Har rishte me utar chadhav aate hai, Har ladki aur Ladke ke relationship me bhi aisa hota hai. Kyi baar kisi karan ki vajah se aap apna relationship continue nhi rakhna chahte aur apne boyfriend se Break Up karne ki sochte hai.

Kyi baar Break Up karna utna dard bhara nhi hota jitna sach batana. Lekin, aapko ek shi aura acha tareeka apnana chahiye jab aapko apne BF ko sach btana ho aur BreakUp karna ho. Mostly ladkiyan Break Up karne ke liye ladkon ke saath bhut bura karti hai. Agr aapka rishta acha rha to aapko use galat tarike se khatam karke barbad nhi karna chahiye. Aapko galat tarike se Break up karke apne relationship ke achi yaadon ko kharab nhi karna chahiye. Ho sakta hai future me kabhi aap apne ex se milo aur fir se friends banne ki socho lekin agr aapne abhi galat way se Break Up kiya to kal aapme uske saamne jaane ki bhi himmat nhi hogi.

Tips : Ek Khoobsurat Ladki ko Kaise Impress Krein.

Vaise to break up hona hi nhi chahiye lekin fir bhi kabhi aisi situation ho jaaye ki Break Up ke alawa koi aur rasta hi na bache to Hum yha Break Up se related kuch points le kar aaye hai jinse aap ek Break up ko bhut bura ya kharab Break Up hone se bacha sakte hai. Taki baad me kabhi aapko apne kiye par pachtava na ho.

BreakUp Karne Ke Galat Tarike

1. Chupna

BoyFriend Se Break karne Ke Liye Chupna

Yakeen maniye isse aapko koi fayda nhi hoga kyuki aapke boyfriend ko pta hi nhi hoga ki aap aisa kyu kar rhi ho. Vo aapko milne ki kosish krega aur puchega ki – “Kya Problem Hai?” Aapka boyfriend aapko lagatar Messages aur Call karta rhega jab tak aap use sach nhi bta deti.

2. Hum Friends Rhenge

Hum Hamesha Dost Rhenge - Hum Hamesha Friends Bane Rhenge

Hum hamesha Friends bane rahenge sunne me besak acha lag sakta hai lekin ye cheez aap dono ke liye situation ko aur muskil bna dega. Kyuki aap ek relationship me reh chuke ho isliye aap friends bane nhi reh sakte. Uske liye aapko Only as a Friend accept karna bhut muskil hoga aur is tarah aap use jyada dukh dogi.

3. Common Friend Ko Use Karna

Kisi Common Friend Ke Jariye Break Karna

Ye ek bachon wali harkat hogi aur ek darpok character ki nisani bhi. Agr aapme ek relationship start karne ki himmat thi to aapko sach batane ki himmat bhi khud karni chahiye. Himmat karke bolna acha rhega bajaye iske ki kisi common friend ke jriye apna message bf tak phuchana.

4. Dhokha Dena

Break Up Karne Ke Liye BF se cheat karna

Agr break up karne ka sabse bura koi tareeka hoga to vo ye hi ho sakta hai. Isse aapke boyfriend ko bhut jyada dukh pahuchega aur vo kuch galat action bhi le sakta hai. Isse aapke new relationship me bhi problems ho sakti hai kyuki new bf ye jrur sochega ki jab aapne pahle BF ke saath dhokha kiya to uske saath bhi kar sakti ho. Cheezon ko aur bura karne ki bajaye himmat aur imandar banke apne boyfriend ko sach btana jada acha rhega.

5. Text Message Bhejna

Message Bhej ke Break Up Karna

Ye aapke liye bhut aasan ho sakta hai ki – `Its Over` likh ke send kar dena aur apni taraf se sab khatam kar dena par ye sach me ek bhut hi bura tareeka hoga Break Up Karne ka. Aapko use ye btana chahiye ki – Kya Galat Hua aur aap kyu unke saath Apna relationship continue nhi karna chahti.

6. Apna Behaviour Badalna

Apna Behaviour Kharab Karna

Agar aapko aisa lagta hai ki aap uske saath bura bartaav karke aur use neecha dikha kar apna kaam nikal lengi to ye aapki bhul ho sakti hai. Ho sakta hai isse aapke boyfriend ko baat theek se samajh na aaye aur rishta aur bhi jyada kharab ho jaaye.

7. Facebook Par Apna Relationship Status Change Karna

Facebook Ke Through Break Up Karna

Agar aap facebook par apna relationship status `In a relationhip` ya `Engaged` se badalkar `Single` kar do to ho sakta hai aapka boyfriend ye dekhne wala last insaan ho ya ye bhi possible hai ki vo ye dekhe hi na! Ye break up karne ka sabse ghatiya tareeka mana jata hai. Aapke sab friends ko is baat ki khabar ho jayegi aur jise honi chahiye vo anjan rhega.

8. Public Me Break Up Karna

Public me Break Up Karna

Agr aapne public me Break Up ki baat ki to ho sakta hai aapka Boy friend sabke samne aapke saath galat behave kare aur aapka drama ban jaaye. Ye Boyfriend se Break up karne ka tarika ek bevkufi bhara tareeka mana jayega.

Agr aapko diye huye Break Up Karne Ke Tarike me koi point galat laga ho ya aap is baare me kuch kehna chahte ho to niche diye huye comment box me aap apne man ki baat likh sakte hai vo hum tak phuch jayega. Agr aapke paas koi Khani, Tips ya suggestion hai to jrur share karein. Koi problem ho to puche, hum aapko help jrur krenge 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Hello mam. Shuru karta hu me ek chotisi haqikat ek bhut bade sadme k saath me ek midel class faimly SE hu mera realition ek college girl SE takriban 6 saal SE chal Tha us bich humari bhut ladai Hui fir piya r ho jaata Tha m usse itna piyar nai krta tha vo be shumar karti thi fir ek din achanak usne mujhe​ bulaaya or kahnevlagi k aaj sub kuch khatam kar let hai me khush hua or mene phuch kiu kiya hua bus u hi mene ka aap khush ho boli ha or fir usle blade nikala or apna hath kaat liya me bhut ghbra gaya k ye kiya hua hum jaldi SE use Dr k yaha le Gaye or Dr NE kaha k yaha kuch nai ho sakta aap isko meerut le jaao or inki panch nase Kat chuki h me or ghbra gaya Dr k yaha Gaye Dr NE ek laakh ka kharch or medicine alag SE kaha ab karna to Tha hi Mene finens par pese uthaye or medical shuru karaya ghar vaalo ko mere pata chal gaya or vaha koi nai aaya me akela kiya karta mene apni saas ko vaha bulaaya or bus fir kuch thik hua boli mujhe aabto nai chdoge mujhe use it a piyar ho gaya k me pagal ho gaya har jagah bus vohi uski baat uski badai karne laga or mere saare dosto ne meta saath chod diya mujhe kuch dhukh nai hua ye mere saath h to sab kuch hai lekin imtihan to meta b hona hi tha..Achanak usne mujhe phone karna milna ek dum band kar diya ek mahina ho gaya uska kuch pata nai k vi kha h…Bhut duaao mannate maangne k baad ek din vo meri shop par aai or ek dumse boli k meta rishta ho gaya or agle mahine shdi h or mujhe bhul jaao esa kabhi hot h mene bolo thik h aap jaao vo gai or mene jubhi alprex ki 62 goli khai or rail way line par jaakar let gaya lekin kuch dosto ko pata chala me to behosh hi ho gaya Tha 6 din me mujhe hosh aayi (Agar aapko aage ka hadsa sunna h to please bata Dena )

  2. hello mam mera name pooja hai mai apne bf se breakup chahti hu qki mujhse usse pyar nahi hai hm 2years relation mai rahe hai pr mai kisi or se pyar karti hun isliye mai apne bf se breakup krna chahti hu pr wo mujhse breakup ni kar raha qki wo bolta hai mai tumse pyar karta hu or agr tum meri nahi hui to mai tumhe kisi or ka nahi hone duga tumhe or tumhari family ko barbaad kar duga mai bahut badi problem mai hu mam plz help me plz mujhe mre bf se breakup karna hai bina kisi problem ke plz uska name chetan h jisse mai breakup karna chahti hu plz help me.

    1. aap uske sath thore din raho fr bolo yr aese rehne ka kya faida jab mera man nahi lgta is baat ko maturely handle kare. ek baat ka khayal rakhe ki apne new bf ki baat ko avoid kare isse aapke present bf ko gussa asakta hai aur aapka kaam bigard jaiyega.

  3. hii m sapna, mai ek ldke se bt pyar krti hu but kuj time se bilkul hi change ho gya hai abi 2 din phle usne muje btaya ki wo kisis ldki ke sath physical relation me hai , n jab mene kuj bola to khne lga meri life hai mere rule hai , tu meri gf hai to tuje sb bta diya , us ldki ne muje invite kiya kud to mna nhi kr paya , ab mai iska kya mtlb smjhu , agr mujhse pyar krta to kisis ldki ke sath one night stand thodi jata . aap hi btao mao kya kru , 🙁

    1. Simple aur saaf saaf bata rahi hu – Vo tumse koi pyar nahi karta, ye kahe ka pyar hua ki ladki ne bulaya to main khud ko rok nahi paaya, Stupid. Mujhe nahi lagta aise nature waale ladke ke saath tum khush reh paogi Sapna, aage tumhe pata hai kya karna hai.

  4. hii mam mera naam Dheeraj hai meri ek gf thi me bahut pyar krta hun usse pehle hum msgs me bat krte the phone pe firr uska what’s app aa gya par kuch time se muje LGA ki uska interest kam hota ja Rha hai pta nhi kyu mene pucha ki koi bat hai to keh do par kuch nhi kaha firr uske baad usne mujhse break up kr liya yeh kehkar ki mere parents ko sad nhi kr sakti isiliye hum bat nhi krenge kyunki hamari shaadi nhi ho sakti yeh bhi kaha hamare msg bhai ne padh liya jabki wo gaon me thi or uska bhai ghar pe us ne khud btaya tha or ab usne muje block kr diya hai me kya kru kuch samjh nhi aa RHA

    1. Agar wo itna move on kar sakte hai toh aap kyu nahi? aap apne self respect ko maintain kar ke rakho, agar apne ek baar koshish kar lie aur wo phir bhi fake reason deke aapko chod ke chale he gaye hai toh matlab ab wo apse koi contact nahi rakhna chahte aur indirect symbol ki ap bhi use bhul jao aur apne aap ko kahi aur busy rakho. wo apke liye bane hi nahi the.

  5. hey..m ek larki se pyar krta hu..bt wo mere cast ki nai h..mere ghrwale pata nai manenge ya nai..log kehte h agr tumne use sadi ki tumhari bhen se koi sadi nai krega..tumare bacho se koi ni krega..mai kya kru batao ap..wo bhi mujse krti h pyar

    1. Ghar waalon se discuss karna hi hoga aur agar vo permission nhi dete hai to aapko samajhna hi hoga ki kya sahi hai aur kya nhi, aapko jab pata chal jayega ki kya sahi hai fir vo karo.

  6. Madam mera dost ka gf thi use mai pta liya hu ,mai usse kvi mila nahi hu qki dr lgta hai isliye ki vo bolti hai mai aapse sadi krugi madir me mai avi pg 1st sem me hu ydi sadi avi kruga to mera family mujhe padhi chhorva dege mai kya kru plz btaye n

    1. Agar aapko is baat se darr lagta hai to aapko us ladki ko chord kar api padai ki taraf dhyaan dena chahiye.

    1. Dear to karlo breakup or koi new gf dhundho kyunki ladki ko jab aap se milne me hi interest nahi hai to koi to jhool hai.

  7. Mai apne bf se pehle jb bht jyada irritate feel krti ti qki wo bewajah mujhpe bht doubt krta ta mai khush ni rehti ti so mai usse dur rehne lgi ti mai dusre bf bna li gusse me but fir v ye mujhse bht pyar krta ta mai isse sbkuch sach bol di ti ,dusre bf flirti ta is baat ka jb pta chla toh mai use ignor kr di mai flirti ksath kv serious v ni ti but first bf mujhpe kv believ ni krta ta.but mai first k sath jitni close ti utna uske sath kv ni but iska mera kisi sath baat krna v pasand ni ta.hm intercaste hone k karan shadi ki baat ni soch pate te qki hmdono family k against kuch ni krna chahte te dusra apne caste ka ta so hm sath te usne mujhse shadi ka proposal diya ta but uski shadi fix ho gyi ti aur mujhse jhot bolta ta jiskaran mai apne first bf ko bht hurt ki av hmdono sath hn but ab ye mujhse pehle ki tarah love feel ni krta but dur v ni jana chahta bolta hmari shadi possible ni h mai tera kv ni ho sakta uske ghr me v sbko pta ta mai ise bht rulayi apni mommy se v sbkuch bola ta,bolta h pehle kuch possibility v ti but ab kuch ni ho sakta mai sbkuch accept krti hu smjh ni pati kya karu mai usse hmesha baat krna chahti mujhe kisi boy k sath comfort feel ni hota hmari long distance relationship ti 3yr se av v h bolta jbtk jo chal rha chlne do mai bht tnsn feel krti hu .mai schl k tym kisiko mentali bht love krti ti mujhe jaldi kisi boy se jaldi attraction ni hota iske sath 1yr jb ti tb mujhe love jyada feel ni hota ta qki ye mujhse love krata so iske sath ti so iske doubtful reaction se ise bht hurt ki jb mai iske sath pehle ki tarah hu aur iske love k karan mai mentaly khudko smjha li ti but ab iske dur jane k dar se stress feel krti hu

    1. To dear yehi sari feelings o aap ne mere sath share ki wohi sari baatein use btao wo fir se pahle jaisa ho jayega kyunki uska aapke liye jo pyaar hai wo abhi bhi hai bas wo isliye ab jyada show nahi karta ki kahi aap fir se na chord kar chale jao. Isiliye time rehte rehte use sab kuch bta do.

  8. hello please help me
    mujay ek larki sa love ha yeh attraction hai i dnt knw
    but pata nahe khu mujay us pay yaqeen ni hota ha is waja sa mai usay bhoolna chattta hu koi tariqa btao jis sa mai us ki taraf attract na hu wo zinda rahay yeh na rahay mjy koi faraqa ni parna chayh soo please mujay btao mai aca kya krun kay mera intrest us may sa kahtam hoo jaya hamaysha kay lea

      1. Hlo mam ..mra jo bf hai ausne muje phle bola ke muj PR trust kr mai tere se dilse sacha pyar krta hu aur India aa kr ghar baat kruga tere liye wo India aya wo sahi tha phle mre sath mre mom ko be ausne bola ke mai apke beti se shadi kruga but ab 2 month se wo mre se ache se baat nhi kr RHA muje ab bol RHA hai ke muje ab kisi ke sath be relation rakhne mai interest nhi hai mai kyu shadi kru tere se mai apne ghar walo ke pasand se kruga aur hum ache dost ke terah ab rhte hai ..mam muje samj nhi aa RHA itna pyar krne wala insaan kaise bdl skta hai itne jldi ..mam mai toh chahte hu ke muje pta chle ke baat hai kya but kaise pta chlega muje.plzzz mam help me

        1. Hello Kainaat,

          Dekho dear, us ladke ki niyat me koi na koi khot jarur thi isliye time aane par vo badal gaya, ho sakta hai usne tumse kisi lalach me ya kisi umeed me ye sab kaha ho par baad me use pata chala ho ki, uska matlab pura nahi ho sakta isliye usne apna asal rang dikha diya. Ya fir ye bhi ho sakta hai ki uske ghar walon ki taraf se koi problem ho. Ab aap usse bas ek baat clear karne ko bolo ki, Theek hai tum pyar nahi karte aur shaadi nahi karna chahte par tumne pahle mujhe vo sab kyu kha tha, tum mujhe ye batao tumhe khuda ki kasam hai sach sach btao ki tumne pahle vo sab kyu kha tha.

          Ho sakta hai usme thoda bhi zameer ho to vo tumhe at least sach reason bata de. Aur reason kuch bhi tumhe niras hone ki jarurat nahi hai, yakeen mano Upar waala jo karta hai ache ke liye karta hai, Khuda me vishwas rakho aur apni zindgi ek positive attitude se jiyo. Khush raho aur apne aas pas walon ko, apni Ammi Abbu ko khush rakho. Tension le ke aur dukhi ho ke kuch nhi milta.

  9. Mera nam akash hai me hindu hu mujhe 1muslim larki se pyar hua hai jishka nam hai juhi.hum dono ek dussare se bhut pyar karte hai.juhi k mom dad ko juhi ka shadai karna hai wo uske liye 1larka bhi chun liye hai,shayed kuch din bad un dono ka shadai hone wala hai.ye bat humdono ko pata hai.wo shadai karne ko nahi man rahi hai.or hum apne pyar ko khona nahi chahate aisha hua to hum apne jan de bethe ge,or ye sun kar wo bhi apna jan de bethi gi hum kya kare.plz jaldi bataye,ham dono ka life ap k hatto me hai.

  10. Mera nam akash hai me hindu hu,mujhe 1muslim larki se pyar hua hai jishka nam hai juhi.humdono ek dussre se bhut pyar karte hai.juhi k papa juhi k liye 1rishta bhejhe wo larka aur juhi ka kuch din bad shayed sadi ho jayega.par juhi abhi bhi bolte hai ki wo humse pyar karti hai.hum kya kare plz bitaye.warna hum is gum me apna jan de beithe ge.

    1. Dear pahle to aap juhi se ucho ki kya wo aap se shadi karna chahti hai agar wo han bolti hai to aap aapne parents se baat karke unhe uske ghar bhejo or agar tab bhi baat nahi banti to curt marriage karlo baad me time ke sath sab thik ho hi jayega.

  11. Mem mai meri gf se bhot pyar karta hu lekin hum log ke bich jagada huaa ek din usko manane gaya to maan gayi but meta mobile ki memory uske paas hi reh gayi or usme dusri ladkI ki sath pic thi or usse sab pata chal gaya mem wo muhse break up kar li or bhot gussa hai abhi bolti hai mera dusra koi mil gyaa usme ksam bhi khayi lekin mem mai usse pyar karta hu bhot mai kya kari aap hi bolo plxzz aisa kuch jisse wo wapas aajye maaan hi nhi rahi hai

    1. Hello
      vishwjeet kese ho aap. Hum ne abhi abhi aapka mgs pada or aapki parsaino ko bhi samjha.vishwjeet agar aap bura na mane to hum aapse kuch puche

  12. Main ek larki ko pasand krta hn wo bhi mujhy pasand krtu ha lekin wo bht moti ha ghr walo ko or mere friends se bhi milwaya pr kisi ko bhi pasand ni i.or wo bht km baat krti ha milti ha to bht pyar jtati ha lekin mobile py zyada baat ni krti.or koi galti hojayee to kafi sunna deti ha.main relation khatam krna chahta hn.ap btayee kya kro.

  13. me ek ladki se bhut pyar karta hu aur wo bhi mujhe bhut jyada pyar karti h hmare relationship ko 5 year ho gye h aur iske aur mere doni ke ghar walo ko pta h hmare bare me …hmane shadi karne aur sathme jindgi bitane ke vade kiye the bt ek din wo mujhe bolti h me apse shadi nhi kar sakti coz mere mom dad nhi maan rhe aur breakup kar liya mujhse to mujhe kya karna chaiye uske bhul nhi sakta …i want revenge …kya karu

    1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya person baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. or sath hi dear ye 21th century ab cast ko bich me lane ka t koi matlab hi banta. I think I’ve made my point.

  14. Mera name smayarahai mai apne bf se bhut pyar krti hu wo bhi krta h but wo mujhse jayda baat ni krta or nahi khud call krta h agr me karu to bhi kch na bolke call kut kar deta h wo mujhse baat hi ni krta mujhe samjh ni aa raha h mai kya karu plzzzz aap meri help koro mere 2 year ka relationship h…

    1. Shayad ab uska aap par interest kum ho gya hai ya use koi or mil gayi hai Bas aapko pata lgana hai ki kya sach me aisa hai ya nahi

  15. Hi
    I’m sanaya
    Mene apse pehle bhi advice ly thi
    Me wo hu jo kabhi apne bf se mili nahi
    Fb par mili thi real me kabhi nahi mili
    Kuch din pehle mere bf ne muje uski guzre hui zindgi ke bareme bataya ke wo pehle ek larki se pyar krta ta or wo larki bhi lekin us larki ki shadi hone wali thi or uss ne larki ko pucha ke mujse pyar he to me sab rok du ga tum batao to uss larki ne kaha nahi he tum se pyar to shadi ke baad bhi wo larki 4 bar usse mil or roi i mere bf ne usse ring wagera gift ki lekin usne wo sab apni freind ko de di
    Or ab wo kheta he ke me usse bhula chuka hu nafrat karta hu lekin muje esa nahi lagta mene uss ke sath thik baat kr rahi hu lekin mera dil kheta he ke wo mujse pyar nahi karta kyu ke uss ne uss larki ke liye jo jo kiya wo kabhi mere liye nahi kiya wo yaqeen to kara raha he lekin muje samaj nahi aa rahi
    Me uuse bohot pyar krthi hu
    1 minut ke liye mujse door hota he to pareshan ho jathi hu
    Aap batao me kya kru

      1. hello dear Mam
        meri relationship ko 2 din huye h
        m ush ldke ko ,1 year se like krti thi
        usne mujje av purpose kia to mene accept kr lia
        usne mujje apne past k bare m btya
        uski gf thi 7 year relatiinship thi uske sath
        dono k beech sex v hua
        pr girl ne kisi or se shadi kr li

        mujje acha lga ki mere bf ne sach btya
        aj usne mujje bola ki m tumse bht pyar krta hu
        m tumko pura chahta hu pana chahta hu

        mene usko bola ki m kbhi b apke sath sex nhi krungi jb tk hmri shadi nhi hogi

        usne bola ki ham pyar krte h agr apko mujjh pr trust h to kar skte ho kuch soch smjhkr apko bola ye sb

        ishi bat pr m gussaa thi
        or usko gud bye bol dia
        fr
        jb usko dubara msg kia to mujje rply hi nhi kr rha h
        bht gussa h or hurt b hua h wo shyad

        m usko kese manau plzzz btao

        1. Sach bolu to yehi ladko ki game hoti hai wo aise hi ladkiyon ko sab kuch bata kar ladkiyon ki sympathy pana chahte hai taki wo us ldki ka use kar sake sex ke liye, or ladkiyon ko befkuf bna kar unse paise lut sake saaf or sidhi baat hai ki wo ladki ka use kar sake. orab aapko bas ye karna ki ek baar usse baat karne ki koshsh wo me sirf isliye bol rahi because you like him lekin agar wo aapse sach me pyaar karta hoga to wo samajh or sex ke liye nahi bolega or agar wo fir bhi sex ke liye bolta rehta hai. To fir aapko usse breakup kar lena chahye, kyunki wo aapse kabhi bhi shadi nahi karne wala hoga. Isiliye dear beware from that kindoff boys.

    1. Bas fir ho gaya kaam, ab aap bhi apne kaam par lag jaao… prem khani itni hi thi… Itni si baat samajh nhi aati aap logon ko… ya samajh ke bhi samajhne ki kosish nhi karte..

    1. Shayad use ki problem jis karan wo aapko time nahi de pa rha ho aapko usse is bare me baat karni chahiye or yehi feeling use show karni chahiye or fie agar wo aapko apni problem btata hai to uska sath de or agar fir bhi wo wesse hi karta hai iska matlab use koi or mil gayi hai or aapko usse breakup karlena chahiye

  16. MA ak ladke se bhut PYAR KARTE hu mari relationship ko 3 year huge ha par laken wo merese phle jaise PYAR nhe karta or mj phela ki thara kabi time nhe deta ha or nhe PYAR karta ha

  17. Me ak ladke se bhut PYAR KARTE hu or mara ghar ma bhi sab ko pata ha ki ma USSE PYAR KARTE hu ha mari relationship ko 3 year huge ha par laken wo merese phle jaise baat nhe karta or mj phela ki thara kabi time nhe deta ha

  18. DEAR- shivishi – meri gf ne mje buri trike se dhoka diya hai .. muje bhot heart hua hai .. kya mai uske upr matti ka tel fek skta hu .. ya fir acid kon sa choose kroo kuch smjh me ni aa rha h mje,..

    1. No dear aap aisa kuch mat karo or uske bare me nahi apne parents ya family ke bare me socho or apni life ki ek new shuruwat karo

  19. Hi..mam mera nam swapnil hai me india me rahta hu me hindu hu or ek larki se bhot pyar karta hu sayad wo itna mujha se nahi karti hogi ham 4year pahle facebook par mile the meri gf muslim hai or pakistan me rahti hai ham pahle bhot bat karty the aj wo mujha se itni bat nahi kar rahi nahi us k pass mere leye koi waqt hai hamari shadi tak bat bhi agaye aj kal har choti bat par ghusa karti har bat par chor ne ka bolti or meri care vi nahi karti or ghuse me ye tak bolti ki jao kisi or se kar lo mam me us se true love karta hu me bhot paresh rahta hu us ko me bhot pyar karne ki kosis karta hu har bar me apni galti man kar mana ta hu par wo bhot bhaav khati hai mam me nahi us k bina G sakta hu or us k nahi milne par tadap ne lag ta hu mam nahi wo mujhe cl karne deti na khud cl karti me agar cl kar ta hu to bhot ghusa ho jati wo bolti ki “apne cl qu laga ya aj k bad cl mat karna thik” mam me raat din bhot pareshn rahta me us k leye india vi chor raha us k leye islam bhi qabul kar raha tha mam us k leye meri ye halat ho gayi ki me sab kuch chor ne par majbur ho gaya or us ko hindu log pasn vi nahi hai wo hindu k bare me bhot bura sochti or bolti mam mene us ko hazar bar samjha ya ki koi vi dharm bura nahi hota sab insan hi hoty fir vi wo bolti rahi fir me mene us ki har galti ko nazar andaj kara kal meri gf ne mazak mazak me kaha ki “me mom ko bolte hon jo apke bhan ka beta moga pasn karta hai uosa boldo ayesha na han karde or ab khus ho moga ghusa dalaka” mene kaha ki plz Ayeshu mere se kia galti hui i am sory plz mujhe dhoka mat do wo boli “bolo han boldon wo mera pecha 2year sa para hai meri aunty ka larka hamza nam hai us ka” mene kaha ki plz mere vishwas k sath esa mat karo us ne kaha “ary me mazak kar rahi thi wo chota hai” mene kaha wk chota hai to fir pyar kesa bad me kahti ki ” hamza ek bada larka vi hai” fir mene kaha jao kar lo mera or dil toddo fir boli ” acha ab me hamza se karogi” mam me ko bhot rulati mam mujhe kuch samjh nahi ataki wo meri hogi vi nahi wo apni maa bap yaha tak apne allah ki vi jhut kasm khati or ek msg ka jawab ab 30min bad deti ya kavi ati hi nahi me subah se raat k 2,3 bajy tak us ka intjar karta rahta aj vk larki mujhe nahi samjh rahi ya me us ko nahi samjh parha ki akhir kya chal raha kia chahti mam na chor sakta na or kuch me ko bhot yad ati bhot tadap ta hu or me attract hu us se mam mujhe nahi lagta ki me us k bina G bhi sakuga ya nahi or ab esa lagta ki fb meri zindagi se jud chuka me jitna fb se dhur hone ki kosis karta meri gf ki yad ajati mam kya wo mujhe dhoka deri hai ya nahi par wo mujhe 4year me bhot bar chor chuki fir apna leti plz help me…!!

    1. Ek relationship ka matlab hota hai ki usse hume khushi mile aur hum apne saathi ko khushi de, apne khushi aur gam baante… Agar aapko apne relationship me kisi bhi tarah ki koi problem hai to aapko use jaldi se jaldi solve kar lena chahiye, ye mat socho ki agar aapne aisa kaha to use bura lagega… problem solve karna jyada jaruri hai kyunki agar aapne ye soch ke agar apni issue solve nhi kiya to baad me pachtana padega aur tab aur bhi bura hoga.

  20. Yr plz help me meri gf ne mgse brkup le liya bina kuch bataye kooi reason nii diya i love her me use mila mene face 2 face puchaa tbi kuch ni bli sirf iitna kaha ki me relatin me ni rehna chati me kya karu

    1. Bas fir ho gaya kaam, ab aap bhi apne kaam par lag jaao… prem khani itni hi thi… Itni si baat samajh nhi aati aap logon ko… ya samajh ke bhi samajhne ki kosish nhi karte..

  21. Me ek ladka se bahut pyr karta tha par wo mjh bar bar breakup karta tha phr v me use ni bhul pati thi jab wo mere pas aata tha tavi me wapas uske pas aajati thi par me jab suni ki uska bahut sare ladkion k sth flote karta h to me use dur jana chahti hn par mjh wo bahut bahane marta h … plzz help me me use kese dur jaun????? Me use mana ki phr v wo mjh mere purane yaaden ko taja kara deta h… ar me janti hn wo mjh phrse dhoka dega… plzz help

    1. Dekho friend jha tak mera manna hai aapko uske past se koi farak nahi padhna chahiye, lekin agar usne aapko dhoka diya hai pahle bhi to fir to aapko usse direct breakup karlena chahiye. Lekin agar usne aapko kabhi dhoka nahi diya or aapko lagta hai ki wo aapko sach me pyaar karta hai to fir to ek mauka to banta hai ladke k liye.

    1. Usse saaf saaf bata do kyunki be-wajah apni life ko complicate bnane ka to koi matlab hi nahi banta jab aapke dil me uske liye koi feelings hi nahi hai.

  22. mem mera aaj hi break up hua he hum dono alg cast se he usne bola meri shadi kaho or fix krdi gai he or vo b shyd hrt ho rhi he me kya kru mem me use kya kahu jisse meri jaan kisi or se shadi naa kre me unse shadi krna chahta hu plllzzz help me me unke ek pal nai reh skta ????

    1. Aapko usse baat karni chahiye k wo chahti kya hai uske baad hi koi decision lena hoga aapko kyunki agar wo apne gharwalo ke khilaf ja kar aap se shadi nahi karna chahti hogi to fir to aap bhi kuch nahi kar sakte. Isiliye sabse pahle ladki se akele me mile or achi tarah baat kare.

  23. mai ek ldke se bhot pyar krti hu humare relation ko 2 years ho chuke h but ab vo mujse pyar nhi krta suddenly usne mujse brkup kr liya ab vo mujse baat b nhi krna chahta kahta h k ab m tumse pyar nhi krta pahle krta tha i dont knw m kya kru i cant live without him m usko khona nhi chahti kisi b kimat pr plz help me..

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  24. Hii mai ek ldke se bahut pyar krti hu wo mere bhai ka frnd hai mujhe darr lg rha khi wo bd me dosti aur pyar ke bich me apni dosti na chun le aur mujhe chod de

  25. meri gf thi jise mein bhut pyaar krta tha or vo b mujhe krti thi bt usne mujhse bhut jhut bole pr mein uski har bat pr trust kr leta tha pta nhi kyu vo meri life mein aayi usse phele na meine kbhi kisi ldki se bt ki vo he mera first love tha n shyad last ab vo kisi or ko date kr rhi h…pr mein use aj b pyaar krta hu uske bina ek pal nhi rhe skta,,,ek bt b tao mujhe jo ldki mere liye sbse ld jati thi aj vo he mujhe hurt kr rhi h kyu mujhe usne kuch b nhi btaya meine uski har glti maaf ki usse kbhi kuch nhi manga siva uske sath ke.kya kru ab mein plz help me…uske sath jb mein relation mein tha tb mere pas bhut si ldkiyo k proposal aaye pr meine kisi ko accept nhi kra or aj b aate h mein tb b accept nhi krta bcoz mein aj b usi se pyaar krta hu or use kbhi cheat nhi krna chahta

  26. Mere girlfriend pehel se mujhe change lagti hai mere phone ka koi reply nahi karti .. ignored karti hai … ye sab mujhe 5 din se lag raha hai kya us ke life koi or aa gaya hai ab pehel se jada gussa karti hai… …
    Me kya karu….. sms se to thik se bat he na karti hai ab….. plz help me kya karu me bhi us par ab sak karne laga hu…..

    1. Alvi bina baat jab koi galat baat kare to iska matlab hai ki baat kuch gadbad hai, aap usse ek baar milo aur mil kar is baare me khul kar baat karo.

  27. Meri frn ne mere bf ki pic dekh k btaya ye ldka thk ni flrty h to maine brkup kr lia aur mere bf ne apni id bnd kr li mjhe msg b ni kia mai kya karu hlp me

    1. Ab kya karna hai apni us friend ke sath ghumo or apne liye koi new bf dhundho.
      Yaa aa kisi ladki ki baaton me aa kar apne bf par shak nahi karna chahiye kyunki kya pata wo khud aapke bf ko pasand karti hogi or usne ye sab jaan bujkar kiya ho isliye ab aapko apne bf se maafi mangni chahiye ya fir use bhul jana chahiye.

  28. me meri gf ko bhut love karta hu par vo mujhe nah karti h lekin 1 ladki usse bhio kai jyada mujhe love karti h but me usi se karta hu plz batao mujhe kya karna cahiye m use bhul bhi nahi sakta hu plz help me…?

  29. Mai apni gf k sath 4saal se hu or usko ab koi or accha lgta hai or wo mjhe khud btati h k mne usse bt kari h. Pic bhi bhjti hai uske or mai mana karta hu toh ladti h mjjhse uske liye or usse bt krna usko accha lgta h wo usse milna chahati h. Or mjhse brekup bhi n krti bolti h k m tm dono k sath rehna chaahati hu mai ky kru

  30. .Mei momdan hu or ek punjabi ladke se bhut pyar krti hu wo bhi mjhse bhut pyar karta hai hm 10 mhine se relationshp me hain or kafi aage badh chuke hain bt bhut khush hain or hmesha ek rehna chahte hain pichle 2 mhine phle hmare gharwalo ko ye baat pta lgne se bhut prblms ho gyi thi jiski wjha se wo yha se dusre shehar m job krne chala gya nd hm mil nhi paate wo mjhe bahut force kr rha h ek mhine se milne ko but meri family bhut strict hai mei 3 mhine se ghar se bahar nhi gyi hu meri koi frnd b ni hai mjhe akele khi jane ki permission nhi h wo 2 bar delhi aa k wapas chala gya mei ni mili use or mjhe bhut hurt hua bt meri prblm h majburi hai wo ab b force kr rha h srf ek bar milne ko Or mei milne ki baat pe chup ho jati hu to hurt krne wali baaten bolta hai kbhi bhut Gussa krne lgta h…wo kehta h mei aese mar jaunga
    Pls help me mei kya karun…

  31. mera bf jb b jhgda krta h bilkul b respct se bat nhi krta… bhot gndi language me bat krta h breakup krna h mujhe usse mai nhi rhna chhhti hu usk sath but mujhe dhmki deta h ghr aauga ya maruga kuch b plz hlp me dear..
    mai usk sath nhi rhna chhhti

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  32. Mai ek larke se dilo-e-Jan se pyar krti hu but vo mere uncle ka beta hai, sayd islie mujhse pyar nhi krta. Hmlog ki dosti ko 5sal ho chuke hain (mai ye bt achhe se janti hu ki uski koi gf nhi hai). But kuch month se hmlog k bich kuch thik nhi h. Hmse dur -dur rhta hai. Meri bato ka ulta answer deta hai.. Mai bahut kosis krti h.. use smjhne ki but mujhe kuch v nhi btata. Islie hmlog k bich kaphi jhgre hote rhte hain aur ab hmlog ka rista breakup tk pahuch gya hai, mai breakup nhi chahti.
    Please help me……

    1. Is problem ka solution hai, Khul kar Baat karo.
      Aur agar uske dil me is tarah ki koi feeling nhi hai to use force nhi karna chahiye.

  33. mari gf ka sath mara relation thik tha maivi khus tha lakin khuch mahihino pahala hamara breakup hogaya maina jab us sa resaion jana cha ha to usna kaha ki uska arkoi bf ha ar mujsa bat nahi karnna chahati ha.mai bohot dukhi hu ar plce hosaka to help me pleas.

    1. Jise aapki koi kadar nhi aap uske vajah se dukhi ho, is baat ke karan aapko sharam aani chahiye. Kya aapki life me Bhagwan ne achi cheeze aur khusiyan kam di hai jo is tarah ki baat ke liye preshan ho ?

  34. yr mera gf ko 1 bar msg ka reply dene me der kia ho gai, mera gf mujse pura ruth hi gai.jitna v manau kuch faida hi nahi sochta hu sayad o mere se break up karna chati he fir sochta hu break up kar dene se agar o kuch galat kar bethe to,ehi sochte sochte me kia karu kuch samajh nahi pa raha hu.

    1. Hahahaha….. bade bhole ho bhai sahab aa to, jo ladki ek msg ka reply der se aane ke karan itna naraz ho gyi ki manaye nhi maan rhi uske baare me itna soch rhe ho ki Break-Up kar liya to vo kuch kar na le. Mujhe ek baat batao uske saath relationship me reh kar aapko konsi khushi mil rhi hai ??

  35. Yr hm dono ek dusre k bina rah bi ni pate h or ek dusre se bahut problem bi hoti h ……jb vo sad hoti h to sochta hu ki sb khatam kr du ….mujhe lagta h ki vo mere karan sad hoti h ….to yr pls batao mai kya kru …..qki mai use sad ni dekhna chahta hu or Usk bina rah bi ni pata …so pls help me yr

    1. Bhai ji ye to badi confusing waali baat kar di aapne, shant dimag se dono me se koi ek baat decide karo and fir vhi kar do. Jyada sochne se problems badhti hai..

  36. me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu or mere gharme bhi sab ko pata hai mere relation ke bare me vo bhi mujse sadi karne k liye raji hai mere relationship ko 1 year ho chuka hai leki vo ab merese pehle jesi bat nahi karti hamesa muje what’s up me block rakhti hati rat ko message karti hai vo block rakhti hai is liye muje gussa aata hai or me pu6ta hu ki esa kyu karti ho to vo vapas block kardeti hai so plzz aap batao ki me esa kya karu ki vo muje vapas pehle ki jese romantic mood me bat karne lage plzz…. me jyada,call ya message karta hu uske phn pe to gussa ho jati hai me kya karu plzz help me

    1. Pratik, aapko main 100 baat ki ek baat bta deti hu….. Aagr aap sach me zindgi me khush aur sukhi rehna chahte hai to us ladki ko apni life se bahar nikalo… Seriously jo ladki aisa behaviour start kar de use samjhana impossible hai aur main aapko abhi bata deti hu aap uske saath kabhi khush nhi reh paoge.

      1. Me use apni life se nahi nikal sakta shivani ji me bahut pyar karta hu use vo bhi mujse bahu pyar karti hai ham dono sadi karne vale hai. mere family me sab ko pata hai mene sadi ki bat bhi karli hai. vo bhi mujse bat karti hai… muje husband manti hai. Or husband man kar bat karti hai.. lekin problem ye hai ki ab vo pehle jesi bat nai karti jitni bhi bate karti hai to muje husband man kar hi karti hai jese k husband waif ke bich me jesi bate hoti hai.
        vese leki ab bat karna kam kardiya hai.. isliye aapse help magta hu ki me esa kya karu ki vo vapas mujse bat karne lage me uske liye sab kuch karne k liye tayar hu itna love karta hu me usse

  37. me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu or mere gharme bhi sab ko pata hai mere relation ke bare me vo bhi mujse sadi karne k liye raji hai mere relationship ko 1 year ho chuka hai leki vo ab merese pehle jesi bat nahi karti hamesa muje what’s up me block rakhti hati rat ko message karti hai vo block rakhti hai is liye muje gussa aata hai or me pu6ta hu ki esa kyu karti ho to vo vapas block kardeti hai so plzz aap batao ki me esa kya karu ki vo muje vapas pehle ki jese romantic mood me bat karne lage plzz….

  38. ek girl hai meri life me me use apni jaan se bhi jyada pyar krta hu in fact hmari parents ko bhi pta hai bt me use kl proso kuch glt boldiya tha …………..or WO mujhe dump krna chahte hai ap hi btaye me kya kru and mera fault hai kya ye bhi btana kya apne ko kuch bolna shi nhi hai plzzz soch ke reply krna q ki jo ap bologe WO me kruga ……..so plz

      1. me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu hamare relation ke bare me mere gharme bhi sab ko pata hai mere relationship ko 1 year ho gaya hai ladki bhi mujse hi sadi karne k liye raji hai …… lekin kuch dino se vo mujse sidhi bat nai kar rahi what’s up me block rakhti hati rat ko message karti hai us ne bhi pehle jese romantic mood me bat nai karti me esa kya karu ki vo pavas merese romantic mood me bat karne lage plzzz aap batao…plzzzzzzzzz..

  39. hlo .. mai ek ladki se love krta hu hmari usse bat krib 8 mhine se ho rhi h aj kl bina kisi vjh ke o gusse se bat krti hai kuchh ajib trh se bolti hai o kya krne wali h kya chahti h

  40. Hloo shivishi Ji .. mai ek ldki se pyar krta hu aur vo bhi mujse karti hai hm dono ki bat pichhle 2 saalo se ho rhii haii hm dono ek dusre se shadi krna chahte hai caste ek hai .. meri family wale chahte hai ki meri shadi usse ho but ladki wale aisa nhi chahtee ab mai kya kru .. kaise unko smjau ki o maan jaye or hm dono apni life khusi khusi jiye ……………
    help me @

  41. Are vo muse na call krta hai or nahi mere text ka javab deta hai muse bat kar boli to vo chid jata hai or bye bolata hai tum bas karo bolata hai. Or ha vo mera pahele xbf tha firse hamara patchup hua tha.

  42. mamta unhone apko itna smjhaya usko thoda socho…
    apni jid pr adi rhogi n to kbhi kuvh nhi hoga…
    lyf me bf k alawa b bhot kuch h

    unhone itna smjhya usk bare me socho waisa krk to dekho…
    n 100% ap chnge ho jaogi

  43. Shivshi jii maine aapse phle hi kha tha na ki mai uske bina NHi rh sakti hu Bo ab mera life bn chuka h or usse tb hi alag ho paaungi jb mai Marr jaaungi tb v shyad naa ho paaun ye btao aap ki mera marne me fayeda h ya mai apne pyr ka wait krun kya milega mera pyr

    1. I have no idea what to say now. Sorry. Jo marne ki baat kare uske liye mere paas kuch nhi hai. I can’t hep u.

      1. Sorry yaar mai marne ki ni bol rhi bs ji fill hota mai bolti hu plz koi aisa idea do amp ki mujhe accha lge
        Baise mere bf ka birthday aane baala h 15 ko mai aisa kya krun uske birthday pe ki Bo mujhse impress ho jaaye kuch pal ke liye hi sahi Bo mujhse pyr s baat kre plz help me

    2. mamta aapke name ki meri ek gf h

      han ab vo mujhse bat tk nhi krti pta nhi use kya ho gya h badal gai h vo

      mujhe aap itni si help kr slti h k mujhe koi idea do mujhe usse sach kya h ye bulwana h

  44. agr vo mera h mai usse pyr krti hu to mujhe use free rkhna hoga…
    agr vo wps mere pas ata h to vo mera hi h… agr vo wps ata h or mera nhi rhtaa… to iska mtlbbb ki vo mera vo kbhi tha hi nhiii…

    vo khta h ki mai always all time sath hu apk..
    but ab ldki hu yr bf ko othr ldki k sath bat krt dekhugi to jealous hogiii hiii…

    1. Somya jealous hona alag baat hai dear, but that’s not a big issue. Jaise ki tumne upar khud kha – Agar vo tumse pyar karta hai to kisi se bhi baat kar le vo aayega tumhare paas hi so don’t worry. Soch badlo, khush raho 😉

  45. hello,
    meri gf mje ignore kre h bht dino se.
    reply b nhi krte na call ka na msg ka na whatsapp pr.
    jb pucho to bolte h kuch nhi hua aase he.
    m bht dhukhi hu mje suggestion do m kya kru 🙁

    1. Suggestion ye hai ki… Aisi baaton se dukhi hona chod do, apni soch badlo. Time bahut keemti cheez hai aur ise aise bekar me waste mat karo. Vo ladki aapse baat nhi kar rhi to tumhare pas koi kaaam dhandha nhi hai jo is baat ko le kar dukhi ho rhe ho? Apna time apne goal ko achieve karne me lagao, apni life ka ek goal set karo aur us taraf dhyaan do, varna kal bhut pachtaoge.

  46. Mere bf ka name rohit h or mera relation ke 4 saal ho gye h mai usse bhut bhut jaada pyr krti hu mai uske bina NHi jii sakti phle to Bo mujhse bhut acche se baat krta tha or shadi ke liye v purpose krta tha but ab baat krna v NHi chata h mai uske bina NHi rh sakti so isliye kvi apna haath cut krti hu kvi expiry date ki medicines kha leti u bs isliye ki Bo mujhse baat kre but ab bhut jaada ho gya h Jine k v mann NHi krta mujhe pta ni kya ho gya h uske alaava mujhe or kuch NHi dikhta h maine breakup krne ki v kosis ki but mai khud NHi rh pai usse baat kiye bina plz help me ab mai kya krun plz

        1. Aisa ho hi nhi sakta ki uske baad bhi na ho… As I said, ye sab mann ka khel hai, ya to tum apne mann ko control karo ya fir zindgi bhar narak waali zindgi jeene ke liye taiyar rho.

          1. But mera pyr paagal pan baala h kuch thik ni hoga dear hmlog ka relationship Din par din or khraab hote jaa rha h baise Uska birthday aane baala h 15 k mai aisa kya krun uske birthday pe ki Bo mujhse impress ho jaaye kuch pal ke liye hi sahi Bo mujhse pyr s baat kre or pyr kre plz tell me

          2. Mamta apna relationship khatam kar lo kyuki tumhari baat se saaf jahir hota hai ki tum is relationship me reh ka khush kam aur pareshan jyada ho aur aise relationhsip me rahne ka koi matlab nhi banta.

  47. Dear Mam ..
    mam muje ek ladki fb pr mili thi meri usse bat pichhle 8 mhine se ho rhi thi us ladki se dheere dheere frndship hui or fir pyar me bdl gya mere ghr se krib 7 km pr uska ghr hai .. us ladki ne mujse sari promis krke last me change ho gyi or uske kuch frnd ne v uski help ki muje smjh nhi aya ki o aisa q kr rhi hai .. last me aisa chal rha tha jaise sb kuch real me means jaise lg rha tha uski saadi ho rhi ho mai kafi jada presan ho gya tha maine bs uski bat pr bhrosa kiya.. usne meri voice recording ki or public me sbko suna di ki mai use presan kr rha hu jb ki aisa nhi tha .. or phir public se fb pr comments krva di aur last me pta chala ki uski saadi nhi hui hai .. mam agr usko mujse koi problem thi to bta dena chahiye tha ye sb kr ke kisi ko kya fayda mil skta hai kya ladkiyo ki soch itni v giri ho skti hai .. ( maine do bar hath ktvai maine v usse bola tha pic send krne ke liye to di thi but kuch smjh nhi aa rha tha kyuki mai en sb chkker me kbhi pda hi nhi .. ek bar apne college pr bulai but vha mili nhi or do bar apne ghr ke side phir puchhne pr bahana bnane lgi … kya ladkiyo ki soch aisi v ho skti hai jb ki mai uski hmesa care krta tha ?????????? ab mai kya kru plz help me ……..

    1. Ravi, kyu itna ro rahe ho mujhe ye nhi samajh aa rha, galti saari tumhari hai, tum ladke bina kisi baat ke itne senti ho jaate ho ki jiska koi jawab nhi, ek ladki ne 4 din hans ke baat kar li to pagal hone lagte ho. Uske liye haath kaat kar chutiyapa karte ho, ghin aati hai mujhe aisi soch waale logon se jo 4 din pahle mili ladki ke piche apne Maa-Baap, Bhai-Behan puri family ke baare me soche bina aisi harkate karte hai, us ladki ki koi galti nhi hai vo sirf tumse peecha chudwaane ke liye ye sab kar rhi thi, kyunki vaise to tumne picha chodna nhi tha to use kuch to karna hi tha. Thodi apni akal istemal karo aur unke liye jiyo jo tumhare liye jeete hai, apne maa-papa ko proud feel karwane ke liye koi kaam karo, na ki aise chutiya harkate. Apni soch badlo.

      1. are to mam o shidhe trike se v bol skti thi .. kisi ko faltu ka heart krne se kya fayda .. mna kr di hoti .. public me bat kahne se ..isse uski v to insult hui hogi ladki other cast ki hai (chhoti cast ki hai)ya to aisa v ho skta hai uska yhi kaam ho (crecterless) .. nd mam comments dlt kr dijiye

        1. Seedhe tarike se bolne se kya tumne peeche hat jaana tha ? hahaha ab tum bologe haan bilkul. Lekin sab jante hai ki aisa hota nhi hai 🙂

      2. Hlo mam
        Meko sbse pehle uska whtsapp text aaya hm 1 mnth frd or 3 mnth relation m rhe or hmari kbi Jada baat ni hue naa usne meko kbi mnaya last m ne usko cl ki no. Busy hmesha ke Jesse mene breakup kr Libya fir wo vapis aaya bo bolta ki meri gf ki mrg ho gyi h…Kya him frdz ban skte h m ne 20 din baat ki 10 min whtsaapp pr fir block kr diya Kya kru m…any suggestion

  48. Meri ek gf hai me usse bhot pyr krta hu bt wo hai ki smjhti hi nhi hmare relation ko 1 year ho gya hai but wo ab brkup krna chahti hai without any reason
    Vo bol rahi h sms me ki “every thing is over now muje nhi rhna ab kisi relationship me”
    Or m puchta hu koi reason to hoga jo tu achanak se ye sb bol rahi h to vo bolti h “koi reason nhi h bss m nhi rhna chaati”
    Mee usse bhot pyar krta hu or chaa kr bi usko bhula nhi paa raha or vo bolri h ” hum gf bf nhi h to kya hua best frnds hamesha rahenge
    Mam plzz Help me
    What 2 do

    1. Jab aap keh rhe ho ki, hum gf bf nhi h to kya hua best frnds hamesha rahenge. to bas fir baat khatam, friend vo aapki bani rahegi, vo relationship todne ki baat kar rhi hai.

  49. mere boyfriend ki marriage ho gyi hai or wo ab bhi mere sth relation rakhna chhata h wo muje chhodne ko tiyar nahi h to me kya kru muje use ab bhi relation rakhna chaiye ya nahi

    1. Bilkul bhi nhi rakhna chahiye, Bevkoof log hi aisa karte hai aur fir baad me rote rahte hai. Just finish the story now.

  50. Meri gf mujhe dhoka da di plbm ye tha ki maine uska help krna chaha bt wo sochi m glt hu ur wo bolti h m tmpe trust ni krti hu jb trust hogi to sochungi but fir boli ab love ni krti hu ur na h bf manti hu frand bn skti hu bt realation k6 tor k m frand ni bnna chata hu kya apke pas koi jawb h taki wo fir se gf ban jaye

      1. mam mera bf h..usse mai bhot pyr krti hu.. vo b krta h.. but vo fb n whtsapp jyda use krta so mujhe bhot insecurity feel hota h.. vo to khta h ki mai bhot pyr krta n cheat nhi krhha but mai es chij ko lkr bhot depress hu.. vo khta h ki frnds ko b tym dena pdta… but mujhe thik nhi lgta jb vo girl se cht krta..or kbhi kbhi uska attention b mere trf km hi dikhta h.. plz hlp me plzz

        1. Tanvi is tarah ke ladke samjhane se nhi samajhte aur mujhe to doubt hai ki vo tumse pyar karta hai bhi ki nhi, aap ek bar ye test karke dekho – Ek dum se suddenly uske msgs ka reply karna band kar do, phone kare to vo bhi mat uhao, whatsApp ya fb khi bhi na online milo na hi kisi msg ka answer do, agar to usme ye sab dekh kar tadap aati hai tab to vo aapse pyar karta hai, vo aapse har halat me baat karna chahega aur jab aap agle din usse baat karoge to vo bahut preshan hoga.. agar to aisa hota hai tab to samjh lena vo aapse pyar karta hai varna sambhal ke beta ji.

          1. khta h ki aise hi online rhya girls se cht nhi krta but. mai kya kru mujhe aise lgta h koi girl usko mujhse dur na le jye

          2. Tanvi ek famous English quote (kahawat) hai – “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t they never were.” kya tumhe iska meaning malum hai dear ? Agar haan to please comment karke batao mujhe…. agr nhi malum hai to bolo – “Main btati hu.. 🙂

  51. Ha shivshi mein uske pas jana chahti hu ..bt meine btaya n kii mera bf h…ab mein use kaise samjauu mein kya kru..mujhe kuch samjh ni aa rha…meine apni life khud b khud hell bna li h ….. 🙁 🙁

    1. Somya I know ki tumhara bf hai but you don’t love him and jo bhi ho tumhe un dono me se ek ko choose karna hai so situation to tough hogi hi and faisla lena bhi muskil hoga but kisi ek ka Dil to tutega hi so better hai ki jo tumhe jyada pyar karta hai aur jise tum jyada pyar karti ho uske paas jaao,.. par, ek baat dhyan se soch lena ki kal ko fir tumhare parents tumhari shaadi kahi aur na karne lage aur fir bechare ka dil tutem agar tumhe lagta hai ki parents maan jayenge tab hi uske saath rishta jodna varna dur hi raho..

  52. Hlw …..Shivshi
    Plzzz help me na mjhe kuch smjh me nhi aaraha h ki mai kya kru ….mai ekk problem me hoon mai ekk ldke se bhut pyar krti hoon and wo vi krta h bt kuch din se humre bich thodi so non jhok hogi thi bt mai chahti hoon ki wo mjhe se kvi naaraj ya gussa na ho …. Or ekk request h aapse ki mjhe aisa kuch solution btaye ki mai unke family walo ke sath unke face to face bt kr sku plzz hello me ……I can undarstnd ki mai kya kru plzz tm something na

    1. Divya aap unki family waalon ke saath face to face kya baat karna chahti hi, aap ye baat janti nhi ki… Aap chahe jo soch ke unse baat karogi vo galat hi samjhenge. Apa apne lover ke saath acha rishta nibhao, unhe khush rakhne ki kosish karo and khud bhi khush raho, baki thodi bhut cheeze time par chor do.. 🙂

  53. Hi shivshi.
    Plz help me mujhe meri life ka decision lena h..nt mujhe samj ni aa rha mein kya kruu….mera ex bf jisne mere liye 4 sal wait kra…woo mujhse bhut pyar krta tha …sayd utna pyar mujhe koi ni kr sakta…bt use drink krne ki buri aadat ti meine use bhut samjhaya bt usne fir bi ni chora..toh meine usse breakup kr liya kyuki i hate drink..bt mujhe hr pal yak khayal aata tha ki wo mujhse bhut pyar krta h..meine use chpr kr bhut badi gltii ki…wo bhi bhut roya….or usne aaj mere khatir sab kuch chor diya…aaj usne mujhe msg kiya ki plz meri life me wapes aa ja…bt bat yeh h ki..jb wo mujhse alg hua to kuch din bad meri ek bande se mulaqat hui..or ab ise pyar khe ya apne pehle pyr ko bhulane ka tareeqa..mein uske sath relationship me aa gaii.ha wo. Bat alag h ki wo bhi mujhe pyar krta h..bt use kbhi bhi meri narazgi se koi fark ni padta..mtlb kbhii ni manata wo mujhe.. Bt fir bhi mein uske sath khus hu. Lekin mein abhi bhi apne pehle pyar ko ni bhul pai hu. Jb bhi use dekhti hu to mujhe khud se nafrat hoti h ki meine yse kyu chora….mein decesion ni le pa rai hu…..aaj mere ex ne mujhse aakhiri bar pucha h ki mein aaj un dono me se kisi ek ko choose kru…mujhe bilkul samjh ni aarha ki mein kru to kru kya. …mere bf ko iske bare me kuch ni pta h. Plz help me. Sai decision lene me…

    1. Somya I really think ki tumhe apne pahle pyar ke paas jana chahiye, bcoz that boy loves u a lot, and bas baat yhi khatam hoti hai. Jitna pyar vo karta hai utna pyar shayad hi koi kar paaye tumse, use phone karo and pyar se baat karo, use bolo…. “Main tumhare paas aana chahti hu, but ek shart par… tumhe Drink chodni padegi” Aur tumhe vaada karna hoga ki mujhe kabhi cheat nhi karoge..

  54. Hii shivani…
    Meri ek gf hai me usse bhot pyr krta hu bt wo hai ki smjhti hi nhi hmare relation ko 2 n half year ho gya hai but wo ab brkup krna chahti hai without any reason wo kehti hai ki uske ghr me sbko pta lg gya hai hmare reltn ke baare me bt aisa nhi h uski family mujhe ache se jaanti h ki me uska fnd hu or hmare reltn me thodi bhot chhoti chhoti ladai bhihoti h wo bhi aivie wo kehti hai ii wo mese pyr nhi krti hai bt me janta hu wo mese bhot pyr krti hai bt pta nhi ab use kya ho gya hai wo sb kuch jhth bol rhi h ki uske ghr me sbko pta chal gya hai ye usii ek fnd ne btaya ki wo jhuth bol rhi hai me kya kru tell me shivani ……..

    1. Vikram aisa karo kal use milne ke liye bulao, vo mana bhi kare to kisi bhi tarah se Haan karwao aur bulao… Jab vo milne aaye to kisi achi aur shaant jagah par use le kar jaao and vha baith kar uska haath pakdo and usse pucho – “Main janta hu ki tu mujhse bhut pyar karti hai aur mujhe ye bhi pata hai ki tere ghar par kuch aisi baat pata nhi chali hai, fir tu kyu aisa kar rhi hai, itna acha sab kuch chal rha hai kyu faltu me khud ko bhi dukh de rhi hai and mujhe bhi tension de rhi hai. Agar koi baat hai to please mujhe sach sach bata.” Agar vo ladki aapki feelings ki care karti hogi tab vo aapko shi shi bat jarur batayegi ki vo aisa kyu kar rhi hai. Go and try it, Best of luck.

  55. hii
    Mera relation 6 saal se chal rha tha but pichle kuch dino se wo bhaut change ho gyi hai.. rat me aksar uska phn waiting aata hai..
    Usne mujhe bina btaye ek sim card bhi le liya jiski wajh se abraat me uska phn not reachable ata hai n i dont know her new no.
    Ab wo har choti baat pe jhadati hai
    6 Saal me aisa ek bhi din nhi tha jis din humne baat na ki ho..
    But ab na to wo khud kbi call karti hai aur na hi milti hai
    Na sath me movi dekhne b nhi jati.. aur pichle 3 saal se hm roj milte the …. i luv her since we were in school
    Mere liye usko bhulna bhaut mushkil hai….
    Wo mujhse bhaut bhaut bhaut bhaut bhaut se bhi jada pyar karti thi ….
    Uske sapne me bhi mujhe kuch ho jata tha to ankh khulte hi mujhe phone kar k rote hue btati thi…
    Mujhe khone se bhaut darti thi …..
    Mai bhi usse utna hi pyar krta hu jitna wo…
    Collge me 3 ladkiyo ne mujhe propose kiya but maine mana kr diya bcoz i was very loyal to my jaaan

    But ab wo itni badal gyi hai ki mujhe believe hi nhi ho rha ki ye wahi hai jisse maine pyar kiya…. wo har din mujhse door hoti ja rhi hai but mai kuch nhi kar paa rha hu…. wo mujhe ignore kr rhi hai …
    Call karne se mana kiya hai 10 din ho gye aaj mai uske call ka wait kr rha hu
    Bus aap itna bta do ki wo meri life me dobara ayegi ya nhi……

    1. No. Aur maine aapko salah dungi agar vo aaye bhi to don’t accept her. Don’t compromise with ur Self-Respect. Story Ends!

  56. Hy shivshi mera name ishika h. Mera ek bf h humari relation ko 1 saal ho chuka h pahle wo muzse bohot ache se bt karta tha par ab wo muz par humesha shak karta he use lagta he ki mera koi or bf h, kabi mere frnds k phon k bich me mere bf ka phn ata h to wo muze kahta h kis k sath bzi thi to me kahti hu ki frnd ka phn tha to wo kahta h frnd ka tha ya bf ka.me jaana chahti hu ki real bat kya h wo jb b muzse mera fb ka email paswd mangta h me de deti hu fr b shak karta h par apna paswad kbi nai deta h. Use lagta h ki me use jhut bolti hu .Apko kya lagta h wo muzse pyar karta h ya nai.

  57. Hiii,
    main ak ladki se bhot pyar karta hu ,,hm log 6 mahine se sath hain…phle hm log bhot achhhe se rhte the..wo din bhr mere se baat karti thi bhot achhhe se batt krti thi…care krti thi,hr baat ko importance deti thi….bt ab kch dino se wo mujhe ignore karne lgi hia…bhot km baat krti h …main kitn abhi call kru kitna bhi bt use koi frk nhi pdta kch b bolu kch b khu use koi frk nhi h…ab bs din bhar me 30,35 mnt hi baat krti h ..jb main pucchhta hu ki q ignore karne lagi ho to bolti hai aisa kch nhi hai…gaaali bhi de deti hai ab to pyaar se baat b nhi krti …bt main use nhi bhul paa rha rhu bhot preshan hu uske samne kitni baar roya hu bt use koi frk nhi pdtaa….main kya kru kch smjh nhi aaa rhaaa bsss din bhr usi ka khyal rhta h

  58. hi shivshi am payal mera b.f h jisse mai bhut pyr krti hu nd wo v hmdono k relation ka 1 nd half year se jyade ho gya h kuch mnth pehle mujhe ek larka bhut preshan krta tha mera picha krta tha bolta tha mujhse baat kro mai tmhe like krta hu maine use bhut ignore kra but wo bhut dhmki dene lga mai apna jaan de dunga tmhare liye baat nhi krogi to mai bhut dar gyi thi maine use ye v bta diya ki mera alreay ek b.f h mai usse bhut pyr krti hu phir v wo picha nhi chora hmko bhut dra diya tha lastly maine usse baat kra to usne mere b.f ko sb kuch bta diya ki teri gf tujhe cheat kr rhi h wo meri v gf h bs isi baat se mera relation khrab ho gya mai aaj v apne b.f se bhut pyr krti hu yha tk ki hmdono k mom ko v pta tha mere b.f ko mere pe se trust ht gya mere se nafrat krta h wo but avi v use mera care h jb v baat krta h rula deta h mai usse bhut pur krti hu plzzz help me mai kya kru wontj me bs ek bar baat krta h mere se ab but jb v krta h mai bhut khuah ho jati hu wo bhut hi accha larka h cute h mai use baccha baby yhi sb bolti hu plzz help kr do mai kya kru jisse mera relation pehle jaisa ho jae

    1. Payal use puri khani detail me btao, vo khud samajh jayega. Simple si baat hai jo koi bhi samajh sakta hai.

  59. HIII SHIVANI
    Mera b.f he, aur mein usase bohat pyar karti hun.one half year ho gaya he hamare relation ko.aur jab se relation satart hua he tabse wo mujhse money aur sex ki demand karta he,pahle mujhe laga ki bad sab thik hoga bt ab badta hi ja raha h aur uska 1 frnd mujhe bata raha ki uski aur 1 g.f he..to mein kya karu,plz plz help me

    1. Break Up, tum bevkoof ho jo abhi tak uske saath ho, abhi apna relation khatam karo uske saath, agar apni zindgi narak hone se bachana chahte ho.

  60. Hiiii !!! M so sad for that ki merit girlfriend mere ko chodd k kisi or k saath relationship mein chalk gayi h!!! Darasal baat kch aisi hui mai phley shahjhanpur near the bareilly mein rahta that coj mere dad waha per ek sugar meal mein boiler incharge they or mai Ryan school mein pdhta that won school mein jb 1st day aayi this TBI she mai usko love Kearney laga tha Maine usko next class mein by a frnd through prapose kia usney 1 saal tak koi reply na kia baad mein aakhir usney haan bol he diya hmara relationship 1 saal he chala fir mere papa ko waha se job chod k Punjab Jana PDA jis wajh she hum logo ko mummy mjhe Bhai or papa ko najibabad aana PDA mere najibabad aaney per wo bahut royi or Maine usko samjhaya b ki mai milney aata rahuga is I bahaney usney mjhse 2 months baat ki phone per bt baad mein wo kisi or k saath relationship kar baithi or fir 3 srey ladkey saath bt mainey ussey waha jakar 5 se 6 baar try kia bt mil na paya or mai ussey mil na paya I love her a lot an aap he btao mai kaise usko dobara apni zindagi bna sakta hu hmesha k liye plzzz don’t say no for this relationship agar apney b kisi ko pyar kia h toh

  61. hii..shivsi plese help me
    m apne gf s bhut pyar krta hu bt
    wo mujse naraz h qki m use
    presan kiya or daught bhi kar
    diya y bhi bol diya rista todna
    chati ho to do aur bhut hurt bhi
    kiya or apne bhai ko bhi bta di
    mere bare m bt 1 month s sms
    krke mana raha hu kal wo mili ti
    m use sorry b bola bt sidha chali
    gyi sms bhi kiya to reply ki muje
    sms mt karna.. m use bhut chta
    hu kaise vapas lau..2 -3 bar
    vapas manya ta bt us time aisa n
    kiya ta kya wo vapas aaygi..

    1. Abhi use thoda time lag sag sakta hai ye sab bhulane mein. Aapko use thoda akele chhod dena chahiye. Sahi samay aane par aap fir se sorry keh dena

  62. Hi main apne bf se bhut pyar krti hu and vo bhi krta hai but vo mujhe meri cousin se compare krta rehta hai muje ghumna pasnd hai and vo kehta hai ki esa koi ldka nhi hoga jo tumhe na janta ho apni cusin ko dheko kitni shref hai and muje ye bat bhut hurt krti hai to main kya karu and vo mujse fir bat bhi nhi krta and agr hme jada din ho jaye na bat kiye ve to vo sory bol deta hai bt fir kehta hai tum bhi kar skti thi ph. Mujhe smjh nhi ata kya main shadi k bad bhi khush rhungi uske sath

    1. Plz muje help kijiye, me meri gf kko buhut pyar Karta Hu wo bhi mujashe bahut pyar karti hai. Hamari shadi Ho sakti hai par meri gf ke ghar vale man nahi rahe jai.me aur wo bahut pareshan hai.hame cort marriage nahi karna hai. Unake ghar valo ko kaise samjaye.mere ghar vale to man Gaye hai.solutions do na plz plz……kuch samaj nahi Sa raha hai.

  63. meri story s aap smj jaogi..use vapas lana manau kaise call sms n kar skta..
    m uske mumy k no p bhut call sms kar diya or hmesa aisi karta ta use bhut call sms use y pasnd n h bt use mana k vapas lana chta hu

  64. hii..shivsi plese help me
    m apne gf s bhut pyar krta hu bt wo mujse naraz h qki m use presan kiya or daught bhi kar diya y bhi bol diya rista todna chati ho to do aur bhut hurt bhi kiya or apne bhai ko bhi bta di mere bare m bt 1 month s sms krke mana raha hu kal wo mili ti m use sorry b bola bt sidha chali gyi sms bhi kiya to reply ki muje sms mt karna.. m use bhut chta hu kaise vapas lau..2 -3 bar vapas manya ta bt us time aisa n kiya ta kya wo vapas aaygi..

  65. Mein apne bf se bhut pyar krti hu…uske bina ek pal bi nai reh sakti…mujhe lgta h wo bi mujhse bhut pyar krta h…bt hmesa wo sex ke liye hi bolta rehta h…mtlb kbhii aise nai bolta ki chlo bahr chle.. Bs hmesa yai kehta h ki kb doge…..ab mujhe yeh nai samj aa rha h ki wo mujhse pyar bi krta h ya nii…ya mera use kr rha h sirf…plz help me

      1. Meri ek gf hai vo mere bina nahi reh sakti aur me bhi uske.bina nahi reh sakta hum dono ek dusre se shadi karna chahte hai par humaare caste bilkul alg hai aur uske family vale mana kar rahe hai aur mere family vaale bol rahe hai ki uski family maan jaae toh hum shaadi kara denge. Ab hum kya kare??? Pl

        1. Uske pariwar waalon ko bolo agar aapki beti dusre ghar mein khush reh sakti hai to aap jo chahe wo kar sakte hain. Uski family se puche ki aapko alag cast mein shaadi karwane se inkaar kyu hai?

  66. hii
    mera ek boyfrnd h jis se m bhut pyar krti hu
    PR other caste ki bjh s hmari shadi nhi ho pai
    meri family n meri shadi dusre ldke s krva di
    shadi k baad meri us se chat or call nhi ho pa
    rhi bhut h km ho pati h or n hi hm mil pate h
    is baat s hmare beech m bhut tension create
    hone lgi ab m apne husband s pregnant ho gai
    to y baat mene apne boyfrnd KO btai mene
    socha usko andhere m nhi rkhna chahiye to
    usko sb sach btaya PR usne y sunkr myjhse
    relation Tod diya bo chahta tha ki mera phla
    baby usse ho PR mujhe y theek nhi lgta tha
    aisa krk m apne husband KO bhi dhoka nhi
    Dena chahti thi ab y btao mene shadi ki h to
    ab mujhe husband ko bhi dekhna hoga ab aap
    y btao meri kya glti h isme mene kya galt kiya
    h kya kru m ab

    1. Madhvi gi, jo hota hai achche ke liye hota hai. Shayad aapke liye aapka husband us ladke se zyaada important hai. Meri salah yahi hai ki aap anpne naye pariwaar ke baare mein sochiye, sirf apne aur apne bf ke baare mein nahi

  67. hii
    mera ek boyfrnd h jis se m bhut pyar krti hu PR other caste ki bjh s hmari shadi nhi ho pai meri family n meri shadi dusre ldke s krva di shadi k baad meri us se chat or call nhi ho pa rhi bhut h km ho pati h or n hi hm mil pate h is baat s hmare beech m bhut tension create hone lgi ab m apne husband s pregnant ho gai to y baat mene apne boyfrnd KO btai mene socha usko andhere m nhi rkhna chahiye to usko sb sach btaya PR usne y sunkr myjhse relation Tod diya bo chahta tha ki mera phla baby usse ho PR mujhe y theek nhi lgta tha aisa krk m apne husband KO bhi dhoka nhi Dena chahti thi ab y btao mene shadi ki h to ab mujhe husband ko bhi dekhna hoga ab aap y btao meri kya glti h isme mene kya galt kiya h kya kru m ab

    1. Amita aapki kisi bhi tarah ki koi galti nhi hai but ek cheez hai jo aap abhi bhi galat kar rhi ho, aur vo ye ki us ladke (bf) ke touch me ho, tumhe uske saath har tarah ki communication khatam kar deni chahiye, ab uske saath aapka koi relation na hai aur na banane ki kosish karo. Dheere dheere apne aap ko usse dur karo, usse total contact khatam karo, agar apni zindgi me sukhi rehna chahti ho.

  68. hie.. me apne bf se bhot pyar krti hn n mujhe nhi pta vo krta hai ya nhi mujhe 1 n half year relationship me ho gye lekin suddenly uske behavior me change ane lg gya 2-3 months se mujhe smjh nhi aah rha vo esa kyu ho gya muje kbhi lgta hai wo mera life partner hai kbhi glt hai cheat kr rha hai can u help me kya ho skta hai????

  69. meri ek gf h jo khti tho h ki wo.mere se bhut pyar krti h aur sadi krna chti h but wo mere se pyar se bt nhi krti aur 3,4 diin tk tho na koi mesge na hi koi cl.krti h mujhe hi krna pdta h aur abhi kuch diin pehle uske ex bf ne mujhe btya ki usne uske sth personal relatisionship bna rkhe h aur me usse puchta hu tho wo mna krti h khti h ki wo koi mera bf nhi h nakbhi usne mere sth aisa kra h mene uski iss bt pe belive kr liya lekin mene dekha ki uske ex ki cl aai aur usne mere smne cl cut kr di aur khne lgi ki wo presan kr rha h mujhe aur bt bt pe breakup ke liye khti h so plz help me kya wo mere se pyar krti h ya nhi plz help me me kya kru

    1. Vikram meri ek baat likh lo beta, Agar apni zindgi me khush rehna chahte ho to us ladki ke chakkar se bahar niklo, varna tumhari zindgi jhand ho jayegi. Maan lo tumne Shaadi kar lo aur uske baad bhi vo kisi se baat karti rahe, tumhe bhaav hi na de, tum kuch kaho to tumhe baat baat par ulta jawab de, aisi life narak barabar hoti hai.

    1. Aap bas usse dosti banao abhi and uski care karna shuru karo, abhi prpose mat karna bcoz use lagega aap sirf mauke ka fayda utha rhe ho..

    1. Kya kya kya Kya kya kya Kya kya kya Kya kya kya Kya kya kya Kya kya kya Kya kya kya !
      Gf se Breakup karne waala bhi hai koi ?? Mujhe yakeen nhi aa rha. :O 😀 😀

    1. Aapko pata hai ki jab aisa ho to kya samjha jaaye… It means vo aapse peecha chudana chahta hai aur aise ladke ke piche jaane ka koi matlab nhi banta.

  70. Hi shivshi mera ek bf h. Mein usse bhut pyar krti hu. Or sayd wo bi…hmare beech ladai bhut km hoti h ..bt jb bi kuch hota h toh. Sabse pehle wo mujhse bina kuch bole….sidhe. Bat krna hi chod deta h…mein hi hmesa use manati hu…wo kbhi bi ni manata….mujhe kbhi kbhi lgta h ki wo mujhe bhut aasani se chor dega….lekin mein usse dur jane ki kbhi soach bi ni saktii hu……ab aap hi btaoo mein kyaa kruu

    1. Yhi point hai ki vo aapko manane kabhi nhi aata becoz he knows jo bhi ho jaaye aap use nhi chorogi, Dear life me sabse badi cheez hoti hai Self Respect fir pyar vyar ya kuch aur. Agar koi aapki ijjat nhi karta and aapko vo pyar nhi karta jo aap deserve karti ho… to mujhe nhi lagta aise insaan ko aapko itni importance deni chahiye. Agar vo ye apni galti par bhi ada rehta hai and aapko hi manana padta hai to you should treat him a lesson, agli baar aap bhi use manane mat jaao, chahe jo ho jaaye. Be a proud lady, don’t be a slave my dear friend.
      I’ve made my point, baaki aap samajhdar ho.

  71. Hii,,meri gf ka pehale ek bf tha uska uske sath brk up hua hai bad mai mai uske lyf mai aaya hu,,ab mujhe lagatA hai o mere sath bhi vahi karna chahati haii..to mai kya kru

  72. Yr men bohat tention men hun MRI help kro plz…..men apnne bhabi k bhai ko psnd krti hun Wo phle krta tha par phr us n chor dya mra,num or whtzap sab se block krdia mujhe…khta h hmri shadi naii ho skti m itne msgz krti hun jwwb naii dta m Kia krun ..

    1. Vo tumse Pyar nhi karta aur acha yhi hoga ye baat tum jitni jaldi samajh jaao. Jo insaantumhari baat sunne ko taiyar nhi, tumhari koi ijjat nhi karta use pa bhi liya to Zindgi bhar dukh hi milenge isse acha hai apne man ko control karna seekho and use bhad me jaane do. Meri tarah jiyo.. Ek dum bindaasss. 🙂

  73. Hi Mera ek bf he jise me facebook par mili thi real life me kabhi nahi mili kyu ke me bahir reh thi hu me usse pyar bohot kar thi hu lekin muje nahi pata ke wo sach pyar kar ta he ya nahi uss ne apne pyar ka yaqeen delwane ke liye muje apna facebook id bataya hua he me usse on kar thi hu lekin wo apne kuch mcg delete kar deta he or facebook par larkiyo se bate bhi kar ta he 1 month pehle meri mama ko pata chal gaya ta humare bare me tab se usse bohot tori baat ho thi he muje ab lag ta he ke wo mujse pyar nahi kar ta kya aap bata sak thi he ke kese usse apni life me wapas lau

    1. Hello Sanaya, Dear agar vo ladka aapse sacha pyar karta hoga to vo khus aapke bina nhi reh payega aur tadpega aapko paane ke liye. Usse phone par bat karo, facebook theek hai but phone par baat karne se aap dono ek dusre ke jyada close aaoge and ek dusre ko jyad achi tarah se samajh paoge fir aage life me kya karna hai kaise karna hai devide karna aasan ho jayega. Just talk to him and express ur love, uske response se hi aadhi baate clear ho jayegi.

      1. Hum karte he usse baat lekin jub se mere parents ko pata chala he tab se me usko call nahi kar pa rahi
        Wo to humare sath hass kar bolta he ke kash hum dono hamesha ese hi sath me hasse wo khana nahi khata jub tak usse ye na pata ho ke mene khaliya
        Agar phone pe baat karne se kareeb aa sak te he to hum une call kare ge
        Apke paas agar koi or tarike ho unko khush karne ke to kya aap batae gi

  74. Hiii…

    tanu here….
    Shivani mai bahot paresan hu mera bf hmesa kahta h k mai tumse bahot pyaar krta hu but na hi call krta h na kbi puchta h kaisi ho mai hi usko call krun ab go sahi se baat bi nhi krta h busy hone ka bahana btaya krta h

    1. Vo kaam kya karta hai iske upar depend karta hai ki vo kitna busy hai kitna nhi. Aur agar pyar karta hai to use tumhari care to karni chahiye, lagta hai mamla kuch gadbad hai.

  75. Hey shivshi….Mera bf pehle mjhse bhut pyar krta tha but but jabse mene uske saath close relesion banaye hai tabse wo bhut change ho gya hai or usne mere saath brekup bhi kr diya hai or bolta hai ki ap wo mjhs pyaar nhi krta plz help me ab me use apni life me kese wapas lau

    1. Kajal accept the reality, vo ladka ja chuka hai and use lana bhut muskil hai because uska koi imaan dharam nhi hai.

  76. Ashi :- Agar aapka BF aapko zyada rok tock karta hai, That mean he loves u a lot but ye nhi hona chahiye ki aapko aisha lagne lage ki aap apna freedom hi kho chuki ho so aap usse ye batane ki koshis karo ki aapko ye sab pasand nhi,
    Agar fir bhi na mane to aap brekup kar lena kyonki brekup karne se naa aap khush rahogi na wo so frist try to understand him then go fro brekup.

  77. hey Shivshi…i m Ashi…mera ak bf h n wo mjhe lke hd se jyada possesive h…jo mjhe bhut irritate b krta h…i mean bht jyada rok tok…n i lyk my freedom…mjhe uss k sath breakup krna h so plz tell me a decent way…plz help me

    1. Sure I will help you. Give me some time, Main thoda research karke ek acha sa article likhti hu is baare me, thoda time lgega so ps wait.

  78. Thanks….pr maine bahut baar samjhaaya hai usko,,wo samajhti hi nhi…….mere ko bolne lgti hai wo,,ki tm ekdmmm unromantic ho yaar…pta nhi kb samajh aayega

    1. Romantic hone ka matlab ye nhi ki road par hi kuch bhi karne lago. Maan Maryada bhi koi cheez hoti hai.

  79. Hii,shivshi…..yaar meri gf bahut hi ajeeb type ki hai..hm jb v road pe chalte rhte hain,,pta nhi use kya ho jata hai wo mujhe beech road pe kiss krne lgti hai…s v log hmein ghoorne lgte hain…jo ki mujhe bahut bura lgta hai.wo hamesha mujhe kiss krne k liye pagal si bni rhti hai…mujhe kuchh v samajh nhi aa rha….plzz help me..main use kaise samjhaoon.

    1. Use bolo ki mujhe ye pasand nhi hai aur vaise bhi humari sanskriti sareaam aise road par aise kaam karne wali nhi hai, kuch kaam darwaje ke piche kiye jaaye tab hi theek rhte hai. Vo aapki gf hai itni baat samjhaoo use.

  80. HI shivshi, main bahut pareshan hu…main andh vishwas nahi manti…mere bf ki family shayad mujhe pasand nahi karti…aur wo kuch na kuch kami nikalne mein lage rahte hain…ab mere BF ne kundli ka bahana banaya hai, jabki ye mujhe bilkul pasand nahi…aap batao kya kisi pandit ke kahne se hamare bich ki chemistry badal jayegi??? nahi na…to fir ye dhong kyo???muje koi dar nahi ki kundli mile ya nahi, kyo ki main manti hi nahi ye sab…aise to kisi anaath ya paaye hue bachche ki sahi janm tithi bhi pata nahi chal sakti kabhi…par mera BF apne dhongo se bahar nahi aata…agar future mein shadi hui bhi to mai sochti hu ki muje tab bhi un logo ke andh vishwas sehne hoge…muje ni sehna…please break up ka koi tarika bataye…jisse ki shanti se break up ho jaye…

    1. Hmmmm… that really a serious problem. Wait Sejal give me some time to think the Best answer of this question.

  81. main apni girl friend se bahut pyaar karta hun…. mujhe darr hai ki kahi wo mujhe ignore to nahi kar rahi….. kyon ki wo mujhse msg me thik se reply nahi deti hai, main hi har topic nikal nikal kar baat karta hun….. apni girl friend ke liye har rozz pareshan rehta hun main, har rozz mujhe rona aata hai uske liye…. kyon ki main use khona nahi chahta hun……. please meri help jarur kijiye…

    1. Aapki is problem ka solution main bhut jaldi share krungi Ayush. Tab tak shivshi.com regular visit karte rrhiye. Thanks

      1. please jaldi reply kijiye dekhiye na aaj subha se mujhe ek baar bhi wo mujhe msg aur call to bahut door ki baat hai wo bhi nahi ki hai………. mujhe to yehi lag raha hai ki wo mujh me interest hi kho chuki hai, kyon ki aap tp jaanti hi ho ki har nayaa chij ek na ek din purana jarur hota hai…… waise hamre relationship me bahut baar break-up aur patch-up bhi hua hai aur in dino fir hamara patch-up june ke first week me hua, wo mere dost ROHIT ko ph ki aur boli “Ayush se ham abhi bhi bahut pyaar karte hai Rohit”- Fir main uski isi baat me deewana ho gaya aur main usse baat karna shuru kar diya, aap to janti hi hai ki ham ladke sacche pyaar ke kitne bhuke rehte hai…. ham ek dusre se shadi ka waada v kar chuke hai…… maine kal apne ghar me hamare shadi ki baat bhi ki hai…… uske ghar me bhi sab mujhe pasand karte hai….. mujhe to bas yehi darr hai ki wo mujhse door na chali jaay, ya fir shadi karne ke baad kahi wo mujhse khush hi na reh paay…… mujhe use paane ki ek junun si aa gayi hai…. agar wo mujhe nahi mili to main kisi se bhi shadi nahi karunga……. maine to kitni baar suicide karne ki koshis bhi ki hai par mere samne apne family ki zimmedarri aa jaati hai………

  82. ak ladki h jo meri girl friend h wo mujhe chhodkar apne bhai ke sale se sambandh bna chuki karib 1 month se or mera uske sath 2 year se saambandh rah chuka h or wo usse mankarke bat karti h mene us ladki ke sath bura bartav bhi kiya or mene usse mobile bhi le liya me use dobara pana chahta hu please mujhe koi trika btaye mene pori try kar li h
    please mujhe koi achha tarika btaye jisse wo mere sath phir se jud jaye meri gali ye h ki mene use ghar walo ki najar me gira diya please reply just komal tiwari

    1. Aapne bola ki Aapne uske saath bura bartav kiya. Aisa kyu kiya aapne ? Aur Kya kiya tha aapne ?
      Dusri baat, aapne use ghar walo ki najar me gira diya. Kaise ?

      1. Mere boyfriend ke bare mein maine apne ghar mein bata diya hai vi nature se achha hai but mujhe vo roj call nahi karta hamesha kam mein busy rahata hai tabhi main use call karti hun or vo jab free hota hai to rest leta hai jab main call karu to bolta hai abhi fresh hoke baitha hun.gussa mat kiya karo tum aisa mujhe kahata hai. Ghar mein hone ki vajah se vo jyada bat bi nahi kar pata mujhse uske gharmein papa ko chhodkar sabhiko usne bhi mere baremein ghar mein bata diya hai. Maine apne relation ko space dena chaha to mere ghar ka koi kam ata hai aur vo krneke liye muse usase bolana bhi pad raha hai. Main kya karu