Aaj kal pyar mohabbat zindgi ka ek aisa part ban chuka hai jise hum me se koi bhi ignore nhi kar sakta. Koi maane ya na maane par aaj har insaan apne dil ke kone me khi na khi ye jarur chahta hai ki koi use chahne wala ho, koi use pyar karne wala ho, jo uski care kare. Ab sochne waali baate ye hai ki agar hum chahte hai ki humse pyar karne waala humse duniya me sabse jyada pyar kare to humara bhi kuch farz banta hai apne pyar ke liye. Aksar dekhne ko milta hai, ladke apni girlfriends ko khush rakhne ki bahut kosish karte hai aur unhe khush karne ke liye vo har kaam karte hai jo girls ko pasand hota hai.

Par kya hum girls apne boyfriends ko impress karne ke liye utni kosish karti hai, jitni hume karni chahiye. Main aisa bilkul nhi kehti ki girls apne Sapno ke Rajkumar se pyar nhi karti, balki main manti hu ki, Har insan apne sathi ko Khushi dena chata hai. Par kuch ladkiya theek se aisa nhi kar paati. So aaj main aapko kuch secret tips btane ja rhi hu jinse na sirf ladki apne Jaan ko impress kar sakegi balki apne pyar ke bandhan ko aur bhi packa kar sakti hai.

Boyfriend Ko Kaise Impress Kare Best Tips in hindi

Humari choti choti shararte or har lahme ko khul ke Jeena hi man ko sachi Khushi deta hai… waise to Sache pyar ko impress word ki jarurat nahi per har lahme ko yaadgar banane ke liye thoda impress karna bhi jruri hai. Remember, impress means tricks (Kisi ki Khushi ke liye ki gyi thoda si sharart) Jo 100% sach bhi nahi hai or puri tarah jhooth bhi nhi. So let’s begin..

Boyfriend Ko Impress Karne Ke Secret Tips

Give Special Attention to Him

Ye har insan ki dil ki hasrat hoti hai ki use pyar karne waala uske liye saari duniya ko bhul jaaye. What I mean to say is, jaise aap sochti ho ki bf tumhari taraf special attention de aur jab tum use milo to vo sirf tumhara ho, usi tarah boys ko bhi attention dena tumhare relationship ko aur majboot aur pyar ko mohabbat bana dega.

Spend Time With Him

Har aashiq ye chahta hai use apni Dilruba ka deedar ho 😉 har premi ke man me apni mehbooba se milne ki tadap hoti hai so ye uski sapno ki raani ka farz banta hai ki unki khushi ke liye kabhi kabhi unke saath acha time gujare. Ek baat ka khas khyal rakhna chahiye ki, jab aap unke saath ho to puri tarah se unke saath raho, har pal ko aise jiyo jaise aakhri ho.

Good Morning Sweet Heart ♥

Subah sabse pahle uth kar use pyar se good morning wish kare. Aisa karne se unhe bhut khushi milti hai.. Aur unhe aap ki morning wish ki aadat pad jaati hai. Fir agar kabhi aap morning wish krna bhul jaao to vo aap se jarur puchega ki aaj Good Morning wala msg kyu nahi kiya.. Uske aisa puchne se aap ko bhut khushi milegi aur aap unhe ched kar tang karoge to pyar aur badhega. 😉

Khana Khaya?

Roj us se puche ki usne time per khana khaya ya nhi, agar usne kha nhi to use pyar se daant lagao taaki use ehsaas ho ki aapko apni zindgi me hasil karke use kitna anmol gift mila hai.

Uski problem Samjho

If he is going through some difficulty then help him. Don’t get anger at that time. It creates distance in relation. Mujhe nhi lagta ki is point ki explain karne ki jrurat hai. Musibat ke time me jo saath de vhi apna hota hai so agar use jarurat ho to uski madad karo, kisi bhi tarah se use preshan nhi karna chahiye.

Share Happiness

Apne Khushi ke pal sabse pahle uske saath share kare, is se use special feel hoga. Fir vo bhi apni zindgi ki har jaruri baat aapke saath share karega is tarah se aap dono ek dusre ke aur kareeb aa jaoge.

Miss You Jaan

Don’t forget to tell him that, you miss him. Ladka baar baar aapko Miss You, Miss You kahe aur aap idhar udhar ki baaton me hi busy rho that’s now fair. Kabhi kabhi aapko bhi use ehsas dilana chahiye ki aapki life me uski kya importance hai and aap usse dur rah kar use kitna miss karti ho.

Do Unexpected
Do something which is not expected. Like agar aap ne kabhi apne boyfriend ko kiss Nahi kiya to surprisingly kiss him…? Yakeen maano uski khushi ka thikana nhi rhega aur uske chehre par jo khushi aapko najar aayegi use dekh kar aapko ehsaas hoga, yhi to hai pyar.

Do What He Like

Do something what he likes the most. For example, uski pasand ki dress or something like this.. I know it’s very old trick but don’t forget old is gold 😉 Believe me it’s really work.. You can try anytime 🙂

Appreciate Him

Duniya me shayad hi koi aisa insaan hoga jise apni tareef na pasand ho. Matlab, har kisi ko apni tarif achi lagti hai khash kar apni girlfriend se oo uske bhut karib hoti hai. Mauka milne par ya kisi special occasion par apne bf ki tarif kro per vo sachi tarif honi chahiye.

Ask About His Family

Appreciate his family. If you know about them just ask some basic things to him. Mostly boys love their moms so try to appreciate his mother personality or the way she love him. Try to get more close to the thing he loves and likes the most. Ask about his younger brother, He will love to share his things with you.

Hathon Me Haath

Uske shoulder per aapna sir rakh kar uske hath me apna hath le kar baithne se use ahsaas hoga ki tum use kabhi khona nahi chate. It will make you relationship more strong.

Precautions

So, maine aapko apne boyfriend ko impress karne ke dher saare tips bata diye hai, so ab Raja ji ki koi compalin nhi aani chahiye 😛 Lekin ek baat ka khyaal rahe, Suddenly ek dum se ye saare ke saare tricks istemal karna na shuru kar dena, khi pata lage bechara dar gaya ki mere Dil Ki Raani pagla gyi hai :D. Use all these Boyfriend happiness Tips & tricks one by one.. 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. Hii shivsi
    Meri problem ye he ki me ek 6 sal se relationship me hu 2 sal bahut achha raha but bad me usne dusri ladki ke sath sadi kardi fir use vo pasand nahi aayi to sadi tod di 3 month me muje bola mere liye sadi todi he. Uski mere pehle bhi ek gf thi jisse vo kabhi kabhi manane ki kosis karte the but vo mani nahi or uski bhi sadi kahi or ho gai.bad me usne muje kaha me usse pyar karti hu to vo jo kahega vo karna padega me man gai jo usne kaha vo sab kiya bad me paise tak bat pohchi to me hlp karne ke liye paise bhi deti thi vo bhi meri care karte the. Fir mene apne ghar ke karan paise dene bandh kiye or tjoda juth bola to vo gussa ho gaye abhi vo mujse bat tak nahi karte bahut mana rahi hu but nahi man rahe bat tak nahi karte no bhi bandh kar diya he me kya karu ke vo man jaye

    1. Uska chakkar chodo aur life me aage badho, I will suggest this only. Agar khush rehna hai to tough decision lena hi hoga.

  2. Hi mem
    Mere husband Mujhse Pahele jesa piyar nahi karte or Pahele Jesi bat bhi nai karte to me Kiya karu

  3. Mam me apne bf se bahot jada piyar karti hu mera bf bhi mujhe bahot jada piyar karta hai magar ek din mujhe usne kahipe janese mana kiya tha magar mene uski baat nahi mani usne phone off kar diya hai pehle to vo 1minit bi mujhse baat kiya bina chalta tha or ab 4 din ho gaye hai me kya karu ?mam plzzz plzzz help me.

  4. Comment Text*mam mai ek ladki ko bohot chahte hai uske liye kuch bhi kr sakte hai lekin humko usko purpose krne ka kabhi time hi nhi milta or uska bf hai pehle se hum uske bina ek pal bhi nhi reh sakte mar jayege mam plz btao mam keise impressed kre usko please mam btao please, please, please jaldi.

  5. Hi shivshi mam mera bf or me ek dusre se bohot pyaar krte hai usne muje shadi ke liye purpose bhi kiya h or humare bohot se sapne hai par mam problem ye h ki wo hindu hai or me muslim mam hum dono ke parents ko hum chhodh kar bhag bhi nhi sakte or hum jante hai wo kabhi ha nahi bolenge khas tor se mere parents so mam plz kuch idea dijiye

  6. Hyy mam plzz mujhe ek baat btao aap..mai or mere bf ek dusre se bhut true love krte.. hum dono k lye sbse jyada imp hum dono ek dusre k lyee h ..or koi bhi nhi etna pyar krte k family tk nhi dekhte ..na mere bf or na mai ..bt aap mujhe ye btao ki ky relationship bnane se pyar or bdh jayega ..kuch glt to nhi h na…??plzz jldi rply dijyega ..I’m waiting for ur bst decision..

    1. Aisa kuch nahi hota ki relationship bnane se pyar or bdh jayega.. Pyar 2 aatmao ka mel hai, agar koi ye kehta hai ki apna Pyar prove karne ke liye Sex relationship banao to vo koi pyar nhi karta vo sirf tumhari taraf sexually attracted hai. Aise me bhut soch samajh ar decision lena, varna baad me problem ho sakti hai!

  7. Hi
    Maim
    Mai apne bf se milne ja rahi hu
    Ek do din mai
    Mai aise kya baat kru jo use acha lagy aur mai aisa kya gift le jao jo usko acha lagey
    Vo bhut simpl sa banda hai

    1. Ladko ke liye Watch ek acha gift hai, agar use padhna pasand hai to koi acchi Book bhi di ja sakti hai.. ya koi achi T-shirt.
      Usse baat karte time uski aankho me dekh kar baat karna and Hans ke usse baat karna jaise 2 real friends karte hai, usse chote chote sawal puchna aur hansi majak karna. Ladko ko is tarah ki cheez bhut pasand hoti hai!

        1. Just keep urself busy, focus on your work and Don’t think about him. Yahi tareeka hai, abhi samjho ya late so batter hai abhi samajh jaao 🙂

  8. Hello shivshi mam main ek ladki se pyaar karta hu. Hum dono lagbhag 3 saal se relationship me hai. Problem ye hai ki ab mujhe usse bat karne me wo pahle jaisi filling nhi hoti hai aur muje office k kam ka jayda presar rahne laga h. Sidi bat kahu to main use dispose krna chahta hu par ye baat use dairectly bol ne par uska bohot dil dukhega. Main chahta hu wo mujhe khud I hate u. Main kya kru. Plsss plsss help. Me

  9. Hi shivshi mam main ek ladki se pyaar karta hu mai aur wo lagbhag 3 saal se batchit kar rahe hai. Par ab mujhe usse baat karne main pahle jaisi filling nhi mil paa rahi hai. Sidi baat kahun to main use dispose karna chahta hu par main use dairectly bol nhi sakta ke uska dil dukhana nh chahta hu. Main aisa kya kru jo wo mujhe khud bol de I hate u. Pls help me.

  10. Hi shivshi mam main ek ladki se pyaar karta hu mai aur wo lagbhag 3 saal se batchit kar rahe hai. Par ab mujhe usse baat karne main pahle jaisi filling nhi mil paa rahi hai. Sidi baat kahun to main use dispose karna chahta hu par main use dairectly bol nhi sakta ke uska dil dukhana nh chahta hu. Main aisa kya kru jo wo mujhe khud bol de I hate u. Pls help me.

  11. Hiii mam aap mujhee bhtt cutee lgtaii hoo bt yaar mraa question yeh h k mein jisssai pyr krti hu woh mujhe itna time nhi detaa lekin vo mujsai pyr bhi nhi krtaa abhi aap hi btaoo k mein kya kruu plssssssss

    1. Kya pata usko aapna career zayada important ho yeh toh aapko understand karna chahiye hai aap uske sath baith ker yeh problem sovle kare i m sure woh samjhege.

  12. Muzhe aapse ye puchna h mere clg me ek ladaka h mai use bahot pasand karti hu or vo bhi karta h bt vo uske past ko nhi bhul para es karn vo muzhase frankly baat nhi karta koi baate share nhi karta muzhe kya karna chahiye

    1. Aapko soch samajh kar dimag ke saath aage badhna chahiye… Us par kisi cheez ka pressure mat dalo… Dekho simple si baat hai… Agr to vo tumse pyar karta hoga to vo tumhara hi hoga aur agar nahi karta hoga to koi fayda nahi. Bas tum usse acche se baat karo, care karo jo karna chaho karo par use kuch bhi karne ke liye jor mat do… Pyar hoga to khud bahar aa jayega uske andar se 🙂

  13. M apne boyfriend see Bhut pyar karti Hu par Bo hmesa gussa hota h agar online der se aao to uski Bat n mano to or ab to Bhut jyada kaftan h Bo ki kabhi Bat Mt karna tm hmse or m puri kosis karti Hu ki sari bat manu m uski par ab to Bo sunta bhi ni h meri m kya kru Bo mujh se Bhut karta h m janti Hu par m kya kru ki aise gussa n Ho meri Bat bhi samjhe Bo apni hi chalata h hmesa

    1. Vo besak tumse bhut pyar karta hai but uska behavior ek psycho ke jaisa hai jiske saath khushi se Life nhi gujari ja sakti, aise insan khud bhi preshan rahte hai aur dusre ko preshan rakhte hai so decide ur future carefully.

  14. Hy mere problem ye hai ki mera bf mujhse bahut pyr karta hai pr mai ushki bt nhi manti to WO DAT ta hai meri har jaruret ko pura bhi karta hii aur merit ceyr bhi karta hii pr bt ye hii ki bich m hamare bich bahut ladayi huwa jishke krn mera rileshon kisi aur ke sath ban gya aur use pata chal gya fhr WO mujhe Maf kar k apne life m le aaya aur ushke bad hamare bich m ladai na ho ish liye mai kai bate jhuth kehti hu aur fhr pata chalne k karn hamare bich ladai hota haii aur WO aub mujhpe yakin nhi kar para bat bat pe shak karta hai aur bahut pabendi lagane laga hai kahi aane Jane nahi deta pr shadi karunga bolta hai aub app batao mai esha kya karu ki WO yakin karne lage mujh pe aur WO galti aaj tk nhi kiya mai Jo boli WO kiya PR fhr bhi pata nhi mai ush pe shak karne lagi hu aap batao mai kya karu mai bahut pyr karti hu use kabhi khona nahi cahti usse plz help me

    1. Ye bahut normal cheez hai jo almost har relationship me hota hai. Bas aapko ek cheez karni hai jab bhi koi chota ya bada koi bhi doubt ho to uske baare me aaram se pyar se aapas me baat karo, pyar se gusse se nahi. Apni real feelings share karo and jaisa vo kehta hai thoda adjust karne ki kosish karo jo easily ho sakta hai. Aur agar vo aisi cheezon ke liye mana karta hai jo karna tumhare liye impossible hai to uske saath aage relationship me rehna hai ya nahi ye soch lo aur fir us faisle ke saath aage badho.

  15. Helowww diii.. Tips bhut axi h, dii meri problem ye h ki m usko bhut pyar krti hu or wo mjko b bhut pyar krta h. Par di m hmesha ldai krti hu galti b meri hoti h tb bi wahi sorry bolta h. Mjse pele uski bhut gf thi skul m or sbse usne brek up kr liya usne ulsne mje apne past k bare m sb btaya hua h par di jo uski x gf thi m utni smart ni hy jitni wo sb thi jb b m usko ye bt bbaat bolti hu to wo kehta h ki pyar mjko kisi se ni hua or dii uske jitne b best frnds h wo sb bolte h plzz naraj mt hua kr wo yal akele dil hi dil m bjut rota h. Pr usko x gf k msg aate h bhae hi wo rply ni krta mjko btata h ki msg aaya mene rply ni kiya tb mjko gussa aata h ki unka msg q aaya tb ldai krti hu m

    1. Hahaha… Beta tumhari problem kya hai mujhe ye samajh nhi aa rha, agar koi use message karta hai to isme uski kya galti, ab hum kisi ko text karne se to rok nahi sakte aur isme ladne ya gussa hone waali to koi baat hi nahi hai, socho agar tumhe tumhari gali ke ya class ke ladke message kare aur tum unhe mana karo fir bhi vo karte rahe aur tumhara BF is baat ko issue bana kar lade to tumhe kitna kharab lagega.

      Pyar ka rishta to vo rishta hai ki jisme halat chahe kuch bhi ho jaye hum dusre insan par ucha bol nhi sakte, ladne ki baat to dur ki hai. Apni soch theek karo aur jyada sochna band kar do, life me jo hina hai vo ho kar rahega, use na tum rok sakti ho na hi koi aur isliye jis pal me ho us pal ko khul kar jiyo. Khush raho.

    2. Di mere problem yeah h ki me apne bf se bhout pyr krti hu par pta nh usko achank higya ekdum change hogya aaj 1 sal se Jada horha me use mnnaki kosi krri par ;-( bat to krta h kbhi jb call kru bsha ya na kyavjru me usko bhul bh nh skti mam koi tarika to hogaaa usko baos lane kaa

      1. Beta apne mann ko control karo aur sach ko sweekar karo, Vo ladka tumhara nahi hai aur tumhe ye baat man kar life me aage badhna chahiye. Aisa to life me chalta rehta hai ki hume apni pasand ki cheez ya insan nahi milta iska matlab ye nhi ki usi ke baare me din raat soch kar waqt jaya kiya jaaye.

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  16. Thanks dii hamare beech bahut pyar hai wo bahut special h mere liye…. I have no problem meri sari problem ka salutations h mera aadi…

  17. Meri problem ye h kis me ek ladke se bahaut pyaar krti hu but shayad wo kisi or ladki se pyaar krta h lekin me use khona ni chahti plz kuch aisa btao ki wo us ladki se bt krni chod de or hmesha ke liye mera ho jaye

    1. Hahaha…. dusre ka ghar ujaad kar apna ghar basana chahti ho Divya, ab ye socho jo tumhare liye kisi aur ko chod dega vo kisi ke liye tumhe bhi to chod sakta hai.

  18. Hlo di meri problem ye h ki hmara relationship to h 3 yr b ho gye h sb kuvh thik h bt m bhot shy nature ki hu i mean.unse aj nzre nhi mila pati bhot shy feel krti hu or hesitation b hoti h m to unke samne thik se kha b nhi pati sochti hu milenge to ye hoga vo hoga bt jb milte h m acch afeel nhi kr apti shy bhot shy m q unke sath frnk nhi hu m kya kru jisse unka intrest mujhme or bd jae mujje hmesa lgta h ki unko mujhme kuch jada intrest nhi h bt h ek dusre se pyar bhot krte h bt m andr se ab bhi bhot dur feel krti hu khud ko unse

    1. Piya this problem (Shyness) is killer, iske karan na jaane kitne rishte toot chuke hai… Tumhe apne nature me thoda badlaav lana hoga, films dekhti ho unme Girls jaisa karti hai apne aap ko vaisa banane ki kosish karo (I’m not talking about bad bitches) Apne nature me kuch adayein laao, hansa seekho, hasane ki kosish karo, majak karo, smile karo, thoda attitude laao aur thoda ched-khani karna seekho isse tumhare relationship me 4 chand lag jayenge aur pyar aur bhi majboot hoga..

  19. Hiiiiii di,
    M ek ladke se bhot luv krti hu humara 2 saal ka relationship v tha mgr hr baar mene use cheat kiya… Ab wo meri shakl v dekhna psnd nhi krta h….. Ab jb wo mujse dur chala gya h to ab muje pta chala h ki m use kinna love krti hu pr ab wo mujse bat v nhi kr ra h…… So plzzz give me some suggestions….
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    Thnx

    1. Dil me jo bhi jitna bhi hai sab likh kar use bhej do aur maafi mango, ek chance aur dene ke liye bolo.. use bolo – “Bas ek baar milke baat karlo fir aapko marji jo karna hoga vo karna” Ho sakta hai pighal jaaye..

  20. Hhy dii
    Me ak ldke se occasion pr mili thi,hmara just hy hello hua.. Phr mne kai se uske no liye and mne use purpose b kr diya. But usne cast ki prblm bta k MNA kr day ki nai mujhe in Sb chizo me intrst nai.. Mre frnds khte h ki wo Syd tre level ka nai h but di wo just a politics me h to kya level ho gya. Me b engineering kr rai hu.. Me b politics me hu.. Uske jitni nai but phr b apni college me to huu hi..
    I don’t know yeh kya h .. Pyar , crush ya kya??
    Bus di aap yeh bta do me kya kru ki wo impress ho jae and hmara na milna hota h aur. Na hi kai aamna samba.. Wo social sites p b itna nai h..plz help me

    1. Dear, it is just an infactuation. Apko use pyar nahi hai, but aap use baat karna chahte ho, apko usme interest hai yeah sab infactuation hai aur kuch nahi aur thodi efforts ke sath aap ise control kar sakte ho.Aur agar seriously cast ki problem hai toh i would seriously advice in sab me mat padho kyunki abi toh aap start pe ho aur ap uske bina reh loge, koi aur bhi mil jayega, jab pyar ho gaya aur families nahi manenge toh bahut problem ho jyege dear. so apna decision soch samjh ke lo, emotional hoke nahi.

  21. Mai ik ldke se bht pyr krti hu BT vo nhi krta..uski xgf NE use cheat kiya or vo ab love me or serious hone me intrstrd nhi h Hum 4 saal se best Frd h or ab humari love ship b ho gyi j BT vo hr bar muje ik hi bat bolta ki m serious nhi ho skta.just time pss hi kruga.BT m chahti hu ki vo ik bar muj pe trust kre or muje pyr krne lge becoz I cnt lost him he is very special fr me.plz tell me m aisa kya kruu ki vo phle ki trh ho jayee

    1. Dear aapko shuru se shuruwat karni padegi, starting me aapko thodi mushkil ho sakti hai lekin agar aap 1 nya 2 mahine bhi dhang se bitaogi to wo aap par trust karna shuru kardega. Lekin agar aap koi bhi choti sii bhi galti karogi, to fir se aapko dubara shuruwat karni padegi. Kyunki wohi purana trust puri tarah se hassil karne ke liye aapko asal me saal bhi lag sakta hai.

  22. meri problem ka ye solution nhi h dear ap samjh nhi rahey ho meri baat me ye bolna chahti hu k jab wo puri tarah akele hotey h tab hi me yaad ati hu unhey jab dil karta h tab hi baat karta h wo mjhse or agar uski x ka kbhi msg ata h to wo puri tarah sad hojata h or mere pass ata h ye mjhe accha lagta h but wo isbaat se ab bhi darta h k phley bhi pyar kiya tha use waqt diya tha apni jaan mana tha to usney dhokha diya to wo ab mere sath kuch alag sa rehta h jese use fir se dhokha nhi khana jese kbhi kbhi mjhe esa lagta h jese use meri qadar hi nhi h….ab batao me kya karu plz

    1. Dear aap use khush rakhne ki koshih kiya karo or jo unhe pasand hai wohi sab kiya karo bas ye soch lo ki is relation me aap boyfriend ho.

  23. hii meri prob kuch alag si h actually me apne bf se bht zada pyar karti hu wo bhi mjhse pyar karta h but mjhse phley uski life me koi or tha or usney inka dil bht buri tarah toda tha to inhey ab apney frnds me or akela rehney ki adat hoga h ye pyar karteh h per jatatey nhi h agar hamar jhagda hota h tab mjhe hi msg karna padta h ye nhi kartey h dur rehsktey h tab se mene socha inki x ko inkey dil se nikal kar rahungi per kya karu mjhe kuch smjh nhi araha h plz dear help me hame ek dusrey k sath apni puri life bitani h………….plz

  24. hey me ek ladkey se bohat pyar karti hu wo bhi karta h but isse phley uska dil bht buri tarah tuta tha to use ab zada frnds me or akele rhney ki adat hogai h wo ye janta h k me uskey bina nhi rehsti hu but jab use gussa ata h tab wo kuch bhi boldeta h jisse mera dil tut jata h fir bhi me use maaf kardeti hu ab aap hi meri help kao k me kese uski x ko uskey dil se nikalu but prob ye h k wo nashik me rhta h or me mumbai me

  25. Hiiii…….
    I want to know
    Mera or meri gf ke relation ko 3 year hogye but abhi hum sure ni h ghrwale shadi k lye manenge so mam plz tell what can we do

    1. Ghar waalon se baat to karni hi hogi, sabse pahle family me jo aapke saath sabse jyada close hai ya jisse aapki sabse jyada banti hai, usse ye matter discuss kare fir soch samajh kar mamla aage badhaye.

  26. HI DI Me ek ladke se bohot pyaar karti hu but ek problem he uski or koi bhi gf he me use janti bhi hu meri or uski fight bhi hui he mene apne bf se bola ya to mujhse break up krlo ya usse but usne kha wo usse bhi break up nhi kr sakta or mujhse bhi nhi krega break up….di me uske bina nahi reh sakti me kya kru plz help me

    1. Kya samajh me nhi aa rha hai ? Vo tumhe chutiya bana rhi hai isliy ab kuch sochne ki jarurat hi nhi hai, bhaad me jaane do use. Aur usse har tarah ke contacts khatam karo, us ladki ka kya character hoga jo ghum kisi ke saath rhi hai aur kehti hai pyar tumse hi karti hu.

  27. Mai ek ladke se pyar karti hun aur wo v mujhsr pyar karta he par aaj kl wo mera call recv nhi kar raha he aur puchi ki call recv q nhi kiye to bolta he ki busy tha kya wo ab mujhse pyar nhi karta he ki ab wo mujhse baat nhi karna chahta

    1. Shak ka koi ilaaj nhi hai, bas ek aur sirf hi cheez ki ja sakti hai ki Baat karke apni shanka dur karo.

  28. Hello mam ….mai apne bf se bahut pyar krti hu aur b mjhse krte hain,wo hmesa mjhse romantic chat k liye kehte hain lkin mujhe romantic chat nhi krna ata ….can you help me??

    1. Kriti aap use bolo ki mujhe romantic hat karna nahi aata, aap shuru karo fir karte hai romantic chat. Agar vo fir bhi tumhe hi baar baar kehta hai to ek baat samajh lo Vo ladka jo bhi hai vo tumse maje lene ke liye aisa kar rha hai isliye savdhan rehna.

    1. Isme mujhe kuch karne ki jarurat nahi balki aap karo, intejar. Kuch time baad khud baat hone lagegi fir apni baat ka jawab mangna usse.

    2. Hi mujhe apse ye puchna h k mere aur bf k bich pichle 3 month se jhagda chal raha h bs wo mujhse ek hi bat bolta h k door chali jaao m tumhri sakl bhi nhi dekhna chahta in sub k bavjod wo mere msg krne PR phone to krt h lekin bahoot ulta shida bolta h aur abhi Monday KO bhi mere zidd krne PR Milne KO bhi tyaar hua h mujhe succhi usse bhul Jana chahiye

      1. voh apse payar karti hai magar apse gusa hai aur unka ego bich me ata hai tbhi vo aisa karti hai.

  29. Hii dee
    main apna bf ko bhot pyarr krti hun wo vi mujhe pyarr krte hai…bich me hum dono ke jhagre ho gaye our main use brkup kr dia 22days ke bad wo mujhe firse txt kya our hum love krte hain …main uske sath hamesha rehna cahti hun isliye maffi mangi brkup krne ke liye…our wo mijhe maff v kr dia wo mujhe bol raha hai ki wo apna carrer pe dhyann dena cahte hai…mujhe love krte rahenge lekin mere sath relationship main nhi rahega….main use bol dia ki thik hai jaisa tum caho par dee main relationship main rehna cahti hun par wo nhi manenge…wo mujhe wait krnekeliye bola hai agr ho sake tohh…dee ab main kya dicssn lun ki kya sahi jai kya glt…plzzz aap btaenge zra…

    1. Dear ek baar aap use apni feelings ke bare me btao or us bareh me baat karo or use ye bhi bolna ki me tumhe tang nahi karungi or wo maan jata hai to thik hai nahi to fir use koi or mil gayi hai shayad isiliye wo ab wo aisa kar rha hai baki agar aapko bhi aisa lagta haiki use koi or mil gayi hai to kuch bhi faisla lene se pahle ek baar us bare me thodi jaan kari jarur nikal lena.

      1. i m shweta meri problem h ki mera bf mujhe bahut pyar krta h bt kuch dino se hamare bich kafi bahas ho rhi h uska reasion mujhe pta h bt use aisa lgta h ki mera affair khi aur h mai kya karu ki use mujh pr trust ho jye plz sugges me

        1. Agar aapko apne pyar ka yakeen dilana padta hai to ya to aapka pyar sacha nhi ya fir jise aap pyar karte hai vo insan us pyar ke kabil nhi, isme kuch bhi prove karne ki jarurat nhi hoti. Bewakoof hote hai vo log jo kuch karke apne pyar ka yakeen dilane ki kosish karte hai.

  30. Mai ek ladke se pyr krti hu.wo bhi krta h pr.wo kabhi jatata hi nahi h or na kabhi mujhse bat krne ka uska man hota hai.na fon na msg..

    1. Vo uska nature hai dear, nature badalna muskil kaam hai ir bhi aap usse is baare me khul kar baat karein aur use motivate kare ye sab karne ke liye.

  31. mam wo both dur ja rha h mujhse mujhe both akela pan mehsoos ho rha h plz mam ap marko btao ki me kya kru bol rha h ki papa ki khusi ke bina me tujhse sadi ni kr skta aur mam me kya use kese samjau kese use wapis hasil karu me uske bina ni ji skti uske bina mera koi future ni h

    1. Dekho kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya person baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. or sath hi dear ye 21th century ab cast ko bich me lane ka t koi matlab hi banta. I think I’ve made my point.

  32. mam abi do din phele sb kuch tikh tha aur mam wo apne ghar gya tha aur jb se ghar se aya h hostel me tb se mam bolta h ki hmari sadi ni ho skti mere papa ni mane ge hum dono ko ka koi future ni h mere papa bilkul bi ni manege aur hum dono ko alag ho jaana chaiye age jake both dikkat hoyeggi abi se dur ho jate h mam mene use both samjaya ki abi se itne age ki kyo soch rha h sb man jayege lakin mam wo meri ak bi bat manne ko tayar ni h bs yehi bol rha h ki me apne papa ki marzi ke bina tujhse sadi ni kruga mam me kya karu use samjane ke liye wo mujhse dur ja rha h plz meri help kro me use kase apne pas lekar ayu kya karu me

  33. Hi mam mera bf shadi shuda he lekin so mujse bahot pyar karta he wo meri har khusi Kai khyal rakhta he wo mujse age me bhi bada he mam plz meri help kijiye kya wo mujse saccha pyar karta he

    1. Besak kitna bhi pyar karta ho, vo shaadi shuda hai isliye behtar hoga aap apne aap ko usse dur karo agar life me khush rehna chahti ho to.

  34. aap ko mane eka msg kiya tha plz aap ke mere kuch help kar duo ke tick ho jaye sub kuch woh mana kar raha saadi ke liye plz kuch esa batao ke woh maan jaye badal jaye plz shivshi as frend i requst you plz

    1. Dear ek bar usse baat karo akele me or wo bhi face to face ki aisa kya ho gya or use apni feelings ke bare me btao or dear please usse pahle ye jarur pata karlena ki kahi usne koi or gf to nahi bna li. Or agar usne aisa jkiya hai to please use bhul jaiye or bhagwan ko thankx kijiyega ki usne sahi time par aapko bacha liye kyunki agar baad me wo aisa karta to aap na to shambhal pati na hi kuch sihk pati or ek baat usse fir dubara kabhi bhi accept mat kijiyega kyunki jo ladka kisi or ladkike liye aappko chord sakta hai wo is kabil nahi ki use ek or mauka diya jaye.

  35. Hey, Shivshi Mai ek ladki Se bhut pyar krta hu, kaise pta kre ki wo mujhse pyar krti hai ya nhi ,please reply fast I’m waiting.

    1. Alix Google par jaa kar search karo – `kaise pata kare ladki pyar karti hai ya nahi` jo sabse pahla result link hoga use open kar lena, aapka jawab aapko mil jayega 🙂

  36. yr meri prblm to bhut bdi h mera 3 saal ka relation hai or seriously ab jakr breakup hua h wo bhi meri gltiyo ki wjh se or ab usne apni ex se bt krna shuru kr di h pr aj bhi agr mujhe koi ulta bole to ldne ko tyr ho jata h abhi kuch dino phle hi uski ldai hui kyoki uske ek dost ne mere bare me ulta bola jb m usse puchti hu esa kyo kra to khta hai ki m teko like krta hi nh tha mne tujhse jbrdsti kri fir ek side wo itna pyr bhi dikhata h pr mere aagey nh so pls help me

    1. Shruti aisa hota hai, ho sakta hai vo ab bhi aapse pyar karta hai aur aapse naraj hai isliye kuch bolta nahi hai iske liye aap ek kaam karo, ek baar use milne ke liye bulao aur kaho – Main tumse sirf ek baar milna chahti hu, uske baad tum chahe sari zindgi mujhse mat milna pls.” vo agar pyar karta hoga to jarur aayega fir uske samne apne emotions bahar aane dena, means usse hans ke bat karna but use ye jarur dikhana ki hum kuch U love him, usse apni galti ki maafi mangna aur aap aisa kya karogi jisse fir vo problm na ho ye bhi batana… Mujhe lagta hai baat ban jayegi. Try it an do let me know.

  37. Hi mai kisi se pyar karti hu 3 sal ka sath hai humara lekin vo mujhse shadi nhi karna chahta vo ghar walo ki marji se hi shadi karega mai kya karu pehle usne mujhse shadi karne ka vada kiya tha or ab vo mna kar rha hai keh rha hai ki meri family mna kar rhi hai esliye mai tumse shadi nhi kar sakta ab mene usse bat karni bnd kar di mujhe pta chala ki uske liye koi rishta aaya hai or us ladki se vo rat bhar bate karta hai WhatsApp or phon call par kafi time tak us ladki se bat hoti rhi par ab vo rishta kisi vajh se nhi ho paya jab tak us ladki se bat kar rha tha to mujhse usne ek din bhi bat nhi ki lekin jabse vo rishta tuta to vo mujhse bat karne laga esko mai kya samjhu ki vo mujhse pyar karta bhi tha ya nhi ya phir ab karta hai ya nhi usne mujhe kafi bar dokha diya lekin mene usko humesa maf kiya ab mujhe kya karna chahiye kuki ab mene usse bat karna bnd kar diya hai kya mujhe es rishte ko aage badana chahiye ya fir aise hi rehne dena chahiye…

  38. Actually mere Jo sahbzade h unki pblm ye h ki unka sbkuch lmtd h n meri pblm ye h ki mera sbkuch unlmtd h…hehe..to hota yu h ki abhi hum apne relationship ko publicly anniunce nahi kar sakte bcz of some reason..aur meri thori galti ho gayi mene extd ho k bohoto ko bata diya…n ye uske liye kuch pblms creat kar rahi h…n isi wajah se hamari ladai ho gayi…wo bohot pyar karta h mujhse or me varosa bhi karti hu..kabhi use khona nahi chahti…aisa nahi h ki wo reserve typ banda h but relationship k matter me abhi show off nahi chaiye use..wo khta h tym ane pe wo khud announce karega…mujhe bas yahi bura lagta h sabko dekh k ki sab openly kehte h ye meri gf h ye mera bf h..but me samjhti hu uski situation but fir v bura lagta h mujhe…wo 2 din se thik se baat v nahi kar raha mujhse isi mttr pe jhagre k baad..hum dono ko viral fvr hua h i called him bt thk se baat nhi kiya phn kat diya…use pata v nhi ki mujhe v fvr h…mei kya karu? Use thori der akela chor du kya? Kyu ki use gussa bohot zada aata h..plz batao me kya karu

  39. Mera bf ni hai…pahle tha ab ni hai ..Lekin Meri lyf me Aisa ldka hai jisko me bahot pyar krti hu ..hum dono baat krte hai milte hai ..usk bi Muje Leke kafi feelings hai..usne kabi mere sth share ni kia..kabi usko puchti to bolta hai feel krta hai..hamare bich me Sirf prblm Aati hai mere past ko leke jise vo Muje apni feeling share ni kr Pata hai or dusre mere bare Galat bolta hai to usko trust kr lega hai mere past me Aisa kuch tha kr k..vo office me bahot busy rhta hai Muje bahot Kam tym deta hai..infackt tym hi ni de Pata..me usko samja na chahti hu baat krna chahti hu hamre bich me aane vali saari prblm dur krna chahti hu… Usko mere pr trust dilana chahti hu past me Aisa kuch ni tha nd future me Aisa Kuch bi ni hoga plzzzzzzz help me

    1. Dear aapko shuru se shuruwat karni padegi, starting me aapko thodi mushkil ho sakti hai lekin agar aap 1 ya 2 mahine bhi dhang se bitaogi to wo aap par trust karna shuru kardega. Lekin usse pahle aapko usse akele me baat bhi karni hogi or sath hi use apni feelings ke bar me btana hoga uske baad jo uska reaction hoga usi ke hisab se aapko chalna hoga. Kyunki wohi purana trust puri tarah se hassil karne ke liye aapko asal me saal bhi lag sakta hai.

  40. Hi mam
    I have a bf. But WO mujhe waqt nahi de pate. WO apane kam mai etne busy hote hai ki WO khudakehi plans and promise bhul jate hai.
    Aur is sabse mai bahot pareshan hoti hu. Mai iske baremai bat karati hu to WO sirf bahane batate hai. Aur wo bahane sahi aur sachhe bhi hote par kabhi to wo business ko chodakar much waqt mere lite bhi nikale. WO mujse pyar karate hai. WO mujhe had problems mai sathi dete hai par khushi ka kya karu mai. Mujhe unke sath time spend karana hai.

    1. Dear dekho agar wo aapko pyaar karta hai to aapko is bare me shikayat nahi karni chahiye kyunki jab wo ek successful insaan ban jayega to wo aapse aaram se shadi kar payega. isliye aapko thoda to sehene kana hi hoga.

      1. Hi shivsi Meri orobl ye hai ki mai jisse Pyar karti hun woh bhi mujhse bohot pyar karta hai lekin mere ek jhuth ke Karan usme or mujhme durian aa gai hai actually maine aapne passt ke bare Mai us se chupa kar rakh or usne Apne past ke bare Mai Mujhe Sab Kuch bataya tha lekin mere purane bf ke bare Mai use kisi or ne bataya Toh ab HUMARA relationship pehle jaisa nAi raha bohot formal ho gaya hai Toh pl s aap Mujhe batao ki mujhe Apna reletionship pehle jaisa karne ke liye Kya karna padega ,…..

        1. Dear aapko shuru se shuruwat karni padegi, starting me aapko thodi mushkil ho sakti hai lekin agar aap 1 nya 2 mahine bhi dhang se bitaogi to wo aap par trust karna shuru kardega. Lekin agar aap koi bhi choti sii bhi galti karogi, to fir se aapko dubara shuruwat karni padegi. Kyunki wohi purana trust puri tarah se hassil karne ke liye aapko asal me saal bhi lag sakta hai.

  41. mam mere bf ka birthday a rha h me asa kya karu jisse usko both khusi mile aur hmara pyar aur bi bad jayega plz btao mujhe

    1. Dekho dear wo aapka bf hai to aapko malum hoga ki use kis cheez se khushi milti hai or aapko fir us cheez ke bare me soch kar use karna chahiye.

  42. Hello,mam merit aj tk koi gf nhi bni mai jb boys ko dekhta hu to lgta h meri b koi true lover ho Jo mjhse hr feelings share or m bhi but problem yh h ki m kisi ldki k dekhta or daring nhi hoti baat krne ki
    Plz help me

  43. mam mere bf ka birthday a rha h mam me asa kya karu jisse wo both jyada khus ho jaye aur hmara pyar aur bi bad jaye plz btao mujhe

    1. Wo aap se durr ho sakta ya fir agar use aapka karna acha nhi lga smj nhi aya to wo aapse breakup bhi kar sakta.

  44. Heyy,
    Actually yr mujhe aapki help chahinye abhi tk mera koi bf nhi bna main11th cls me hu mere ghr paas ek ladka rhta h jo daily dekhta h and smile krta h to.iska ye matlb hua ki wo mujhe like krta h…????

  45. hi dear m aapne bf se bahut pyaar karti hu mai usse saadi karna chahati hu par 2013 mmai mere kuch galti the jab woh lyf mai nhi aaya tha uske aane ke baad srif aur srif woh mere lyf ka part hai mai usse purne baate nhi baatai lekin usse pata chal gaye par maine srif flart he kiya tha aapne fb ka password tak usse diya thasaadi ke liye kehata tha lekin ab nhi par love karta hai mujhhe se trust nhi mai kiy karu ghar wolo ke marji se saadi karna chahata hai par m srif usse aur kisi ke baare mai sochna mere liye bahut galt hai hamre riste ko 3 saal ho gaye hai m kiy karu mai bahut roti hu uske liye kuch esa baato ke mai usse pa saku ssadi ho jaye maan jaye saadi ke liye mai gurgaon aur woh rohni m rehata hai plz plz plz plz plz help me hamri saadi karw duo mai aap maan jaugi manti hu tabhi msg kiy hai

    1. Dear aapko agar usse shadi karni hia to aapko pahle apne parnts se baat karni hogi or fir unhe bolo ki wo uske parents se ja kar baat kare isse aapki shadi ek love kum arrange marriage ki tarah ho jayegi or aapka kaam bhi ban jayega. Or sath hi aapko ye bhi pata chal jayega ki kya aapke parents aapke is risteh se khush hai ya nahi.

          1. ma’am mera bf muje din mai bohut bar col karta tha lakin ab ek bar. bhi nhi karta jab mai baat karu tho ignore krta hai baath baath pay jakda karta hai kuch bolu tho ignore karta hai aj tho osne had he kardii kaha hum achy dost ban k rhy gy humasha k liye mai jab Maine bola muje koi relationship nhi rekna tho gusa krta hai aur raath ko humsha waiting mai aata hai mai bolu tho bolta hai dost cll kr raha hai phly raath ko baat krty thy ab vo bhi nhi krty din mai ek bar bhi nhi krty cll ab meko plz meri help kro

          2. Kya samajh me nhi aa rha hai ? Vo tumhe chutiya bana rha hai isliye ab kuch sochne ki jarurat hi nhi hai, bhaad me jaane do use. Aur usse har tarah ke contacts khatam karo, us ladke ka kya character hoga jo baat kisi ke saath rha hai aur kehta hai pyar tumse hi karta hu.

      1. hi mam
        plz help me mam plz help me
        mai ek ladke se bahot pyar karti hu apni kaan se v jada but o karta hai or dhire dhire hmari baat hona band hone lgi or hmari usski hmesa ladai hoti hibrahti hai or fir hm dono maan v jate hai but is baar o aisa gusa hai ki usne ye bol diya ki tumhare liye mere dil me pahle jaisa filings nhi rha ab or or kuch bolunga to tum kuch galt matlab logi or tumhare sath khus nhi rah paungi qki tumhari cyco se psresan hu mai muje chhor do
        ye bol rha hai mai usko wtsup pr 100 massg karti hu to o ek replly deta hai bolta hai busy hu
        mam plz mam help kijiye mam mai sadi v unhi se karungi unke siwa aajtak mene kisi ke baare me nhi socha agar o chhor denge muje to mai mar jaungi
        ye baat boli thi or unhe achi tarah pata v hai to o bolte hai mai khus nhi rah paunga ab tumhare sath
        to plz mam aap kuch bataiye jise o muje samjhe pyar kre meri kami use pata chale ” mam plz mai apni galti v man kar galti sudharna chahti ek mauka maag rhi ki nhi roungi to v kuch nhi bol rhe bol rhe hai ki ab pahle jaisi filings nhi ati
        mam plz help me plz mar jaungi agar o mere sath chhora to plz mam plz 2 se kada hogye relationship ko nhi rah sakti uske bina roj roti hu manati hu massg seen kr ke koi reply nhi dete hai
        mene puch b koi or ladki hai kua apke life me to unhone kaha nhi meri koi gf nhi hai mam plz help me plz

        1. Ruchi tumne jo baat kahi uske baad to mera man tumhe jawab dene ko bhi nahi kar raha, mujhe bahut gussa aata hai tum jaise logon par jo apne ek relationship ke liye ye kah deti hai ki Agar vo nahi mila to mar jaungi. Kya tumhare najro me un maa baap ka koi mol nahi hai jinhone apni sab khwaish maar ke bhi tumhe aaj itni badi bana diya, jo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai, agr vo nahi rehna chahta to tum najayaj faltu ka drama mat karo jisse sirf situation kharab hoga aur kuch nahi, kisi ko uski aukat se jyada bhi nahi puchna chahiye, jabardasti rishte nahi banaye jaate isliye agr vo tumse rishta nahi rakhna chahta to jarurat hi nahi hai uske kadmo me gidgidane ki, pyar vyar sab theek hai par self respect se badi koi cheez nahi hoti.

  46. Mera bf mujhe pyar bahut karta hai or mai bhee par mujhe pyar ache se present nhi karna aata to WO mujhe se naraj ho jata hai mujhe kya karna cahiye

    1. Naraj hone waali isme koi baat nahi hai, kisi ne isme course to kiya nahi hota jo sab sahi se karega, usse pucho ki vo naraj kyu hota hai fir vo jo reason bataye uske baare me detail me baat karo, kured kured kar sawal pucho aur agar sahi lage to kabhi kabhi vaisa karo jaisa vo chahta hai, but don’t cross ur limits ever.

  47. mam jaisa ki apne kha ki use kuch aisa kro jo use passnd na fir wo apko maf krta h ya ni to mam mene to aise both kuch ulta sidha bol rakha h usko wo har bar mujhe maf kr deta h kuch ni bolta mujhe kuch aur hint btao

    1. Dear bolne or karne me bahut farak hota hai or as a example kisi ladke se jyada dosti badao or uske close ho jao or fir uska reaction dekho.

      1. Hlo mam r u on fb …pls tell me … I want to talk abt my gf… Pls I need sum help…I’m askng bcz it’s big convo… Pls mam … Ibeg

  48. Helo mam
    Meera bf mujhse pyar to bahut krta hai but agar me use kuch kaho to use yhe lagta hai ki me lad rahi hu magar me use ladti nhi bs usko apni bate share krti hu aur wo choti bato me gussa krte hai kya kro pyar to bahut hai par me unse ladna nhi chahti me unki sari baat bhi manti hu fir bhi kuch esa ho jata hai jise hum dono me ladai hoti hai plz help

    1. To aapko is baat ka dhyaan rakhna chahiye or wo baat nahi karni chahiye usse jisse ki usko gussa aye ya ata ho.

  49. mam me na vishwas ni kar pa rhi ki mara bf mujhse true love krta h ya mje le rha h .mam kuch hint do me kaise pta lgau plz help me mam

    1. Kuch nahi dear bas uske sath ache se raho or pyaar khud nahi badaya ja sakta wo khud ba khud time ke sath bad jata hai .

  50. I love a boy he is my fb frnd .bt vo kisi or ke sath relation m tha ab nahi h phir bhi vo mujh pr dhyan na dekr apni gf ki yadoo mai khoya rhta h bt relly i love him too much vo janta bhi h ki m ushke piche pagl hu phir bhi koi response nahi deta wt i do now? m usse bhul nahi sakti vo mera hona nahi chata

    1. Pahli baat aapko use hints dete rehna chahiye orruske sath flirt karte rehna chahiye or agar wo itna hi lallu hai to aapko use khud hi propose kar dena chahiye.

    1. Dear ladke kabhi bhi ladkiyon ko serious nahi lete hai, lekin aapko pahle ye pata karna chahiye ki wo aapke liye serious hai ya nahi .

  51. Mam mai apne b.f se bahot pyaar karti hu.aur vo bhi mujhase.par vo dusri ladki ko dekhtaa hai jyaadaa.mujhe buraa lagtaa hai.kuch hi din me hamari civil merej hone vaali hai.par dar lagtaa hai.kyu ki vo aage bhi ladkiyo dekh naa le.

  52. mam kabhi kabhi mujhe lgta h ki mera bf mujhse both pyar krta h aur kabhi lgta h ki wo pyar ni krta to mam me kya karu plz help me

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  53. Hello mam,
    Mai or mera bf dono long distance relation ship mai hy or Hm aaj tk ek dusre se mile nhi hy or humare frndship Fb p hue or Hm aache dost bane phir mujhe usse bhut Jada pyar ho gya PR usse ye baate nhi pta thy PR kuch months bad usse pta LGA to usne mujhe propose kiya to Maine accept kiya aache se baate hote thy..PR bich MSI problem ye aayi Ki uske behavior mai changing aagye bhut jyada usko mere bare mai har kuch pta hy or mujhe bhi wo bolta Ki usse koi prblm nhi hy or mujhe bhi uske x relation se koi prblm nhi ht PR na wo aajkl time deta hy na dhang se baate krta hy PR mam MSI usse bhut pyar krte hu mar jaunge uske bina kuch solution btye plzzzz

    1. Dear ladko ko 100 kam hote hai jaise ki ghar ka kaam or fir job padhayi isliye aapko us par itna shak nahi karna chahiye kya pata wo kisi problem me ho or wo aapko na btana chahta ho taki aapko koi tension na ho isliye relax.

  54. Hi mam mera name preeti hai or mera problm ye hai ki hum Dono Ek dusre ko bahut love karte hai or shadhi karna chahte hai but usne aapne gharwalo se bat ki to gharwalo ne mana kar diya tabse wo shadhi k liye mana kar raha hai plz help me hum bahut pyar karte hai plz koi solutions jisse wo mujhse shadi kar le. Wo chahe hi na aalg hona or shadhi k liye maan jaye plz mam help

    1. Dear kkr rai reason kya ai dekho dear wese to kisi ke liye uske parents hi sab kuch hote hai lekin agar uske parents nahi maan rahe to aapko apne parents se baat akrke dekhni chahiye or agar aapke parents maan jate hai to unhe bolo ki uske parents se baat kare.

    1. Dear shayad aapne isi or e comments me apna comment likha hoga iiiye nahi mil rha, islye ab apkodhyan se dknaaadegor ageh se jab bhi cmment kate ho ttall se eprate comment kiya karo dear

  55. Hello mam! Mai apne boyfrend se bahut pyar karti hu par mere kuch galtiyo se ham log ke riste me duriya aa gayi h ham log baat karte h ek dusre se par vo ham pe visawas ni karte h bahut ladai jhagde bhi hote h mam kuch btaiye jise se mai unka viswas fir se jit saku mai vo pyar to bahut karte h hamse par viswas ni karte h is baat se roj ladai hoti h plz help me mam

    1. Dear aapko shuru se shuruwat karni padegi, starting me aapko thodi mushkil ho sakti hai lekin agar aap 1 ya 2 mahine bhi dhang se bitaogi to wo aap par trust karna shuru kardega. Lekin agar aap koi bhi choti sii bhi galti karogi, to fir se aapko dubara shuruwat karni padegi. Kyunki wohi purana trust puri tarah se hassil karne ke liye aapko asal me saal bhi lag sakta hai.

  56. hiii maam hm apne b.f se bht pyar karte hai aur woh bhi par phle ki woh time nhi de pa rha hm chahte hai usse sb kuch kahe par nhi kar skte aap btao hm kya kare

    1. Dear dekho ladko ko 100 kaam hote hai to agar wokahi kaam me busy hai to aapko hi to use samjhna chahiye or agar aap hi shikayat karoge to wo bichara kiske pass jayega.

  57. maidam mai apne boy friend se bahut pyaar karti hu itna jaada ki shayad mai uske liye kucch bhi kar sakti hu lekin mera boy friend dusri ladkiyo ke peeche bhagta rahta hai or WO dusri ladkiyo ke peeche bhagta rahta hai par shaadi mujhse hi karna chahta hai aap hi bataiye maidam mai kya karu mujhe kya karna chahiye mai samajh nahi paa rahi hu ki aakhir WO chahta kya hai

    1. Dear wo aapka befkuf bna rha hai sirf sex ke liye dekh lena agar use aap se achi koi ladki mili to wo aapko chordne me ek minute nahi lagayega.

  58. Hllo ji..I love my boyfriend..nd future me unse shadi krna chati hu..but yha intercast problm hai me bf ko kese convenes kru plss fst ans.dijiye..

    1. Agar aapko apne BF ko bhi is point par Convince karne ki jarurat hai tab to mujhe nahi lagta ye baat jyada dur tak aage badhegi. Pahle BF ko convince karo, fir use parents ko convince karo aur fir apne parents ko convince karo. Huff! it’s too much task and difficult. Apne BF ko samjhao ki agar pyar karta hai and hamesha saath rehna chahta hai to Samjhna hi padega, aur to koi chara hi nahi hai.

  59. Mam…mein apne bf se bohot pyar krti hun nd wo b bt ham dono long distance relationship mein h…mam wo thora flirty typ h mene do baar usse pkda dusri ldkiyo k sath flirt krte hue tab se mujhe uspe sakh hota h kbi kbi ki wo mujhe cheat toh ni krra mam mein yeh kese pata lagaun ki wo mujhe cheat kr ra ya he really love me bt yes mujhe uspe trust. H

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  60. mere bf ko mere ex relation ke bare me pata chl gaya h maine une smjane ki bohot koshish kh pr o mujhe usika nam lekr tane marte h is se hum dono ka relation tutne ki kagar pr h mai kya karu maine use btaya ki hum dono ke bitch ab aisa kuch nahi h

    1. Dear pahli baatuse aap par bharosa hi nahi hai isliye aapko use khud hi chord dena chahiye or dusri baat Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  61. mai aapne bf se bohot pyar krti hu bt kisi resion ke karn use mere ex ke pata chal gaya h aur mujhse bohot naraj h maine us se bohot mafi bhi mangi pr o mujhse kuch jadahi ukhde ukhde se rahene lge h o hr bat pe mujhe ex ko tana marte h maine une smjane ki bohot koshish ki ab hum dono ke bitch aisa kuch nahi pr o ye bat man ne ke liye taiyar hi nahi h aur is se humara relation tutne ki kagar pr h mai kya karu

  62. hello mam
    hmara relation ko 4 sal ho gye wo mujhse pyar krta hai or mai usse bi jyada or wo mre liye sb kuch krta hai hr trah se support krta hai pr wo mujhe sex k liye hmesha force krta hai mujhein my utna intrest ni hai wo bhut si ldkio k sath krta hai sb ko line marta hai ldkio k liye uski soch bhut gandi hai mai usse preshan ho gai hu ky kru

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  63. Me apne bf s bohot love krti hu usne hi mujh trust krna sikhya love krna sikhaya…or bohot pyar krta tha but .abhi kuch dino s na msg na call…na msg call k reply kuch respons hi nhi d raha ,,,jase ki ab koi or mil gai ho,,,but I can’t live without him,,,
    ASA kya kru ki WO WAPS ajay

    1. Dear ek bar usse baat karo akele me or wo bhi face to face ki aisa kya ho gya or use apni feelings ke bare me btao or dear please usse pahle ye jarur pata karlena ki kahi usne koi or gf to nahi bna li. Or agar usne aisa jkiya hai to please use bhul jaiye or bhagwan ko thankx kijiyega ki usne sahi time par aapko bacha liye kyunki agar baad me wo aisa karta to aap na to shambhal pati na hi kuch sihk pati or ek baat usse fir dubara kabhi bhi accept mat kijiyega kyunki jo ladka kisi or ladkike liye aappko chord sakta hai wo is kabil nahi ki use ek or mauka diya jaye.

  64. Me apne bf s bohot love krti hu usne hi mujh trust krna sikhya love krna sikhaya…or bohot pyar krta tha but .abhi kuch dino s na msg na call…na msg call k reply kuch respons hi nhi d raha ,,,jase ki ab koi or mil gai ho,,,but I can’t live without him,,,

  65. Mam mai apne bf ko bht pyaar krti ho aur vo bhi but humare bich ldai ho gyi h kisi ldki ki vjh se ….aur humara relationship totne per h…mam mai unko khona nai chati plzzz help me …..mai kya kro…

    1. Jaake Baat Karo Usse Or use apni feelings ke bare me bta do or kabhi bhi ye mat sochna ki me kyun jau pahle baat karne agar aap ye sochti rahogi to aapke relation ko tutne se koi nahi bacha sakta.

  66. Mam mai apne bf se bht pyar krti ho aur vo bhi per humare bich unki kisi Frnd ki vjh se ldai ho gyi kyoki vo ldki bhi unhe like krti hai ….ish baat se mujhse gussa aaya aur humara relationship totne per hai ….per mai really bht pyar krti ho aur ye bhi jannti ho vo bhi pyaar krte hai ……per unko lgta hai ki unhone kuch nai kiya …….to mai kya kro apna pyar ko kaise apne pass lao…aur kaise un per trust kro or unko khud per trust krwao

  67. Hello mam I am shikha m yha SB krti hua har BT manti hua suka dukh m sath deti hua fir bi mjhe tym ni deta usko mjhse yha prblm aj kl girls ki tarah intelligence ni job ni krti hua m try kr ri hua mil ni ri voh mjhe ni smjhte m usse bht pyr krti hua had sa Jada kya kru plz help me

    1. Ek relationship ka matlab hota hai ki usse hume khushi mile aur hum apne saathi ko khushi de, apne khushi aur gam baante… Agar aapko apne relationship me kisi bhi tarah ki koi problem hai to aapko use jaldi se jaldi solve kar lena chahiye, ye mat socho ki agar aapne aisa kaha to use bura lagega… problem solve karna jyada jaruri hai kyunki agar aapne ye soch ke agar apni issue solve nhi kiya to baad me pachtana padega aur tab aur bhi bura hoga.

  68. main ek ladki se 1 saal pyar karte aa rhe hai..aur maine apne pyar ko uske samnne ishaar kya…par wo mere pyar ko accept nhi ki…kuch dino ke badh wo ek later likhi.ush later mein yahi likha hua tha ki main app se pyar nhi kar sakti…maine pucha tha ki hmse pyar kyun nhi kar sakti aakhir hamre mein kya kami hai….tab wo mujhe batati ki aap pahle kuch chota sa job le lijiye….aur maine uske baat ko mana….tab maine ushi samay kasam kya jab main kuch nhi kar leta jab main ushe nhi milunga aur na baat karegen…lekin kabhi kabhi wo raste mein mil hi jaati thi aur maine ushe dekha aur wo mujhe dekhti..ye silsala ek saal tak chala…tab ishi beach mein hame ek sarkari job mil gya….job lagene ke badh main ushe milen ki bulalen par milene lye ke mana kar de…phir maine maine soch ki aisa kyun kar rhi hai..tab maine pata laga ki aakhir wo milne se kyun bhag rhi …kuch dino ke badh pata chala ki wo kisi dusre ladke se pyar karti hai…ye sab jankar mujhe bahut dukh hua..aakhir hamre sath aisa kyun kya.. Kya mere  pyaar ki chahat aduri rah jayegi…ab main kya karun kuch samjh mein nhi aa rha..

    1. Dear aap use bhul jao or apni life me itni tarraki karo ki aapko usse bhi 100% acchi ladki mil jaye or fir wo ladki jab aapko aur aapke new partnrko sath me dekhe to soche ki mene itni badi galati kyu kari hogi.

  69. Main jishe pyar kartihun wo bahat naraj hey mujhse….main hamesha use na pasand wali kam kartihun…main v ye Karna nhi chahtihun per apne ap ho jatihey…aur ab would mujhse itni naraj hey ki thikse bat v nhi karrehehey…to kaise manau use..??

    1. aap ek paper par apni relationship saari baate achi buri, aapko sabse acha kya laga, aapke liye sabse special time konsa tha… ab jab vo dur hai to aapka din kaise katta hai, aapke dimag me kya kya baat aati hai, aap use kitna miss karte ho and jab aap log saath hoge to vo sama kaisa hoga, aap log kaise zindagi khushi ke saath katoge…. ye sab cheez detail me likho, jitne panne bharte hai bhar jaane do aur fir us tak ye letter pahucha do, agar us ladke ke dil ke kisi kone me aapke liye sacha pyar hoga to vo ye dekh kar aur padhkar jarur pighal jayega. Best of Luck 🙂

  70. Me jis se pyar krti hu WO muj se bhut pyar krta h! Lekin WO ek garib family se hu! Or other cast me bhi medam ! Lekin hm dono ek dusre se bhut pyar krte h! Men koi advise de plz

  71. mam mara ek bf ha jo dil k bhut accha ha but ma aasa kay karu jissa uss ko muj pr trust ho a mana ussa k trust bhut bar toda ha jissa v muj pr ab trust nhi karta ha ma kay karu ab

  72. mam mara ek bha jo dil k bhut accha ha but ma aasa kay karu jissa uss ko muj pr trust ho a mana ussa k trust bhut bar toda ha jissa v muj pr ab trust nhi karta ha ma kay karu ab

    1. Dear aapko shuru se shuruwat karni padegi, starting me aapko thodi mushkil ho sakti hai lekin agar aap 1 nya 2 mahine bhi dhang se bitaogi to wo aap par trust karna shuru kardega. Lekin agar aap koi bhi choti sii bhi galti karogi, to fir se aapko dubara shuruwat karni padegi. Kyunki wohi purana trust puri tarah se hassil karne ke liye aapko asal me saal bhi lag sakta hai.

  73. Mam mera ek bf h ,wo dil ka bht acha h,aur simple ladka h.humlog bht kam bat karte h ek dusrey.2 month me ek bar mil letey h.mujhe koi pyar wali feeling nai ati h usse..per wo bolta h mujhse bht pyar karta,kya mai is relation se hat jawun mem.kya karu mai.

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  74. hlo mam
    plz help me
    m apne bf se bhut pyr krti hu pr pta nhi q m use khus nhi rkh pati
    so.plz tell me m kese use khus rkhu kese usse smju
    or ab wo mujse dur or jane lga h
    plz btao kese m.usse vaps apne pass lau plz help.me

    1. Dear aapko uske sath bhaith kar aaram se is bare me baat karni chahiye or sath hi use bhi apne dil ki real feelings ke barehme btana chahiye. Agar wo bhi aapko pyaar karta hoga to jarur samjhega wo.

  75. hi mam,
    i am Deva, mujhe apse ye puchna hai ki main ek ladki se pyar karta hu kai dinon se par wo meri baaton ko serious nahi leti main use kahi bhi jaane ke liye puchta hoo to wo na me jawab deti hai aur wo phone par bhi abhi kuch dinon se kam baat karti hai abhi kuch din pahle humme kuch baat hui thi jo wo mujhe nahi bata rahi thi please mam meri help karo yeh kya ho sakta hai

    1. To aap uske liye kuch aisa karo ki jisse use sach me aap par vishwas ho jaye ki aap use pyaar karte ho. Lekin jo bhi karna ek ache way me karna.

    1. Use ignore karke apne kisi boy jo ki aapka friend ho uske sath time spend karo or phone par baat chit karo, ,fir uska reaction dekho or jha tak mujhe umeed hai use aapki importance ka pata chal hi jayega.

    1. Hi sehar, Sorry dear lekin aapko yahi par btani hogi apni problem but i promise ki me aapki help jarur karungi. aisa isliye bolr ahi hu kyunki mera inbox full hai isliye wha aapka msg mujhe nahi mil payega.

    1. Aapko use samajhane ki jarurat nahi hi bas apna behviour hi uske sath acha rakho jisse ki wo thoda special feel kare or fir wo aapko bta sake ki wo bhi aap se pyaar karta hai.

  76. Hlo m chinu.
    M B.com kr rhi hu and Apki help chahiye.
    M kisi ko bhout pyar krti hu.
    Pr Vo hmesha mujse dur jata h.
    Call krti hu receive ni krta.
    Chat ni krta ..
    Or ghr pr hamari bat ni ho pati..
    So plz help me …….

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladka rehta hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gya.

  77. Helloww mam …..actuly mera bf mujse bot pyar krta h prr jab guse m ata h to bot bura bura bol jata h kya ap bta sakti ho wo jo bate gusse m bolta h wo sach reti h ya guse m kuch b bol deta h??

  78. Mam mujhe ek ladke se shadi krna h wo b shadi krna chahta h but uski family ni man rhe or wo famly ki permision k bina shadi ni krega or mere rishte b arhe h me srf usi se shadi krna chahti hu me kya kru kuch btaie

    1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya peron baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. I think I’ve made my point.

  79. hlw miss i m here for my best friend
    mera ek friend h uski ek gf h meri un dono se bht achchi dosti h
    dono ke relation me complications bht ho gye h hr kuch dino me jhagada
    wo girl neture m bht achhi h n m ni chahta ke mera itta achcha frnd aisi gf khoye jo uski care krti h
    aur wo girl b muje bolti h ke m relation kisi b halat me todna nai chahti n mujse help mang ri h
    soo what should i do??

    1. Apne dost ko samjhao dear, use btao ki vo ladki uske liye kitni shi hai aur use aisi ladki jo use itna pyar karegi fir muskil se hi milegi. Pyar ko thukrana nhi chahiye, sacha pyar muskil se kismat waalon ko hi milta hai.

  80. i mam m maahi..mam mera bf hai waise to bht cre krta hai rokta tokta hai bht pyr krta hai but ajkl ldai bht ho rahi hai mam mujhe aisa lgta hai ki hmri shdi nh hgi to rlsn b nh chlna cahiye but use ye nh lgta jis wjha se hm bat b nh kr rae hai or bht ldai hne k b d maine de cide kiya ham frnd bn jatehai but ab mai apne kisi frnd se ab bat krti hu to unhe jlan hti hnd khte kch nh but kilste rhta hai mai kya kru…mam mujhe aisa lgta hia ki kal b alg hna to q na aj hi ho jaye ham or mtlb kafi duriya b bd gayi hai mam jis wjha se mai kisi or se bat nh krti but unhe kilsane k liye bs nam le leti hu kisi ka b mai aise…jln hai sb hai or amm guss bt krte hai hr bat pe..mtlb cre hai love hai but shdi mam mujhe aise me kya krna chahiye ??

  81. Hi mera nam siya h or mra ek bf h jise me bahut pyr krti hu or hum 2 saal se sath h but relationship ko 1 saal ho gya h . But mujhe ye ni pta ki wo bhi mujhe pyr krta h ya ni. Kyuki me jab bhi usse puchti tb wo yahi kehta h krta hu but tumse jada ni kehta h ki tum mujhe kya maine rakhti o kya value rakhti ye me tumhe nahi bata skta bs itna keh skta hu ki jo mere liye tum aaj ho bahi hamesha rahogi. Pta mujhe kabhi kabhi lgta h ki kahi wo mujhe jhel to ni raha . Hum bahut km bat krte h but jb hum sath hote h to sirf apni bate krte h . HUm monthbmeHek bar milte h . Apko bata du ji mene uske liye kya nahi kiya khudko badal diya uski suni hr chiz uske hisaab se krti hu jb wo chahega to bat hogi brna ni hogi . Hum fon pr bhi km bat krte h . Bs mujhe ye pata lagna h ki jitna wo mere liye important or value rakhta j meri life me utni hi ya usse km important me bhi hu uski life me . Akhir me kya value rakhti hu uske liye uski life me.

    1. Pta wo bahut accha h wo ek dost bhi h or ek bf bhi mere liye . Wo meri hi cast ka h . But kabhi kabhi uska behavior mujhe samjh ni aata bo romantic kam or practical jada hota h uska focus hamesha uske work pr hota h or wo munhe hamesha study ke liye appreciate krta h . Hm jab bhi bt krte h to bo bs khud ki bat bol kr apni bat ka solution leka uke bad meri puchta h mujhse 2 se 10 mint bat krte h wo bhi 2 ,4 din me .hum usko bahut gussa aata h isliyr me usse bahut kam ladai krti hu kabhi kuch demands ni krti usse agr kabhi bat bigdti h to me hi sorry bol kr jhuk jati hu . B

    2. Siye ye kehna behad muskil hai dear ki tum uski life me kya value rakhti ho, if u want to find this out… aisa karo, kuch dino ke liye usse distance badha lo, Baat karna band kar do, msgs ke reply mat karo. Bas thodi si baat bolo ki – Main abhi baaat nhi kar sakti baad me baat karungi. Agar iske baad usko bechaini hone lagi, vo preshan hone laga aur bar bar tumhe phone karke puchne laga ki pls mujhe batao ki kya baat hai, tum baat kyu nhi kar rhi tumhe kya hua hai. Agar vo aisa karta hai to smajh lena vo tumhari care karta hai lekin agar use tumhare distance badhane se koi fark nhi padta to samajh jana baat kuch aur hi hai.

  82. hello shivshi,.. Main apne boyfriend se boht pyar krti hu n i know k vo bhi mjhse pyar krta h butt vo apni flngs kabhi mere saamne nai kehta hnn vo chatting k tym apni flngs btata h btt samne nai to aap plss mjhe btao k main esa kya karun k vo apni flngs mere saamne express kre aur hn ek baat aur vo boht possesive bhi h usse darr h k main usse durr naa ho jaun isiliye vo psnd nai krta k mera koi frnd ldka ho yaa frr main kiso bhi ldke baat krun use yhh sbb bilkul psnd nai h …. plss mjhe suggestion do k main kyaa krun k main uss par apna poora trust bana sku aur vo apni flngs mere saamne express kare

    1. Dear heena ladke aise hi hote hai wo apni feelings show nahi karte bas unka aapke sath kaisa behave hai or wo aapki kitni care karte isi se samajhna padhta hai ki wo sach me aap se pyaar karte hai ki nahi ab aapko uske behaviour ko notice karna hoga or dekhna hoga ki wo aapkikitni care karta hai isi se aap us par puri tarah se trust kar paogi.

  83. Hello Mam gd evng…..me ek ladka se bahat pyar karti hun….but unke pass time nehi hota h baat karne k liye….jb bhi pho karte h bas thode time k liye….aur bolte mummy h papa gali karenge………….mujhe ye kehni h ki mummy papa se har koi darta he….iska mtlb te ni ki hmm pyar ni karenge….wo jitne time bhi pho karte h hamsha Ngtv baat karte h..meri mind ye qn ati h ki wo mujhe pyar karte h ya ni….plzz mam batayiye kya karu me……….

    1. Lovely usse is baare me khul kar baat karo, possible ho to mil kar baat karo aur baat karke is problem ka solution dhundho.. Agar vo pyar karta hai to vo bhi interest lega is tarah ki cheez me aur agar vo taal matol karta hai to mamla gadbad samajh lo 🙂

  84. hiii….mam
    mera que ye h ki mera bf h wo mujhse kahta h ki wo mere liye serious h bt jb gusse me hota h ya jhgda hota h to bolta h ki mai bhul jaunga bhul jau ??? mujhe uspe bhot believe tha bt uski in harkto ki wajah se ab mai usspe believe ni kr pa rhi hu mai smjh ni pa rhi ki dono hi baato me se kise manu kya kru uske sath rhna v chahti hu

  85. mai ek ladkese bht pyr krti hu lekin o mujhe boht preshan krta hai or uski or ek gf hai o use chhod nhi RHA humra is bat PR zagda b hua hai

  86. Hii …..dear shivshi….
    Mene aap k saare blog pade hai…
    En sb ko pad kr me kaafii impress hu…
    Aap ko pyaar or relationship k baare me bhut achi knowledge hai …
    Es liye menw socha ki shaayad mere matter me aap meri kuch help kr sakti ho…
    But ek problm hai ….@@
    Me apni problm ese comment me share nhi kr sakta
    Koi or way ho to aap muje bataaye me aap se help chata hu..

  87. hii.Ma Rosy hun.me ek ladke se pyar karti hun.wa meri frend ki frend ha.me use nhi dekhi.aise phn per baat harehi thi. Ek din wa mujhe propose kiya ta me meri problem boli k me ek skin desease patent hun me sundar nhi hun. Bt wa bola ki god sabko sabkuch nhi dete kuch na kuch kami karte ha uski wa baat mujhe achi lagi.me uska propose ka koi jawab nhi diya kyun ki me chahati thi me use mil ne k baat bolungi wa mujhe mila .milne ke ek mahine baad cal kiya.sirf 1/2 min baat karna suru kardiya 10din me ek baar phn.totaly change.baad me pata chala ki wa meri ek frend ko propose kiya tha.me wa frend wa ladka barema hamesa jhut bolata ha ki wa characterles ha.wa av cal kara ha .meri dil keheta ha ki wa ek ache r sache ha.ma use bahut pyar karti hun.meri sms ka koi reply nhi karta ha.ma kya karu plz help me me v use khana nhi chahati hun.

    1. Sorry Rosy, mujhe sach me kuch samajh nhi aa rha hai ki aapko kya suggest karu bcoz ye ek behad serious matter hai. Aap apne close friends and family me jisse aapki banti hai, usse is baare me baat karo to behtar rahega..

  88. Hi….sis how r u..?
    Main ek ladke se bht pyaar karti hu even main kv usse mili v nai hm fb pe friend bane the or usi ne mujhe pehle prapose kiya tha sb theek chal raha tha par suddenly wo bilkul badal gaya aachanak se kehne laga ki hm bs friends hai . 3years ho gaye hai .par samajh nai aata ki kya karu main use bht pyaar karti hu or use khona nai chahti .kehta to hai ki hm bs dost hai par uski sari harkate bf wali hoti hai. or jb usse puchti hu ki ap mujhse pyaar karte ho ki nai kehta hai ki nai hm bs dost hai …plzzzz ap meri help karo ki main kese use manau ki wo maan jae kese samjhau use ki i really love him or wo v ache se janta hai ki i love him .main kv usse nai mili kv use nai dekha wo dur rehta hai mujhse chandighar main hai wo or main yaha ….so plzzzz tell me ki kya karu..kese usse manau plzzz help me

  89. hlw ma’am,m apne bf s bht pyr krti hu, prblm yeh h ki mne usko apni lyf m bht jhut bole h,apni fmly members s related aur fmly bckgrnd s rltd,m usko btana chahti hu,pr keh ni pa ri hu,wo bht jyda trst n lv krta h,usko btakr m kho du yhi dar lga rhta h.

    1. Himashi, aapko jaise bhi possible ho usko sab kuch sach bata dena chahiye, jhuth ke buniyaad par bani imarat ka koi vajood nhi hota.

  90. Hello! I have a great problem I’m in class 12th hardly 3 months are left for my boards but there is a girl whom I love the most. Sometimes I feel I can not live without her. I want to impress her and I have a plus point that she also thinks me an innocent fellow. Please tell how to impress her?

    1. Just make ur personality good enough to look at u once again, if she notice that U r behind her or kind of like her then just go to her directly and talk to her in confidence. Approach with her a lil bit style and free mind, is she refuses, talk with her respect. Don’t beg in front of her to Love U.. 🙂

  91. hi i am tanupriya mera boyfriend chahta hai ki mai usse apni feelings share karu aur apne pyar ko express karke use ehsas dilau ki mai usse kitna pyar karti hu to mai kaise karu please help me.

    1. Iskika apne boyfriend ke likes ke taste ke hisab se koi acha sa but chota gift le kar jaao, vaise bhi aap kuch bhi present dogi to vo surprise hi hoga becoz generally girls surprise deti nhi, leti hai 😉

  92. me bhi ek ldke s bhot pyar krti hu
    PR muje esa kyu lgta h ki me use samj nhi pa rhi hu
    hmari bat km or ldaaiya bhot hoti h
    WO muje ya me unhe samj nhi pa rhi hu ki akhir WO chahte kya h

    1. To Dear usse baat kar na baith kar shanti se. Un points ki list bana jin par abhi ta tumhari ladayi huyi hai, at least jitne yaad aate hai fir ye dekh ki un cheezon ko ya points ko kaise solve kiya ja sakta hai taaki relationship smooth chale.

    1. Aapke paas bahhhuuuuuut saare paise, heere jawahraat, gaadi, bangla hoga to shayad aisa possible ho jaaye 😛

  93. Mai ek ldke ko lyk thi….or WO b usne propose b meko khud hi kiya tha….jb usne meko bola to mai jaldi se Han b bol diya sab kuj achha tha but ab WO achhe se baat hi nhi krta hai… Or agar msg v kru to uska reply kafi late deta hai….. Or bolu to hear bar new new excuses hote hai….. Meko smjh nhi aa raha k kya kru?? WO kaise krta h na to meko doubt hota hai or bhut Rona b aata hai kbhi kbhi to lgta hai k usko mere hone ya hone se koi frk nhi pdta …or mai naraz b hu or WO ek b msg kre to pta nhi kiu mai reply b kar deti hu har baar WO meko MNA leta hai…. Sochti b hu k ab baat ni krugi but fr b kr leti hu…… Meko ye smjh ni aata WO meko pyar krta v h ya nhi 🙁 :'(

    1. Pallavi sabse pahle aap ye baat confirm karo vo ki theek se baat kyu nhi karta aur msg ke reply late kyu karta hai. Kya vo kahi job karta hai, ya koi aisa kaam jisme usko time na milta ho. Ye baat aap direct usse pucho ki aap mujhse theek se baat kyu nhi karte, isi se kaafi baat clear ho jayegi.

  94. Mai ek ldke se bhtt pyr krti hu r WO c bhtt krte h ..lkn hm shdi k bre m po6te h to tal dte h ku6 solution btye k mje yqin hojye k WO v mjse shdi krna chte h

    1. Naghma aap usse ye baat jitna seedhe aur saaf shabdo me karo utna hi acha hoga. Don’t make simple things complicated, aur agar aap ye soch ke nhi puch rhi ho ki use bura na lag jaaye to ye khyaal apne man se nikal do, aapko apni life ka sach pata hona chahiye, kisi bhi doubt me mat rho, direct question karo and jab tak satisfaction na ho baat karo, agar vo theek se jawab nhi deta it simply means Uske man me khi na khi koi chor hai.

  95. शुभ रात्रि

    मेरा नाम हिरेन है मई सुरत का रहेनेवाला हु । मई एक लड़की को चाहता हु लेकिन उससे कहेने को मे घबरा रहा हु की में कैसे उसको उसके बारे में कहु की में उससे बहुत ही पसंद करता हु । दर असल बात ये है की व्वो मेरे पापा के दोस्त की लड़की है और हमारे घर के सम्बन्ध भी उनसे गाढ़ है ।
    तो मुझे इस बात से डर है की कही में उसको उस बारे में बोलू और हमारे जो आपसी सम्बन्ध हे वो बिगड़ ना जाये ।
    और एक बात की हम दोनों की कास्ट भी अलग अलग है ।

    मुझे पता नहीं की वो भी मुझे पसंद करती है या नहीं । तो मइ उसे अपनी दिल की बात कैसे जाहिर करू ।

    में आपके रिप्लाई का इन्तजार करूंगा ।

  96. Hiii..
    Main ek bande se bahot zyada pyar krti hu..but main Muslim n wo non Muslim hai…n uski January me shaadi hai….Main uske bina nhi reh skti…wo bi mere se baat pyar krta hai…pr jb se engagement hui hai uski wo chnge ho gya..btaiye main kya kru…kuch smjh ni aarha…uske bina main ni reh skti…

    1. Saniya, sabse pahle to beta tum ye baat samjho ki Duniya me aisa kuch nhi hai jiske bina hum reh na paaye… Ab asli baat suno – jab se uski emgagement huyi hai uska behaviour badal gaya hai. Iska simple sa matlab hai ki is khani ka end ho chuka hai, aur iska koi future nhi hai, janti to tum khud bhi ho ye baat lekin sach ki sweekar karne ki himmat nhi kar pa rhi ho, par dear sach se anjaan ban kar khud ko dhokha dene se hum sirf khud ko dukh de sakte hai aur kuch nhi, aur yakeen maano isse kuch bhi nhi milta sirf waqt kharab karne ke alawa. Apni soch badlo thodi Saniya, mere saath jo hua vo is se bhi kahi jyada khaufnaak tha fir bhi dekho aaj main tumse baat kar rhi hu aur khushi se zindgi jee rhi hu, jise tumhari koi parwah nhi uske baare me soch kar waqt jaya mat karo. Apni life ka ek target set karo and use hasil karne ke liye apni din raat ek kar do, khub mehnat karo and safal bano.. 🙂

  97. Mai ek ldke se pyar krti hu or vo bhi muje psnd krta h prr vo kehta h ki mai itni jldi kisi k sath serious ni hota vo mujhse pyar to krta h prr serious ni h… to mai aisa kya kru jisse vo bohot serious ho jae mre sath or muje kbhi na cchode hmesha mre sath rhe plz yrr koi solution do… i love him vry much plz help me plz…..:(:(:,(

    1. Roshni ye sirf kahne ki baate hai ki Pyar karta hai aur serious nhi hai, is tarah ki koi cheez hi nhi hai, agar pyar hota hai to seriousness to apne aap aap jaati hai, is time tumhe vo ek option ki tarah dekh rha hai, ki koi mast maal mil gyi to theek varna tum to ho hi. Don’t become an object for anyone, apni self respect mat gawana uske chakkar me.

  98. Hi mam.mai apni apnay bf say bhut pyaar krti hu. I think vo b krtaa hoga.ab vo achank say breakup ki baat kr rhaa h.mai uskay binaa nhi rh sktii .jb b ussay breakup ka reason puchtii hu.vo boltaa h vo jb b mujsay pyaar krna chahtaa h uskoo apni purani gf ki yaaad aa jati .mai usay nhi khona chahtiiii.pls kuch btaoo mai kyaa kru????

    1. Saniya vo ladka drame kar raha hai, vo aapke saath pyar nhi karta balki Nautanki kar rha hai aur agar aap life me khush rehna chahti ho to jaruri hai aap sach ko samjho aur aage badho, Bevkoofi chodo.

  99. Hi me jaise pyar karti ho ow phele to bahut acha tha par pata nahi ab kya hogye hai par mujhe yeh batao agar wo call na kare to mujhe kya karna chahyia plz mujhe batao

  100. me ek ladke ko bahot chahtu hoo woh bhi mujeh pyaar karta tha par usne mujeh ek baar kHa ki me tuje sirf like karta hu ..or hamare relationship ko sirf ek saal hua h or woh muje month me ek hi baar sms krta hai baat nahi krta mere sath or jab ek mahine me ek hi baar sms krta h or sirf adult talk krta hai to kese me use apne aap me intrested banau plsss

  101. Mai apne boy frd se bhut pyar karti hu wo bhi karta tha par wo ab phle ki tarah nhi rha badl gya h interest nhi house mujhme plz kuch tips btaye

    1. Angel, aapko apne boyfriend ki pasand napasnd ka to pata hi hoga, bas jo use pasand hai vo karo aur usse apne pyar ka ijhar karo… lekin jara hat ke, zara pyar se… Surprise milne ke bulao, saath me time spend karo…

  102. Mem mujhe ek 3 saal pahle ek mere college ladki ne impress karna chaha tha leki us samay mujhe pyar ke bare me kuch pata nahi tha ab me 11th me aur wo 10th me he me use like karne laga huin. wo mujhe sirf ek naja dekhti he. me 1st time friendship ke liye use kya kahun. mera koi friend bhi nahi he ladkiyo se bahut km bat ki he ab tak

  103. hi
    mein
    meri ek girlfriend h jiska name priya h vo mujhse
    milne k lie haan nhi kar rahi
    bahut samjhaya bas ek jabab milta h time hi nhi aur bo darti h kahi pakad na jae samajh nhi aa raha kya karu
    bo mujhse milegi bhi ya nhi k aisa hi chalta rahega
    aap kuchh salah dijie jisse vo maan jae milne k lie
    ya bo mujhe chahti nhi kaise pata karun
    please mam help mujhe batao kaise pata karun aur
    bo kaise manegi please please
    bahut pareshan h kuchh nhi samajh me aa raha

    1. Vishal jab vo ladki aapse nhi mil rhi to aap kyu uske liye pagal huye ja rhe ho, yhi to galti karte ho aap boys… Ladki ko uski aukat se jada bhaav de kar. Aap bhi use puchna kam kar do, usse baat karna band kar do agar vo is cheez se preshan hoti hai to baat karo aur bolo mujhe milna hai and that’s final aur agar vo parwah nhi karti to samajh lo aapki kya ijaat hai uski najron me..

  104. hi…….shivshi my Q??? is…..me ek ladki ko pasand karta hu but wo mujhe flirty samjhti hai…. ye mujhe kasi or se pata chala hai. ab problem ye hai ki wo mere relative me hi hai and apne study ki vajh se me unke hi ghr me ground floor pr rent par rehta hu or wo kabhi bhi niche utar kr nahi aati… to ab me use kese yakeen dilau ki me flirty nahi hu…?????

      1. jaisa ki maine apko bataya ki wo meri relative hai…isliye hmm aksar jb kabhi kisi function me milte hai to eye contact ho jata hai or rahi baat ghr pr to jb me uske ghr rehne aaya tha to usne bhi acche se mujh se baat ki to me akasr uski ya uske ghr valo ki help kr deta hu kisi bhi kaam se related jaise uske liye bahar se books la dena usko apna leptop de dena kisi work ke liye or bhi kai kaam…or ek din ki baat hai me unhe diwali gift dene gaya tha to unki mummy ne mujhe coffee offer ki to wo to uski mummy ne use coffee banane ko kaha or coffee pine ke baad maine uski coffee ki tarif kar di thi agle din( sabke samne nahi) bas mujhe us din se lagta hai ki tabhi se humare beech bahut kam baat hoti hai to maine apne comman related se phucha to usne kaha ki bhaiya wo kabhi nahi manegi quki wo apko flirty samjhti hai ab aap hi batao ki jb tk hum kisi ko jnaege nahi to uske bare pehle se hi galt soch lena ye kaha tk sahi hai

        1. Aisa hi hota hai is duniya me tabhi to kahte hai ye duniya vichitr hai…. 🙂 Tum usse direct face to face baat karo, use bolo ki jo tum samajhti ho main vaisa nhi hu. Use batao ki – Kisi me baare me jaane bina hi uske baare me apne vichar bna lene se acha hota hai kisi ko jaan kar fir kuch decide karna.

        2. Akash ye jaruri nhi ki hum kishi se mile to hi uske bare me jane aisa bhi to ho sakta hai na ki aap kabhi koi waishi harkat ki ho jo usne notice kiya ho or aapko pata na ho aur jaisha ki aapne kha ki aap uske ghar me ground floor pe rehte ho then aapko to chance milega hi us se baat karne ka us se direct milne ki koshish karo aur uce ye ehsaas dilane ki koshish karo ki tum use chahne lage ho

          1. ab ye hi to problem h gatuam ki ye kese pata karu ki maine kon si waisi harkat kr di jiski vajh se wo mujhe flirty smjh rahi hai…….or humare eech koi comman topic bhi to nahi hai me kis topic pr baat karu and kis tarha use yakeen dilau ya kis traha use ahsah dilau ki me use pasand karta hu bolo……….and shivshi face to face mile tb to or agr me kisi bahane use bula bhi lu to ek dum se use kese kahu ki tum mere bare me galt thinking kyu bana kr baithe ho quki ye baat to mujhe hum dono ke kisi comman relative ne batai hai….agr maine usse phucha to wo phuche gi ki tumhe kisne kaha to me kya kahunga hhmmm me bhi fasunga or wo comman relative bhi fas jayegi

  105. Main Ek Ladke se buhat pyar krti hu uska naam Imran hai aur woh bhi mujhe buhat pyar karte hai…Main Unke Bina Nahi Reh sakti mainn Unse Shadi karna Chahati Hu par Main Unko Bolne Se Bhi Darti Hu Ke Kahi Woh Durr Na Chale Jaye Mujhse maine Unko mazak Me Kahin Bar Bola Hai Par darr Ke Maare Main bat Palat Deti Hu…Agar Woh Haan bhi Kahe Toh Phir Family matter honga unki family me bhi aur hamare Bhi Main Kya Karu Plz Mujhe Batao…

    1. Znaisha jab aap janti ho ki aap dono ki family nhi manegi to fir kya aap apne Ammi Abbu ke marji ke khilaf ja kar shadi kar sakti ho?
      Aur dusri baat agar aap Imran se pyar karti ho to aapko use jaldi se jaldi sab detail me bata dena chahiye becoz aap jitni der karogi problem utni badh sakti hai. So jitni jaldi possible ho use sab baat batao ho sakta hai family wali problem vo solve kar sake.

  106. Agar ladkiya aise krne lage to ladka apni jaan nichawar kr dega, hamesha ladkiya hi chahati hai ki ladka kuch unke leay special kare but agar ye tips ladkiyan apnane lage na to is duniya me brukup hoga hi nhi…………

      1. hi sis mai apne fiancy se baat karti hon chat per ham khush bhi hain but yaar ek problem hai vo kehta hai k tum girls ki tarhan ya girls wali baten nahi karti or idhr udhr ki baten karti ho or mujhe samajh nahi arahi k girls ki kiya baten hoti hain? plzzz help me sis

        1. Kismish aap ye baat us ladke se direct bolo – “Mujhe to aisi baate hi karni aati hai… Aap keh rhe ho ki mujhe girls waali baate karni nhi aati, to pahle mujhe batao to shi ki girls waali baate hoti kya hai fir main bhi try karungi 🙂