Mid of May month ki baat hai, Mai guitar sikhta tha phir vo bhi vahi par aayi. Vo or uska bhai guitar sikhne aaye. Thode din ke baad humari baat hone lagi. Daily normal baat hoti thi. Kabhi kabhi main us ki tarif bhi kar deta tha aur bich bich me hum dono ek dusre ko dekhte bhi the. Usne mujhe apne bare me sab kush bta diya tha jaise ki vo kha rahti hai, kha padhti hai etc..

Phir ek din maine us se uski Facebook ID mangi to usne de di. Then maine use FB par request send ki to usne reject kar di. Phir 2-3 din Maine us se baat nai ki. Aur phir uske do tin din ke baad vo classes chod ke chali gyi.

Uske baad Maine kai baar use fir fb pe request send ki but har bar vo reject kar deti hai. Usne facebook pe Complete Privacy ON kar rakhi hai so na hi mai use message kar skta hu aur na hi uski photo ko like ya comment kar skta hu. sirf request send hoti hai or vo use reject kar deti hai.

July ke first week me mujhe uski tusion ka pta chala, phir tin char din se main uske piche ja rha hu. Do teen baar maine us se baat karne ki kosih bhi ki par vo baat hi nai karti, bus dekh ke chali jati hai. Aur jab uske piche jata hu to piche mud mud ke dekhti hai, par baat nai karti. Vo apni friends ke saath jati hai. Vo mujhse 3-4 saal choti hai and vo Hindu hai aur Mai Sardaar hu.

Ab aap btaiye main kya kru ?

My Answer..

Dear Navtej, First of all Welcome to shivshi.com. Dekho dear, jo kuch aapne hume btaya usse hume ye to jrur pata lag gya ki ladki bhi khi na khi aap me interested hai. But vo fully sure nhi hai ki use kya karna chahiye. There are few things jinke karan vo is problem hai ki use aapse baat karni chahiye ya nhi like, aapki aur uski age me 3-4 years ka gap hai which is an issue but still ye utna pada panga nhi hai jitna different cast hona. Apni country me ye cheez ab bhi bhut jyada chalti hai so mujhe lagta hai vo isi baat se darti hai ki is issue ke karan baad me problems aayegi isse acha hai abhi hi baat aage na badhayi jaaye. Ek baat aur ho sakti hai ki uske brother ya uski family ko aapke baare me pta chal gya ho aur unhone use warn kiya ho ki aapse dur hi rahne ke liye.

But ye sab humari soch hai. Ho sakta hai baat kuch aur ho. Like vo kisi aur ko like karti ho ya vo ye sab chakar me padna na chahti ho ya kuch bhi. Asal baat kya hai ye to sirf aur sirf vo hi bta sakti hai.

ladki dekhti hai but baat nhi karti Sardar ladka hindu ladki

Ab facebook par vo request accept kar nhi rhi hai and I’m sure aapke paas uska no. bhi nhi hoga. So only way remains is, Aap usse tuition classes ke raste me hi baat kar sakte ho. Usse bat karne ki kosish karo, ab jaisa ki aapne kha ki aapne usse baat karne ki kosish bhi ki but vo baat nhi karti. To ek hi kaam ho sakta hai, aapko thoda sa kuch time ke liye filmy kisam ka aashiq banna padega. I mean aapko usse raste me hi jabardasti baat karni hogi. Like vo ja rhi hai and aapko saath saath chalna padega and usse baat karne ki kosish karni padegi, uski friends saath me hongi. But don’t worry about them, unse vaise bhi koi fark nhi padta. Bas ek baat ka khyal rakhna ki sare bajar tamasha na ban jaaye. Aur agr ban bhi jata hai to I don’t think ki pahli baar hoga. Because Aashiqui isi ka naam hai friend.

Hope My answer help you in making ur Love and Relationship strong. Please don’t forget to share your Love story with us. Jo bhi ho, hume batana jrur. Now Go and try it. I know it’s a bit of risky but dear Humare paas aur koi chara bhi to nhi hai. Aur kisi ne kha hai Ishq aur jang me sab jayaj hai 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Mere ghar se lagbhag 200meeter door ek new house ban raha tha ek din maine bahan par door se ek ladki ko dekha bo mujhe bhot dekh rahi thi mai pass gaya to bo aur uski sister akele the phir bo apne old house ja rahi thi usne bar bar palat kar dekha uske bad ek mahine bad bo bahin rahene lagi boujhse do class peeche thi bo 9th mai hai jab bo school se ati thi to bah door se mujhe dekhti chali ati thi aur pass ati thi to sar niche kar leti thi aisa kafhi dino tak chala Bo sirf dekhti thi jab mai use hat deta to bo hat bhi nai deti thi aur apni mammi ke samne bilkul nai dekhati thi mai ne use bhot bar hat diya usne kabhi har nai diya aur boujhe akele me dekhti thi friend ke sath bhi bahot kam dekhati thi ek din bo akele coaching ja rahi thi mai uske peeche gaya to bah tej chalne lagi par mai soch a aj to pakka bolenge mere friend ne mujhse kaha ja yr bo acsept karle gi itna dekhti hai fir bhi tu dar raha hai mai uske pass gaya to no ghabragai par maine bol diya i frend ship you usne darkar kaha nai bo sirf nai boli aur seedhe chali gai sham ho gai thi mai aur mera friend ghar gaye to mai dr raha tha ki kahin uski mami mere ghar par na aa jaye mere frend mujhse kah rahe the ki dar mat bo gar par nai kahegi usne ghar par nai kaha do char din mai usse nai mila fhir mai uske samne aya to bo aise dekh rahi thi jaise salon bad mai uske samne aya hun mere friene mujhse kah rahe the ki usne dil se mana nahi kiya hai bo tujhe like karti hai mai bhi samajh gaya ki bo like to karti hai par darti bhot hai ye sri story jaldi ki hai abhi use yahan rahete 2maheene huye hain abhi bhi bo mujhe akele me dekhti hailekin doston bo darti bahot hai bato mai kay a karun mai is samaye uske ghar balo se dosti karne ke lite udhar se nikalta hun par uske ghr balon se kaise bon aur kya bolun mai kabhi kabhi uske chhote bhai se to bat kar leta hun uska bhai abhi second class ma hai please mujhe batao ki mai kya karun its compleceted agar bo dare na aur mujhse dosti karle to bo apne ghar balon ke samne bhi mujhse bat kar sakti hai lekin ek hi problam hai ki bo darti hai

    1. Problem ye hai ki vo abhi ek bacchi hai aur vo jo tumhe dekhti hai use pyar ya aisa kuch mat samjho, bachpan me hum kisi ki taraf attract ho jaate hai but iske koi mayne nhi hote. Behtar hoga tum apne kaam par dhyan do aur apni life me successful banne ki kosish karo.

  2. Hii mam..
    Mai apni kahani barana chahra hu mam k …
    Mere class m ek ladki h jisse mai bohot like karta hu …to mam meri usse baat karneki himmat nhi hoi thio meri ek bohot acchi frnd h mtlb bstfrn h to mai usse bolkr meri settings laga tha to usne khud ki hi setying lagali mere sath aur mujhe propose ki to maine haa boldiy fir bola k mazak karraha tha mai to vo bohot rone lagi vo mujse true lv kart h mam bata plzz l mai ky karuuse ngi b nhi bol sakta mai…bt jise mai like karta hu to vo mujhse baat b nho kryiti to batao mam mai ky kru…..

    1. Use apni Dil ki sabhi baat khul kar bata do, agar use aapme interest hoga to vo is baare me jarur sochegi aur agar aisa nhi hoga to vo Naa keh degi, aisa koi tarika nhi hai jisse ki us ladki se haan karwaya ja sake, jo aapko chahti hi nhi ya aapke baare me is tarah se nhi sochti. So just go and try 🙂

      1. Mam me ek ladki ko like kerta mere colony me he rhete h but vo mujhe jante take nhi per vo jab be bhar nekalte h to mujko dekh ker smile kerte h

        1. Smile karti hai to fir Hi karo agar vo Hi ka sahi tarah se jawab deti hai to no. mango aur ho jaao shuru 🙂

    2. please please help me
      mere ghar k samne wale ghar me jo approx 8 feet ki doori pr h
      ek ladki rehti h i like her
      lekin wo jb bhi mujhe dekhti h to window band kr deti h
      ya bhag jati h
      ya mujhse chipti h
      mujhse eye contact nhi krti
      iska kya mean h
      kya wo mujhe pasand krti h ya nhi
      ya main use disturb krta hun????????
      aur ek bat maine us ladki k chakkar me jaldbazi me uski behen se bat ki usse bol diya i like you to uski badi behen mujhe like krne lgi but main use like nhi krta
      aur jb maine use wo bat btayi to wo boli k uski choti behen tumhe like nhi krti to mujhe uski batein sunke aisa laga k isne apni choti behen (jisko main like krta hun) mere bare me ye nhi btaya k main use like krta hun aur uski choti behen ko ab ye pta h k uski badi behen se meri bat hoti h wo dono rat ko terrace pr khade hoke mujhe dekhti hain aur meri har activity pr nazar rakhti hai yr main kya karun????????
      kaise pata krun uski choti behen mujhe like krti h ya nhi?
      wo mujhe dekh k bhag jati h
      kbhi kbhi smile krti h aur bhag jati h
      ya kbhi kbhi meri nazar uspar padne pr wo apna head dusri taraf kr leti h ya window band kr deti h samajh nhi aa rha kya karun plz btaiye kya wo mujhe like nhi krti
      ya uski badi behen mujhe chala rhi h jise main like nhi krta
      plz plzzzz help me
      plz reply fast i am waiting for your reply

      1. Kisi bhi uski choti sis ka no. nikalo aur use ye baat clear karo ki tum use like karte ho uski badi behan ko nhi aur ye bhi btao ki uski badi sis se tum baat kayu karte ho… Fir vo apna asli rang dikhayegi.. 🙂

  3. hello meri coaching market me h to waha se ek ladki cycal nikalti h aur mujhe dekhti h pr mujhe samjh nhi ata ki usse baat kese karoon pls btaiye

    1. Agar wo aapko roz dekhti hai Simple si baat hai vo chahti hai aap aa kar usse baat karo, confidence ke saath ek Macho man ki tarah. Use aapme interest hai but agar aapne kuch kiya nhi aur bas yun hi dekhte rhe to vo samajh jayegi aapse kuch hone waala hai nhi, aur fir aap jo marji kar lo vo nhi milegi aapko. So Go talk to her… Dosti karo, yha vhan ki baate karo, apne no.s exchange karo, chatting karo, hansi majak karo aur haan uski tareef karna mat bhulna. Fir jab baat ho rhi ho to koi acha sa mauka dekh kar apne dil ki baat keh do.

    1. Ek relationship ka matlab hota hai ki usse hume khushi mile aur hum apne saathi ko khushi de, apne khushi aur gam baante… Agar aapko apne relationship me kisi bhi tarah ki koi problem hai to aapko use jaldi se jaldi solve kar lena chahiye, ye mat socho ki agar aapne aisa kaha to use bura lagega… problem solve karna jyada jaruri hai kyunki agar aapne ye soch ke agar apni issue solve nhi kiya to baad me pachtana padega aur tab aur bhi bura hoga.

  4. Ak larki mujhy bahut psand ha us ki age mujhsy 2 saal ziada ha. Laken jab bhe main us larki ko dekhta hon to wo mujhy bahut hi gussy say dekhti ha aur mujhsy nafrat karti ha. So plz tell me what i do.

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  5. Hello ….. Yek ladki hai jo sab logo ki taraf dekhti hai magar kisine baat ki to vo baat hi nhi krti apna muuu udhar kr leti hai.. Mene jab usse baat ki to vo boli ki muje baat nhi krti mere piche maat aaooo or mene bola thik hai baad me vo phir se piche dekhne lagi to me phir se baat krne laga phir se vo boli ki jao jaldi me baat nhi kr sakti abhi me karu plzz kuch batao plzz…

    1. Kya pata jha par aap usse baat kar rahe ho wha par aas pass koi uska janne wala ho ya uska ghar ho. isliye in baato ka hamesha dhyaan rakhna chaiye.

  6. hii mam
    I likes a girl ,but I don’t know she likes me or not and don’t know how to impress her,she lives near my house but she never gives a good signal
    what to do??

  7. hi
    main ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu…
    par us ladki ko bhi pata h ki main us se pyar krta hu..
    Magr wo kisi or ladke se pyar krti h…
    Or wo jab meri tarf dekti h to dil mai uski tasveer bus jati h…
    or wo kabhi kabhi Gaindda ka phole lekr muj dekati h
    mai us se 3saal se pyar krta hu..
    pr wo us ladke ke sat ab bhi h..
    pr uski najre meri tarf hi rahti h..
    mai kya kru..
    pahele wo muj se bahut nafrt karti thi magr ab to sb theek h ab ni vo jayda nfrt ni krti..
    mai us se kaise baat kru..ap hi kuch kr skte is love stori ka….
    mai chahta hu ki us ladke ke sat uska brckup ho jaye..
    wo mujhe chup chup kr bhi dekti h..
    kaise kru baat ..

  8. Mam ek ldkin hai wo janti thi ki mai use pyar krta hu but aisa nhi tha mujhe uski bhan psnd thi aur mera us ldki se ab dosti bhi nhi hai …. aur uski bhan mujhe dekh k hasti h bat karna chahti hai but mai nahi karta… nht mai karna chahta hu …… kya wo meri gf bnegi…ki nahi

  9. Mein ek ladki se bahut pyar Karta hoon wo meri taraf dekhti thi aisa lagta tha jaise wo bhi mujhe pyar karti hai wo mujhse 2 sall badi hai meine usse bat karne Ki kosish Ki ek bar usane mujhse poocha Ki kya bat hai bolo par Mein ( wo ghar par na bol de ) iske dar se kuch nahi bol paya ab wo mujhe milty bahut kam hai aur milti hai to ignore karti hai Mein kya karoon

    1. Sweet Heart itna daroge to pyar kaise karoge? Dekho is tarah ke kaam me thoda risk lena hi padta hai but ye sabke saath hi hota hai and 99% case me koi ladki apne ghar me is tarah ki baat nhi batati besak use aapse friendship na karni ho tab bhi. Lekin agar koi baar baar tang kare to vo baat alag hai.

  10. Meri shadi jis ladki se hui he wo meri trf dhyan hi nhi deti….thik vese jese dhadkan film me aksy kumar ke sath hota he start me lekin ha meri wife kisi se pyar nhi krti ..muje pkka ykin he

    1. To fir usse ye baat share karo na… Usse is topic par khul kar baat karo lekin lad jhagad ke nhi, pyar se. Use khush rakhne ki kosish karo, apna rishta acha banao, use dikhao ki tum use kitna pyar karte ho fir vo bhi tumse pyar krne lgegi.

    1. Are yaar tumhe itni seedhi baat samajh nhi aati ? Agar to sab theek rha tab to theek hai aur agar koi problem huyi to btana fir hum uska ilaaj dhundhenge, ye matlab hai.

  11. ok shivshi ji thanks me tray karta hu matlab bat karta hu use jo hoga dekha jayega roj roj dekhne se better bat karna hi acha hoga

  12. jay shri krishana shivashi ji
    meri problem ye he shivashi ji ki meri ab tak koi girlfriend nahi hui but muje chahiye lekin jab bhi koi ladki aankho ke samne aa jati he me uske future ke bare me sochta hu ki is ladki ko ager mene kuch bola or ise bura lag gaya to isne aas pass vale logo ke bata diya to me to gaya kam se me sabki care karta hu but meri care koi nahi karta but asa lagta he kash koi hota jo meri bhi care karta to me asa kya karu jo meri problem sol ho jaye care karna chod du ya fir love karna chod du koi bhi pahle dekhti he ladki fir ho gaya uske bad tata by by ab aap hi batao ye bhi koi bat hui. or school life se hi pata nahi mene kabhi ladkiyo se bat ki bhi he ki nai me kya karu

      1. or vo ladki dekhti he ek ladki he but
        mujse bat nai karti bss dekhti rahti he
        or me bhi dekhte rahta hu but dar lagta
        he ki ager use bhura lag gaya to or
        usne apne ghar me jake bol diya to

  13. sir # meri coching per 1 # ladki h % me use bhauth pasand karta hu # per use baat nhi kar pata hu muje daar lagta # h ke baha sir ko na bol de # per m use patana chahta hu # me kya karu plzz help # me m keshe use apne dil ki baat khahu

    1. Mohit daroge to pyar nhi kar paoge.. Jab mauka mile us ladki se baat karo… Dosti badhao… Himmat karo.. fir kisi din mauka dekh kar bol do..

    2. Mohit tum Use ghuma firakar hi batana ki tum use pasand karte ho. Ghuma firakar baaten karne wale ladkon ko ladkiyaan pasand karti han lekin ha Itna bhi mat ghumana firana ki wo tumhe rakhi hi baandh de.

  14. Apki Khushi Me Apke Sath Sirf Vo Hoga Jisse
    Aap
    Pyar Krte Hai smile emotion
    .
    .
    Pr Apke Gum Me Sirf Vahi Sath Hoga
    Jo Apse PYAR Krta Hai…………….

  15. Hello sir ek ladki jo meri classmate h aur me use chahta hu aur abhi mene usse koi baat nhi ki h jab me use dekhta
    hu to wo bhi mujhe dekhti h meri himmat nhi hoti ki me use prapose kru ab me kya kru mujhe asi taknik bataia jisse saap bhi Mar jae aur lathi bhi n tute

  16. hloo m aman .
    m ek ldki ko bht like krta hu or m use roj dekhta hu or vo bhi mjhy delhtii h or smile bhi krtii h pr m nearvas ho jata hu mjhy ye smjh nhii aata ki m use kaise rokku kya kahu use or kya baat kru …

    plss help me
    ~~~

  17. mere ghar k sath mai ek ladki rehti hai.. mai use like karta hu.. pehle wo muje upar chat par aa kar bulati thi orbhut baatein karti thi.. par use acanak pta nhi kya hua ab wo mujhe bulati nhi bss dekhti hai or ander chli jari hai. mai usko bhar khi rok bhi nhi sakta kyuki uska bhai sath hota hai.. uske sath baat krne kaa man bohot krta hai.. prpose bhi ni kr paarha hu dar lgta hai ki wo apne ghar na bta de. mai kya kru??

    1. Aman : – i think use ye ehsas ho gaya hai use tumse pyar ho gaya hai aur wo dar rahi hogi is relationship ko aage badhane me
      tum ussse ishare me baat karo jaishe tumhe uski bohot yaad aati hai xxxyyyzzz jo bhi tum kar sakte ho fir agar wo thoda bhi response deti hai to but l 143 kar dena baat ban jayegi, ☺Ye to done hai ki wo bhi tumhe pasand karti hai aur usse ye ehsas ho gaya hai usse tumse pyar ho gaya hai so daro mat go ahead and try to perpose her

      Best of luck ??

      1. Good Suggestion Gautam. Kya aap is website par writer ban kar Tips and Stories share karna pasand karoge ?

          1. Gautam, aisa karo aap mujhse is post ke niche comment karo baat karo. Yha hum dono hi chat karenge kyunki yha koi aur comment nhi karta and main aapko btaungi ki aapko kya topic par tips likhne hai…

  18. Rishab ji aap ek aisa naiiya pe pair rakhna chahte ho jis naiiya me nichey se ched(hole) hua ho . . Samajh me nai aya ? Ham samajhate hai . .

    Ap yeah chahte hai k ladki apke baton me akar khud k bf ko chodkar apke pas ajaye . .
    Chalo manliya k wo futre me apke hogayi . . Bt wo ayegi to apne bf ko ditch karke na . . Agar ek ladki uske bf ko ditch karpayegi apke liye . . To futre me kisi aur k liye apko v ditch karne ka chance baht hai . .

    Bhai sarkari zameen pe ghar karogey to ek na ek din ghar tutega . . Yad rakhiyo

  19. Sardarji . . Apki prblm thoda critical hai . . Uske liye v solution . . Bt uske liye u need a lot of patience . . Coz is prblm ko solve karne k wakt baht sare frustrations and iritations ayengey . . Bs insab ko ignore karneka aur apne target k aur jee jaan se badhneka . .

    Wel apke baton k anusar agar ladki apko thoda atentn deti hai . . Isse yeah pata chalta hai k ladki religion k mamle ko lekar itna v strict nai hai . . Han unke man me yeah dar hoga k is pyar ko unke gharwaley acept karengey ya nai . . Dis is my prediction bt agar asli mamle k bare me janna hai to pehle unke doston sath cntct badhao . . Isse kayin faidey hongey . . Ek yeah hai ki unke doston k sath cntct badhane se ap unke doston k karibi hosakte hai . . Isse apko unke doston se asli reasn ka pata chaljayega . . apke liye unke dostn k dil ek pity(daya , rehem) type ka sentiment create hoga . . Jiske wajese wo dost log khud ladki ko convince karneki v koshish karenge . .
    Aur wo ladki khud v realise karegi k sardar ji is tryng hard to create every type of possiblity for setlement of problem . .
    Oye uske bad to balle balle hojani hai . .

    Now atlast i want to say one thng . . Chahe kuch v ho . . Kitna v taklif kyun na ho . . Man me jitne v udasi kyun na aye . . Bt stil last moment tak dil se koshish karna . . Taki agar uske bad v koi result na mile . . To atleast dil me yeah afsos nai rahega k “thoda aur taklif karte to shayad hojata”.
    I wish apka pyar successful ho

  20. Mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hun
    Vo bhi mijhase pyar karti hai
    Lekin kujh persnal nok jhok ki wajah se garsion me kuchh bata bati ho gaya hai

    Aaj lagbhag 6mahina ho gaya na koi phone call na kuchh hal chal bhi nahi pucha to aap ye bataye ki kya vo mujhse Aaj bhi pyar karti hogi
    Mai bhi uske baad ghar gaya nahi hun kya kru

    1. Mere khayal se to vo aapko bhul chuki hai aur aap bhi usse koi pyar nhi karte, vo jo tha vo pyar nhi sirf ek attration tha jo hum kisise lambe time tak sab baat share kare to ho jata hai. Don’t worry about it. Doston ki tarah baat kar sakte ho ab bhi usse lekin iske liye koi bhut mehnat karne ki jrurat nhi. Baat hoti hai to theek nhi hoti to koi baat nhi.

  21. shivshi

    Main ek ladki se bht Lv krta hu but woh krti h mer se pta ni mko woh Dekh ti b or smile b krti h fb pe bt b krti h face 2 face b bt krti h xo uska inbich ek bf h xo toh mai kya kr ru asa Jo woh mko mil jay woh plzz tell me answer rk

    1. Jab vo kisi aur ke saath relationship me hai to aap uski relationship tudwana chahte ho apne matlab ke liye. That’s too bad.. :/

      1. लोग कहते हैं ज़मीं पर किसी को खुदा
        नहीं मिलता,
        शायद उन लोगों को दोस्त कोई तुम-सा
        नहीं मिलता……!!
        किस्मतवालों को ही मिलती है पनाह
        किसी के दिल में,
        यूं हर शख़्स को तो जन्नत का पता नहीं
        मिलता……….!!
        अपने सायें से भी ज़यादा यकीं है मुझे तुम
        पर,
        अंधेरों में तुम तो मिल जाते हो, साया नहीं
        मिलता……..!!
        इस बेवफ़ा ज़िन्दगी से शायद मुझे इतनी
        मोहब्बत ना होती
        अगर इस ज़िंदगी में दोस्त कोई तुम जैसा
        नहीं मिलता…!!