke badle me aapko kya milta hai? NOTHING.

Vo aapko date bhi nahi kar rhi hai. Aapko main ek baat seedhe seedhe batati hu, agar usne aapke date karna hota to, usne kiya hota. Ab agar vo aapko date nhi kar rhi to isse koi fark nhi padta ki vo kisi aur ko date kar rahi hai ya nahi kar rhi.

Agar vo bore ho rhi hai aur uska boyfriend kisi kaam me busy hai to vo aapko text karti hai taki uska time pass ho jaye. Aur hzaron ladke hai jo ladkiyon ke liye khushi se ek timepass karne waali cheez ban-ne ke liye taiyar hai. Aise log ye jaan kar bhi ki unhe isse kuch nhi milne waala, un ladkiyon ke talve chatne ko bhi taiyar ho jaate hai. Vo kuch bhi karne ke liye taiyar ho jaate hai sirf is baat ke liye ki vo ladki apne free time usse thoda chat kar le. Iske alawa unhe is cheez se kuch bhi nhi milne waala.

Kya aapki zindgi ki yhi keemat hai! Insaan ki zindgi ka itna bada gift aapko bhagwan ne diya hai jisme aap apni mehnat aur lagan ke dum par kuch bhi haasil kar sakte hai vo aap barbad kar rhe ho kisi girl ke sath chatting karne me? Aur unme se bhi aadhe se jyada ladkiyan already kisi dusre insaan ke saath dating kar rhi hoti hai.

Fir kis khushi me un ladkiyon se chat karte rahte ho?

“Oh, main isliye usse chat karta hun kyuki vo meri friend hai, not because main usse sex karna chahta hun!” Really ?

Acha! kya sach me? Kya aap apne kisi male friend ko bhi utna hi text karte hai jitna us ladki ko?

Guys, Friends, brothers, pls samjho ki aapko ye sab band karne ki jarurt hai. Is tarah ki sab faltu kaam ko ek dum abhi isi waqt se totally band karne karo. No more excuses. No more bullshit.

Aapko apni saari energy aur sari power ko idhar udhar ki girls ke piche bhaag kar barbad karna band karna hoga. Agar aap kisi ladki ke piche pagal hai, to get out of it right now. Agar aap apni ex Girlfriend ke piche pagal hai to aisa karna band karo yaar. Agar aapko koi ladki sirf tab call karti hai jab use kisi help ki jarurat hoti hai aur aap ye jante hai to Bhaad me jaane do use. Apna attitude badlo aur use abhi isi waqt bina koi der kiye apni life se bahar nikalo.

Socho aapki life ki keemat kya hai aur aap kin faltu kaamo me ise barbad kar rhe ho. Vo sab cheez karna band kar do jo aapko apne Dream Life ko achieve karne se rok rahe hai. Aap puchoge, Kyu? Main aisa kyu karu? Aisa karne se meri life nhi badal jayegi.

Aapko main 4 reasons deti hu jinse aapko ye baat samajh aa jayegi ki aapko faltu ki sab harkate karna aur ladkiyon ke piche time barbad karna band kyu kar dena chahiye.

1. Self Esteem (आत्म सम्मान)

Agar aap kisi bhi ladki ko friend requests bhejte ho or messages karte ho, to aapko ye kaise pata chalega ki, us ladki ne aapko reject kyu kiya hoga? Kya aapko pta hai ki usne aapse dosti kyu ki or aapko date kyu nhi kar rhi hai, jab vo isi dauran ek new boyfriend banati hai to usne aapko date kyu nhi kiya. Aapko ye cheez kabhi bhi nhi pata chalegi.

Lekin, in sab ke beech ek cheez jarur hoti hai… ye rejection aapki self respect (आत्म सम्मान) ke par bhut serious asar chorti hai. Aur isse aapko vo negativity milti hai jiski aapko na to koi jaroort hai or na hi aap vo jillat deserve karte ho. Rejection ke piche reasons aapke bare me us ladki ka khud ka opinion hota hai. Iss behaviour se aap par iska asar padna hi nahi chahiye, because you can’t really control what other think about you. So protect your self esteem. Apni self esteem (apni ijjat) kisi aise insaan ke haath me mat do jo baad me ise kuchal de… vo bhi kisi aise ladke ke liye jo apne daddy’s money par dependent rahta hai, jisse uske cars, booze (sharab) and parties ka kharcha nikalta hai. So guys aapko bina vajah life me kisi tarah ki rejection jhelne ki koi jarurat nhi hai. Aur isi liye aapko vo sab karna band karna hoga.

2. Acheivement is Better

Friends, aap mujhe btao ki love ke baad sabse acchi feeling konsi hai? Vo feeling hai – Achievement Waali. Achievement ki feeling love se jyada behtar aur permanent hoti hai. Ye feelings marte dum tak aapke sath rahti hai. Jab aap apni aakhiri saanse gin rahe honge us waqt, aapko love ka regret ho ya na ho par agar aapne mauka milne par bhi vo nhi kiya jo aapka sapna tha, to aapko iska afson jarur hoga.

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3. Money

Paisa aapko ek better lifestyle de sakti hai, better options provide karti hai or ye aapko aapki life me vo sab karne ki aazadi deti hai jo aap hamesha se karna chahte hai. Successful banane ke piche saalo saal jo dard apne liya hai use bhul jao. Successful bano, aapko world ki sabse sundar ladki bhi mil jayegi (agar aap chahe to).

Agar aapko meri baat par yakeen nahi hota to friends aap bas ek chota sa kaam karo. Kisi bhi matrimonial site (shaadi.com, bharatmatrimony.com, jeevansathi.com) par abhi jaa kar ID banao aur dekho in sites ki sabse sundar Girls ki expectations kya hai. Unko is baat se koi khaas fark nhi padta ki insaan dikhta kaisa hai ya uski personality kaisi hai. Agar aap successful ho to aapke look and personality ko itna koi nahi dekhta. Sab usi insaan ko dekhte hai jo usse 5 guna (5X) se bhi jyada kamata hai. Kyu? Simple si baat hai, girls successful person ki taraf jyada attract hoti hai. Aur ye koi chupi huyi baat nhi hai.

✮ Sabse Important Reason : Help Other

Agar aap apne andar ki saari energy aur junoon ko apne aapko safal banane me aur apni zindgi ko badalne me laga dete ho to, ultimately aap apne aas-paas ke logon ki bhi life change kar sakte ho.

Chalo main aapse ek simple sa sawal puchti hu, last time aapne kab ek ladki ke upar paise kharch kiye the? Kisi bhi cheez ke liye, jaise ki Dinners, Movies, Lunches, Gifts, Shopping, ya uske phone recharge par bhi jisse aap dono ke beech baat hoti hai. Bas Aap vo saare paise calculate karo jo aapne us ladki ke piche kharch kare hai, chahe vo ladki aapki girlfriend ho ya na ho.

Ab mujhe ye btao ki, last time aapne kab apni mother ke liye kuch paise spend kiya tha? Last time kab aap apni mammi ko dinner ya lunch ke liye khi bahar le kar gaye the, kab unko koi gift diya tha ya unka mobile recharge karwaya tha?

Ab Ladki par kiye gaye kharch ko parents par kiye gaye kharch se compare kro. Fark aapko najar aa jayega.

Guys, it’s literally my request to you, Please stop spending your money on relationships jo ki abhi start bhi nahi hua hai, or us relationship me bilkul na raho jiska matlab hi money spend karna hai.

Paiso se aap apne aas paas ke logon ki life change kar sakte ho, apne parents ki life, apne brother and sister ki life or specially un logo ki jinhe money ki jaroort hoti hai. Khud socho na yaar, ladki ke liye diamond necklace ya uske expansive cloth par paise kharch karne ki bjaye aap kisi jaruratmand ko education de sakte ho. In sab se aapko vo khushi milegi jo aapko ek aisi ladki zindgi me kabhi nhi de sakti jo kisi matlab ke liye aapse guft-gu karti hai. Vo sirf aapka fayda uthati hai aur aapke peeth piche aapke baare me ek acha word bhi nhi bolti. Use koi fark nhi padta aap theek bhi ho ya nhi. Aapko aisi cheezon se duri badhane ki kosish karni chahiye aur Jab aisi ladki aapse dur ho to aapko upar waale ka shukriya ada karna chahiye.

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Ye 4 important reasons hai jinke liye aapko kuch der ke liye shanti se baith kar ye sochne ki jarurat hai ki aap jo kar rahe hai aapko sach me uski jarurat bhi hai ya nahi nhi. Khi aap apna keemti waqt kisi faltu ki cheez me to nhi gawa rahe jiska koi matlab hi nhi hai. Dusri baat, vo jabardast dedication yaad karo, jo aap un faltu & meaningless relationships ko chalane ki kosish me barbad kar rhe ho. Aur apni dedication ko Ladkiyon ki bajaye apni life ko behtar banane ki taraf shift karo.

In the end Main bas aapse yhi request karungi ki, Please yaad rakho aapke kuch dreams hai or aapki help karne ke liye koi nahi hai. Koi bhi aapki help sirf tab karega jab vo ye dekhega ki aap khud apni puri mehnat se kosish kar rhe ho. Isliye sahi raste par chalne ka faisla aapko khud karna hai aur aapko ye yaad rakhna hoga ki ek ek second behad keemti hai. Aise me aapko apna time kha kharch karna chahiye ye soch samajh kar aage badhe. Aapko ye article kaisa laga hume jarur btana aur like and share karne ke liye to kahne ki jarurat nhi padni chahiye, itni achi cheez likhi hai ise sabke saath share jarur kare. 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Mam Meri GF Ki Saadi Kahin Aur Laga Di GaYi And Ab Wo Mujhe Bhaag Ke SaadI Karne KO Bol Rahi Main Kuch Samajj Nai Pa Raha Mujhe Kya Karna Chahiye….Tell Me I Am In My Life’s Biggest Confusion

  2. Meri ek gf hain me usse bahut piyar karta hu or bov karti hain or bo bol rhi hain bag kar shadhi karne ki mam muje bag kar sadhi karni chahiye ya nhi plz batao

    1. Aisi Bewakoofi kabhi galti se bhi mat karna, sab pyar piche se nikal jayega 4 din me hi jab haalat kharab huye to. Family se badh kar koi bhi kuch bhi nahi hota isliye pyar ke josh me aisi chutiyapanti karne ke baare me sochna bhi mat.

  3. Hi.. Meri Gf Bahar Gai Hai Usne Kaha Tha Main Waha Jakar Msg Karungi Lekin 5 din hogye nahi msg aaya nahi call… maine call bhi kiya lekin out of covrage aa rha he..

    ab kya karu main

    1. Dekho Yuvraj ho sakta hai jha vo gyi hai vha network issue ho ya uske paas phone na ho, aap panic bilkul na ho bas wait karo bcoz panic karke koi fayda nhi hone waala balki ulta aapka dimag hi kharab hoga.

    2. Hi mam main ap se ek bat puchna chahta hu meri ek gf h jise me apne se jada pyaar karta hu wo be Muje pyar karti h but us k father us ki shadi apni community main he karna chahte h. Or wo apne father ko be naraj Nahi karna chahti us k father hamare bare Sb jante h. Ap he bato ki Muje age Kya karna chahiye

      1. Aapko is baare me apne father se baat karni chahiye, I know this is not easy but this is the solution, vo hi aapki real help kar saktehai is mamle me.

  4. कैरियर के बारे में आपने जो कुछ भी सुझाव दी हैं। उससे मैं पूर्ण सहमत हूँ। और आपने इस विचार व्यक्त करते हुए जो कुछ भी लिखी हैं, उस बात ध्यान में रखते हुए मैं यही कहूँगा कि लड़कों को एक दिशा मिल जायेगा कि वो किस दिशा में जायें।

  5. माना मैंने की अपने जो बोला वो सही है। लेकिन ऐसा सभी लड़के नहीं करते। जो चीजें आपने लड़कियों के बारे में बताई लड़के भी ऐसा ही करते हैं और जो लड़कों के बारे में, वो लड़कियां भी करती हैं।
    ईश्वर – लडक़ों और लड़कियों के स्वरुप को बदले हैं, उनके दिमाग को नहीं।

  6. Hads off u madam bht hi shi likha h aapne main bhi apni life brbad kr rha tha aapke is articale se bht motivate hua hun… Thank you mam Aaj se sb bnd sirf focaus dreams pr rhega

  7. सारी बात बेकार है बस एक ही सत्य है वो है किस्मत, वो अगर आपके पास है तो लडकी भी मनपसंद मिलेगी और ड्रीम जिन्दगी भी |

  8. [Please, ignore my previous comments, that where by mistake my email id was written wrong]
    Thanks a lot,
    You really changed my life.
    Main akshar sochta rehta hu ki sayad koi mujse pyar karnewala mil jaye, par lagta hai aajkal aisa koi matlab nahi, sirf paisa hi sachchai hai.
    Ek simple sa sawal, agar ladkiya jyada kamanewale ladke ko hi pasand karti hai to kya who shaadi ka teek pana sambhav hoga?
    Pata hai ki, aaj kal aisi ladkiya dhundhna mushkil hai jo pehle nature aur uske baad income pe dhyan de, aisa aksar hota hi hai to saaf hai ki wo shaadi mujse nahi sirf mere paiso se karti hai, mujhe unse kya ummeed rakhni chahiye?
    Kya aajkal shaadi ek samjota bankar reh gayi hai? Kya insaan ke nature ka koi matlab nahi?

    1. Dear kabhi bhi ladki ko dekhte hi usse pyaar mat kar bhaitho agar aapko koi ladki pasand ati bhi hai o pahle usse baat karo fir usse dosti karo or use samjho fir agar wo aapki type ki hai to baat ageh badhao nahi to aapko hinukshan jhelna padhega.

  9. Thanks a lot,
    You really changed my life.
    Main akshar sochta rehta hu ki sayad koi mujse pyar karnewala mil jaye, par lagta hai aajkal aisa koi matlab nahi, sirf paisa hi sachchai hai.
    Ek simple sa sawal, agar ladkiya jyada kamanewale ladke ko hi pasand karti hai to kya who shaadi ka teek pana sambhav hoga?
    Pata hai ki, aaj kal aisi ladkiya dhundhna mushkil hai jo pehle nature aur uske baad income pe dhyan de, aisa aksar hota hi hai to saaf hai ki wo shaadi mujse nahi sirf mere paiso se karti hai, mujhe unse kya ummeed rakhni chahiye?
    Kya aajkal shaadi ek samjota bankar reh gayi hai? Kya insaan ke nature ka koi matlab nahi?

  10. hy..didi me sourav,me ek ladki se bht pyar karta hun,wo v mujhse bht jyada karti hai…hamara cast alag alag hai…or uske ghr wale use bht belive karte hain…humare dono k ghr wale kvi nai raji honge humari shadi ko…isliye me use chodna chahata hun…me use age jake taklif dena nai chahata,isliye me use chodna chahta hun,per wo mujhse itna pyar karti hai ki sath chodti he nai,mene us se sath chudane k liye bht plan v kiya-jese ki meri bht sari gf hai,me bht kharap hun etc…per usko koi farak nai padta,wo bolti hai sb jhut hai…me uska bht care karta hun,me use dukhi dekhna nai chahta,isliye uska sath chodna chahata hun.so plz ap mujhe ye bataye ki me aisa kya karun jis se wo mujhe chod de…or agar dusra koi tip hai to jarur contact karen..my whatsapp no. – 9658405121

    1. Dear aapko uske sath aisa saluk karna hoga jaisa ki aap ne pahle na kiya ho uske baad use aisa bharosa dilao ki aap abhi tak sirf uska use kar rahe the or ab aapko usme koi interest nahi hai wo khud hi aapko chord degi.

  11. Hii shivashi ji. Vaise to mai abi 12 class me padta hu lekin maine b apna kaphi time in sab chijo ke piche barbad kiya hai..

    Aur aj apki iss post ko padhkar mujhe apni galtiyo ka ahsas ho gaya hai….. So

    Very Very THANKS

      1. Didi ap boht hi achhe tips btate Ho. Apne aankhe kholdi. Ek advice insaan ko kaha SE kaha le jati hai. Insaan ki soch badal deti hai. Wah wah wah. … U R great… Thanks a lot

  12. Hlo shivshi…..maine aapke articles study kiya bahut acha and real hai……………..thanks aap hum ladka ka parati itna sab kuch kar rha ho………hamari help karna ka liya thanks alot……

  13. I like ur article .and i l try these things in my life . thanks dear for showing right face of girls. i am also a student and i am wasting my special time in these fake things i promise i will improve my self.

  14. hi mera naam salman h mein ek ladhki ko bhut pasend karta hu wo bhi mujhe dekh kar smail karti thi but meine ek chote ladhke se apna no bejha to usne lene se mana kardiya mujhe laga shayed wo baat karna chati h meine kal usse baat karne ke liye isshara ki to wo rukh gayi meine kaha mujhe apse baat karni h to wo boli mujhe apse koi baat nahi karni or ap mera phicha kiyo karte ho thoda gusse main thi samejhe main nahi araha h so plz help me main kiya karo ???

    1. Dear har ladki starting me aisi hi karti hai lekin jab wo dekhegi ki aap har nahi maan rahe ho to wo khud aapse baat karne lagegi. So try hard.

  15. Wwwooowww shivansi …kitna achha likhti ho yr ap ..mujhe bot acha lg apki post pdh kr.

    Pr yr meri life me bot prblms h ..m apse unke bre me bat krna chahta hu …ap mere facebook account (ankit.godara.7165@facebook.com) pr mujhse bat kro. …plz mna mt krna. . . …M wait krunga apka.

    1. Sorry dear, lekin aapko apni problems mujhe yahi par btani hogi or me promise karti hu ki me aapki help jarur karungi.

  16. Me Ek ladki ko bahut pyar karta hu par bo our kisi ko chahti h our lekin mera bahut fikr karti h
    usne mana kar di h our ab bhi bat kati h
    yese me kya karu plz reply

    1. Dear agar wo aapki fikar karti hai to iska matlab ye nahi ki uske dil me bhi aapke liye wohi hai jo aapke sdil me hai uske liye kahibaar insaan se dosti ke toor par bhi attachment ho jati hai . Shayad isiliye wo aapki fikar karti hogi .

  17. hey shivshi,
    (hapPpy neW yeaR 2 u nd ur entire teem)
    this’s vikas here…, first of all i would lyk to tell u dat i’m follwing ur page frm last few days!
    i hv read all d tips ovr there.. nd comments too.. u doing phenomenal job.. realllyyy lv d way u R…..

    nd now plz do a favor on me if possible “frm my childhood;i LOVE a girl her name is ?rashmi? his brother was my gud frnd.. at dat tym i madly lv hr or shyad woh bhi mujhe lyk krti thi (coz of eye contact wala fanda n all ?)
    toh bas ab problem ye h ki ab hum bade ho gae… hala ki personly mne kabhi usse baat nhi ki,,, bt mri trff se to feelings ab bhi same h.. woh ab tohdi serious h apne lyf m.. essa nhi h ki m bolne se darta hu bt jyda chances lgte h ki wo shyd mna kr de.. ya kya react kre i don’t knw..
    yhi soch k m kuch nhi kr pata,, mai usse bhot bhot bhot pyar krta hu..
    agr usne mna kr diya to m…………………
    wht should i do???
    mam, plz take it as a serious case…
    nd 1 more thing is can we use any different way to chats! don’t take me worng here.. dis all coz of my privacy..
    plz plz plz…

    1. Yr apne abi tb hmare cmnt ka reply nhi kiya … sayd apne delete bi kr diya

      M to aj 1st time is site me aya hu …yha ek br cmnt krne ke bat duwara wo cmnt milta hi nhi …pta ni ye kya chkkr h ..:/

      1. Kyunki dear aap logo ke comment ke reply me comment karte ho isiliye nahi milta aapko apna alag se comment karna hoga, tabhi wo hum tak pahunchega.

  18. apne is article me jo bhi likha hai vo bhaut hi prerna dayak hai isme jo bhi apne likha hai ye mere life se aprox 99% match krta hai.ek bat jo apne likhi hai ki ap kise ladki ke peche kai sal barbad kar dete hai.mine apne 3 year ek ladki ko pane ke liye barbad kiye hai.mai do bar apni b.tech chod chuka hu aur 4 lakh se bhi jyda rupy maine aise hi barbad kar diye hai. kyoki mujhe uski bgaut yad ati thi isi chkar me mai padh nhi pata hu.jabki vo mere pasand nahi hai mere kyoki uski height kam hai mujhe apni height ki ladkiya pasand hai mere hit jyda nhi 171cm.phir bhi mujhe pta nhi kyo usse love ho gya hai.high scol se lekar ab tak maine jitni bhi girlfried bnai sab mujhse thodi bhaut lambi hai aur usse sundar bhi padhi likhi bhi mere sabse phle gf mumbai me iit kar rahe hai aur baki b.tech aur vo is sal 12th ke exam degi.mam kya mujhse ek bar phone par bat kar sakti hai bas ap ek bar phone bta dena phir mai apni taraf se cal karuga kuch puchna hai.please meri madad kar do

    1. me aapki help to jarur karungi lekin mere pass phone or phone number dono nahi hai isliye aapko apni problem yahi btani hogi dear

  19. Awesome website…..shivshi mam…
    aap logo k baare me itna sochte ho nd article likhte ho aur upar se unke comments ko answer back bhi krte ho….
    har koi ye kr nhi pata Really hats off yaar….

  20. meri gf thori ghamndi hi mujhe lip kiss nhi krne deti hi lekin mujhe kiss bahut psnd hi ar use nhi psnd hi plz aap btaiye ki my kya kru ki wo kiss k liye razi ho jay reply plz ma’am. ar hi pahle krne drti thi lekin ab nhi….plz mera mdad kijiye…..??

    1. Agar wo aapko pahle karne deti thi or ab nahi to shayad uska aap par se interest khatam ho gaya hai ya wo aapko cheat kar rahi hai

  21. Meri ek girlfrnd h mujhe bahut miss v krti h aur pyar v. Usko dekhr lgta h wo puri trah sirf mujhe pyar krti h. Wo bolti h k mai tmhe pana chahti hu puri trah se. Tumse shadi krna chahti hu. Jb ki mai sirf 19 sal ka hu. Mujhe us ko lekar kya krna chahiye .

    1. Jo aapki uske liye feelings hai wo usse clear karlo kyunki jyada expectation bhi bahut hi jyada nuksaan dayuk hoti hai.

  22. Thnks. For comliment

    Bahut hi acha laga … etna laga ki aap se kuch bata bhi nahi….. mere life ka sabse bada din wo aaj hai ese padh.

    Bahut dino se mai ye sab jananna chhta tha ……

      1. Nyc story dear Shivshi…mai bohut khus huwa ye padh ke…..Na Jane aaj kl ke ladki me kya ho gya ladkiyo ke piche bhagte rhte hn…mera ek dost v hai mai usko ye story jarur padhaunga