Ek friend Deep ne Kolkata se hume ek sawal pucha hai jiska jawab vo chahte hai ki hum unhe jawab de aur unki problem se bahar aane me help kare. I’m giving him my suggestion and sab readers ko request hai ki unki problem padh kar unhe salah de ki ab jab unki Girlfriend ka behaviour bahut jyada change ho gya hai and vo ab Deep ki baato par utna gaur nhi karti jitna pahle karti thi. Aise me Deep ko kya karna chahiye…


Meri ek Girlfriend hai jisse mera love Facebook se start hua. Wo Allahabad ki hai and Main Kolkata ka, but kuch dino me call pe ham kaafi close ho chuke the. Fir mai usse milane Allahabad gya. Hum mile baate huyi, kuchh mulakate huyi, humare beech sab kuch ho chuka hai aur mujhe yekeen hai jo bhi hua vo hum dono ka hi first time tha. Wo mere cast ki nhi hai. Usne meri help bhi bahut ki.. aur aaj mai 2 saal baad uske city me aa gya, kolkata se is chote city me padhne ko. Mai hostel le kar rahta hu aur B.tech kar rha hu, but wo ab mujhe utna bhaw nhi deti aur kahti hai aaj kal bhai aur sab ghar pe hi rahte hai. Wo bol rhi hai tum bhi padh lo aur mai bhi fir job ke baad ghar pe baat karenge. But aaj kal wo pahle jaisi nhi rhi, kahti pahle pata nhi kyu tumhare liye pagal si thi but ab kam hai khud ko sambhal liya hai. Pahle wo milne ko tadapti thi ab paas aa gya to sab khatam. Aur pahle ki tarah help bhi nhi karti aur mujhpe doubt bhi karne lagi hai, jabki main kuch bhi gaat nhi kar rha. Halanki Vo kahti hai… “Pyar mai tumse hi karti hu tumhare baad koi ni hoga”. Mai apne papa ki marji se hi shaadi karungi. Tum job kar lena to hum dono papa se baat karenge.

Girlfriend Ab Pahle Ki tarah Interest Nhi Leti Sad Boy Standing HD Image

Ab aap bolo Main kya karu kya na karu ? Mujhe career bhi banana hai isi beech. Kyuki ye mera turning point hai life ka.. mere ghar ki paristhitiya bhi kharab chalne lagi hai but is baat ki care nhi karti wo bas ab apna hi sunati hai, pahle jaise nhi rhi ab wo.. Main Kya karu ?

My Answer…

Dekho Deep, Vo ladki safe game khel rhi hai ki agar sab theek rha and situations achi thi fir to vo aapki sakti hai aur agar kuch bhi idhar udhar hua to vo aapko bade aaram se chod degi, isiliye vo aapse ek distance maintain karke chal rhi hai taaki jab aisa kuch ho to aap problem na create karo. And khi na khi vo apni jagah theek bhi hai. So my advice for you is…

Uski taraf jyada dhyaan dene ki bjaye concentrate on ur studies and career. Set ur Goals big and try to reach there at any cost. Aapki zindgi ka sabse bada maksad ek ladki jo aapse shayad ab pyar bhi nhi karti ko paane ki bjaaye apne maa baap jo bechare aapke liye hjar takleefe seh ke bhi aapko B.tech kar rhe hai, unko sab sukh dena hai. Pahle unke baare me aur fir apne baare me socho. Unhone jitne compromises kiye hai aapke liye uska mol chukao. Ek ladki jisne kuch din pyar mohabbat ki baate kar li aur kuch din saath reh li uske chakkar me apne maa baap ki takleef mat bhulo. Jab kabhi aisi musibat aayi jiska saamna karna bahut muskil hoga aapke liye to chances hai vo ladki khi nhi dikhegi jabhi ghar waale har kadam aapka saath denge. Aur jha tak rhi pyar ki baat to aap khud soch lo 20 saal diya hua maa ka pyar aur baap ka aapke liye bahaya gya khoon paseena jyada bada hai ya 2 saal ek ladki se ki huyi baate aur share kiya hua kuch time ? Jawab aapko khud mil jaayega. I don’t say ki aap us ladki ko chod do but Main keh rhi hu ki maintain things wisely. Jo cheez jruri hai uski taraf jyada dhyaan do vhi aapke liye aur aapki family ke liye acha hoga.

So friends this was my suggestion on Love & Relationship problem to a friend who is in problem. Hope it will help you Deep. Agr abhi bhi koi doubt hai to ask it. Best of Luck. Best wishes for your life ahead. Your friend. Shivshi.. ♥

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Wo pyr krti h hm v krte h but sadi kbliy kya krna hoga usko family chrkr aane k liy kya kiya jaay

  2. hllo meri gf ko ek ladks bahut call karta hai lekin mai meri gf ko bol raha hpo tu use bol muze mat kar lekin wo bol nahi rahi hai

      1. mere gf mera mantie nie he or me osa bola ta hu ke to muja bata nie kar nie to vo thode dina bata nie kar te but isa bar kitane dino se vo muja se bata nie kar rha he or mena osa pucha ab kya kar na jo tum ne vade kie ya tha osa ka to osa ne bola ab sab khata ma ho ga ya to ab me kya karo or muja osa ke bhota he yadd aa tie he muja kuch samja nie aa rha he ab me kya karo plzz help me

  3. Hlo dear, shivshi plzz hlp me bcz thoda Sa confused hu , Mai or meri gf HM dono ekk dusre se bht pyr krte hai jeene mrne ki ksme khayi bhtt close hai but achanak usne mjhe bola ki Wo es relationship se sure Ni h but mjhe pta h Wo jhut bolri h par usne bola ki ek reason h bcz within 2 month hmare exams hai or m apna pura tym use dera tha ………. Mera question h ki agr koi reason h to kya Wo sachme reason ki wjh se he dur gyi h or wapas aygi

  4. Mam main ek ldke se boht pyr krti hu but kuch time phle hmri ldai Hui usne meri boht insult ki yeah kehke ki I’m not interested talk wid uh but uss time usne drink ki Hui this main kayi din uss se bat nhi ki usse boht ignore kiya at last usne apni mistake accept ki lekin ab meraa dil kehta ki woh mjhe cheat kr rha h mjhse juth bolta h boht kuch hide krta h but main uski inh hrkto ki wjh se boht hurt hoti hu yeh bat usko ku nhi smjh aati phle kehta tha ki main marriage nhi kr sktaa ab kehta h main marriage krlunga but time aane pr dekhnge yr I’m not toy jb uskaa mann krega bat krne ka krega warna nhi karega main kyaa kru mjhe kuch smjh nhi aa rhaa plzz help me plzz…

    1. Manpreet Dear, is rishte me na to khi koi pyar hai aur na hi tumhare liye khi koi ijjat.. to fir aise relationship me rahne ka koi point hi nhi hai, so just end this relatonship right now. Kabhi bhi apni self respect se compromise mat karo kisi ke liye bhi.

  5. mam ek ladki se meri frndship fb pr hui thi (8 month) phir dhere dhere pyar me bdl gya mai uska bhot jyada care krta tha mere ghr se uska ghr 7 km dur pr h o saari promises krne ke baad last me ghuma fira kr bat krne lagi mai smjh nhi paya aur us ladki ka sport kuchh ladkiya aur kuchh ladke fb pr kiye nd whatsp pr v call se v bat hoti thi use mai kai bar chhoda but o muje hr bar mna leti thi kuchh month bat krne ke baad (saari promise krne k baad) o fir kud ki saadi ki bat krne lagi muje aisa laga ki uski saadi ho rhi h means sb kuchh real me chal raha tha aur maine apni family ke bare me bhi use btaya tha mere mummy papa ki death ho chuki h bachpan me hi sirf mai akela hu nani ke ghr pr rhta hu age 20 yr .. 2 month presan krne ke baad last me confused krke sabut jutai aur fb pr apne frnds ke sath milkr( public me ) msg krvai ki mai use presan kr raha hu or uske smjhane pr v maan nhi rha hu fir fb pr comments krva di …aur o college jati h to mere shop se hote huye jati h to dekh kr smile krti h or krvti h (mere family ki picture mangi thi to maine use diya tha uske upr bhrosa krke aur o v di thi but last me pta chala vo uske family ki nhi thi .. ) mam kya ladkiyo ki soch itni v giri hui ho skti h .. agr bat nhi krni thi to sidhe trike se mna v kr skti thi aisa krne se kisi ko kya fayda ho skta h …. @@@@

    1. Ravi duniya me har kisam ke log hote hai, ache se acha aur bure se bura… so just forget all those things and life enjoy karke jiyo aur khush raho. Us ladki ko bhaav dena band karo, fb, whatsapp, mails sab jagah block kar do use and maje me raho 🙂

  6. Hi mam….
    May ek ladki se pyar karta hun. Wo bhi karti thi but ab nehi karti hai.
    Ab wo jab bhi mujhe dekhti hai to wahan chali jati hai. Baat bhi nehi karti hai.
    May usse bhul nehi pa rahahun.
    Plz mam batao main use kaise razi karu.

    1. Rakesh agar aap use razi karne ki bajaye use bhulane par jor do to vo aapke liye jyada shi rahega.. Ye mat pucha kyu, kyunki main janti hu agar ladki ka man ek bar kisi ke upar se uth gaya uske baad lakh kosish kar lo koi fayda nhi.

  7. Hlo mam mai apse ye puchna chahata hu ki mai ak ladki se pyar karta hu aur vo bhi pyar karti hai hum ak din bhi bina mile nahi rahte the lekin 1 week pahle bo ladki mere se phon par bat kar rahi thi aur uski mammi ne dekh liya uske bad usko mamy papa aur bhai ne mara us din bad vo mere se bat nahi karti usne bola ki apse bat karne ke liye mana kiya hai aur kasam di hai ki dobar a bat karegi to jaan se mar dege vo mujhe dekhti hai par bolti nahi hai uske pas mobile nahi hai mam pls bataiye ma bap ke marne se aur bat nahi karne se kya vo pyar karna kam kar degi ya pyar karti rahegi mera uske bgr man bhi nahi lagta hai mai uska wait karu ya usko bhulne ki kosis karu agr bhulna ho kaise bhule mai bahut pseshan hu pls halp me aise time me mai kya karu pls mam batao jaldi thanks

    1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya peron baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. I think I’ve made my point.

    1. kuch ladki jaan bujh ke aisha baat karti hai taki usse ye pata chale ki aap usse kitna love karte ho so leave her and go back to ur work or study agar raaste me bhi mile to dekh kar ignore kar dena and after some time she will try to tock wid you the you must say sorry ? for ignore you I can’t go for yr friendship because i love you a lot

    2. Vikash : – Agar uske dil me thoda sa bhi pyar hoga to tumhare leay jo wo chupane ki koshish kar rhi hogi to wo zarur response karegi agar nhi ki ignore her forever….

    3. usse baat karna band kar do aur jab wo puchse ki tum usse ignore kyo kar rahe ho to kehna mai tumse bohout pyar karta hu aur mai tumhare sath reh kar tumse dur nhi reh sakta is leay mai tumhe ignore kar raha hu, uske dil me agar kuch hua to wo apne aap ko nhi rok payegi, agar ignore karne ke baad
      kuch nhi puchi to samajh lena wrong no dial karne se koi faida nhi,

    1. Kartik : -Uske man me zarur koi baat hai jise leke wo padeshan si reh rahi hogi aur wo apna frustration aape nikalti hai, aap koshis karo uske man ki baat janane ki agar wo kehti ha mujhe chod do iska matlab ye nhi ki aap such me use chod do,
      wo kitna bhi tention me baat kare aap usse ekdam normal baat karo aur babu, sona, janu, etc. keh pyar se pucho aakir kya baat hai jo wo itnna padeshaan hai aap ye mat puchna ki tum mujhse aishe kyon baat kar rahi ho ya waise kyon to wo ussi behave me baat karegi jaishe wo karti hai,
      meri bhi ek girlfriend thi wo bhi kabhi kabhi ishi tarah gussa ho ke baat karne lagti thi to mai hamesha normal ho jana tha kyoki mai samajh jata tha ki zarur isko ander hi ander koi baat padeshaan kar rahi hai, aur jab mai jaan jata us baat ko to mai us problem se nikalne ka salution use bata deta fir kya hum dono ek ho jate the kuch times ke baad aisha hua ki wo agar koi bhi problem me rehti to direct mujhse share karti thi aap usse ehsaas dilao aap uske sath ho aap usse dur nhi ho sakte kyonki aap use dilo jaa se pyar karte ho aur uski problem aapki pronlem hai so please don’t leave her avi usse aapki zarurat hai so uske dil me dabi baaton ko janane ki koshish karo then am sure you will get better life with yr girlfriend ????

  8. hi mam
    mai ek ldki se bohut pyar karta hoon
    aur mene use kai baar bola k mai use pyar
    karta hu but wo bolti hai k tum mera acha
    dost ho bass.. abhi mai kya karu mam aap
    kuch help Karo please… ..

    1. Aap use bolo Main tumse pyar karta hu vo khegi ki hum sirf dost hai to use bolo ki Tum mujhe dost manti hogi main to tumse dilo jaan se pyar karta hu, tum hi mujhe btao main ye kaise btau tumhe. Vo khud kuch na kuch rasta btayegi 🙂