Hello Doston, Main aapki friend Shivshi. Humare is Love & Relationship hindi website ke ek reader ne Apni Love Life ke baare me humse ek sawal pucha jo hume laga ki aap sabke saath share karna chahiye, isliye hum unka sawal aur uska apni taraf se best jawab aap sab ke saath share kar rhe hai..


Sawal tha ki..

Hello madam ji.. Baat aaj se thik 3 saal pahle ki hai. Mai ek ladki se bahut jayda pyar kartha tha.. Vo ladki bhi mujhe bahut pyar karti thi. Hum dono ek dusre ke sath bahut khush the or ek dusre ko bahut achhi tarah samjhte bhi the. But uske ghar me mere karan ek problem ho gyi or ek din usne mujhe kaha ki usne mere saath break up karna hai. Maine socha ke meri wajah se ise bahut problems hai isliye maine bol dia ki `Theek hai`. Break up ke baad usne mujhe bahut sms aur phone bhi kiye but main hmesha hi usse ingore karta raha, jaan boojh kar taki fir se use mere karan koi problam na ho.

Aaj 2 sal ho gye humare break up ko but aaj bhi main use kyu yaad krta hu, maine pyar ke liye apne dil ke saare darwaje band kar liye fir bhi uski yaadein kyu mera peecha nhi chhodti. Uske sath meri last time baat ko bhi ek saal se jyada ho gya. Maine hamesha use ye dikhane ki koshis ki ke Main bahut khush hu aur use miss nahi krta. But uske alawa aaj tak maine kisi or ladki ko us najar se nahi dekha or na mere dil me kisi ke liye vo khayal aata hai.

Main use bhoolne ke liye kya karu - sad emotional love alone miss u

Halanki maine bahut try kiya ki kisi or ladki ke sath relationship shuru kru but us jaisi feeling hi nhi aati jo use dekh kar aati thi. Aaj sayad usne apna naya relation bana liya hoga kisi aur ke sath but mujhe koi problem nhi kyunki main use hamesha khush dekhna chahta hu. Lekin Mai kya kru ki uski yado se chutkara pa saku.?

Pichhale 2 saal se try kr rha hu kabhi lgta hai mai bhul gya use fir kabhi lgta hai ke Main use kabhi bhul nahi sakta. Please mujhe bataye mujhe kya krna chahiye. Please.

Jawab..

Dekho Friend jo cheez aapke saath ho rhi hai vo bhut hi normal baat hai sab lovers ke liye jo kisi karan apna pyar gava chuke hai. Jab hum kisi ko jaan se bhi jyada chahte hai aur vo achanak humari zindagi se chala jata hai to bhut dukh hota hai, lekin yakeen maano aisa sirf aapke saath hi nhi hota. Bhut se aise log hai jo life me is phase se gujarte hai but jo samajhdar hote hai vo samajh jaate hai ki isse kuch hone wala nhi sirf aur sirf Time Barbad hoga aur kuch nhi. Jis cheez ke liye hum kuch kar nhi sakte uske liye itna sochne se koi fayda nhi hai.

Mujhe maloom hai aap khoge ki “Lekin main use yaad nhi karta, Vo khud yaad aa jaati hai” Hanji ye baat shi hai, aisa hota hai aur is problem ka ek hi best solution hai – Khud ko bhut busy rakho. Ek dost ne apni same aapki wali story (Dil Usse Milne Ke Liye Tadap Rha Hai – Main Kya Kru ?) shari ki thi humare saath, humne unhe bhi yhi kha ki khud ko busy kro, unki problem bhi bilkul aapki wali thi. Lekin fark sirf itna hai unhone baat ko samjha aur apne kaam me puri tarah se busy ho gye, kuch dino pahle unhone mujhe mail bhej ke Thanks kha. Unhone btaya ab unki life me sab theek hai, vo khush hai aur apne kaam me vyast hai, kabhi kabhi pyar ki yaad aa bhi jaati hai lekin use haseen yaad ki tarah jeete hai, uske karan preshan nhi hote.

Aap bhi humari baat mano aur khud ko busy rakhan shuru kro, yaad tab hi aati hai jab humara dimag free hota hai agr dimag har waqt kaam me busy rhega to vo khud-b-khud kam yaad ayegi. Aap jo bhi kaam karte hai usme busy rhe, sham ko ghar aa kar ghar ke bachon ko padhane me busy ho jaaye, doston ke saath baatein kre, ghoome fire. Life enjoy kare.

Mujhe umeed hai `Apne pyar ko bhoolne ki kosish` me aapko meri salah jarur achi lagegi aur aap ise apnaoge. Agr padhne wale readers ko koi salah deni ho to vo bhi niche diye gaye comment box se de sakte hai. Agr kisi ki koi problem ho to vo bhi pich sakta hai, hum aapki usse jyada help krenge jitni hum kar sakte hai. 🙂

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Hello Ji :) Main hu Shivshi. Student hu but Love matters ko achi tarah samajhti hu. So ye site bnayi hai aapki help ke liye. Kuch bhi problem ho ya kuch puchna ho, bolo bina tension.. ♥ Reason for late reply.

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  1. DEAR mam please please help me mam meri gf ka 5 years old relation hai but vo mujhse khti thi ki phle hum log sab shadi krenge but abhi kuch dino se vo baho ladayi krti hai aur mam uska phone bahot waiting jata hai mujhse apna phone chipati hai aur khti ki tum saq krety ho isliye shadi nhi krenge jb meri khin aur tay ho jaye to chale jana meri life se aisa kaise mujhe kuch samjh me nhi a rha hai mai khta hun ki akhir bat kya gh to khyi h ki mai shadi nhi kr paungi usko koi aur mil gya hai mujhe pta hai maine pta krvaya hai to vo ekn aur ldke zse bat krti hai uske pas job h paise vala h mai khta hun ki meri job lg kjayegi tb kr logi to khti ki tb bhi nhi krungi chahe kuch bhi ho jaye itne dino salo tk relsnt me rhne k bad vo aisa kr rhi hai bataiye mai kya krun mera khin man nhi lgta apna padyi bhi nhi kr pa rha hun angey ki ap hi batiye is situation se bhr kaise aye

    1. aap thora time lein uske baad hi koi action lein. Aur agar woh nahi man rahi hai toh aap usko chor dein aapke liye yahi acha hoga.

  2. Hi madam main Atul apki sabi post mujhe achi lagi main ek ladki Jo married hai us se bahut pyar Karta hu apni Jaan se b Jada,par mujhe pata Chala ki uska 2 k Sath pehle hi relation hai wo dono b married hai,unme se ek toh uske Ghar b aata hai,wo mujhe Sirf kaam padne par hi yaad karti hai,Meri uske Sath 7 din se baat nhi ho rahi,wo mere Ghar k saamne hi rehti hai,Maine uske liye sab Kuch kiya,wo mujhe ignore karti hai AB,main Kya karu madam

    1. Main batati hu ki ab aap kya karu… Sauno, Chutiyapanti karna band karo. Tum log itne bewakoof ho ki tumhe chulu bhar paani me dub jaana chahiye. Ek ladki tumhara kitni aasani se istemal karti aur tum jaise bewakoof log unke isharo me nachte rahte ho. Thodi to sharam karo, thoda to apni najron me aoni ijjat karo…. Vo baat nahi karti ye choro Tum kyu usse baat kar rhe ho aur uski baat maan rhe ho?

  3. Mam mujhe aapse kuchh sirius sawal poochna hai jo mere liye bahut aham hai kya main aapse pursnl main baat kar sakti hu ?

  4. ek ldki h vo mere s bhut pyar krti h but us Ki shadi hone Ja rhe h or jis s shadi ho rhe h vo ldki usse pyar Ni krti h ghar balo k Karn shadi kr rhe h or vo mere liye bhut roti or mai bhi but mai usse shadi krna chats hu but Ni kr skta kyu mai abhi kuch Ni kr rha hu or mere ghar bale ready Ni h or btao mai kya kru….plz help me…

  5. Hello madam ji ek ldka mjhse bhut pyar krta tha kuch mhine phle pr mne uss samy mna kr diya tha fr v usne mera nb nhi khatm kiya fr vo kuch mhine bd frr bola mjhe lga vo schha h or mne use ha kr diii…..lekin kuch hi mhine bad vo change ho gya khta he ki hmara future nhii h isliye me ab bt nhiiii krega. ….ye jrur I nhii hota ki sbki love success ho hi jayenge. ….me ab bhut use pyar krne lgi hu ab mai kya krungii
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    1. Kuch mat karo, use bhulo aur life me aage badho. baaki kuch karke sirf apne aapko dukh dogi aur kuch nahi. ye life hai aur life logon ko bhut bade bade gam deti hai ye to kuch bhi nahi hai, iske liye rone ki jarurat nhi hai.

  6. same story mere sath bhi hua hain ,ham bhi yahi koshish karte hain par bhul nahi pate jab kabih mere paas se gujarti hia main bahut bechain ho jata hun jis din dekh leta hun yakin mano raatbahr so nahi pata haun par kuchh nahi kahta kisi bas ek song sun leta hun sikwa nahi kisi se kisi se gila nahi nasib me nahi tha jo humko mila nahi ab main ek blog likhna suru kar diya hun thanks.

  7. Hi mam me ek ladki se pyar krta hu .vo meri gf bhi thi .pr 4 month se uska kisi aur sath affair chal rha aur mera breakup bhi ho gya tabhi. Pr kuch din phele vo mujhe mili to usne bola tum mujhe galat samaj rhe ho .mane use belive kr k usse porpose kr diya .aur ussne bola sham ko ama me reply kr dugi bt mam ussne reply nhi kiya maine usse dobara sms krke k dobara bola pr usne sms nhi kiya .aur vase dekh k smile bhi kr deti h pr reply nhi krti.ma. me ab kya karu mujhe kuch samaj me nhi aara..reply me mam plz……

  8. Yrr apko meri prob batane ka koi matlab nhi because 1 month ho gay h apne koi reply hi nhi diya its not right manta hu aap busy rehte ho par 1 month no reply its long time u know just cheak my mesg and help me pleee i am sumit verma
    Just cheak pleee

      1. Hi Mem mera name jeetu hai. mujhe
        Ek problem thi ki mai ladki se baat krne
        mai thodha nervous feel kertha tha.
        meri love story suru honey se phale hi
        t gyi. meri ek galthi se ki mai us ladki se kam baat krtha tha. fir mujhe apni galthi ka aisas hua , per jab tak kafi dher ho chukhi thi. vo kisi or se set ho gyi thi. mera dost jisne mujhse bola tha mai set kerwayoga us ladki ko. per us dost ne pit peeche hamla ker diya. Ab mujhe gussa aatha hai apnay pyar per. or vo meri college mai padthi or meri class mai padthi thi. bahut kosis ki us ladki ko bula du. per nhi bula saka . mai kosis kertha hu mai santh rhu. per kaise maine us ladki se haat milane ki kosis ki thi jab vo set nhi thi per usne mujhse apna haath nhi milaya. mujhe kafi bura laga tha . uska name mamta negi tha from burari.
        lakin mai ab koisis kroga us ladki ko bhul jayoo ………..

        1. Sabse acha yahi hoga ki aap uske baare me sochna choro aur sach ko accept karo aur life me aage badho aur Enjoy karo.

  9. hii madam me ek ladki se beintehaan mohabbat krta hu but kisi reason ke wajah se uss ladki ke mom dad ko pata chal gya mujhe pata he woh. ladki bhi mujhse pyar krti he but. uske mom dad ke pressure ke wajah se usne mujhe kaha ke main tumse pyar nhi krti..main usse baat krne jaata hun to usski mom usske saath hoti.. Ab aap hi bataiye ke main usse pyar ke liye manau bhi toh kaise????

    1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya person baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai.

  10. hello mam mai ek ladki se 3 saal se pyar karta hu or wo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti h , lekin kuch dino pahle uske parents ne uska rista kahi or kar diya h , ab mai bahut depress hu , nind nhi aati h khan ka bhi man nhi krta kuch krne ka man bhi nhi krta h or har time uske sath bitaya hua time yaad aata h , bas is pal ko kese jhel saku ap kuch btaiye ,

    1. Agar aap sach me sab pareshaniyan khatam karna chahte ho to apna saara dhyaan kuch bada karne aur kuch banne me lagao.. Apni life ka ek bada aim set karo and use achieve karne ke liye 24 ghante bhi mehnat karni pade to karo. Apna sara dhyaan aur dimag us goal par tika do, bada socho, bada karo, safal bano aur sabse pahle apne Papa aur mammi ke liye socho, baki sab chor do, ye socho ki kaise Papa ka naam ucha karunga, kaise papa ko apni li huyi gaadi ka steering pakdaunga, kaise mammi ko sabse mehangi saree gift dunga…. Zindgi shi tarike se jiyo aur sahi raste par mere dost, baaki sab to 2-4 din ka khel ka, sab badal jayega. 🙂

  11. Meri ek frand h Muslim he wo ek Hindu ldky se bhut pyaar krti he Etna ki usy bat ni krti to uski tbyt kharb ho jati h or un 2 no k maa bap unky ley rishty dekh rhy h 3 sall se sath RHA rhy h wo us ldky ko bolti h to wo usa kehta h ki tu jesa chati h vesa hoga fasla usky upr chod diya h kya krna cheye ans me

    1. Agar aap sach me sab pareshaniyan khatam karna chahte ho to apna saara dhyaan kuch bada karne aur kuch banne me lagao.. Apni life ka ek bada aim set karo and use achieve karne ke liye 24 ghante bhi mehnat karni pade to karo. Apna sara dhyaan aur dimag us goal par tika do, bada socho, bada karo, safal bano aur sabse pahle apne Papa aur mammi ke liye socho, baki sab chor do, ye socho ki kaise Papa ka naam ucha karunga, kaise papa ko apni li huyi gaadi ka steering pakdaunga, kaise mammi ko sabse mehangi saree gift dunga…. Zindgi shi tarike se jiyo aur sahi raste par mere dost, baaki sab to 2-4 din ka khel ka, sab badal jayega. 🙂

      1. Hi,Shivshi mam, I need your help.Main ek ladki se pyar tkrta hu but vo karti hai ya nahi pta nahi I don’t know but uski bato se mujhe lagta hai she loves me bcz bohot si esi chize hoti hia jise lagta hai ha kahi na kahi uske dil mai mere liye gaha hai ,but ek problems hai k uska ksis or ladke k sath relationship tha uske sath uski sadhi tak bat phoch gai thi but ladki k parants ne mna kr diya kioki ladka thoda lofer type tha ,uske kuch time bad vo meri jindgi mai a gai mujhe vo achi lagti hai mene use iske bare mai propose bhi kr diya hai but uska jo repy nahi hi yes aya or nahi no aya, bus usne mujge kha mai ab fir se is lafde m nahi padna chpyarti hu ,but uske thik tarh se rply n krne ka mtlb m ky manu mera dil to use p krta hai na ,,hum abhi bhi milte hai but ek d se 1semin m sirfsirf hallchalpuchpuche haihaibhi nahinahi bole hai,samjh nnahia rrhaiky karu,main to usse pyar krt hu na ….help me email me your rply ravi.sharma1689@gmail.com

        1. Hello Rav Ji,

          Dekho ladki ne saaf saaf bata diya hai ki vo is tarah ke lafde me fir se nahi padna chahti, simple si baat hai koi ladki aise problem se nikali hai to use recover karne me time to lagta hi hai. Aap uske saath ek ache dost bane raho aur use apni taraf se pyar ka halka fulka ijhar karte raho, usse haan kahne ke liye majbur mat karo. Agar uske dil me kuch hoga to use bhi pata chal hi jayega kuch din me fir ho sakta hai ki vo khud kuch signal de.

          Dekho ek baat samajho, jaruri nahi ki hum jise pyar karte hai vo bhi hume pyar karta ho ya karne lage. Aapko use ree chorna chahiye aur use apna faisla lene dena chahiye. Uske dost bano aur pyar jatate rho vrna FriendZone me aa jaoge 🙂

  12. madam mujhe b aapki advice leni h me bhut preshan hu me kya kru me jisse bhut jyada pyaar krta hu vo b bhut jyada krti thi mujhse kal karna chod diya baat b krni chod d mere saat ghumne b gyi par ab mujhe bhut yaad aati hu uski plz mujhe kuch esa btaye aap ki m usse paa sku dobara ya fr bilkul kese bhul jau mujhe kuch btao plz aap

  13. Me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu par bo mughe nahi karti hai me us bhulna chahata hu par bhul nahi sakta agar pyar karna chahu to bo mughe pyar nahi karti hai ab me kya karu please aap koi upaye bataiye

    1. Dekho friend agar koi aapko pasand nhi karta ya karti to aap use khud ko like karne ke liye majbur nhi kar sakte. Socho aapke padosh me ek ladki rehti hai jisme aapko koi interest nhi hai par vo aapko propose kar de, to aap kya karoge? Simple si baat hai, Aap use Naa hi karoge, fir vo chahe kuch bhi kahe ya kare aap use pasand nhi karte to nhi karte, aur agar usne fir bhi aapka peecha nhi choda to aap khoge yaar ye to peeche hi pad gyi.

  14. Me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu par bo mughe nahi karti hai me us bhulna chahata hu par bhul nahi sakta agar pyar karna chahu to bo mughe pyar nahi karti hai ab me kya karu please aap koi upaye bataiye

  15. hii mam m ek ladki ko 3 sal se pyar kr rha hu or wo bhi mujhse pyae kr rhi h but thode din phele unke papa ko pta chal gya or usne bat krne se mna kr diya .kya us ladki ka mere pass ph aayega? mere se phir se wo bat kregi

    1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya person baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. or sath hi dear ye 21th century ab cast ko bich me lane ka t koi matlab hi banta. I think I’ve made my point.

  16. Hiii…mera bf or m ek dusre ko bht pyar krte h…hum 1 year se sath m jaipur reh rhe the or study kr rhe the bt ab mere parents ne muje waps ghar bula liya h….or mera bf whi rhta h…plz muje esa kuch btao jisse m parents ko mna sku bcz mene sb kch try kr liya h or m yha ghar m reh kr sirf roti he hu or kuch nhi….plzz help me.

    1. Dear pahlli baat ki aap ghar wapis kyun aa gayi dusri baat abhi aapki age kya hai or tersi baat tki aapki study complete ho gayi dekho dear aaj nahi to kal to aisa hona hi hai agar aap ageh study ka bol ke wha wapis jaoge to itne me aapke bf ki study khatam ho jayegi or wo apne ghar chala jayega isliye ab aapko koi pka hi tod nikallna padhega jaise ki apne bf ko bolo ki wo aapki city me aa jaye job karne ya fir aap apne ghar me bolo ki meri ek saal ki training hai is liye mujhe wapis jana hoga.

      1. HAhahaha kya bt h bhaut khub maa papa ko dhoka dena kya sahi bat h
        Ak ma hoti h jo apni olad ko dukh sukh pakr jnm deti h papa hote h jo apni olad ko palte h apne parivar ko chlate h ye soch kr ki ye apni ladki ya ladka apna nam ucha krega or wo koi kmi ksr ni chodhta unko palne me uske bd jb ladki ya ladka bda ho jata h or wo kisi ke chakr me pd jata h jisko pyar bolte h or wo bhul jata h ki ma papa ne hme jnm diya unka v haq h hmpe ye bhul ke wo apne ap ko usko sop deta h jo aj kal ka aaya hua hota h apni lyf me or uski har bt man ne lagta h kya ye sahi h pyar kiya h to apne ma papa se bhi kya chupana ye konsa pyar hua

  17. hello madam ek ladki hai jisko maine 12th mein purpose kiya tha and u time usne Haa bol diya tha..uss time mujhe urgent jana tha apni pdhai complete krne uske baad maine contact krne ki Kosis but nhi ho paya baad mein jab hua to usne bola ki vo mera teenage tha mai usko bahut pyar krta hu and bhul nhi pata hu usKo kya karu…….abhi whatsap par baat hoti hi kahti hai ki mai dost ban skti ho gf nhi…..kya karu pls help me….

  18. hardeep here mera 3 year ki relationship kahtam ho gi kaya karo mujhe reason bi nahi bateya me us k bina nahi reh sakta yar help me

    1. Kya samajh me nhi aa rha hai ? Vo tumhe chutiya bana rhi hai isliy ab kuch sochne ki jarurat hi nhi hai, bhaad me jaane do use. Aur usse har tarah ke contacts khatam karo, us ladki ka kya character hoga jo ghum kisi ke saath rhi hai aur kehti hai pyar tumse hi karti hu.

  19. Hyyy…dear .suggest me..yl…meri ek friend hai. vo or mai ….ek dusre syy bhauth jadaa attech hai… n I love her…but mai …usko..an bulanaaa chahataaa hu…beacouse ..muje apne carrier py concentration krna hai… but mai usko bhulaaa nhi paa rahaaa ….dear so plzzz…help me dear…I don’t know what to do …..now…plz suggest

  20. shivshi,,meri ek seting thi to usse breakup ho chuke 4 month ho gye hai….ab uski bht yaad ati hai mujhe din raat jisme m kam me b bht bzy rehta hu but fir b yaad ati hai or time lgte he uski yaad me muth b mari jaati hai…koi advise do acchi c jisse meri muth marni chuth jaaye

    1. Iske liye koi advice nahi hai bas agaar aap is bareh me sochte ho to aapko khud hi thodi himmat karke ise chordna hoga nahi to aapko bahut si problem ko face karna padh sakta hai.

  21. mam muje apki help ki bhut jaurat h muje ab kya krna chaiye …. mam me ek ladke se bhut jada pyar krti hu humer pyar ko pure 8saal ho gye h or wo mere ghr ke bilkul samne rehta h .. mam mine use etna pyar kiya or ladki kisi se ladke se ni krti hogi .. mine jb se pyar ko samja h jb s mine use pyar kiya h … usne muje dhoka diya h muje bilkul akela chor diya h or tanha kr diya h ..usne kisi or ladki se shadi kr li … or mam usne shadi se phle mere sath bhut bar bar bar sex kiya h phle ese bolta tha me tujse hi shadi karungi … pr usns to muje dhoko kyu diya …jb jb use kisi chiz ki jaurat hoti thi mine uska humesa diya jb bi use peshe ki jaurat hoti me use deti kapde use delati thi har bar …mam use bul ni pa rahi hu .. ander ander gut rahi hu … apne pyar ko kisi or hote hue dekha h mine roz ek kamre me sohte h muje ye soch kr bhut dil dukta h … samj ni ata me kya kru …. aj uski shadi ko 2 saal ho gye h … fir bi me use bat ho jati h kabi kabi … ese bolta h muje tuje ni choduga tension mat le me hu tere sath … mam me eska kya matlab samju eska… mam me bhut parisaan hu bas yahi kiyal ata me mar jati hu … use esa kyu kiya mere sath mine to use etna pyr kiya h … or muje es pyar ki etni badi saza mil rahi h … mam use koi farak ni padta me maru ya jeehu… mam jb bi me uski wife ko uske sath dekti hu na muje bhut dil dukta h … me puri tarah se tur gi hu…aj wo etna kush h use mere koi parwa ni h pr me use bul ni pa rahi hu roz usko dek kr rohti rehti hu uss mere sath esa kyu kiya…mam plz kuch to btyo muje kya krna chaiye … plz me apke ahge hath jorti hu … plz

    1. Hiii mamta madam….app ka pura msg read kiya mein ne …bahut sad h app ki story per wo ladka aap ko use kar rha tha ….Nd app ki value wo nhi samjha to…na he aap ke true pyar ki….appki feeling mein samj sakta hu ..bt app mujse baat kar sakti h to kya hum friend ban sakte h

  22. Hi mai ek ldki se pyar karta hu or hum karib 2saal se achhe friends hai or maine use ek baar propose bhi kiya magar usne kaha ki mujhe pyar me intrest nhi hai tb uske baad hum sirf friends the magar wo ab is dosti ko todna chahti hai or pahle hum 1hrs baat krte the magar ab hum baat krte hai toh sirf ladai hi hoti hai or uska koi b f bhi nhi hai toh fir ku wo mere har ek baat se gussa ho jati hai or aaj usne mjhe phone me kaha ki aaj ke baad humara kch nhi ho skta sb khatam ho gya .toh ab ap mjhe bataiye ki mjhe kya karna chahiye is dosti ko kaise maintain karu or dosti pyar me convert kaise karu .help me please i need your help

  23. Hlo mam me phchle sal s ek ldki se pyar krta hu or bhi mujse krti thi hm ek dusre k sath bhut khus the pr ek din kuch bat se wo naraj ho gyi or muje chod k chli gyi lr tb bhi m uske contact m rha or ek din muje pta lga ki usne nya bf bna liya h me use bhul jane ki kosis krne lga pr bite kuch dino s wo mujse bat kr rhi h m jb bhi usse puchta hu ki u love me to wo kuch nhi bolti me use bhulna chahta hu pr uske bina ek pl bhi nhi rha jata me use kese bhulu mene apne ko kitna bussy rkhne ki kosis bhi ki pr uski yad ese judi h mujse hr kam krte wqt uski yad phle aa jati h plz me use ab kese bhul skta koi acha rply dena plz

  24. Main ek ladki se pyar karta hua ..par mujhe lagta hai ki wo mujhe pyar nhi krti… Or maine us k bare me he shochta hu ..mujhe lagta hai ki wo mujhe pasnd nhi krti kya kru…?? Help

  25. to aap hi btao mai kya kru. use relationship thod du ya use pane ke kiye successful insan bnu ya kuch aur . pls tell me answer

  26. to fir aap hi btao ki mai is relationship ko khatam kru ya uske lite successful insane bnu mai. pls kyoki mai is time mujhe himat ki avashkata h. pls tell me answer

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  27. Lekin mujhe relationship thodna ni aata h mtlb mai kisi ladki ka dil dhukhana nhi chahta hu aur wo to mera pyar h n . Mai to kewal use khush rkhna chahta hu.
    Pls tell me ans.

    1. to aap hi btao ki is relationship ko thod du kya. ya fir usko pane ke liye successful insan bnu. ya fir kuch aur . pls tell me my ans..

      1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  28. Apka reply pda mai ye bolna chahta hu. Agar mai successful insan bn gya to us ladki ke ghar wale mujhe apni ladki se sadi krne dege kyoki uski faimily apne cost me hi uski sadi krna chahte h to mujhse kyo krege.
    aur ye bi puch tha ki abhi mai instragal kr rha hu mujhe abhi himat aur sahare ki bhut aavashkta h aur is time mera lover maira sath ni de rhi h wo apni faimily ki kushi chal rhi h aur to aap btao jb mai successful bn jauga tb us ladki se kyo sadi kru jo mujhe mere bhure time me mera sath ni de rhi h
    pls reply me?

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  29. Hello mem mera naam monu me ek ladki se pyar karta hu mem mujse brekup kar liya hai pata nahi kiyno mem us ko bohot pyar karta hu mem hamare reletion ko 5 sal ho chuke hai mem me kiya karu kuch samaj me nahi a raha ki kiya karu use kese manaun plz help mi mem

    1. Dear mera to man-na hai ki, agar aap kisi relationship me ho aur usse puri tarah khush nhi ho ya us relationship ke karan aapko khushi kam aur pareshani jyada hai to use khatam kar dene me hi samajhdari hai.

  30. Mam meri gf ke father ki death ho gyi h or vo mujhe uske pas bula rhi h but m vha nhi ja sakta mail use bahut pyar krta hu vo bhi mujhe bahut pyar karti h an uski mujhe bahut yad aa rhi h mail kya key please help

    1. Agar aap is time uske pass nahi ja sakte to shayad wo baad me aap se baat hi na kare kyuki jab use aapki sabse jyada jarurat hai tabhi aap uske sath nahi ho or ye to galat baat hai

  31. Dear mam
    m ai ek ladki se pyar karta hu aur wo bhi utna hi karti hai .hamare relations ko 2 sal ho chuke hai ladki hamare relations me hi hai kuch dino pehle ladki ke mobile me hamari imege unke bhai ne dekh li aur use bahot mara and the present time ladki me change dikh raha hai pata nahi kyu shayad maa bap ne kasam diye hoge pls tell me some solutions

    1. is baat ka solution yehi hai ki ladki ko jaise bhi karke bharosa dilaye or ussi se jane ki problem kya hai jo wo aisa behave kar rahi hai.

  32. Di main ek ldke pe blind trust krti thi m usko bchpn se janti thi or usne mujhe purpose kiya mne haa ki usne apne parents se bhi meri bt krwayi unhone n bola beta hum krawayege shaadi bs galt mt krna kch tum log m maan b gyi jse din aage badhe usne ek din mujhe bola ki mere mom dad n mere lye ldki dekhi h mne bola kya bol rhe ho m kya kru ki ap asa na kro usne bola ghr pe bt kr mne ki mom se sb smoothly chlne lga but 2 3 weeks k bd bo mujhe bolta ki mere mom dad n ek or ldki dekhi h par m unse bt kruga ki mujhe shaadi nhi krni or agle din uska phone aata or bo bolta ki meri shaadi fix ho gyi ….mne uske baare m apne frnd ko btaya ki usne asa kiya toh or bo manager h airpot m hospitality department m toh mera frnd bolta ki mne sb pta kiya uske baare m bo airpot p nhi kisi club m manager h …..di phr uss ldke ka phne aaata bo bolta ki m shaadi ke bd bhi tujhse rishta rkhuga mne usko bhut daanta ki tu 3 life kharab kr rha ek k lye loyal reh mne usse bt krna bnd kr di par dimag usi k baare m soch rha khud p apne emotions p kse control kru smjh nhi aa rha pls solve my problem….pls….i request u….

    1. Dekho dear agar w kisi post ke liye apna sacha pyaar chord sakta hai to fir aap khud hi socho ki us hisab se to jo hua thik hi hua kyunki agar aap baad me kisi prblem me hote or wo aapko tab chord deta to aapko kaisa feel hota isliye yehi sahi time hai ki use bhul jao or apni ll neeeeeeeents ke bare me socho.

  33. Mai asu hu mai ek ladki ko like krta tha uska bf bi tha bad me uska breakup ho gya wo udas rhti ti fir mai uske life me aaya uski life ko kushyo se bhr diya ham ab ek dusre pyar krte te. ek din call me bat kr rhe te uske gharwalo ne pkd kiya fir use data aur mara bi. Uske kuch manth bad wo bolne lgi mujhe bhul ja aur apni life me kush rh krke. Ab wo bolti mai tujhse pyar ni krti hu mai kewal apni faimly ki kushi chahti hu…
    Ab aap btao mai kya kru pls…

    1. Agar aisa hai to aapko use bhul jana chaiye kyunki koi bhi insaan ke liye uske parents se badh kar koi nahi hota na hi hona chaiye. Baki agara ap usse sacha pyaar karte ho to aap bhi koshish karte raho shayad wo aapke wappis ajaye ya jab tak uske ghar ka mahool thik nahi ho jata tab tak uska wait karo .

  34. Mai asu hu mai ek ladki like krta tha uska bf tha kuch manth bad uska breakup ho gya wo udas rhti fir mai uski life me aaya use hasna. Khush rhna sikhaya aur ham log ek dusre ko pyar krne lage mene uski aakho me apne pyar dekha hai. ek din ham call me bat kr rhe the to uske gharwale pta chal gya use bhut dat pdi or mar bi uske kuch manth ke bad wo bolne lagi mujhe bhul ja aur hmesa kush rha kr krke ab wo bolti h maine tujhse pyar kiya hi ni. Mai kewal apni faimly ki kushi chahti hu….
    Aap btao ki mai kya kru ab

    1. Dekho ek ladki ke liye ya kisi bhi insaan ke liye Family pahle aani chahiye aur koi bhi duri cheez ya peron baad me, besak vo pyar karne waala hi kyu na ho. Us ladki ke ghar waale apni jagah bilkul shi hai ye mera manna hai aur vo ladki apne Mammi Papa ki baat man rhi hai ye bhut khushi ki baat hai. Aap agar us ladki ko apni banana chahte ho to kuch aisa bano ki uske ghar waale apni ladki aapko dene se mana na kar sake, successful bano, ye majnu bane rahne se koi apni ladki nhi dena chahega har insaan chahta hai uske bache khush rahe aur khushi usko vhi de sakta hai jo safal ho. Aashiqui ka bukhar kuch dino me hi thanda pad jaata hai saari zindgi aise hi nhi nikali jaa sakti. I think I’ve made my point.

  35. Me ek ladki se bot pyar karta hu hm ek sal se sath h bo b muje ab tk bot pyar karti thi me uski hr jarurt puri karta th hr sambhv help kesi b pese se lekar hr chz tk bo muslsman h me hindu .mera uske gr khub ana jana tha uske gr ma or bap h .bap ab nhi rhe uske .bo sb b muje bot manate the apne bete ki tarah ku me unke sare km karta tha .ek sal hogai sab sai tha kuch din se bo muje ignor kri h pta nhi ku hr bt me muje ulta sunari h bt b km km karti h me kru to thk varna nhi karti mere karne pr b ese hi bt ksrti h koi na koibhana lagati h uski ma ko b pta h mere uske bre me .ab kuch din se bo bot paresn kri h me bot roya hu uske lie bot tsdapta hu me usase dur nhi hona cahta hu bot pyar karta hu usko.aj subhah mene use fn kia to usko bola ku ignor kri h to bo muje bot kuch boli ku kru km kri hu me tme nhi milta ye bo bot jada battnizi se bt ki .sham ko cl kia mene to normal bt ki fir koi msg ya ans nhi kia rt tk gd ni8 bnhi me kya kru kuch samaj nhi arah plz kuch btao muje uski bot yad ati h rona ara h ab b bot me pagl ho jaunga is tarah kuch btso plz

  36. Sir mai ek ladke se 5 saal se pyar karti hu oahle to us ki mom ne mana kar diya tha ki hight ki problam h ab kuch time se us ne apni mom se bt ki maI use ladki se shadi karna chahta hu aaj us ki mom ne ha bol diya h lekin aaj mai ne apni fmly ko bataya wo mana kar rhe h ki us ki salary acchi nhi h dikhne mai accha nhi h inter cast h lekin mai use bahut pyar karti hu fmly ko bhi taklif nhi dena chahti kuch smj nhi aa rha un ko kaise smjau kaafi time se smja rhi hu un ko lekin wo smj nhi rhe h mai kise or se shadi nhi kar shakti socide ka man karta h lekin fmly ka aa jaata h ki un ki badnami hogi use mai kya karu muje tension ho rhi h bahut

  37. Maine bhi kissi she bahot pyaar kiya lekin wo samjhta hi nhi WO mujhe bolte hai Ki khush raho lekin main un ke bina Kaise khush rahu mera breakup bhi nhi hua lekin phir bhi baat nhi Kar rahe hai
    Kya Karu ap bataona

  38. Mujhe n malum ky bolu… Ek ldki mujhe SB kuch manti theeapna. Hr suk duk kaasathi m uska … Maere liyae fights krte thee apnee parents s. Uski job lgi kitni kushi mujhe hui kisi ko n hui… Apne sare prob shears krte thee mujhsaeki.. Mujhe apna SB kuch mantee thee.. Bt one day she surprised me . she totally changed .I don’t know wt I do ky maere gltii. Bs itna bolti paerents n shadi kr di fix.. SB ktm.. Maene bhi apne parents ko milaya uske parents s. Hum dono n puree kosis ki apne parents ko mnane ki…. Smj n aaya ky hua uski life m…. Kbhi bolti maan h Jane vale parents. Parents ki Marji k kilaf n Jana chahtee thy hum.. So parents ko h aaage rakaa… Usne bhi apni trf s full kosis ki. Hmara castka matter thaa. Vo Thakur there m pandit. 3saal chala hmare beautiful story .. She love m alot… Jitnaadur thaa itnaa deep pyar thaa hmara. Even touch bhi n kiyaa itne years m . bt uski job maere gr k itnaa pass lgi… Ki maere bilkul pass aage.. Yahan p bhi SB OK chlaa tha yr. Hum milte thy… Jitnaho sake apne man s help ki.. Vo bhoot pyar krte thee bt one day voo bilkul kdus ho g. SB finish bs y h bola kahin aur shadi ho rahe h uski.. Aj us k pass SB kuch maere pas kuch bhi n raa. Vo SB bhul g yr ysa fell lgaa honee ..btshe is good person I always respect her bt. Maere needud g… Na m soo pata hu na kuch headek hbhoot h… Pata n ku vo gr m bol n pa rahe ki ky baat… H. . Jo insaan mujhsaeki itnaa pyaar krtaa tha achank h yrr roood bn gyaa.. Yse baaate lgaa krnee ki mujhe feell hua ki voo insaan maere saath h n aj… Yr kaise ek insaan SB bhook sakta h achank h… Yr m bhhoot stresd hu

    1. Agar aap use pyaar karte ho use bhul jao or ageh badh jao life me kyunki jab wo hi bhul gayi hai aapko to kya fayeda usko yaad karke or ab ek new life karo start baki sab khud ba khud thik ho jayega.

      1. Hyy shivshi ji
        Prblm hatke hai. Ji shear bhi nhi kr skta ji
        Kese solve kru. Problm apni

        Yll muje pta hai agr bta bhi du apko apni problm to jo ap btaynge wo maine sab kuch kr liya hoga??
        Personal problm hai personally shear kr skta hu kya aap help kroge mere.. .

  39. Hy my name manish or me janta hu ki aap hr bar ki tarh is bar v meri madad kroge.
    meri prob. Ye h ki meri gf sadi me ja rahi h me use mna kr raha hu jane k liye pr wo jana padega bol rahi h halki wo v ni jana chati pr majburi h.
    me usse dur ni reh skta wo 12 dino k liye bahr ja rahi h itne din me dur ni reh skta plzzz help me
    me usse yasa kya kahu ki wo kuch v bahana krke ruk jaye or mujhse dur na ja paye me kya kahu plzzz tell me i hope ki aap jld hi meri help karoge…waitnig for u..……………

    1. Are Baba ye kaisa pyar hai ki koi kaam se khi jaa bhi nhi sakta… Manish aisa nhi hota jaisa aap sochte ho, ye pyar kam aur Bevkoofi aur Bachpana jyada hai.

  40. Itna maafi maangne par bhi vo bs gaaliya deti hai ….mai usko apne life me kaise vapas lau……mai usko bht pyr karta hu….vaise maine mere biz ka long goal set kiya hai . Hasil krne ko effort lgaunga 2months ho gye ab tk ek call bhi nahi aya uska.aur na maine kiya..mai usko kuch ban ke dikhama chahta hu aur feel krwana chahta hu ki mai aaj bhi tumse pyr krta hu . Maine 15months ka gap diya hai abhi iin between mai kuch karna chahta hu…..par mai vaps meri gf ko kaisehasil karu ???????????plz rly fst

  41. mam mei ek ladke ko bhut pyr krti hu vo pehle ache se time deta tha ab bt hi nhi krta bolta h carrer bnana h pehle shadi ka sochta tha ab dekhege bolta h time ane pe….aur jaise bolugi dur ho jaugi to bolta h ho ja ky kru mei uske bina nhi reh pati khud ro ke chli jti hu kaise bhulu

  42. Hello mam..
    Me apni girlfriend ko kese bhulau mere board ke exam ane wale he…me only usi ke bare me sochta rhta hu mera study karne me man nhi lag rha he mene usse bol diya he ki tu mujhe bhul ja par mam na to me use bhul pa rha hu me kya karu …
    Please help me please…

    1. Amir apne mann ko control karo, apna saara dhyaan apne goal par lagao, jab uski yaad aaye tab us yaad ki taraf dhyaan mat do, aap apne kaam me lage raho, jab aap yaad ko skip karne lagoge to vo aani kam ho jayegi aur fir bilkul kam ho jayegi. Bas ek baat ka khyaal rakho, jab yaad aaye tab uski taraf dhyaan mat do, apne mann ko apne vash me rakho.

  43. Hello man..!!!
    M ak ldki se bhahut pyar karta hun… jab maine usse propose ki to wo kehti hai ki ye sab drama hota hai ye life ko barbad kar deta hai or kehti ki di isse zindigi barbad ho jati hai… ab aap hi btao mam mai kaise samjhaun….

  44. Hello mam…… I want tell you that mere love story ka the end ho.chuka hai….But main apni GF ko bahut yaad kar raha hoon…Pata nahi kiyon sirf usi ki yaad mujhe aati hai,,,,,,,Main lakh kosis kar loon tab bhi woh mere dimaag se nahi jaati.hai,,,,,So please help me that how i can forget her……please help me i am very nervous

    1. Nayab sahab aap use bhulne ki kosish mat karo, aap bas ane kaam me magan raho aur apni soch badlo, apni life ka target set karo aur use achieve karne ke liye din raat mehnat karo, planning karo aur kaam karo, jab j=kabhi beech me uski yaad aa bhi jaaye to pichle time ki yaad me ek cute si smile ke saath hans diya karo aur fir apne kaam par lag jaao, yhi hai tareeka…

  45. Hello mam…..
    Main ek ladki se pyar krta hu, pr wo ladki samajti hi nhi, khti hai busy thi, isliye msg nhi ki, love u ke liye bhi bolna pdta hai,
    .kya kru mam btaiye kb tk aise hi mai bolta rhu ki bolo na love u …….plz reply clearly that she love me or not

    1. Usko thoda time chahiye. Shayad wo sach mein busy ho aur thoda break maag rahi ho. Aapko use thode samay ke liye akela rehne dena chahiye

  46. Main ek ladki se pichle 7 sal se pyar karta hu aur wo bhi mujhse karti h…..relationship m bhi h……pr ab achanak se uska behave change ho gya h…..phone m bhi 20 minute se uppar bat nhi karti….pyar ki bate ab usse pasand nhi a rha .

  47. mam mera v gf se brkp ho gya me use bhul ni pa ra hu har tym uski yad aa ri me khud ko busy v ni rkh pa ra hu kuch v kam kr ra hu to uski yad aa ri plzzz help me…….. mam ji….

    1. Thoda time do sab theek ho jayega apne aap, aapki zindgi me important cheez kya hai and aapki life ka goal kya hai is cheez par apna focus do pura.

  48. Jab me uske samne dekhta hu to wo muje dekhkar musurati he or thodi der bad muje ignore karti he me kya karu samj nahi aa rahahe.

  49. mam ek ladki se pyr katra hu or wo v mujse pyr karti hai.. Hm log 4 Sal se realationship hai.. Kuch mahine pehle uski job lgi h..
    or avi mai college me pdh rha hu.. Lkin ab uska behaviour change ho gya h ab wo mujhe iggnore kr rhi h.. Kuch smjh me nhi aa rha h mai kya karu

    1. Gyi ladki haath se. Breaking hona final hai. Ab us ladki me itna attitude aa jayega ki use sehna muskil hoga and Break hoga. Prashant main aapko yhi salah dungi agr vo aapse seedhe muh baat na kare to samajh lo ab rishta aage nhi ja sakata, faltu efforts bhi mat karna varna aapki life Dhobike ke kutte wali ho jayegi.
      Life Ur life for ur God, I mean ur parents, Apne Maa Baap se badh kar koi nhi hai aaj ke time me, aur ek ladki to bilkul nhi jo ab kisi bhi bhane aapse peecha chudana chahti hai.

    2. Rajesh aisha is leay ho raha hai kyon ki wo kishi successfully boy i mean uske sath relationship banana chahati hai jo already job me hai, wo apne feture ke bare me soch rahi ab aapko bhi apne feature ke bare me sochna chahiye chodo yaar use ignore him and try to go ahead in your ladki ka mujhe achhe se pata hai 8k to 12k kamane lagi to wo student boy ko kya value degi Ladki hamesha apne boyfriend ko apne se uper dekhna chahati hai na ki niche aap avi students life me ho is leay aisha ho raha hai aap apni life pe dyan do agar life me kuch kar gaye to wo tumhare aage piche ghumegi………

  50. dost ye mere shath bhi hua tha , mai bhi ek ladki se pyar karta tha, uska naam tha Anju! abhi uski shadi ho chuki hai.uske shadi ke din main khub Roya tha .kuch din tak mujhe kuch karne ka Mann nahi kar raha tha. or main susaiet me bare me soch raha that.or use pahle sarab bhi pi raha tha, par ab main sarab pina bilkul chor. diya hu or use bhula bhi diya hu, halaki o mujhe yaad aati hai par use much phark nahi parts .(Rajesh)

  51. Thanq mam.. Nd ek bat or puchni thi…wo tho mre najaro k samne dikhti rhegi nd tho mai usse bat na krun na ab… Kyuki wo bat krna chahegi as frnd ..

    1. Jis cheez se kuch hone wala nhi vo karne ka mere khyal se to koi fayda nhi hai. Agr normal friends ki tarah baat karna chaho to uski manahi bhi nhi hai but main bas itna kahna chahti hu ko apne man ko control me rakhne ki kosish hmesa rakhni chahiye. And focus apne target par hona chahiye.

    1. Matlab ye hai ki main aapko kehna chahti hu ki aap shi cheez par focus karo. Aap apni study me top par pahuchne ka sapna dekho, best artist banne ki kosish kro uske liye pagal ho jaao, kisi bhi haal me use haasil karne ka faisla karo, duniya ko bhul jao sirf aur sirf apne target par dhyan lgao. Dekho fir kaise khushiyan aapke kadam chumti hai.

  52. Mam…Aapka suggestion achha lga mam…Mai tho koi Dino se kosis kar rha bhulne ki nd apn aap ko Busy rkhta hun.. Mujhe khud lgta h ki m bhul jaunga …. Bt kbhi kbhi yad trapa hi deti…Nd jab usko koi apna kam hoga mujhs …wo mujhs baat krni aayegi tho mai kya krunga…. Nd ab tho mujhe kuchh pata nhi kya krun na krun…. Plzz ab mujhe clear krwa de ki m kya krun… Nd mai ye thhan lun ki mai usse kbhi baat na krun… Nd mujhe Jhanha tak lgta h ki usko ehsaas hoga..but hoga bhi ki nhi ye bhi pata nhi chal rha.. esliye ab tho bilkul hi baat nhi krti nd ab m bhi control kr rha hun ki mai bhi kbhi baat na krun.. Maine apn kuch dosto se bhi suggestions bhi lye.. Unhone bole bhaw nhi deti kyu asi ldkiyo k pichhe pda chod de ne ko kha..So plz mujhe clear krwa de ki m kya krun kya na krun mujhe samjh nhi aa rha..

  53. Hi mam.. Mai ek larki se bhut pyar krta hun. Wo Mre Clg class mate ki h. Mne use chat pr kha ki m tumse pyar krta hun to usn hlk m lya nd jab m usk samne hota hun to himtt ni hoti khne ki mne aise kai mouke gwaye. Or jab dusri bar bhi kha ki m tumse pyar krta hun tum mujhe psnd ho tho phr hlk m li nd mne use kha I’m serious. Thn uska koi response nhi aaya.. Nd kuch din tak to baat krna bhi bnd kr di tb mne bhi bnd kr dya tha tb wo khud hi baat krn lgi bt us mattr pr koi baat ni hoti. Phr mne kuch din tak frnd jaise rhn dya but m kuch Dino tak sad rhne lga gya tha. Tab tisri bar control ni hua phr kha dubara m tumse pyar krta hun nd usn koi reply ni dya tab mne call kya thn m use khta rha mai tum se pyar krta hun.. Koi response nii diii.. Phir usn kha mujhe es topic pr koi interest nhi thn mne puchha kya prblm h bs es topic pr baat nii krni.. Mne tmhre bich m koi h kya tb wo Han boli nd.. Ab usne baat krna hi chod di mre se… Nd mne usk lye bht kuch kya kamo m madd ki bt use hmesa taklif hi di.. Ab tho wo bhaw bhi ni deti nd esliye nii deti kyuki m hi glti kr rha usk pichhe ghumta rhata… Bt mai kya krun use bula bhi ni paa rha…..Kya kru nd kya na krun wo bataye mujhe plz help me

    1. Hello Ravi, jo aapke saath ho rha hai vo din me hjaro logon ke saath hota hai. Asal me aapko uske saath attraction ho gyi hai, kyuki aap log kafi time se touch me the and ache friends hone ke karan bhut si baate share ki isliye aap logon me ek bond ban gya, jo aapko lagta hai aapko usse pyar ho gya. But ye attraction tab tak rehti hai jab tak vo aapke saamne rhe ya uske baare me koi baat ho. Agr aap free rhoge to aapke man me usse baat karne ki and kuch achi kuch buri jo pahle baate huyi hai vo yaad ayengi. Iska ilaaj hai aap Busy rho. Har time busy rho. Jo bhi kaam karte ho usme top par pahuchne ki kosish kro, jab aap busy rhoge to uski yaad nhi aayegi, kabhi kabhi man krega usse baat krne ka to man ko samjhao, ye hume lagta hai bhut muskil kaam hai but utna muskil hota nhi hai. Agr hum sach me chahe to kuch bhi kar sakte hai aur agr na chahe to bhane hjaar mil jaate hai.
      Hope U understand my point.

  54. Hii.. My name is deep
    My qestion is …
    Me ek ladki se pyar krta hu .. Wo bhi mujse bahut pyar krti hai .. Mera uske sath 2 years se relation chal raha hai .. Wo mujse 4 sal badi hai .. Fir bhi hum n relation Rakhe or pehle hi deal kiya tha ushke sath ki .. Hum dono sadi nahi karge kyoki possible nahi hai or wo bhi man gayi thi ….
    Fir indino ki batt hai … Ushne muje bola ki tum mujeshe sadi karoge kya ?
    Mene bola karna toh chata hu but abhi meri age 20 hai toh mene ushko bola ki abhi puri tarah set nahi huwa hu eshliye nhi kr sakta…
    Ushne abhi ek se engment kr li … Ab wo muje ignore krti hai …
    Mujse raha nahi jata me kya kru abb
    Bate karu wo bhi mujse bahut love krti hai … Me kya kru ku6 pata nhi chal raha hai bat kru ya ushki life ..barbad kr raha hu esha lag raha hai ..? Kya kru ans do plz fast
    Shivsi plz tips do muje

    1. Hello Deep,
      Meri maano uski jiske saath bhi Sagayi huyi hai use uske saath jaane do. Yhi acha rhega sabke liye Friend. Because aap dono ka koi future nhi hai aur agr aapne kosish ki bhi to isse sirf aur sirf problems and stress create hoga sabke liye. So I’ll advice you to let her go.
      Main janti hu Dil dukhta hai par yakeen maano dost, Bhut logon ke saath isse bhut bura hua hai aur roj ho rha hai isliye samjho aur jo shi hai vo hone do. I hope it help you 🙂

  55. mam…main ek larki se 1 sal se baat kr rha tha….uske sath tution me v padha tha lkin us tym usse koi jaan pehchan nhi thi…toh ek din mere ek dost ne bataya ki wo ek larki se pyar krta h jo mere tution me padhti h…phr jb tution jana chut gya 12th class k bad toh main us larki ko facebook pe friend banaya….phr hum bahut ache dost ban gye lkin sirf fb whatsapo aur mobile pe hi baat hta tha aur bahut hta tha…dekhte dekhte 1 sal ho gye…aur mere man me uske liye feelings arise hone lge…main usse pyar krne lga….tabhi ek din baat baat me usne keh diya ki wo mujhe bhai jaisa manti h….mera dil tut gya ye sun k….aage kya karu kuch samajh me nhi aaya…toh phr 4 5 din toh baat band kr diye aur phr mujhse rha nhi gya usse baat kiye bina aur main uski bahut care v krta tha toh maine usse baat krni start kr di…aur aaj v baat kr rha hu…karib 6 month ho gye jb usne kha tha ki mujhe bhai manti h…toh main bich bich me gussa me baat band v kr dta hu…kv kv toh mahine bhar baat nhi krta…lkin phr control nhi hone pe krne lgta hu….aur aisa sirf islite kyuki main bahut care krta hu uska…uske jyada friends nhi h…aur wo bahut akeli akeli h…mere alava kisi se kuch share nhi krti..mujhse sabkuch share krti hi….isliye…lkin main usse bahut pyar krta hu…aur samajh nhi aa rha ki kya kru…use bhul jau ya kuch aur….bhulne k liye baat krna band krna hga…

  56. o Mumbai rhti hai aur up gav me o gav kbhi ati thi aur mujhe like krti thi mere ghr a k sadi ko bol rhi thi to sab choti samjh k hans diye fir o Mumbai chali gayi fir nhi ayi mere gav us k nani ka ghr hai yha bhut kam ati thi mujhe o Facebook se mili usne pucha tujhe koi girlfrind mili Maine kaha nhi Maine bhi pucha to boli nhi aisa bolega to bat nhi krungi fir usne khud I love you bola

    1. Aaye haaye kya baat hai Khud I love bola 🙂 😛
      Yaar asal me hota yhi hai aaj kal ki ladkiyo ka kuch pta nhi hai, meri saheliya bhi bhut se ladko ke saath aisa krti hai 🙁

      1. to kya usne mere shite ki ….ab mujhe kya krna chahiye.??….o to apne dil ki bat apne boyfriend se bol deti hai meri bat sunana hi nhi chahti???pz help me

        1. Yaar aap khamakhah hi presan ho rhe ho. Jab vo ladki aapse baat nhi karna chahti to force karne ka kya fayda. Aap keh rhe ho vo jo bolegi maan lunga to vo indirectly keh to rhi hai lekin aap sunna hi nhi chahte ya sun bhi liya hai par samjhna hi nhi chahte.

  57. yek ladki ek ladke ko pyar krti hair aur jab mai mila to mujhe bhi krne lagi ek din us ladke aur mujhe dono ko pta chal gya fir o ladki mujhse dur ho rhi hai lekin btati nhi mere msg ka javab nhi deti aur fon pr bat bhi bhut kam krti hai mujhe lagta hai o mujhe bhulna chahti hai pr mujhe nhi btati pz help kro meri Maine bhut se msg kiya lekin kisi ne javab nhi diya

      1. madam Ji sach bat to ye hai ki mai use bachpan se pyar krta hu o Jo bhi khegi man lunga par o us bare me bat hi nhi krna chahti mujhe bta de Jo khegi krunga

        1. Vo jo khegi maan loge. Are dear jab vo bat hi nhi ka rhi to aapko ye nhi samajh aa rha ki vo aapse baat hi nhi karna chahti. Ye faisla maan lo baat khatam, vo jawab de rhi hai but indirectly. Aap use pyar karte ho main samjh sakti hu lekin dear ye bhi to ho sakta hai ki vo kisi aur ko pyar karti ho.

  58. me ek ladki ko boht like krta tha or aaj bhi krta hu lekin vo mujhe nhi me usse 4saal pahle ek mandir pe mila tha usne mujhe dekha to mene smile kr dia fir dhire dhire vo bhi mujhe smile krne lagi fir vo gar ja rhi thi to usne mujhe ishare se byy bola fir uske bad kuch din bad vo mandir ayi thi kuch program tha tb usne mujhse mera name pucha mene ouse apna name bta dia fir agle din vo mujhe dekh bhi nhi rhi thi smile bhi nahi kr rhi thi fir mene apne dost se uske gr ka adress pta kia fir me or mere dost uske gar ki tarf jate the but meri usse kabhi bat nhi hui or nahi usne mujhse bat ki fir mujhe pta chla ki uski badi sister ko pta chl gya he or uski sister ne ouse mna kia he ki vo mujhse bat nhi kare mene uski sister ko boht samjhaya but fir bhi usne mujhe mna kr dia fir mene uski coching pta ki or uski coching ka time mene us ladki ko boht force kia but usne bola ki ouse mujhse koi bat nhi karni or me chla jau lekin me roz jata tha or roz ouse bolta tha ki ek bar mujhse bat krle lekin usne nahi ki or exam aa gye fir usne coching aana band kr dia mere dosto ne mujhe bola ki me ouse bhul jau but me nhi bhul saka me apne dosto ke samne ese krta hu ki ab vo meri life me maine nhi lagti lekin me ouse bohot pyar krta hu or ouse nhi bhul sakta me bs yhi chahta hu ki vo mujhse ek bar bat kr le fir agr vo mujhe mna bhi krti he to thik he but ek bar vo mujhse bat karle mene uski friend ko bhi bola lekin uski friend ne bola vo meri help nhi kregi me kya kru or vo mujhse 2saal badi he class me bhi or me ab 9th class me aaya hu vo mujhse ek bar bat kr le bs yhi chahta hu me kya kru me busy bhi nhi ho sakta pliss help me plese pliss…….

        1. Ab dil toh toot hi gaya hai toh karna kya hai, bas afsos mat karo. Agar wo apke bina reh sakti hai toh aap bhi toh reh sakte ho. isse Jitna aap isko apne dil me laga ke beithoge utna hi bura lagega. isliye chill and move on. apne mind ko divert karne ki koshish karo, movies dekho, friends ke sath spend karo. agar aisa kuch khayal aaye toh apne aap ko kahi aur busy karen.