Hello, Namaskar Doston.. Kaise hai aap? Main aapki Dost Shivshi ek dum maje me hu aur umeed karti hu ki mere sabhi Dost bhi bhut acche honge, honge kyu nhi, aakhir dost kiske hai! Doston aaj main aapke saath ek aise topic par baat karne waali hu jo behad serious and bahut majedar hai. Ye to hum sab hi jante hai ki, Aaj-kal dating bahut hi common cheez ho gyi hai, aksar log milte hai aur fir kuch baatein hoti hai, kuch rishte bante hai kuch kisi vajah se aage nahi badh paate. Ab mudde ki baat ye hai ki, Humare kuch friends aise hai jo pyar ke khel me apni inning ki opening karne ja rahe hai to vo aisa kya kare ki vo Out na ho jaayein aur unki inning hamesha hi chalti rhe! Is cheez ki unhe badi tension hoti hai, laimi hai, honi bhi chahiye. Easy words me kahu to baat ye hai ki, Bhut se friends aur apni Love & Relationship Hindi website ke readers aksar First Date se related kuch cheezon ko le kar pareshan hote hai jaise ki – Girlfriend Se First Date Par Kaise Mile, Jab Ladki Ko Pahli Baar Mile to Kya Kare, GF se Baat shuru karne ke liye Kya Bolein. Inke alawa log ye bhi puchte hai ki First Date Per Kya Gift Karu aur uske saath kaise baat kare – Kya Karein, Kya Na Karein. Basically vo ye janna chahte hai ki – Pehli mulakat me Ladki Ko Kaise Impress Karein.

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To finally aap first time date par jaa rahe hai, par agar aap shy (sharmile) hai aur ladkiyon se jyada baat bhi nahi karte or girls se jaldi frank bhi nahi hote to ab is baat ki tension lene ki jarurat nahi ki – Main Apni First Date Pe Kya Karo. Kyunki aapki best friend Shivshi aapki ye problem aaj aur bhi dur kar degi. Chaliye ab shuru karte hai..

 First Date Par Kya Pahne?

Pehli cheez jo aapko samjhni hai, wo ye ki aap ek date pe ja rahe ho wo bhi apni Girlfriend ke sath, toh aap is cheez ka dhyan rakho ki wo aapko aise hi pasand karti hai jaise aap ho. Toh jyada kuch sochne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Agar aap kahi Cafe, Movie ya kahi Art Gallery wagera me jaa rahe ho toh, aap us se milte waqt kuch bhi casual dress pehan ke ja sakte ho. Agar aap kahi dinner date par jaa rahe toh aap semi formals prefer kar sakte ho. Waise toh aap casuals or jeans bhi prefer kar sakte ho, but rugged jeans avoid karo, kyunki ho sakta use wo pasand na ho, isliye first time ke liye aise cheez avoid karo. Tuxedos or suit kisi wedding ya Anniversary occasion ke liye chod do. Agar aap acche se Dress-Up honge aur ache se looks ke saath jaaoge toh isse wo kaafi impress ho jayegi. Yaad rahe aapki first look sabse jayda effect dalti hai, wo toh aapne suna hi hoga, first impression is last impression.

Sirf acha dikhna hi nahi, but apne aapko acche se present karna bhi bahut zaroori hota, jaise Clean Breath, Trimmed Nostril Hair, Clean Eyes, Ears, Fresh Body Fragrance. Ye sab tips ko apne dress up me implement karke, aap ladki ko first look me impress kar sakte hai.

❤ Pahli Date Par Kya Kare?

Ab ache se taiyar toh ho gaye but ab kare kya? Kaise jaayein usse milne? Toh chalo phir ab dekhte hai, mirror se apne perfect score lene ke baad kya kare, kaha jaaye, kaise kare?

Aapki looks ke sath-sath, aapki good manners us date me extraa charm add kar deti hai. Agar aap apni first date pe jaa rahe ho, toh use uske ghar se pick karo. Agar aap car me use pick karne ja rahe ho toh uske liye car ka door khud kholo, ye aap ki manners ko present karta hai. Agar wo apni koi cheez drop (gira) kar deti hai, galti se ya jaan boojh kar toh use pick karein, iss se ladki pe aapka acha impression jata hai aur isse aapki gentlemen qualities pata chalti hai.

❤ Ladki Ke Liye Kya Gift Lekar Jaayein

Sabse badi baat, agar aap kisi ladki se first time mil rahe ho toh kabhi khali hath na jao, kuch na kuch gift zaroor le ke jaao uske liye. Ab aap sochoge ki `First Date Per Kya Gift Karu` to iske bahut se options hai, jaise ki aap Roses Bouquet, Chocolate Box, ya scarf wagera prefer kar sakte hai. Ek baat ka dhyan rakhein ki first time ke liye jyada expensive gift prefer na hi karo toh acha hai, isse usko aap desperate or show off type ke lag sakte ho.

❤ Date Ko Special banane Ke Liye Out of the Box Sochein

Agar aap date plan kar rahe ho toh kuch alag, unusual se date plan karo, but jo bhi plan karo uski choice ko dhyan me rakh ke karo. Ye na ho ki ek vegetarian ko non-veg waali jagah pe leke ja rahe ho, koi salsa club jo use shayad pasand na ho. Toh kuch bhi karne se pahle dhyan rakhna ki date ko alag banane ke chakkar me kharab mat kar lena. Aap apni date ko unusual or creative plan karke, or bhi yaadgaar bana sakte ho. Jaise ki main aapko idea deti hu.. Agar usko outing ka shauk hai toh aap hill climbing pe jaa sakte ho, hilltop par jaa ke time spend karo, baat karo. Ye kuch alag hoga aap dono ke liye.

❤ Bill Pay Kare

Ab ek mard hai aur aapne hi ye date plan ki hai isliye bill aane par aap bill pay karein, agar vo bill pay karne ki baat kahti hai to bhi mana kar do. Chahe koi ladki kitna bhi insist kare bill pay karne ke liye ya bill half-half devide karke pay karne ke liye, Aap aisa na karo because agar aapne aisa kiya to maximum chances ho sakte hai ki ye uski saath aapki aakhiri mulakat ho. Agar ladki financially bhut acchi hai fir bhi bill aapko hi pay karna chahiye, at least first date par to jarur. Agar aapki har kosish ke baad bhi vo nahi manti aur bill pay karne ke liye ad jaati hai to aap soch sakte hai.

❤ Kya Bole?

Hmm.. Ab taiyar bhi ho gaye, sab kuch plan bhi kar liya, use pick bhi kar liya. Ab usse baat kahan se shuru ki jaaye, kya baat ki jaaye, kya bole ki use bura bhi na lage. Toh chalo btate hun, ladkiyon se kya baat karni chahiye, unhe kya acha lagta hai.

❤ Use Attention de

Aap nahi jante ya shayad jaante bhi honge, ladkiyon ko attention gain karna bahut pasand hota hai. Toh use impress karne ke liye, aap use attention dein aur use ye show karein ki aap ka pura dhyan bas uski taraf hai. Use compliment zaroor karo. Compliment ladkiyon ko bahut ache lagte hai, or is time pe toh especially use lagega ki jo time usne specially lagaya aapke liye taiyar hone me vo safal hua. Sirf ye compliment na de ki – “You are looking great” thodi detail me jaa kar uski tareef karein to bahut behtar hoga. I mean be particular about her hairs, Dress, Face, Smile, Sense of Humor etc..

❤ Gf Se First Date par Kya Baat Karein

Ab baat ye aati hai ki Baat kya karein? Kahan se start karu, kya bolu. Toh suno phir, kya bolna hai aapne jaa ke. Is conversation ko interview jaise toh bilkul mat leke jao, like kaise ho, job kaisi hai, kaha job karte ho, wagera wagera. Ye aapka time hai, aapne use baat karni hai, kaise karni hai or kya karni hai woh professional nahi personal honi chahiye dear. Aap use uske bare me pucho, uske bare me jaano, aur sabse important baat, uski bas suno or patience se, kabhi uski baat ke beech interrupt mat karo. Isse ladki ko lagta hai ki aap unme interest show kar rahe hai aur use pure gentlemen way se deal kar rahe ho. Ye aapki sabse impressive quality hogi. Apni conversation me sense of humour add karo. Ladkiyon ko humorous ladke bahut pasand hote hai. Toh jitna ho sake use is date pe khush rakhne ki kosish karo.

❤ Drop Karke Aaye

Use jis jagah se pick kiya wahan pe drop karke aayein, use kabhi akele na jaane dein. Isse use ye pata chalta hai ki aap uski actual mein care karte ho. Ye aapke manners or aapke gentlemen nature ko show karta hai. Iske baad usme aapka itna craze ho gaya hoga ki wo aapke bare me hi sochegi or aapse phir milna chahti hogi. Toh usko bolna – “Hope to see you soon again" and then wave a Good Bye.

Toh ye thi kuch baatein jinka khya rakh kar aap Apne First Date Ko Shaandar Bana Sakte Hai. Ek baat dhyan se samajh lo, Girlfriend ko pahli date pe impress karna mushkil ho sakta hai but agar Aap Shivshi ke in tips ko theek se follow karte ho toh kuch bhi mushkil nahi hogi, aur aap for sure ladki ko first time me hi impress kar sakte ho.

Agar aap humare saath kuch share karna chahte hai, ya aap chahte hai ki main aapki kisi or cheez me help karo toh bas phir aapko pata hi hai kya karna hai. Neeche comment box me apni baat likh kar comment kar dein, aapki baat mujh tak pahuch jayegi.

Published by Shivshi

Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Hy shivi …. I am good
    i hope u also good

    meri prblm itni bdi nhi h han but me presan hun..me abhi is time 12th kr rha hun or jb bhi me apne schl me gf bna ta hun tu koi na koi bndi beech me akkr ek breaker bn jaati h or uske baad jise me gf bnana chta tha vo kbhi baat nhi krti hai or agr by chance somehow koi gf bn jaati hai tu fir max 1 month me ptta cl hi jaata h ki uska bf h or vo mujhe cheat kr rhi h hmesa esa kyu hotta h mere sath esa pls tell

  2. Ladki se uske past ya future ke bare me kya kya bate kaf sakte hai. Taki use comfartable mahsus ho.

    1. aap uske past ke pare mein toh bilkul baat na kare han future ke bare mein aap kuch bhi baat kar sakte hai ki career, ya kahi vacation ya koi big dream koi aim jha unko puchna ho.

  3. Aur ha ek bat kahana bhul gaya. Use koi bhi bat start karna nahi aata phale bat muje hi strat karni padti hai

    1. aap usse thora comfortable kare uske baad aap khud changes dekhege girls ko khulne mein thora time lagta hai its very normal.

  4. Hii me ek ladki se 1month se reletionship me hu hum sirf whatsup par messege ke dwara hi bate karte hai
    So aage vocie call per bat start kaha se karu . aur use kya kya bate karu

    1. baatein karne ko bahut kuch hota hai aap uske likes dislikes puch sakte hai past futur plans and so on

  5. Mai Vikas Mai ik ladki k sath 8 saal se relationship me tha uske sath bahut baar physical relationship me v raha ab uski sadi ho rahi h Maine kaha ki Mai sadi k liye taiyar hu tum apne Ghar baat karo to wo boli ki sadi ki baat bahut aage tak badh gai h ab kuchh nahi ho sakta par usne kaha ki sadi k 2 mahine baad wo aa rahi h uske baad sab normal ho jayega hum phir pahle k jaise rahenge physical relationship v rahega par sabse Badi problem mujhe jo ho rahi h wo ye h ki wo kisi dusre k sath ab sex relationship me rahegi aur 2 mahine baad aayegi ki nahi ab mere pas please aisa jawab dijiye jisse Mai apne aap ko sambhal saku

    1. na aapko usse payar hai na usko kyuki yaha physical relationship zayada important hai jaisa aapne bola hai so ab uski shadi ho rahi hai woh aapke sath kab tak reh sakti hai yeh sochiye kal ko uski family afgye padegi usko bache hoye tab woh apke sath nahi rahegi aapki samjh dari issi mein hai ki aap move on kar lein.

  6. Hello shivshi ji 🙂 hmmm meri problem thodi hatke h. 3 year ago meri ek ladki se social site pr friendship hui thi bad me hum relation me a gye m use bolta tha ki m dikhne me acha ni hu isliye tum mujhe itna serious mat lo but wo bolti thi ki tum jese b ho mujhe pasnd ho at last jab hum mile toh usne ye bolkr mujse kinara kar liya ki mujhe tumara living style wearing expiration pasand nahi aya or na tum pasand ho. 🙁 but m in sabke liye ready tha m janta tha jo hona h isliye mujhe itna fark ni pada par jis way me usne ye bat kahi wo mujhe kafi hurt krne wali thi n isi bat se mujhe nafrat hi ho gai girls se n mera trust hi ni raha girls pr m fr girls ko only sex slive smjta tha fr mne khud pr dhayan dena shuru kr diya n apke article read kr kr k khud ko or b improve krta raha or is vja se last 1 year me meri 19 gf’s ban gai n m sabse physical relation banakr unse breakup krta raha. 4-5 month pehle meri 1 new gf bani or mne uske sth b sex kr liya lekin m ab is bandi se merrige krna chahta tha coz ye ladki kafi acchi h n wo b mere se shadi krna chahti h or bolti h ki agar tumse meri merrige nahi hui toh wo suicide kr legi pr is bich 1 panga ho gya hua yu kch dino pehle meri gf ne mujhe apni ek cousin se milwaya or jab m uski cousin se mila toh m shocked hi ho gya coz meri gf ki cousin wohi ladki nikli jiski vja se m girls ko bas sex slive samjta tha or jab se mujhe ye pta chala tab se mera mind hi kam ni krta m kya kru agar m apni gf se merrige kru toh wo ladki b life time mere se judi rahegi jiski vja se m girls se hate krta hu or gf se merrige na kru toh kahi wo kch kr na le ye dar h kch smj hi ni a raha kese niklu is jhanjat se plz help me SHIVI 🙁

    1. Isme tension ki itni badi koi baat nahi hai jitni aap samajh rahe ho… Past me jo hua uska kuch nahi kar sakte so uske baare me koi tension lene ki jarurat nahi hai. Aap bas ehtihaat ke liye ek kaam jarur kar lena ki kisi bhi tarah apni Gf ko pahle se hi ye jarur bata dena ki uski cousin ke saath past me aapka relation raha hai. Agar ye baat use pahle se hi pata rahegi to baad me koi issue nahi aayega, fir chahe use uski cousin kuch bhi bataye.